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  • @pattybridges5837
    @pattybridges5837 11 месяцев назад +3

    I was a bit different. I had one child, and always wanted more. Took me 15 years to get pregnant again, with twins. But I was 36 years old at this time and had them at 26 weeks, so I was terrified to even attempt it again. I've never been so thankful for my 3 kidlets.
    My oldest son passed at age 35, so mow I have my 21 year old b/g twins about to graduate college and am super blessed. But I knew after them, we were done.
    God will lead the way. You all are in my prayers and your boys are adorable and I couldn't agree more. Take time to slow down and smell the roses, time passes so quickly!!! Much love to you all

  • @BusyMomo5
    @BusyMomo5 11 месяцев назад +3

    I was 26, had our 3rd baby, and instead of listening to my heart, I let others tell me “I should be done with babies” and had my tubes ties. Biggest mistake/regret ever. During the 7 years after our 3rd was born, I asked God to take the desire for another baby away from me. Instead, He put the people in my path that led to a tubal reversal. I was thankful, but it came with a price in more ways than one. I had a tubal pregnancy, full term pregnancy, 12 week miscarriage, full term pregnancy & 2 more miscarriages. After our 5th baby was born, I knew beyond a shadow of doubt, I was done! It was so hard to explain, but that desire for another baby was no longer there. I had completed our family.
    If there’s still a doubt or question about more children, I say wait , pray &Trust God to answer one way or another.

  • @abbymarie4187
    @abbymarie4187 11 месяцев назад +3

    I will be praying for you Rachel and your family. Great summer video!

  • @coreesanders3009
    @coreesanders3009 11 месяцев назад +7

    You’re a great mom and I love watching your family grow and you having a girl would be awesome!!

  • @brendasnider7130
    @brendasnider7130 11 месяцев назад +10

    Just love your family giving you positive vibes and keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers ❤🙏

  • @jodeming5088
    @jodeming5088 11 месяцев назад +16

    Don’t worry about it. The answer will come if it’s meant to be. Honestly you will know one way or the other. Enjoy the boys, as you are one busy mom. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Justmichy1
    @Justmichy1 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great vlog!!! Have missed you all!!! The boys are all growing up sooo fast!!!

  • @SocksJaders
    @SocksJaders 11 месяцев назад +1

    Your such a great mom. What is meant to be will be. ❤ just enjoy these precious moments

  • @merandasmith2140
    @merandasmith2140 11 месяцев назад +7

    Sending you positive vibes!! Lifting you up in prayers that God will help give you the answers you seek. So you can move forward ❤️ (no matter what I'm so proud of you) 😘

  • @mariamead4444
    @mariamead4444 11 месяцев назад +3

    I loved this wonderful summer panorama of an all American family having the time of their their lives. Included was the important message often overlooked, to treasure the little moments as they are frequently the ones that stay with you forever.

  • @angeladomann-bolduc5077
    @angeladomann-bolduc5077 11 месяцев назад +8

    We always wanted more. I couldn't get pregnant again. Our youngest will be a freshman in college. We still wish we could of had more but we worried about money and then it became too late. I suggest if either of you desire one more to go ahead and try for more especially if you are still young and healthy. I would wait a year for your body to take a break from having a c section. My stitches from my c section have ripped and it hurts really bad to have them rip. Go for one more baby is my recommendation. You are going to have either 5 adorable boys or 4 adorable boys and a gorgeous daughter. I am glad you are doing well. I have missed watching you. I am happy you have taken a much needed break. Praying for all things good for you, Harold, Leo, Wyatt, Truett, Atti and your extended family. 🧡💛💚💜💙🧡

  • @carie975
    @carie975 11 месяцев назад +15

    I totally know what you're feeling right now. I have 7 kids, and after the first 6, I always felt like we weren't done and like someone was missing. I wondered if I would ever feel "done." After baby #6, we took a long time talking, praying, wondering, considering. (Much longer than the rest - our first 4 kids are 19 months apart, then 27, 33, 35 months. So we definitely needed time to know what to do and get our prayers answered.) But ultimately we knew we weren't done and went for baby #7. I will say that even while I was pregnant with the last one, I knew we were done. I felt done. I didn't look around for a missing child, our home and heart felt full and complete. Not saying that's what you should do - just telling you my experience that the "done" feeling does come. And now I can't imagine having more. I don't feel like I want another baby or even another toddler or child. Our family is complete and happy.

