And you don't have to rush yourself to do that Love takes Time but it also gets old when you can't find somebody to cuddle with cuddling is different than have a relationship but sometimes in some people ready to cuddle they cut everybody else off because they're scared to lose that person that they're dealing with at the time there's a lot of people in the industry that don't know how to be friends why they're cuddling in a relationship and other fans in other people get turned off because they're quick to turn them off once relationship and family become an issue of direction and sometimes couples want you to have a direction to match their positive direction to fit their perspective on what you are doing with your life until you come out with something like this and put it all on the table
There's a lot of girls in the industry that went through that and it's because y'all are so beautiful so attractive they can't believe that you started off like that again they did the same thing to Nikki Minaj they went back when she was in school just to show her body because they were so jealous about her figure not about her talent
Financial fear that you can't do it on your own without somebody helping you relationship fear finding somebody again to be physical with knowing you have to start from the beginning and protect yourself and not and not feeling as comfortable with them as the other people you were with before and have to go into the routine of using protection knowing new family members fighting about ex-girlfriends in-laws trouble families picking up the slack with money and being devoted to everything else
It took Mary almost a couple of decades to get a roll as soon as she got it she nailed it give it time people crazy give it time sometimes they want you to succeed with your success so they can feel less failures to theirs
You are one of the strongest woman to walk this earth! To have overcome everything u have and still be so sweet and forgiving says so much about you as a whole! Like everyone else has said in the comments baby girl you never fell off! You elevated honey!! I too am a survivor of both domestic violence and was sexually abused by a family member when I was in the 3rd grade and didn’t tell my mom or anyone til he passed away and I felt no pain no remorse nothing and had to explain to my mom why I wouldn’t attend his funeral! He was her grandpa and was her everything so I felt like she wouldn’t believe me or maybe I’d ruin the live she had for him I have no idea why I didn’t tell her til then so I understand exactly where you’re coming from! You’re an amazing woman Queen!
I feel you when you go through something you have to remember that everyone is not the same I've been in the same situation it just the people we are and that's a blessing to have a heart like that keep up the great work you are an inspiration to young and older people stay blessed 🙏❤
This song make me shed tears I was in the most abusive relationship never thought i would leave but I found out I was pregnant and it helped me leave my baby almost one and I haven’t been back since (me finding out I was pregnant) ❤️
When u type in "queen naija too much to say lyrics" its the 1st 1 to pop up i think thats y they used it and shouldnt have cuz it need to be deleted lol
You NEVER fell off! Did a successful tour till you were 8 months pregnant then had a baby, was raising two boy’s, dealt with and overcame postpartum depression then wrote enough songs for 3 albums. Man I wish I could fall off like that. Peace 🧡
The part where she said “the same person who is causing your pain is the same person who is relieving your pain” made me want to cry bc I Dead felt that 🥺
I hate how uncomfortable and fidgety she gets when it gets to that part. She was the person who was hurt. She didn’t do anything wrong. She’s a survivor!
A victim to that type of trauma you will always blame yourself or feel you could of prevented it. It’s hard to explain. Until you’ve completely healed from that situation which you probably never will it will always be uncomfortable to speak about out loud, unless she speaks about it out loud often.
I was sexually assaulted for 10 years by my foster parents and till this day I still live with the pain, but after being in 6 mental hospital I’ve fought there it all and if anyone is going there the same thing please speak out and try to find help. YOU ARE NOT ALONE
Her heart is so pure,I been watching her since she was living in her small apartment with that little red couch who would of thought she was going through so much,now look at her!She still don't talk bad about Chris while telling her story.She's such a great mom,singer,and person !
I mentioned the red couch in my comment too lol. I remember when the Chris and Queen channel had less than 100,000 subscribers. She's still the same humble person as she was back then.
i don’t think queen felt addicted to the abuse she endured from chris.... it’s not addicting. it’s just hard to get up and leave when you’re not prepared and still have love for the person in some ways, not to mention sharing a child w someone
Queen, as a divorced parent I completely understand the feelings you had with CJ jumping from house to house. My son also brought up “why don’t you and mom live together?” The great thing about kids is that they bounce back SO fast. With love and affection, they can get on board with any changes. Keep being his loving mother and he’ll be fine with 2 houses, 2 sets of rules, but also, 2 places to feel loved and happy!! As far as telling him, I think that’s Chris’ job as his father. Your role is to train him correctly. “Treat your girl with respect. Hold the door. Be a gentleman.” Those things... You shouldn’t bear the burden of exposing CJ to how his father treated you. Advice from a fan! Keep up the positive energy Queen!
It’s literally so sickening that she had to do her own “ genius interview “ just to get people to even try to attempt to understand her.. like no other artist/singer has ever had to do this before.. people hate queen soo much i don’t understand is it because she’s soo pure & kind and people are taking advantage of that ?? Like let’s be real... if she was like any of y’all favorite celebrities, boujee/ stuck up, conceited, y’all would say something about that!!! Like come on now how could you hate queen?? She has YET turn into someone that she isn’t, I don’t think she will ever change. A lot of y’all are miserable and unhappy with your own lives & it shows!!
They hate her because back then when she was explaining to her bullies people called her a colorist for how she use black as dark skin and call them ugly when black comes in all shades.
