My Ex Chose His New Family Over His Daughters | KARAMO
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- Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024
- She says her ex-husband is estranged from their daughters ever since he’s remarried. He says that both he and his ex have moved on but he wants to his children to be involved in both households. Their daughters are in crisis and deeply hurt. Will they be able to leave Karamo more united than they were?
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Men act like child support is an offense against them or a punishment. Stop making kids you won't take care of!!
Odd chocolate SPEAK ON IT
It's so weird. It's their responsibility. He needs to embrace his responsibility
….can’t agree I’m not on child support and he’s been a single dad for awhile because I was homeless and shit
AMEN
Women need to stop having children as well it takes 2. Blessings.
He abandoned those kids because he's mad about that child support. Now he's up there performing to try to prove to the current wife all those lies he been telling.
What about the exwife?
Yup
@@nick_fury6120 what about her? bitter ass don't want to help heal her daughters, she just wants to be right about him, and not take responsibility for her own part in this carwreck
@@d820m correct
Facts
This man is a professional victim. An apology is so hard to accept from someone like him.
I like that term, "professional victim"..very accurate!
YES!!!!
Accept people where they are. Do we want to see a change?
The mom too.
Both have unresolved issues
I don't think the apology was real..he's literally telling at them while he's doing it talking about I should've fought your mother.. No. He's the worse and his wife enables his behavior. It's truly sad bc those girls are suffering. He had his chance to get it together.
I’ve heard that a lot of men treat their children how they feel about their Mother, and I’ve found that to be true. I’ve experienced it with my own father.
7yrs without seeing his children? There is no excuse for that. When a parent loves their children, there is NOTHING that can keep them from doing what needs to be done to be in their childrens’ lives.
I hadn’t seen my dad for 7 years at the time either, he was an ex felon at the time and had to move to California to provide a better life for us at the time he had 4 kids including me so 4. He moved around and then moved to California where he now had 8 kids and was able to financially support us all. Even though I couldn’t see him then and I was going through anxiety and attitude problems I stuck through it and last year was the first time I got to see him in so long and it was like we picked up where we left off and not once was it awkward I love my dad and I’m currently with him now for the summer and when I tell you he let me know EVERYTHING that was happening. In this case it was my mom projecting what he and her went through and did trust me going out to him because 1 I would be flying alone and 2 she had seen my dad in 10 years.But her and my dad were able to break through that and they are now best friends.
💯
The fact when they came out he didn’t even stand to embrace them says it all.
I was thinking the same thing
No bond. No emotional connection.
@@t.antoinette2383 yea real disappointing
Right
Let’s be honest tho…. After 7 years, he knew better than to just hug them like everything was ok. I was hoping some kind of emotions were shown tho, but there’s so much damage.
This broke my heart two gorgeous daughters with angry parents. They deserved so much better
yes this was tough to watch. those girls don't deserve the excuses. they just want/need their father.
@@dastony1969 Yes it was. It’s sad that neither parent could put their children first while on the show. I give props to the mom but this still says a lot about both of them.
The new wife should mind her business because she only knows what he tells her 😢
Men lie well when they dont know the truth for real.
Man that’s so true. I was dumb asf and believed the man when his bm was telling my dumb ass nah girl it ain’t what u think it is😂these niggas be lyyyiiing.
She sure should ain’t her problem. The Wife should carry on without a care in the world
What that has to di with the wife...the kids didn't even like her
B-I-N-G-O!!!!!
I don’t see a bitter mom, I see a mother protecting her kids from an inconsistent father. I see a father who doesn’t take responsibility for his lack of parenting, wanting to control how his kids view him when unfortunately they’ve grown to see that he wasn’t there or didn’t put in enough effort. Mom says she works a few jobs to support her babies meanwhile dad is on unemployment and complaining that he can’t live right because he’s paying child support 🧐🤨‼️
She is bitter because she keeps stressing his cheating its a dead giveaway!! Quotes " I could have him if i want to" "he is a serial cheater" " he had a woman in my bed"
u know its possible to have a bitter mom and an inconsistent dad at the same time right? u gotta be a female because anyone can see shes bitter, he mentions something in the beginning explaining to karamo and says his wife and the mom immediately gets triggered lol. Matterfact the moms first convo with Karamo told me all i needed to know so for you to not see shes bitter im not surprised, you taking sides tho for sure!
@@vidalsmith9160 exactly , he stressing what his n her situation got to do with seeing his kids and she bringing up stuff regarding his infidelity lol
@Vidal Smith it's not bitter n it's being tired of his continous lies to not just ne but now his kids..learn the difference
@@trenellcarter1663 I agree with you
I don't think Mama is bitter. I think Mama is TI'ED‼️ She had to take care of those girls, no matter what, while dad did his own thing, with another woman's children‼️ Those kind of men want to control EVERYTHING, but they have nothing to give. EVERYTHING is ALWAYS about them.
Preach! He moved on ...and taking care of a new family....but can't take care of HIS OWN.
