The olders ruined my life

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  • Опубликовано: 31 дек 2024

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  • @jonathanmorrison1705
    @jonathanmorrison1705 4 года назад +200

    Hi Bobby, I'm a london prison officer and I try and pass on your experience, lessons and insight to as many of the young men as possible. This one is another lesson that hits the nail on the head. We had a young man that was paid at 16 to chuck acid on someone. He's just been released after 5 years. He got used like so many others. For a lot of the guys I'm honest with them and tell them their views won't change till they hit rock bottom but ask them to try and at least reach out to their yongers and give them a heads up.
    I rate your thing alot, big respect.

    • @mistereuro
      @mistereuro 4 года назад +20

      5 years for chucking acid on Someone😮, no doubt the victim is mentally & physically scarred for life . I hope it wasn't on their face.

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu 4 года назад +4

      God bless you brother 🙏

    • @enki647
      @enki647 4 года назад +4

      Money gets to these kids heads man

    • @jonathanmorrison1705
      @jonathanmorrison1705 4 года назад +2

      @@mistereuro it was actually 10 years but he served 5 and will be on licence for another 5

    • @jonathanmorrison1705
      @jonathanmorrison1705 4 года назад +4

      @@jackbrown9373 I know what you are saying but from what I've seen 20% are good kids who made a mistake. Another 20% are hardend kids who are fully about that life and theres 60% in the middle who could fall either way. Those are the ones I try to spend time on. The 20% of "bad" kids all I can do is try to be consistent and show them that not everyone in the system is waste and show them that some will never give up on them.

  • @wise1889
    @wise1889 4 года назад +57

    The freedom that comes with living a legit life is priceless

  • @AI-tc8fv
    @AI-tc8fv 4 года назад +116

    Ngl the manipulation techniques these olders have is actually commendable. I've experienced it a bit and it's such an endearing feeling when they give you ratings. Worse yet if you ain't got a father figure.

    • @mysteriousshopper1177
      @mysteriousshopper1177 4 года назад +16

      I dont think that's the word you meant my guy. Its definitely not commendable.

    • @icecold4085
      @icecold4085 4 года назад +31

      @@mysteriousshopper1177 it is not commendable In that sense. What he meant was the art of manipulation that they OG's use is commendable because of how cunning and sly it really is. Context brother.

    • @NoeticInsight
      @NoeticInsight 4 года назад +6

      @@icecold4085 That's still not the right word to use, even in that context.

    • @AI-tc8fv
      @AI-tc8fv 4 года назад +5

      @@NoeticInsight yeah I did mean commendable, how that guy explained it ^ the goal and the result aren't exactly commendable but the techniques they use and how they use it are no doubt crazy to watch, they know what makes each boy tick and they play them flawlessly

    • @Seannn94
      @Seannn94 4 года назад +8

      @@AI-tc8fv Exactly.. "This lad has never any P, lives with his younger bro and his mum. No father figure, maybe he needs one. Smokes weed, where's he getting the weed? Ah! I know, I'll give him it for next to nothing. Now he's my younger and now he's due me" - bro, lol You can see it everyday

  • @alexharrison5426
    @alexharrison5426 4 года назад +23

    Honestly you are one of the most interesting/knowledgeable people in this space. The message you are putting out there needs to be heard by a lot more people. Please don’t stop.

  • @smelterganz7523
    @smelterganz7523 3 года назад +1

    This the best video yet!!! Speaking directly to us! Making us think proper!!!

  • @BackpackingFootsteps
    @BackpackingFootsteps 4 года назад +5

    That Mike GLC tune rings true the older you get man! " you see how times past, couple questions to my olders I would love to ask. Like you knew are lives would turn out fucked and all the bullshit you was showing us wouldnt emerge to much!" Tune still bangs now.

