Finding Love When You Are A Single Mom Ft Kate Actress

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  • @msorosaine8283
    @msorosaine8283 3 года назад +172

    Who is single like me with a kid and fears to fall for someone who takes relationship for granted

    • @margaretmwangishow2138
      @margaretmwangishow2138 3 года назад +1

      Me

    • @wanjirukabuchiofficial8466
      @wanjirukabuchiofficial8466 3 года назад +3

      With time u will overcome it....I did and am trusting God for this

    • @gracewambui6524
      @gracewambui6524 3 года назад +7

      Me...Aki even nikiona chali ananiangalia kiplani I start running away na kulenga story weauh

    • @afsatiyah7931
      @afsatiyah7931 3 года назад +3

      Mine is 11yrs and still single...nikiona mtu hiyo mimi to the left i tell you

    • @evaeve8388
      @evaeve8388 3 года назад +1

      me too

  • @audrieashiali7437
    @audrieashiali7437 3 года назад +139

    I honestly love the two of you. I got my baby at 17 and I became the village laughing stock hmmmm. That didn't bar me from achieving my dreams. The journey hasn't been easy but I've hustled to be where I am today, currently a high school teacher of English language and literature in Bahrain.
    The sky is the limit and my baby is 13 years today.

    • @patriciahkemunto1775
      @patriciahkemunto1775 3 года назад

      Inbox me my head is crushing....the career you dd is my calling but am stuck

    • @michellemuyama9144
      @michellemuyama9144 3 года назад

      💪💪💪💪💪go girl

    • @angelamayaka9335
      @angelamayaka9335 3 года назад +1

      Amazing story

    • @evelynkinyua6667
      @evelynkinyua6667 3 года назад

      @Audrie Ashiali, Me to I got a baby at 20 I didn’t loose hope but now am in Bahrain to🥰🥰🥰

    • @winnienjeri9069
      @winnienjeri9069 3 года назад +1

      Got my kid at 17, now at 24 ;4th year student...I believe the future is bright

  • @sonniewamuyu8826
    @sonniewamuyu8826 3 года назад +39

    Tiz has really changed alot i got going in my mind....am a single mom of 2months old baby na am only 18yrs...I was feeling like the world is over...watching tiz has answered so many questions na i feel better thanks kate you such an inspiration 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @judithnjoroge5338
    @judithnjoroge5338 3 года назад +69

    I was brought up by stepdad, the best stepdad ever, I love him so much

    • @FashionableStepMum
      @FashionableStepMum  3 года назад +2

      That is amazing.. such stories inspire a lot

    • @jainejaine3442
      @jainejaine3442 3 года назад +1

      Thank you for encouragement

    • @blessedfela1515
      @blessedfela1515 3 года назад

      I hope my daughter says this one day...God

    • @favoredh
      @favoredh 3 года назад +1

      I wish my son says this one day 😢😢😢😢, the step dad is a living hell to him but I had to say no just the other day,.. Saitaaaaaan is a lier! Am sorry my son I was kind of desperate single mama 😭

  • @favouredwoman87
    @favouredwoman87 3 года назад +34

    There is love after being a single mum. I was a single mum who feared falling in love but I meet a man and he changed my whole life

  • @njambi1860
    @njambi1860 3 года назад +21

    Am a single mum of 5yrs old gal and am sooo glad I got to listen to this imeni inspire sana keep it up i'v learn alot

  • @pamziziqueenworld4792
    @pamziziqueenworld4792 3 года назад +4

    I have been single mum of 3 .... separated with baby daddy with very young babies...fear of falling in love again ...but who is God. I found love that changed my life...thanks to my hubby .

  • @chachakamoni7627
    @chachakamoni7627 3 года назад +8

    I am a single mum hustling for my daughter and trying to recover what I lost, especially with school. I know that my goal of success is achievable and my daughter will grow to be a queen

  • @jenniferchichi7641
    @jenniferchichi7641 3 года назад +22

    Wow. I lost my husband few days after our wedding and I was 4 months pregnant. I felt lost trying to navigate life because I felt I was too young to experience such pain at 24 . My baby is 4months now and this video has really given me so much confidence. I’m never going to settle for less regardless. I’m going to put myself out there but not rushing it. I’m taking baby steps and that’s ok. I’m still grieving and that’s totally normal. I’m going to move on and not put my life on hold. Thank you so much Kate, I really needed to watch this

    • @malkiadebbie
      @malkiadebbie 3 года назад +1

      Sending you hugs❤️❤️

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today 2 года назад

      You will do well. Just keep your head high.