@@DeeDiamond2981 🎯🎯🎯‼️‼️‼️
Folks are so ready to call black women resentful/bitter, but look at this foolishness!! They love to say, "pick better men," but nobody is holding their behinds accountable‼️😡
How about be a better man for your own children, FIRST‼️
The time of bl@ck women doing all the heavy lifting/emotional labor is OVER‼️‼️‼️
She shouldn't be tired, they've been divorce for years. That lady is bitter and full of envy😂
Tired and bitter because it's an on going problem. Those are still kids!! Duh she's still mad. Envious I highly doubt it 3:04
@@marionmjones3415, loud and wrong.🥴
Sooo...it's ok for him to take care of other kids, not even caring if his own kids were ok?! That's wild, but ok.
I love how Karamo IMMEDIATELY got up when the daughters left. This shows that he cares for people so MUCH. I feel like the mom and dad still have sexual tension, because their body language towards each other is insane! The are wholly incompatible. I never understood HOW men justify abandoning their kids. The new wife should be ashamed she married a coward. Bless those babies. This is rough!!
No..it shows he cares about women more. Noticed all his video is how men did some wrong
That’s his direct experience as a social worker, it really sets him apart from other talk show hosts. He’s been doing people for years without cameras. Love him and this show!
@ZhenMitch I have seen shows and clips where he gets on the woman too for doing wrong. Maybe U need to watch more clips, and U will see for yourself. Now, as far as this situation goes, the father is dead wrong for not seeing his kids and making himself out to be the victim. In this case, U haven't seen yoir kirs because U didn't want to for whatever reason. What U do instead is play the victim and U have that whoa is me mentality. U want that awe moment and and for everyone to feel sorry about U. This cat did say one thing right and that is this, it is about the children. Then he immediately followed that with a fukk up when he started the whoa is me thing again. The wife in this situation should if anything, sit him down and make sure he sees his daughters. She should bot say anything negative to the ex or the kids for it is not hwr place to inject herself that strongly.thr ex is not putting up with the tomfoolery and is doing her best to protect them from the heartbreak of him not stepping up. When the kids left, the arguing should have stopped from both sides immediately but it didnt. One of the reasons why is because of his whoa is me victimhood mentality. If U felt that strongly about her keeping U away from the kids then why didn't U go through the court system to fight for custody.
@@Califah45your take makes no sense what is 500 from 600
Then you look at the fact he openly said even though he couldn't afford it
He still made efforts the mother did that on purpose to push a even bigger wedge between him and the girls
@robertmiles1132 U clearly dont see the whoa is me victimhood mentality. When Ummm by saying I tried, but she won't this or she won't that, that is victimhood mentality or whoa is me syndrome. Now, if he felt that strongly about seeing his kids, then why didn't he go through the courts to get visitation instead of saying what he said on the show. Why did he make her out to be the bad parent when he didn't do what he was supposed to do? Why did one of his daughters say she is tired of trying when she keeps getting let down? Why isn't he stopping the new wife from talking down to the ex-wife, and why isn't she saying to him U need to go see your daughters? Why is the new wife not helping him to go see his daughters? Make what U said make sense to me please.
He is ridiculous!! I wouldn't care what the mother said. There is no way I would ever abandon my children.
Agreed
Sounds like the mother is the problem
I guess you haven't been through that situation but this lady is bitter.
@@overcomeriam6overcomer328 ok still my children not about her unless I’m legally told stay away from my children I’ll continue to advocate for them
THE MOTHER IS THE PROBLEM..GET OVER IT, HE DONT WANT HER
This was sad. I think mom needs therapy too. She’s not over what he did to her and the pain and anger is compounded by him neglecting their daughters, he irresponsibly created more children and an extended family but he can’t even provide for himself. Why would a man keep making children and attaching himself to other women when he hasn’t even taken the time to establish himself?
I don’t know why nobody else said it, but he’s a terrible father and husband. He is completely performative, insincere, and irresponsible. Is ex is working 2-3 jobs at a time trying to provide for their children. She never grieved or healed. His children are suffering. His new wife is acting like a shield. All of this would be different if this man were a good husband and father. Look at the destruction he caused. Just ruining lives…
Spot onnnnn analysis!!
I had therapy and im fine but when people ask me to n speak on the hurt he causes it does still sting but im definitely good exact reason I don't talk to him to keep my peace
@@LadyMoeJoeLLC
I don’t want to offend you but based on this you aren’t fine and neither are your girls. That’s not an insult. It an observation. It’s extremely difficult to address trauma that’s caused subconscious programming. It’s trapped in your nervous system. It is 100% understandable that his shenanigans are triggering. But the fact that he is/and his behavior is shows you aren’t fine. When you’re fine you will remember the events but the emotion behind them won’t be so raw. That’s a sign the emotions have never been processed by your nervous system. You’re able to ignore it and suppress it when he isn’t around. But that means you’re carrying this unprocessed trauma when you already have your hands full with everyday life. You and your girls deserve better. If you’re interested you might want to try EMDR therapy. All EMDR therapist aren’t created equal so look for one that has a lot of experience and success. I wish you and your girls nothing but the best. ❤️
@@peacefreedom4930 This is so true and often unknown and/or unrealized. I pray for the entire family. This was hard to watch because there’s APPARENTLY so much hurt for the women and too many excuses from the man.