No that no true y’all will judge her for the stupidest thing but you know what don’t make sense yeah don’t do that to Cardi B or Nicki. Minaj you only do it to Queen
I truly admire how strong queen is, all the pain that this girl suffered and look at her today, raising two amazing young kings, having a whole MAN that loves her to death, dropped a wonderful album... karma exists and is a b*tch, congrats bby girl and keep doing yah thing 💯❤️
I just told my mom about what happened to me at 22. It’s definitely traumatic and almost embarrassing. I thought it was my fault for so long. I was no older than 5 so I resonate with this song so much omg 😭😭
We knew, I remember that “scandal” of your ex friend saying how Chris would beat you and about him putting you out the car pregnant in the cold and of course you defended him because you felt you had to. But the fact that over a year after the breakup you still didn’t air him out but he had the nerve to try to play you and talk down on you everyday as if he wasn’t the problem. Like it’s ridiculous.
That’s still the Father of her Son , so if she slanders him on social media her Son is going to see And even tho the situation is out there that’s out of her character
@@tee_deevy yea I know, that’s why it’s soo ridiculous. She thinks about their sons future while he just bashes and disrespects her constantly like he won’t see that one day.
@@candyliverpool3260 so why isn’t Chris “big” if that’s the case? They both put out music pertaining to their relationship. The difference is Queen’s music was better, hince why she’s much more successful than him.
18:54 I know you probably won't see this, but... I was abused/molested at 5 years old. He told me it was a game and I don't remember being scared or it hurting me, all I can remember is looking up at my younger Sister thinking I don't want him to play this game with her. Thankfully he was caught in the act before he touched my Sister. Anyway I always used to say the same that I don't think about it and it didn't affect me. I'm 51 now and it's only in the last couple of years I've realised how badly it did affect my life
@@menendawit4860 Thank-you ❤ I know it wasn't my fault but I still feel more ashamed than courageous. I can see now that it's had a negative impact on my life (drugs etc) I don't remember being scared at the time though so there's nothing frightens me about it now. The only thing I thought ever bothered me was imagining what he could have done to my little Sister 🤷🏻♀️ I appreciate your words though & hope you have a fantastic day 🙂
Queen I cried watching this and I’m only 16 and I’ve went through everything you was explaining in this video and I just cause you have a big heart for people people will never understand how it feel to forgive someone that had did soooo many bad things to you and I’m so grateful that I have a idol like you that let me know that I’m not the only person going through something I love you queen ✨ beautiful black strong queen 👑✨
I’m so sorry you went through that mama. Really 🤍 as easy as it sounds, try to heal, FOR YOURSELF. you shouldn’t still have to suffer because of that man’s horrible actions. Stay strong x
QUEEN THIS ABLUM HELPED ME sooo much !!! I feel less guilty for being happy after being broken.... I don’t regret anything I’ve done and it’s like you said it in a song and I love you for it. I get you !!! I’m proud of our growth and your compassion!!! Go offffff sis. !
My heart breaks for you social media is so cruel to you and you are literally so unproblematic. I enjoyed your album I NEED IT personally your music helped me when I was dealing with a horrible time in my relationship. You’re so sweet I love everything about it. You’ll do great things!
Disgust is what I felt after being molested. I was scared cause I was supposed to be protected but instead I’m keeping my attackers secret safe 😞 we know sis.
You could tell these are kids that are interpreting her lyrics. Staying sober doesn't only mean to not drink or smoke. Being sober is also having a clear and pure mind
I'm sorry people was speaking about this video somewhere "popular" and I came to watch it. My thing is for you to say you was molested and I'm not saying you weren't but you sure do let Cj out of your sight a lot to go over strangers houses. Like in the previous vlog you said CJ was at his friend house? At 5? I refuse to let my babies from out my sight as much as I be needing a break I just refuse. And for the sake of CJ show him that mommy and daddy can co-parent and come together. I mean Legend gets to have both his parents together. Why can't he?...
Are you for real what cj cant go to a friends house 😂 what he cant play and have friends pretty sure queen knows where he is at and who they are you are stupid. What she has been trough does not mean it will happen to cj you can not be paranoid about that for the rest of your life 😏. And if you raise youre kids like that and you dont let them go anywhere i feel sorry for them. Stop judging her thats what you are doing🙄
Are you dumb Queen and Chris ARE co-parenting that’s why he goes to his dad house for a certain amount of time then to his mom house she don’t raise him by herself ! Queen was molested by a family member !! She didn’t went out or at her friend house he was HER FAMILY
Queen I appreciate you writing your song, because I can relate to the domestic violence, being abused by a family member as a child and my oldest daughter seeing her father outside our home. It was a lot but time and forgiveness heals your soul. I was crying at the end. Keep your head up and hold it high. Keep striving and push forward.
