I remember Amara could not deal with trifling Ass men in the beginning of season 1 plus she wanted a mate who was her equal due to her father abandoned her as a little girl now she chose the wrong men hopefully Amara will find a good man not marry Allan.
Emjay has some nerve saying stuff like “As the man of the house” when he didn’t put a dime into that home. Amara did well by dumping him, but then she relapsed by hooking up with his asshole friend :(
Right! I started laughing SO hard when he said that, because the "man" of what house is he exactly? Maybe the DOG HOUSE or something, because that man literally doesn't do anything! What is he talking about? lmao
These types of guys are the scariest cause they will leech off of you emotionally, financially, physically, mentally with NO LIMITS! And then turn around & cheat… Give the world to someone else once they are stable and on their feet 🤦🏽♀️
@@QueenSugar72 please he cheated and then got back with the woman he cheated with once he made it big!!! That movie tried to make that situation look right but we know how real life work
@@gemgrateful he cheated when they were TEENAGERS before they got married. She listened to her bitter, unhappy sisters then went running back to him after he made it big. He only got with ole girl after his wife left him listening to her dumb sisters
@@hannahbarbarian6786 how if he dropped everything to help her with her career 🤔🤔🤔 there are women begging for a man to drop everything and focus on them and the moment he does she says he’s not paying bills…but in the same breath say “I’m rocking with him with out without money” 🤔 she was looking for a way out and wasn’t woman enough to break it off PERIOD
Him coming into the kitchen in only a towel around her mom was distasteful and disrespectful af that woulda had me thinking my dude don’t respect me or my mama sheesh 😅
@@emmonybrown582but she does and it’s a respect thing people with home training get that and u on national tv have some respect for ur self if not her mama 😅
I feel Amara. I PERSONALLY could never see myself dating a man that doesn't work, or doesn't know how to financially support themselves. You're TOO grown for that. Either we break up, or you go out and find yourself a cute little job at McDonalds to help pay bills. I'm not your mom, I'm not your dad, and I'm definitely not the one. You're not gonna live in my house while doing nothing and being a professional bum. I refuse.
Shay done made a career out of looking stupid for a man on TV. Now her brother is making a career out of looking stupid for a woman that DONT want him. They need a talent STAT.
Shay put scrappy on and scrappy put Erica, momma dee, and yung joc..... Shay became irrelevant after THEY TOOK OVER the Spot Light Shay Had..... Scrappy pushed her out of the game and she's been lingering around barely even noticeable anymore
Emjay thought he had a meal ticket that’s why he was trying to knock her up to trap her. Her current baby daddy ain’t shit either but at least he’s paying for the babies😂
Money isn’t everything n that’s y women keep ending up as single parents whether they’re married or not cause the live n respect emjay had Allan does not
@@chiefingmagician3108 if Emjay respected or loved Amara he would have got his life together stopped leeching of her, get a job in order to get married & have kids.
I dunno…I feel like he was genuinely in love with her *and* using her for a come-up. The two aren’t mutually exclusive. I think he figured he’d kill 2 birds with one stone 🤷🏾♂️
@@WestIndianAK Yea I think he liked her as well but I’m not being rude what did she have for him to use her? She isn’t a star & she still live with her mommy you think he needed a place to lay his head?🤣🤣🤣🤣
He actually loved her yes he has leech ways but tbh he actually love her tbh Leo’s don’t lie about they feelings ! & now look she with someone who don’t care for her at alll !
There’s no way that I would’ve guessed her role on LHH would turn into this. She was so empowering in the beginning and now all we’re seeing is a series of dumb decisions.
Bottom line is, Amara did not owe Emjay ANYTHING after they broke up. He’s taking it personal bc he wasnt the one who she chose in the end. He wasnt on her level at all and was using her. Allen wouldnt have been my choice in a father for my kids but Emjay wasnt the lesser of two evils not even a little bit
Amara’s friend hugging Emjay when he walked in is so me 🤣 no matter how I feel, imma act neutral just in case you take him back and I have to see him again
Ugh Amara's complexion/skin... She looks like a goddess. She really could have almost any man, high quality men. I wish her dating standards weren't so low.
@@marriejames01 That makes so much sense. I think because of how beautiful she is I literally forgot how much colourism scarred her smh. I hope she can heal from all of that so she can start being involved with decent men and unfortunately there's almost NO decent guys in LHH franchise or in that world, so it's better to date outside of it.
First thing, Emjay was NEVER the man of the house. He never contributed to any household finances or even helped her career. And the second thing, AS A MAN, even if people are sending you to shit about your ex, DONT FEED INTO IT. It’s giving stalker.
He know he watching her through a pseudo account talking about people be sending him insight about her life! FOH Emjay!!! I hope Amara never goes back to this parasite!!!!
this man really said “we want to have kids and get married and before that happens amara needs to be in a specific place in her life” SIRRRR WHAT ABOUT YOUUUU LMAOOOOOO OMG NOWAY😂😂 When you google gif of man blinking, I stg my face was the very first one 😂😅 the sheeer audacity of this man😂
@@billiechung we know what Emjay meant, we are saying as a man how are you more interested in your woman's career succeeding yet you not interested in your own. You going so hard for her but you don't have a home heck anything of your own, that's just been a bum.
Your man stepping in to talk your business FOR you is how Women in Entertainment get used and turned into puppets. Don’t let a man convince you to walk away from your business just because he is a man.
What the “f” is wrong with Emjay? If she cheated on you or not, move on! She just had two kids by this man, it’s over. Go find another woman. This is ridiculous!
She broke up with him and moved on...period. Emjay a narcissistic cheating leech bum who became angry that he lost his meal ticket and chance to fame.... hes holding on to amara for dear life
It's pathetic.... he's literally mad because he role his come up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can't stand to look at his face he always "bout to cry" he really isn't man enough
10:06 he's not a good actor and its cringe .... "I'm human" next breathe "I didn't say you don't support me i didn't say you don't support me" WTF His facial expression is unbearably fake Yea hes one of Shays Brothers.