@@LadyMoeJoeLLC I hope things are better now. I know and acknowledge that the guy hurt you but you were on the show to talk about the kids and most of what you said is what transpired between the two of you. Shouting and yelling at each other only did more damage to the kids. Yes he hurt you yes he should have done better to be there for the kids and manned up. But we can't ignore that you still bitter from what he put you through. Put the differences aside and focus on the girls.
Karamo is starting to become one of my favorite human beings! This is a man right here! Providing protection and provision for those girls was his main priority🙏🏾 You are what we needed...keep up the great work!❤️
Please stop he is not helping them He needs to have a professional therapist there to make the father understand What his daughters are going through He needs to be doing a follow up on these young ladies to see if they came to terms to have a relationship with their father
You don't have to stop. Karamo helps them and helps them get the help they need.
@@sterfry3182 Thank you for that🙏🏾❤️
Question would he be doing that if he wasnt getting paid millions for it women make that mistake to much oh he is a real man he is actually not one the daughters doubt ve a rivht to blame him for things they dont know his life with his new wife is none of their business the real man in this situation is the father because he didnt change the truth he wasnt pointing to a new marriage for anything the whole time this man said i made mistakes in my past and i understand that and im sorry that im growing as a man and the ex couldn't hear it her anger is out of control this is a clear horrible way of trying to paint things one way and you accidentally show the true
Dude needs to stop pondering to women for ratings him saying everything is his fault is wild and a simps mindset
Now this is why i say that for one im so proud of the women and the strength it took to walk off that stage ypu mean while they were sitting and no one addressed they were in the middle their moms yelling match
One sister walked away the other he grabbed and lead her off stage
Not once did he address the way she was talking he kept trying to preach the father was wrong but in all honesty their dudes who don't try at all to be there
I dont understand for the life of me how women can hear this man just asking to see his kids and they dont catch the fact she keeps switching the subject whenever he pins the conversation to kids she quickly jumps to why are we not together what does that have to do with the kids
That was the clearest give awayon what was really happening
@@robertmiles1132karamo is not getting paid millions and he's been a social worker before which is an underpaid job in my opinion
Those girls are beautiful. Its a shame for the dad. I grew up without mine (he was on drugs and alcohol and all that shit), he lived (and still lives) far away, i feel their pain💔
Same, they gotta understand that the children don't care about the reason, or all them excuses, they just want to have a relationship with their father!
@Artish Design Yes, they do... until they don't
It broke my heart when I found out she was in a domestic relationship and the dad blamed the mom as parents it’s both of their responsibility I just hope they both learn from this situation and I hope the girls heal overtime
Right a man in your life no matter father, grandfather, uncle etc is very important. Even if you have a situation like this happen. Because sometime you can be deceived later but I bet you won’t stay in it longer than needed.
The mom isnt being bitter, she knows this man and i promise you she sees through his bs
Karamo taking those two beautiful girls out of that environment is officially one of my favorite moments on this show ever. It breaks my heart to see the parents just continuing to argue as if they weren’t less three people on the stage.
that "apology" he gave was worth dirt ! it breaks my heart to see that so many of us go through similar situations :(
Her language towards him in the first one minute of the show is the emotion that the daughter is expressing.
It's angering to see 3 adults who are so consumed with centering their own egos that they aren't phased by the 2 most important ppl (the kids) exiting the room. They kept right on yelling. The mom is well-meaning, but she's more committed to escalating & winning arguments with her ex than she is to a peaceful resolution for the kids' sake. The ex & his wife are both trifling excuse makers. If he had money for weed, dating, & a new marriage, he had money to travel to see his kids. His kids simply weren't a priority for him.
U can't blame the mother in this one... I was an angry mother when I saw the injustice meeted out to my daughter by her father... It's been over 7 yrs since my daughter and her dad have not spoken and it doesn't bother her as I was always a single mom, forsaking all these worthless men to be there for both my kids who have excelled in life... I'm a very happy 😊 single mom...
@@charmainewauchope1674 I won't blame the mom for his triflingness, but I will blame the mother for HER part in creating the saga. Every adult involved plays a part. She has every reason to be angry with him over her daughters, but being a lose cannon and ESCALATING the argument does the daughters no favors. Her inability to regulate her own emotions doesn't create the peaceful resolution she claims to be seeking for her kids. It's possible to be justified in one's anger, but unjustified in one's approach.
The girls couldn't even get a word in edgewise. They got up and left, & the 3 adults were unmoved by that. They were more focused on selfishly winning an argument against one another. With that approach, it'll be 7 more years before he talks to his daughter again. This moment shouldn't be for the mom's catharsis, but for the daughters'. They are the only ones who've never had a choice in the matter.
