This reading is about my ex Daniel. Thank you. I’ve been trying to learn healthy boundaries and not being overly forgiving because I don’t want him to come back. He did anyway a few days ago. I didn’t answer. I’m a Sagittarius, my birthday is in Dec and Christmas is my favorite time of year, or at least it’s special to me because of family. I’ve been asking spirit how do I forgive him and still hold boundaries? I needed to hear this because I don’t want to hold a grudge, I’m not used to it. But this pain and anger has kept me protected from allowing him back in. I never in a million years ever will. I learned more self respect and Love and to not tolerate cruel and heartless, abusive behavior. So I got me lesson. I just want to forgive and let go. I’m still learning how to do that. I hope this makes sense. Anyway, this was an answer from my guides. Thank you again.
unless he wants to provide monetary restitution for the financial setback the trauma and an opportunity he blocked caused me, i don’t ever want to see him again.
This was beautiful, you captured the process I was in for years, lots of shadow work and therapy, and I did end up reaching out to that person, expecting the worst, but they’ve forgiven me and invited me back into their life, which is more than I ever thought was possible with them. I’m forever grateful, this experience changed me on a fundamental level and pushed me to the path I needed to be on, and I hate that it happened at the expense of such a beautiful soul. But they’re okay and doing great in life ❤
I wasn’t safe my life was endanger good riddance birds of a feather flock together the bad memories out weigh the good and loving him as never enough now he’s on a path of self destruction so sad that evil like this exist to bring harm to others
The karmic moment from the past happened one year ago yesterday. We haven't talked since. I had PTSD from what happened. I'm open to hearing from them if there's an apology but that's all I'm open to unfortunately. I still care about this person but I can't trust them after all that's happened.
I’m crying this is so on point… it went on for years… dragging me along with a Musial and a leash. Any trying to gain any connection at all even with my own baby’s would gain me HARDH EVIL set ups to be laughed at or attacked by mobs of people, as he stood there arms crossed smiling ear from ear.. when I’d ask why he’d scream he didn’t do anything … no he set it up then stood back to get off
This is a message for him the narcissist who abused and traumatised me and left me in the lurch after he love bombed me a year and a half ago. He is still procrastinating about me and in my energy field and i want him to get lost for good. I hope he gets this message.
Thank you! You put it a lot nicer than I would have... Because I do not wanna hear from anyone trying to rub in my face what they thought I didn't know they were doing! 😬🧿🙏⚖️❤️
Got me thinking about that time a "friend" from high school decided to pretend to be my friend for a while, just so she could tell me she slept with me ex.... Even named her own daughter the same name as me.... Weird 😐🤔🤮😬🧿🙏⚖️❤️
What a F*ck*d Up Message Interpretation from you, Jess! Discouraging people from Apologizing and Compensating others for the hurt they caused, especially when it comes to romantic relationships, is WRONG on so many levels! True Transformation leads to Corrective ACTIONS, inside AND OUT! That's true ACCOUNTABILITY. And No, realizing your mistake and "wishing them well" in your head or "prayer" is NOT ENOUGH for them to heal or for you to gain forgiveness. That's just more arrogant, cowardly justification on the part of the wrongdoer. And they Don't get to Decide AGAIN what TRUTH that person Should or Shouldn't know!!! Can't believe you're encouraging that!
This is ringing some bell in my memory but, I am having difficulty pulling the memory forward the person or the situation. Hmmm... Gives me something to ponder on.
