I WILL NEVER FORGET WHAT MY ONLINE BOYFRIEND DID TO ME AFTER ARRIVING IN HIS COUNTRY!

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  • Опубликовано: 30 янв 2025

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  • @SharonandFamily
    @SharonandFamily 9 месяцев назад +22

    Weh Ama is a Devil. Judith really went through alot. But she ignored alot of Red flags wah. Looking forward to next part. Hope others learn from this

  • @kikisunshine6702
    @kikisunshine6702 9 месяцев назад +13

    Dear Beautiful African woman... .let us never ever ever become this desperate please. You are not slaves. Please go where you are truly appreaciated and Loved.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you

    • @sarahidris1
      @sarahidris1 7 месяцев назад +1

      True sissy ! I just hope we all listen to Bella and learn and apply it. She invest her time make this videos and pouring all her heart giving us advices like we are her blood . Thank you

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  7 месяцев назад

      @@sarahidris1 ❤️❤️❤️

  • @estarm7718
    @estarm7718 9 месяцев назад +12

    Belly ,this is called narcissism and many ladies are still unaware about it.Many African ladies are victims but unaware of these red flags.Thank you so much ,great job sis.

  • @kdunc41
    @kdunc41 9 месяцев назад +10

    SMH-sad. I will be moving to Uganda for love. She is a very humble and wise woman. I am learning about their culture, which is Ankole. Hope to tell my story soon.

    • @farie6795
      @farie6795 9 месяцев назад

      ❤awww congratulations we wish you all the best

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  9 месяцев назад

      Congratulations for finding each other.Yes will be so happy if you share your success story with us!

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  9 месяцев назад

      All the best in your plans

  • @katusiimepatience8403
    @katusiimepatience8403 9 месяцев назад +6

    Hello bella, thank you for sharing these videos❤ we love you.
    Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
    May God see through all the single ladies and those struggling in relationships, may they find comfort❤❤❤❤❤

  • @DeheinaVivian
    @DeheinaVivian 9 месяцев назад +2

    This is really sad Bella. During and after the storytime i couldn't type to comment cos i was so emotional. I had cried a lot during Caroline' story and now listening to Judith's story also has made me become so scared about online dating that I'm beginning to think if there's any more good and genuine guys out there. I was actually giving up on online search but whenever you upload a new success story, it brings back my interests and makes me wanna keep trying. But of a truth Bella, searching for the right one online is not an easy journey and i pray God continue to gives us the strength not to relent until we find the one. To all my African sisters, please be careful and watch out for redflags when online searching for the one so we don't fall victims to these cruel guys on the dating site. Thanks Sis bella for your kind works with your helpful tips and guides to us ur babies ☺️ and thanks for sharing with us the success stories that makes us not to loose hopes in finding the one.God bless and keep you 🙏❤❤

  • @CHEKSLEA
    @CHEKSLEA 9 месяцев назад +15

    Beautiful Ladies searching , I think is good you discuss and tell them to come to your country first , before visiting, very necessary

  • @SHARONMULAA
    @SHARONMULAA 9 месяцев назад +12

    🤔 but Bella this Ama was very frank or can I say sincere to our African sisters from the word go.he didn't trick her it was up to Judith to analyse and make a decision anyway let me not talk too much but ladies let's not be ignorant and desperate please I ❤you all from 🇰🇪.

  • @olivianangobi1746
    @olivianangobi1746 9 месяцев назад +3

    So sorry to our dear sister Judith.
    May Almighty God continue to guide and lead us all still searching.
    Thanks so very much dear sister Bella for your tireless efforts to guide us always for the best in our journey .May God bless you sister.🙏❤️

  • @Sehlivirgi.Gmail.Co.zaSehlisel
    @Sehlivirgi.Gmail.Co.zaSehlisel 9 месяцев назад +4

    This is painful Bella. I nearly cried. From Zimbabwe based in South Africa

  • @Lovice-n9z
    @Lovice-n9z 9 месяцев назад +2

    Oh gosh!!
    What a sad story!!!!
    May God guide us as we search for the perfect life partners cos it's not easy.
    May God see us through, thanks Bella for the encouraging stories,be blessed abundantly 🙏🙏

  • @Soso-uy3wp
    @Soso-uy3wp 2 месяца назад

    Bella
    May God bless you abundantly
    God sent you to help us African women seeking in love on the other side
    Shame Judith
    My heart just broke when l was listening to the video
    I couldn’t stop crying
    Shame
    Looking forward to part 4
    Thank you Bella for teaching us
    Never get tired please
    All information is very very important
    The word of God says
    My people perish because of lack of knowledge
    Thank you Bella❤

