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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024

Комментарии • 47

  • @jmjj8437
    @jmjj8437 8 дней назад +15

    Oh my goodness! I didn’t know how extremely Blessed I have been during my 82+ years! from childhood with relatives a mutual agreement was that we alternated the Thanksgiving and the Christmas date for each side of the family. I only remember good times. Then when I was to Chicago to school, I remember the times I was to Albin & Florence’s home (when I couldn’t get home to KS). I was so welcomed to Fran & Dell’s home, sisters of Florence. Never did I get any sense of serious disagreement. Rick & Dale. The sons of Albin & Florence and their families. Plus another sister of Florence and their family! I was welcomed to the long table that spread into 2 rooms! I remember appreciation expressed in many ways, laughter, stories, all good stuff with the delicious food! These times were between 1960 & 1964! I seriously don’t think John remembers me, but I remember the young boy sitting on a chair quietly observing what was going on with adults. Only good memories. Tell John I still appreciate him and his family as they all welcomed me during that time and since.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  8 дней назад +1

      Such a beautiful and heartfelt recollection - thank you for sharing with the Become New Community. You have indeed blessed John Thank you Bucky

  • @ewencameron4269
    @ewencameron4269 8 дней назад +6

    I blew it yesterday when I was given a task at the end of a long day to admit an old man to a nursing home and instead of just accepting it I blew up for a minute. The task giver was just a messenger and the task was wholly appropriate. I felt bad about it all night. I did the task and funnily enough as I spoke to the old man at the nursing home I said you're a very content old man whats your secret?
    He said "I know Jesus"
    True story

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  7 дней назад

      Beautiful story - thank you for sharing your heart with us Bucky

  • @brucebaker111
    @brucebaker111 8 дней назад +16

    On the serious side, I’m one of those parents with an estranged child, and during this holiday season, it is so hard. I’ve been praying daily for many years, but I admit I’m losing hope of an door opening in this situation.
    Your words today come as a lifeline. You reminded me that there are people on the periphery of my life I can reach out to, people I could create a tighter bond with. It gives me a sense of something to do, a way forward, instead of retreating into the loneliness I often feel.
    Thank you for the encouragement. I really needed to hear this today. Doors can open up, usually when we least expect them to. God is good, always good!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  8 дней назад

      You are so welcome Bruce - don't give us - God hears your prayers Bucky

    • @paulkick7870
      @paulkick7870 8 дней назад +1

      🙏

  • @brucebaker111
    @brucebaker111 8 дней назад +11

    Thanks, John, for a great laugh this morning. I saw this online.
    Welcome to the annual family feast, where optimal personality compatibility ensures everyone survives the turkey coma. Each family member will be seated scientifically to minimize debates (looking at you, Uncle Bob) and maximize gravy-sharing efficiency. The code includes critical guidelines: one plate of food at a time (leave enough dressing for Aunt Carol!), a whipped cream limit of one dollop per pie slice (you’re not building a snowbank), and no political discussions until at least the second serving of mashed potatoes. Signing this code is mandatory, with penalties including dish duty or explaining the Wi-Fi password to Grandpa. Family harmony is just one signed pledge away!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  8 дней назад

      Thanks Bruce for sharing - you painted quite a family feast!! Oh Boy!!! 🫣 Bucky

    • @meliowa8797
      @meliowa8797 6 дней назад

      That's hilarious! Thanks for the chuckle!

  • @kellypatton1261
    @kellypatton1261 8 дней назад +7

    Once again John put me in my place. Thank you and love you all. God is so good!!!!!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  8 дней назад

      Kelly we are so grateful you are with us - thank you so much for listening Bucky

  • @karinknutson8447
    @karinknutson8447 8 дней назад +4

    Laughed out loud on seating chart!!!!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  7 дней назад

      Karin - can you imagine 🫣? Have a blessed day Bucky

  • @paulkick7870
    @paulkick7870 8 дней назад +7

    "God, help my mouth not say stupid things."

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  8 дней назад +3

      PAUL, you (and with God's help) Got this!!! Have a blessed day Bucky

  • @peggysevre7211
    @peggysevre7211 7 дней назад +1

    We have astrangement in our family. It is painful and I've learned I cannot force reconciliation, but I can pray for it and have God change my heart and make it ready for such a moment.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  7 дней назад

      Yes, Peggy, for such a moment. I love your heart in spite of the pain. - Brad

  • @vinoo1946
    @vinoo1946 8 дней назад +2

    Hi John,....
    Very thoughtful and heartwarming exposition of the deeper meaning of these scriptures...You make it so easy to understand the
    hidden gems that are these verses....
    With sincere regards,..Arnold. (UK)...

