You’re not glowing because your pregnant you’re GLOWING because you’ve reached a prime boss point in your life! Girl you’ve got the ring, you’ve got your dream home gym, you got your own line with Gymshark, girl ENJOY your life as it is rn this is an amazing time!! ❤️❤️
Sorry to be off topic but does someone know a way to log back into an instagram account? I was stupid lost the password. I would love any tips you can give me
Time stamps: 1:22 Pregnancy 3:00 Wedding plans 4:10 Mental Health Struggles 5:50 Hardest part being a fitness influencer 8:02 Work 11:16 Plastic Surgery 13:28 Relationship arguments 15:48 Going gluten-dairy free 16:42 Cheating 17:48 Swearing 18:36 Short questions . . Thank you for your positivity and opening up Whitney!❤️
Omg for reals!! It is beyond painful when you’re struggling with fertility and people keep asking you like y’all if I could get pregnant I would be please stop ripping the bandaid off every couple of weeks
Preach! So many of mine and my fiancé’s family members keep pressuring us to hurry up and have kids but him and I aren’t ready. We get condemned so much because of that simple answer. So irritating!
When you said “sometimes you just wake up and you’re having a terrible mental health day and you have absolutely no reason why” I felt that 🥺 I love you, Whit and you bring me so much positivity.
I completely agree w you. Every other fitness influencer makes me envious of their bodies, but when I think of Whitney, I don’t think of how much better her body is, I think about how happy and motivated she makes me feel.
People need to STOP prying about people’s lives - especially when starting a family is involved. How do you know it’s not a touchy subject. That she can or can’t have kids? It’s not your business!!!
@@palestar828 I mean ok sure it's fine to ask her about her plans for children. But that's a huge difference to assuming a woman will or even assuming a woman can have children. Also whenever someone assumes she is already pregnant because she's "glowing". It is never ok to makes assumptions about someone regardless of if they put their lives on the internet or not.
@@dinannananna I don't think it's appropriate to even ask. In fact, I think it's a pretty rude question. That's a touchy issue for a lot of people, and if someone wants to share, they will do so without being asked.
@@palestar828 Totally disagree. If people want to share about their reproductive lives, they will do so without being asked. Someone may be dealing with infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy complications, etc, and you are sticking your thumb in that wound. It's just not your business to ask.
Your story is so inspiring!!!!! I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, and PTSD for ten+ years after beating cancer, having a mom with addiction, and moving across the country for college as well. I got officially diagnosed my freshman year of college when I was kicked out of UCSD due to academic disqualification because my mom attempted suicide the week of finals. I thought my life was over and I had lost everything- the school I worked my whole life to get into was gone, I was in a city alone with NO money, no apt, and no assistance. I could have easily quit, moved back home, and continued to spiral..... maybe it was the self awareness knowing why I was feeling the way I was feeling but I kept pushing. I’m not saying it was perfect and I figured it all out after because it was far from that. I thankfully met my (now fiancé) a short time after that dark spot and he lifted me out of darkness and supported me unconditionally. Five years later we are happily engaged, I’m still going to therapy (3 years strong!!), have two amazing fur babies, and was blessed enough to survive this pandemic healthy, happy (as I could be), and financially safe. I AM BLESSED and so are you. Thank you for shining light on so many issues and being an inspiration to so many! Love you Whit!!!!!
I've been married for 5 years now and I totally get the "selfish" thing. Like, I want to get up and have a cup of coffee in peace right now. I don't want to get up and have to change a diaper and get a baby dressed and then have 5 minutes to get myself ready, if I'm lucky before I need to run out the door. Right now is the time to be selfish and just focus on you and your relationship. I've told my husband and family that once I'm 30 then I'll consider trying to start a family.
It's really rude to ask someone when they're having kids, especially when you don't know them. Stop rushing Whitney’s life. She will have kids when she decides to have kids. Period.
Seriously. The next step after engagement is not babies for everyone. Ive been dealing with this for a few years from my MIL and a few others so I felt for her so much when she was talking about that
I think it can also be especially harsh, as having kids biologically isn't even an option for so many women. So asking about pregnancy can be rubbing salt into a wound for those who want kids that way but can't.
Also, what if the person is having fertility issues? Now you’re just asking hurtful/upsetting questions without even meaning to. I made the (innocent) mistake of asking a coworker if she had children. She told me she would love to have some, but cannot 🥺 I thought I was being friendly in a moment where we were chit chatting, and I also love to talk about my own kiddo. She was totally cool about it, but I felt like an ass and imagined how many times she’s told people she can’t have kids when they asked about her family 😞
Um, I love the whispering. It's kind of your signature and I HATE that you feel like you can't be yourself because someone made a comment to you. Girl, do whatever you want. Live your best life.