She should never dated this man. Really one of the worse mistakes she ever made . Baby girl don’t ever take care of a man that never took care of you first. Her momma is right you don’t come in the kitchen with just a towel on, no one should have to tell you to take out the garbage.
Emjay might be too much and need to let it go but Amara played herself by sleeping with Alan and getting pregnant. That man doesn't want her and they are not getting married. 😂
How Emjay going to call himself the "man of the house" when he doesn't financially contribute towards the household ???? He has a delusions of grandeur & self inflated ego, he should be embarrassed of himself. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
He did an interview with Tasha K, you should watch it. I still can’t believe that people don’t understand the concept of SCRIPTED reality Tv shows😂🤦🏾♀️
@@isaidwhatisaidsis I don't watch anything from Tasha K there's too much dishonesty with her. I do understand scripted TV however the point I made was what he said makes no sense. 🤦♀️
As we all know Ladies... You have to be very careful about those rebounds and you always always need that time in between relationships to get right mentally physically etc... it took me awhile to learn but those are a must to keep in mind to my younger ladies! Or else you end up like Amara! 😂❤❤❤
It always seemed he was in love with her to me. He just hurt, embarrassed & jealous. She left him for his friend and got pregnant with twins who are not his kids. He said he wanted to be with her and start a family with her. He is hurt.
23:40 Even the people who know Emjay know he's a Broke Cheating Scumbag 23:46 Emjay so pissed his meal ticket went ✌ He makes up stories to make Amara seem like a wh*re after he's the Cheater Broke Sad excuse of a "man" leeching off of her and pissed he escaped from his grip PATHETIC
I felt this scene to the pit of my soul. “ You were the perfect gentleman.” Those who know …. Know. After seeing him and his family ( Shay ) on Iyanla it explains why he is the way he is. Ladies , please vet these men … ask about their childhood/trauma and yes talk to the Exes.
The difference is Emjay doesn't want to actually work, everyone seems to be missing this point 🤦♀️ he's in his late 40s & still hustling come on now that's ridiculous. Nobody wants to have kids with a man who refuses to better himself.
I think he would love his twin daughters Exponentially More if they were twin Sons Amara is Gorgeous but unfortunately even Beautiful Black women have the curse of Solitude and to be Unwanted for a Real Loving and Committed relationship..... My is pathetically cringe and a horribly fake actor.
@@youmaydisagreebut848 Its more that the men she choose coud not be/ love her the same way, she love them. And most of time black men cannot love and support women in the way a real man will do, they makes baby on the left or the right, enjoy life like teenagers. Its only when they need something : sex, money, a roof on their head, a car.... Most are broken in the inside and cannot handle a relationship properly.
Emjay Definitely play himself I understand how he feels but at the end of the day she choose homeboy over him Amara is going to be another baby's mother And that guy is not going to marry her it's not going to happen.
Emjay tries to make a statement with those stupid hats he wears looking like Tommy sotomayor had a baby with shay... Hes mad that his meal ticket and got ripped to shreads by his bum cheating and leech self
Emjay was lowkey trying to also leech into being her manager 😅😂 oh gawd I hate such small boys I had my cousin move in her man into the house we lived in and pay no damn bills and she would also be calling him the man of the house 😂😂 I caaaantttt
Shay is such a hypocrite. She has never dated someone like her brother, nor would she. She enjoys being a trophy woman, and finally, she got knocked up and can't even disclose who the baby daddy is.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 EXACTLY!!!! And STILL trying to use this woman and her name for a come up!! Like regardless of who she slept with, bro it's been some years and she clearly has moved on. He should follow suit. But she's his ticket to TV access.
I don’t think people realize how quickly things can turn left with Amara, they take her kind heart for granted. Shay is messy and unhappy with her life and she’s trying to put her brother on. Amara stop fooling with these bums before you lose everything you worked so hard for!
Regardless of people thinking Emjay is a bum Amara is dead ass wrong and so is Alan. That's why she's getting her karma. Thought she was getting with a man with some money and gets treated worse than the man with no money.
I agree with you 100% and that's what people don't see! Emjay did too much in the relationship with Amara, but Amara was wrong with messing with the family friend, that's crossing the line!
I definitely don't think Amara was that vain that she wanted money from Emjay. I feel like she wanted security and for him to help her when she needed it
Amara owed Emjay no loyalty, once you are done you are done, Never let your boyfriend keep you from your husband. I am proud of her, many people, including Shay understanding how her brother operates with women, How could you be mad about a woman you never intended to take seriously moved on with her life.
He was standing up for himself. He knew if she looked bad, then he looked bad. Emjay had every right to feel the way he did. Even if he is trash, Amat should not have moved on with his friend. They could have at least been adult enough to tell him.
I think he really loved her , I bet that new dude she got with his ugly self wouldn’t cry on camera to the world ijs She just got a taste of money and bounced , he’s hurt 😢
Amara didn’t have to sit & listen to an ex from a decade ago as an excuse to leave 💀 that was super whack BUT I understand wanting better for yourself. He seems like a good guy that could use guidance. To each their own. Amara just loves being a victim & sleeping with his “homeboy” was wild
Facts. That’s what I’m saying. Come on, she is not innocent at all. She really broke up with him because of his friend. She would still be with Emjay if it wasn’t for Allen, the deadbeat.
