Walking away is arguably the most powerful thing a competent and emotionally intelligent man can do. It shows dignity, self respect, and it’s going to make the woman think twice, I promise.
There was this gorgeous girl at my office who was giving me flirtatious attention. It took almost 06 months for me to believe that she might like me. I decided to make a move to make her my life partner. I talked to her and about her family. She told me every thing about her family. Later, before confessing my love to her. I had an opinion from a trusted guy about the girl as I was looking for a serious relation of getting her as my wife. The guy told me that she is already engaged. This put my world upside down. Later I confirmed it from herself. I was confused whether I had too much expectation or I got played. But thank God I didn't validate her and never directly told her that I liked her.
The way you broke this down and explained it is perfect. There’s a lot of women out there who love attention regardless of their relationship status. It’s vital that a guy analyzes whether the woman he’s giving attention to is reciprocating and it’s leading somewhere. If she’s not reciprocating and it’s not leading anywhere then she’s just craving the attention…
I did it and I'm happier. It sucks in the beginning, but it does get better. I look at it now.I was giving her 90% effort to her for barely nothing. Now I have woman calling,texting asking me out on dates. It's like a balanced relationship. I learned my lesson for the new woman in my life.
And usually attention seeking behavior women, are often the prettier ones. I think it has to do with the attention most people gave her, growing up and yearning for that booster, as they grow older. It can be addictive.
This was exactly my case, I've wasted my time in her and nothing happened, and everytime I wanted to cut this toxic relationship she gave me a bit hope and I couldn't stop it.
Going through this now as im too much of a nice guy. I just realized she's just contacting me and using me for attention when she showed her true colors. Walking away
I delt with this at my job she said all kinds of sweet things and compliments and etc. Then come to find out she used me to make another guy jealous to make him come back into her orbit and then she ignored me . Then she comes back around every often to reel me back in. I now just no contact this female and stay away from her. The attention seekers know how to make you emotionally attached very fast and mess with your emotions. They know if you like them they will definitely use another man to make you jealous.
I’m glad you made this video. I wish I would’ve found it when I was younger and in the situation that you described. It took me 4 years to get over that girl but I’m glad I did. I hope young men find this video!
Omg this reminds me of a girl who "friendzoned" me years ago. It was her who initiated every interaction: She invited me over many times, took me for rides in her car, called me dozens of times. She was playing games. Haha karma hit hard she's mother of 4 now.
Thank God for the women who tell men before too much time goes by that they only like them as friends. Thank GOD for those women. Seriously. Bless them.
Tkanks. I am am exactly in that situation. I allready realized that and we made exactly so many rounds, no contact, she reach out over over again. I stoped contact but it helped to hear your explenation to get bettet over it and be sure of my decision and stick to it.
You will make a very good dating coach for men. This was the first time i came across your video. Coming from my own experience in dating and relationships you covered up all the points. Wanna see you grow with your channel. All the best girl.👍🏻 Enjoyed watching it
@@justody1 what it means is basically she didn't want sex near the end with me she was very reserved never went out etc just what I wanted, now we're broke up she's having one night stands craving attention etc
As the guy you don't say anything just walk away. No explanation. In fact it would be great if you found someone new and accidentally ran into the girl who wanted your attention. Let her see you happy and make her jealous because chances are she's still alone.
I think I just experienced this and didn’t realize it, my situation the girl said “ask me out now, I won’t say yes. However, ask me out later and I might say yes.” I’m in the process of moving on but it mentally messed me up. I should’ve walked away and I wish I did, because what she did really hurt. I ended up getting blocked for coming on too strong, should’ve just walked away, because she wouldn’t have hurt me and I would’ve been in control.
Perfect video displaying cruel face of several Women these days, its hard to leave them, but holding them in your life is equivalent to 1000 bee stings per minute of a day. So you decide.
In my neighbour mother and her 2 teen daughters are attention seekers. They suck my attention for 2 year. Because they always come to my house and talk to my mother and sit next to me. It's almost impossible to avoid them. That was first time dealing with attention seekers. They give lots of signals of flirting which I misunderstood and thought they liked me. But when a new younger dude come to my neighbour they start same tactics with him. He also responded same. Then I noticed and googled it and it blew my mind. Now I rearly give attention to them. But now they already have enough attention from me.