That same person that makes you cry knows exactly what they did so they know how to fix it. But they enjoy the part of breaking you to feel like they fixing you. But it’s hard to find the pieces and put them back together all the time. Eventually pieces will come up missing and the damage is hard to be replaced. Either you will have to find the piece your self or somebody new can come and help you find it. But either way the person that broke you will just stop looking for the pieces eventually because they start to care less and less because they think nobody else will want you. But then when you come up miss or giving away to somebody else then they begin to realize your worth. But at that point it’s too late. You are a survivor of a lot and it’s so amazing to see another person through similar situations to me WIN!!! Even as a man I can relate to your life completely
You didn’t fall off, you made a family. You grew, you got stronger ❤️ you are a beautiful soul and a lovely mother. I love you queen keep doing the dam thing. I listen to your music almost everyday and this song was FIRE 🔥
Because he's getting his karma as we speak....he still in love with Queen has moved on and will never return....he got a baby by some chick he doesn't really know that well thats trying to take his son and he not making as much money as he was when Queen was with him so if you ask me I think he getting what he deserves
This video was not easy for her to make. Y’all have to understand that this song has a lot of emotional and traumatic events that took place in her life. Much Love to her. ❤️
I feel like sometimes I have undiagnosed ptsd and anxiety from being molested from age 7-12. I worry about my children a lot when they’re not with me. Sometimes I shut down when it comes to intimacy. My husband is very understanding. I see my “abuser” at most family functions. I battle between hating him and questioning whether he knew any better(he was molested as well. THE CYCLE MAN) . He’s 4 yrs older than me. He was a child as well when he started. He apologized when I was older , but I feel like he thinks he has to overcompensate for what he did. When I see him he’s very soft with me. He speaks with concern. He sometimes willingly gives me money that I don’t ask for like he’s trying to make up for something. It’s weird. I’ve never actually had a conversation with him about it. He apologized and I said ok. At one point I thought I forgave him, but I still feel weird around him.
@@tiarrawade1356 I completely understand how you feel I get that same feeling with my child I’m very over protective I could get why you feel like that with your abuser I’ve been around mine and it is weird you get this hatred out of nowhere you really can’t control it
@@ashleyrodriguez8583 stggg I feel so dumb for still crying over it. I was molested at 7 by my 6 year old cousin who was molested by the girl up the street. I’m 22, and I feel like I should be over it but I denied it in my mind so long causing depression and anxiety that I never TRULY addressed what happened and my pain until this past year. I was actually watching 13 reasons why and they addressed adolescent abuse by adolescents and I realized that what happened was molestation... I never knew how to categorize it bc I always thought molest and rape was with adults vs adults or adults and children. No one ever talked about children being molested or raped by children. I never knew how to classify what happened you know... sorry I’m rambling
@@tiarrawade1356 I feel the same about my cousin. I don’t hate her, I was 7 and she was 6. She molested me bc she was molested. I don’t know how I feel towards her.. its weird I feel bad for her bc she was molested too and no one discussed it with her so she would know it was wrong and not to be repeated. Idk son but I feel you 😔💔
Why do u think u need to EXPLAIN your life. You don't!! put it in a song as YOU DID ! , look book a meeting with @Beyonce (you are young) . And need some training. Your an easy target and Clarence isn't your back bone. Because your explaining yourself to the INTERNET! , you just let us know u don't have that person. (I'm not bashing ; she needs a true loyal friend/ a few hugs. )
Sometimes abuse is not always physical! There’s mental abuse and financial abuse! Such as you going into business with your spouse and then they take all the money when you separate, although you may have helped make most of the money!!
i think she mean the person who used to make u soo happy the happiest ever can hurt u. the most but we still chose to kinda chase the thought of the happiness they once gave us or they give us for a moment
You can tell she's still uncomfortable or was still working through some things at that point in her life, and she's gone through a lot but, she's certainly strong...
I can tell u wanted to cry when u was talking about the cj situation and the thing that happened with your family members it hurts me even tho it didn’t happen to me
Girl don’t every stress yourself out just bc someone said “Your a one hit” do u live in the moment, do what makes u happy don’t turn something that makes u happy into something stressful
To me forgiveness is something that is more so for yourself and not the other person sometimes in order to have closure or heal and move on from things you have to come to terms with it and forgive people.
So we are the same age and when I was 5 my female cousin molested me and I was 7 when my adopted brother molested me and 12 when my sister’s girlfriend’s 22 yr old brother molested me. So I had a hard time dealing with intimacy. However I’m married and my husband is the beat thing I could have ask for. He is so patient and understanding. I suffer from ptsd and depression now but I’m work on it. I’ve been following you since 2016 and I love where you are in life. I wish every female can have this outcome after getting out of a toxic relationship.
I'm sorry you had to endure all of this through this bitter world, I have been there before as well ad really really bad depression. Feel free to reach out to me if ever need to talk, I can give you some tips to help with your depression and PTSD. Stay strong hun. Time heals all wounds.
@@wynter_aneiya969 yeah I always felt as tho being in foster care made me a target for predators (well she not my real sister or whatever). It happened not matter what house I lived in, like if I had a sign on my head or something. And it was Like they knew what to say and do to make you let your gear down and then somehow it would always lead to that. I was way to young to be knowing about the thing I did at 5 and 7. I didn’t finally anyone until I was 16 and my caseworker and therapist was the only ones that believed me. Not my so called family so I don’t talk to them now and I’m 25.
The fact that you use to be a security guard and now you’re hiring security guards. It’s the boss up for me !