Mj was looking out for mj and he was so disrespectful he really did not care about either of their feelings he thought he had it made. I am so glad she dumped his sorry broke butt.P e r i o d
Emjay wears those stupid hats which make him look ugly than he already is.. Hes Not easy on the eyes but Amara is Drop Dead GORGEOUS 😍 Emjay is clinging onto amara for dear life to stay on Tv.... hes angry he couldn't trap/ impregnate her and permanently keep his meal ticket
Everybody dogging Mjay but completely looking over the fact she slept with someone he considered a friend and introduced them for fuck sake plus Allen didn't really want Amara or them damn babies and he made that clear multiple times he was her karma period🤷♀️
@Lexisgood1 she slept with the homie! Not cool… someone he introduced her too…I don’t understand why people don’t see this lol it’s a million guys in Miami and you chose your ex boyfriend homie…
@@lakedathomas5077 exactly but this comment thread dogging MJ like he so bad but this bihh knew she was gin smash the homie the minute they were introduced as women we always know who we do or dont wanna give the cat to
@@irenemoloto3993 Because that's weird???? Why cause trouble amongst friends????? That's like her going to his family damn near. It's weird and honestly pretty gross single or not. That's basically saying without saying you don't give a fuck about their friendships going on, and you yourself don't have a lick of integrity to consider it.
@@irenemoloto3993 but she admitted on the show that she was still sleeping with M jay off and on at the time she started fooling with Allen knowing how he felt about her everytime they slept together he probably thought there was still a chance and yes men do it all the time that doesn't make it ok or am i just too grown to understand where u coming from🤔
Yes Emjay doesn’t make a lot of money but u can’t say he didn’t genuinely loved her . Together or not he would have been at that baby shower . Amara mom still follows Emjay on ig till this day . I watched Amara Yt channel vlogs and most of the videos on her channel ft Mj. He loved fr but she let ppl get in her ear about it because Alan doesn’t gaf her and will not marry her . There was a blog where Mj talked about kids Amara . Just for her to turn around and give it to her brother close friend
Y'all are smoking crack. Nobody wants to be with a bum, whether he shows up for a baby shower or not. Of course he would though, being as he doesn't have a job or anywhere else to go to.
Amara. You are too good for ANY of these men, baby. Every time I see when she confronts MJ and they split I get so sad for her. Most of the time on these shows the girls are done up and looking fly af even if they're arguing or in a hard situation but you can just tell and feel her pain is 100% true not only from her emotions but from her makeup. Wing smeared, wig a little tussled up, she even rips off her lash from crying so much and just doesn't care what she looks like. I just want to hug her 😞
I actually liked Amara and Emjay together. I think he really loved her and still does. Money isnt everything. Emjay and Shay aren't from a wealthy family like other cast members. He's on the show. He clearly gets a paycheck. He's not a bum. Amara is absolutely stunning. But she's been kind of dumb lately 🤷🏻♀️. She got pregnant by her ex's friend and now is caught up with Safaree. Its disappointing. I think Emjay was a good match for her.
MJ is emotionally exhausting and seems like the type that would say if I can't have you nobody else can which is kinda scary. Shay makes excuses for his emotional ass and never holds h accountable
Amara Emjay was good for you... You wanted to encourage him to be a house boyfriend. You should've been encouraging your man to get on his feet and get a place. Atleast Emjay would've been in love with you and them babies
A REAL man would automatically try to get on his feet himself, he doesn’t need a woman to tell him what to do. Yes she should support but don’t as a woman financially take care of a man unless he took care of you. He was a leech.
That's why she broke up with him because she was already hooking up with his friend so his friend told her to make a choice so as you can see she chose the friend. That's why she was crying so bad like that and plus he was not trying to find work. Win and lose
Emjay is a good guy! You can’t just dismiss a good man cause he doesn’t make more money than you. I’m praying next time he doesn’t choose a woman that’s so shallow
He barely made anything. She paid all the bills, bought the house, took care of everyone in the home. That is draining. She was his momma not his partner.
Even a "good guy" has to make something. She's already taking care of her mom. She can't afford another person adding to the household expenses while not bringing in any consistent revenue.
Shay takes care of men, so for her it's cool. That's why Scrappy used her then humiliated her. That's why they both are still single and Shay can't even show her baby daddy
@@tikaroxanne7286 I agree 💯. There's nothing wrong with been there for your man when he's going through a bad patch but he needs to put in the effort to be financially stable again. If Emjay was leeching of his ex GF a decade ago & he's doing the same thing now that says he doesn't want to improve.
Emjay is a Broke man who'd treat you like Garbage He cheated multiple times with multiple people and he's flat out broke..... The job he had was .... nothing ... he had no job. When emjay saids"Alan can't give her what I gave her" ..... he gave nothing but headaches ,liability and risk for STDs I hope Alan dont give her what emjay gave her
I disagree completely, there's NOTHING wrong with supporting a man who's going through a financially difficult time but it can't be a perpetual situation & I refuse to be with a man in his 40's that's still hustling & was in the same position with another woman over a decade ago & still hasn't bettered his life. Refusing to get 9-5 job so he can at least contribute, but he wants to be Amara's manager & have more control over her. If you want a family firstly you should at least marry the woman you love then have kids & be financially stable you don't have to be rich but at least have some pride.
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Amara can do SO much better than any of these men that she’s entertaining.
💯💯💯
Emjay looks like if Tommy sotomayor and Shay had a baby
I remember Amara could not deal with trifling Ass men in the beginning of season 1 plus she wanted a mate who was her equal due to her father abandoned her as a little girl now she chose the wrong men hopefully Amara will find a good man not marry Allan.
I totally agree💯,but looks like she likes trash men🤔🤭
@@toyahill4151 wrong with Allan .. I don’t watch the show
Emjay has some nerve saying stuff like “As the man of the house” when he didn’t put a dime into that home. Amara did well by dumping him, but then she relapsed by hooking up with his asshole friend :(
Lol his asshole friend. Yeah you got that right. Allen isn't any better than Emjay. And that's what makes it sadder.
