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  • @ps-rd5fo
    @ps-rd5fo 3 года назад +18

    My dad brothers are very very rich they are billionaires but we don't have even lakhs except our grandfather small house and small place attached to it.they took equal share from this also it's okay parents properties are equal for all their children. they even took extra and always kicking us down.unfortunately our parents are very humble and calm going they can't fight for themselves also they are very innocent...

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +9

      Anthe innocent people ke issues create chestharu... simple ga naalugu thanni muuthi palagoditharu ante valla joliki raaru

  • @beeyou8055
    @beeyou8055 3 года назад +5

    Happy Wedding Anniversary !! Thank GOD that the tables have turned in your favour and everything is falling into place. Don’t worry, GOD will always stand by good people and protect them! GOD bless y’all!!

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @HBK25959
    @HBK25959 3 года назад +20

    akka mi videos chusina prathisari ela anipisthadhi aantae .......manam chinnapdu ....cellphones leni kalam lo ....Sunday evening ayithae friends aandaram vedhilo pillolam kurchoni aa inti katha ee katha ani chepukoni excite ayitham ga aala untundhi akka ....mi voice way of talking ....ani chusthunte .....literally ur videos are a stress reliever akka bcoz it reminds all our childhood ....n a good knowledgeable videos how a woman to be in this present generation .......y bcoz aapati generation lo aantae mogodu aadadhani respect n equal chusthunde thana sagabagham la ....so manam vallaki respect isthuntimi .....ipudu mogodu ani aakaram varakae not character wise not bold enough too ...marriage meru chepinatte oka fate lagae ayindhi chala Mandhi ammailaki .....but ur videos are really voice of every women akka ....never ever stop this series akka

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +5

      Thanks a lottttttt... you have no idea how much this means to me

  • @shrutikitchenlifestyle
    @shrutikitchenlifestyle 3 года назад +7

    What a sentence aba need to fight when ur right, major issues matches with me too but I was very Athrodox and my husband was not and I wish u a happy wedding anniversary

  • @himakada9615
    @himakada9615 8 месяцев назад +1

    Doing anything is different from doing something on a public platform for public as the audience

  • @sruthireddy6207
    @sruthireddy6207 3 года назад +2

    Leave it to god! This line Changed my life too... I waited like 20 bleady years to see someone destroy who threw mud on my family. Now, those peoples life is with no peace ✌️. Waiting and being patient..... life lessons... however leading life as you said...😌

  • @apoorvanh5774
    @apoorvanh5774 3 года назад +3

    It was very beautiful the way she opened up... Very nice🔥

  • @bhavanimogili4571
    @bhavanimogili4571 3 года назад +2

    I like the theory of god punishing and the talks about karma rather than us fighting sometimes we should leave it to god.. good one mounika recently started watching your videos glad I did :)

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад

      Thank you... please stick around

  • @keertana02
    @keertana02 3 года назад +6

    Your way of explaining is awesome...to the point

  • @chandanap123
    @chandanap123 3 года назад +4

    Hammaya there's no mistake from ourside. Chill bro..
    Happy wedding anniversary akka 🎉💃👨‍👩‍👦

  • @sahithin4201
    @sahithin4201 3 года назад +2

    Mounika , you are like a virtual best friend to all the girls who means a lot even though not in touch, such sweet msgs and experiences from where do we learn .. u know or not you are bringing difference in the mindset for many of girls for the good
    Kudos girl, lots of love ❤️

  • @nvihari777
    @nvihari777 3 года назад +3

    Though your decision matters.. IMO it is not good to share personal things ..may be if they change their evil thoughts & again get close to each other , your personal bondings might be at risk... anyway wish you good luck & happy anniversary mounika

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +3

      I will never let them come back in to our lives... never... Thank you Vihari

  • @shaistafirdose4345
    @shaistafirdose4345 3 года назад +5

    Looking great in this outfit ❤️
    Your last 3mts msg I really loved it.👍

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад

      Thank youuu

    • @gayatripalli8389
      @gayatripalli8389 3 года назад

      @@OkkaMaata can make a video of last 3 minutes . From 35 minutes

  • @ranik306
    @ranik306 3 года назад +2

    Happy Anniversary! 👨‍👩‍👦
    Stay bonded> family togetherness is the best you could ask for :)
    Love how you shared your immediate after marriage experience.
    My experience was reverse of your s
    I was grown in always say yes to parents and elders type
    My husbands was questioning, reasoning, magnifying small things kind if family
    I'm still understanding, trying to bond and fit into family as we meet occasionally is a learning experience- no one tells you these
    I can connect to your talks
    We will be having our 6th wedding anniversary this May as well.. ❤