  • @jxmmy3691
    @jxmmy3691 4 года назад +5

    I swear this the only guy telling it how it is this needs to get round. It's a madness out there youngers feeling like the road culture is the way to go killing eachother for nothing!. Respect bro

  • @MRmillitant
    @MRmillitant 4 года назад +80

    Yo they should give you a talk show on channel 4 or something

    • @s93_
      @s93_ 4 года назад +3

      @gully REAL TALK!

  • @chrysblack7901
    @chrysblack7901 4 года назад +5

    100% spot on man... I had beef with a boy because of someone else i had beef with and we ended up having 3 fights in about 10 minutes... Eventually his boys we're putting the boot in and then out the blue a pal of mine dropped me a HUGE spanner of which i put across the boys head who was on top of me about 3 or 4 times to get him off and split his his head wide open... For years we would see each other from a distance and scowl at each other, then one day i went up into a flat to score some smoke and 5 mins after that this same lad who id ahad beef with walked in to get some smoke himself... After an awkward few seconds he pulled me to the side and said "All that madness in the past... Lets just forget about it yeah" and put his hand out... We shock hands and ever since then we just give the nod exactly like you just said on here man.... Lifes to short to play games and fight all ya life... I used to love a fight and always used to itch to scrap anyone that even looked at me wrong for yearsssss..... Eventually we grow up and become men.... Id rather walk away now and I've even pull friends out of situations to avoid the same drama... Its not worth it my friends... Anyways respect again for another vid that hits close to home on days gone by ✌️💖💯

  • @qualityoverquantity9896
    @qualityoverquantity9896 4 года назад +2

    TRUTH AND FACTS 💯 RESPECT BRO, EXCELLENT PLATFORM ⚖☯️👌🏽

  • @MrStratacat
    @MrStratacat 4 года назад +8

    So much respect for you man. Real talk 👊

  • @randyosei9153
    @randyosei9153 4 года назад +146

    People are more loyal to the streets than their own mums

    • @PropertyBySM
      @PropertyBySM 4 года назад +10

      Lots of man need to hear this

    • @ragetype1303
      @ragetype1303 4 года назад +10

      And then they still snitch on their bredrin

    • @dylan6679
      @dylan6679 4 года назад +3

      People r loyal to them selfs over the streets or their mum

    • @s93_
      @s93_ 4 года назад +3

      @randy osei Its fucked up and wrong but there's so many complex reasons for that in most cases

    • @enki647
      @enki647 4 года назад +1

      Khadeem Smith word it’s not as black and white as people make it out

  • @AJAY9333
    @AJAY9333 4 года назад +2

    100% true. personal experience. Thanks. keep up the work man!

  • @prosluer6511
    @prosluer6511 4 года назад +2

    This is real talk
    I have seen this 1st hand but the elder got 30 plus and the juvenile got 20
    Salute king for the positive work 👊🖤

  • @s93_
    @s93_ 4 года назад +2

    TRUE WORDS!! Keep these kind of videos coming respect to you Bobby👊🏾

  • @CopDat72Promos
    @CopDat72Promos 4 года назад +2

    BOBBY KASANGA is one tremendous brother... Peace love n prosperity to you SIR!!

  • @lulurama3010
    @lulurama3010 4 года назад +6

    I'm so glad someone is being real about this Road life....its not a joke and too many man using kids to do they're dirty business. 😤🤬

  • @paulsutherland8397
    @paulsutherland8397 4 года назад +1

    Keep it up bobby great job positive vibe . Manners and respect . 💯💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @UKMUSICTV
    @UKMUSICTV 4 года назад +3

    Perfectly said. This speech should be nominated for a Nobel peace award still.

  • @ethang7784
    @ethang7784 4 года назад +3

    Realist talk uno❤️ missed age 15 and 16 been locked n there no point cause u don’t get that time back. I’m 17 now n still won’t be fully free til 18 n I can say it ain’t worth it

  • @veganvengeance9271
    @veganvengeance9271 4 года назад +6

    Them elders have their own code when it comes to man like doctor.
    "After me nah idiat, hey hey hey
    You better know seh
    When the cops arrive
    don't contact me"
    😂

  • @vamoswpd
    @vamoswpd 4 года назад +9

    When is this guy gonna get his own podcast man. I’m white as snow but all this stuff applies in every aspect of life. Very knowledgeable guy. Speaks straight facts

  • @fundementalroast7002
    @fundementalroast7002 4 года назад +2

    God bless you bro!