They weren’t friends 😂 just like Emjay was the man of Amara house🙄 he and old boy are friends 😆 but I think she ran to the highest bidder
🤣🤣🫣 not the relapse part lol
Right! I started laughing SO hard when he said that, because the "man" of what house is he exactly? Maybe the DOG HOUSE or something, because that man literally doesn't do anything! What is he talking about? lmao
@@fearthefee yeah because she wasn't going to be ate out by the president of the eatabooty gang either! 😂😂
These types of guys are the scariest cause they will leech off of you emotionally, financially, physically, mentally with NO LIMITS! And then turn around & cheat… Give the world to someone else once they are stable and on their feet 🤦🏽♀️
Like that Tyler Perry movie - Acrimony. With Taraji.P. Henson.
@@Krispy_centaur but dude in that movie was really working towards something
@@QueenSugar72 please he cheated and then got back with the woman he cheated with once he made it big!!! That movie tried to make that situation look right but we know how real life work
@@gemgrateful he cheated when they were TEENAGERS before they got married. She listened to her bitter, unhappy sisters then went running back to him after he made it big. He only got with ole girl after his wife left him listening to her dumb sisters
These women are scary AF for allowing it to happen TF
The fact that Shay said “Amara looking for a way out” just shows how she knows her brother is a bum and is mad Amara woke up😂😂😂
😭🤣
I mean she said she rocked with him with or without money but dumps him cause he didn't don't make sense she just wanted out
@@mzprofessional250 *sense
@@mzprofessional250 bc he didn't have ambition & basically wanted to stay broke that's a no go no one wants a man without ambition
@@hannahbarbarian6786 how if he dropped everything to help her with her career 🤔🤔🤔 there are women begging for a man to drop everything and focus on them and the moment he does she says he’s not paying bills…but in the same breath say “I’m rocking with him with out without money” 🤔 she was looking for a way out and wasn’t woman enough to break it off PERIOD
Him coming into the kitchen in only a towel around her mom was distasteful and disrespectful af that woulda had me thinking my dude don’t respect me or my mama sheesh 😅
Exactly I bet he never did that in front of his mother
Yeah if mama didn’t live there. That would be nothing wrong.
@@emmonybrown582but she does and it’s a respect thing people with home training get that and u on national tv have some respect for ur self if not her mama 😅
@@kikid4296he was trying to get some major screen time 😂
@@kickrocks333 it aint the srs
I feel Amara. I PERSONALLY could never see myself dating a man that doesn't work, or doesn't know how to financially support themselves. You're TOO grown for that. Either we break up, or you go out and find yourself a cute little job at McDonalds to help pay bills. I'm not your mom, I'm not your dad, and I'm definitely not the one. You're not gonna live in my house while doing nothing and being a professional bum. I refuse.
Exactly
Lmfaooo professional bum
I totally agree with you on that FRFRFR 💯🎯
Shay done made a career out of looking stupid for a man on TV. Now her brother is making a career out of looking stupid for a woman that DONT want him. They need a talent STAT.
At least Shay has made a career out of it.
Shay but scrappy on … so how ?
Shay put scrappy on and scrappy put Erica, momma dee, and yung joc..... Shay became irrelevant after THEY TOOK OVER the Spot Light Shay Had..... Scrappy pushed her out of the game and she's been lingering around barely even noticeable anymore
Emjay is very talented
@@SaBaby93 He is...At skimming and scamming🤣
Emjay thought he had a meal ticket that’s why he was trying to knock her up to trap her. Her current baby daddy ain’t shit either but at least he’s paying for the babies😂
Emjay became pissed when the other dude actually succeeded in knocking her up like he tried to do.... pissed his meal ticket went ✌
THAT part!🎯
Maybe he would’ve been a good househusband
Money isn’t everything n that’s y women keep ending up as single parents whether they’re married or not cause the live n respect emjay had Allan does not
@@chiefingmagician3108 if Emjay respected or loved Amara he would have got his life together stopped leeching of her, get a job in order to get married & have kids.
amaras and emjays break up was such a movie break up
This is just sad. Emjay was using her for a come up and she's with someone who really don't give a fuck about her 🤷🏾♀️
Truth 💯💯💯
I dunno…I feel like he was genuinely in love with her *and* using her for a come-up. The two aren’t mutually exclusive. I think he figured he’d kill 2 birds with one stone 🤷🏾♂️
And he’s still trying to use her for a come up with this stuff he pulling now
@@WestIndianAK Yea I think he liked her as well but I’m not being rude what did she have for him to use her? She isn’t a star & she still live with her mommy you think he needed a place to lay his head?🤣🤣🤣🤣
He actually loved her yes he has leech ways but tbh he actually love her tbh Leo’s don’t lie about they feelings ! & now look she with someone who don’t care for her at alll !
Just cause Shay likes to financially support dusty men that still embarrass her doesn't mean Amara has to
Exactly
There’s no way that I would’ve guessed her role on LHH would turn into this. She was so empowering in the beginning and now all we’re seeing is a series of dumb decisions.
Not to be a negative Nancy, but I saw this coming. She seemed like they type that loved the attention and she really isn’t focused on her career.
@@aneshaelizabeth it’s sad but you’re right.
It’s so embrassing.
Humans make mistakes. She’ll figure it out.
She needs a storyline, it's sad 😔
Bottom line is, Amara did not owe Emjay ANYTHING after they broke up. He’s taking it personal bc he wasnt the one who she chose in the end. He wasnt on her level at all and was using her. Allen wouldnt have been my choice in a father for my kids but Emjay wasnt the lesser of two evils not even a little bit
They’re both bums. MJ SHOWS UP the other dude don’t even show up. Yeah great choice, 😂😂
She shouldn’t have fucked someone her man introduced her to
He is mad because Allen was his friend and he introduced her to him !!!
Facts 💯
@@randomname7574 so?