Yessss
And you don't have to rush yourself to do that Love takes Time but it also gets old when you can't find somebody to cuddle with cuddling is different than have a relationship but sometimes in some people ready to cuddle they cut everybody else off because they're scared to lose that person that they're dealing with at the time there's a lot of people in the industry that don't know how to be friends why they're cuddling in a relationship and other fans in other people get turned off because they're quick to turn them off once relationship and family become an issue of direction and sometimes couples want you to have a direction to match their positive direction to fit their perspective on what you are doing with your life until you come out with something like this and put it all on the table
There's a lot of girls in the industry that went through that and it's because y'all are so beautiful so attractive they can't believe that you started off like that again they did the same thing to Nikki Minaj they went back when she was in school just to show her body because they were so jealous about her figure not about her talent
Financial fear that you can't do it on your own without somebody helping you relationship fear finding somebody again to be physical with knowing you have to start from the beginning and protect yourself and not and not feeling as comfortable with them as the other people you were with before and have to go into the routine of using protection knowing new family members fighting about ex-girlfriends in-laws trouble families picking up the slack with money and being devoted to everything else
It took Mary almost a couple of decades to get a roll as soon as she got it she nailed it give it time people crazy give it time sometimes they want you to succeed with your success so they can feel less failures to theirs
You are one of the strongest woman to walk this earth! To have overcome everything u have and still be so sweet and forgiving says so much about you as a whole! Like everyone else has said in the comments baby girl you never fell off! You elevated honey!! I too am a survivor of both domestic violence and was sexually abused by a family member when I was in the 3rd grade and didn’t tell my mom or anyone til he passed away and I felt no pain no remorse nothing and had to explain to my mom why I wouldn’t attend his funeral! He was her grandpa and was her everything so I felt like she wouldn’t believe me or maybe I’d ruin the live she had for him I have no idea why I didn’t tell her til then so I understand exactly where you’re coming from! You’re an amazing woman Queen!
Some of us seen it all.....and understood everything .
Your beautiful Queen
Ughhh she’s such a strong and beautiful woman!! Always kept her head held high and never looked back! I admire this woman for real!!❤️
I feel you when you go through something you have to remember that everyone is not the same I've been in the same situation it just the people we are and that's a blessing to have a heart like that keep up the great work you are an inspiration to young and older people stay blessed 🙏❤
That’s your church up bringing be strong keep being BLESSED!!!!
This ALBUM IS ERRRRRYTHING!!!!!! NOOOOO SKIPSSSS.. I love more songs than others but every song is Fiyahhhhhhh. Great job Beautiful!!!!
girl just being a mother in general u got the world on ur shoulders
it takes soooo much talent to write such an emotion song and queen did just that!
Queen Naija!!! You did it girl!!! I am so proud of you!!! You came a long way and you deserve it all!!!!
This song make me shed tears I was in the most abusive relationship never thought i would leave but I found out I was pregnant and it helped me leave my baby almost one and I haven’t been back since (me finding out I was pregnant) ❤️
Congrats Ma🥺‼️
@@User0005- ❤️❤️
queen u are a star ..dont listen to the hater
Imagine Queen freaking Naija picking your lyric video for her to use in a video....and you have most of her damn lyrics wrong🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂😂😂
I said the same thing
🤣🤣🤣
LMAOOOOO
Dude yesss I was just thinking this. Embarrassing
When u type in "queen naija too much to say lyrics" its the 1st 1 to pop up i think thats y they used it and shouldnt have cuz it need to be deleted lol
I can’t believe she even had to break this song down.Every single lyric was self explanatory 🥲
Exactly
Especially THEE part (very self explanatory)
Exactly!!
Facts
I was thinking the same EXACT thing
Giiirrrrllll this song did NOT need a break down. Felt the song as SOON as I read the title. Love you Queen. Love the album too! NO SKIPS!
@K C Giiirrrrrrllll EVERY TIME!!!
OK!
“PUT MAKEUP OVER BRUISES AND FAKE A SMILE, I COULD PROBABLY RUIN LIVES IF I RUN MY MOUTH, TURN ON THE CAMERA WE GOTTA MAKE THIS MONEY NOW”’🥺🙏🏾
Is exactly what she’s doing with Clarence😂
@@allofthemoneyperiod5279 smhhh youre such a sad person
@@brooklynsmith369 not rlly it’s the truth
All of the money Period how you know?
SHE CRIED LISTENING TO HER OWN SONG JUST IMAGINE HOW MANY OTHER PEOPLE WERE JUST AS EMOTIONAL....I LOVE YOU QUEEN KEEP BEING BEAUTIFUL
I tear up every time I try to sing along to it. My voice always cracks! 😭😭😭😩🥺❤️
Yeah she took me there.
When did she cry ?
STREAM MISSUNDERSTOOD! My personal favs #2 #5 #6 #10 #16 🔥
Lol she never cried
You NEVER fell off! Did a successful tour till you were 8 months pregnant then had a baby, was raising two boy’s, dealt with and overcame postpartum depression then wrote enough songs for 3 albums. Man I wish I could fall off like that. Peace 🧡
Ong 😂 if that’s falling off I want it
This COMMENT 🔥💯👏🏼🗣💪🏼
Facts
It’s this comment for me 💯💯💯❤️
Beautiful
Queen made her own personal Genius interview...I’m here for it cuz sis getting her bag too👏🏾😌
Brilliant!!
She need to do this for all of her songs that can get misconstrued
@@itsuplike9947 I swear I read misconstrued in queen's voice.
@@itsuplike9947 exactly
@@frommypointofvu maybe for certain songs in the future.
She explained so many emotions and life events in one song. Not a lot of woman can do that today.
Listen to 90s music.. most black female artists did
Your beautiful queen and look so happy, I love it.
The part where she said “the same person who is causing your pain is the same person who is relieving your pain” made me want to cry bc I Dead felt that 🥺
Mannn ong she barely got it out n I knew exactly what she meant
The same person who is causing your pain is the same person who is relieving your pain.
I don't think she knows how much we crave her being herself
Yessssss
Fax I miss the happy, goofy, smiling vids. It seems like every time she comes back it’s always serious 😔😞
Soooo true!
Facts
💯!
I hate how uncomfortable and fidgety she gets when it gets to that part. She was the person who was hurt. She didn’t do anything wrong. She’s a survivor!