By contrast, their mother CHOSE to marry and get pregnant twice by a weed-smoking, half-employed dude. The ppl without the choice (the kids) are the ones whose voices are most important, but she drowned them completely out. The only innocent parties here are those two beautiful daughters. I'm not coddling adults. I criticized all three.
Good luck to you and your own kids, but when you say "all these worthless men", that reflects just as poorly on you and your judgement as it does on him. That type of "baby daddy bashing" isn't the flex you think it is. It shows that you voluntarily slept with and got pregnant by someone you deem worthless.
The mom is righteous in her feelings towards him! FK that man..
@@jeannietimberger2556 Righteous in one's feelings doesn't mean righteous in the way that one addresses said feelings. In addition, it's not about the mom's feelings; she's no longer with the man. It's about CHILDREN'S feelings & needs. With that said, FK all 3 adults.
She’s worried about why they not together
Their girls are drop dead, gorgeous.
Men love to blame women for their mistakes. You don’t see your kids for 7yrs and you think their mom won’t be bitter??? Gth. Had he been present all those years, he would have created his own narrative.
Lol bitter why? Bitter is a form of low self esteem( a personal problem), He moved on so should she have, all that time she should have gotten over him and only worried bout him fathering his kids. But im pretty sure that bitterness played a part in him not seeing his kids like them summer n spring breaks she wouldnt let him get them.
@@trenellcarter1663low self esteem is not an insult or a crime. Life and bad situations makes people bitter. If your husband cheated on you then abandons you and your kids, will you be happy?? Y’all want women to pretend like they are okay with what y’all know y’all won’t be okay with. And he clearly said he didn’t see his kids bcz he was broke, she never held the kids away. Stop excusing deadbeat behavior
@@thickseptember speak on it
@Bella Donna Cuz u females always act like yall dont play a role in stopping a man from seeing their child! Nobody said he was a good dad im pointing out how the mothers resentment from their past relationship can be a factor on top of the dad not doing enough! Im goin keep it a stack aint taking side , alotta u females get on here and act like she not bitter and jealous..... My mother was this female and it took me years to forgive my father for not everything but some things because i was team mom! And for this lady to keep bringing up him cheating wen he keep saying da bottom line is the kids, only thing u get outta dat is deadbeat? Really?
@@thickseptember Nobody said it was a crime love, im saying after 7 yearsss??? U should hae moved on by then and been coparenting, how long u goin be bitter?
The Dad is trash. I’m a Newfound fan of Karamo and loving it. I love his empathy for his guests. He’s cut from a different cloth for sure. I will watch every video I can find to support him. And them daughters are SO beautiful. I hope everything works out for them. ❤
I'm trying to understand how he was homeless, BUT wanted his daughters to come stay with him?????
This is crazy sad never knew my cousin's where going through this definitely explains a lot on why they hurt! Have to say my cousin Moe is a very strong mother and brave hard worker for her kids the father has to many damn excuses
Love is an action word. Show that you love them. SHOW UP!!!
He is a joke. He’s so worried about the child support but not taking accountability for his actions! You as the “MAN” could’ve made a way to see those young ladies and didn’t! His “apology” was trash! He needs to stop playing victim!
Right. He could’ve used some of the money he brought weed with and got a bus ticket.
@@michelleblake173weed? Huh?
These men are useless. Literally. They blame everyone else and never take accountability. His wife is raggedy AF and she has no say in what is going on. She needs to mind her business. He didnt have money to get on a bus.. BS
She’s next up….
Keep your legs closed and 🔒 up save your self your bw bitterness
@@mstiff321 Right! Stay tuned for her episode!
@@marcelorlandokingking nothing bitter about a mother wanting a man to take care of his children. 🗑️
Word bc there's a lady in my building that collects bottles EVERY morning & I'm sure that's how she pays her rent. So if he really wanted to go he would've made a way, like dude on the highway exit w/ the cardboard sign. Just do something!
It's not just the dad ,mom is a problem too- A BIG PROBLEM
The word wife pushes her buttons and it shouldn't if she was actually over him
I’m surprised. I thought I was the only one who saw that. She still holding on to that pain and caused a bit of bitterness. She talked about him and her even when he tried to put it back on the kids and baby when he said wife. Whheew honey that hit a nerve. My thing is I could careless who he with, then kids gone go until they tell me something wrong. Baby best of luck to the new chick but she will not have no issues from me neither will he as long as he show up
Preach
I thought I was the only person here who saw that the mother is blaming the dad when she has put all kinds of negative things in those girls' head about their dad, every time wife is mentioned she gets angry, she stated clearly that she is the one who divorced him, why should it still bother her when he mentioned his wife, as a female she is still angry and has past it unto the girls, she prevented him from seeing and bonding with his children, and people when making comments should be honest as you can clearly see , she has to learn to accept the wrong she did and is still doing and stopping a relationship with their father
Yeah she is crazy!!!!