  • @AP-ik7gv
    @AP-ik7gv 4 года назад +6

    yo bigup urself for that recent achievement w nike/roma and that fam you deserve it keep grindin my bro 100

  • @abarinakandi7730
    @abarinakandi7730 4 года назад +29

    Sj needed to watch this 🤦🏾

  • @mgyzee8560
    @mgyzee8560 4 года назад +25

    Be the leader not a sheep 💯

  • @stockslim6733
    @stockslim6733 4 года назад +17

    Too real bobby this happens in ends generation after generation, but at that age you don’t really look not like that mindset isn’t tuned in,

  • @winnersneverqult
    @winnersneverqult 3 года назад +1

    4:06 its as if he was in jail with me bmttt. The accuracies are on pointtt! The part about the govs opening the doors for social or dinner in the morning is spot on. The only things you can look forward to on your day in jail is Soch, Lunch, Education and dinner. After dinner and bang up happens. You have nothing but the next day to look forward to bmt. And the worst thing is when its summer and the sun wont go down. Just makes you think ffs whats my girl doing in this heat. You will be pissed fam. Listen to bobby and avoid all this. It is not worth it. I couldnt even watch love island cus it just makes me think my girl is doing a madness. Sick of The same shit playing on NPR and watching police interceptors every single day. It was too shit. AVOID JAIL.

  • @theadventuresofjimmy5543
    @theadventuresofjimmy5543 4 года назад +6

    True spill it’s a sad reality only a certain few call their own shots

  • @RUSH-js2vp
    @RUSH-js2vp 4 года назад +1

    To be onnest alot people I grew with from Southwark got crash out by the ogs but alot of time they got forced to do it but they pride so high dey will never admit it till this day

  • @htruth1785
    @htruth1785 4 года назад +1

    So many young people need to hear this.

  • @kenosentity6455
    @kenosentity6455 4 года назад +2

    Baare "olders" have tried to recruit me but either I was dispositioned/inconvenienced some how or I saw through flattering lips. I'm glad I stayed on my ones regarding fully joining gangs.

  • @righthandgas909
    @righthandgas909 4 года назад +2

    If anybody can stop these UK kids war with each other its you mate. Why are you the only person ever I'm seeing saying this? Pride. Pride gets you killed. Ain't none of these rappers swallowing theirs. Ain't none of these rappers promoting squashed beef to prevent and set the correct example. You give a 15 year old a set of headphones and a harlem spartan play list and a social media platform and wonder why they shed each others blood for jokes? Every video I agree with what you say. Love your work man, you should be played in schools and colleges for real, love

    • @AA-py3qn
      @AA-py3qn 4 года назад

      Nah but Giggs is really out here telling these youts to stop

  • @jaypayne8196
    @jaypayne8196 4 года назад +2

    That's real talk!!! The youngers really don't know how to squash it 15 years ago beef was squashed all the time reason being there were some strong elders that came out of the 90s!!

  • @KS-lu9lu
    @KS-lu9lu 4 года назад +1

    This nigga needs a series or suttin💯

  • @kloxman86
    @kloxman86 4 года назад +17

    Real message here it reminds of Ill manors when my man got this yg to duppy that guy that stripped him naked in the alley but I have no sympathy for that yg because he snaked his own boy just to get draw and to roll with the olders

  • @apowerz8845
    @apowerz8845 4 года назад

    Real talks with the little banter. Keep it real my g

  • @lucasmazzoli4426
    @lucasmazzoli4426 4 года назад +4

    Yeah ur a legend for speaking dis truth

  • @KH-si8ce
    @KH-si8ce 4 года назад +1

    Big man ting bobby talking facts these man just dnt listen and it’s sad cause or brothers are lost out here

  • @humblegainz4692
    @humblegainz4692 4 года назад

    Facts. I know a man that got called out of his bed he came and put in the work and the breda that called him said why did you have to go that far.

