Women Shouldn't Be Independent❗️
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- Опубликовано: 19 май 2024
- Is it okay if the wife makes more than the husband? Should your mother-in-law set the boundaries for your family? Join us for a spicy Q&A that will be sure to offend!
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Sometimes women have to be, when circumstances require it
Nope
@@lepp6598 If you're a "nope", how are single women supposed to exist and support themselves?
@@lepp6598so we are supposed to control people instead?
@@SusanBrown-hb7xz spouses shouldn't control each other
Is it possible she may be identifying the need to take control of responsibilities when a husband neglects responsibility, not necessarily the same as controlling someone else. Just a thought.
I am independent because I have to be, not because I want to be.
Same here! I’m single and have to depend on myself right now. I look forward to the day when my husband will come along though ❤️
Many women have no choice, and must be independent to support herself. As a woman who's been a widow for 20 yrs, many of the issues referred here are irrelevant, and unimportant. My husband had a serious heart condition for many years, and died of a second heart attack-during those years, I had to work, and helped take care of him when he could no longer work. The problems couples face like this, make these "problems" spoken of here, very shallow. I've spent the last 20 years learning what it means to be a single widow-and that only adds to the truth of what it's like living in this selfish world.
I get your point, but in my family we were six girls, plus my mom. We never had a male figure to rely on. Our dad, on the contrary relied very much on us. My mother took care of the house, meals and the younger kids during the day and then worked evenings. When we got older and my oldest sister was married and needed a babysitter on weekends, my dad accused my mom of being selfish for not wanting to babysit at times; she was exhausted, but he didn’t understand. He did financially provide for the family, but he came home to a clean house, hot meals and servants. He did love us, but never taught us to respect our husbands, not that we didn’t. He never had anything good to say about our husbands, he always complained about them. At one point, I had a serious discussion with my dad about his attitude towards the husbands. Anyhow, I’m now 66 years old and from my experiences from family, church and home, good, reliable, loyal and faithful men are few. Of course, there are still some good men and my prayer for my granddaughters is that they find one that truly loves God first. God bless you, your family and your ministry always.
When my husband and I met, I had a full time job, my own house, my own car, paid my own bills. We decided to keep his house and let mine go. I still have a job, he retired after he had a heart attack. My job provides health insurance for both of us, without which we would both be dead.
I have been in a similar situation, it seems like a picket fence statement. Also not sure about winning knives and pots has to do with preaching or Christianity, more like gambling for a prize. I am sadly feeling letdown by this channel lately.
Sometimes women have to be independent when they have no one they can depend upon but the Lord. In a perfect world all men would feel protective of women and take care of those that God has placed in their care. But not all men love the Lord, and especially not more than they love themselves. They put self above all else. Sad but true. I know several women that would love to have a godly man as a leader in their lives but there are so few of them there are not enough to go around. So those women have to live alone and accept that the Lord will be their husband and depend upon Him to care for them.
So we’ll put
Amen
I am sadly finding Pastor Marks preaching becoming more narrow minded of others circumstances of late sadly. When you leave a violent spouse after 13 years of abuse and your family do not support you and you have young kids you have to be independent.
"Just because they're family, doesn't mean they're safe" that's the environment I grew up. How does one learn to trust when those you trusted betrayed their roles and safety net.
Putting friends first before your spouse is the issue I had with my x.
Constantly on the phone and wanting to always be with them.
It's over, I'm not second !!!
She will learn the hard way ,
@@pickupyourcrossdailyfriends should never come before spouses. My hubby has an annoying friend who does not respect boundaries and that’s the only time we argue, I have to explain that he should not have any say in how we spend our time x
Some women don't have a choice . . . some had detached father's who didn't model how to find a good loving spouse. We were abandoned and had to learn to be independent because we have never had a good man who had our back!
God heals us. I know He's healed me. God is my Father and all I need ❤
And when i learned all i turned 40 😊
Thank you for saying this. I'm in the same boat. What some people don't realize is that many of us are not single and independent by choice but by necessity. They look down on women who act more independent and "masculine" and don't bother to ask what has happened in the woman's life that has brought it about. They also don't offer to step up and be the man we would need them to be in order to free our feminine traits.
Date nights are so important. Key to happy marriage: God in the home, lots of love and never forget why you started dating! X
I have to be independent. I'm 58 and do not have a husband. I would starve to death and be homeless.
No, like all things in this world we should be interdependent. Interdependence is 2 or more independent fully capable people using their strengths together to get a job done better, faster and more effectively than a single independent person could
Women should absolutely be *capable* of independence when it's necessary. Lots of scenarios when it's necessary, pastor Mark. If you knew my story and the stories of thousands of women, maybe you'd have a different perspective.
Sure are LOTS of different scenarios for marriage and raising healthy kids. I was born in the 50's, came of age in the 70's women's feminist movement, including the lies that women could do everything a man could, that we could be sexual same as men, drugs, sex and rock and 😅roll. It was a DISASTER for most of us from that era. I'm 72 Now married 45 years and I understand that God's plan is and always was perfect. The individualist 'liberation' bs women and young men both practiced caused all the serious family issues that are now the norm. Driscoll is a strong, Godly man and his wife is a strong Godly woman. Seems they've been doing very well raising a big family of strong adults doing it Gods way. That is his perspective and it needs a lot more airtime these troubled evil days I'd say.