Yay I made 100 likes
A victim to that type of trauma you will always blame yourself or feel you could of prevented it. It’s hard to explain. Until you’ve completely healed from that situation which you probably never will it will always be uncomfortable to speak about out loud, unless she speaks about it out loud often.
Try not to say victim guys 🖤 we are SURVIVORS‼️ thinking this way helps so much
@@n0mvdslvnd584 Got it. Sorry for that. I’m changing it now.
I was sexually assaulted for 10 years by my foster parents and till this day I still live with the pain, but after being in 6 mental hospital I’ve fought there it all and if anyone is going there the same thing please speak out and try to find help. YOU ARE NOT ALONE
Praying for you and your healing!
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❤❤❤❤❤
Her heart is so pure,I been watching her since she was living in her small apartment with that little red couch who would of thought she was going through so much,now look at her!She still don't talk bad about Chris while telling her story.She's such a great mom,singer,and person !
I mentioned the red couch in my comment too lol. I remember when the Chris and Queen channel had less than 100,000 subscribers. She's still the same humble person as she was back then.
Period we know you write your own music ‼️Mr. Cough aka “same jeans” try to discredit u and ion like that
Lmao exactly
Bad beard, same jeans, lord bad fits needs to quit speaking
@@jannaeleslie4423 dont forget black ice lmao
Mr. Black ice😂😂😂😂
Same jeans 💀
I don’t understand how ppl thought she’d be a one hit wonder when all her songs after medicine did NUMBERS💀💀
That’s what I’m saying🤔
Because it was BEFORE the album came out. That’s why.
Okay bars
@@asiasamuels4791 Ik I was talking about before the album too
Waiting for Chris..... “Reacting to Queen reacting to Too much to say (She said this about me)
😂😂facts
on my mammy!! he coming, he cant wait!! and im waiting for Clarence to F L A M E build-a-Clare!!
shutup
You forgot his usual *gets emotional
@@yupitsme9713 🤣🤣🤣😂😂 FACTS!
Domestic Violence is REAL and yes it’s VERY HARD to leave that cycle is addictive it’s mental you can easily get trapped in that cycle 💯
i don’t think queen felt addicted to the abuse she endured from chris.... it’s not addicting. it’s just hard to get up and leave when you’re not prepared and still have love for the person in some ways, not to mention sharing a child w someone
Queen deserves EVERYTHING 💚. I’m sorry about all that you went thru but it has made you STRONGER. And you have a TESTIMONY sis. Love you💚✨✨.
man, when she said she had to get off because she didn’t want to cry in front of the camera. It made me want to give her a hug man.
Literally I love the raw n cut version of qeen
Me too😭🥺
She so strong I love her
She deff is strong!
Queen, as a divorced parent I completely understand the feelings you had with CJ jumping from house to house. My son also brought up “why don’t you and mom live together?”
The great thing about kids is that they bounce back SO fast. With love and affection, they can get on board with any changes. Keep being his loving mother and he’ll be fine with 2 houses, 2 sets of rules, but also, 2 places to feel loved and happy!!
As far as telling him, I think that’s Chris’ job as his father. Your role is to train him correctly. “Treat your girl with respect. Hold the door. Be a gentleman.” Those things... You shouldn’t bear the burden of exposing CJ to how his father treated you.
Advice from a fan! Keep up the positive energy Queen!
Well said
Wow 🥺 well said
very mature comment. Although I wouldn't trust Chris with explaining everything to CJ. I don't think he would be honest.
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I love this
It’s literally so sickening that she had to do her own “ genius interview “ just to get people to even try to attempt to understand her.. like no other artist/singer has ever had to do this before.. people hate queen soo much i don’t understand is it because she’s soo pure & kind and people are taking advantage of that ?? Like let’s be real... if she was like any of y’all favorite celebrities, boujee/ stuck up, conceited, y’all would say something about that!!! Like come on now how could you hate queen?? She has YET turn into someone that she isn’t, I don’t think she will ever change. A lot of y’all are miserable and unhappy with your own lives & it shows!!
Yes Corsha! That’s exactly what it is. Her soul is so pure. Definitely give me Jhene vibes ❤️
@@vimeshipippen8901 yes!!
They hate her because back then when she was explaining to her bullies people called her a colorist for how she use black as dark skin and call them ugly when black comes in all shades.
@@nonameyet9952 yes I saw that video of her talking about that but I didn’t find that colorist .
@@corshashanbria me neither.
When Queen cried I cried... wow I’m happy she’s in a better place in life and happy ❤️
Me too 😭 I've been there
Sweaaar
That fact that Queen got to explain her own song to everyone on the Internet that sad 😔😒
Not really because people explain their songs on genius and everywhere else all the time.... she not the only one
No that no true y’all will judge her for the stupidest thing but you know what don’t make sense yeah don’t do that to Cardi B or Nicki. Minaj you only do it to Queen
Facts!!!
This is what music artist do, she just getting paid to do it.
Music artist get asked what their song mean all the time. It's a part of the game.
I truly admire how strong queen is, all the pain that this girl suffered and look at her today, raising two amazing young kings, having a whole MAN that loves her to death, dropped a wonderful album... karma exists and is a b*tch, congrats bby girl and keep doing yah thing 💯❤️
I just told my mom about what happened to me at 22. It’s definitely traumatic and almost embarrassing. I thought it was my fault for so long. I was no older than 5 so I resonate with this song so much omg 😭😭
@@thebiggestd7998 ❤️❤️❤️
We knew, I remember that “scandal” of your ex friend saying how Chris would beat you and about him putting you out the car pregnant in the cold and of course you defended him because you felt you had to. But the fact that over a year after the breakup you still didn’t air him out but he had the nerve to try to play you and talk down on you everyday as if he wasn’t the problem. Like it’s ridiculous.