    • @Sylvia-sd4mf
      @Sylvia-sd4mf Год назад

      Oh

    • @CWM-1606
      @CWM-1606 11 месяцев назад

      How are you now girl? God bless and keep you

  • @carolmbaire
    @carolmbaire 3 года назад +20

    Single mum of 2. Am glad to have listened to you both

  • @virginiawanjiru4500
    @virginiawanjiru4500 3 года назад +43

    i really enjoyed watching this growing up, my mom got married with me .throughout the years (i am 19) i have seen her bitter about her situation ,her in laws ,the society it took me time to understabd i now understand,i feel like you guys are the online aunties we need thank you so much❤️

  • @nashenesamo3681
    @nashenesamo3681 3 года назад +26

    Parenting my son alone for the past 3 years...after listening to this I am ready to go back to dating.

  • @MsRombo
    @MsRombo 3 года назад +15

    BIG LESSON I PICKED FROM THIS...BE YOURSELF...EVERYTHING ELSE FALLS INTO PLACE...

  • @liliannyakundi7104
    @liliannyakundi7104 3 года назад +8

    Am not ashamed ...I got pregnant at 15...can say my parents pushed me more so my mum...but I forgave her...and am a happy mum ...my son means the world to me...

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau 3 года назад +18

    My Name is XYZ am a mother of one 😀 I like that intro 👌 It's so much better & positive. I feel it's better than saying "am a single mother." Being single is temporary. It is not an identity. Don't let it define you. You have a future & a purpose as an individual.

  • @wanjirukabuchiofficial8466
    @wanjirukabuchiofficial8466 3 года назад +13

    I was raised by a step dad and although our relationship is not 100% but I love him so much

  • @wahomealice3884
    @wahomealice3884 3 года назад +73

    🤣 I can listen to Cate hours she is so interesting with kikuyu mix

  • @Its_mongina
    @Its_mongina 3 года назад +9

    I have been raising my son single handedly for the past 5 years.i thank God cause He was and is always there for us.Thank you for this video.❤❤Am ready will getting out now and start dating.

  • @veronicagitau8516
    @veronicagitau8516 3 года назад +4

    I was brought up by a single mum. A God fearing woman I will forever cherish. She struggled, hustled, sacrificed, toiled....the list is endless...to make the five of us who we later became in life. I salute single moms. They deserve respect and their rightful place in the society. We should not be quick to judge them. Cate I love your story and may you continue to encourage and mentor many.

  • @sarahkaranjamuhoro6041
    @sarahkaranjamuhoro6041 3 года назад +4

    My sister got a baby in form two ,she's now in form four and am telling you I can for see my sister being the greatest woman in Kenya and the world at large .I love my sister so much ❤️❤️

  • @KeruboNyantika
    @KeruboNyantika Год назад +5

    Who came back to listen to interview

  • @Gichiritrizah_Ke
    @Gichiritrizah_Ke 3 года назад +14

    This is such an eye opener. Bringing up two kids and am loving it. When time comes and I find love again,,,,, why not?

  • @dianakamau4188
    @dianakamau4188 3 года назад +12

    I am a silent follower but this is the best discussion i have watched. Kate is real and she has made me laugh so much.

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau 3 года назад +29

    I think we need to normalize going for counseling or therapy especially when someone has gone through traumatizing things. Get someone to talk & process the drama. Don't take it to your 2nd date 😁

    • @lyneadetyfitness
      @lyneadetyfitness Год назад

      Very True ...Chronic Trauma is real and our society don't really acknowledge that.

  • @chachakamoni7627
    @chachakamoni7627 3 года назад +6

    I wanna make some parts of this interview as my alarm sound everyday coz the power in this interview aki

  • @nellywanjiru9593
    @nellywanjiru9593 3 года назад +20

    Cate is just a force to reckon with.I love her energy.

  • @jainelangat
    @jainelangat 3 года назад +27

    I am raising two on my own, i have indeed learnt something

  • @Kenyan28
    @Kenyan28 3 года назад +9

    Ladies you have changed my life❣️❣️From today iam owning my life

  • @naomikiarie7456
    @naomikiarie7456 3 года назад +4

    I knew Cathy would do well on RUclips channel, such class...

