During childhood, I would do anything to feel loved. My parents were emotionally negligent and absent. I believe this is where my ‘being too nice’ stemmed from. It took me 30 years to learn how to say no, and to stop others from taking advantage of my kindness. My kindness is not a weakness. And my sensitivity is a gift from God. Thank you for this video 💜✨
Like Michael Jackson sang: "You are not alone....I am here with you".... Same Here. Press forward in your path, in your truth. Only you and The Creator knows what that is...and sometimes even you don't...until it unfolds. Bless Up. 🕊🍷
I'm one who is very friendly, kind, and generous, but there's always been some sort of switch embedded in me that instantly turns off when I'm treated disrespectfully. People are often stunned when they see how unkind I'm capable of being. I don't like to be that way, but sometimes people need to be admonished. 🤷♀️😏
I use the golden rule but as soon as I think they are crossing the line its goodbye. Healthy boundaries determine healthy relationships, you have to let others know when they step over the line.
This is facts, I was taken advantage of and it has still affected me to this day. The two men that took advantage of me guilt tripped me into paying more money and trying to get everything from me, thankfully I didn’t give those scam artists anymore and I blocked them, their not getting anything more from me. Messing with chosen ones never really go too well for those that aren’t chosen.
All factz, I have had my spiritual gifts used by spiritual vampires and spiritual parasites who sidled up to me, with flattery on their lips to benefit. I have had to cut and block hundreds of them, in personal relationships getting used, even with family who just take and take and give nothing back, not even the basics. Setting healthy boundaries has been a literal life saver for me, from being energetically, spiritually, financially and mentally drained. I almost gave up spiritually helping others as I began to hate, the parasites and vampires flocking to me. Till Source had to point out it was me, who needed to learn the fine art of saying NO!!!
@@tinaleigh3273 I agree with you but my walk with God is different than any other person on the planet and we as a hole are to come together to worship and praised him for without God the father Jesus Christ the son and the holy spirit you can’t do anything period
This video speaks volumes. It's so hard being nice and having a compassionate spirit. I try my best to look for the good in people. It's totally impossible because people are so fake these days! to find honesty in a relationship it like mixing oil and water. It doesn't mix at all. Honesty is a lost characteristics, the world is so carnal and materialistic people enjoy using others until the table turns and karma is facing you and giving you what you put out in the universe, you should never misuse someone emotions life have a strange way exposing itself, it always happens when you're not ready. Very helpful video ❤
I tried to deny that "nice guys finish last." Too much bitterness, false guilt, grudges and resentment.Praying that God help me increase spiritual discernment and self respect. Quality vs. quantity while walking alone and solitude for spiritual care.
Oh yeah 💯% I have been taken advantage of, for I was born a very kind and Loving Soul; until I got a very difficult experience and learned the lesson behind the circumstances that I put myself in. And ever since those crucial life lessons, that I am so very Grateful for I started understanding and seeing the signs of what manipulation and controlling look like! And I am so much better and stronger today, for learning and have gone through those life lessons. Namaste 🙏 my Lord, my Universe and my Mother Earth ❤️🌍🌅🌑🌌🌕🌧️🌈🏞️♥️ And I have also learned to forgive myself and the others within those life occurrences ♥️🙏🕊️☺️
I’m surviving by the grace of GOD! Heavenly Father please continue to protect me and my sons. I’m a single mother God has carried me. Both of my sons are special needs. I’m overwhelmed at times. I’m struggling to provide the necessities for my sons like food and clothing and I struggle to pay rent each and every single month yet my struggles have brought me closer to Jesus. I know he will get me through this hard time in Jesus name.
This is on point most videos I’m going through and others I’m going through! Timing is Divine and GOD has lit my soul for more truth! God bless you ALL! 🙏🏽❤️
The timing of this video for me!!! Thank you so much for confirming exactly what I was feeling. This using/abuse stops today. Thank you thank you thank you!!!