I was texting my ex for 2 months, she had a new boyfriend but was still telling me I miss you and think about you, but wouldn't say she wanted to meet or answer my calls or just replied when she was ready, got told by family and friends your wasting your time on her but didn't listen, was with her 6 months, she was drinking a bottle of wine every day and smoking weed, but I liked the attention at the time and company, but don't see tht when with her
What a world we are loving in 😂 Back in those days men and women used to fight for independence but now they are seeking attention from social media to boost up their ego 😂😂😂😂
In my case I wanted a solid foundation for a committed relationship... she stopped dating me because she thought i was just playing but she wanted all the attention , be a priority...
These women who have addiction to attention have histrionic personality disorder.they fool lot of men thinking they have a chance when it's just attention what they want..as soon as you confess your feelings to the histrionic they would dump you..
I got one for u.. I move to a different side of town. The nearest gas station has a worker, that she would just stare a me.. every time I went in their, it’s was so, bad my 9 yr old daughter noticed.. I mean I’ll stare at her back, but I’ll break eye contact cuz it’s just weird.. she very pretty, anyways I got tired of the Constant stare. So, one day I wrote her a small letter, an gave her my number. A couple of days after the letter. I ran to the gas station to use the atm and one of the other girls called her name an she to her “heads up” I heard her giggling. She must have told all her coworkers, I was kinda mad.. I’m a shy guy but when I’m mad a got big fucking balls.. so, still go to the same gas station from time to time.. but, I literally act like she doesn’t exist.. girls call guy creep’s, an tarnish their image to other girls when their the ones that stares.
This happened to me after 6 months I said enough is enough let her go she was texting me and sending me pictures and I just gosht her learn a lots from the experience I really like her a lot thought 😢
In that same situation i have been having 100%😅she dated me in silence for 10years since high school and she never like me to talk to her family because i was ready to officially marry her Sometime she could only talk to me when she wanted shopping and most cases she could blue tick my messages 😓😓😓 I created enemies because anyone who could advise me about her or talk about her became my enemy I will take time for me to recover from depression
I may have encountered a extreme case.. noticed it but put up with her bs for 2 weeks. By nature it made me pull back from her and stop responding , she went crazy every day and night texting me.. (what is this , why are you ignoring me , please explain , i feel hurt) we haven't even met she went crazy like cat on catnip. My advice to guys would be to set a date if she makes excuses 3 times you leave it be.
@@Alex-xf5ux Most likely she is a narcissist , everything adds up at end. First hooks me than plays mind games and when she realized i got away she started love bombing again.
Sounds like the girl I was talking to , if you don’t respond to a message within 7 min she assumes your cheating and then she starts ignoring you and trying to pick fights when she was bored , didn’t respect boundaries . It’s kind of my fault though I learned my lesson ( she was with a guy he didn’t want me and her talking so she tells him she won’t talk to me no more she comes back and tells me she don’t want him to put her on a leash she does what she wants) when me and her are together there is another guy I tell her I don’t want her talking with him and I had good reason for it I would still catch her but they were sneaky so I couldn’t prove it I finally left because I couldn’t trust her and my gut was telling me she was cheating wouldn’t you know a few hours later she started streaming on RUclips she’s all happy and that same guy was in the chat saying woohooo finally out of jail. Woman like this are sneaky and they know how to manipulated and gaslight there asses off.
I’m seeing someone who’s been married 3 times has a great heart and I know she loves me ,we go out all the time ,but she told of her second husband saying when he gets drunk wants me to send pics of herself naked and I thought what are you telling me that for and when someone handsome man came on the tv she said let’s get it on baby ,she sends pics of herself when no one’s in the office with her blouse open ,I was married for 35 yrs and my wife died with MS a couple of yrs ago ,there’s other things but a bit to dirty ,I don’t know what to do ,thanks
For quite a few months my lady friend and I acted like lover’s we never went on a date and never exchanged phone numbers now just to let know she’s my line manager anyway she went for a man she says she didn’t like but she doesn’t like me being other women the other day she gave the usual look has thought they fancy me but the next day she shows that she not interested it cheese me off I can’t walk because I have to work with her
There is a girl I like at work. She has a long term boyfriend. I want to know if this girl is only after attention because she will only occasionally flirt and talk and it is always on her terms. Otherwise, she avoids me. She does the same to another guy.