  • @muthokim3025
    @muthokim3025 3 года назад +13

    She's got a great story. Njeri let her tell it...I felt you interrupted her a lot

  • @jennifermungai4012
    @jennifermungai4012 3 года назад +4

    I am still healing.. I can't wait to get out of this mess of transition to a single mum, self acceptance and moving forward. And if it happened for you guys, I pray one day I get over the trauma and find my personal person. 🙏 this was so encouraging...

    • @CWM-1606
      @CWM-1606 11 месяцев назад

      Hope you're better now? Make Christ your friend, He cares

  • @carolyneauma838
    @carolyneauma838 3 года назад +7

    The ck's.... Catherine kariuki n Catherine kamau...wat an amazing eloquent combination..love u gals❣️

  • @gracemwangi2104
    @gracemwangi2104 3 года назад +10

    Very interesting discussion. This a timely message for me, i really needed to hear this. Thank you Cate and Cathy

  • @joymutiga3219
    @joymutiga3219 3 года назад +5

    Bring Kate back again.... She is just positive vibes

  • @rankzkate
    @rankzkate 3 года назад +9

    Lakini Kate is hilarious .I don't even understand Kikuyu but I enjoy how she brings out her stories

  • @brendahemelia8466
    @brendahemelia8466 3 года назад +3

    Two impeccable women having a very necessary conversation. I'm so proud of you.

    • @gathoniwainaina9118
      @gathoniwainaina9118 Год назад

      I came back here to draw inspiration and encouragement. These two ladies are goals. Kate Actress you remain my role model regardless

  • @luciendegwa1313
    @luciendegwa1313 3 года назад +4

    Her humor is on another level, i love her

  • @florencewahukinyanjui6696
    @florencewahukinyanjui6696 3 года назад +3

    It’s heart warming watching this am a single mum of 1 and have been single for 4yrs now it’s not easy getting a serious guy with clear intentions.I have been through heartbreaks that i gave more than I received.They all think they’re doing you favor by simply just been with you .Its encouraging will get out now and hold my head high now.

  • @rozzettee8
    @rozzettee8 Год назад +1

    I need to meet Kate when i come back to Kenya.... her energy is ❤❤❤❤

  • @annirungu2572
    @annirungu2572 3 года назад +10

    I'm loving this ,I'm a widow with 3 kids.my hubby passed on 2019.this is encouraging

  • @Missmwangiwanjiku
    @Missmwangiwanjiku 3 года назад +2

    Thank God,I never look down on myself

  • @faithabigael4452
    @faithabigael4452 3 года назад +6

    Raising a four months old just got separated woth the father of my kid and he got married am moving on and am happy

  • @gracewaceke8561
    @gracewaceke8561 3 года назад +2

    Single mum of two,,,am happy to get inspired by Kate❤️❤️

  • @fatimahassan6661
    @fatimahassan6661 3 года назад +2

    I was a single mum for 10 years until I met my husband being a single mum was hard emotionally and society makes it very hard dint rush into a relationship to please others take the time to get to.know yourself and believe

  • @rosemarymuguru7947
    @rosemarymuguru7947 3 года назад +2

    Thanks cuties for the encouragement,, May the living God Bless u for encouraging us n our daughters too🙏

  • @sabinakanyi1018
    @sabinakanyi1018 3 года назад +1

    I am a single mum...I got my daughter when I was in form two that's 16yrs old...after listening to this am really encouraged en one day i will sit there en also encourage others...I don't blv in failures...

  • @jescakawira6538
    @jescakawira6538 2 года назад +2

    Very encouraging to us sigle moms. May god bless the two ladies.

  • @gracewambui6524
    @gracewambui6524 3 года назад +4

    I love Kate..she is hilarious,she is funny,she is pretty and very intelligent

  • @nancykathure4182
    @nancykathure4182 3 года назад +3

    Cate and Catherine thank you for this have learn alot,now i know my worth no matter how many kids you have😍

  • @PrisyMuwala
    @PrisyMuwala 7 месяцев назад

    Hi thanks for your encouragement uuh am a single mum of two a girl and a boy but still hustling for them without fear and I believe there's a Day for me thanks so much ❤❤❤

  • @suziesue7767
    @suziesue7767 3 года назад +3

    It's one yr since my seperation n I'm dating someone I have 2 n he has 2 I love myself n I decided to give it a shot in the dating word

  • @staceymukami9852
    @staceymukami9852 Год назад +1

    Kate has definitely changed my mind about staying single for the rest of my life as a single mom

  • @mwangiem2195
    @mwangiem2195 3 года назад +4

    Guthambia mabati 🤣
    Someone needs to organise a singles party every so often. We could meet future partners.