Amara’s friend hugging Emjay when he walked in is so me 🤣 no matter how I feel, imma act neutral just in case you take him back and I have to see him again
Kml. Same
YESSSSS
Lol me too except no hugging for me
lmfaooo please
That’s how I am 😂😂😂😂😂
Ugh Amara's complexion/skin... She looks like a goddess. She really could have almost any man, high quality men. I wish her dating standards weren't so low.
Outer beauty doesn't equate to character
Dealing with colorism in the Latin community probably gave her low self esteem.
@@marriejames01 That makes so much sense. I think because of how beautiful she is I literally forgot how much colourism scarred her smh. I hope she can heal from all of that so she can start being involved with decent men and unfortunately there's almost NO decent guys in LHH franchise or in that world, so it's better to date outside of it.
Amara has an out of this world beauty! I just love her ❤
Yes she's amazingly beautiful
Absolutely, she is so gorgeous but doesn't know her worth!
Omg yes. She had the most beautiful chocolate skin I’ve ever seen! she’s so exotic looking
but is she righteous....yall stuck on beauty. thats deceiving
@@soundsfromYYBYcan you define righteous for me please. Sorry I’m late with reply.
He definitely one of those that fall in love after two days for a place to live 😊
Survival mode 😂😂
That is what one would call a Hobosapien
@@TheCutiepie2004 OMG i just died laughing at this comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hobosexual
😂😂😂😂
Shay just let your brother stay with you. Problem solved...
Lmmfao
Seems like she don't want him there either
🤭😂🤣😭
Shay said herself Amara is looking for a way out so she was trying to put her brother on.
First thing, Emjay was NEVER the man of the house. He never contributed to any household finances or even helped her career. And the second thing, AS A MAN, even if people are sending you to shit about your ex, DONT FEED INTO IT. It’s giving stalker.
Typical black man
I was thinking about this also
He know he watching her through a pseudo account talking about people be sending him insight about her life! FOH Emjay!!! I hope Amara never goes back to this parasite!!!!
She should not have allowed him to move in with her. 🚩
Facts!!
After 3/4 months of talking 😑
“Alright cool! Tight work” 😭😭😭 this is like a telenova
What does tight work mean?
Down south slang baby…depends on what way you using it
But mostly it a way to say I like the outcome
I said the same 😂😂😂
"She was right. You're the perfect gentleman." STRAIGHT OUT OF A NOVELA.
this man really said “we want to have kids and get married and before that happens amara needs to be in a specific place in her life” SIRRRR WHAT ABOUT YOUUUU LMAOOOOOO OMG NOWAY😂😂
When you google gif of man blinking, I stg my face was the very first one 😂😅 the sheeer audacity of this man😂
Exactly.... Everything out of his mouth is garbage.
He meant that she wouldn’t consider marriage and kids until she was in a certain place with her career
@@billiechung we know what Emjay meant, we are saying as a man how are you more interested in your woman's career succeeding yet you not interested in your own. You going so hard for her but you don't have a home heck anything of your own, that's just been a bum.
MJ said that straight up and was surprised that Amara dumped him like he didn’t reveal the whole plan. He’s a gold digger 😂
Now that was wild, but she still could have come correct and let him know that she did move on to the friend. They just did it behind his back.
Emjay: ".....as the man of the house..."
a man living in his girlfriend's house
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😂😂😂😂😂
Shay knows her brother is a bum 🙄 she was just mad her brother fumbled the bag (aka) Amara for him and her 😮
Ahahaha a
Every time I see Amara’s house I think 80s drug dealer
I think of a tacky grandma, not modern, simple elegance.
Lmaoooo I thought the same thing
It gives me Scarface and Carlitos Way vibes.
@TeneABuckner I rather have your view of tacky grandma Mansion instead of a 2 bedroom townhouse
“As the man of the house” sir doesn’t she pay all the bills???
Girl they always think they're the man of the house even when them mfs don't even live in YOUR HOUSE!!!!!! it's an ego boosting thing. 🤣
🪦 lol
He is laying the pipe!
If a man lives with you he gotta put Half the bills no free sht
Nobody can’t ever live for free under u In you’re house or any where !
🚫 is free in this 🌎 everything is 💰 food 🙏🥝 🥘🧆 cost 💰🤑
Your man stepping in to talk your business FOR you is how Women in Entertainment get used and turned into puppets. Don’t let a man convince you to walk away from your business just because he is a man.
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What the “f” is wrong with Emjay? If she cheated on you or not, move on! She just had two kids by this man, it’s over. Go find another woman. This is ridiculous!
She broke up with him and moved on...period.
Emjay a narcissistic cheating leech bum who became angry that he lost his meal ticket and chance to fame.... hes holding on to amara for dear life
It's pathetic.... he's literally mad because he role his come up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can't stand to look at his face he always "bout to cry" he really isn't man enough
Stole
Emjay is not important and he tries so pathetically hard to become relevant
Yes!!! It's like it went from my brain to yours!!!
Is that shay real brother ????
10:06 he's not a good actor and its cringe ....
"I'm human" next breathe "I didn't say you don't support me i didn't say you don't support me"
WTF His facial expression is unbearably fake
Yea hes one of Shays Brothers.
@@toosweet1327 Yes & she has another brother they all look alike
Men like emjay are very scary, because they are emotionally manipulative!
There’s no problem dating a man without money, but there’s a big problem in a man with no ambition.
Amara could do so much better
Yes! I hate when us women do not see our own worth! It comes from childhood her father wasn't there or the greatest man if all starts at home!
Too bad she didn’t lol
She should never dated this man. Really one of the worse mistakes she ever made . Baby girl don’t ever take care of a man that never took care of you first. Her momma is right you don’t come in the kitchen with just a towel on, no one should have to tell you to take out the garbage.