My first husband decided we didn't need to hold hands anymore after we got married. And he quit going to church and so we got a divorce.
Good for you on getting a divorce
@Sacrifice-Paid I had hoped that my 2nd husband would have been better, but he cheated on me before and after I had his baby. He wouldn't quit drinking and I left him too.
@@cjokc55 considering this is on a Christian channel, i assume you’re a Christian, were either of these so called men Christian’s?, cos it don’t sound like they were
@@cjokc55same with my first husband
There is a HUGE difference between “Shouldn’t be” and “need to be”
Widowed twice , what am I supposed to do!?!?!?!?!
The Lord is your first husband and he will tell you what to do. 🙏🏽
I remember when I understood that I needed the Lord and gave my life to Him and put in His hands that I needed to work after being in a terrible relationship. I wanted to be with Him and stay away from sin. After I prayed a few minutes after I got a call for a job and was going to start quickly and I'm good now, the Lord supplied me with it.
No, life insurance policies? You should be set.
I understand that the Lord is my first husband .
This title excludes widows completly
The same applies to men too. No one is born to live independently of our God.
I could never establish my life the way my husband has HELPED me! I am a wife and mother because of him❤❤
I was homeless, did drugs, went into prison, where I got to know God. He changed my life. Now I have a home, a wife and a lovely year old daughter (zoe), and a stream of income that gats me $47,000 weekly. Plus a new identity - a child of God, Hallelujah!!!🇺🇲❣️♥️❤️
GOD bless you more abundantly for your generosity
I'm genuinely curious to know how you earn that much weekly
Big thanks to Elizabeth Marie Hawley
Her top notch guidance and expertise on digital market changed the game for me
I always appreciate God for his kindness upon my life
Please do this again. Really enjoyed it and your daughter and son in law are lovely xx
I love my man, and I feel so blessed that I can work from home and watch our baby girl. To me it’s the best case scenario and I am extremely happy ❤ God blessed us so much and I’m so happy we waited for His timing
That was great, thank you! God bless.
Wow! There were some really good words in there. Praise YAH!
Thank you so much for this.
My parents did not protect me, that's for sure.
You're evangelizing in Brazil as well, pastor. 😊
SO GOOD! More of these please.
As a father and husband, I'm under the impression that i am the 3rd most important man in my household. Putting God and Jesus Christ above me is taught and encouraged.
Sometimes it’s not a choice
That picture and statement was definitely clickbait, not everyone even gets married.
Q1. Money does not make you the provider, especially if both earn money. So if mom earns more than me that's fine. As long as I provide my share of the finances as well as the security, taking care of the home, love my wife and honor God in my relationships with both my wife and kids as well as our friends. If God is number 1, then the money earning ego can't survive in a home.
Yeah, I get it. I get it all. As a teenager, I was a Liberal and pro-choice. NO longer.
I also believed I should be independent and never allow a man to dictate and control my life. Rightly so in some areas because of my personal experiences and observations.
Men are not all nice, loving and caring family leaders like you Pastor Mark. I experienced the abuse firsthand.
And also, from what I have witnessed time and again in other families, men where violent and abusive toward wives, daughters and sisters..., YES, in my own family and many of the other families of friends that I knew.
Rape, sexual abuse and incest was also not uncommon. That was the case everywhere I turned as a child, a young girl and later as a teenager.
Wives were also stuck in the home and if the dinner was not on the table as soon as he arrived from work there was going to be hell to pay, usually in the form of a good and swift beating. If she bulked at having sex with her drunken or abusive husband, more beatings would come. When women wanted to earn a living so as to have money of their own, they were laughed at and subjected to sexism, prejudice and also asked if their 'husbands approved'.
That is when the Women's Liberation Movement had already started. Women had had enough.
See, if men had not abused their authority as family leaders throughout the ages, I believe the awful Women's Lib would never have happened. Unfortunately, a great portion of the male population has abused their strength and leadership positions too many times in too many ways. And again, unfortunately, this sort of abuse (including beating wives when he is displeased) still happens (just look at Islamic doctrines and families). Men must come to understand that they are now paying for the harm they have caused women and children as well AND have done this throughout the centuries. Men should now stand up to be real men (no, not the effeminate men you see today, but real strong men), the kind that provides, protects, and leads with the fear of God, not the human-driven compulsion to control, abuse and subjugate. When most of the male population REPENTS, stop thinking of women as just a vagina on two legs or a servant to their every whim and desire, and becomes real men, perhaps women will again become real women.
Yes, you are totally correct in this. Men have failed, so women stepped up. A man should build up his family, his legacy, NOT tear it down. Shame on any man who does this!! Shame! Women, stop getting with these losers, please ! ♡
I think we SHOULD be prepared, confident, equipped and comfortable to take on anything that comes our way… the shame falls upon men that do not create environments where women are provided for, protected, loved and ENCOURAGED to be an independent person that is one half of a whole.