  • @mickeymcmillen6240
    @mickeymcmillen6240 11 месяцев назад +4

    As I watched your video it took me back to when my 3 were little ones. I had a boy, girl, boy and your boys walking in the woods took me right back to when I did things like that with my 3. My kids are totally grown up and , sadly, my youngest boy passed away 10 years ago. Those priceless memories are there as well as pictures. Thank you for posting that video- it helped me remember those days so long ago that were over in the blink of an eye. Prayers for the decision you and Harold are trying to make about another baby. I remember making that decision myself more than 30 years ago. For me I knew that we could not afford another baby as well as that fact that my husband had a drug problem. I think that the answer will come to you and you will know for sure that 4 is enough or that God has another waiting for you . God bless

  • @jackieburton9467
    @jackieburton9467 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks for all the updates. You are truly a sweetheart.

  • @jazzoboe827
    @jazzoboe827 11 месяцев назад +19

    We're right there with you. We have 2 children and are very much on the fence about a third. I've been back and forth so many times since having my youngest 3 years ago, and for whatever reason my husband and I are feeling really pulled to make a final decision to either try for another very soon or be content with what we have and move on. There are so many considerations and emotions wrapped up in this decision, and I know that no matter which way it goes I will be fine and happy but also sad about some of the sacrifices I'd be making one way or the other. I've been trying to let go and see what's put on my heart over time, but this week specifically it's come up again between my husband and I, and I don't think I'll feel fully at peace until I can find some clarity on what I'm actually feeling. Praying hard for guidance (for myself and for your beautiful family)!

    • @soapqueen2008
      @soapqueen2008 11 месяцев назад

      If you aren't a 100% no I would give it a year and half if it doesn't happen then don't have one

  • @Nana_D75
    @Nana_D75 11 месяцев назад +13

    I definitely knew my second was my last. My husband was unsure about the second one but God out him in my heart and I KNEW he was out there waiting to be in our family. God will tell you!!!

  • @lisatreaster8948
    @lisatreaster8948 11 месяцев назад +1

    Love this video it was amazing. Love everything you showed on what everyone has been doing lately and what you have been going through.What great 4 boys you have. You all are in my thought and prayers everyday. What every you all decide about more kid after Atticus you will know. God is with you every step of the way. You are an amazing mom and Harold is an amazing dad. Love everything you show no matter what it is. What an amazing family you all are. Love to everyone and God bless you all.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @juliemiller4288
    @juliemiller4288 11 месяцев назад +1

    Loved this vlog and its wise reminders ❤❤❤❤

  • @jaianarenee
    @jaianarenee 11 месяцев назад +3

    Love y’all so much!! 🤍

  • @user-gg1fl8ko1s
    @user-gg1fl8ko1s 11 месяцев назад

    I'm so very happy to see you again in your blog.

  • @MrKatt618
    @MrKatt618 11 месяцев назад +6

    Definitely feel you on the in between! Recently had our 3rd and some days i feel like thats it i cant handle anymore, and other days i feel like im really supposed to have 1 more... its tough. Because i dont think it should just be ablut want, we always have to factor if we think we can afford more, give them all attention etc. I personally decided to wait a few years and then reevaluate how i feel when these 3 are a bit older.