That’s still the Father of her Son , so if she slanders him on social media her Son is going to see
And even tho the situation is out there that’s out of her character
The reason why she get so big is because her whole story is about Chris and dragging him.
@@tee_deevy yea I know, that’s why it’s soo ridiculous. She thinks about their sons future while he just bashes and disrespects her constantly like he won’t see that one day.
@@candyliverpool3260 you a damn lie.
@@candyliverpool3260 so why isn’t Chris “big” if that’s the case? They both put out music pertaining to their relationship. The difference is Queen’s music was better, hince why she’s much more successful than him.
18:54 I know you probably won't see this, but... I was abused/molested at 5 years old. He told me it was a game and I don't remember being scared or it hurting me, all I can remember is looking up at my younger Sister thinking I don't want him to play this game with her. Thankfully he was caught in the act before he touched my Sister. Anyway I always used to say the same that I don't think about it and it didn't affect me. I'm 51 now and it's only in the last couple of years I've realised how badly it did affect my life
@Valerie Shinia Thank-you 🙂 I appreciate the hugs 🤗 Hope you have an amazing day
sending you all the love ❤️❤️❤️ i’m so sorry. thank you for your courage to share this.
@@menendawit4860 Thank-you ❤ I know it wasn't my fault but I still feel more ashamed than courageous. I can see now that it's had a negative impact on my life (drugs etc) I don't remember being scared at the time though so there's nothing frightens me about it now. The only thing I thought ever bothered me was imagining what he could have done to my little Sister 🤷🏻♀️ I appreciate your words though & hope you have a fantastic day 🙂
Late but your brain has a way of shielding the trauma
"A lot of this is wrong" 😭 That person just wrote what they thought they heard
Doesn't change the fact that it was wrong so she cleared it up😭😭
@@7279654 lol
Queen I cried watching this and I’m only 16 and I’ve went through everything you was explaining in this video and I just cause you have a big heart for people people will never understand how it feel to forgive someone that had did soooo many bad things to you and I’m so grateful that I have a idol like you that let me know that I’m not the only person going through something I love you queen ✨ beautiful black strong queen 👑✨
If someone hurt you, tell somebody,.
sending you love ❤️
I was molested by my dad from ages 7-14. I am 21 now and still dealing with it. Flashbacks and nightmares. It’s awful. I still don’t trust men.
I’m so sorry you went through that mama. Really 🤍 as easy as it sounds, try to heal, FOR YOURSELF. you shouldn’t still have to suffer because of that man’s horrible actions. Stay strong x
Definitely think about the kids. I was traumatized as a child watching my mom go through domestic violence.
Same... and those noises and fights you hear and see NEVER go away. Glad you’re safe now
QUEEN THIS ABLUM HELPED ME sooo much !!! I feel less guilty for being happy after being broken.... I don’t regret anything I’ve done and it’s like you said it in a song and I love you for it. I get you !!! I’m proud of our growth and your compassion!!! Go offffff sis. !
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
My heart breaks for you social media is so cruel to you and you are literally so unproblematic. I enjoyed your album I NEED IT personally your music helped me when I was dealing with a horrible time in my relationship. You’re so sweet I love everything about it. You’ll do great things!
I love the fact that she didn’t cut out the part when she messed up with the laptop 😂💀❤️
Being you and not hiding anything 🙌🏻
you say “ya know” a lot and it’s the cutest thing to me lol
The fact that queen is such a kind person and people still try to use her kindness for weakness is sad
Ong
Disgust is what I felt after being molested. I was scared cause I was supposed to be protected but instead I’m keeping my attackers secret safe 😞 we know sis.
I felt that 😕
I know exactly what you mean
So well said
crippling.. LOVE YOU
@@lakeiam615 years later now I’m struggling to be confident in my femininity without attracting unwanted attention. It takes support ❤️💯
People always hating on Queen and she so humble and dont even be doing nothing, they just always got something bad say abt her for nothing.
I really don't get it honestly. She just about her business really
Facts 💯💯💯
She’s no different then the rest of us, stop idolizing her!!!
They said she was a colorist
They should love her life is to short
My first time hearing it, I cried & I just kept saying “I’m so sorry Queen” 🥺❤️ Sending you a million hugs & tons of love your way as always
This woman has been through so much yet she’s still out here being her self and being so open and confident it’s crazy
Nobody
Chris “ This was highly requested to react to “
YOOO 😭😭😭😭
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣😆🤣🤣
😂😂
Man I said the same thing! This nigga always says this was highly requested. BOY BYE!
😂😂😂😂💀
Em I the only one who's tearing up when she was talking about Cj going back and forth 😢😢 So relatable that hit me hard
Same!!!
You could tell these are kids that are interpreting her lyrics. Staying sober doesn't only mean to not drink or smoke. Being sober is also having a clear and pure mind
💯 thank you. It’s a lot deeper
Thank you 💯 they’re so vain and immature.
I'm sorry people was speaking about this video somewhere "popular" and I came to watch it. My thing is for you to say you was molested and I'm not saying you weren't but you sure do let Cj out of your sight a lot to go over strangers houses. Like in the previous vlog you said CJ was at his friend house? At 5? I refuse to let my babies from out my sight as much as I be needing a break I just refuse. And for the sake of CJ show him that mommy and daddy can co-parent and come together. I mean Legend gets to have both his parents together. Why can't he?...