  • @geethar9669
    @geethar9669 3 года назад +1

    As you said its fortunate that you have got such good understanding in laws.. I am a working wife a software engineer. My case is different... My in-laws are good by heart but they follow few old traditions which are uncomfortable.....every family among my relatives follows these traditions... one such tradition is that a daughter in law should not sit at the same level as her father in law. Not even a dining table... my in laws and husband eats on the table together. I eat separately or eat while sitting on the ground. If such traditions are followed, how can a daughter in law own in-laws as their own family.....how can she feel comfortable when she cant even have a lunch together with the whole family.... I still feel like an outsider even after 3 yrs of marriage. I am being silent since i don’t want them to be hurt coz that was an act of showing respect to them. But I firmly decided that I wont allow such shitty traditions for future generations in my family....!!

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад

      What’s your husband’s take on this?

    • @geethar9669
      @geethar9669 3 года назад +1

      @@OkkaMaata He understands that I eat alone and Sometimes he eats with me sitting down... he is more into preventing clashes or in having peace with them since we visit them twice a month....and they visit us twice a month... since it is just few days a week i ignore and move on.....I am yet to confront him on my thoughts about this tradition. But I know his answer... he would suggest me to adjust so as to avoid clash with them or hurting them.

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад

      @@geethar9669 how about you just ask him to wait and you both can eat together whenever they are around so you don’t feel left out

  • @prajnavlogs
    @prajnavlogs 3 года назад +1

    Me.luk super ga undi oka blue color bindi pettukoni.unte old mvie heroine la.undevaru wid dt winged liner 😍
    Happy anniversary

  • @asharahulu5923
    @asharahulu5923 3 года назад +4

    I love your makeup and hair and also your outfit. Looking cute❤️

  • @SinAR18911
    @SinAR18911 3 года назад +3

    Adi matter mamaiah Doctor anthe amma dignity ❤️huge respect 🙏 doctor

  • @speakenglishbharat9242
    @speakenglishbharat9242 3 года назад +1

    Hey monika. This is bhavya..I started watching your channel coz you express exactly the same way I do...today I realized...I am undergoing the same difference prob u faced.....lots of love to u ...we have same mindsets

  • @muramallagayathri7728
    @muramallagayathri7728 3 года назад +2

    Thank you akka...
    Hope your family gets out of this..
    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY akkaaa... hope your mavvaya health also gets fine akka... love from vizag !

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Gayathri

  • @elapakurthilakshmi7367
    @elapakurthilakshmi7367 3 года назад +2

    Very good mounika, andaru life lo sure ga okari kosam okaru change avutaaru ade happy ga vutundi💐

  • @meghanavarma4226
    @meghanavarma4226 3 года назад +2

    How did i even miss your channel?! Literally binge-watching all of your videos!!!❤️ Love you akka❤️

  • @mahithareddy6455
    @mahithareddy6455 7 месяцев назад

    Parents kids ni small age lo correct cheyakapothe chala problems vastay after marriage

  • @swethachowdary4676
    @swethachowdary4676 3 года назад +1

    Now I am facing same issue akka I respect her. A lot she keeps on how to behave how to sit how to behave she will always scold me but my husband don't expect me to reverse back to my mother in law she literally says to her son that's she did a mistake🙄 my husband got struck in middle btwn my mother in law and me even tough if my mother in law scold me I used to not day my husband she says 1st take care of her son and next job I can't be how she expect I facing so much of this issue think chesi chesi na hair kuda udipothundi😭😭😭 finally tottaly iam into ur shoes

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +2

      Manathoni ainantha manam change avvali too much aithundi ante na valla kaadu ani cheppeyali

  • @sungeethavlogs2619
    @sungeethavlogs2619 3 года назад +1

    Happy anniversary Monica,❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @vaniduvvuri6951
    @vaniduvvuri6951 3 года назад +1