Delivery may be questionable but her mom is always looking out for her. She pointed out these men were trash light years before Amara could see it.
we all know he was using her for a come up.
No he wasn't, he's just the typical don't want to work, but willing to live off of other women
@@rihannahaiti5570 Yeah sooo using her for a come up then 😂
@@rihannahaiti5570 he's a typical black man, let's be real
@@rihannahaiti5570 it's still using her tho making her do all the work pay all the bills and not cleaning the house it's still call USING her.
@@agentminajatrois7840 riiighht 🤣btw do u have an IG?
Amada is just drop dead gorgeous.
Yes she is
She looks like a goddess. 😩😻
You know what they say… no one falls in love faster than a dude needing a place to stay 😂😂😂 fr Emjays a buuuuummmm
Emjay might be too much and need to let it go but Amara played herself by sleeping with Alan and getting pregnant. That man doesn't want her and they are not getting married. 😂
Facts
I agree with this. The fact that he didnt even go to the babyshower is a crimson red flag. I wouldnt have claimed him after that
Lol did you have to say they are not getting married 😂😂😂
REAL
At least she got beautiful kids out of it
shay was dead wrong from coming at amara abt HER Relationship. Girl you been knowing your brother was sorry 😂😂
AMARA AND HER MOM ARE SOO BEAUTIFUL.I PRAY FOR ONLY THE BEST FOR HER N THEM BABIES.THE FAM
When she said go return your rental I died 😂😂😂😂
Was looking for this comment 😂
😂😂😂
When he started crying in the spa I wanted to slap him 😅😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Me too. He's crying cause his free loading ass lost his rent free home, meal ticket & storyline.
@@amritasavishay2140absolutely 😂 I’m glad she didn’t cave in
She should’ve known he was a red flag when she saw him put on sneakers with no socks 😂😂 2:20
😂😂😂😂 bruh
Lmao 🤣🤣🤣
Embjay is starting look thirsty and stupid and is sad because he’s handsome and has a lot of potential.
Emjay Just like Shay
He's handsome & has "potential" You have him then 😏
How Emjay going to call himself the "man of the house" when he doesn't financially contribute towards the household ???? He has a delusions of grandeur & self inflated ego, he should be embarrassed of himself. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
lmfaoooo right he got some nerve
He did an interview with Tasha K, you should watch it. I still can’t believe that people don’t understand the concept of SCRIPTED reality Tv shows😂🤦🏾♀️
M0o0mm
@@isaidwhatisaidsis I don't watch anything from Tasha K there's too much dishonesty with her. I do understand scripted TV however the point I made was what he said makes no sense. 🤦♀️
@@kesh7711 I know. Be yall think he’s just some broke bum with no job and this ain’t that but ok 😂😂😂
As we all know Ladies... You have to be very careful about those rebounds and you always always need that time in between relationships to get right mentally physically etc... it took me awhile to learn but those are a must to keep in mind to my younger ladies! Or else you end up like Amara! 😂❤❤❤
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Listen if someone has red flags and they're showing the same red flags that an ex told you in detail that's the same its time to leave... period.
The Leprechaun hats are pissing me off lol
😂😂 is the 🤠 supposed be 💚 hahaha because they stole his 🪙 😂
@@mayovanexrodriguez6753😂😂😂😂
It always seemed he was in love with her to me. He just hurt, embarrassed & jealous. She left him for his friend and got pregnant with twins who are not his kids. He said he wanted to be with her and start a family with her. He is hurt.
Yes I agree
He should be
Exactly- that’s not thirsty that’s hurt 😢
Emjay and his sister need help. They do bad when they are rejected…
7:00 Was the best scene in LHHMIA History it felt like I was watching a soap opera😥Emjay is such a Narcissist.
23:40 Even the people who know Emjay know he's a Broke Cheating Scumbag
23:46 Emjay so pissed his meal ticket went ✌ He makes up stories to make Amara seem like a wh*re after he's the Cheater Broke Sad excuse of a "man" leeching off of her and pissed he escaped from his grip
PATHETIC
I felt this scene to the pit of my soul. “ You were the perfect gentleman.” Those who know …. Know. After seeing him and his family ( Shay ) on Iyanla it explains why he is the way he is. Ladies , please vet these men … ask about their childhood/trauma and yes talk to the Exes.
Sorry, but Alan isn’t any better than Emjay lol … She just wanted her a man who makes the same amount of money as her!😊
@Benita Rodriguez That’s still not a flex though, because he’s not physically around.
@@aneshaelizabeth just saying!
@@aneshaelizabeth right!!! SMDH 🤦🏾♀️🥴🥴🥴🥴
Dude live in DR if he converts his money to the US dude will be broke too
The difference is Emjay doesn't want to actually work, everyone seems to be missing this point 🤦♀️ he's in his late 40s & still hustling come on now that's ridiculous. Nobody wants to have kids with a man who refuses to better himself.
The fact that Allen seems more passionate about seeing MJ in the streets then his own 2 infant daughters and Amara is the part for meeee!
I think he would love his twin daughters Exponentially More if they were twin Sons
Amara is Gorgeous but unfortunately even Beautiful Black women have the curse of Solitude and to be Unwanted for a Real Loving and Committed relationship.....
My is pathetically cringe and a horribly fake actor.
@@youmaydisagreebut848 Its more that the men she choose coud not be/ love her the same way, she love them. And most of time black men cannot love and support women in the way a real man will do, they makes baby on the left or the right, enjoy life like teenagers. Its only when they need something : sex, money, a roof on their head, a car.... Most are broken in the inside and cannot handle a relationship properly.
@@youmaydisagreebut848 Are you saying that all black women are undesirable?
Emjay Definitely play himself I understand how he feels but at the end of the day she choose homeboy over him Amara is going to be another baby's mother And that guy is not going to marry her it's not going to happen.
