My partner when asked about how many children he wanted 2years ago he said 5 children...recently he just said "Ahh babe that thing i said about having children please is just 2 i want now oo" i bursted in laughter i asked what changed his mind, he said ahh it's not easy oo because he has seen and understand how much other couples go through stress of giving their children the best comfort! I actually want 2 children by God's grace 😊🙌
Hmmm your child is just like me. Sadly my parents passed at a tender age and now that I’m living with an aunt my self esteem is very low because of the constant shouting and nagging, even in public. Now I’m taking myself through therapy because I’m really messing my life up, i think. So it’s very true! Children need all the love, care and attention they need when they’re young so they can be confident to speak up for themselves. Thank you guys! Love you always 🙏🏽❤️
Believe in yourself, choose to be happy, ignore negative treatment. Channel the energy to succeed and you will come out successful. Never underestimate the power within you to succeed, you will grow to be a mentor to other people. Stay blessed
Not me laughing to myself during lunch break and encouraging my colleague to follow your page for maximum educative and fun videos. Much love from me ❤️.
This is my best episode on your channel so far, I enjoy every one of them but this particular one resonated with me so much. I pray God continues to keep you guys for each other.
Indeed, there is a lot that they don't tell you about child bearing. I used to wish for many children until I had one! One oo! Lol. Thank God for my husband, to him this one is enough but I'm petting and following him gently for anoda; while am taking my time to train this one well first. This thing is Not easy at all!
During courtship, my husband to be told me he did not want children. I did not take him serious because i felt he was an african man who never even commot for naija sef (at the time) so there was no way he would be serious about not wanting children. Omo as we marry, my eyes open!! i literally begged, fought and negotiated for my first and only child. I want more but... Shebi him tell me before marriage??? lol....
Really enjoyed this video! Super hilarious😂You see this particular topic ehnnn, I can over relate. I and hubby were gisting recently about this very topic. We say “they didn’t told us o” Them no tell us say na so e Dey be. Forget all the fine fine pictures and “my ovaries” comments. Parenting isn’t a walk in the park. After 2 kids, I must confess it’s not for the faint hearted
Growing up in an emotionally distant African household although born in the US has been detrimental. They still held the African mentality. You guys have educated yourself and advanced many upcoming generations just from this knowledge! I love you guys!!!!!
I am 40 and my parents are nigerians. I left Nigeria when I was 17 to attend college here in the U.S. IN retrospect, My dad was not emotionally available. He was very strict. My dad has NEVER told me he loves me but i know he loves me. He raised us the way he knew how. He was an AMAZING provider but he wasnt there emotionally for us. To him, he expressed his love by providing for us. ..that was his way of expressing his love. My dad will spend his last dollar on his kids. When it comes to providing, he was amazing. ..but like I said he was strict. ..very strict. Now that i am an adult, I learned what not to do when raising my kids. When I have kids, I will express my love by being emotionally available and by providing....Kids of nowadays need you to be emotionally available
The end got me tearing up. I love everything you guys discuss and I wish many people get to understand majority of this things. Well done mummy and daddy
I always said I won't raise my kids d way I was and am proud of the outcome. I learn alot from my lil kids,when I want to do some stuffs n I kW I will be questioned so I let it slide.😂🤣
Children are products of a marriage / union or just like fruits are products of the tree and branches. The fruits will leave the tree and branches...... Husband and wife look after each other ooooooooo, Children will leave home at the ripe/right time and the tree and branch will still be attached to each other
Thank u for this!! I try to tell people to mind their business ... I haven’t gotten to were i want to get too i and hubby think we shud still hustle even if na 40 we born we no mind.. if u die today what do you leave for your kids?? So thank u for this
I like how he was in tune with the wife’s post partum depression
My partner when asked about how many children he wanted 2years ago he said 5 children...recently he just said "Ahh babe that thing i said about having children please is just 2 i want now oo" i bursted in laughter i asked what changed his mind, he said ahh it's not easy oo because he has seen and understand how much other couples go through stress of giving their children the best comfort! I actually want 2 children by God's grace 😊🙌
Hmmm your child is just like me. Sadly my parents passed at a tender age and now that I’m living with an aunt my self esteem is very low because of the constant shouting and nagging, even in public. Now I’m taking myself through therapy because I’m really messing my life up, i think. So it’s very true! Children need all the love, care and attention they need when they’re young so they can be confident to speak up for themselves. Thank you guys! Love you always 🙏🏽❤️
You're welcome ❤
Believe in yourself, choose to be happy, ignore negative treatment. Channel the energy to succeed and you will come out successful. Never underestimate the power within you to succeed, you will grow to be a mentor to other people. Stay blessed
HOw old are you? just curious
Not me laughing to myself during lunch break and encouraging my colleague to follow your page for maximum educative and fun videos. Much love from me ❤️.