I agree with you I started to realize that it was time to also put myself first and I can still stay kind with out just giving I can still give love and be caring up to a point
Being taken advantage of is NOT your fault. There's is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being nice and expecting it in return. The fact that you've been deceived and hurt is a testament that those who decieved and hurt you are not on your level or frequency. The cannot reach your heights so they try to cut you down. Keep climbing higher and let you kindness and generosity be trail you leave behind. If they cannot follow your path then they are doomed to walk in darkness. That is their fear. They want the light, but will not do what it takes to earn it. It's their choice to not seek light. It's not your fault they are used to darkness, for everyone has the light inside is them because we are ALL children of God, who is the Light. Do not dim yours for others. Love and Light be with you Chosen ❤
It's funny, I walk around with this magic mirror. When the attack's roll in, I remain silent. Let THEM see what's in the mirror... Game Over. 🥳🥳🥳 Fromboldt reporting 🥀🗻
I'm very grateful for this message. Daily I say 'I know my weakness is I'm too kind to shut the door on these troubled entities who are entrenched in their ways. Society hates them and they were tricked'. So who to go to? Someone has to leave a door open. And I do get you loud and clear - thank you . I've been doing this for months. I'm broke and my cat has no fur. You're right This soul clinic is closing. Sorry I gave you my all xxx
Well,..... it'a an eye opening day,... This is so true, and i will listen to it many other times,.... I'm 75 Years Young, and it is good to hear this Message,.... Thank You much, and Blessings to You my good Friend, Yves in Canada
We are not of your world! We don't take things to heart. We. Do not judge! We are not religious, we know the truth, way beyond your understanding. Just love and forgive. Don't worry about being a chosen. If you need affirmation, you are not a chosen one. We are in our solar system evolution event. We are all changing.
A lot of people take advantage of my life, my blessings and my fortune for their own benefits 🤦🏼♀️ That's why I prefer to stay away from people like that. The way that God take their own benefits because there's a Bad Karma that they have done to me. It's time pay it back.
Why should anyone nice stop being nice? on the contrary the world desperately needs nice people, Gods focal point throughout the whole gospel is to be nice to one another. To him that’s even more important than most teaching. Is not that we should stop being nice but rather cautious and wise on how to treat people. What the world truly lacks including so called chosen is wisdom. With that u can determine how to treat situation and people accordingly. There is more than the eyes can see and that can only be determined wisely.
😢 im still paying the consequences for being to nice and giving, did took my money my home when my son and my identity she's going around acting like me she actually believes that she is me she's lost her mind
IM ALWAYS NICE 😊. BUT I LEARN MY LESSON NOW , I WENT THROUGH IT , THEY STARTED USING YOU TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR KINDNESS. BEING A CHOSEN ONES IS NOT FUN.
I wondering, what we must do in the world as an chosen one if we don't being nicer than others... we not looking for fame or gold... we love to help people, but often people dont want to be healed
❤❤❤ I always had a lot of confidence because of god Reviewed my energy. What I had wanted to be with me. So others of them. One thing after another but now I try to myself like I always tried to do I love to be outn the country away from everybody be better but I seem to attract people. Now that I'm old. I still attract people, but I got my own little spot. And those who used to induce me forever. I finally are not their friends after years of abuse and may be in the giving on my sister is too giving too. I'll tell her that all time. And she says what about years song?
Do not cast pearls amongst swine. Depart from evil is understanding and understanding is wisdom and having wisdom is having the fear of the Lord. Job 28 28. And unto man he said behold. The fear of the Lord that is wisdom. And to depart from evil is understanding . Wicked people are deceptive in their nature they seek no truth they hold no truth. Liars spreading falsehood about you others and themselves. Well it is so there are men whom receive the gift to see straight through and every thing in between of what is truly in a man's heart. Liara become so delusional they actually believe their own lies to be factual. It's the most convoluted wicked lost cruel sick thing. It's evil. So understand some won't change. Pray they do but mingling with them is like mingling with the evil itself sooner or later their wickedness begins to ware off on you and just hearing them being in their presence is taxing against energy. Their no good. They would have you believe they are but they do not seek the truth the way the life. They only are an abomination that mascarades around rambling bible verses as weapons used against you to belittle you. Yet they themselves do not understand the verses nor have any idea of the meaning nor do they walk the walk. Wishing bad on them is allowing their evil to manipulate you. These trials are tough but necessary to understand and obtain the light and wisdom and whole heartedly do so.
During childhood, I would do anything to feel loved. My parents were emotionally negligent and absent. I believe this is where my ‘being too nice’ stemmed from. It took me 30 years to learn how to say no, and to stop others from taking advantage of my kindness. My kindness is not a weakness. And my sensitivity is a gift from God. Thank you for this video 💜✨
Going through this too. People pleaser from emotional and physical abuse as a child. Generational curses. Setting boundaries. It’s depleting otherwise
You are absolutely right. Been there, done doing that. Blessings to all
Same❤
🥹
Like Michael Jackson sang:
"You are not alone....I am here with you"....