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  8 дней назад

      Thank you for sharing we are glad you enjoyed it - we appreciate your thoughts Blessings Bucky

  • @elaineh1041
    @elaineh1041 8 дней назад +2

    good morning ☀️ “God bless them, God change me.” My constant to keep my mouth 🤐.
    oooh, Fritos~love the BBQ kind 🥰🙏🏻💕🍃

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  7 дней назад

      So good - you have very good tastes!! Thanks for sharing Bucky

    • @elaineh1041
      @elaineh1041 7 дней назад

      ha ha ha!😂

  • @terriwerning3477
    @terriwerning3477 8 дней назад +2

    Always practical ways we can use in our lives right now! Thank you, John!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  7 дней назад

      You are very welcome - we are glad you are with us Blessings Bucky

  • @chillycheeks5318
    @chillycheeks5318 8 дней назад +2

    Just love ya Dr Ortberg! Just love ya. Love from across the pond, complete with American accent! ❤

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  7 дней назад

      We so appreciate you being with us from across the pond and sharing your day with us Bucky

  • @windy633
    @windy633 7 дней назад

    I'm prayerfully considering what you shared as I have pulled back from people pleasing in recent years. It has seemed to me that the Holy Spirit is encouraging me to trust HE is at work and I need to let go & put my trust in HIM. Thank you for sharing this - in Christ we trust 🙏 His blood and resurrection has won our victory!!!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  7 дней назад

      I'm so glad you watch along with us. Yes, follow that encouragement of God's Spirit, to let go and place your trust in him! - Brad

  • @johnmcmannus
    @johnmcmannus 8 дней назад +3

    Excellent and Helpful! Thank you.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  8 дней назад

      Glad it was helpful John - thank you for sharing your morning with us Bucky

  • @JeanneCorrigan-ej4le
    @JeanneCorrigan-ej4le 7 дней назад

    Thank you for another wonderful gift John and God bless you all !! ❤️

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  5 дней назад

      Thanks for this note, Jeanne. - Brad

  • @tracykamemoto4602
    @tracykamemoto4602 8 дней назад +1

    Great message!! ❤🙏

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  7 дней назад

      Thank you Tracy - we appreciate you sharing your day with us Bucky

  • @lvshope
    @lvshope 8 дней назад +2

    Prayers for family relationships. May I do my part.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  8 дней назад

      Amen!! Thank you for sharing Have a Blessed Day Bucky

  • @mistysmith2378
    @mistysmith2378 8 дней назад +2

    I haven't spoken to my father since February 2018. Its part of a pattern that has existed since I was in my twenties. I disappoint him, he cuts me off. Now I'm 58. Previously, I was always the one who reached out, this time, I couldn't do it anymore. I vacillate between feeling as though I should contact him and not wanting to go through the same thing again. My father is 83 now, and we're running out of time.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  8 дней назад +2

      Misty - it is never too late - may God be with you to give you courage and to guard your heart - he is with you!!. Be Strong and Courageous Joshua 1:6 Bucky

    • @revannekh
      @revannekh 7 дней назад

      You honor God, Misty, with your effort to connect with your dad, even if he does not respond

  • @traceyyeo5647
    @traceyyeo5647 7 дней назад +1

    Thank you for a lovely measage today. I pray God turns my heart back to my ex husband to make it easier for my sons tonhave a relationship with me and please help me not tonsay anything horrible or cutting

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  7 дней назад

      What an honest, sincere prayer, Tracey. I join you in that prayer, that you will allow God to do what he wants in your heart and life. That your relationship with your sons will be beautiful. - Brad

  • @daniellemeadows8291
    @daniellemeadows8291 8 дней назад +2

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  8 дней назад

      Good Morning Danielle - may you have a blessed day! Thank you for faithfully sharing a part of your day with us 😉 Bucky

  • @kathymyers7279
    @kathymyers7279 6 дней назад

    No. I will turn my heart towards Him. I can’t do the whole thing. HE CAN. Plus I want to say that family tension happens because WE DONT MEET TOGETHER ENOUGH. Just like “church”.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  5 дней назад

      Kathy, we'll continue turning our hearts toward him, along with you. - Brad

  • @terriwerning3477
    @terriwerning3477 8 дней назад +1

    Always practical ways we can use in our lives right now! Thank you, John!