  • @faridh9915
    @faridh9915 4 года назад

    Brother this video is amazing really needs to be spread, could help with a lot of people, you talking nothing but facts

  • @melly_merk9589
    @melly_merk9589 4 года назад +5

    this is the best thing ive heard, that England vs Germany world war exapmple is good it gave me hope in my age mates thanks for making this video ithis needs to go viral.>>>>>

  • @shakespeareansofthegalaxy2558
    @shakespeareansofthegalaxy2558 4 года назад +47

    Moral of the story 3 plus guys riding life for sneakbo, while hes free on a jetski wave.

    • @veganvengeance9271
      @veganvengeance9271 4 года назад

      Wow.

    • @namename946
      @namename946 4 года назад

      😭😂🤔 Ffree him up ffs

    • @Ldn4455
      @Ldn4455 4 года назад

      Ain’t they out soon

    • @AA-py3qn
      @AA-py3qn 4 года назад +3

      Ain't one lie told. And they all riding the maddest birds. But please remember RIP Zac. Knife crime back then was similar levels

    • @NonameJ14
      @NonameJ14 4 года назад

      Veteranone the only that’s out soon is Jkid got 5 years left

  • @Funkymonkey313
    @Funkymonkey313 3 года назад

    Good video lad.... Gotta look after number 1 screw everybody else

  • @ItsLotto
    @ItsLotto 4 года назад +10

    Instantly thought about SJ... Sad story to many young man being brainwashed!

    • @AhmedHassan-vq8ou
      @AhmedHassan-vq8ou 4 года назад +7

      He wasn't used . That dude wanted to prove himself so bad he got lost in this persona that he had of himself.

    • @A95-x2j
      @A95-x2j 4 года назад +1

      @@AhmedHassan-vq8ou That's exactly how he was used. They prayed on his motivation to make a name for himself, so encouraged him into doing so.
      It's literally how olders have the power - the kids want to prove themselves. They prey on that naivety.

  • @Unknown-gz8dt
    @Unknown-gz8dt 3 года назад +1

    A lot of the ygs need to hear this

  • @suckurmomma2079
    @suckurmomma2079 4 года назад

    Honestly man these videos help out so much

  • @abdimajidcaydiid110
    @abdimajidcaydiid110 4 года назад +4

    Just look at how Rwanda has move on from the madness in 1990s

  • @kenaiello3145
    @kenaiello3145 4 года назад

    Bless you bro ❤️

  • @thebizness5596
    @thebizness5596 4 года назад +5

    Most times they’ll do the madness out of love for the older or to get points. They won’t even get paid and if they do it’s peanuts compared to the 20+ yrs they’ll do in pen.

  • @AAaa-bs7xf
    @AAaa-bs7xf 4 года назад +1

    Well said. Keep up the hard work broski. We went to the same secondary school 😂😂😂

  • @bano9325
    @bano9325 4 года назад +2

    Perfect Explanation!

  • @chrisdunne6202
    @chrisdunne6202 4 года назад +1

    I grew up in edmonton/wood green/edmonton and was often called a "pussyhole" by the "olders" for pointing out how stupid this gang shit is and I just stuck to playing guitar ,well im 30 now and I havent ever been shot or stabbed and I have a nice job so whos winning now :)

  • @nnoo
    @nnoo 4 года назад +2

    Good stuff man, well said.

  • @namename946
    @namename946 4 года назад +9

    Yg,s are like the army.. You send them in, in hight numbers expecting death.. And older are marines only go into to low risk tasks or tasks we're there out come will be low amount of deaths..
    Arrmy has loads of people for a reason.. They expect them to die.
    Marines go in, in small numbers.