Facts!!!!
If you all can’t see that the Mom is so tired. She knows every move and word he says to try and get sympathy from his kids. The New wife should listen to the hurt Mom. She is hurting for her kids while working 2 to 3 jobs. And you got upset because she is trying to warn you. Yes granted there was shouting and loudness. But she is so tired. She tried so hard to warn New wife. And you heard those girls” from our pint of view we only have one parent” they said nothing of Mom said this or Mom said that. Bless this entire family ♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼.
The wife speaking up had nothing to do with the actual (and serious) problems, she wanted to gloat. But she’s absolutely out of her mind if she believes he hasn’t cheated on her since they got together in 2015. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s into men too🤔
Ummmmm as a single mom I DEFINITELY have an opinion of this
1) MOMMY, LET IT GO‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ Yall didn't work out . Let it go baby . It's not serving you Queen ❤️ you deserve peace
2) Daddy, FIX the hole you place in your daughter's heart !!
WIFEY , WIFEY , WIFE.....COOL IT MA MA . Assist your hubby by encouraging him to have a better relationship with him by respecting their mom for starters ❤
Y'all can make it work
that was NO QUEEN!!!constantly bellyaching about the past is not queen like behavior
She does that because she has custody. She needs a life and allow those girls give their father their cellphone numbers. I know they have one. It will be a little uneasy and uncomfortable in the beginning, but with time and prayer it will develop
All of this!!
@@d820myall love to do nastiness to people & then blame them for being hurt. SMH.
@@syw9882 who is this "y'all" you are referring to... I didn't do anything to her or anyone else....save that for the people YOU deal with 😅😅😅😅😅 and it still don't make her a queen
Poor baby went through dv 🥺I really hope she's doing okay now. I hope she heals from all this and she lives a happy life. My heart when she said she looks for love in the wrong places and I felt that. I hope he steps up and be a father that they need. As someone who understands what it's like to have not have a father figure is so hard. I wish them nothing but happiness and strength.
I love that Karamo went behind those babies! They were so consumed in their own anger to see what these babies are feeling.
I feel for the two girls because I know how damaging it is to grow in such a toxic home. The parents owed it to the two girls to be respectful no matter how intense it was. This is so sad. May God heal them and may they find peace🙏🏾
Y’all calling the woman bitter , but I think she’s hurt and tired. Watching the full episode , it was nothing but excuses from the father. First thing out of his mouth was child support. When the daughters was talking , he wasn’t hearing them fully. Of course both parents will always play a part , because they created the kids. But the mother is there and she’s been there. Hurt can make you do things out of character for you. The new wife was also in the wrong for stepping in. If your husband haven’t seen his kids in 7 years , there is no reason for you to be trying to build a relationship where there isn’t one. The father need to be there for his kids period. That’s all those beautiful girls wants.
Mom is not bitter at all. She's pulling his weight and hers. She has two, I have 5 and lord knows I feel her pain.
She talked about they past relationship the whole time. Yes she is. Tired and more bitter.
@@CerseiLannister999
Telling the truth about somebody’s actions does not make you bitter! That term is a scapegoat for when folks don’t want to hear the ugly parts of the truth! She is not in a new relationship and punishing a new guy for what he did, she is talking to the actual perpetrator about his own actions!
Second of all, folks curse people for being bitter like it’s some incomprehensible state. She’s human! If she’s hurt, that hurt shapes her outlook! If a baby touches a stove and decides they don’t like fire are they bashed or applauded?? Yall kill me.
Women pick these men!
Men pick these women!
Accountable goes both ways!
I think she admitted she chose incorrectly.
Lol it's so funny when ppl say this. Lol ppl are like wolves in sheep clothing smh. You actually think men and women set out knowing a person is like this and have kids with them? Smh
@@allisonburton3395 do you know what the word vet or vetting means? Why don't women do that before opening their legs? Stop making excuses
@@allisonburton3395 Some people do. But this lady seems pretty smart, dude was definitely hiding himself.
Nah baby. People switch up on you in ways you couldnt imagine. When i was pregnant my kids father was reading every book on parenting. Would give big talks on the type of dad he wanted to be. Prior to that he was the doting godfather to other childrenx. I thought oh hes going to be an amazing father. But he ended up being very similar to this man. Blamed everything he would or wouldnt do on me. When we broke up he told me he didnt know how to be a father unless we all lived together. Or... he's not coming to see the kids until the divorce was final. Its wild. Like THESE ARE YOUR KIDS.
I NEVER met my dad until I turned 20 and he acts the same way as this guy, they don’t really care or understand only understand themselves they will blame and blame
These young ladies were more mature than their parents.
I think this show would go to the next level if Karamo focused on 1 family per episode so they can get the full hour of guidance, it comes off as exploitation because these issues are deeper than just an unlock your phone situation. There has to be some aftercare when digging so deep. Get in your bag Karamo 💯
They are also responsible for their healing. He has started the work, and now they need to follow up and seek further help. Therapy can take years, trust me. He doesn't have Oprah or Dr. Phil money to fund that.