  • @blessedone8405
    @blessedone8405 9 месяцев назад +1

    SUCH A SAD, TERRIBLE EPERIENCE FOR JUDITH. ladies need to shine their eyes online... Thank you Bella for sharing these videos. Thy sure help save a lot of ladies from falling prey in the hands of narcistic men. God bless you

  • @MwajumaIssa-pj7ul
    @MwajumaIssa-pj7ul 9 месяцев назад +3

    Silent subscriber here 😊,today i am in top ten...taking some notes

  • @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978
    @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978 9 месяцев назад +3

    Dear thanks for uploading let's learning something ba girls their 😮 naye sorry dear judith 😢

  • @Asia-ew9wx
    @Asia-ew9wx 9 месяцев назад +2

    Alright here we are for part three🎉🎉🎉🎉Bella you look super super beautiful ❤❤❤❤in that outfit

  • @preciousbwalya-rs4rp
    @preciousbwalya-rs4rp 9 месяцев назад +2

    I started following you a week ago but trust me i have learned Alot about the men i have been talking to on online dating sites.so far i have blocked everyone only talking one person,oh poor Judith you really went through hell 😢😢 the way i can just beat hell out of that Amar guy i can be jailed 💔

  • @KarenAzi.Desire
    @KarenAzi.Desire 9 месяцев назад +1

    Oh Judith 😭😭😭😭😭😭24:00 brought tears to my eyes

  • @wangarikibunja1475
    @wangarikibunja1475 9 месяцев назад

    Oh Bella, I have watched this video in like 4 parts, each time I could just relate to men I have talked to online and their behaviors. 😢😢😢 Desperation is so bad

  • @Lovingtowi
    @Lovingtowi 9 месяцев назад +2

    I found this at the perfect time...real talk storytime🔝🔝

  • @faithnakku8731
    @faithnakku8731 9 месяцев назад +1

    Oh dear,, so sad, but may the Lord help all the pple searching on line to make it happen in the right time and give the the right partners

  • @marblechingema2076
    @marblechingema2076 9 месяцев назад +1

    Sister.. sister l sorry for our sister for not knowing Bella's channel before, Bella God sent you for us African sister keep it up.

  • @melissapittygladys8410
    @melissapittygladys8410 9 месяцев назад +1

    Let me get popcorns it's story time...Much love bella you are the best ,i always imagine all the ladies i see happy and with the right lovers all because of your good videos and best advice you give whenever someone comes to your DM may God bless you for us.🥰🥰🥰

  • @ktnamz
    @ktnamz 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hello Bella, hope everything is well there, thanks for the show dear, we always appreciate your videos, Cathy from Uganda, I feel so sorry for Judith, Ooh my God, 😥😥😥😥, am also on online dating sites, and pray that may God bring for me a good God fearing person, thanks, we love you so much dear ❤🌹🌷

  • @EthelNjema
    @EthelNjema 9 месяцев назад +2

    Mmmmm this is really sad😢weakedness is real guys

  • @WrickeeTwins
    @WrickeeTwins 9 месяцев назад +1

    Bella thanks for uploading,,,, but this story made me😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @damaliauma547
    @damaliauma547 9 месяцев назад +2

    Hello sis Bella... Thanks for loving us so much more blessings dear 😘

  • @michaelfredericks-c9b
    @michaelfredericks-c9b 9 месяцев назад +12

    WOW! The things African women go through to get a Palm Coloured man.

  • @wangarikibunja1475
    @wangarikibunja1475 9 месяцев назад

    Am just so greatful for your advice to us single ladies Bella, I always tell you you are an angel. A preacher of this gospel and a teacher through you so many have passed and let the hearing ear hear. It's not easy but your lessons makes us strong to try again and open our eyes

  • @abahosarah3906
    @abahosarah3906 9 месяцев назад +1

    She went through hell. Thanks dear Bella for the information 🎉

  • @VickyGist7477
    @VickyGist7477 9 месяцев назад +1

    I am really sorry for what she went through so sorry, thanks for sharing dear African bella. 😘😘👍

  • @nanimm8673
    @nanimm8673 9 месяцев назад +2

    Poor Judith, I feel so bad for her, She saw alot of red flags and ignored them 😢 what a sad story!