Hearing that you don’t feel safe in places you 1000% should actually breaks my heart 😭 love you so much Whitney, I’m so sorry that’s part of it, it shouldn’t be in anyway xxx
Whitney, Whitney Whitney. The most down to earth easy going person.. we need more Whitneys "Am I doing this for me, or am I doing this for other people"
The only time it’d be acceptable is if Whit invited you to a wonderful dinner party 🍝 ... or if you’re Girl Scout selling cookies door to door 🍪 But for real... it’s really messed up how people think that’s ok...
I almost never comment on videos but as someone who's really been struggling lately, when Whitney said "I believe in you, I need you to believe in yourself" I teared up. Thank you
“We have created a platform for such amazing men and women” So I’m not the only guy who’s loves Whitney’s channel ☺️☺️ felt like I was the only guy here - but watching her always makes me smile (and my sisters gave me the best gift giver status 🙊)
Currently recovering from breast augmentation. Thanks for reminding me that it's okay to do something I want for myself. I just wanted to be proportional and I had to fight my own guilt every step of the way.
When you said, "I believe in you, and I need you to believe in yourself.", oof my eyes started sweating. I FELT how genuine you were being in that moment, and I respect that so much
I really heard Megan the stallion when she said “I’m sick of people trying to tell us how to live” and I’m here for it she said leave judgement in 2020 2021 here we come
It’s such a common thing when a relationship ends for women to blame themselves and wonder what they could have done better and for men to blame the woman (in a heterosexual relationship). Please don’t do this to yourselves ladies! Be kind to yourself! ❤️
"Am I doing this for me or am I doing this for other people" Girl yes! I'm going to keep that little note in mind going forward with everything in life
I love that you know you’re just not ready for kids. I never realized how selfish I was until I had a kid. Like I literally have no time to do my own things EVER anymore lol it’s very upsetting and overwhelming sometimes for me. But I do love my kiddo.
1: please bring whispering Whitney back. 2: thank you for sharing everything you have been “avoiding” we love you whit & support you. You are a queen 💕
you’re the most genuine & honest creator. we live in such a superficial, “picture perfect” world but you ALWAYS keep it real 💯 love that for you & the community you’ve created ❣️
Oh hell no, having someone I don’t know pull up to my house that I don’t know and unannounced, unacceptable! Whitney I hope you have some type of security! I would not play about that!
loved hearing more about your past relationships. just shows how much your self worth has evolved and now you have attracted someone that values you for you
Same! I think it’s hard for people to understand how that kind of thing can shake you to your core and even cause an identity crisis. It’s taken me years to trust my own judgement & figure out who I am again but like you said you end up a better and stronger version of yourself ♥️ you just have to do the work. I love how many times she mentioned being self aware in this video because I really do think that’s so important when recovering from abuse.
I’m glad she opens up about her mental health. As someone who is currently struggling with anxiety and gave a testimony because of it, ever since I started watching her videos a month or two ago, I’ve been thankful that she opens up about her mental health.
When you were talking about your toxic relationship and mental health and said “omg why am I getting emotional” ...... I FELT THAT. You’re freaking amazing ilysm ❤️
Can we all just take a minute and really appreciate what all Whit goes through to be a RUclips influencer?! I know I’m not alone when I say that I NEVER would have thought that you have gone through people showing up at your house/people calling you too CHUBBY/having your car stolen/etc.! The fact that you are still so open and raw with us on top of the fact that you are still on RUclips giving so many of us inspiration through your platform makes me have even more respect for you! Thank you for all of the inspiration you give me, you’re one of my main inspirations for getting my tail off the couch and going on my own fitness journey. Every time I’m at a low point and feel like giving up, I turn on a Whit video and you just always say the right thing to remind me this is about me and my goals not what everyone else looks like or expects! Love you lots Whit!!
Whitney, I am a 59yr. Old female, I want you to know how proud of you I am young lady, speak your truth ! You are amazing and mental health issues are nothing to be ashamed of. Stand strong girl. Your honesty if refreshing, however you don’t owe anyone any explanation, ABOUT NOTHING !
I see you girl! I felt your light and spirit so strong in this video! You’re going through a shift, I sense it 🙏🏻thank you for being an inspiration! I’m doing it too!
i have such a similar story with being cheated on/begging for them back/depression after breakup, and seeing you in a happy and healthy relationship and how much you're thriving with your life gives me hope and motivation. thank you for being open and honest about tough subjects like these. love you
I love how honest you are about having kiddos. I feel like people think that women always have to want kids. I love that you know you’re not ready yet and that’s what will make you a great mom. Thank you for being you
I totally back you up when you say that you’re too selfish for a child right now. I had a baby at 21 years old and I NEVER got to be selfish and take care of myself. I struggle daily with it now even 5 years later. I’m so happy that you are so smart and aware of what you truly know is right for you.