@@keylacmckemp1309 I’m fully aware of that and I agree he can’t do all but my statement was speaking on that next level, not taking anything away from the work he’s currently doing just putting it out there that there should def be a next level to this because he does get to the root and it’s beautiful. I would like to see him in the position of a Dr. Phil or Dr. Iyanla Vanzant . I’m also fully aware of the platform he’s on and he may care but unfortunately these networks don’t which is why ppl have criticized the show saying he exploits ppl when the truth is he can only do so much. Again I’d never take away the credit just hope he continues to stay in his bag 💯 and keep going
i think the shows are a lot longer.They cut a lot out
This man is ridiculous, acting like a victim, everything out his mouth is "I, me, me, I " He's lucky his daughters want to give him another chance. I wish I could give them a hug 😢 I watched this episode on tv, when she said she was in a DV relationship I cried so hard. God pls heal them
No man should make excuses when it comes to his kids
this is exactly how my parents act almost 20 years later... the way the daughter said she just wants to speak her mind but can't because of the back and forth. when thats all you're seeing for years, you really feel like you do not matter enough for adults to act like adults and listen to THE CHILDREN instead of screaming at each other for zero resolution. i really hope their daughters are doing good, i know how isolating that can feel but they will always have each other. ♥
I pray that the father and his daughter’s build a relationship they need you !! They wanted you !!! Beautiful young lady’s!!
It’s so heartbreaking watching this, This father has taken no accountability for anything
This idiot of a father ought to be ashamed of himself. He has these two beautiful daughters crying in severe pain. This breaks my heart as a father 😢
he also doesn't seem sincere in his apology either. this was very hard to watch...
He is a bloody embarrassment!!!
You are very right sir!
@@dastony1969 Who hollers out a real apology?! No one. The girl was visibly shaken while he was STILL screaming. This was too much. I thought it might be the first time Karamo lost it. I hope they all get some more help!
Wow imagine Karamo as a big brother he seems so kind and helpful with the girls.
I really hope the best for those kids. They deserve peace and happily ever after.
Karamo!!!!!!!! Love you man. I really love what you are showing and doing. This episode really pulls at the heart. The babies can’t be heard/understood untill the adults tire of their bickering. Lets look down the road and wish them a brighter and healed future. ❤
That father is only concerned about himself. His goal is to short blame and be right. The greatest gift he can give them is to grow up. Those are some beautiful and strong young girls.
Karamo should have called her out, though, when she was confronted by the Dad with "why it is okay for her men to be around the kids, but his wife can't be."
I'm single and have been is why he didn't. I don't bring men around my girls like that
Am I the only one who got pissed off with the Step mom when she started acting a fool in the audience?
No like she made me mad she needed to sit down
Righttt
This is heartbreaking for the kids. The adults need to put their ill feelings aside and focus on the bigger picture, before their daughters get to a point where they want nothing to do with him.
As someone who is in this exact situation with my parents, it's sad. I felt the same way as the girl trying to find love in the wrong places. I really hope those two girls get comfort❤️
Momma definitely still Hurt and not making it easy for her children to have a relationship with their father And I see a father that isn't taking accountability..... They both need to do better as parents
I been made it easy..I pay their phone bills so they can talk I take care of them daily and they made me speak on past I'm definitely over him I just wanted my kids to see their dad without lies
How?? He could have seen them, he’s making every excuse in the book.
Their mother is to blame also. She obviously still holds a lot of resentment towards the father and his new wife, and she feeds that anger and resentment into her daughter's. I'm not giving the father a pass, but the daughters are going to have to let go of some of that anger if they want a solid relationship with their dad.
Please bffr lmao. Its not the mothers fault that her kids see the dad for who he is. She didnt make him be a dad that lied and didnt show up when he said he did. I agree she holds resentment but it seems like they all resent him for how he treated all of them.
Exactly they both the blame
I'm no where near bitter they asked me to speak on what he did wrong in our relationship
@@LadyMoeJoeLLC what he did wrong was abandon your children for many years all that what happened in y’all relationship does not have them crying except when yall arguing I wouldn’t even be talking to him ring ring girls your dad on the phone the end
I totally agree
The Fact that both of them kept arguing even after they walked off is really sad.
It's not right to blame only the dad. I think that all three adults in the picture are failing the two girls. Its not about them its about the girls. They need to be adult in communicating their valid feelings without invalidating the girls. They need to engage each other constructively. The girls' mom still has bitter emotions to work through from the broken relationship with Renee. Her anger at Renee's wife spills over to the girlsp, her sarcasm is telling. Renee' current wife needs to step back but actively push her husband to do right by the kids even if it means he goes over there alone. I am glad Karamo rose above din of the three aduĺts and quickly offered counselling to the girls and their father. Attacking the dad serves no purpose. He cannot hear criticism but he can hear encouragement. Good approach Karamo.