    Hi Mounika,
    Nice video . At least your MIL is reasonable . My mil is totally a hydroxide , money minded and liar including my co sister . Too much of politics at home . I stay far away , but when I come for vacations , I really hate to stay at my in laws place . Anyways Happy wedding Anniversary to you 🎉🎉

  • @lakshmisunitha773
    @lakshmisunitha773 3 года назад +1

    Lots of love for you guys 💖💖💖💖💖, Hpy Anniversary to both of you👩‍❤️‍👩

  • @vaishnavidevi7769
    @vaishnavidevi7769 3 года назад +2

    E video chusthunnapu I was actually cooking chikudukaya🤣🤣🤣

  • @jhansipriyanka
    @jhansipriyanka 3 года назад +2

    Nijam ga 😄😀Another level Another level Assalu Me Gutsy ki full Fidha Ayipoya ma ❤️😍😘🤣🤣🤣Chala Baga chepparu Andaru antha open ga chepparu Chala chala Dhairyam ga👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Finally U people came Out of dis shit😀

  • @kkkomalmudhiraj4297
    @kkkomalmudhiraj4297 3 года назад +1

    Akka normal ga marriage ipoyaka okka girl a okka family shan avthadi and automatic ga the way of thinking change ipothadi and girl ki two House's untai mom's and in-law so eddari happiness chala imp...okka family ki relatives midha appudu hope untadi coz vallu chala years nundi valla tho untaru kabbati nammutharu coz valla eye muskapothai but okaa girl kodal ga entry esthe thanaki ah acting arthem ipothadi coz vallaki allavatu ipothadi but manaki kothaga untadi and ella women ki first a telsipothadi mana family ki emina ayeduntey anduke appudu kuda wife mata vinnu ani antaru.. Coz already predict chestharu women... And lots of love akka... Happy wedding anniversary niku chakre bro ki

  • @charishma4454
    @charishma4454 3 года назад

    It's very rare to see a open minded and outspoken girl like you love to you from me

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @sushmavejalla9868
    @sushmavejalla9868 3 года назад +2

    Happy marriage anniversary mounika garu and chekri garu💐

  • @eshwari475
    @eshwari475 3 года назад +2

    Happy wedding anniversary akka
    Next year anniversary ki mi subscribers above 1 lakh kavaliani korukuntunamu ❤❤

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад

      Nijanga aithe bavundu

    • @eshwari475
      @eshwari475 3 года назад

      @@OkkaMaata kachitanga avtaru Akka Annakanna Ekuve avtaru😊

  • @divyas924
    @divyas924 3 года назад +1

    Happy wedding anniversary mounika sis .. vlog super me expressions super

  • @chinni8057
    @chinni8057 3 года назад

    Last sentences are simply awesome , no words akka , bhale cheppaaru❤❤
    And mee hair style chala bagundi akka

  • @shivayomiee9205
    @shivayomiee9205 3 года назад

    Very informative video your video are very nice. I suggest you to make video on car driving tips for beginners women & empower them

  • @rushalibandari9516
    @rushalibandari9516 2 года назад +1

    I’m a new subscriber and I so love the way you talk, and am literally hooked onto both your channels. This video is something I could relate a lot to. Hope people in my family also see the true colors of the people who claim to be our well wishes but are literally snakes.

  • @shalinimittu1888
    @shalinimittu1888 3 года назад +1

    Happy wedding anniversary to u both🤩Idantha chusaka all I can say is you are such a vocal and strong lady. Me matalu muchatlu entha sepaina vineyochu le...Friends? 🤝🤜

  • @littlethingsinlife8693
    @littlethingsinlife8693 3 года назад +1

    Chala baga cheppav...about relations....Roches rocks🥳

  • @bhagyasrisrtp4783
    @bhagyasrisrtp4783 3 года назад +1

    Nijanga Mee family lagane maa family lo kuda kaallu mokkadam and godavalu😊😊😊

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +1

      Andaru illalo yedavalu common anamata

  • @pallavi3848
    @pallavi3848 3 года назад

    It's pallavi from Mumbai.. Nice story.. God bless u r family

  • @siacollections7029
    @siacollections7029 3 года назад +1

    Hiii Monika gaaru saw all your okkamaata series.Keep gng.