Thanks for sharing!!
This is basically a podcast channel 😍 I love them both. So real
About the motherhood, it’s really deeper than what we see on the outside!!! Mothers are really trying
This is my best episode on your channel so far, I enjoy every one of them but this particular one resonated with me so much. I pray God continues to keep you guys for each other.
Oh my God 😂
Some people make this kind of topics boring and turns out being a lecture🤦♀️
This is so fun, as is your other videos ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
This man is just mischievous 😂😂. Infact both of you suit each other. Love you guys
Hehehehehe wetin OY do na lool 🤣🤣🤣
Spousal bond is very important while bearing kids.Noted❤
Yes 😊
This is hilarious. Nne you're blessed with a lovely husband 🤣🤣
Indeed, there is a lot that they don't tell you about child bearing. I used to wish for many children until I had one! One oo! Lol. Thank God for my husband, to him this one is enough but I'm petting and following him gently for anoda; while am taking my time to train this one well first. This thing is Not easy at all!
During courtship, my husband to be told me he did not want children. I did not take him serious because i felt he was an african man who never even commot for naija sef (at the time) so there was no way he would be serious about not wanting children. Omo as we marry, my eyes open!! i literally begged, fought and negotiated for my first and only child. I want more but... Shebi him tell me before marriage??? lol....
Confrontational was the word you was looking for . It great you raise your child that was . Kudos to you ❤
Really enjoyed this video! Super hilarious😂You see this particular topic ehnnn, I can over relate. I and hubby were gisting recently about this very topic. We say “they didn’t told us o” Them no tell us say na so e Dey be. Forget all the fine fine pictures and “my ovaries” comments. Parenting isn’t a walk in the park. After 2 kids, I must confess it’s not for the faint hearted
Growing up in an emotionally distant African household although born in the US has been detrimental. They still held the African mentality. You guys have educated yourself and advanced many upcoming generations just from this knowledge! I love you guys!!!!!
I am 40 and my parents are nigerians. I left Nigeria when I was 17 to attend college here in the U.S. IN retrospect, My dad was not emotionally available. He was very strict. My dad has NEVER told me he loves me but i know he loves me. He raised us the way he knew how. He was an AMAZING provider but he wasnt there emotionally for us. To him, he expressed his love by providing for us. ..that was his way of expressing his love. My dad will spend his last dollar on his kids. When it comes to providing, he was amazing. ..but like I said he was strict. ..very strict. Now that i am an adult, I learned what not to do when raising my kids. When I have kids, I will express my love by being emotionally available and by providing....Kids of nowadays need you to be emotionally available
The end got me tearing up. I love everything you guys discuss and I wish many people get to understand majority of this things. Well done mummy and daddy
"They will not be talk"😄😄. Wise and thoughtful couple
Chiamaxs looks so good, the hair, the outfit and color suits you ❤
Baby it was before the baby came 🤣.... loving this couple more
I love how real you guys are, thank you for sharing
The youtube hustle part got me😃
The very part 😂😂😂 I just burst laugh 😂 them funny no be small
Never disappointing. This content is knowledge full enjoyed every bit of it.
My people, love you guys❤❤❤❤.
In this Video,you guys made 100% sense...you touched it all
This marriage is filled with laughter
Chiamax and OY my favorite couple❤❤😂😂😂😂
abeg, i am subscribing. love from SOUTH AFRICA
Welcome 🤗
This episode was so educative, I really learnt a lot, thank you so much you both. Let’s go back to TikTok 🥰🥰🥰
😂😂 Chiamax and AY no go kill pesin oo 😂😂 laughed all through!! 😅 the most transparent couples I have seen on this RUclips hustle (in AYs voice ) 😂
My Laugh pills.. God bless you both, something to make us laugh this period ❤️
You guys just make my day. May God continue to bless your union❤
Haha 😂
Watching you guys make me laugh and DNT bother thinking about my problems
I love ❤️ you guys
You guys are the best! I didn’t want the video to end. Very educative and entertaining! Love you guys
❤️❤️ Much love
See the way she looks at her husband everytime, like damn 😂😂
Very insightful 😊….. thumbs up guys ❤
Aunty chiamax is very beautiful damn !!!! 😊
You look so gorgeous even in your new hair !! I’m already a dedicated subscriber❤
Thank you ❤
God bless you both for this.