  • @teebee7374
    @teebee7374 4 года назад +1

    Blessup 🔥

  • @justdean5871
    @justdean5871 4 года назад +5

    Man's right when the olders can't benfit from you roll on the next doctor no love on the roads. Young men fix up and think sharp

  • @ShadowMoon96
    @ShadowMoon96 4 года назад +4

    This is basically SJ riding for RV and Headie one

  • @thegameschanged1248
    @thegameschanged1248 4 года назад +1

    Bobby fully the only one with the gumption to tell the truth about the falsehoods in that life

  • @MYVIEWSTV
    @MYVIEWSTV 4 года назад

    I live to hear someone say this respect 100%

  • @BlaxkEmpire
    @BlaxkEmpire Год назад

    One reason I played solo was 'cause of elders manipulations.. you feel it deep inside your skin but you blinded by compliments and rewards. By the way I have a yungin 17-yrs old, smart boy but dumb Man, he used to beg me to take him on the road on sum mug sh*t)) but I never took him along 'cause I do have a f conscience and I wont sleep at peace when someone I care for when in Jail 'cause of my orders. A man should stand on his own and carry his cross alone - that's been real by definition all this gang gang ting is delusionary. period !!

  • @Mxa1399
    @Mxa1399 4 года назад +1

    You probably won’t read this but your videos help me alot and keep me going

  • @HP-mk3yb
    @HP-mk3yb 4 года назад +2

    Ngl this video reminded me of SJ OFB

  • @riot4557
    @riot4557 4 года назад +4

    “Eye for an eye everyone goes blind” 🥶

  • @waynestewart3097
    @waynestewart3097 3 года назад +1

    Real talk bro

  • @juniorshiluvana8121
    @juniorshiluvana8121 4 года назад +1

    Well it's true man I used to beef with as a 14 year old I don't beef with These days its straight time can heal

  • @Valter-Andrade
    @Valter-Andrade 4 года назад +15

    This is a tough pill to swallow for some

  • @amantek3545
    @amantek3545 4 года назад +46

    Doctor is on Job seekers
    allowance

    • @bighas96
      @bighas96 4 года назад +4

      Nah he's doing 25 stretch 😂

  • @ORJ-iu8dy
    @ORJ-iu8dy 4 года назад +4

    After Headie got touched everyone thinks it was Rev that slapped it... nah not even close. Man got a a next man to do that then rap about it

  • @mysteriousshopper1177
    @mysteriousshopper1177 4 года назад +4

    The way you drop it. Every younger needs to see your videos. I know people doing life because of this.

  • @IglooTv23
    @IglooTv23 4 года назад

    Bobby with the real talk

  • @cee5978
    @cee5978 4 года назад +2

    What’s dis guys Instagram cah I wanna talk to him

  • @angusetkind503
    @angusetkind503 4 года назад +13

    Get on Shaun attwood or James English asap

  • @thanors2
    @thanors2 4 года назад +1

    I have always said also there are way bigger wars or beefs then in the streets. Like bobby said look how America and UK and other nations are friends. These nations probably killed thousands of millions depending on the war yet allies. Yet guys on the street can't dead a beef it's childish and stupid. Plus you don't have to be friends with a former opp. Once these kids experience life find a girl or get money the anger goes away,there are more important things then beef. The only people who won't dead beef are people who got nothing or beef is the only way they can assert themselves. Cut those guys off because they destroy anything they touch

  • @malcolmx4545
    @malcolmx4545 4 года назад

    Realist talk ever 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😎🦋🐝

  • @a.v.london1952
    @a.v.london1952 4 года назад +2

    Listen to this youngers he's speaking bear facts some olders
    Don't have your best interests at heart!!!

  • @AcesizOfficial
    @AcesizOfficial 4 года назад +1

    💯

  • @ImJustTrynaBeGreater
    @ImJustTrynaBeGreater 4 года назад +1

    “This is what ur seeing “🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @AliAli-fb9sd
    @AliAli-fb9sd 4 года назад

    What do some of these prison slang like sosh or freeze or twos?
    Probably spent it wrong lol.