  • @lydiahmaina8506
    @lydiahmaina8506 3 года назад +4

    This is so interesting and eye opening, thanks Cate and Cathy.
    How Cate switches to Kikuyu so hilarious😂😂

  • @bellabk420
    @bellabk420 3 года назад +14

    Kate is such a vibe....so interesting and funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @rachelnjoroge6578
    @rachelnjoroge6578 3 года назад +2

    Aki nyinyi mmefanya tuanze kutafuta happiness even in our old age.i will marry again

  • @margaretweru447
    @margaretweru447 3 года назад +3

    You are so AMAZING just by overcoming what you have overcome you are EXTRAORDINARY.Cate Actress💯💯💯
    This made me feel energized 🙏

  • @bettykimeu9163
    @bettykimeu9163 2 года назад +1

    Best video I have listened to. Never settle for less especially we who are single parents. So spoke to me. Wao

  • @lulumsuper6623
    @lulumsuper6623 3 года назад +6

    We need a single mothers club, for support and a advise, even for those who were in the club for long and have since left the club should be part of the support system

  • @puritykariuki3373
    @puritykariuki3373 3 года назад +2

    I've been single for the last 22years and I don't regret. The reason I didn't like dating again is the fear that my kids will be mistreated.

    • @marykiio304
      @marykiio304 2 года назад

      True that's my fear also...

  • @kleiyahralexis4624
    @kleiyahralexis4624 3 года назад +6

    This video was very informative and cate's kikuyu was just humorous... Watoto si mandazi ukule na Chai... Embrace your own

  • @njokiwaka
    @njokiwaka 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for this :-) I'm a single mummy and super encouraged!

  • @susannyakiega9276
    @susannyakiega9276 3 года назад +4

    Am inspired. Its 8 year's now as a single mum,This is the year I realised I have my own life, despite life achievements I still felt sorry for myself. I thank God for the grace. Right now am far away from home having "me time" and am confident that my son is safe in school. I thank the Internet for making it easier to see our loved ones despite being miles away. Thank you ladies for your encouragement.

  • @chepkwarat
    @chepkwarat 3 года назад +2

    Wow, there are far too many take homes. I can't even type. Kate, you're a voice to recon with.

  • @cloudnathanshorts6197
    @cloudnathanshorts6197 3 года назад +2

    I could listen to the two CK's for hours. I found myself nodding, laughing and getting wisdom all in one.
    Part Two please and thank you!

  • @joycekoech8277
    @joycekoech8277 2 года назад +3

    Cathy thanks for bringing Cate, both of you are hilarious

  • @oliviakorir3388
    @oliviakorir3388 3 года назад +6

    If you get this message.. thanks for opening my eyes🙏❤️

  • @idawairimu7093
    @idawairimu7093 3 года назад +1

    Waaa this is Selina in the add disinfectant... Wow such a great sharing. Thought she was south African gal... I've learned a lot. Thanks

  • @nataliewangeci4007
    @nataliewangeci4007 3 года назад +11

    💞💞 this is so encouraging, about to be a single mum *correction I'm about to be a mum ☺️*and it scares me shitless but I am encouraged 💞🙏🏾😭

    • @ruthwanjohi6926
      @ruthwanjohi6926 3 года назад +1

      🤗

    • @carolndunge2857
      @carolndunge2857 3 года назад +1

      same to me but i will emerge a winner

    • @neomigathoni1823
      @neomigathoni1823 3 года назад +1

      It is a Gift To Have This Human..#WeCanDoIt❤️

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 Год назад

      @@neomigathoni1823 it's a gift, but not at the right time. Does the kid have to grow up without a dad? Normalize saying hard things, like get a child in marriage

  • @puritywanja8029
    @puritywanja8029 3 года назад +2

    so amazing,so inspiring...Kate you are an amazing soul.lots of love from here.

  • @jacinta_wangari
    @jacinta_wangari 3 года назад +3

    I will listen to this again when i get time!.

  • @catherinemwaura100
    @catherinemwaura100 3 года назад +2

    Wow that's a very mature talk Cate, you've no idea how many people out there will benefit from this. God bless you mightly as you keep the spirit.