  • @elenacruz4064
    @elenacruz4064 11 месяцев назад

    Happy 4th of july Earls Fam

  • @darlenesmith7680
    @darlenesmith7680 11 месяцев назад +5

    Hey! The boys are so adorable and growing fast! Leo is such a super great brother!
    I absolutely HAD ZERO doubt that we were done when we had our 2nd. I never changed my mind nor did I EVER wonder if I made the wrong choice. My husband had a vasectomy before ny 6 week" check up" lol. We both were ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN! And now, we have 7 beautiful gbabies-4 from our daughter and 3 from our son. And they both knew when they were done too! God will ease your heart if you're done. And if not, you'll be blessed with another! 🙏💛💛🙏

  • @shaver77
    @shaver77 11 месяцев назад +4

    I randomly came across your channel! Searching for information on c-section births! I have never had a c-section, but I do have 3 kids! I’m currently pregnant with my 4th! I’m on 7 weeks pregnant and I’m 34 my husband is a fire man! I’m so sick right now I can’t even get out of bed! Your such an inspiration to me❤

  • @adelineguzzi7739
    @adelineguzzi7739 11 месяцев назад

    You guys are doing an amazing job parenting love u guys 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @alphataggy1664
    @alphataggy1664 11 месяцев назад +6

    ❤ positive vibes for you and your family.

  • @garrilynhoward5183
    @garrilynhoward5183 11 месяцев назад

    Oh heck yes!!!! One and done. He is a true blessing. 33 yrs. Never thought about another one.

  • @sarahhayes693
    @sarahhayes693 11 месяцев назад

    So glad your being open and talking about these feeling… I am also at this point I always thought I would for sure go for a third but some time I’m like is this it and it’s so hard when you fee you don’t have an answer i my self am praying to have clarity on this area of life

  • @Menna1967
    @Menna1967 11 месяцев назад +4

    Your a fab mother and a little girl is on its way for you soon I do believe it xx

  • @nicoletamagda6066
    @nicoletamagda6066 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for reminding us to be happy and enjoy all moments in life. I appreciate you. I thank you for what you do for us ❤

  • @aliciapruser9583
    @aliciapruser9583 11 месяцев назад +6

    Rachel there are three things I know for sure, one you look so great after having four boys! Girl you look fabulous!! Two, Leo is the greatest big brother on earth. Three, I believe you should try to not be thinking of whether or not there may be another baby and just let God’s timing see what happens. You are like me and just NEED to know but lol it’s just doesn’t happen that way. When the moment comes I think you will just know. Plus your whole family is the greatest.

  • @barbarboyland2877
    @barbarboyland2877 11 месяцев назад +1

    The boys are getting so big what a beautiful family always love you all always

  • @alicardon1013
    @alicardon1013 11 месяцев назад +4

    I have 4 boys too! Very similar ages to yours. I’m not done, but I think God is already preparing my heart for my 5th being the last. 🤍 I know we have one more and that feels great for our family. I knew I wanted a 5th when I was pregnant with my last baby. I was like there is no way that was the last time I find out I’m pregnant, pull out the newborn clothes and give birth. Agh it’s all so amazing. I’ll definitely look back on these days with such joy! For right now, I’m enjoying my 8 month old and look forward to whatever God has in store 🥰 praying for you and your family, I totally understand how much that decision can weigh on you!

  • @carabower2413
    @carabower2413 11 месяцев назад +2

    I’m right there with you! I just had baby number 3 in March and I am feeling the same way!!! I would be completely happy either way, I just want to know what God’s desires are for our family!
    Prayers for your momma heart and clarity for the future!

  • @BeairdBunch
    @BeairdBunch 11 месяцев назад +6

    We are so similar! I'm a boy momma to 4 small boys. I struggled with this same question! Well, our youngest turned 18 months and we decided to go for it! We immediately got pregnant, praise God! My husband is in the Navy and his schedule dictates everything, including babies. Lol But God just knew we needed another baby. We shall see if it'll be another boy or finally a girl! ❤ Time and prayer will give you a clear answer, but if you're anything like me.... you'll go for a 5th once A is a bit older. 😊

  • @lindastjohn2543
    @lindastjohn2543 11 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful family thank you for sharing your adventures. ❤