  • @malleshkumar6595
    @malleshkumar6595 3 года назад

    Happy anniversary akka.. Like seriously u became a relative to me because of this video.. Oka relative ela vachi cheptharo ala chepparu.. Life lo manam meet ayithey meeru kachitanga naaku raakhi kattali I wish!! Thank you.. God bless you Akka

  • @satyateluguvlogsinusa7026
    @satyateluguvlogsinusa7026 3 года назад +1

    Happy wedding anniversary sis🥰👍

  • @reshmareddy8308
    @reshmareddy8308 3 года назад +1

    Happy marriage anniversary akka💐

  • @undabhatlaleelakumari9458
    @undabhatlaleelakumari9458 3 года назад

    Wish u happy marriage anniversary akka👨‍👩‍👦. Sorry for the last wishes

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад

      Wishes important epudu chesthe endi ❤️

  • @mamathagoud1199
    @mamathagoud1199 3 года назад +5

    Chakri Anna is lub❤️

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад

      You guys are ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sonykada5804
    @sonykada5804 3 года назад +1

    Happy Anniversary Monika.I agree with you on some points like we should fight for our rights, the family bond increases in crisis, we will cherish and be thankful to those moments in our life.Telugulo oka samitha undi, ariche kukkalu karavavu ,Kariche kukalu arravavu. In my opinion they just want to bring you down with by scaring you all, but I think they will not succeed in any of those .You will have the best family life .

  • @happybeing7252
    @happybeing7252 3 года назад +1

    Happy anniversary dear

  • @himakada9615
    @himakada9615 8 месяцев назад

    Hope ur FiL and MIL are doing well now

  • @Nadrushtilo_By_Gayathri
    @Nadrushtilo_By_Gayathri 3 года назад

    Actually sitting crosslegged is not elegant. even the queen of london does not sit crosslegged when in public.

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад

      Princess Diana and Meghan markle have been spotted sitting cross legged many times... guess the queen has a lot of catching up to do

    • @Nadrushtilo_By_Gayathri
      @Nadrushtilo_By_Gayathri 3 года назад

      @@OkkaMaata They are not from royal family as you know and have always been rebels about the traditions of the house. Forget about the royal tradition, we dont need to follow them.But, I have always found women sitting without cross leg visually more formal and when cross legged, it looks casual. Also, when in public the royals are constantly photographed so they dont want awkward moments, may be thats one of the reasons too.

  • @kaparabooinabhavana9632
    @kaparabooinabhavana9632 3 года назад +1

    Happy anniversary sis💝

  • @pavithrasgoodlife7924
    @pavithrasgoodlife7924 3 года назад

    Happy wedding anniversary mounika

  • @abhignakayala9336
    @abhignakayala9336 3 года назад +5

    Looking cute in braid monica..❤️

  • @gayathrivaddepally3059
    @gayathrivaddepally3059 Год назад

    Aba genuine talkk andi seriouslyyyy ❤

  • @atoz2001
    @atoz2001 3 года назад

    Hello Monika...happy anniversary 🌹🌹im also from medak...plss tell me when I visit medak..let me meet u once plsss

  • @mohanakrishnakorlapati1856
    @mohanakrishnakorlapati1856 3 года назад

    Happy anniversary akka

  • @sandhyateluguchannel6855
    @sandhyateluguchannel6855 3 года назад +1

    Happy anniversary 💐💐🎂

  • @TG01012K
    @TG01012K 3 года назад

    Relatives dislike kodithe 5-8dislikes vundali kani 25+ dislikes vunayi enttabha.
    😂🤣😂
    Anyway manchi useful content.👍

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +3

      Maadi koncham pedda family le

  • @Talkativetejareddy
    @Talkativetejareddy 3 года назад +1

    Dressing n ni look bagundi❤️😘
    My god mounica....starting lo nen kuda ma mammaya mundu kurchuntae titaedi
    Ipatiki kuda ma mammaya untae kinda kurchovali...😭

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +1

      Vammooo enti Avuna? Kinda enduku kurchovali? Nenu ma mamayya friends lagane untam

    • @Talkativetejareddy
      @Talkativetejareddy 3 года назад

      @@OkkaMaata inti pedda respect ivali ala antaru em amna ante

  • @sowjanyabalija3801
    @sowjanyabalija3801 3 года назад +1

    Hi akka miru selt pencils thintara chepandy plz

  • @HBK25959
    @HBK25959 3 года назад +3

    those dislikes are from relatives 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +3