Just seeing you get teary eyed makes me so emotional you’re my first ever youtuber that I’ve ever watched & will always be my number ☝🏼& you motivate so much to do better and continue with my goals that took so hard to put into order😓😓thank you Whitney for all of your videos and kindness🥺😢❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Happy Whitmas!!
Keep an eye on the depression. Always reach out to someone if you feel you're in a bad place. I have an anxiety disorder and so thankful to get support when it's much needed
Mom of 3 beauties! I promise you don’t lose yourself when you have kids! I still have quiet time every morning to myself, do skincare, paint my nails, go to the gym, etc etc. it’s a partnership. So you got a hubby to help. It’s wonderful!
I want a long engagement too. I want to enjoy being ‘engaged’, it sounds so lovely. I want to savor the whole moment and take my time enjoying that. I live in Utah too, and a lot of people get married after being engaged 3 months. Nothing wrong with that! I just think long engagements aren’t the ‘normal’ thing to do here.
Girl I feel like we’re the same person. When you started talking about metal health and being in a relationship that wasn’t good and falling into depression laying in bed... I have never related so much!
It blows my mind that people would show up at your house!!! What did they think was gonna happen?? You were gonna invite them in and become BFFs with them? 🥴
For q&a part II, please share - what changed between you and stefan that led you guys to get together after that bad first date? I adore Stefan and I love seeing you two in videos!
LOVE YOU, and how you're so upfront and honest and say words like "vagina" and say you had "depression" instead of just that you went through a "tough period" and I love when you call out us OGs that know about your cute lil ears gal
Your answer about "why you struggle" is beautiful. Someone doesn't have to be in any kind of bad situation to struggle with mental health. What I've learned from loving people with depression, sometimes people feel down and they don't know why. And that sometimes makes it even harder. So no matter what you are (or aren't) going through, your feelings are valid. ❤️
I love you so much Whit. I was also in an emotionally abusive relationship and begged someone to stay who never loved or respected me. It's women like you who inspire us to be strong on our own.
This girl is just so empowering. Whitney, you don’t know how much you’ve impacted me as a person. I was struggling with my mental health for a long time. Because of you I’ve learned that you can’t please everyone and to love myself. After doing so, I have not looked back without caring about others opinions. And hearing this q and a, you’re so honest that it touches the bottom of my heart so you keep doing you and thank you for your content. ❤️
I just want to applaud you for being able to help such a wide range of people, I'm newly 18 and love your videos and hearing you talk about mothers watching you just made me so aware about how amazingly diverse you are.
I fell off from fitness for a couple of years and I haven't watched in awhile. I'm so happy and proud to see you're doing well Whitney!!! Thank you so much for putting out quality and genuine videos and helping me with my fitness journey TWICE. Praying for your continued success! Now I gotta catch go play catch up on your vids lol
an OG fan here, i knew you meant your ears as soon as you said surgery LOL. I love your attitude and energy. I feel like I can relate to lots of stuff you talk about in regards to mental health. thank you for sharing your journey with us, and putting yourself out there. You always making my day with your videos because your wonderful personality really shines through. WE LOVE YOU ❤️
I swear like a sailor but still love the heck-in-Bob! Plus, I feel like it’s a very Utah, thing to say. And I can say this because I also live in Utah! Also, I love the whispering, so please do not stop! Love ya Whit!
I have followed your fitness journey on RUclips and Instagram for the past 4 years (pretty much since I started my own fitness journey, you were the catalyst!!) and I just want to say it's been a pleasure watching you grow and be successful and find your happiness. Hearing that you get hate online for the way you look at a specific point in time GRINDS MY GEARS because you look, and have always looked, beautiful - no matter the time of year, amount of exercise you've been doing, amount of makeup or fake tan you have on, you honestly radiate beauty for just being who. you. are. It must be horrible getting (completely unjustified) hate online, but I hope that the not-so-little community you have built around you makes up for any negativity you face on social media. ilysm, tysm for being you xxx
You were so real and authentic in this video! I really enjoyed it! The people who really love you and come to watch you don’t care about you whispering or whatever small thing it is. We’re here for you and love you as you are. You bring so much positivity and joy into my life and I don’t want you to change ANYTHING about what makes you you
GirlL I totally get you with the “selfish” about having kids. I recently got married and everyone it’s waiting for me to have baby’s and I feel like I love my freedom rn to do and eat what I want and to be whoever I want !!!!!