  • @ginnab777
    @ginnab777 11 месяцев назад +2

    I felt that way, and realized how expensive raising kids is and gfb something happened to my hubby and I was left to raise them by myslef. Also it was alot mentally and physically and I didnt want to stretch myself so thin that my kids suffered. Enjoy your kiddos and really soul search ❤

  • @susanwest7771
    @susanwest7771 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Rachel and Harold love watching the video Thank you for putting it on here Your boys are a credit to you both Looking forward to watching more of your videos You are a lovely family From Sue with Love

  • @TheKatehall
    @TheKatehall 11 месяцев назад +7

    Your a great mom you put your kids above everything ❤

  • @onedaybaby128
    @onedaybaby128 11 месяцев назад +4

    So glad I'm not alone my son was born a few weeks before Atticus and since he's been here all I've thought about is about having another. Some days it's a hard no but mostly it's a yes I can't wait. We had 24 miscarriages before our miracle came so definitely feel our family is incomplete ❤

  • @daisyknight4191
    @daisyknight4191 11 месяцев назад

    Are used to watch your channel when you had your first baby and fath just brought me back to your channel I love you guys y’all are the cutest family ❤❤❤

  • @TheRealMcNeals
    @TheRealMcNeals 11 месяцев назад +15

    We have 6. I knew that we were done because my body couldn't take anymore. We didn't plan #6 but she really felt like she was so meant to be. Give yourself time, soak up the baby moments just in case. Your boys are adorable. 💙💙💙💙

    • @trishr2081
      @trishr2081 11 месяцев назад

      If you think about it every single day, isn’t that your answer?

    • @spitsomefire364
      @spitsomefire364 9 месяцев назад

      People aren't just animals, people don't have to give birth until their bodies «can't take it anymore»

  • @5moonbeams4me
    @5moonbeams4me 11 месяцев назад +10

    After my fifth, I knew for sure he was the caboose. There was a four year gap between my 4th and 5th and it was hard because I absolutely knew we had another baby waiting to come to our family.

  • @DiannaChamp-nn1xv
    @DiannaChamp-nn1xv 11 месяцев назад +1

    Your parents are such sweet people

  • @TheKatehall
    @TheKatehall 11 месяцев назад +21

    Leo is a fantastic big brother ❤

  • @annettemiller1273
    @annettemiller1273 11 месяцев назад +1

    I’ll pray for you and your husband make the right decision on baby number five. You are truly blessed for what you have. You never know what the next one would be , maybe even pink .

  • @amandalondon2537
    @amandalondon2537 11 месяцев назад +4

    We only have two children but after my last one I didn't have that burning feeling that there was another one. I prayed and talked with my husband and recieved that peace that we were done.

  • @reneewebb5473
    @reneewebb5473 11 месяцев назад +1

    Praying for you and your family. God will lead you in what you need to do but you are a wonderful mom and another child would be blessed to have you as their mother but if you’re done you have 4 amazing boys who are lucky to have y’all as parents. Love and prayers

  • @hopep2282
    @hopep2282 11 месяцев назад

    Sooo fun love the memories 🫶🏻

  • @gailcreech
    @gailcreech 11 месяцев назад

    Lovely to see you all e joking yourselves.hugs

  • @yvonnedreyer9573
    @yvonnedreyer9573 11 месяцев назад

    Love your family❤❤

  • @TheMommyMikka
    @TheMommyMikka 11 месяцев назад +2

    I had 2 children(plus 4 bonus). After my second I never questioned our discussion of done. Like I felt a peace with it, but my heart felt full and complete.

  • @kristinsmith4827
    @kristinsmith4827 11 месяцев назад +3

    My 4th just turned one, and I'm sitting here debating same thing! ❤

  • @kanyang07
    @kanyang07 11 месяцев назад +3

    I’m currently pregnant with number 5 and as soon as I saw the positive test I saw I was done. There was this overwhelming feeling of completeness that came over me. You’ll know when you’re done.