Just wants attention. You can push things forward and get her to cheat but if the bf finds out she’s gonna blame you and get HR involved claiming you harassed and pressured her into cheating.
Just to update: she had been avoiding me for the past couple weeks and talking alone in the hallway at certain times during the day to the other guy she’s been stringing along. I was so annoyed with her that I stopped talking to her completely for 2 weeks. She noticed. And this past week started saying good morning to me and appearing in places where I go during the work go, basically following my routine, going on breaks the same time as me. I am pleasant but nowhere near as eager to talk as I used to. I hope she knows she really messed up.
@@Josh-fp2qn dude you need to stop interacting with her and ignore her. The attention she’s giving you may seem special to you but realize she’s giving the same attention to other male co-workers. You’re basically one of her many orbiters who she’s used for validation. Woman like her are experts at love bombing men so they fall for her and give chase.
@@Josh-fp2qn oh and she knows what shes is doing and has no regret about it trust me. If she really wanted you she’d have dumbed her BF and let you know she’s single and give you all the signals. Lastly would you want to be with this girl knowing she’ll flirt with other guys while in a relationship with you and if she’s working during your day off you’re gonna be constantly worrying about what dudes are trying to get at her while you’re not present.
@@Josh-fp2qn Whwn you comes to attention whores just see them as a pump and dump and nothing more because if you try to wife her up you’re gonna realize you can never please such woman and she’ll drain you for everything you have and once you end up broke and of no use she already has a new guy lined up.
This sounds like my uncle wife who is PR she was hanging out with my uncle a lot using him for attention and validation but they never had sex before it got to a point my uncle got jealous thinking something was going on now my uncle and his wife are back close again 😲
Walk away after you ask them out and they say no or they're not sure. I don't know what kind of sick woman who is perfectly capable of dating a man would be happy with him looking at her. I could see if there's an age difference or she's married and he knows it but not a single woman the same age.
My situation is complicated. I met someone via their job. I was in a relationship even though there was a vibe with his person. She continued to be involved with the situation even though she didn't need to. This is what I have been told by her boss. She chose to stay involved. I understand that she is in her professional role and can't treat me differently. So this is probably a factor. It's the impression she gives rather than what she actually says. She was off work over Xmas and she contacted me for an update (she didn't need to ask me) and she asked me for coffee. It was a more like a date even though she knew I was in a relationship. We talked about more personal things... Now I'm confused.
Repeats it's not coming from a malicious place.....it's absolutely malicious to use people for one's personal game. I'm not watching because I'm saulking, just curious why these critters do this to men.
Some guys like to get revenge though, I knew a guy that lead her on, saying that he booked a hotel (all expenses paid), even showed her the tickets, then she turned up at the airport and he left her standing around, waiting for him. 😁
Biology teaches that a feminine girl fits with a masculine male. The fact that procreation is not possible otherwise tells you same sex relationships are unnatural.
Because he walked away ….he is dealing with divorce now …no reconciliation whatsoever….think twice before doing it …because you do not know who are you dealing with . Just saying ….
Walking away is arguably the most powerful thing a competent and emotionally intelligent man can do. It shows dignity, self respect, and it’s going to make the woman think twice, I promise.
Ghosting is 'walking away's' big brother.
@@mikyl-fo8rhno , ghosting is not replying , walking away is deciding to stop to chasing
There was this gorgeous girl at my office who was giving me flirtatious attention. It took almost 06 months for me to believe that she might like me. I decided to make a move to make her my life partner.
I talked to her and about her family. She told me every thing about her family. Later, before confessing my love to her. I had an opinion from a trusted guy about the girl as I was looking for a serious relation of getting her as my wife.
The guy told me that she is already engaged. This put my world upside down. Later I confirmed it from herself.
I was confused whether I had too much expectation or I got played.
But thank God I didn't validate her and never directly told her that I liked her.
The way you broke this down and explained it is perfect. There’s a lot of women out there who love attention regardless of their relationship status. It’s vital that a guy analyzes whether the woman he’s giving attention to is reciprocating and it’s leading somewhere. If she’s not reciprocating and it’s not leading anywhere then she’s just craving the attention…
I did it and I'm happier. It sucks in the beginning, but it does get better. I look at it now.I was giving her 90% effort to her for barely nothing. Now I have woman calling,texting asking me out on dates. It's like a balanced relationship. I learned my lesson for the new woman in my life.