It burns me when fathers think that child support is a replacement for their presence. Bro-The financial piece of it is 1/2 of your obligation to ensure your children have the bare necessities, a place to lay their head and make sure they have food to eat and when you don't do it willingly the state will make you do your part which is why she put him on child support. You don't get a pat on the back for showing up and taking care of your kids. Men kill me playing victim with child support when they don't support their kids. Like Karamo said, there are busses and other transportation, you could have gone to your kids because 7 years and not have seen them, no excuses. But that new wife needs to have several seats and mind her business. She should be pushing him to be a better father if anything. #loveisthemedicine
Then require presence then and make financial support optional.
The dad is in utterly denial and his wife needs to mind her damn business.
Mum didn't even care her children are hurting. She's not healed over the breakup. The children are missing their living father. He's here...as a father. He's not back as a husband. But Mum needs to seperate issues or get out of the way, for her children
I understand and can see the same thing...
He hasn’t seen the kids in 7 years and blamed it on not having a drivers license. Please stop trying to blame the mom.
Please STOP ignoring the mother’s behavior just because she has custody. She HAS/STILL DOES play a part in the negative dynamics presented.
She was interviewed first and set the tone. She brought paperwork I bet to insult him about the child support publicly. Her thoughts were to personally shine and put him down. She was stumped when the audience clapped for him. He even apologized for their relationship publicly, but she kept driving her point with no acceptance. I bet she has an AMEN corner, but a real friend would tell her that your girls can’t heal, because you haven’t healed.
Yes children need both parents, but it doesn’t mean one is less than or the children can’t have fruitful lives just because one is not under the same roof that’s call LIFFE with obstacles that should not hinder their growth if positive encouragement without derogatory remarks about the other. I am a product of a divorce at 12yrs old and never, ever heard my parents go at it once they separated. My father remarried and it was no issues for us under my Moms roof. When my Mom was in Hospice, my Dad was there in the hospital and at her funeral with us and we where grown adults with children. I saw from this woman that there’s always a different route and as a Mother I’m sure she endured to keep us protected and happy. Little short thang was strong and witty and had faith.
She would say, “be careful how you raise a girl, because she copies patterns of the mother. Be careful how you raise a boy, because he’s very protective of a his mother”
Mom’s your girls are watching you and nationally we see part of they’re getting. Playback and correct!
This is unfinished business all around. Wish there's a way Mum can get her time with Dad to hash out their couple issues... like 4-6 solid hours alone in a park 😊 After all they need to say has been said, then and only then can they both focus on their children's needs
Was waiting for the full video all day finally love u kuramo😊
Love this show Karamo ❤ I can relate to so many people
same
This is exactly what my daughter went through with her dad, the other kids pretty much wrote him off. But one of my daughters had a hard time coping I had to get her therapy. That’s honestly what helped her, he sounds just like their dad EXCUSES, PLAYING VICTIM AND POINTING THE FINGER AT EVERYONE ELSE but HIMSELF!!!! I understand the ex wife u get tired of meeting these douche bags half way, and the kids get NOTHING in return. This sounds so FAMILIAR 😢😢😢
This is so heartbreaking because I see so many traumas that have triggered and re-triggered over and over again from each person in this situation. I really hope everybody can get the therapy and help they need to help resolve these issues.
He is so annoying he is a dead beat I really feel for the mother ‼️ he really said that it’s the moms fault he would buy a ticket to see them
I see so much blame in this situation, the Mom, because she is stuck on her and the Dads failed relationship. The Dad, because he could have done better he was making excuses. If the daughters want change, they have to be open. That hug at the end from the Dad to his daughter was all she had been wanting and needing. I hope things get better
Sometimes it's best to walk away, but I hate that they are just complaining over nothing, And they still arguing 😢😢😢 They both still hurting because their dad is not in their lives, they wanted and need those little girls need their father in their lives, I feel like the mom should have got up behind them 😢 😢 😢
I'm sorry but I blame both the mom and the father...the mom is still hurt over him doing what he did to her and the father is upset about child support. It's so sad for the kids though....I've been there myself and my children also😔
This man has gaslit the hell out of his entire family… the other episode with him and his children. He literally blamed his kids for his absence
I'm that mom. My daughter's so-called father only sees her once in a while even when he was living 3 hours away. His wife is a good woman who was always encouraging him to see his daughter. My daughter is almost 16 and she could care less about his sorry ass. There is absolutely no excuse not to see your kids unless you're in prison or sick in the hospital. That man is a serial victim. He's making excuses why and why. I saw a video where a father drove over 2000 miles to attend his son's graduation, his son was so happy to see him. And I would not be taking no man on any show because they choose not to be in their kids lives, that's on them. That hurt when the older daughter said she was looking for love in the wrong places because of her so-called father. He's full of anger.
Men like that don’t deserve anything why he acting like the victim
He may have made mistakes in the past but it's obvious the mum of the gals is the satan in the midst.