Same Here.
Press forward in your path, in your truth.
Only you and The Creator knows what that is...and sometimes even you don't...until it unfolds.
Bless Up. 🕊🍷
I'm one who is very friendly, kind, and generous, but there's always been some sort of switch embedded in me that instantly turns off when I'm treated disrespectfully. People are often stunned when they see how unkind I'm capable of being. I don't like to be that way, but sometimes people need to be admonished. 🤷♀️😏
Sagittarius
@@chuckfullerton813 🦁☺️ I'm a Leo. Are you saying you're a Sagittarius, or did you think I'm a Sag? 😁
I can tell your a Leo, my mom is the same way. Once that switch is off you don't exist to her 😂 once that lioness come out forget it!
@@MarjyGTV Hahaha! Yep! That's us Leos. ☺️♌️🌞😁
Leo here, I fully innerstand this!!!
It's these energy vampires that are gonna pay the real price. I have no remorse for people that try to take someone's kindness as a weakness.
People-pleasing is a very difficult behaviour pattern to identify and overcome. This message is so timely. Thank you! ❤❤❤
Yes, I hate being taken advantage of by people in my family. Thank you for the truth in this reading, Amen 🙏
I use the golden rule but as soon as I think they are crossing the line its goodbye. Healthy boundaries determine healthy relationships, you have to let others know when they step over the line.
This is facts, I was taken advantage of and it has still affected me to this day. The two men that took advantage of me guilt tripped me into paying more money and trying to get everything from me, thankfully I didn’t give those scam artists anymore and I blocked them, their not getting anything more from me. Messing with chosen ones never really go too well for those that aren’t chosen.
All factz, I have had my spiritual gifts used by spiritual vampires and spiritual parasites who sidled up to me, with flattery on their lips to benefit. I have had to cut and block hundreds of them, in personal relationships getting used, even with family who just take and take and give nothing back, not even the basics. Setting healthy boundaries has been a literal life saver for me, from being energetically, spiritually, financially and mentally drained. I almost gave up spiritually helping others as I began to hate, the parasites and vampires flocking to me. Till Source had to point out it was me, who needed to learn the fine art of saying NO!!!
When I say I had to learn this the HARD way...
God sees your good deeds. Never stop being kind but dont let people use you neither.
I have family members that can’t get away from their parents. Fifty and sixty year olds that are dependent on them. Very sad
I needed to hear this 30 years ago. I guess God wanted me to hear it now thank you. Keep the good work up. God bless you.
RUclips wasn't around 30 years ago, and you didn't have the right people in your life. It's never too late to change! ❤
@@tinaleigh3273 I agree with you but my walk with God is different than any other person on the planet and we as a hole are to come together to worship and praised him for without God the father Jesus Christ the son and the holy spirit you can’t do anything period
Discernment ❤❤❤
This video speaks volumes. It's so hard being nice and having a compassionate spirit. I try my best to look for the good in people. It's totally impossible because people are so fake these days! to find honesty in a relationship it like mixing oil and water. It doesn't mix at all. Honesty is a lost characteristics, the world is so carnal and materialistic people enjoy using others until the table turns and karma is facing you and giving you what you put out in the universe, you should never misuse someone emotions life have a strange way exposing itself, it always happens when you're not ready. Very helpful video ❤
I tried to deny that "nice guys finish last." Too much bitterness, false guilt, grudges and resentment.Praying that God help me increase spiritual discernment and self respect. Quality vs. quantity while walking alone and solitude for spiritual care.
Oh yeah 💯% I have been taken advantage of, for I was born a very kind and Loving Soul; until I got a very difficult experience and learned the lesson behind the circumstances that I put myself in. And ever since those crucial life lessons, that I am so very Grateful for I started understanding and seeing the signs of what manipulation and controlling look like! And I am so much better and stronger today, for learning and have gone through those life lessons. Namaste 🙏 my Lord, my Universe and my Mother Earth ❤️🌍🌅🌑🌌🌕🌧️🌈🏞️♥️ And I have also learned to forgive myself and the others within those life occurrences ♥️🙏🕊️☺️
I innerstand you!!!