    • @spitsomefire364
      @spitsomefire364 9 месяцев назад +1

      Why do you even need those children if you reffer to them by numbers

  • @freedomrowe1431
    @freedomrowe1431 11 месяцев назад +3

    It took me two years after having my second child to really feel like my family was complete and I could look around and watch them play without thinking there would be another one that is how I knew I was done with the baby stage although sad but I loved watching both of my children grow

  • @kimnavrotsky5278
    @kimnavrotsky5278 11 месяцев назад +4

    😊 I have been with you guys from the beginning. Read your book which I loved. What I took away from everything was that doing things “intentionally” was going to be the basis of your relationship and marriage and family. I see that all the time. Buying that piece of property up the road from your home with the waterfront, for example. Having one more baby of course requires prayer but why do I keep seeing a little girl to be the lucky one with 4 big brothers to love her?
    Hmmm…your boys are so kind and loving from Leo right on down to the chill baby Atticus. Only God knows the plan but you and Harold know intentionality. Love your family 😊

    • @Walkinjoy
      @Walkinjoy 11 месяцев назад

      I keep saying a fifth child, a baby girl too! Not saying it’s a God thing, but I could see it happening 😁

  • @supernova652
    @supernova652 11 месяцев назад

    I hope you get your girl this time.

  • @jordantallman8092
    @jordantallman8092 11 месяцев назад +1

    When I was pregnant I knew at that time our family was complete. It was a finite feeling I can say. I think there is one more in your future. Praying you find peace in a decision 😊

  • @louisejolley
    @louisejolley 11 месяцев назад

    Love your freckles😊❤

  • @susanabderhalden9212
    @susanabderhalden9212 11 месяцев назад

    I love your hair color you have during the 4th of July

  • @bethann3016
    @bethann3016 11 месяцев назад +4

    Remember....BE STILL ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @amyduffy8883
    @amyduffy8883 11 месяцев назад +1

    I went back and forth after about having another baby after my 2nd was born in Oct. Mind you I’m 40 so time wasn’t on hands either. Fast forward to
    when my baby was 6 months old (now he’s 9 months old) I got clarity out of nowhere that our family is complete with our boys. I think if you give yourself some time you’ll get the clarity you’re looking for too.

  • @helenslak6407
    @helenslak6407 11 месяцев назад

    Well deserved break ❤

  • @kimstrait4403
    @kimstrait4403 11 месяцев назад +2

    Rachel it's in God hands if it's meant to be a 5 th baby will be with ya'll. You had such a beautiful video of the boys so priceless. I loved how pretty you looked on the 4th and dancing was so fun! I love how sweet Atticus looked in his outfit so stinking cute. Harold is a great Dad always involved with the boys. I wish you happiness, joy 🎉 maybe you will have a baby girl. Lol. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nan25girls
    @nan25girls 11 месяцев назад +1

    I had 4 pregnancies. First babygirl died after 8 hours of so many complications and a VBAV and that was 44 yrs ago. 2yrs later I miscarried, 2 yrs after that my daughter was born perfectly healthy!! 3 yrs l had another girl perfectly healthy. Both by C-section.I knew without a shadow of a doubt I wanted no more so I had my tubes tied!!!! I have never regreted it!!

  • @marytomlinson290
    @marytomlinson290 11 месяцев назад

    Come on Rachael, you Harold and the boys have sooo much love to give to atleast 1 more

  • @rideremii
    @rideremii 11 месяцев назад +1

    Totally understand! We have 2 girls currently just turned 3 and 5 I absolutely don’t feel ready for another right now but also don’t feel done but if I leave it a long time I don’t know if I’ll ever want to go back to the baby stage I’m soooo undecided and getting stressed about it 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @deedee55686
    @deedee55686 11 месяцев назад +1

    I did feel that way. For me I was 36 at the time so I felt like we needed to make a decision real soon. We had more reasons not to so decided not.
    I could see you with one more. My sister has 5. You remind me of her. ❤

  • @mirndacoe5904
    @mirndacoe5904 11 месяцев назад

    It looks so fine we have that in our park in Springfield, Ohio, and I hope you are pregnant. I can't wait, I hope you have a girl.