Sometimes you just have to love a person from a far.
I really feel like Shay go hard for the wrong ish. Bc now she mad with her brother at getting into it with Jules.
shay was trying to support emjay pimping amara i guess it runs in the family
Emjay tries to make a statement with those stupid hats he wears looking like Tommy sotomayor had a baby with shay...
Hes mad that his meal ticket and got ripped to shreads by his bum cheating and leech self
Damn Amara IS STUNNING 😍
This is sad.. not even entertaining 😢
Chile we all knew he was using her he just mad cause he got caught.
Emjay would've been present for his kid's baby shower if they had a baby though. Just saying. Other than that he's super thirsty.
Yeah cuz he wants that camera time 😅
Not financially…that woulda be double the bill on her part..
Emjay was lowkey trying to also leech into being her manager 😅😂 oh gawd I hate such small boys
I had my cousin move in her man into the house we lived in and pay no damn bills and she would also be calling him the man of the house 😂😂 I caaaantttt
Shay is such a hypocrite. She has never dated someone like her brother, nor would she. She enjoys being a trophy woman, and finally, she got knocked up and can't even disclose who the baby daddy is.
Shay dated bums she’s content with that
She wanted that bum scrappy, but he didn’t want her.
Seasons later, he's still unemployed
🤣🤣🤣🤣 EXACTLY!!!! And STILL trying to use this woman and her name for a come up!! Like regardless of who she slept with, bro it's been some years and she clearly has moved on. He should follow suit. But she's his ticket to TV access.
I don’t think people realize how quickly things can turn left with Amara, they take her kind heart for granted. Shay is messy and unhappy with her life and she’s trying to put her brother on. Amara stop fooling with these bums before you lose everything you worked so hard for!
Lmfao. "Go return your rental" I screamed 🤣🤣🤣
Regardless of people thinking Emjay is a bum Amara is dead ass wrong and so is Alan. That's why she's getting her karma. Thought she was getting with a man with some money and gets treated worse than the man with no money.
Em Jay is a bum
Porsha you are 100% right about that!!!!
Amara didn’t owe Emjay anything. She deserves better than a Bum and Allan
I agree with you 100% and that's what people don't see! Emjay did too much in the relationship with Amara, but Amara was wrong with messing with the family friend, that's crossing the line!
I definitely don't think Amara was that vain that she wanted money from Emjay. I feel like she wanted security and for him to help her when she needed it
Amara is the break up queen. 😂 She dumped Shay and EmJay
"Go return your rental and keep it pushing"😂😂😂
Amara owed Emjay no loyalty, once you are done you are done, Never let your boyfriend keep you from your husband. I am proud of her, many people, including Shay understanding how her brother operates with women, How could you be mad about a woman you never intended to take seriously moved on with her life.
Amara broke the code. She’s dead wrong. If screwed one her friends she wouldn’t have liked it
Exactly if it was the other way around she would go after him ❤
I bet MJ would have shown up for the baby shower.
Deadass
Exactly
Honestly man Emjay and her make an amazing couple frfr and would give the world for the fam. He just have to get himself together
@@brittanyrevels3328 SPOT ON SIS!
@@brittanyrevels3328 be doing plan on doing hiself together he’s a professional broke boyfriend
As a man, I can never ever move in with a woman unless my name is on the paper work too.
I loved that Allen stood up for her
He trash too
And still left her Ass lol 😂
He was standing up for himself. He knew if she looked bad, then he looked bad. Emjay had every right to feel the way he did. Even if he is trash, Amat should not have moved on with his friend. They could have at least been adult enough to tell him.
The breakup music is hilarious and dramatic 😂😂😂
I ❤ Amara & mommy's relationship 😊
I think he really loved her , I bet that new dude she got with his ugly self wouldn’t cry on camera to the world ijs She just got a taste of money and bounced , he’s hurt 😢
I totally agree!! I think we’re the only ones who agree about this too!
@@Lovely_1One that’s all them scorn women talking shit 🤣🤣🤣
Me too
I agree
a woman wants a man who provides. that is a standard
Amara didn’t have to sit & listen to an ex from a decade ago as an excuse to leave 💀 that was super whack BUT I understand wanting better for yourself. He seems like a good guy that could use guidance. To each their own. Amara just loves being a victim & sleeping with his “homeboy” was wild
I agree!!👏🏽👏🏽
Facts. That’s what I’m saying. Come on, she is not innocent at all. She really broke up with him because of his friend. She would still be with Emjay if it wasn’t for Allen, the deadbeat.
Mj was looking out for mj and he was so disrespectful he really did not care about either of their feelings he thought he had it made. I am so glad she dumped his sorry broke butt.P e r i o d
I asked God that if I come back I want Amara’s face and her beautiful complexion that lady just took my breath away, so gorgeous and elegant ❤
Emjay thought he had a meal ticket just like he was doing his ex girlfriend looking for somebody to take care of his ass his sister the same way.
Emjay wears those stupid hats which make him look ugly than he already is..
Hes Not easy on the eyes but Amara is Drop Dead GORGEOUS 😍
Emjay is clinging onto amara for dear life to stay on Tv.... hes angry he couldn't trap/ impregnate her and permanently keep his meal ticket
Everybody dogging Mjay but completely looking over the fact she slept with someone he considered a friend and introduced them for fuck sake plus Allen didn't really want Amara or them damn babies and he made that clear multiple times he was her karma period🤷♀️
@Lexisgood1 she slept with the homie! Not cool… someone he introduced her too…I don’t understand why people don’t see this lol it’s a million guys in Miami and you chose your ex boyfriend homie…
@@lakedathomas5077 exactly but this comment thread dogging MJ like he so bad but this bihh knew she was gin smash the homie the minute they were introduced as women we always know who we do or dont wanna give the cat to
Men do this all the time though and it's overlooked, why should Amara be catching smoke for that, she was single at the time
@@irenemoloto3993 Because that's weird???? Why cause trouble amongst friends????? That's like her going to his family damn near. It's weird and honestly pretty gross single or not. That's basically saying without saying you don't give a fuck about their friendships going on, and you yourself don't have a lick of integrity to consider it.