Same here friend!!!
I’m surviving by the grace of GOD! Heavenly Father please continue to protect me and my sons. I’m a single mother God has carried me. Both of my sons are special needs. I’m overwhelmed at times. I’m struggling to provide the necessities for my sons like food and clothing and I struggle to pay rent each and every single month yet my struggles have brought me closer to Jesus. I know he will get me through this hard time in Jesus name.
Keep on, keeping on. The Most High will continue to provide for you. Many Blessings to you and you family🙏🏼🙏🏼
Yashua has you and wants you to know that. Your son's have choice's to make, but not yet.
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. 🙏🏼 ❤❤❤
True sometimes i hate myself people used me for thier own benifits my money luck my kindness
This is on point most videos I’m going through and others I’m going through! Timing is Divine and GOD has lit my soul for more truth! God bless you ALL! 🙏🏽❤️
The timing of this video for me!!! Thank you so much for confirming exactly what I was feeling. This using/abuse stops today. Thank you thank you thank you!!!
Cant stop being nice.I will set boundaries.
Yes thank you lord JESUS amen
Stop being nice when it’s in my DNA I tried I fail every time
Even being taken advantage of is a choice..
This was word for word what I have experienced. When I came across this video, it was divine timing. It is definitely time to make these changes
"Stop trying to be everyone's hero at the expense of your well being."
I agree with you I started to realize that it was time to also put myself first and I can still stay kind with out just giving I can still give love and be caring up to a point
Thank you ❤I've been told kindness is a weakness. Lol❤
Being taken advantage of is NOT your fault. There's is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being nice and expecting it in return. The fact that you've been deceived and hurt is a testament that those who decieved and hurt you are not on your level or frequency. The cannot reach your heights so they try to cut you down. Keep climbing higher and let you kindness and generosity be trail you leave behind. If they cannot follow your path then they are doomed to walk in darkness. That is their fear. They want the light, but will not do what it takes to earn it. It's their choice to not seek light. It's not your fault they are used to darkness, for everyone has the light inside is them because we are ALL children of God, who is the Light.
Do not dim yours for others.
Love and Light be with you Chosen ❤
Not anymore being overly nice Amen
THANK YOU 😊 AND SO IT IS SAYS THE ONE ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I always walk away without a figt from those who take me for granted ....... I don't do revenge ..... I do energy
thank you for the awakening. it is greatly appreciated
Constantly being overcharged at restaurants......hoping I won't notice and say anything...
It's funny, I walk around with this magic mirror.
When the attack's roll in, I remain silent. Let THEM see what's in the mirror...
Game Over. 🥳🥳🥳
Fromboldt reporting 🥀🗻
Yssss this is so true I am learning boundaries and to say no that’s it I will not allow it in Jesus name I pray amen 🙏🏽
THANK YOU FOR THE WORD BROTHER SHALOM PEACE 🙏
👍very important thing. Thank U🙏
Amen ✝️
I resonate with this message in Jesus name.
🕊❤️🕊🫶
Very true
And so it is👁👌🏾..
Thank you.
The Truth! 🎉 ❤ Thank you.
Thanks for the wisdom ❤
Amen ❤😊
Thank you ❤
I'm very grateful for this message. Daily I say 'I know my weakness is
I'm too kind to shut the door on these troubled entities who are entrenched in their ways. Society hates them and they were tricked'. So who to go to? Someone has to leave a door open.
And I do get you loud and clear - thank you .
I've been doing this for months. I'm broke and my cat has no fur. You're right This soul clinic is closing. Sorry I gave you my all xxx
Well,..... it'a an eye opening day,... This is so true, and i will listen to it many other times,.... I'm 75 Years Young, and it is good to hear this Message,.... Thank You much, and Blessings to You my good Friend, Yves in Canada
So truthful spoken ❤
🌞 thank you for presenting this material. Blessed life, Blessed work
Thanks for this reminder. It was medicine. I'm cured!😅
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Thank You
We owe ppl love according to the bible.
Thanks
Thank you for this video ❤
Thanks!
Thanks please l now know all long, l have been used for other people needs 🙏🙏🙏🙏
We are not of your world! We don't take things to heart. We. Do not judge! We are not religious, we know the truth, way beyond your understanding. Just love and forgive. Don't worry about being a chosen. If you need affirmation, you are not a chosen one. We are in our solar system evolution event. We are all changing.
