I find it difficult trying to understand that a person can step out on the relationship/marriage multiple times on their partner but the very minute it’s done to them once, it’s so hard to “accept” 😐
Yes! Her lil precious self was only 10 days old then. The second she popped that baby out they handled it, much respect to both for that. Hate hearing how the baby 2, 3 yrs old and just getting the test and half the time they don't even be the daddy.
That's the bonus! Hope the parents change their attitude towards what a healthy family life looks like.. No cheating.. Because they now have the experience of what cheating does to you!
The baby deserved full love from day one! It’s 100% wrong to deprive a child of love and affection when the child didn’t do anything wrong to anybody. His reasoning was outright childish but has the nerve to complain about her not making him feel like a man🙄...nah sir accomplished that on his own.
Amen 🙏 Thank god they did it early so they move on and be a happy family and yes so that beautiful baby can have full love from her father and the fathers side of the family just like she deserves.
I appreciate his honesty but his wife looks drained, tired, and miserable. The fact that she ran back just because of her kids breaks my heart. I hope they can truly heal and his a better man after this.
They never heal sweetheart. The truth is that a mother usually will do everything for their children even if it means living miserably. He will continue to hurt her, to step out of their relationship because he can do that to her but it's hard to accept she did it to him, and she will continue with him until their babies are older and with their college paid, because that's what mothers normally do: They sacrifice themselves for the child. Even if he tried his hardest to be the best of himself to her, as far as I was able to see there, I doubt he will ever do that because he can say "I messed up", but frankly: If you take yourself out of a childs life because he's not yours while you're constantly cheating on your wife, you're a hipocrite, and that's not true love, it's obssession. Frankly, she was happy for her children, not herself. She was happy she was able to take care of them on a famil, as damaged as it is, and sadly that's how it works for a lot of moms out there. =1
It doesn't help that she was 16 and he was 24 when they got together either. I wasn't surprised that she went back to him after realizing that part. That poor woman's been through a lot. And with the job that he has, his lack of self control and respect for her and their family he'll probably cheat again too. She should have stayed away when she got away but that's what happens when you've been groomed
She had a baby 10 days ago and you sitting there telling her that she didn’t make u feel like a man 🥺not to mention she already looks tired he’s sick poor baby I hope she meets somebody who makes her happy she deserves it she was real with him sense day 1
I agree, unfortunately I don't see this lasting with them because him being an "artist" like every other guy I see on these shows always want to bring that lifestyle up when it comes to them cheating but it's just a sorry excuse and trust he's not over her cheating either, his "manhood" has been embarrassed because of her cheating back on him so he's going to continue to do exactly what he's been doing because his ego took a hard hit due to her possibly getting pregnant by another man while married. The gossip about their situation from the people that know them will still continue and rumors will still be flying around town left and right so this back and forth is not over, he will just try not to get caught but we all know he will and when that happens she's going to do her thing. They need to end it and just have a co-parenting relationship because too much damage has been done and men don't ever move past another man going raw with his girl like that and she didn't even know who the father was when she got pregnant and he ain't moving on from that I don't care what anyone says🤷🏽♀
maryan,that's a very important question never asked before here on youtube...could people pleeeease stop asking that question,I'll puke the next time I see it..
This guy is a certified manipulator. He is destroying her little by little. "Your honor, see how nice I am". But in privacy : "I'm cheating because YOU don't make me feel good. It's your fault bla bla". She already looks really tired, and it's not because of her last child's birth. Ladies be carefull
I thought he said its his interaction with many females that he ended up cheating, not that she was responsible. Any way women it is always good to sever one relationship before getting into another. Nothing wronf with keeping our legs shut until. Dont make decisioms on feelings. Feelings change so let the brains do thinking.
Did you see the whole episode?! All of this makes sense and they were both hurt and acted out in different ways. This guy is mature and she’s woman enough to walk away from it. They are mentally healthy individuals. Ya’ll are looking for a fire thinking the dust your kicking up is the smoke.
So we going to act like she did not say out her mouth she was sleeping with her husband and somebody? It’s not like he call her over there but I guess it his fault see was sleeping with both huh
This is what is killing me. Losing a child is devastating. Having no support is devastating. I CANNOT fathom how hard this is for her. Women have to be sooo careful who we create humans with. Otherwise the burdens become so heavy.