@@irenemoloto3993 but she admitted on the show that she was still sleeping with M jay off and on at the time she started fooling with Allen knowing how he felt about her everytime they slept together he probably thought there was still a chance and yes men do it all the time that doesn't make it ok or am i just too grown to understand where u coming from🤔
From season 1 to now…. Amara turned out to be such a disappointment. 😔 We all envisioned SO MUCH MORE from her. So beautiful & talented.
How?
Damn y’all are hard on ppl. Life isn’t perfect for everyone.
Why did she turn trick daddy down again?
You can tell the mum liked Emjay she couldn't stand the other guy that knocked her up
He’s literally hanging onto Amara for a storyline
Dude was a stage 5 clinger. Saw his golden goose and wanted to hang on tight. A very feminine spirit he had, emotionally and snappy.
Yes Emjay doesn’t make a lot of money but u can’t say he didn’t genuinely loved her . Together or not he would have been at that baby shower . Amara mom still follows Emjay on ig till this day . I watched Amara Yt channel vlogs and most of the videos on her channel ft Mj. He loved fr but she let ppl get in her ear about it because Alan doesn’t gaf her and will not marry her . There was a blog where Mj talked about kids Amara . Just for her to turn around and give it to her brother close friend
I agree
Y'all are smoking crack. Nobody wants to be with a bum, whether he shows up for a baby shower or not. Of course he would though, being as he doesn't have a job or anywhere else to go to.
Amara. You are too good for ANY of these men, baby. Every time I see when she confronts MJ and they split I get so sad for her. Most of the time on these shows the girls are done up and looking fly af even if they're arguing or in a hard situation but you can just tell and feel her pain is 100% true not only from her emotions but from her makeup. Wing smeared, wig a little tussled up, she even rips off her lash from crying so much and just doesn't care what she looks like. I just want to hug her 😞
Amara is a living telenovela
He is very disrespectful to her mom and she laughs like it’s funny till mom leave🤮
I actually liked Amara and Emjay together. I think he really loved her and still does. Money isnt everything. Emjay and Shay aren't from a wealthy family like other cast members. He's on the show. He clearly gets a paycheck. He's not a bum. Amara is absolutely stunning. But she's been kind of dumb lately 🤷🏻♀️. She got pregnant by her ex's friend and now is caught up with Safaree. Its disappointing. I think Emjay was a good match for her.
I swear her mom is so sweet to her and mean to the men she gets with and I like that soo much like omg she was defensive when it comes to her lil girl
Never date your friend sibling never lol😂 this what happens
MJ is emotionally exhausting and seems like the type that would say if I can't have you nobody else can which is kinda scary. Shay makes excuses for his emotional ass and never holds h accountable
Amara Emjay was good for you... You wanted to encourage him to be a house boyfriend. You should've been encouraging your man to get on his feet and get a place. Atleast Emjay would've been in love with you and them babies
A REAL man would automatically try to get on his feet himself, he doesn’t need a woman to tell him what to do. Yes she should support but don’t as a woman financially take care of a man unless he took care of you. He was a leech.
the only man that can drive me crazy, is the one paying ALL my bills
And you NOOO THISSSSS!!!
never realized how much him and shay look alike
That's why she broke up with him because she was already hooking up with his friend so his friend told her to make a choice so as you can see she chose the friend. That's why she was crying so bad like that and plus he was not trying to find work. Win and lose
Something is really wrong with those two siblings. They really just be out here looking crazy for people who DONT want them.
😂😂😂😂this made me chuckle
Emjay is a good guy! You can’t just dismiss a good man cause he doesn’t make more money than you.
I’m praying next time he doesn’t choose a woman that’s so shallow
He barely made anything. She paid all the bills, bought the house, took care of everyone in the home. That is draining. She was his momma not his partner.
Even a "good guy" has to make something. She's already taking care of her mom. She can't afford another person adding to the household expenses while not bringing in any consistent revenue.
Gem THANK YOU!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 karmas a big one though! Speaks volumes about what kind of woman she is though. 👀 nasty!
Shay takes care of men, so for her it's cool. That's why Scrappy used her then humiliated her. That's why they both are still single and Shay can't even show her baby daddy
Many people who don't have many options will take anything, especially when they aren't the most picked
" we just got real GETTO at a bougie place"
I’d rather be with a broke man who treats me right than a rich man who treats me like garbage
Nope, that never ends well…no broke man should be dating anyway he needs to get himself together first…
@@tikaroxanne7286 I agree 💯. There's nothing wrong with been there for your man when he's going through a bad patch but he needs to put in the effort to be financially stable again. If Emjay was leeching of his ex GF a decade ago & he's doing the same thing now that says he doesn't want to improve.
Emjay is a Broke man who'd treat you like Garbage
He cheated multiple times with multiple people and he's flat out broke.....
The job he had was .... nothing ... he had no job.
When emjay saids"Alan can't give her what I gave her" ..... he gave nothing but headaches ,liability and risk for STDs
I hope Alan dont give her what emjay gave her
I disagree completely, there's NOTHING wrong with supporting a man who's going through a financially difficult time but it can't be a perpetual situation & I refuse to be with a man in his 40's that's still hustling & was in the same position with another woman over a decade ago & still hasn't bettered his life. Refusing to get 9-5 job so he can at least contribute, but he wants to be Amara's manager & have more control over her. If you want a family firstly you should at least marry the woman you love then have kids & be financially stable you don't have to be rich but at least have some pride.
It’s not about being “broke” it’s about being a “bum.”