Parents who decide to love their abusive partner over their own kids DO NOT deserve to be parents. In fact, the children of such parents should be taken away from them and put into better homes.
Last story is just that, a story. No doctor will remove a young, healthy woman's uterus as an elective surgery. Unless he's a total quack of course and is willing to take a huge bribe. Even then, the hospital wouldn't allow it either because, ya know, lawsuits. I also had to have a full hysterectomy at the age of 22, which was medically necessary, and the amount of paperwork and psych evals required was staggering.
@@tararitz7005Cap. 1) Hysterectomies are only for severe medical conditions or reasons NOT to prevent children. Women would get their tubes tied or be given various birth control. It's illegal to do this extreme of a procedure on a healthy woman and this isn't just all across America but in the vast amount of developed countries. 2) A doctor in the vast amount of developed countries (this includes ALL states) would lose their medical license and be blacklisted for doing this precedure without due cause. So no. No doctor did this for you without question unless you got a back alley precedure. 3) It's notoriously well known it is how difficult it is to get birth control or getting your tubes tied across developed countries for women. Nevermind an extreme, career ending procedure without cause or reason. It's still difficult now but it was even more difficult in the past. So to end this. Stop lying. Maybe learn about medical procedures, why they are allowed and the laws around them before making lies that are obvious to anyone with actual knowledge in this area.
@@tararitz7005 It is illegal and it's seen as medically unethical. I HAVE looked this up and not only that NO insurance company would clear it as being ok with at least some questioning and paperwork (paperwork is REQUIRED for any procedure so them not even having you fill out paperwork is sus) If they did what you said and it somehow cleared their license would be on the chopping block and they'd have to justify their actions at a medical hearing because of how medically unethical it's considered. The hearing would just be to decide the severity of the punishment so either license indefinitely suspended, license revoked or flat out blacklisted. Don't tell me I don't know anything about this when I've demonstrated I have a lot of knowledge in this area. While you apparently had major surgery without so much as filling in paperwork (Something that's mandatory for even minor surgery) A hysterectomy never has and never will be used purely for not having children. That is having tubes tied or given birth control. It is ONLY for medical conditions or for severe medical reasons and even then it's ONLY used as a last resort meaning even people who medically need a hysterectomy still have to jump through a ton of hoops and fill in a lot of different paperwork to reach that point. Cap.
The divorce story: I believe children should know from the get-go when their life is turning upside down but from how OP wrote their piece I can kinda understand why the parents didn't say anything. OP sounds very emotionally immature and clearly unable to handle things like this.
Honestly, I think this is the only channel I follow so far that presents stories where OP is immature, selfish pr just an outright asshole despite them being the ones dishing out revenge.
The parents were rather jerks first for withholding information from OP. What was OP supposed to do, and how was they supposed to react? Divorce does hurt children because they see it as their family unit breaking up.
I feel the same way, at first i was like “yeah they were a kid” and their actions were not inexcusable, but they clearly still don’t see the issue with their views
@marylowther8495 agreed i have known quite a few women that got hysterectomies because they knew they never wanted kids. Getting your tubes tied is not 100%
@@marylowther8495 if that were true the exception would have been included in the story. Hysterectomies aren't a surgery that can be taken lightly and comes with a lot side effects. But I think you're just arguing for the sake of arguing, either that or you're extremely gullible.
@@alexanderhenby1362 No they get their tubes tied. Hysterectomy would NEVER be allowed for something as simple as birth control as it's seen as too extreme. You'd never get the insurance company to agree to it eithrr
@@Moha-ou8ijbecause it was a lie. No woman gets a hysterectomy to not have kids. No doctor would perform that as hysterectomies are only for severe medical conditions or reasons.
Parents that don’t include their kids when their life turns upside down are idiots. It breeds resentment and is stupid. Children are part of the family. It isn’t just the parents relationship and business. The kids are being effected just as much as the parents.
