Our Parenting Rules On Cursing, Clothing, Social Media, and More -
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- Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
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Today's episode is part two of our parenting rules episode we did a few weeks back and Lisa is here!! We are so happy she was able to join us for this episode and that we could film this episode all together! We had Lisa give her take on all the topics in part one and then the 5 of us discussed cursing, clothing, social media, and more! We hope you love this episode as much as the first one! Leave your parenting rules down below.
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With cursing, our rule in my family was always “don’t say it AT or ABOUT someone, but it’s okay to use it to express frustration or emotion”
sounds good, i'd add for comedic effect to that list as well
I say for all three at someone about someone and out of emotions 😂
@@pinkversace187 🤣
yikes
Lisa low key exposing Amy on the cursing topic😂
I was SAd because my parents trusted a “close friend” it ruined my childhood thank you so much for protecting your babies 🥺 it’s so important
oh girl I am sooooooooo sorry!!!! That really sucks
Wow, so sorry about that.
I just have to say, Lisa’s makeup looks flawless.
Amy has such a beautiful, warm, soulful voice.
lisa adds so much to the podcast i’m glad she’s back
Lisa is HILARIOUS. She had me cracking up the entire time!😂
From seeing both videos, my Rating from chillest parent to uptight is
Lisa, Amy, Christina, Lauren and then Katherine 😂
Why are you ranking them? Are you 9 years old? That's one of the things the girls have talked about in the past that has brought on trauma for them. Imagine being rated by strangers constantly FOR YEARS. Cut that shit out.
Shout-out to the girls for holding it down while Lisa (and sometimes others) was absent 👏🏽💛 welcome back, Lisa!
Lisa's back!!!🔥
Maybe she could be in the thumbnail and not in the video? But I’m glad she is coming back in some of the vids
@@alanaashe6992 But she has the new haircut so it can't be from an old video 🤔 Guess we'll just have to see 😄
But have you heard Lisa apparently has been sick and Lauren broke her foot
@@Cimfamlover really?
@@FreeToBeMe5050 yes really
I’m so glad Lisa is back & she looks so stunning especially her hair
Welcome back Lisa!!! ❤ everyone looks so beautiful in this ep! Lisa’s make up and Amy’s whole look is on point!
Lmao omg ‘bench’ and ‘funk’ 😂
It's interesting how conscious you ladies are about kids rebelling if they have rules and boundaries. This is obviously anecdotal but I grew up with many expectations/rules/boundaries. I never desired dangerous rebellion. Not going to parties didn't make me even consider experimenting with drugs/alcohol/promiscuity/whatever the concern is. I wouldn't have even bothered asking about a tattoo.. if I wanted one that badly, surely I would still want it when as an adult myself, I could make the decision of sounder mind. Just something to consider! Having rules doesn't mean your kid is going to go craycray and defy your boundaries. I don't feel I missed out on anything growing up the way my parents raised me. And I don't mean to make it sound like I was soooo sheltered. But I genuinely appreciate that if I made a stupid decision, it was a "safe" stupid decision. Thanks for sharing, Cim sisters!
Guys, you're just amazing :) Thank you for all the work you put in your videos. They're so uplifting :). By the way, I usually watch your videos when my 1-year-old daughter is sleeping. And any time I hear a baby in the video, I prick up my ears and check if it's not my toddler calling me :D. Being a mom, I especially admire you, Katherine, Lisa and Christina for doing all of this having little kids!
Hi Cimorelli Sisters! It's really nice to see that Lisa is back after a very long time taking care of her husband after recovering from the hospital. Today's podcast is going to be really interesting about parenting rules and etc 😅. I hope that all fine and good in whole Cimorelli family and sisters family, Also God bless you all and whole family :)
LISA!!!! You look so beautiful.... Im so glad to see you back!!! ❤
I would love to see your reaction of this video in 10/15 years hahah
Lisaaaaaaaa
Hopefully all 5 are back today
Welcome back Lisa! 😊❤
Loved the first part of this so excited for part 2🎉🎉 and yayy lisas back slay💅
This was so much fun to watch!!! Love it!!
i needed that laugh. thank you, Lisa, you are so naturally hilarious!
My biggest thing is sleepovers... they can have friends over to my house any time... but I won't have her going to anyone else's house to stay the night. Sadly this world is so scary nowadays and not what it used to be when we were kids.
I once got frustrated at my mom when I was little for not letting me go to a sleepover with someone whose parents she didn’t know, but now that I’m older I understand and am grateful for it.
We miss you Lisaaaaaaaa
i can't even lie i was excited to see lisa 😂😂
This might sound strange but I love how you guys don't want to shame your daughters for their clothing choices. I definitely went through that and didn't dress scandalous at all. The craziest thing I wanted to wear was sleeveless dresses(with the thick 'spaghetti strap', if that makes sense)and that was a huge issue. I got shamed for wearing skinny jeans and dresses and skirts that were slightly above the knee. My mom called me a slut for wanting to wear short shorts in the hallway of our apartment complex and I was 22 at the time. 🙃 As soon as I started high school, my parents decided not to trust me without me giving them a reason not to. To them, everything thing I did was to impress guys. I couldn't even smile without it being assumed that it was about a guy.