Thank you for the words of wisdom, I needed that. David O
I am 64 years old an still being nice but still being s$$t on God said be nice. Amen
This message resonates❤
A lot of people take advantage of my life, my blessings and my fortune for their own benefits 🤦🏼♀️ That's why I prefer to stay away from people like that. The way that God take their own benefits because there's a Bad Karma that they have done to me. It's time pay it back.
Sir:
I appreciate you. Thank you.
Thanks
A popular chosen one? There's no such thing. Or it's extremely rare but definitively unlikely.
Why should anyone nice stop being nice? on the contrary the world desperately needs nice people, Gods focal point throughout the whole gospel is to be nice to one another. To him that’s even more important than most teaching. Is not that we should stop being nice but rather cautious and wise on how to treat people. What the world truly lacks including so called chosen is wisdom. With that u can determine how to treat situation and people accordingly. There is more than the eyes can see and that can only be determined wisely.
Yup
😢 im still paying the consequences for being to nice and giving, did took my money my home when my son and my identity she's going around acting like me she actually believes that she is me she's lost her mind
Facts what a joke
BE NICE. SO MANY POEPLE ARE JUST HORRIBLE. LET US PRAY. IN JESUS CHRIST OUR FATHER ......
Thank you lord
Praise God❤
Im kind but i know when to draw the line.
Absolutely love this s….
♥️♥️♥️
No will be a no from me from now on this is where I draw the line forgive and move on wards thank you.
"AMEN ❤😂🎉🎉"
GOD IS GOOD ISN'T HE YES HE IS AMEN KATOSHIA EZELL 👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
How many times I have said that to myself...........................Usually after being taken advantage of.
Thank you man
Thanke You!
🙏
❤❤❤❤❤
Three days after the eclipse I FEEL YOUNGER ❤🧬 DNA UPGRADE 🤔❓
IM ALWAYS NICE 😊. BUT I LEARN MY LESSON NOW , I WENT THROUGH IT , THEY STARTED USING YOU TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR KINDNESS. BEING A CHOSEN ONES IS NOT FUN.
Helpful thanks
I wondering, what we must do in the world as an chosen one if we don't being nicer than others... we not looking for fame or gold... we love to help people, but often people dont want to be healed
❤
Okay
I will try to say NO more.😊
Real Sum
👁️ don't owe you 💩!!!
You owe me!!!
😏
❤❤❤ I always had a lot of confidence because of god Reviewed my energy. What I had wanted to be with me. So others of them. One thing after another but now I try to myself like I always tried to do I love to be outn the country away from everybody be better but I seem to attract people. Now that I'm old. I still attract people, but I got my own little spot.
And those who used to induce me forever. I finally are not their friends after years of abuse and may be in the giving on my sister is too giving too. I'll tell her that all time. And she says what about years song?
My therapist
Great background distraction
U talking real talk its time to say 😂 No😢
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Itds not my way nice is my pleasure I will be careful being nice to others I'm meant to be genourous yhey can't win now being kind doesn't mean nieve
Nic3=Foolish
I do what I call the "mirror" effect.....I treat others exactly as I'm treated....like a reflection 🪞🪞🪞
Do not cast pearls amongst swine. Depart from evil is understanding and understanding is wisdom and having wisdom is having the fear of the Lord. Job 28 28. And unto man he said behold. The fear of the Lord that is wisdom. And to depart from evil is understanding . Wicked people are deceptive in their nature they seek no truth they hold no truth. Liars spreading falsehood about you others and themselves. Well it is so there are men whom receive the gift to see straight through and every thing in between of what is truly in a man's heart. Liara become so delusional they actually believe their own lies to be factual. It's the most convoluted wicked lost cruel sick thing. It's evil. So understand some won't change. Pray they do but mingling with them is like mingling with the evil itself sooner or later their wickedness begins to ware off on you and just hearing them being in their presence is taxing against energy. Their no good. They would have you believe they are but they do not seek the truth the way the life. They only are an abomination that mascarades around rambling bible verses as weapons used against you to belittle you. Yet they themselves do not understand the verses nor have any idea of the meaning nor do they walk the walk. Wishing bad on them is allowing their evil to manipulate you. These trials are tough but necessary to understand and obtain the light and wisdom and whole heartedly do so.