  • @lyavuramoga9918
    @lyavuramoga9918 3 года назад +6

    She is hilarious... Gal I know how it is . Not easy being a young mom it was rough and men do not understand how it is. I agree do not give up .

  • @michenijanet4515
    @michenijanet4515 3 года назад +2

    Kate is such a vibe... loved every minute of it.. bring her back!!

  • @jacklinemuchiri7194
    @jacklinemuchiri7194 3 года назад +1

    I love this show. Serina nikama Monica ngatia, my coolest cousin

  • @bellafoxy6930
    @bellafoxy6930 3 года назад +5

    I just love this woman....
    You are so inspiring From
    19yrs -34 now manze she's
    A power woman....
    Many blessings your way
    Mammie ... #Facts,Facts ❤️

  • @idafaith7300
    @idafaith7300 3 года назад +3

    You're extraordinary and no one is doing you a favor, beautiful interview ❤️

  • @rehemamaina7814
    @rehemamaina7814 3 года назад +3

    😂😂
    This lady is awesome!. Thankyou Cathy for bringing her.

  • @wanjirukimani6262
    @wanjirukimani6262 3 года назад +6

    What a wonderful discussion and Cate is such a breath of fresh air❤

  • @evelynngugi8206
    @evelynngugi8206 2 года назад +1

    You should definitely bring Kate again. Spot on

  • @lizz202
    @lizz202 3 года назад +3

    Wow wow this conversation is dope...watching it for the third time now...am so inspired

  • @emmaterryw
    @emmaterryw 2 года назад +1

    Wuuuuiiiii. My best!!!!
    I needed this chat!
    You're both Amazing lovelies ❤️❤️❤️

  • @gracewambui6524
    @gracewambui6524 3 года назад +2

    Sasa Mimi nko hio stage ya kusema sitadate Tena😆😆....I love you moms this is worth watching 💕

  • @Ndaps1
    @Ndaps1 3 года назад +8

    It’s such authentic and insightful conversations that I enjoy from this channel.

    • @FashionableStepMum
      @FashionableStepMum  3 года назад +1

      Am glad you enjoy the content. Thank you for watching .. 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @missreche
    @missreche 3 года назад +4

    She is fun to watch I love her advices too

  • @rachaelkamau1661
    @rachaelkamau1661 3 года назад +2

    Cate is so interesting her humor is 👌👌. Especially when she adds the Kikuyu part.

  • @gladysndungu3447
    @gladysndungu3447 3 года назад +1

    Wow am glad I bumped into this video .Time to live life

  • @ms.marynjonge345
    @ms.marynjonge345 3 года назад +2

    I wish Cate the actress was my one of girlfriends!! I can see myself laughing in with you, the kikuyu jokes, with the high fives!! You are such a beautiful soul! God bless you Cate

  • @Qoieli
    @Qoieli 3 года назад +12

    kukama Ngómbe na kwenu hakuna...lol... Cate you such a vibe. Such an informative topic

  • @nyamburakimani3726
    @nyamburakimani3726 3 года назад +4

    This is the best RUclips video yet!!!!!!

  • @marygathoni1905
    @marygathoni1905 3 года назад +5

    Great content I wish we could have more of such conversation learnt alot as a single mum

  • @ruthwainaina460
    @ruthwainaina460 3 года назад +3

    Oh my this is so encouraging! Kate your great, inspiring and for me as a single mum you have given me a new feel to life all together. Thank you.

  • @carolekimani3938
    @carolekimani3938 Год назад +2

    Watching this after the joint statement

  • @immajosh8566
    @immajosh8566 3 года назад +1

    Weeewe! Ladies thank yooouu! So much.we need more of this talks to encourage more single moms to learn to appreciate themselves.

  • @shironene2489
    @shironene2489 3 года назад +1

    Both CK's amazing women....And as a single mom i can relate...

  • @julietkerubo4144
    @julietkerubo4144 3 года назад +6

    Such a nice discussion indeed.

  • @frieda24
    @frieda24 3 года назад +3

    This is very educative please more episodes akii

  • @robinahnyambusi1377
    @robinahnyambusi1377 Год назад

    I love the talk...being a single mum at young age wuueh isnt that easy...picking up the pieces and coming up strong

  • @janenjeru7948
    @janenjeru7948 3 года назад +2

    I love your teachings,so encouraging.. love you ladies.

  • @africanqueen4768
    @africanqueen4768 3 года назад +1

    Awww you ladies are so beautiful.the topic is so engaging i love love Baraka tele.