Thank you, loved every bit of this video. It was very educating and funny too. 🙌
Glad you enjoyed it!
I subscribe because of this video. Packed with so much wisdom.👍
You guys bring me so much joy 🤩 ❤
Oy oooh 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 because sperm is free, egg is free. Oy you will not kill me
Oy and Chiamax ooooo.... I love una too much. Nice one guys
Lovely video. Very practical topic and you did justice to it. You both are amazing
I love the way you relate together
That topic wey you dey divert Oy, na that one gan gan I wan hear
Very educative and entertaining……My beautiful people always 😍😍🎊🎊🎊
I learnt a lot from this video tbh
Even about upbringing
You killed me with laughter 🤣you have new subie🇿🇦🇿🇦🥰
I got to 28:20
And I said “I love you guys”..unconsciously🤩
🤗🤗
My cheeks hurt from laughing 😂😂😂😂 , Love you both ❤❤❤❤❤
😂😂😂😂.... O.Y na case abeg
Beautiful content. More wisdom to you both.
I always said I won't raise my kids d way I was and am proud of the outcome. I learn alot from my lil kids,when I want to do some stuffs n I kW I will be questioned so I let it slide.😂🤣
The facial expression after he talked about postpartum depression 😅😅
Nkan nkan koniya yin lagbara Olorun. Rooting for you both
Children are products of a marriage / union or just like fruits are products of the tree and branches. The fruits will leave the tree and branches...... Husband and wife look after each other ooooooooo, Children will leave home at the ripe/right time and the tree and branch will still be attached to each other
You guys made my night😂😂😂and very educative too
welcome to the real world ,it sucks but u gonna love it❤
I just love you guys so much. I learnt a lot. 🙏🏼 thank you
Our pleasure!
Nice one as usual...OY be like black Jesus 😂😂😂😂
You people made my night 😂😂😂😂 God bless you both
So like this that I’m having back pain ..what will happen when I’m pregnant 😩😂😂😂😂Chim oooo
I love and admire you guys
🤗🤗
New to your channel and about subscribing. This is so real and hilarious. You guys are perfect match☺️
Thank you so much 😁
I love love love this episode 😍😍😍
I don’t know if it’s just me but did I hear OY say in 18:04 that he use to give CHIIAMAXS big head??? As in head???😂🤣🤣🤣💔this man
Thanks for educating us 🙏
Nice one dear ..your idea is the topic is apt...keep it up
Thanks a lot
I like the way you guys are funny I like your vibes please don’t change bcs of some commenters
Very educative and entertaining 👏👏😂😂
Thank you 🤣🤣🤣
Much love from a loyal fan ♥️
Thanks a lot definately eye opening and of course super funny
Educative and entertaining 👏❤️
Thank u for this!! I try to tell people to mind their business ... I haven’t gotten to were i want to get too i and hubby think we shud still hustle even if na 40 we born we no mind.. if u die today what do you leave for your kids?? So thank u for this
😅😅😅 in OY's voice "which alot of work" 🤣🤣
Thank you chiamaxandoy for sharing this infos❤
Of course!!🤗
Waiting on the next video💃💃💃
You took in 🤣😂🤣😂🤣,you took in what?.
She said you are my first soul mate
This is really educating and entertaining
Which work you do?😅🤣🤣🤣 My belle oh😂
The RUclips hustle got me 😂😂😂
Happy to wacth again ooo
🤗
Hehe she say why are you talking about it so deeply uncle OY 😂😂😂
Love this topic
Una wan use laugh kill me 😂😂OY say it's itchy 😂😂na why una they vex everytime
😂😂😂 this so sweet watching
Lol amazing people I can watch it 10 times
I jst love ur realistic in every apart
I love you guys u are funny there is❤ love and friendship
So fun to watch
This RUclips thing nah hustle😂😂😂😂
Hehehe lol abi o
Educative. Weldone
This is verily verily good.
Stray bullet just hit bobrisky and co😂😂
Very educative
Hehehhe wetin dem dey take 😂😂😂
"you took in, wow you are fertile..."🤣
I love this video so much... I had my second baby and I said am done because I want to explore and they keep raising brow?
Aswear this ur husband na cruise 😂😂 he is never seriou I have headache but can’t stop laughing
Love guys so much