Are you for real what cj cant go to a friends house 😂 what he cant play and have friends pretty sure queen knows where he is at and who they are you are stupid. What she has been trough does not mean it will happen to cj you can not be paranoid about that for the rest of your life 😏. And if you raise youre kids like that and you dont let them go anywhere i feel sorry for them. Stop judging her thats what you are doing🙄
@@reneevendelo7452 😑🤦🏾♀️....no comment
Are you dumb Queen and Chris ARE co-parenting that’s why he goes to his dad house for a certain amount of time then to his mom house she don’t raise him by herself ! Queen was molested by a family member !! She didn’t went out or at her friend house he was HER FAMILY
Queen I appreciate you writing your song, because I can relate to the domestic violence, being abused by a family member as a child and my oldest daughter seeing her father outside our home. It was a lot but time and forgiveness heals your soul. I was crying at the end. Keep your head up and hold it high. Keep striving and push forward.
I could see Queen holding so much in but yet can't let it out cause things would go side ways...
That’s not only past but present too.
True ppl might say she’s crying because of chris🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@bonniecamile299 she got emotional about her past not her present. She clearly said she happy now and is in a better place.
@@ketag620 she clearly said she happy now and is in a better place, so she got emotional about her past.
@@bonniecamile299 I don’t care what she said, it’s clear to see.
That same person that makes you cry knows exactly what they did so they know how to fix it. But they enjoy the part of breaking you to feel like they fixing you. But it’s hard to find the pieces and put them back together all the time. Eventually pieces will come up missing and the damage is hard to be replaced. Either you will have to find the piece your self or somebody new can come and help you find it. But either way the person that broke you will just stop looking for the pieces eventually because they start to care less and less because they think nobody else will want you. But then when you come up miss or giving away to somebody else then they begin to realize your worth. But at that point it’s too late. You are a survivor of a lot and it’s so amazing to see another person through similar situations to me WIN!!! Even as a man I can relate to your life completely
💔😭 no words this is deep...
Wow I couldn’t have said it better myself! So deep. Keep winning ;-)
You are a winner too My brother 💪🏾❤️🥰
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Couldn't have said it better 🗣💯 !
She was trying so hard not to cry :(( We love you queen.
I got choked up and shed tears multiple times during Queen speaking. 💔
Felt real bad for her but glad now she’s doing way better then before
You didn’t fall off, you made a family. You grew, you got stronger ❤️ you are a beautiful soul and a lovely mother. I love you queen keep doing the dam thing. I listen to your music almost everyday and this song was FIRE 🔥
Awe Queen a real one . She couldn't have been given a better name . She truly is a Queen 🥰❤❤🙏
queen really is a genuine soul, yall need to leave her alone
THE QUEEN HAS SPOKEN 💯
P E R I O D 👏🏾
Spokentth 👌
“Finding She” should be the title of your next album
❤️ you’ll be surprised what people go through behind closed doors.💔
You and Layton Greene should do a song on that topic when y’all were younger
“24 still living with the trauma” I felt that in my soul Queen. I love you for being a voice for us that can’t speak 😫❤️
Her talking about this reminds me of layton greene blame on me
I wonder if everyone in the studio was crying while recording this song?
Seeing Queen cry made wanna jump through the screen and hug her. I love her so much bro 🥺🥺
People was calling her dumb for showing her true personality like what that’s what we loved about her 🙁😳😩❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯💯😍‼️😍
Girl YU NEVER FELL OFF ppl hate yu for no fckn reason. You're humble, sweet, & Godly.
Agreed ‼️
Okay fr she never fell off she is deff humble!
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💯💯.
Amen facts
How Chris not cancelled yet tf
Because young niggas think is oké to SUPPORT a ABUSER !!!
because people don't think chris never do anything wrong they always blame Queen
he is for me
Tbh no one is ever cancelled no matter how much we want them to be
Because he's getting his karma as we speak....he still in love with Queen has moved on and will never return....he got a baby by some chick he doesn't really know that well thats trying to take his son and he not making as much money as he was when Queen was with him so if you ask me I think he getting what he deserves
I relate to it so much 🥺 you got big things coming your way queen never let anyone dull your sparkle ❤️ .
Me too
I’m sending love to anybody that’s reading this 💕 queen you are phenomenal 👏🏾
Thank you King, sending love to you too.
❤️❤️❤️
Her eyebrows be so damn perfect😍😍
@@user-jn1xw6gf9c 😂😂😂 remember, they were hella thick and very dark..
@@user-jn1xw6gf9c she’s still dating clare....
the whole album was fire. but this song hit for me
If no one streamed misunderstood then there is a problem
This video was not easy for her to make. Y’all have to understand that this song has a lot of emotional and traumatic events that took place in her life. Much Love to her. ❤️
How can you fall off when you haven’t reached your peak yet? Queen definitely has a long career ahead of her. Keep goingggg suhhhh 😬😬
Chris about to make a video saying “ALRIGHT YOU GUYS THIS REACTION VIDEO WAS HIGHLY REQUESTED” 😂💀
You jinxed it..