And usually attention seeking behavior women, are often the prettier ones. I think it has to do with the attention most people gave her, growing up and yearning for that booster, as they grow older. It can be addictive.
Narcissistic behavior mostly
They constantly want compliments and attention.
This was exactly my case, I've wasted my time in her and nothing happened, and everytime I wanted to cut this toxic relationship she gave me a bit hope and I couldn't stop it.
Is a lots of shitty people out here brother I hope you learn from this experience
Yep. Narcissist love bomb
Ruth histrionic personality disorder
Seductive
Going through this now as im too much of a nice guy. I just realized she's just contacting me and using me for attention when she showed her true colors. Walking away
I delt with this at my job she said all kinds of sweet things and compliments and etc. Then come to find out she used me to make another guy jealous to make him come back into her orbit and then she ignored me . Then she comes back around every often to reel me back in. I now just no contact this female and stay away from her. The attention seekers know how to make you emotionally attached very fast and mess with your emotions. They know if you like them they will definitely use another man to make you jealous.
I recently was dealing with someone like that. She wasted my time.
They do come from a malicious place they know exactly what they're doing playing with people
I’m glad you made this video. I wish I would’ve found it when I was younger and in the situation that you described. It took me 4 years to get over that girl but I’m glad I did. I hope young men find this video!
Omg this reminds me of a girl who "friendzoned" me years ago. It was her who initiated every interaction: She invited me over many times, took me for rides in her car, called me dozens of times. She was playing games. Haha karma hit hard she's mother of 4 now.
Thank God for the women who tell men before too much time goes by that they only like them as friends. Thank GOD for those women. Seriously. Bless them.
Tkanks. I am am exactly in that situation. I allready realized that and we made exactly so many rounds, no contact, she reach out over over again. I stoped contact but it helped to hear your explenation to get bettet over it and be sure of my decision and stick to it.
Amazing video. I’m going through this exact situation right now and you explained it perfectly.
You will make a very good dating coach for men. This was the first time i came across your video. Coming from my own experience in dating and relationships you covered up all the points. Wanna see you grow with your channel. All the best girl.👍🏻 Enjoyed watching it
My ex seemed real girlfriend material until we broke up , now she's handing it out like the leaflet guy at the asda entrance 😄
How do u mean?
@@justody1 what it means is basically she didn't want sex near the end with me she was very reserved never went out etc just what I wanted, now we're broke up she's having one night stands craving attention etc
@@Minilover-ec7ci wow😨, thats women for u
They are horrible.
As the guy you don't say anything just walk away. No explanation. In fact it would be great if you found someone new and accidentally ran into the girl who wanted your attention. Let her see you happy and make her jealous because chances are she's still alone.
Best advice ever, thanks! 💯💯💯
Yeah I wanted to hear this. Thank you so much
What you described are breadcrumbing narcissistic women. I completely cutoff one recently.
I think I just experienced this and didn’t realize it, my situation the girl said “ask me out now, I won’t say yes. However, ask me out later and I might say yes.” I’m in the process of moving on but it mentally messed me up. I should’ve walked away and I wish I did, because what she did really hurt. I ended up getting blocked for coming on too strong, should’ve just walked away, because she wouldn’t have hurt me and I would’ve been in control.
I have experienced something similar.
Wow that’s accurate, thank you.
This is my current situation. Thank you for telling me how to deal with this situation. This woman has me all messed up.
Love your work ❤️
Perfect video displaying cruel face of several Women these days, its hard to leave them, but holding them in your life is equivalent to 1000 bee stings per minute of a day. So you decide.
I needed this thank you so much
It's crazy how the same psychology works on everybody!! It's like everybody is a different book that has already been discovered...
Great advice
Story of my life 😢
Good insight, but sometimes it DOES come from a malicious standpoint.
In my neighbour mother and her 2 teen daughters are attention seekers.
They suck my attention for 2 year.
Because they always come to my house and talk to my mother and sit next to me.
It's almost impossible to avoid them.
That was first time dealing with attention seekers.
They give lots of signals of flirting which I misunderstood and thought they liked me.