  • @lornalovering1647
    @lornalovering1647 11 месяцев назад +2

    We always wanted 2 children and once the 2nd baby was born we felt our family was complete We are happy with our beautiful children xx 🥰

  • @luannsmith5309
    @luannsmith5309 11 месяцев назад +3

    the answer will come if you look deep inside and pray on it..I think that the 4 boys are perfect and happy and healthy and that provides a well rounded and complete family unit. I wanted four boys but was unable to have more than two, but am truly grateful that I listened to my inner self and did not want to so called push my luck after two life-threatening deliveries. Knowing when the right time to stop having children is not always easy but you are already truly blessed with 4 miracles ....it might be time to focus on the future.

    • @pien21
      @pien21 11 месяцев назад

      I just had my third baby and i feel like this is the thing that’s on my mind.. i am so grateful for these three healthy kids.. but it is also hard to choose to let this be it, because i also have this strong feeling that there is still a little boy waiting for us. Like i wouldn’t want him to be born, because my mind tells me that it is best to leave it at this. It almost feels selfish or something. But we have the responsibility for the ones we already got.

  • @alisonleach4731
    @alisonleach4731 11 месяцев назад

    I'm rooting for twin girls for you guys next 🎀🎀🎀🎀💘💘💘💘🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @jackieburton9467
    @jackieburton9467 11 месяцев назад

    God bless you guys.

  • @angelariley5163
    @angelariley5163 11 месяцев назад

    5:27 that looked like it hurt and omg very epic scenery and happy late 4th even though it says u r not never underestimate those things

  • @elainedent11
    @elainedent11 11 месяцев назад

    You have 4 adorable boys , im sure if you leave another year when your baby is a bit older the answer will cone to you , i did this , i waited till my youngest was 2 and got my answer , it was a no more but you could feel different xx

  • @BeverlyThomas-lh5iy
    @BeverlyThomas-lh5iy 11 месяцев назад +3

    Look at you all having a good time’s every where you all go.
    Your parents really enjoy having their grandchildren there with them.
    Leo is has really grown up to be a big brother to his brothers that he loved so much. Wyatt is so precious and little man himself. Truitt is trying his best doing cuteness things. Addius is growing up so fast.
    We enjoy watching you all very much. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @amandaspina2687
    @amandaspina2687 11 месяцев назад +1

    Not sure if this will help, but me and my husband decided before we ever had kids (I'm pregnant with baby #3 now), that we were just going to leave the number up to the Lord. We'll have as many as he gives us. He opens and closes the womb.
    I think about it often too, how if it's His will, this could be my last baby or I could have like 5 more if He wills!
    I find comfort in the fact that we've left it up to the Lord. I would feel so guilty if we decided we were good with 3, but He had plans for us to have another and He had huge plans for that baby.
    I don't mean to come off as Holier than Thou, this is just my thought process.
    I think you've done a great job so far and I love watching your family grow. Each of your boys are so sweet and adorable and they really love each other well!
    The decision is obviously up to you, but I do encourage you to give it up to the Lord. You never know, maybe 4 is what He had in mind for your family. But maybe it's 6? Who are we to get in the way of God's plan for our lives?
    I hope this gives a little insight. I really love your channel and always leave feeling encouraged and uplifted, and even inspired! ❤️❤️

  • @shaedenise407
    @shaedenise407 11 месяцев назад +19

    When I was pregnant with # 3 I was completely satisfied with 3 kids. I knew it was my last baby. I had a boy and girl already so I had that complete feeling. I’m almost 4 years post baby #3 and I still feel complete as ever. Also, I’m 36 If that matters.