Asking someone when they’re having kids is such a rude and invasive question. Why does that concern people? You don’t know what someone may be going through or what their desires are. Mind your business 😒
so true...not a good question to ask...EVER,,,, maybe they are trying .., maybe they just had a miscarriage..you never know what people are going through... people ask innocently....but it can definitely be a trigger question
When you started talking about your toxic and unhealthy relationship I got a little teary because everything you said happened and how you reacted to the cheating and everything, i was picturing myself because that was exactly me too and it happened when I was in college as well but like you said I now understand why it all happened and I wasn’t meant to be with that person! Thanks for spreading love and positivity in your channel! Love you 💞
I would love to see a GRWM w/ a Q&A part two 🤩🤩 Whit!! I’m an OG Whitmas watcher over here and this Q&A has been one of my favorites. You shook me in the best way with this one. I love you so much, nothing but kindness & the best for ya 🤍🤍🤍
When you started getting emotional talking about mental health.....girl...I. Was. Not. Ready. Immediate crying with you. Definitely relate to this. Love you so much. Thank you for all of your positivity and honesty ❤️
@@gsweets I love how you're being negative when you're the realistic one here :D no one is perfect and it's not healthy to think that anyone is. Idolizing someone like that will affect your mental health sooner or later.
You’re not glowing because your pregnant you’re GLOWING because you’ve reached a prime boss point in your life! Girl you’ve got the ring, you’ve got your dream home gym, you got your own line with Gymshark, girl ENJOY your life as it is rn this is an amazing time!! ❤️❤️
I couldn't have said it better myself! You hit the nail on the head, girl!!! 🥰🥰🥰
Go Whitney!!!!!
Yes!!! She’s such a light and inspiration to a lot of women! Celebrate life Whitney everyday 💖
Sorry to be off topic but does someone know a way to log back into an instagram account?
I was stupid lost the password. I would love any tips you can give me
She not glowing because she’s pregnant. WE HAVE ALL SEEN THAT DEWY, HYDRATED, MAKEUP AND SKINCARE ROUTINE. y’all gotta stop 😭
Right on sistah 🤗
Introverts unite! Separately
😂😂😂🙏🏼
😂🤣 love it!
HHahahahaha
Ha ha good one 🤗
@@WhitneySimmons could you make a good haul 2021. Keep up the good work
Time stamps:
1:22 Pregnancy
3:00 Wedding plans
4:10 Mental Health Struggles
5:50 Hardest part being a fitness influencer
8:02 Work
11:16 Plastic Surgery
13:28 Relationship arguments
15:48 Going gluten-dairy free
16:42 Cheating
17:48 Swearing
18:36 Short questions
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Thank you for your positivity and opening up Whitney!❤️
Thank you
You the real MVP
Luv this thx!!
I don’t know who still needs to hear this but stop asking women when they’re getting pregnant
Amen sistah !!
PRAISSEEEE
Omg for reals!! It is beyond painful when you’re struggling with fertility and people keep asking you like y’all if I could get pregnant I would be please stop ripping the bandaid off every couple of weeks
Preach! So many of mine and my fiancé’s family members keep pressuring us to hurry up and have kids but him and I aren’t ready. We get condemned so much because of that simple answer. So irritating!
Amen
Who could possibly hate whispering Whitney?!??
I’m actually so sad whispering Whitney is gone 😭😭😭
I miss her 😭
@@KrystleMartin same!!! Bring whispering back! And I love prrrrrrrrrra ta ta ta.
Please bring the whisper back.
Seriously. Whitney is the most likeable person ever. How could anyone not like her?!
When you said “sometimes you just wake up and you’re having a terrible mental health day and you have absolutely no reason why” I felt that 🥺 I love you, Whit and you bring me so much positivity.
me toooooo !
@@adriannagattuso5442 this year has been trying on everyone mentally and physically. I hope you are doing well ❤️
@@lillycramer5 thank you. Being apart of positive little communities like this really help. ❤
I love you 😭❤️
Yes, I feel is such an important conversation to have. We struggle and there is no shame
"Gluten is not bad for you unless you have a disease that tells you otherwise" love you
BRING THE WHISPERING BACK
*whispers* I’ve missed it ❤️
Who TF complained about the whispering?! That was hilarious, bring it back👌
For real!!
It’s okay. 2020 is a confusing time for people. 😔 *whispering - shh we won’t judge* 🤣
Exactly!!
Yes! Bring it back. I miss it too.
I lovedddd it too!
Whit, you're the only fitness influencer who doesn't makes me feel bad about my body not being perfect. Thank you for being so empowering!
Than clearly you don’t watch Sydney Cummings.
I like her a lot too! Watch Keltie O'Connor! She's really good!
I completely agree w you. Every other fitness influencer makes me envious of their bodies, but when I think of Whitney, I don’t think of how much better her body is, I think about how happy and motivated she makes me feel.
I agree with this!!!!!!!
You should watch Stephanie Buttermore then.
People need to STOP prying about people’s lives - especially when starting a family is involved. How do you know it’s not a touchy subject. That she can or can’t have kids? It’s not your business!!!
It's hard for people not to pry when people put their entire lives out on the internet these days 🤷♀️ barely anything these days is private
@@palestar828 I mean ok sure it's fine to ask her about her plans for children. But that's a huge difference to assuming a woman will or even assuming a woman can have children. Also whenever someone assumes she is already pregnant because she's "glowing". It is never ok to makes assumptions about someone regardless of if they put their lives on the internet or not.