But when a new younger dude come to my neighbour they start same tactics with him.
He also responded same.
Then I noticed and googled it and it blew my mind.
Now I rearly give attention to them.
But now they already have enough attention from me.
YOU GOT MOGGED!!!!! LOLOLOL
Lovely video. Thank you. X
You're welcome. Thank you for commenting!
I was texting my ex for 2 months, she had a new boyfriend but was still telling me I miss you and think about you, but wouldn't say she wanted to meet or answer my calls or just replied when she was ready, got told by family and friends your wasting your time on her but didn't listen, was with her 6 months, she was drinking a bottle of wine every day and smoking weed, but I liked the attention at the time and company, but don't see tht when with her
@@ChristineLoveridgeCoaching Pure simps.
What a world we are loving in 😂
Back in those days men and women used to fight for independence but now they are seeking attention from social media to boost up their ego 😂😂😂😂
I rarely get friend zoned anymore. Even when I do, it leads to fwb or interest on the side.
In my case I wanted a solid foundation for a committed relationship... she stopped dating me because she thought i was just playing but she wanted all the attention , be a priority...
These women have HPD it is a personality disorder. Remember its them not you. They need a therapist not a mate/friend.
These women who have addiction to attention have histrionic personality disorder.they fool lot of men thinking they have a chance when it's just attention what they want..as soon as you confess your feelings to the histrionic they would dump you..
I got one for u.. I move to a different side of town. The nearest gas station has a worker, that she would just stare a me.. every time I went in their, it’s was so, bad my 9 yr old daughter noticed.. I mean I’ll stare at her back, but I’ll break eye contact cuz it’s just weird.. she very pretty, anyways I got tired of the Constant stare. So, one day I wrote her a small letter, an gave her my number. A couple of days after the letter. I ran to the gas station to use the atm and one of the other girls called her name an she to her “heads up” I heard her giggling. She must have told all her coworkers, I was kinda mad.. I’m a shy guy but when I’m mad a got big fucking balls.. so, still go to the same gas station from time to time.. but, I literally act like she doesn’t exist.. girls call guy creep’s, an tarnish their image to other girls when their the ones that stares.
This is my story
This happened to me after 6 months I said enough is enough let her go she was texting me and sending me pictures and I just gosht her learn a lots from the experience I really like her a lot thought 😢
there are a lot of these 9´out of 10
In that same situation i have been having 100%😅she dated me in silence for 10years since high school and she never like me to talk to her family because i was ready to officially marry her
Sometime she could only talk to me when she wanted shopping and most cases she could blue tick my messages 😓😓😓
I created enemies because anyone who could advise me about her or talk about her became my enemy
I will take time for me to recover from depression
Hi Christine, do such women every come back when you walk away?
Bull's eye ! Christine
Beyond the friend zone or no Zone! ....That's what I tell them. Try it,
I may have encountered a extreme case.. noticed it but put up with her bs for 2 weeks. By nature it made me pull back from her and stop responding , she went crazy every day and night texting me.. (what is this , why are you ignoring me , please explain , i feel hurt) we haven't even met she went crazy like cat on catnip. My advice to guys would be to set a date if she makes excuses 3 times you leave it be.
It sounds like she have Personality disorder
@@Alex-xf5ux Most likely she is a narcissist , everything adds up at end. First hooks me than plays mind games and when she realized i got away she started love bombing again.
Sounds like the girl I was talking to , if you don’t respond to a message within 7 min she assumes your cheating and then she starts ignoring you and trying to pick fights when she was bored , didn’t respect boundaries . It’s kind of my fault though I learned my lesson ( she was with a guy he didn’t want me and her talking so she tells him she won’t talk to me no more she comes back and tells me she don’t want him to put her on a leash she does what she wants) when me and her are together there is another guy I tell her I don’t want her talking with him and I had good reason for it I would still catch her but they were sneaky so I couldn’t prove it I finally left because I couldn’t trust her and my gut was telling me she was cheating wouldn’t you know a few hours later she started streaming on RUclips she’s all happy and that same guy was in the chat saying woohooo finally out of jail. Woman like this are sneaky and they know how to manipulated and gaslight there asses off.
Don't allow them to put you in friend zone. Cut her off and move on.
Walking away is the best thing a man should do in a friendzone situation.