Always interested to hear their opinions. Will be interesting episode as they all are.
Thank you, girls, for the time and effort that you put into all of this to happen.
♥
Much health to Lauren, so sorry to hear about your foot
The bratz shirt? How iconic
Lisaaa quennn love you
I don't know if this is helpful or not 😂 but I only went to one or two safe and sound sleepovers, and then I realized I didn't like to share my mornings with my friends because it felt a little too personal, so I never went to any more of those, simply because I didn't want to. BUT THEN, every single sleepover I went to was because I was going to a party and I knew I was going to get drunk, and a sleepover was the perfect cover since my parents wouldn't see me drunk. I said it in the last episode and I'll say it again (Lisa said it perfectly, I love her); the more rules you have on your children, the sneakier they'll become. You can try to protect them as much as you want to and restrict them from all this friendships and experiences, but they'll always find a way to find those dangerous experiences some place. It's always better to let them get a taste first and then let them come up with a decision after they've known what the ground is like. Everybody learns from experience. I know, parenting is very hard.
Love amys hair!
Lisa!😍❣💞
I saw Lisa in the thumbnail and SCREAMED🥹 I’ve been waiting for “the cimorelli podcast”
As someone who was never allowed to go to anyone’s house I know it’s for safety or whatever but it also made me feel lonely cause I wanted to hang out with my friends so bad but never could. But I understand it’s a safety thing.
LMFAOOOOOO when Christina yelled out POLICIES!!! I lost it 😂😂
45:45 best take of the retirement video "whatever I say you can say" amen sister 👏
59:24 lol kath I can’t breathe hahahaha 😂😂😂
It's nice to see Lisa back :D
Lisa! Missed your energy on the show! ❤ adrenal cocktail- organic OJ, coconut water, pinch of sea salt
What Laruen said during her low about thinking someone is going to break in is my every night🙃 doesn't matter if I've watched something scary or not....yay anxiety😆
I totally relate to the delusions Lisa described of her kid self.
Love this so much ❤
I've seen parents tell their kids to put away a certain number of things (like 5-10) as a way to practice picking up. It seems to work pretty well since it gives the kid an objective.
I agree with the clothing appropriateness, but it's interesting how the color coordination varies between countries. Like, in China, white is an appropriate color to wear at a funeral, red and gold (yellow) is good luck for a weeding. Very different than western culture of black at a funeral and white at a wedding.
the cimorelli podcast is literally my safe space 🥰
I remember once my family was watching a show and the actor said the f word and my little brother very clearly said that word cause he was just repeating what the dude said.... I found it was so funny 😆
I went to sleepovers all the time as a kid, but with my literal next door neighbor and people we were close with as a family. Either that or I was like 12+ and old enough to defend myself mostly
Everyone's looks amazing. Missed everyone together.
listening to this while being in the psych ward✌🏼 love y'all!!
I'm 64 & I want my life to be celebrated! I want the colours of a garden to send me off!!
And also when y’all brought up the cursing rule when Lauren said “new Yorkers” I immediately said “nah ppl from where I’m from” and when I say people I mean me and my bsf we like to take busses and walk around and istg we just let it fly our filter is 100% non existent I have some what of a filter not a good one but I have one me n her say the most outrageous things and we also say the most vile and aggressive swear words know to man kinds😭💀
that's a good reminder when it comes to modesty and clothing. "you cast a net, you catch all the fish"
Lisa 😅
For cussing, my mom always said if it’s offensive and towards someone. Don’t say it, and that there was words we can say around some people and words we shouldn’t say around others.
Also for tattoos, I always loved meaningful tattoos. Like I will always I want to get the quote “be your own anchor” in the shape of anchor until I make it happen. That quote is from the show teen wolf and it’s always stuck to me. Also like a meaningful tattoo of lyrics that got you through whatever. And as a girl a cute design tattoo like butterfly or a heart.
For social media as well, my mom was okay with me meeting friends online into real life when I was younger{16/17}, as long as she met/talked to the parents first. But I have had a close bad experience at 13, where someone older who had a friend of mine added, had commented on a Facebook photo unconditionally. I instantly blocked and told my friend so nothing happened to her either.
Every doctor, psychiatrist, cop, fbi always say no to sleep overs. And I was one of those kids. We never allow our kid to go anywhere but grandma over night
I was on your guys patreon at one point but then I got fired from my job so I was broke I rlly want to get back on it tho 💯
LISA! I have always done the imagining since childhood too. Recently, my therapist put a term to it. It's called MALADAPTIVE DAYDREAMING. I know you'll relate if you do some research. Your stories sound so similar to mine.
Amy looks extra beautiful this episode! 🫶🏽
56:00 honestly I want to start a commune with my backcountry family and there friends and family on our old supervisors ranch in bishop 😅
Literally all the way to my junior year of hs I would wear the same hoodie 90% of the time. And always wear cargo shorts 🩳 😂
Good luck Lauren and Amy with chores, etc!