@@dinannananna agreed
@@dinannananna I don't think it's appropriate to even ask. In fact, I think it's a pretty rude question. That's a touchy issue for a lot of people, and if someone wants to share, they will do so without being asked.
@@palestar828 Totally disagree. If people want to share about their reproductive lives, they will do so without being asked. Someone may be dealing with infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy complications, etc, and you are sticking your thumb in that wound. It's just not your business to ask.
Your story is so inspiring!!!!! I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, and PTSD for ten+ years after beating cancer, having a mom with addiction, and moving across the country for college as well. I got officially diagnosed my freshman year of college when I was kicked out of UCSD due to academic disqualification because my mom attempted suicide the week of finals. I thought my life was over and I had lost everything- the school I worked my whole life to get into was gone, I was in a city alone with NO money, no apt, and no assistance. I could have easily quit, moved back home, and continued to spiral..... maybe it was the self awareness knowing why I was feeling the way I was feeling but I kept pushing. I’m not saying it was perfect and I figured it all out after because it was far from that. I thankfully met my (now fiancé) a short time after that dark spot and he lifted me out of darkness and supported me unconditionally. Five years later we are happily engaged, I’m still going to therapy (3 years strong!!), have two amazing fur babies, and was blessed enough to survive this pandemic healthy, happy (as I could be), and financially safe. I AM BLESSED and so are you. Thank you for shining light on so many issues and being an inspiration to so many! Love you Whit!!!!!
I'm so happy for you. We have the same mental illness issues btw, and well, life is tough. I've also met an amazing man. Twinning
@@TracyCampanellaThank you for the kind words! Life is tough, but at least we have someone to keep us pushing! ❤️ best wishes to you!
I've been married for 5 years now and I totally get the "selfish" thing. Like, I want to get up and have a cup of coffee in peace right now. I don't want to get up and have to change a diaper and get a baby dressed and then have 5 minutes to get myself ready, if I'm lucky before I need to run out the door. Right now is the time to be selfish and just focus on you and your relationship. I've told my husband and family that once I'm 30 then I'll consider trying to start a family.
It's really rude to ask someone when they're having kids, especially when you don't know them. Stop rushing Whitney’s life. She will have kids when she decides to have kids. Period.
Aja seriously tho!
Seriously. The next step after engagement is not babies for everyone. Ive been dealing with this for a few years from my MIL and a few others so I felt for her so much when she was talking about that
@@megzzk8072 It’s so disrespectful. I’m sorry you had/have to deal with that.
I think it can also be especially harsh, as having kids biologically isn't even an option for so many women.
So asking about pregnancy can be rubbing salt into a wound for those who want kids that way but can't.
Also, what if the person is having fertility issues? Now you’re just asking hurtful/upsetting questions without even meaning to. I made the (innocent) mistake of asking a coworker if she had children. She told me she would love to have some, but cannot 🥺 I thought I was being friendly in a moment where we were chit chatting, and I also love to talk about my own kiddo. She was totally cool about it, but I felt like an ass and imagined how many times she’s told people she can’t have kids when they asked about her family 😞
Um, I love the whispering. It's kind of your signature and I HATE that you feel like you can't be yourself because someone made a comment to you. Girl, do whatever you want. Live your best life.
Hearing that you don’t feel safe in places you 1000% should actually breaks my heart 😭 love you so much Whitney, I’m so sorry that’s part of it, it shouldn’t be in anyway xxx
Love you 🥲🥲❤️
Thank you for saying that you’re too “selfish” right now, because I felt that 🥺👏🏽 it’s ok to be selfish!
Whitney, Whitney Whitney. The most down to earth easy going person.. we need more Whitneys
"Am I doing this for me, or am I doing this for other people"
I will never be able to wrap my head around people being rude to you.
jealousy
I don't understand how people think it's okay to go to your home. That's just so wrong and disgusting. I'm so sorry you need to deal with that😔
I barely like it when people I know come to my house, let alone random strangers
The only time it’d be acceptable is if Whit invited you to a wonderful dinner party 🍝 ... or if you’re Girl Scout selling cookies door to door 🍪
But for real... it’s really messed up how people think that’s ok...
THANK YOU for saying "labia" unironically AND correctly. So important to get these terms right and own them, yas!
I’ve booked a labia plasty with a clitoral hood reduction that I’m a little scared 😟 I just want to feel comfortable in clothes
I almost never comment on videos but as someone who's really been struggling lately, when Whitney said "I believe in you, I need you to believe in yourself" I teared up. Thank you
Lot of love your way sistah 🤗
Who else feels like they just reconnected with Whitney after a long frickin time away?? ❤️
"I can be an extrovert.. when there's nobody around" lol Whitney this is me too
100% lol
“We have created a platform for such amazing men and women”
So I’m not the only guy who’s loves Whitney’s channel ☺️☺️ felt like I was the only guy here - but watching her always makes me smile (and my sisters gave me the best gift giver status 🙊)
Protect Whitney Simmons at 👏 all 👏 costs 👏
The “why am I getting emotional, no no no no no” part killed me because that’s literally me in therapy
Currently recovering from breast augmentation. Thanks for reminding me that it's okay to do something I want for myself.