  • @bbsuccess7082
    @bbsuccess7082 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hmmmmm may God bless her with good man again that'll give her peace

  • @memorybanda9277
    @memorybanda9277 9 месяцев назад +2

    Enjoying the goodies through the mouth was so disgusting 🤮🤮🤮, oh poor Judith she went through hell, some men are inhumane. I will be waiting for part 4, love you always my dear Bella ❤❤❤❤

  • @annmungai4753
    @annmungai4753 9 месяцев назад

    Oh goodness.. This lady went thru a lot.. 😢😢

  • @MunaIbrahim-hq2de
    @MunaIbrahim-hq2de 9 месяцев назад

    Bela faced alot guys but she was strong and patience god blessed her amiin ♥️♥️

  • @SiphiweSharon-qi8vo
    @SiphiweSharon-qi8vo 6 месяцев назад

    How is she now 😢😢😢

  • @Riyovlogs789
    @Riyovlogs789 9 месяцев назад +1

    This is the saddest story here, i feel so bad for her,May God protect her.😢

  • @prossykays2632
    @prossykays2632 9 месяцев назад +10

    Amar was a devil in human skin!😭

  • @CHEKSLEA
    @CHEKSLEA 9 месяцев назад +5

    Ama came from pit of hell 😈, how can one be so wicked, I feel sorry for Judith girl

  • @kapasikabrenda
    @kapasikabrenda 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hello Bella.
    Hello real talk family 👋

  • @IreneAsuko-t2q
    @IreneAsuko-t2q 9 месяцев назад

    Hello Bella this guy was a monster in human form and imagine treating ahuman like an as animal and poor lady ignored the red flags and but thank you Bella for sharing this story so that it shines us searching online to be careful of such men online who don't respect women but may God bless you and your beautiful family 🙏🙏🙏 blessings dear and much love

  • @millicentjuma4455
    @millicentjuma4455 9 месяцев назад

    Judith has gone through alot even back in her country in her first marriage 😢😢😢….. my prayers with her🙏🙏

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  9 месяцев назад +1

      I just love the fact that you have watched this from part one.Yes this lady has suffered a lot😔

  • @zalwangobelindah4762
    @zalwangobelindah4762 9 месяцев назад +2

    😂😂And the way he can command with that ka small thing of his. 😊😊

  • @carolinechebon4513
    @carolinechebon4513 9 месяцев назад +1

    😂😂😂😂 I have done eating,but this is so sad😢.Yees coming a big smile 😊😊

  • @nureenrahmaumat7151
    @nureenrahmaumat7151 9 месяцев назад

    Twafuna Bella twamaala may Allah locate us all to the right men stay blessed Bella we love u.❤

  • @ladyruth2674
    @ladyruth2674 8 месяцев назад

    Sorry for my sister Judith, this was not the right man for her oooh, God have mercy .

  • @lionidakirochi9863
    @lionidakirochi9863 9 месяцев назад +1

    You look gorgeous siz

  • @Bilungi-y3j
    @Bilungi-y3j 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you bella to keep shining our eye even Bible saying these who have ears let them........! Thank you ka maama

  • @Surprises3558
    @Surprises3558 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hmmm ,am speechless 😨

  • @nakawooyagrace792
    @nakawooyagrace792 9 месяцев назад +2

    So so sorry dear Judith of all what you went through some white men are really hell
    Thanks so much Bella for always updating us ❤❤❤

  • @benedictaokogie845
    @benedictaokogie845 9 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my God, Bella, this is d first time lm coming 😮across a real toxic and horrifying story!!.
    So, so pathetic!😭.
    Judith really suffered.!
    Kia!!, Omo, dis one bad o! Infact, it's a terrible story!
    Can't wait to see how Judith got out of dis toxic relationship.
    Once again ladies, all dat glitters, is not GOLD, oo!!
    Tnx Bella.

  • @alicenafula7789
    @alicenafula7789 9 месяцев назад

    Oh my God 😢😢 our sister went through alot 😢

  • @WrickeeTwins
    @WrickeeTwins 9 месяцев назад +1

    Bella afro introduction always takes my account y

  • @candimbano2875
    @candimbano2875 9 месяцев назад +1

    More love to you Bella ❤❤❤

  • @locgirllifestyle
    @locgirllifestyle 9 месяцев назад +1

    Great video as always Auntie Bella❤
    But I want to correct something. I'm a medical microbiologist and I couldn't help myself 😂
    Candida is not a disease, it's actually an infection, it's also called yeast infection. It's very common in women and it's just an overgrowth of fungi that naturally lives in the vagina. Normally it's goes on it own.
    Love your contents ❤

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you dear!