    • @Arpege92
      @Arpege92 11 месяцев назад +4

      So what was baby # 3? You left me hanging. ;-)

    • @RSSmama065
      @RSSmama065 11 месяцев назад +1

      Same!! I have a 12 year old boy (from a previous relationship), 6 year old girl and 3 year old girl with my ex… two failed relationships and I’m 35… I’m good and feel SO complete with my 3. Plus I couldn’t handle getting sick as much as I did, again

    • @shaedenise407
      @shaedenise407 11 месяцев назад

      @@Arpege92 baby #3 was a BOY lol

    • @shaedenise407
      @shaedenise407 11 месяцев назад

      @@RSSmama065 yea I dealt with a lot of sickness as well, and not to mention all my babies were between 9.3oz and 10lb c sections. So a 4th c section was NOT even an option for me. So I got my tubes removed at the surgery.

    • @RSSmama065
      @RSSmama065 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@shaedenise407 oh man! Two out of three of mine were IUGR (intrauterine growth restricted and stopped growing at 32-34 weeks even though they were born at 37 weeks) and were 5lbs 3oz and 4lbs 10oz… my 3rd was 7lbs 5oz

  • @AlatielSedai
    @AlatielSedai 11 месяцев назад +1

    We have 3, boy, girl, boy. They're now 27, 23 & 22. We always thought we wanted 4. My 2 youngest were so close together and I had a not so great pregnancy with my daughter, who also was not easy once she came. We decided not to have anymore and I had the litigation done when my 3rd was born. It's something that I have always regretted. I feel like we were meant to be a family of 6. I think you know in your heart when you're done.

  • @allystewart7199
    @allystewart7199 11 месяцев назад

    I hope whatever God has planned for you should be happy and I will be praying for you guys

  • @krisheathman9053
    @krisheathman9053 11 месяцев назад +3

    I definitely had a very crystal clear NO. So clear, in fact, that my husband and I chose for him to get a vasectomy during our last pregnancy. We knew, without a shadow of a doubt. You will know too, Rachel❣️

  • @kellydinitz6727
    @kellydinitz6727 11 месяцев назад

    I would be so excited to see you go for one more. Try for a girl!! But you have a perfect family now! Praying for you to know Gods will when the time comes!

  • @sabine46
    @sabine46 11 месяцев назад +1

    I would love more children (had our second 5 weeks ago), but I know we are complete now! Financial reasons and because both were C sections (first was emergency after 36 hours of labor) and I don't want my body to go through a third c section! ❤ You will know when you are complete!

  • @elizabethbetsyschneider1647
    @elizabethbetsyschneider1647 11 месяцев назад

    Keep on keeping on…God will answer your doubt.
    😊😊😊

  • @samanthafaithoverfear993
    @samanthafaithoverfear993 11 месяцев назад +1

    I personally see you all with 1 more child. For some reason I feel after the 4th one you’ll have that closure and feel complete. Just what I feel after hearing what you had to say about how you’re feeling about it.

  • @MrsAlmaTrumble
    @MrsAlmaTrumble 11 месяцев назад +4

    Jesus will give y'all the answer on his time. Sending lots of prayers to y'all.

  • @mariesahota1478
    @mariesahota1478 11 месяцев назад +2

    WELL GOOD luck

  • @jillh7403
    @jillh7403 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love watching you guy's, you make me smile.
    I hope that you won't be affended.... Their is a medical procedure that you and Harold have to participate in order to have a girl.
    I know it might not be what you'd like to do, just a suggestion.
    Please don't be mad at me.
    Love you guy's.
    Love from Michigan ❤️

  • @kereshahenry2459
    @kereshahenry2459 11 месяцев назад

    I am really wishing for the little girl...patiently waiting...