He betrayed me and all was exposed around Christmas and yes I knew just didn’t get proof he was druging me in which Affected my health in a major way but as stealing from to give to his karmic wanted everyone to think that I was crazy I wised up filed divorce moved 1000 miles away his life is now in a downward spiral their is no forgiveness I just want him out of my head and heart
They were my best friend for 14 years before I fell in love with them. I probably will always care about them and wish them the best. They never gave me a clear answer if they wanted to be with me and always gaslit me and would always act like friends with benefits but nothing more. There's another history and they are involved with evil doings with my family. I do miss their friendship. I ended up just telling them I was delusional the whole time and they never told me cuz they didn't know how lol (that was a lie cuz I didn't wanna deal with the rejection so I rejected myself. Wrong move on my part. Always choose yourself. 💯💯💯) I choose myself and I am not reaching out. The soul tie is cut. Plus they probably think I betrayed them cuz I was involved with another person for a moment and they felt betrayed even tho they only treated me like friends with benefits and gaslit and would always say the filler "i don't have all the answers" 🙃🥴 hypocritical.... They got together with an ex friend and both went against me...They didn't have to say anything I knew. I felt it. I cut both of them off for life. The ex friend betrayed me another way with my child involved... All I can say is that ex friend will get hers very soon. Karma is a b*itch 🤍🌈
Who oppointed these type of people to disturb or. Bring jerk minded to release there dirty mind set desire to project....and create problems for other and produce online to know others thought or answers.. Is this you tube.
forgiving isn't necessary to heal. it benefits you in no way to cultivate internal good feelings towards someone who shat all over you. just toss them out like trash and show yourself love.
Forgiving is not needed to be happy. I am doing very well without forgiving the rascals in my past. To each is own, for me forgiveness is one more sham to make the victim feel guilty.
They don't need forgiveness . They need to go to prison.
This reading is about my ex Daniel. Thank you. I’ve been trying to learn healthy boundaries and not being overly forgiving because I don’t want him to come back. He did anyway a few days ago. I didn’t answer. I’m a Sagittarius, my birthday is in Dec and Christmas is my favorite time of year, or at least it’s special to me because of family.
I’ve been asking spirit how do I forgive him and still hold boundaries? I needed to hear this because I don’t want to hold a grudge, I’m not used to it. But this pain and anger has kept me protected from allowing him back in. I never in a million years ever will. I learned more self respect and Love and to not tolerate cruel and heartless, abusive behavior. So I got me lesson. I just want to forgive and let go. I’m still learning how to do that. I hope this makes sense. Anyway, this was an answer from my guides. Thank you again.
unless he wants to provide monetary restitution for the financial setback the trauma and an opportunity he blocked caused me, i don’t ever want to see him again.
yes he thought i was dumb... and now I wish him the best...he can keep his genuine remorse and genuine concern with himself...i don't want any of it
This was beautiful, you captured the process I was in for years, lots of shadow work and therapy, and I did end up reaching out to that person, expecting the worst, but they’ve forgiven me and invited me back into their life, which is more than I ever thought was possible with them. I’m forever grateful, this experience changed me on a fundamental level and pushed me to the path I needed to be on, and I hate that it happened at the expense of such a beautiful soul. But they’re okay and doing great in life ❤
I'm sure the appreciated the sincere gesture❤
I wasn’t safe my life was endanger good riddance birds of a feather flock together the bad memories out weigh the good and loving him as never enough now he’s on a path of self destruction so sad that evil like this exist to bring harm to others
He is gonski for me. I deserve a much better man than him. A man of honour not a dishonourable creep.
The karmic moment from the past happened one year ago yesterday. We haven't talked since. I had PTSD from what happened. I'm open to hearing from them if there's an apology but that's all I'm open to unfortunately. I still care about this person but I can't trust them after all that's happened.
I’m crying this is so on point… it went on for years… dragging me along with a Musial and a leash. Any trying to gain any connection at all even with my own baby’s would gain me HARDH EVIL set ups to be laughed at or attacked by mobs of people, as he stood there arms crossed smiling ear from ear.. when I’d ask why he’d scream he didn’t do anything … no he set it up then stood back to get off
Flip the roles if it’s not you wanting to reach out it could be the opposite. ❤
Ι'm the Gemini who is surrounded by takers. Boundaries on steroids now. I never forgive so they shouldn't bother reaching out.
This is a message for him the narcissist who abused and traumatised me and left me in the lurch after he love bombed me a year and a half ago. He is still procrastinating about me and in my energy field and i want him to get lost for good. I hope he gets this message.