  • @tonyjeffers2606
    @tonyjeffers2606 4 года назад

    Bobby l beg you check out a guy called Marvin Herbert he is a reformed gangster from west London he has the same philosophy as you would love you to interview him

  • @sosaslickz2759
    @sosaslickz2759 4 года назад +2

    Actually seen this happen time and time again in my life time

  • @user-rl8jx5wv1i
    @user-rl8jx5wv1i 4 года назад

    nah beef will always continue you cant always make peace

  • @studentofknowledge3367
    @studentofknowledge3367 4 года назад +2

    Would love to see CRS and USG squash their beef

    • @NonameJ14
      @NonameJ14 4 года назад +2

      that one will never ever ever be squashed i’m all up for beef being settled but you see any NW beef such as CR vs South Killy it will never end

  • @IglooTv23
    @IglooTv23 4 года назад

    Every next time you see each other the fire stops burning LOL HAHAHAHAHAHA Time is the healer

  • @TheWabile
    @TheWabile 4 года назад

    Why isn’t uncle kasanga our PM?

  • @kyledellow2018
    @kyledellow2018 4 года назад +1

    they way you say it is so true but funny still I no 100 that this is bang on

  • @sosaslickz2759
    @sosaslickz2759 4 года назад

    It's sad but so so true💯

  • @rickylee226
    @rickylee226 4 года назад +2

    All this guy talk is truthsssss

  • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
    @TommoDobbo-dp1gu 4 года назад

    My neighbor was sending my girl sexual texts and I hit him 5 or 6 times with a extendable baton I got nicked and on bail till 15th October. It's my first violence offense. I've been charged for GBH and possession of an offensive weapon, he's got 2 massive cuts on his head.

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu 4 года назад

      @Robert Last it was on Facebook messenger

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu 4 года назад

      @Robert Last my comment of removed?
      Yes mate his wife! And she's making out she's scared for her and her daughter's life even though the next day her little girl walked to school and back all week by herself. But now this week they have all gone away somewhere, she's trying to get me the worst sentence possible

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu 4 года назад

      @Robert Last they deleted your comment! I was going to say that but it would be their word against mine, maybe I should've? I did tell them I only had it on me because someone was threatening me in the village and it was just a coincidence that I bumped into the guy I hit and his wife, which it was.

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu 4 года назад

      @Robert Last I've got no violence on my record, but I did 1 year for agg burglary in 2011 and 3 months for driving offenses in 2002. Hopefully I won't do any bird for this, what do you reckon?

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu 4 года назад

      @Robert Last it's too late to change my story now, I've already been interviewed. Maybe I can get it dropped to abh? You're though I should've said he pulled it on me.

  •  3 года назад

    Idk why i easily connected with this. Im Ghanaian American

  • @IglooTv23
    @IglooTv23 4 года назад +1

    Pride is killing us....

  • @livinginlondon9243
    @livinginlondon9243 4 года назад

    This is a story of Bobby Kasanga 👍🏽👊🏽🙏🏽

  • @johnjenkins4788
    @johnjenkins4788 4 года назад

    I hope this don't go over there heads...

  • @PupprrDemz
    @PupprrDemz 3 года назад

    💯💯💯💯

  • @SLICERKINGyt-k7p
    @SLICERKINGyt-k7p 4 года назад +1

    Time destroys everything

  • @mattgorman9643
    @mattgorman9643 4 года назад +1

    Is true what you say,it’s pride that’s killing

  • @tonyjeffers2606
    @tonyjeffers2606 4 года назад +1

    Loving the ww1 history lesson edutainment 😷 I am Micheal cane not a lot of people know that 😷🤣🤣😷😷

  • @IglooTv23
    @IglooTv23 4 года назад

    The older is on Bond Street with his wifey and the YG has to sit down so yeah YG's forget olders and just do ya ting.

  • @themaroon3521
    @themaroon3521 4 года назад +2

    2 many mans life story 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️💀 Validation is a hell of a drug.

  • @Mark-ip7oq
    @Mark-ip7oq 4 года назад

    We always need doctors