    • @locgirllifestyle
      @locgirllifestyle 9 месяцев назад

      @@africanbellatherealtalk no, thank you ma 🙏🏼🙏🏼, for all that you do for us ☺️

  • @Mampisiloka
    @Mampisiloka 9 месяцев назад

    This is very sad,I pray the woman finds the peace she deserves.

  • @faridahmaghanga2070
    @faridahmaghanga2070 9 месяцев назад +1

    Following for part 4

  • @violetjimu6424
    @violetjimu6424 9 месяцев назад

    Was waiting..Thank you Bella ❤

  • @davidkoon767
    @davidkoon767 9 месяцев назад

    There are many more good men out there❤❤❤.

  • @NalubegaMariam-tl2li
    @NalubegaMariam-tl2li 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks dear sis

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 9 месяцев назад

    Looking great Bella

  • @MunaIbrahim-hq2de
    @MunaIbrahim-hq2de 9 месяцев назад

    Wow 😂 part 3thanks habibty

  • @tumubwineevelyne6318
    @tumubwineevelyne6318 9 месяцев назад

    Hey beautiful, happy Sunday ❤️🎉.

  • @miss_setutsinam
    @miss_setutsinam 9 месяцев назад +1

    Im so sorry Judith

  • @Hlulizinyanga
    @Hlulizinyanga 9 месяцев назад +1

    So sorry 😩

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 9 месяцев назад

    Looking forward to hear

  • @NaomiNatukunda
    @NaomiNatukunda 9 месяцев назад +1

    Looking so pretty today Bella ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @JuliEtAmron
    @JuliEtAmron 6 месяцев назад

    😂😂it's so sad but funny 😅

  • @davidkoon767
    @davidkoon767 9 месяцев назад

    Bob ♥️ Abishola

  • @temiladeadams9927
    @temiladeadams9927 9 месяцев назад +1

    First 💃

  • @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978
    @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978 9 месяцев назад +5

    But me think let the guys be first too meeting us in our country before we meet them in their country ladies please not that, me that's what i told my American guy 😢😮 era he's soon coming to visiting me ad my family members soon, so ladies let's be aware 😮

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  9 месяцев назад +1

      All the best dear

    • @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978
      @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@africanbellatherealtalk thanks love 🥰😚💞

    • @julianmaria2110
      @julianmaria2110 9 месяцев назад

      Exactly, but still someone can hide there true colours. Remember the majority visit for less than a month it's all by God's Grace I believe

  • @lilliangreenynansubuga6715
    @lilliangreenynansubuga6715 9 месяцев назад +1

    😢😢😢 i feel sorry for her

  • @pamelanyandiga4595
    @pamelanyandiga4595 9 месяцев назад

    Watching from my sick bed😢😢

  • @Njeris-Kitchen
    @Njeris-Kitchen 9 месяцев назад +1

    Waaaah haki people can be so selfish😢😢😢

  • @harriet7303
    @harriet7303 9 месяцев назад +1

    😮‍💨 this is very sorry.
    Could I Hundle Even For A While ?

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 9 месяцев назад

    Kwa mdomo? How now? Mimi namuuma this is evil I don't want to imagine.Bella I don't understand this!

  • @jacklinemurangira6327
    @jacklinemurangira6327 9 месяцев назад +1

    Bella my love not me even I don't think I can stay with that evil man for a month neda neda mukwano nze nkukuba nenkuwa ne receipt gwee😮😮 but sorry for our sister

    • @aijukaadrine4995
      @aijukaadrine4995 9 месяцев назад

      You know eeeeehhh my dear with this big head of mine i cant tolerant nonsense you better kill me but i can't do such thing 😢😢😢 it's really hurting imagine our fellow African passed through alot with that old man 😭😭 thank God he didn't kill her 🙏🙏🙏

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you dear 😘

  • @crossjoe1142
    @crossjoe1142 9 месяцев назад

    Oh Judith saw a lot. Some people in online dating site are time waister. I'm eating right away when you say that part African Bella 😳 His egg plant is the problem here and he's pouring insult on the innocent lady. I hope Alma finds her heart desires someday. African Bella is the best.

  • @shamimannabel3602
    @shamimannabel3602 9 месяцев назад +1

    Judith went through alot yet da red - flag 🚩 she ignored it. Sm tyms in life there are sm pipo u must spit out of yo life NO matter how much u like them ( him /her) let it go nd move on with ur life.