I just wanted to be proportional and I had to fight my own guilt every step of the way.
Right on sistah 🤗
You’re literally the most relatable woman I’ve ever come across. You make me feel like you’re actually my friend! I adore you 💕💕💕
When you said, "I believe in you, and I need you to believe in yourself.", oof my eyes started sweating. I FELT how genuine you were being in that moment, and I respect that so much
Omg same
Me too 😭😭 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
“I can be an extrovert when there’s nobody around” 😂 So relatable!
When I say “ Whitney Simmons has changed my life”... I mean Whitney Simmons has changed my life. Anyone else ?? 💙😂
Amen sistah 🤗
She is a breath of fresh air. I LOVE HER
Agreed.
Without a doubt!
"Am I doing this for me or am I doing this for other people?" EVERYTHING!! Also, love that you and Tay are in business together.
🙌🏻
It’s crazy how ppl comment negatively on her body. I think she looks amazing. You are literally inspiring
Its crazy that anyone would comment negatively on anyones body.
@@tootsiepop91 agreed smh
I really heard Megan the stallion when she said “I’m sick of people trying to tell us how to live” and I’m here for it she said leave judgement in 2020 2021 here we come
It’s such a common thing when a relationship ends for women to blame themselves and wonder what they could have done better and for men to blame the woman (in a heterosexual relationship). Please don’t do this to yourselves ladies! Be kind to yourself! ❤️
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"Am I doing this for me or am I doing this for other people" Girl yes! I'm going to keep that little note in mind going forward with everything in life
I love that you know you’re just not ready for kids. I never realized how selfish I was until I had a kid. Like I literally have no time to do my own things EVER anymore lol it’s very upsetting and overwhelming sometimes for me. But I do love my kiddo.
I love how vulnerable you were in this video and the things you admitted just reflect how strong you are. Need you as the bestie
1: please bring whispering Whitney back.
2: thank you for sharing everything you have been “avoiding” we love you whit & support you. You are a queen 💕
the fact that people think it’s okay to show up to an influencer’s house🤭... honestly so disrespectful
right? I couldn’t imagine how they feel. Talk about an invasion of privacy.
you’re the most genuine & honest creator. we live in such a superficial, “picture perfect” world but you ALWAYS keep it real 💯 love that for you & the community you’ve created ❣️
When you said “labia” with no shame you officially became my favourite RUclipsr!! ❤️
Oh hell no, having someone I don’t know pull up to my house that I don’t know and unannounced, unacceptable! Whitney I hope you have some type of security! I would not play about that!
“I’m too selfish to have babies right now” way too take the words right out of my mouth😫😅
Whit: “and this one from Jazmine...”
Me: THATS ME. I’M JAZMINE
HI WHIT, ILYSM💙💙💙 I’m so glad the positives outweigh the darker side so much!!!
HI JAZ 🥲🥲🥲❤️
loved hearing more about your past relationships. just shows how much your self worth has evolved and now you have attracted someone that values you for you
One more reason to love Whit 🥳
The internet is deprived of wholesome and real people like you! Thank you for being you Whitney ❤️
I was in a very emotionally abusive relationship too. He broke me to the core, but I'm back. 2.0. Thank you for sharing Whitney, means a lot!
I can relate, but we're stronger now💪
Same! I think it’s hard for people to understand how that kind of thing can shake you to your core and even cause an identity crisis. It’s taken me years to trust my own judgement & figure out who I am again but like you said you end up a better and stronger version of yourself ♥️ you just have to do the work. I love how many times she mentioned being self aware in this video because I really do think that’s so important when recovering from abuse.
Been there, Wendy! We're gonna be okay! Might be rough, but we got this?
@@asana_awakening insane right..? Didn't even know who I was anymore. Really damaging, some people are just so toxic
@@trippysiren7966 Yes we do! Keep it up ❤️
Why are people so obsessed with females having babies. Like it makes people have anxiety if they don't want babies.
When you stop everything you’re doing to watch the video as soon as the notification pops up
I’m glad she opens up about her mental health. As someone who is currently struggling with anxiety and gave a testimony because of it, ever since I started watching her videos a month or two ago, I’ve been thankful that she opens up about her mental health.