Divorce story: Word to the wise, remember the other pair of shoes. It's easy to say op is emotionally immature and petty, as an adult, after we've already gone past this stage of mental development. This kid had no safety nets, only concrete. Remember that no one really knows how someone will react until it hits them. The parents deliberately hid the whole thing without considering the effect this "adult" heavy event would have on a "Developing Teen" whose whole world and safe space is split with no rhyme or reason other than their own views and thoughts. Op acted, i believe, in the best way a young adolescent could by going with what is familiar to them in an already unfamiliar situation. That being said, we all mess up at therapy and dont benefit untill long after you've had your emotional break. But on a Side note, OP's mother needs a good slap. She devorced her husband, not her kids. The moment she decided to ground him instead of just talking with her son and learning what had happened allowed for a Psychological Predator to have free Reign in the household
Good luck finding a doctor who will perform a hysterectomy just because you want one. The story is total b.s. You can't even get your tubes tied until you're over 30, have a couple kids, or have seen a therapist for a l o n g time and can prove that mentally you absolutely could not handle getting pregnant.
That first story wasn't nuclear revenge, nuclear revenge would be if op got his mum end the relationship by releasing how much of an asshole the boyfriend was
Parents who decide to love their abusive partner over their own kids DO NOT deserve to be parents. In fact, the children of such parents should be taken away from them and put into better homes.
Hysterectomy story: things that never happened.
The bullshit a woman has to go through just to get her tubes tied is crazy.
Came here to say this. Complete BS.
Last story is just that, a story. No doctor will remove a young, healthy woman's uterus as an elective surgery. Unless he's a total quack of course and is willing to take a huge bribe. Even then, the hospital wouldn't allow it either because, ya know, lawsuits. I also had to have a full hysterectomy at the age of 22, which was medically necessary, and the amount of paperwork and psych evals required was staggering.
So you know ALL doctors, in EVERY state? Edit to add, when I had mine in my mid 20's I didn't have to do all that paperwork or jump through hoops
@@tararitz7005Cap. 1) Hysterectomies are only for severe medical conditions or reasons NOT to prevent children. Women would get their tubes tied or be given various birth control. It's illegal to do this extreme of a procedure on a healthy woman and this isn't just all across America but in the vast amount of developed countries.
2) A doctor in the vast amount of developed countries (this includes ALL states) would lose their medical license and be blacklisted for doing this precedure without due cause. So no. No doctor did this for you without question unless you got a back alley precedure.
3) It's notoriously well known it is how difficult it is to get birth control or getting your tubes tied across developed countries for women. Nevermind an extreme, career ending procedure without cause or reason. It's still difficult now but it was even more difficult in the past.
So to end this. Stop lying. Maybe learn about medical procedures, why they are allowed and the laws around them before making lies that are obvious to anyone with actual knowledge in this area.
@@RaspberryHugs it is NOT "illegal"! Look it up. You DO realize every state has their own laws, right?
@tararitz7005 it's medically unethical. Insurance would deny it too. Hysterectomy is not used for sterilization. It's just a fact.
@@tararitz7005 It is illegal and it's seen as medically unethical. I HAVE looked this up and not only that NO insurance company would clear it as being ok with at least some questioning and paperwork (paperwork is REQUIRED for any procedure so them not even having you fill out paperwork is sus)
If they did what you said and it somehow cleared their license would be on the chopping block and they'd have to justify their actions at a medical hearing because of how medically unethical it's considered. The hearing would just be to decide the severity of the punishment so either license indefinitely suspended, license revoked or flat out blacklisted.
Don't tell me I don't know anything about this when I've demonstrated I have a lot of knowledge in this area. While you apparently had major surgery without so much as filling in paperwork (Something that's mandatory for even minor surgery)
A hysterectomy never has and never will be used purely for not having children. That is having tubes tied or given birth control.
It is ONLY for medical conditions or for severe medical reasons and even then it's ONLY used as a last resort meaning even people who medically need a hysterectomy still have to jump through a ton of hoops and fill in a lot of different paperwork to reach that point. Cap.
The divorce story: I believe children should know from the get-go when their life is turning upside down but from how OP wrote their piece I can kinda understand why the parents didn't say anything. OP sounds very emotionally immature and clearly unable to handle things like this.