No way you meat riding that hard
@@davidjames8315 bro wtf💀💀
He is a victim dealing with that jealous ignorant thing he married she filed for divorce she think he suppose to remain solo. Hell nope. She has a man why can’t he have his woman. Some women crazy as hell she’s one of those 💯
@@gwenphillips1998 bih I aint mad he moved on..smh I was helping him find a new woman and step mother for my kids smh know the back story before u decide to judge and call someone crazy...
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They're both wrong. The mom keeps making it about her and the dad keeps making excuses. Poor girls, hope they all heal soon.
That crazy somebody get it
Child support does not take the place of your presence!! Children need our support physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally AND financially. BE THERE!
Yessss!
This is such a relatable episode. I feel sooo sorry for them
It’s the fact that he act like he can’t afford to do things or see them cause of child support, but decides to move further away, have more kids just it more difficult for himself
Mama still hurt. 😢 You always gotta put the kids first no matter what. It makes everything worth it. Neither parent displayed that this episode.
KARAMO ❤️❤️❤️I love that he would NOT let the “Dad” use the Mom as the scapegoat. No excuse.
Expecting their father who was a willing participant in making them to be financially responsible is not too much, expecting him to be there for them physically is not too much, expecting him to communicate in have a relationship with his children is not too much. Someone who continues to procreate should expect the responsibility it comes with. His daughters were crying out for him yet him and his wife literally said point the finger at the mother wait a minute your now married to a man who lacks in a relationship with children he had before you in you continue to procreate with him also and excuse his lack of initiative to be a active father. Sorry not sorry he is a poor excuse of a man.
So what's your thoughts on the mother and her narcissist behavior?
Those girls are gorgeous. So sad the daughter left and they still arguing didn't even notice she left. Their angering for each other supercedes the love for their kids.
This is bringing tears to my heart ,when an adult don't understand the teenager has they own feelings.I been begging my son to go with his dad so he be in a less crime community and he keep saying no.
To me the dad is mad because the mom didn’t continue to put up with his crap. Notice he said “I was homeless to make sure they had what they needed.” With all that blaming he could have got visitations through the courts but he wasn’t willing to put in the effort to see his daughters.
The dad and his angry wife are both crazy.
The kids above all else. Period. Those girls are beautiful and deserve two healthy, healed parents that can be cordial and gentle with them.
I cried looking at their daughters. I know all about this situation in a way you get tired of being the consistant parent when the other parent can pick and choose when they wanna parent it gets hard but anything for your child and kids know more than we think.
Exactly
Not visiting your kids for 7 years is crazy😮
oh this video is new new im waiting for the comments to roll in 😭😭
Same😂😂
Whoa I cried watching this. Karamon is so gentle and emotionally intelligent. He made sure to make the father accountable. This was so intense and seen this story played out way to many times in our community
Y’all gotta watch both videos if you haven’t already, the father is full of excuses, if he didn’t have the money to see his kids his wife could’ve helped him, the mom isn’t bitter, she’s hurt that he’s not there for his kids the way he needs to be, their kids are hurt becuz their father isn’t there for them and anytime their parents are together it turns to arguing
Poor babies they deserve a father. My daughter is going through the same thing. So hard to see your child hurting.
I can relate 100%. The mother is just trying to protect her kids and their peace. You can't complain when you lack responsibility as a parent and make excuses then fault them and get in your feelings. Acknowledging your wrong is something he can't do or accepting the fact that there is a bigger picture than the issues him and his baby's mother had or got going on.
The mom is the problem too. She seems to keep making it about her and not them.
the mother STAYED and RAISED those kids though he didnt. he ran off with another woman, doesnt pay child support, doesnt visit, doesnt even work or have a car license then has the audacity to blame everyone else
I don't care about him in that manner I want him in their life only...not just by phone
@@LadyMoeJoeLLC I feel it girl idk why everybody is feeding into the bs he's steady lying and cannot take accountability. Good job mom for raising these girls
And the wife think she has a prize🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I actually feel for her becuase people want to blame her when it's mostly the father but also some of the mothers fault for their pain
@@hb2862 nah she needs to stay her ass out of it. Cause them kids were there way before her. She had nothing to do with it. Pretty sure he is still cheating she just didn't find out yet 👀
The kids look just like the daddy ! I hope he can do better and get into his children’s lives!
I pray my daughters father comes around I couldn’t even handle watching this. So much pain. So many men leave their children over child support. When all they needed to do was SUPPORT the child to avoid everything. Karmas a b**** stop blaming others.
Beautiful girls and lucky to have a strong , hard working, protective mom.
It's about the kids not THEM. They're being selfish talking to eachother like that infront of their kids. This screaming isn't healthy for them, it's too much, it will haunt them, my heart aches for these kids.
WE WANT LONGER EPISODES!
The mother still hurt and won’t let go of that hurt!! She keep speaking on what he do with his new family, instead of speaking about the kids!! He was definitely right about that
Intelligent young ladies ❤️ sending love and positive Energy to you two and Mother 💯
This episode was crazyyyy
4real tho. Just wild. Smh.