  • @brittanygreene2302
    @brittanygreene2302 11 месяцев назад

    I’m in the same place girl

  • @terrimacdonald7782
    @terrimacdonald7782 11 месяцев назад +1

    I just had my 4th in February and feel so complete now! We had 2 boys, then got our girl for our 3rd and I thought I was done but we ended up feeling we needed to have 1 more and I'm so happy we did because we got a 2nd girl!! So 2 boys then 2 girls and I couldn't be happier 😊 also I'm 33 and swore I'd never have any after 30 but had 2 😂

  • @bethanyberger7507
    @bethanyberger7507 11 месяцев назад

    Im there with you with not knowing. I had my first in Nov 2017 and then got pregnant 9 months later on accident and lost it at 22wks along. We had our rainbow baby last yr in July and she will be 1 yr old tomorrow and i went into the pregnancy not knowing if she would be the last. I want one more but physically idk if my body and mental health could go through another pregnancy. That loss in 2019 threw me for a loop obviously and made last yrs pregnancy very anxiety filled. Im okay with a boy and a girl but sometimes i do feel exactly how you are with not knowing but not wanting to regret it once we are no longer child bearing age.

  • @splarsh2145
    @splarsh2145 11 месяцев назад

    We just had our 4th (9 months ago) my hubby only wanted 2 and I wanted 6 😆 after we had our 3rd I was pretty much where your at, hubby was content with 3 and I didn’t know 100% if I was.. I went on to feel like you did up untill our 3rd turned 1 and it got abit easier i said to my husband “let’s have another baby?” Then we did 😆 after our 4th I felt much more a sense of completeness. Don’t get me wrong although parenting is challenging I would always be open to more if my husband twisted my arm 🤣 but I know we are done now and my hubby has had the snip since. So that chapter has come to an end for us and it’s so bitter sweet! I totally get what you mean about wanting to know, it feels so refreshing for us to know our family is complete and we have our 4 perfect kiddos here ❤ xx

  • @robintyer1699
    @robintyer1699 11 месяцев назад +1

    If you're questioning now, don't do anything permanent. Also do what your husband and you both agree on. Don't compare with others! Don't worry about what others think!

  • @rachelmccullough7668
    @rachelmccullough7668 11 месяцев назад +1

    After our 3rd we were on the fence about if we should have another one. We wound up getting pregnant, and after our 4th my husband and I both KNEW for sure we were done.

  • @saraelsmore1656
    @saraelsmore1656 11 месяцев назад

    I knew as soon as I had my last. Heart sealed. God breathed. Xxxxx

  • @bellebaker4858
    @bellebaker4858 11 месяцев назад +1

    We had 3 in 3.5yrs and I knew every time we weren’t finished but never got a definitive answer after the 3rd. After a year or trying to find the closer, I realized I needed to make a logical decision without ever “knowing” we were finished. We often strive for control when really God has had a plan all along. Turn it over to Him and ask for peace about the situation and you will have it.

  • @TheKatehall
    @TheKatehall 11 месяцев назад +1

    Your having a daughter for your last baby. God said multiply you will know you don’t need a time limit. I think you will have a daughter I have thought this from the start.
    I have never had kids but my friend here has 9 some are adopted she has had 5 of her birth ones she knew that was enough and got fixed. Each and everyone are Gods blessing. ❤

  • @wildfyrefarmlife8638
    @wildfyrefarmlife8638 11 месяцев назад +2

    My last pregnancy was a late pregnancy miscarriage and it was so very hard. It was heartbreaking for our kids. I couldn't put them through that again but it left a hole in our hearts. Don't end this stage with doubt. It does really go by so quickly. Does your family feel whole?

  • @debbiecalkins3078
    @debbiecalkins3078 11 месяцев назад

    I feel it’s in Gods hands more than ours. I gave birth to 5 and none were planned but I had seven all together because my husband had 2 in his first marriage, I had 4 in my first marriage and my youngest whose now 25 is ours. I was happy when I had her but I knew because of my age and being a high risk pregnancy as well as other things that she would definetly be my last. I still had times after I got fixed that I really felt the need for another baby but all in all my family was perfect . My youngest daughte has a 10month old little girl and is pregnant with her 2nd, due in December. Very unexpected so took her time to adjust. We have 15 grandkids all together and love them all like crazy. It’s the greatest!