I miss the whispering. I literally started doing that because it's like my side thoughts and I felt like it was perfect
When Whitney said she get hate for whispering
Me: *whispers* I got you girl
Whit looks like she would get married one lavendar farm. Absolutely breathtaking and fits her personality
When you were talking about your toxic relationship and mental health and said “omg why am I getting emotional” ...... I FELT THAT. You’re freaking amazing ilysm ❤️
Can we all just take a minute and really appreciate what all Whit goes through to be a RUclips influencer?! I know I’m not alone when I say that I NEVER would have thought that you have gone through people showing up at your house/people calling you too CHUBBY/having your car stolen/etc.! The fact that you are still so open and raw with us on top of the fact that you are still on RUclips giving so many of us inspiration through your platform makes me have even more respect for you! Thank you for all of the inspiration you give me, you’re one of my main inspirations for getting my tail off the couch and going on my own fitness journey. Every time I’m at a low point and feel like giving up, I turn on a Whit video and you just always say the right thing to remind me this is about me and my goals not what everyone else looks like or expects! Love you lots Whit!!
Whitney, I am a 59yr. Old female, I want you to know how proud of you I am young lady, speak your truth ! You are amazing and mental health issues are nothing to be ashamed of. Stand strong girl. Your honesty if refreshing, however you don’t owe anyone any explanation, ABOUT NOTHING !
I see you girl! I felt your light and spirit so strong in this video! You’re going through a shift, I sense it 🙏🏻thank you for being an inspiration! I’m doing it too!
This gave me ~chills~ 😭🙏🏼❤️
Me too❤️
i have such a similar story with being cheated on/begging for them back/depression after breakup, and seeing you in a happy and healthy relationship and how much you're thriving with your life gives me hope and motivation. thank you for being open and honest about tough subjects like these. love you
I love how honest you are about having kiddos. I feel like people think that women always have to want kids. I love that you know you’re not ready yet and that’s what will make you a great mom. Thank you for being you
I totally back you up when you say that you’re too selfish for a child right now. I had a baby at 21 years old and I NEVER got to be selfish and take care of myself. I struggle daily with it now even 5 years later. I’m so happy that you are so smart and aware of what you truly know is right for you.
Don't ever stop dramatically whispering, Whit, cause I am here for itttt and it makes me laugh always
The “That’s suspicious” & “scientific fact I’ve seen it somewhere before “ literally made me cry😂
Just seeing you get teary eyed makes me so emotional you’re my first ever youtuber that I’ve ever watched & will always be my number ☝🏼& you motivate so much to do better and continue with my goals that took so hard to put into order😓😓thank you Whitney for all of your videos and kindness🥺😢❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Happy Whitmas!!
So well said!
Keep an eye on the depression. Always reach out to someone if you feel you're in a bad place. I have an anxiety disorder and so thankful to get support when it's much needed
Mom of 3 beauties! I promise you don’t lose yourself when you have kids! I still have quiet time every morning to myself, do skincare, paint my nails, go to the gym, etc etc. it’s a partnership. So you got a hubby to help. It’s wonderful!
I want a long engagement too. I want to enjoy being ‘engaged’, it sounds so lovely. I want to savor the whole moment and take my time enjoying that. I live in Utah too, and a lot of people get married after being engaged 3 months. Nothing wrong with that! I just think long engagements aren’t the ‘normal’ thing to do here.
Yes 😭😭🙏🏼💙
I can’t stand hearing that people make negative comments on how you look physically because you are GOALS ❤️ Love what you’re doing here on RUclips.
Girl I feel like we’re the same person. When you started talking about metal health and being in a relationship that wasn’t good and falling into depression laying in bed... I have never related so much!
Same!
i love love that your videos don't have cursing because I don't feel tense to watch them wherever I am. THANK YOU THANK YOU!!
I love your personality. Even you’re whispering. your so authentic.
Keep up the great work you’re making a difference so many peoples lives
It blows my mind that people would show up at your house!!! What did they think was gonna happen?? You were gonna invite them in and become BFFs with them? 🥴
For q&a part II, please share - what changed between you and stefan that led you guys to get together after that bad first date? I adore Stefan and I love seeing you two in videos!
LOVE YOU, and how you're so upfront and honest and say words like "vagina" and say you had "depression" instead of just that you went through a "tough period" and I love when you call out us OGs that know about your cute lil ears gal
Your answer about "why you struggle" is beautiful. Someone doesn't have to be in any kind of bad situation to struggle with mental health. What I've learned from loving people with depression, sometimes people feel down and they don't know why. And that sometimes makes it even harder. So no matter what you are (or aren't) going through, your feelings are valid. ❤️
I love you so much Whit. I was also in an emotionally abusive relationship and begged someone to stay who never loved or respected me. It's women like you who inspire us to be strong on our own.
This girl is just so empowering. Whitney, you don’t know how much you’ve impacted me as a person. I was struggling with my mental health for a long time. Because of you I’ve learned that you can’t please everyone and to love myself. After doing so, I have not looked back without caring about others opinions. And hearing this q and a, you’re so honest that it touches the bottom of my heart so you keep doing you and thank you for your content. ❤️
I just want to applaud you for being able to help such a wide range of people, I'm newly 18 and love your videos and hearing you talk about mothers watching you just made me so aware about how amazingly diverse you are.