Honestly, I think this is the only channel I follow so far that presents stories where OP is immature, selfish pr just an outright asshole despite them being the ones dishing out revenge.
The parents were rather jerks first for withholding information from OP. What was OP supposed to do, and how was they supposed to react? Divorce does hurt children because they see it as their family unit breaking up.
Definitely a complete narcissist who will make a terrible husband and father himself, and will find reasons to justify far worse behaviour.
I feel the same way, at first i was like “yeah they were a kid” and their actions were not inexcusable, but they clearly still don’t see the issue with their views
I think there is far more to this than that.
Story 1: they played happy family really well
Also Story 1: mom scolded dad for talking at the diner table
Nice fiction. Find a dr that will even tie tubes prior to 35
The hysterectomy story was such an obvious lie. You get your tubes tied if you don't want kids, hysterectomy is for serious medical reasons.
Wrong. There are exceptions to the norm.
@marylowther8495 agreed i have known quite a few women that got hysterectomies because they knew they never wanted kids. Getting your tubes tied is not 100%
@@marylowther8495 if that were true the exception would have been included in the story. Hysterectomies aren't a surgery that can be taken lightly and comes with a lot side effects. But I think you're just arguing for the sake of arguing, either that or you're extremely gullible.
What are you talking about? People decide all the time to get a hysterectomy if they know they dont want kids.
@@alexanderhenby1362 No they get their tubes tied. Hysterectomy would NEVER be allowed for something as simple as birth control as it's seen as too extreme. You'd never get the insurance company to agree to it eithrr
I don't get how parents disregard their children when they are warning them against the person they're seeing.
Some women need to have womb’s removed. I was 26 and had medical issues so to beat Cancer I had a total Hysterectomy. It happens.
I get that but I’m still confused on why she didn’t get her tubes tied or had an iucd instead 🤷🏻♂️
@@Moha-ou8ijbecause it was a lie. No woman gets a hysterectomy to not have kids. No doctor would perform that as hysterectomies are only for severe medical conditions or reasons.
That was a medical issue women can't just get a hysterectomy because they want one.
Wait... Did she need the hysterectomy or was it a suggestion that could wait? Because if it wasn't neccesary... He better watch his six.
Parents that don’t include their kids when their life turns upside down are idiots. It breeds resentment and is stupid. Children are part of the family. It isn’t just the parents relationship and business. The kids are being effected just as much as the parents.
Divorce story: Word to the wise, remember the other pair of shoes.
It's easy to say op is emotionally immature and petty, as an adult, after we've already gone past this stage of mental development. This kid had no safety nets, only concrete.
Remember that no one really knows how someone will react until it hits them. The parents deliberately hid the whole thing without considering the effect this "adult" heavy event would have on a "Developing Teen" whose whole world and safe space is split with no rhyme or reason other than their own views and thoughts.
Op acted, i believe, in the best way a young adolescent could by going with what is familiar to them in an already unfamiliar situation.
That being said, we all mess up at therapy and dont benefit untill long after you've had your emotional break.
But on a Side note, OP's mother needs a good slap. She devorced her husband, not her kids. The moment she decided to ground him instead of just talking with her son and learning what had happened allowed for a Psychological Predator to have free Reign in the household
lol... no. Keep in mind what OP admitted to doing vs what probably truly happened.
Good night Steven
Where do you even get these stories, I can't find a damn one anywhere.
First story. OP was a teenager. Everything is cringe when hormones are messing with your head 😂
Good luck finding a doctor who will perform a hysterectomy just because you want one. The story is total b.s. You can't even get your tubes tied until you're over 30, have a couple kids, or have seen a therapist for a l o n g time and can prove that mentally you absolutely could not handle getting pregnant.
Last story is total BS!
Why didn't she just get her tubes tied...omg!
OP in Story 1 is obviously young.
These stories that have to take you from birth to I am an arse are boring. Wonder how many are AI generated now.
That first story wasn't nuclear revenge, nuclear revenge would be if op got his mum end the relationship by releasing how much of an asshole the boyfriend was
OP from the first story sounds like a spoiled brat