  • @EthelNjema
    @EthelNjema 9 месяцев назад

    Listening🙋

  • @neshkiki
    @neshkiki 9 месяцев назад

    How can I join to be a member, I don't have a credit card. Am from Kenya I can see it's impossible to pay through mpesa

  • @carolinemugure2192
    @carolinemugure2192 9 месяцев назад +1

    Am speechless on Judith story 😢

  • @lrene1918
    @lrene1918 9 месяцев назад

    Please Bella l need your advice ,l have aman who comes online only at night and tells me he's always busy even on his offdays

  • @zalwangobelindah4762
    @zalwangobelindah4762 9 месяцев назад +1

    That man was just a devil my God,, it's really a sad story banange, how can some one be fed on such dirty stuff 😤😷

  • @rose_Winchester86
    @rose_Winchester86 9 месяцев назад +3

    Chineke😢💔

  • @enishalihoward8119
    @enishalihoward8119 9 месяцев назад +1

    Once you are in HIS territory you are vulnerable. Just pray

  • @nantongolilyan
    @nantongolilyan 9 месяцев назад +2

    I don't promise or to give agreement to any one I can't do 😭

  • @nantongolilyan
    @nantongolilyan 9 месяцев назад +4

    That old man was a Devil 😈😈😭😭😭😭

  • @marthakunda-nn9jc
    @marthakunda-nn9jc 9 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my God
    Judith suffer alot in that

  • @Mavismut
    @Mavismut 9 месяцев назад

    This is so so sad my fellow Zambian ladies lets be careful 🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲in our desire to be with our ku chalo men

  • @ayishatumohammed3239
    @ayishatumohammed3239 9 месяцев назад +1

    Bella I need your Advice, I am 28 years and I am in an online long distance relationship with 63 years old black American man for 3years now, He has four grown up kids, He take very good care of me every month, He support me every month but We have never met in person before, When we first met on the online dating site he told me the truth that he is married and he will soon divorce his wife and come to Africa to marry me and now it been 3years we have not meet in person, He always fail his promise anytime he promise to come to Africa to meet me in person, Now He said I should keep on waiting for him to divorce his wife so he can come to Africa and meet me in person, I am confused, Please what should I do now ?

    • @VeraEkwa
      @VeraEkwa 9 месяцев назад +2

      My dear use your brain and run that’s a long wait and this man is deceiving you he is still happily married and will not do any divorce 😢.A man providing for you doesn’t mean he love you that’s the tricks these men use to catch their prey /victims

    • @cellestinebusieka2516
      @cellestinebusieka2516 9 месяцев назад

      hapana jaribu. That's a red flag, 3yrs kwani ni contract 😳🤔it should be three months or close to 3months

    • @cellestinebusieka2516
      @cellestinebusieka2516 9 месяцев назад

      Those are time wasters

    • @griphcrochets256
      @griphcrochets256 9 месяцев назад

      Wasting your time dear , he is not even interested in getting other kids

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  9 месяцев назад

      We talked about this already dear.Do you remember?

  • @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978
    @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978 9 месяцев назад +2

    🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
    Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
    Please ladies out there be very careful with on line dating it's not easy at all but we hve to waiting God's time has wise sorry our African sister Judith, but don't lose hope One day God will answered ur prayers 🤲🏻 just meter of time ' even me too i was like u just know i also passing through alot but now i thank God i found the real one and his from America then me am Ugandan ' very soon he's coming too me and my family members ad i can't wait to see him 🤲🏻🤗 . Naye girls we have to be very careful ba dear any way may God makes a good way to everyone their especially if ur trying to find real love just be patient God's time is the best way 🤲🏻💞

  • @inesaime4208
    @inesaime4208 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love you Bella ❤

  • @SHARONMULAA
    @SHARONMULAA 9 месяцев назад +2

    Am not blaming Judith but surely for heavens sake in 30s and being a mother I think one should be reasonable enough to add 1+1

  • @miriaagunyo5381
    @miriaagunyo5381 9 месяцев назад +1

    Ohh that man has really played on Judith mind

  • @gracegifty6845
    @gracegifty6845 9 месяцев назад

    Dear Judith I'm sorry but I have to laugh so hard😂😂😂. Hummmmmm sorry.... Judith

  • @lrene1918
    @lrene1918 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks so much Bella,l also met aguy who told me he needs asubmisive woman and he wants me to call him daddy

  • @musiimentamoreen8
    @musiimentamoreen8 9 месяцев назад

    That ama was devil him self 🤨😏😏 sorry Judith

  • @changes1131
    @changes1131 9 месяцев назад

    Hmmm 😢 so sad.