I fell off from fitness for a couple of years and I haven't watched in awhile. I'm so happy and proud to see you're doing well Whitney!!! Thank you so much for putting out quality and genuine videos and helping me with my fitness journey TWICE. Praying for your continued success! Now I gotta catch go play catch up on your vids lol
Idk why I got so emotional watching this but thank you for being so candid and providing support for women who don’t feel like they have it 🥺💛
I can so imagine you having a barn wedding with lots of lights. Or a venue that has a whimsical vibe. I just hope navy and indi are ring bearers 😂❤️
Ha ha good one 😁🤗
an OG fan here, i knew you meant your ears as soon as you said surgery LOL.
I love your attitude and energy. I feel like I can relate to lots of stuff you talk about in regards to mental health. thank you for sharing your journey with us, and putting yourself out there. You always making my day with your videos because your wonderful personality really shines through. WE LOVE YOU ❤️
I swear like a sailor but still love the heck-in-Bob! Plus, I feel like it’s a very Utah, thing to say. And I can say this because I also live in Utah! Also, I love the whispering, so please do not stop! Love ya Whit!
True 😭😂😂❤️
I have followed your fitness journey on RUclips and Instagram for the past 4 years (pretty much since I started my own fitness journey, you were the catalyst!!) and I just want to say it's been a pleasure watching you grow and be successful and find your happiness. Hearing that you get hate online for the way you look at a specific point in time GRINDS MY GEARS because you look, and have always looked, beautiful - no matter the time of year, amount of exercise you've been doing, amount of makeup or fake tan you have on, you honestly radiate beauty for just being who. you. are. It must be horrible getting (completely unjustified) hate online, but I hope that the not-so-little community you have built around you makes up for any negativity you face on social media. ilysm, tysm for being you xxx
You were so real and authentic in this video! I really enjoyed it! The people who really love you and come to watch you don’t care about you whispering or whatever small thing it is. We’re here for you and love you as you are. You bring so much positivity and joy into my life and I don’t want you to change ANYTHING about what makes you you
GirlL I totally get you with the “selfish” about having kids. I recently got married and everyone it’s waiting for me to have baby’s and I feel like I love my freedom rn to do and eat what I want and to be whoever I want !!!!!
Asking someone when they’re having kids is such a rude and invasive question. Why does that concern people? You don’t know what someone may be going through or what their desires are. Mind your business 😒
so true...not a good question to ask...EVER,,,, maybe they are trying .., maybe they just had a miscarriage..you never know what people are going through... people ask innocently....but it can definitely be a trigger question
AMEN!! As soon as I turned 30 everyone started asking me this. My in laws ask me constantly but never ask my husband. So rude
When you started talking about your toxic and unhealthy relationship I got a little teary because everything you said happened and how you reacted to the cheating and everything, i was picturing myself because that was exactly me too and it happened when I was in college as well but like you said I now understand why it all happened and I wasn’t meant to be with that person! Thanks for spreading love and positivity in your channel! Love you 💞
I would love to see a GRWM w/ a Q&A part two 🤩🤩 Whit!! I’m an OG Whitmas watcher over here and this Q&A has been one of my favorites. You shook me in the best way with this one. I love you so much, nothing but kindness & the best for ya 🤍🤍🤍
hearing that you're introverted made me feel so comforted.. I am the exact same. love you whit!!
I’m so sorry you’ve had people cross boundaries like that. No one deserves to have their privacy breached
Agh this was like hanging out with an old friend! This video content was so good for my mental state. Love you, Whit.
SHE GOT HER WHITMAS 2020 JINGLE YASSSS!! Get it Queen! Thank you for being so open with us makes u feel like the true Internet big sis I see u as 💜💜
Finally figured it out 😂😂🙏🏼
ANOTHER YEAR OF WHITMAS WHAT A BEAUTIFUL DAY TO BE ALIVE!! I remember your first ever Whitmas, loved you then and love you now even more :)
Would could DISLIKE any of her videos?! This girl is so inspirational and genuine! Thank you for being the raw and beautiful person that you are!!!
When you started getting emotional talking about mental health.....girl...I. Was. Not. Ready. Immediate crying with you. Definitely relate to this. Love you so much. Thank you for all of your positivity and honesty ❤️
I love you 🥲
People hated the whispering?! I would catch myself whispering after watching your videos 😂
Who can possibly hate on her😑she’s like perfect. Honestly she’s like my older sister that I’ve never had🥺
@@gsweets ok negative Nancy 🙄🙄🙄
@@gsweets I love how you're being negative when you're the realistic one here :D no one is perfect and it's not healthy to think that anyone is. Idolizing someone like that will affect your mental health sooner or later.