I depend on God. I’d love to have a marriage to also depend upon, but so far I’m still single.
I really wish I had parents that protected me. I’m really thankful for y’all’s ministry. I wish I had this guidance when I was younger.
🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢Please pray for salvation for Chris, Pete and Nick.
Maybe this is how it should be, but it is not how it actually is, sadly.
Sure it is how it is, actually. Me and my wife are living this out now. It's very attainable
@@adrianlaverick8040 How would your wife attain this if she never married you and was single?
It is for some of us.
@@abaker4692 I am so happy for you.
@@abaker4692 You're so blessed!
What about not wanting to see a mother in law as often ? How do you handle this in the marriage?
This title is crazy 😅😅😂
What if you are a 1 Tim 5:5 widow?
They never really addressed what the title of this video is. Was it just clickbait? Or are they addressing it in the question of who out earns who?
Things happened which aren’t good.
I told my sons-in-law no returns/refunds
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Cute.
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Who should grown, single women be dependent upon?
On God, of course
@@elishualevi490 yes of course, however, when you are dependent upon God, you still need to lead an ndependent life, house, vehicle, work, chores, etc.
Let’s start with the definition of independent: 1. free from outside control; not depending on another’s authority. 2. not depending on another for livelihood or subsistence.
Neither one of those should describe a believer and here’s why. 1 Peter 5:7 tells us to ‘cast all your anxiety’ on God. In Matthew 11:28-30 Jesus talks about coming to him to find rest if we are weary. Also Matt. 6:31,33 say this “Therefore do not worry, saying ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘what shall we drink?’ or ‘what shall we wear?’…But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you.” David said it best in Psalm 16:5, “The Lord is my chosen portion and my cup; You have made my lot secure.”
The point I’m trying to make is God is the only one you need to be dependent on unless/until you get married. Now if you’re lonely, finding some other believers to fellowship with and be encouraged by would be a healthy thing to do. I hope this helps. I’ve already written so much so I’ll spare you any more but my testimony and walk with Jesus has proven to me that he really is all you need. Praying for you, Sis ❤️
First God and then their husbands when and if they marry…
And if you're single? Not married?
Has this live finished
The title of the video seems misleading. Wouldn't something along the lines of how to raise children been aa lot more inline with what was discussed?
I agree. I think the title was just complete clickbait lol
Sometimes we don't have a choice
What are we supposed to do?? Men rejected us, but rest assured, we darned sure don’t want a woman! We have no choice but to be strong and independent. Explain Isaiah 4:1, please.
Become more feminine, not feminist. I am a woman. Don't compete with a man.
Independence vs. Autonomy. Unfortunately, this male-dominated world makes whores and witches out of women by depriving them of legitimate work. Women are diagnosed with a LIP condition at birth: limited income potential. The problem is extremely complex to encapsulate such a definitive statement. On the side of that same coin, can we say also that men are irresponsible? Although Isaiah 54 speaks of Israel, many women take this chapter as a promise to them during these times.
First, depend on Jesus, he is really the only person you can always depend on. And the Isaiah scripture is a continuation from chapter 3. The women are brought under judgement for the way they are behaving. I think 4:1 is a picture of the churches from an OT perspective but also speaks to modern, single women. Jesus is our husband and we are literally called by his name. Hope that helps ❤
”The Lord said: Because the daughters of Zion are haughty and walk with outstretched necks, glancing wantonly with their eyes, mincing along as they go, tinkling with their feet, therefore the Lord will strike with a scab the heads of the daughters of Zion, and the Lord will lay bare their secret parts. In that day the Lord will take away the finery of the anklets, the headbands, and the crescents; the pendants, the bracelets, and the scarves; the headdresses, the armlets, the sashes, the perfume boxes, and the amulets; the signet rings and nose rings; the festal robes, the mantles, the cloaks, and the handbags; the mirrors, the linen garments, the turbans, and the veils. Instead of perfume there will be rottenness; and instead of a belt, a rope; and instead of well-set hair, baldness; and instead of a rich robe, a skirt of sackcloth; and branding instead of beauty. Your men shall fall by the sword and your mighty men in battle. And her gates shall lament and mourn; empty, she shall sit on the ground.“
Isaiah 3:16-26 ESV
Always read before/after a scripture to find the answers. 🥰
WHAT IF MAN HAS DISABLES ??
So beautiful!!!!!
We cant help being alone and independent because there are no men anymore that love and seek God. No men who have good character.
Most men are seeking a woman with money. They are not real men anymore.
"It [feminism] is mixed up with a muddled idea that women are free when they serve their employers but slaves when they help their husbands."
G.K. Chesterton
I disagree, women should always be able to take care of themselves!
Sure, if they HAVE too. Not if married.
You go jezabel!
@@crodvideo1Wow! Scripture says we’re to encourage one another. Not call each other names.
*Be able to*, yes. Should they have to, no. You are correct.
I guess you didn’t listen to the video and what was actually said… didn’t hear 👂 anything.