      Bwahahahahahaha.... naku idi epudo telsu.... a video pettina .. 2-3 mins ke dislikes kottestharu.. nenu full navvukunta

  • @chaitanyabommu1797
    @chaitanyabommu1797 3 года назад +1

    Happy Anniversary 🎉

  • @bhharathibandi2157
    @bhharathibandi2157 3 года назад +1

    Mounika Roches....❤️

  • @bhagyasrisrtp4783
    @bhagyasrisrtp4783 3 года назад +1

    Happy anniversary 🎉

  • @santhi206
    @santhi206 3 года назад +1

    Civil issues 20 years aina solve kaavu akka

    • @santhi206
      @santhi206 3 года назад

      Maa mother vallavi court lo 19 years ayyi still lagging

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад

      Ammooooo

  • @Userzeer
    @Userzeer 3 года назад +1

    Mimmalni evaru em cheyaleru akka

  • @likhithareddy2099
    @likhithareddy2099 3 года назад +1

    1st view akka

  • @amrutamogilineedi
    @amrutamogilineedi 3 года назад

    Happy Anniversary !!

  • @pravallikanandana8983
    @pravallikanandana8983 3 года назад

    Happy wedding anniversary sis

  • @bjyothsnavideos3647
    @bjyothsnavideos3647 3 года назад +1

    Lots of love from ZHB

  • @drkk3199
    @drkk3199 3 года назад

    Hugs to you babe

  • @gayathrivaddepally3059
    @gayathrivaddepally3059 Год назад

    Aba same situation face chestuna abba

  • @manasaamboori9571
    @manasaamboori9571 3 года назад

    Happy anniversary Mounika & Chakri

  • @harika4711
    @harika4711 3 года назад

    Happy anniversary..

  • @pallavi3848
    @pallavi3848 3 года назад

    So sweet voice

  • @happybeing7252
    @happybeing7252 3 года назад

    You are looking gorgeous 😍

  • @nandinipriyanka95
    @nandinipriyanka95 3 года назад +4

    You look damn cute today 👌👌

  • @chinni9234
    @chinni9234 3 года назад +1

    Happy wedding anniversary akka❤️
    I love your vds a lot.....okkamata vds kosam chala wait chesthuntaa.... Keep rocking akka🤩 love you 💕

  • @Honey5124
    @Honey5124 3 года назад

    You look very cute.

  • @raghavimekala5216
    @raghavimekala5216 3 года назад +1

    Hi akka

  • @gajulachandana7633
    @gajulachandana7633 3 года назад

    35:00 dagara miru chepina point na parents cheptharu akka. Manchi chesina chedu chesina manam evarni em anodhu devudu chuskuntadu ani. Mossam cheste manaku kakapoina nxt generation ki ina bad jargudhi ani. Mi videos chala baguntay akka❤️sending you loads of love

  • @RamaDevi-gi9lx
    @RamaDevi-gi9lx 3 года назад +1

    50th view..!!

  • @renukan9301
    @renukan9301 3 года назад

    31 st like akka🐱

  • @kalpana453
    @kalpana453 3 года назад

    Excellent 👌👌👌

  • @priyankad6836
    @priyankad6836 3 года назад +2

    @24:35 theera chustae andaru lang**** dongalae🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +2

      Ala ochesindi flow lo

  • @happyme8271
    @happyme8271 3 года назад +3

    Luv u aka❤️
    37:09 🔥

  • @shirishareddy.-
    @shirishareddy.- 3 года назад +1

    Hi

  • @subbunittala2012
    @subbunittala2012 3 года назад

    English oddu amma.. Telugu lo ki vacheyi

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +1

      English medium kada so avesham osthe translate chesi matlade Antha time undadu

  • @mamathakamireddy2907
    @mamathakamireddy2907 3 года назад

    What is the point of this video akka ? 🤔

  • @sweetoansari
    @sweetoansari 3 года назад +1

    24:35 I cannot stop laughing 😂😂😂😂

  • @raghavimekala5216
    @raghavimekala5216 3 года назад +1

    29 like

  • @sreegowri9341
    @sreegowri9341 3 года назад

    Happy anniversary akka

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 года назад +1

      Thank you sree 🤗