Dark Psychology to Attract: 1- Power of indifference, with selective Attention. 2- Do not need others Validation / Approval , or Permission. 3- Approach with Boldness, Take Action= Confidence. 4- Accept Rejection without Fear = Power & in Control. 5- Moderation ,in being Mysterious. Don’t get caught up in gossip. 6- Setting boundaries = Value your Time and Attention, don’t waste it. 7- Fearless Mindset = Self Discipline. Not being afraid of Rejection. Let go of things that do not Serve You, Walk Away & rise above them, if treated with disrespect, calmly say “ I do not appreciate your mistreatment”. 8- Silence = Do not get caught up in with their Insecurities Stay Calm. 9- Power of Purpose= Self Discipline, with Delayed Pleasure,& Commitment. 10- Your Worth is not dictated by external Validations or Approval, your happiness is not dependent on others liking you. Surround yourself with those who value you the right way. Stay grounded & Calm.
I am very disappointed in myself because today I didn't display control over my mind. I reacted to someone else's action. I didn't stay calm like I have been learning. I wasn't only embarrassed to be yelled at but I was embarrassing myself because I didn't have to react.
By focusing on self-control, intentionality, and indifference, it emphasizes how true attraction is cultivated through inner strength and balance. The key takeaway? Confidence is rooted in self-sufficiency, not external validation. This insightful journey into Stoicism provides not just dating advice, but a roadmap to becoming a resilient and fulfilled individual. A must-watch for those seeking depth in both relationships and personal philosophy! Thank you!
I'm not in love. I just wish people would be honest from the very start. If you want to lie and play little boy games because you're trying to be in an open relationship because you are the kind of person who isnt loyal and waits for what you think is something better slithering along so you can jump ship. Just say that from the start. You aren't wrong if that's what you want. But for me I do want a solid relationship. And I want a relationship with a real man. Not a boy. I desreve to bring my life together with someone who will respect me and be gentle and one who will give what I give nothing short of 💯. I know that he's out there. I don't want to be used.
Ugh you just spoke to me. I’m currently in somewhat of a love triangle with 2 woman that I do care for but at the current moment I just want peace. I’m trying to find the strength to tell them both bye.
As the Stoics said: “You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” - Marcus Aurelius Which basically means: Control your reactions, not the outside world. Strength comes from within.
Stoicism is not the answer to every problem in relationships. The idea of 'selective indifference' could make relationships distant and lack sincerity. Why not be straightforward with each other instead of using tactics?
You make a valid point. While Stoicism can offer valuable tools for managing emotions, it shouldn’t replace open communication in relationships. Being straightforward fosters honesty and intimacy, which are crucial for building strong connections. Balancing emotional resilience with genuine expression might be the best approach.
Love this video - thank you so much.
Thank you for this video! Stoicism has helped me stay calm under pressure. 🙏
Thanks!
Glad you found it helpful!
Dark Psychology to Attract:
1- Power of indifference, with selective Attention.
2- Do not need others Validation / Approval , or Permission.
3- Approach with Boldness, Take Action= Confidence.
4- Accept Rejection without Fear = Power & in Control.
5- Moderation ,in being Mysterious. Don’t get caught up in gossip.
6- Setting boundaries = Value your Time and Attention, don’t waste it.
7- Fearless Mindset = Self Discipline. Not being afraid of Rejection. Let go of things that do not Serve You, Walk Away & rise above them, if treated with disrespect, calmly say “ I do not appreciate your mistreatment”.
8- Silence = Do not get caught up in with their Insecurities Stay Calm.
9- Power of Purpose= Self Discipline, with Delayed Pleasure,& Commitment.
10- Your Worth is not dictated by external Validations or Approval, your happiness is not dependent on others liking you. Surround yourself with those who value you the right way. Stay grounded & Calm.
I am very disappointed in myself because today I didn't display control over my mind. I reacted to someone else's action. I didn't stay calm like I have been learning. I wasn't only embarrassed to be yelled at but I was embarrassing myself because I didn't have to react.
Take it easy with yourself, its a journey, we will get better
Awesome wisdom imparted, thank you 🙏
By focusing on self-control, intentionality, and indifference, it emphasizes how true attraction is cultivated through inner strength and balance. The key takeaway? Confidence is rooted in self-sufficiency, not external validation. This insightful journey into Stoicism provides not just dating advice, but a roadmap to becoming a resilient and fulfilled individual. A must-watch for those seeking depth in both relationships and personal philosophy!
Thank you!
I'm not in love. I just wish people would be honest from the very start. If you want to lie and play little boy games because you're trying to be in an open relationship because you are the kind of person who isnt loyal and waits for what you think is something better slithering along so you can jump ship. Just say that from the start. You aren't wrong if that's what you want. But for me I do want a solid relationship. And I want a relationship with a real man. Not a boy. I desreve to bring my life together with someone who will respect me and be gentle and one who will give what I give nothing short of 💯. I know that he's out there. I don't want to be used.
Ugh you just spoke to me. I’m currently in somewhat of a love triangle with 2 woman that I do care for but at the current moment I just want peace. I’m trying to find the strength to tell them both bye.
As the Stoics said:
“You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” - Marcus Aurelius
Which basically means: Control your reactions, not the outside world. Strength comes from within.
This video nails the truth about attraction - it's not about manipulation, but mastering yourself. Dark psychology and stoicism?
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Stoicism is not the answer to every problem in relationships. The idea of 'selective indifference' could make relationships distant and lack sincerity. Why not be straightforward with each other instead of using tactics?
You make a valid point. While Stoicism can offer valuable tools for managing emotions, it shouldn’t replace open communication in relationships. Being straightforward fosters honesty and intimacy, which are crucial for building strong connections. Balancing emotional resilience with genuine expression might be the best approach.
It's all about focusing on what you can control, so Stoicism is the answer.