Lissss❤❤❤❤❤
Also to mention, with boys, raise them to be respectful toward women. Consider maybe raising them with some morals and kindness toward the girls who may be dressing cute for them. Ya know? Obviously I know you ladies would but in the topic of clothing where Kath said she has boys no girls.
Okay, literally with the sleepover thing-mothers have such good intuition. I had this friend in elementary school, and I really wanted to spend the night for some bday party. I remember like the day before the party, my mom said I wasn't going, and I was upset. She said she had a terrible dream about it, and didn't feel God's peace about me going. Later that year, that friend was sadly molested by neighbors. So just sayin-mamma's know things, and trust your gut.
wait why were Christina and Katherine twins at 56:56
Amazing ❤
Haha I kinda had strict rules on cleaning in my childhood but it def didn’t help at all cause look at me I’m working adult but my room is always a mess. Though my younger sister’s room is always perfectly clean.
My mom was molested with her best friend by the friends dad at a sleepover in highschool, so I'd be the "you can stay at our place" parent. The father ended up ending himself, my mom and her friend still have so much trauma from that. My stepmom is also a probation officer with background check access, so I'll be taking full advantage when it comes time for that. 👀 It's 2023 and society promotes instability and craziness over Righteousness, the diligence it takes just to be decent and modest is a real thing 😒
My opion on kids cussing is it depends on how, what there intention is behind it
So interested in your guys opinions
I think personally it’s okay to curse because as long as it’s not used to get vengeance or hurt anyone that’s why I cuss sometimes I mean what the heck were human
My daughter is 9 nd she hates wearing a coat right now. I tell her shes to cool for coats and she realizes how ridiculous it sounds and shes puts her coat on. Also it helps if u let them pick there own coat out.
Cursing was a huge no for me and my sister growing up. We weren't even allowed to watch anything on TV with even the smallest curse word in it. As an adult, I have no problem with "hearing" it (though I definitely don't want to listen to it all the time), but as for my kids (if I ever have any) cursing would still be a "no." The Bible says to have no profane words coming out of your mouth, so I think it's safe to say it wouldn't be a good habit to start. Plus, words have power. Words have meaning. There are so many different words, better words, you could use that aren't so derogatory or hurtful. ALSO: No kid has the wisdom or the long-term insight to decide if getting a tattoo is smart. They probably won't even be able to make a good judgement on that when they're a legal adult. I'm SO GLAD my parents would not have let me get a tattoo when I was under eighteen if I'd have wanted to. I would have regretted it so much.
Agree with you 100%
neither me or my husband cuss, and I would never be okay with my children cursing.
What is the point of cursing? It makes you sound ignorant.
@@demihenry221 So true!!
Lisa's Jonas Brothers manifestation sent me into orbit 🤣
Amy’s laugh @ 3:20
I have a split house hold. My daughter is 9 and she had a phone. But I got her phone because when she goes to her dads on the weekends I need to know that if anything happens she can call me.
The average age of boys exposed to hardcore abusive porn is 8 YEARS OLD! At family, friends homes. You need to kno who your kids are being around
I think Christina was looking for the word "ideology."
I remember the first time I saw someone in my grade have a cell phone it was fourth grade I was 8ish and it was 2007 and I didn’t get a cell phone, a trac phone mind you til 9th grade it was small the one with numbers and u had to press a few times to get the letters yeah. Very small size of my MP3 player. Little bit skinnier and taller. Anywho didn’t get a smart phone until jr year which I was 15 turning 16 in 2014/15 my older brother bought it for me. So I do believe my child could wait until they r at least a junior in high school to get an actual smart phone. I’ll give a tracphone that doesn’t look ancient when and if they start walking home from school
My rules:
Parties: yes Parties, but no house Parties, especially if there's drinking/smoking/drugs
Sleepovers: never unless they're sleeping at my siblings' houses with they're kids (cousins and grandparents)
Dress: no super short shorts, no sleeveless shirts or dresses, try and cover cleavage
Piercings:
Only one piercing on each ear
Curfew: midnight for teens 16 and up
Eleven for 14-15
Dating: could change, but I'd say no serious partner till 16 and you can start going on dates at 15
Wait, what show was it Lauren?!
37:00 I lock my doors everytime I enter my car always. Even tho I look manly and intimating, I still am a woman and have fears bcuz of that, when it comes to todays social climate
So the cursing for me is a hard no. If it slips out then that fine. But it does say in the Bible that it is wrong in the eyes of the Lord. 🤷🏻♂️ but that’s just me.
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I would don’t want my kids sleeping over any houses or anyone over my houses kids lie and I don’t want anything happen to my kids either but anyone is more than welcome to hang out at my house til 12 at night and come back over at 7am. If they want
It be cool to hear your guy's natal chart 🤞🏼
8:14
There was a lot of over talking of each other in this episode 😭😭😭
7 years old doing laundry??? Seriously?
hi it is me agn so i my brthday is cume so but i till you guy last year i till you whis 18 so i em trn 19 this year old 2023
Hey Lisa idk if u believe in astrology but we r apparently 64% alike 😮😅. My birthday is 11/25/98
Birth time
0624
Bp
Lemoore CA
Ss
123456789 😂
And most my best friends aren’t higher than 37%