Thank you! You put it a lot nicer than I would have... Because I do not wanna hear from anyone trying to rub in my face what they thought I didn't know they were doing! 😬🧿🙏⚖️❤️
Got me thinking about that time a "friend" from high school decided to pretend to be my friend for a while, just so she could tell me she slept with me ex.... Even named her own daughter the same name as me.... Weird 😐🤔🤮😬🧿🙏⚖️❤️
I love the readings that explain the other side. Thank you Jess 💜🎄
This was my reading. An ex from 19 years in the past, high school sweethearts.
No the police is calld
What a F*ck*d Up Message Interpretation from you, Jess! Discouraging people from Apologizing and Compensating others for the hurt they caused, especially when it comes to romantic relationships, is WRONG on so many levels!
True Transformation leads to Corrective ACTIONS, inside AND OUT! That's true ACCOUNTABILITY.
And No, realizing your mistake and "wishing them well" in your head or "prayer" is NOT ENOUGH for them to heal or for you to gain forgiveness. That's just more arrogant, cowardly justification on the part of the wrongdoer. And they Don't get to Decide AGAIN what TRUTH that person Should or Shouldn't know!!! Can't believe you're encouraging that!
When it comes to people who have trauma-bonded, stepping back can be the best thing to do.
Sounds like him
My cross watcher ex. He needs to just leave me alone. Too much time has passed and I’ve healed
lol he changed his fb profile photo (for the first time in years!) when I was watching this
This is ringing some bell in my memory but, I am having difficulty pulling the memory forward the person or the situation. Hmmm... Gives me something to ponder on.
I texted him and wished him a Merry Christmas. It took him until the next day to return my text.
A Gemini sun Scorpio moon betrayed me
He betrayed me and all was exposed around Christmas and yes I knew just didn’t get proof he was druging me in which Affected my health in a major way but as stealing from to give to his karmic wanted everyone to think that I was crazy I wised up filed divorce moved 1000 miles away his life is now in a downward spiral their is no forgiveness I just want him out of my head and heart
Opposite he betrayed me and I reamed him a few days before Christmas. No kindness from me to him ever again
They were my best friend for 14 years before I fell in love with them. I probably will always care about them and wish them the best. They never gave me a clear answer if they wanted to be with me and always gaslit me and would always act like friends with benefits but nothing more. There's another history and they are involved with evil doings with my family. I do miss their friendship. I ended up just telling them I was delusional the whole time and they never told me cuz they didn't know how lol (that was a lie cuz I didn't wanna deal with the rejection so I rejected myself. Wrong move on my part. Always choose yourself. 💯💯💯) I choose myself and I am not reaching out. The soul tie is cut. Plus they probably think I betrayed them cuz I was involved with another person for a moment and they felt betrayed even tho they only treated me like friends with benefits and gaslit and would always say the filler "i don't have all the answers" 🙃🥴 hypocritical.... They got together with an ex friend and both went against me...They didn't have to say anything I knew. I felt it. I cut both of them off for life. The ex friend betrayed me another way with my child involved... All I can say is that ex friend will get hers very soon. Karma is a b*itch 🤍🌈
Who oppointed these type of people to disturb or. Bring jerk minded to release there dirty mind set desire to project....and create problems for other and produce online to know others thought or answers..
Is this you tube.
This answers my question as to what I should do. Thank you Jess!❤️
You make it seem like it's just some small betrayal. Posting fake pictures, stealing and making police reports are terrible things to do.
I know its all horrible and unforgivable! Forgive though.. it will give you healing and move on.
forgiving isn't necessary to heal. it benefits you in no way to cultivate internal good feelings towards someone who shat all over you. just toss them out like trash and show yourself love.
@@Jackal-xd9dw I agree
Forgiving is not needed to be happy. I am doing very well without forgiving the rascals in my past. To each is own, for me forgiveness is one more sham to make the victim feel guilty.