No he literally is 😂
" I didnt want to react to this but y'all kept spamming me so here ya go" 😂😂
Lmao true
ain’t never clicked so fast lmaoo
Me either 😂😂😂😂
When you get molested it hard to move on from that you always get flash backs or you prejudge a situation bc you are constantly reliving
I feel like sometimes I have undiagnosed ptsd and anxiety from being molested from age 7-12. I worry about my children a lot when they’re not with me. Sometimes I shut down when it comes to intimacy. My husband is very understanding.
I see my “abuser” at most family functions. I battle between hating him and questioning whether he knew any better(he was molested as well. THE CYCLE MAN) . He’s 4 yrs older than me. He was a child as well when he started. He apologized when I was older , but I feel like he thinks he has to overcompensate for what he did. When I see him he’s very soft with me. He speaks with concern. He sometimes willingly gives me money that I don’t ask for like he’s trying to make up for something. It’s weird. I’ve never actually had a conversation with him about it. He apologized and I said ok. At one point I thought I forgave him, but I still feel weird around him.
@@tiarrawade1356 I completely understand how you feel I get that same feeling with my child I’m very over protective I could get why you feel like that with your abuser I’ve been around mine and it is weird you get this hatred out of nowhere you really can’t control it
I was raped at 3 and it’s something that you swam with for life
@@ashleyrodriguez8583 stggg I feel so dumb for still crying over it. I was molested at 7 by my 6 year old cousin who was molested by the girl up the street. I’m 22, and I feel like I should be over it but I denied it in my mind so long causing depression and anxiety that I never TRULY addressed what happened and my pain until this past year. I was actually watching 13 reasons why and they addressed adolescent abuse by adolescents and I realized that what happened was molestation... I never knew how to categorize it bc I always thought molest and rape was with adults vs adults or adults and children. No one ever talked about children being molested or raped by children. I never knew how to classify what happened you know... sorry I’m rambling
@@tiarrawade1356 I feel the same about my cousin. I don’t hate her, I was 7 and she was 6. She molested me bc she was molested. I don’t know how I feel towards her.. its weird I feel bad for her bc she was molested too and no one discussed it with her so she would know it was wrong and not to be repeated. Idk son but I feel you 😔💔
Why do u think u need to EXPLAIN your life. You don't!! put it in a song as YOU DID ! , look book a meeting with @Beyonce (you are young) . And need some training. Your an easy target and Clarence isn't your back bone. Because your explaining yourself to the INTERNET! , you just let us know u don't have that person. (I'm not bashing ; she needs a true loyal friend/ a few hugs. )
Queen deserves all the happiness and success that's coming her way. she's so strong, literally the epitome of her name
Sometimes abuse is not always physical! There’s mental abuse and financial abuse! Such as you going into business with your spouse and then they take all the money when you separate, although you may have helped make most of the money!!
looking like a arabian princess DAMN
i think she mean the person who used to make u soo happy the happiest ever can hurt u. the most but we still chose to kinda chase the thought of the happiness they once gave us or they give us for a moment
They stressing her out! Messing up the lyrics of that girl song
Queens voice trembling broke my heart
You can tell she's still uncomfortable or was still working through some things at that point in her life, and she's gone through a lot but, she's certainly strong...
I can tell u wanted to cry when u was talking about the cj situation and the thing that happened with your family members it hurts me even tho it didn’t happen to me
Queen your a great mom.Your everything a dude want. Your a church girl, fine asf, loyal, and sweet. And your kind hearted.😍😍😍😍😍
You know how miserable you gotta be to dislike a video🥴
That's chris subscribers
@@chezellemiller6517 I’m already knowing,just sad af
Girl don’t every stress yourself out just bc someone said “Your a one hit” do u live in the moment, do what makes u happy don’t turn something that makes u happy into something stressful
To me forgiveness is something that is more so for yourself and not the other person sometimes in order to have closure or heal and move on from things you have to come to terms with it and forgive people.
True
I agree
So we are the same age and when I was 5 my female cousin molested me and I was 7 when my adopted brother molested me and 12 when my sister’s girlfriend’s 22 yr old brother molested me. So I had a hard time dealing with intimacy. However I’m married and my husband is the beat thing I could have ask for. He is so patient and understanding. I suffer from ptsd and depression now but I’m work on it. I’ve been following you since 2016 and I love where you are in life. I wish every female can have this outcome after getting out of a toxic relationship.
@@wynter_aneiya969 same 😭
I'm sorry you had to endure all of this through this bitter world, I have been there before as well ad really really bad depression. Feel free to reach out to me if ever need to talk, I can give you some tips to help with your depression and PTSD. Stay strong hun. Time heals all wounds.
Damn, so sorry you had to go through this. Praying for your healing 🙏🏾 you’re strong!
@@crystalfoyle9309 thank you. It’s has been hard but I’m a fighter.
@@wynter_aneiya969 yeah I always felt as tho being in foster care made me a target for predators (well she not my real sister or whatever). It happened not matter what house I lived in, like if I had a sign on my head or something. And it was Like they knew what to say and do to make you let your gear down and then somehow it would always lead to that. I was way to young to be knowing about the thing I did at 5 and 7. I didn’t finally anyone until I was 16 and my caseworker and therapist was the only ones that believed me. Not my so called family so I don’t talk to them now and I’m 25.
“Say what u mean” hits different😩
Yes 🙌
Yes it does
My favvvv
THANK YOU!!! Finally said it!
factsssss
Lots of little girls watched this video and finally told there story to someone Queen. Thank you for inspiring ❤️
awww she almost cried i love her sm 🥺 she didn’t deserve that no one does that hurt me :( she has such a pure soul