I’m seeing someone who’s been married 3 times has a great heart and I know she loves me ,we go out all the time ,but she told of her second husband saying when he gets drunk wants me to send pics of herself naked and I thought what are you telling me that for and when someone handsome man came on the tv she said let’s get it on baby ,she sends pics of herself when no one’s in the office with her blouse open ,I was married for 35 yrs and my wife died with MS a couple of yrs ago ,there’s other things but a bit to dirty ,I don’t know what to do ,thanks
For quite a few months my lady friend and I acted like lover’s we never went on a date and never exchanged phone numbers now just to let know she’s my line manager anyway she went for a man she says she didn’t like but she doesn’t like me being other women the other day she gave the usual look has thought they fancy me but the next day she shows that she not interested it cheese me off I can’t walk because I have to work with her
There is a girl I like at work. She has a long term boyfriend. I want to know if this girl is only after attention because she will only occasionally flirt and talk and it is always on her terms. Otherwise, she avoids me. She does the same to another guy.
Just wants attention. You can push things forward and get her to cheat but if the bf finds out she’s gonna blame you and get HR involved claiming you harassed and pressured her into cheating.
Just to update: she had been avoiding me for the past couple weeks and talking alone in the hallway at certain times during the day to the other guy she’s been stringing along. I was so annoyed with her that I stopped talking to her completely for 2 weeks. She noticed. And this past week started saying good morning to me and appearing in places where I go during the work go, basically following my routine, going on breaks the same time as me. I am pleasant but nowhere near as eager to talk as I used to. I hope she knows she really messed up.
@@Josh-fp2qn dude you need to stop interacting with her and ignore her. The attention she’s giving you may seem special to you but realize she’s giving the same attention to other male co-workers. You’re basically one of her many orbiters who she’s used for validation. Woman like her are experts at love bombing men so they fall for her and give chase.
@@Josh-fp2qn oh and she knows what shes is doing and has no regret about it trust me. If she really wanted you she’d have dumbed her BF and let you know she’s single and give you all the signals. Lastly would you want to be with this girl knowing she’ll flirt with other guys while in a relationship with you and if she’s working during your day off you’re gonna be constantly worrying about what dudes are trying to get at her while you’re not present.
@@Josh-fp2qn Whwn you comes to attention whores just see them as a pump and dump and nothing more because if you try to wife her up you’re gonna realize you can never please such woman and she’ll drain you for everything you have and once you end up broke and of no use she already has a new guy lined up.
If you keep them locked in the basement, they won't leave you.
This sounds like my uncle wife who is PR she was hanging out with my uncle a lot using him for attention and validation but they never had sex before it got to a point my uncle got jealous thinking something was going on now my uncle and his wife are back close again 😲
Walk away after you ask them out and they say no or they're not sure. I don't know what kind of sick woman who is perfectly capable of dating a man would be happy with him looking at her. I could see if there's an age difference or she's married and he knows it but not a single woman the same age.
Bump
My situation is complicated. I met someone via their job. I was in a relationship even though there was a vibe with his person.
She continued to be involved with the situation even though she didn't need to. This is what I have been told by her boss. She chose to stay involved.
I understand that she is in her professional role and can't treat me differently. So this is probably a factor. It's the impression she gives rather than what she actually says.
She was off work over Xmas and she contacted me for an update (she didn't need to ask me) and she asked me for coffee. It was a more like a date even though she knew I was in a relationship.
We talked about more personal things... Now I'm confused.
Repeats it's not coming from a malicious place.....it's absolutely malicious to use people for one's personal game. I'm not watching because I'm saulking, just curious why these critters do this to men.
Some guys like to get revenge though, I knew a guy that lead her on, saying that he booked a hotel (all expenses paid), even showed her the tickets, then she turned up at the airport and he left her standing around, waiting for him. 😁
What is the video that talks about why feminine girl isn't attracted to another feminine girl.
One needs to be more aggressive/than the other???
Biology teaches that a feminine girl fits with a masculine male. The fact that procreation is not possible otherwise tells you same sex relationships are unnatural.
Because he walked away ….he is dealing with divorce now …no reconciliation whatsoever….think twice before doing it …because you do not know who are you dealing with . Just saying ….
You kinda look like Christina Ricci