For some reason I get domestic violence vibes with them, he's too narcissistic and being that he was 24 messing with a 16 year old is not only predator behavior but it screams controlling and he probably acts like he's her father, this bs ain't over smh
Dashawna Long preying on an easy victim. Some women his age may have seen through his bs whereas teenage girls are often gullible and fascinated at the idea of dating an older guy and sees it as a way to impress her high school peers.
Dashawna Long wait was he 24 when he got with his mrs when she was 16 😐 why do men do that, why can’t they go find a woman their own age or at least over 21. My daughter is nealry 16 and if any man of 24 touched her they will regret it.
I’m more surprised by how well spoken and respectful these 2 were. There was a lot of ways this episode could have went wrong, but it didn’t. It shows maturity, and that’s always something good for take from somebody like this person who ram street hoes all day long. At the end of day words are just words, he has to be perfect, even more, to keep his wife arround. That’s not worth it, if you love her don’t cheat on her bro.
Just like a boy. He can cheat all day but the moment the tables are turned, he crumbles. Personally, I would rather leave the relationship than cheat, that’s just not me to step out in my partner.
Honest Citizen men can be very sensitive and hypocritical. I feel they show it in anger and defense. Stop hiding under “feminist” and “man hater” when a woman has a opinion about men’s flaws, you’re not perfect.👌🏾
This man needs to learn what professionalism is. Screwing road rats can be extremely bad for business. If you are an "Artist" sir, work on your art, not spreading your "seed".
So many girls are in a rush to grow up, they cannot see these men as predators until it's too late. Anyone adult chasing a high schooler isn't wrapped too tight mentally.
So her sleeping with 2 dude unprotected is not her fault? I guess he told her to sleep with the other dude huh Can we please get some accountability because they both said they was not together for a year and she came over but I guess it’s his fault to huh
here's what i think happened. they got together (or got married i guess) when she was 16 and he was 24. since she was that young, she probably thought he was the only man she could get and he used that to his advantage to force her to stay through everything. just a guess 🤷🏽♀️.
@@keybertie1486 as much as we see it as an invalid reason to stay, some women don't want to be walking around with kids, while their father(s) is absent
@@ZhenMitch this is not true. A man can not make a woman feel less than a woman and a woman cannot make a man feel less than a man. It is all up to the individual person. Like the judge said "if you are a man you feel like a man. A woman cant make you feel or not make you feel like a man. A man is a man. However, if you felt like you were giving and giving and you weren't getting reciprocity and that pulled you out of the house that happens all the time" It doesn't mean you are not feeling like a man it means you are not getting what you have been giving.
I love how women thinks they know how men feel. Men are more sensitive than you think. You can make a man feel less of a man. I disagree with the judge on that statement. But women can say.. “ he treats me like a woman “ same difference
I've seen women say the men didn't make them feel like women also.. But mostly men seems to want that more.. I think its always a low self-esteem situation.. On both sides.. It's the same as they saying he/she don't make me happy.. You're responsible for your own happiness also. Feeling like a man/woman is how you see yourself. Confident or Ragtag. Both of them need a new mindset. They also need to uplift each other! Show respect and appreciation for each other and your marriage. When you do that, there's no room for not feeling like the person you were created to be. A whole person.
MEN CAN'T GET PREGNANT... That's what women fail to realize. Y'all can cheat and carry that (a baby) for the rest of y'all lives.. Men can't get pregnant. Y'all can't flip the same thing on men
Well if he doesn't quit he may well find himself in a repeat visit to Paternity Court. If there is a finding of paternity he will be ordered to pay support for a child that results from an extra-marital affair. Wives may be very unhappy to see 20% or so of Husband's income going out the door each month.
His wife is absolutely beautiful. It’s hard when somebody can’t grow up and see that everything isn’t always about them and how they feel. I hope he really sees just how much some things change people and the way they feel around you. Losing someone is hard and being left right after must’ve been even harder.
why did this dude even get married. ...because when you get married you make a vow in front of God claiming this is the only person for you.Young people, don't get married if you still want to sleep around with different people.Glad he the father
I had this whole Facebook argument with a woman who for some reason didn't understand this concept. Why get married and take vows to remain faithful another person just to cheat.
Yes they're definitely more vocal than old episodes and it just makes it tacky. They need to express themselves a little bit quite because it's a bit too much.
@@petrinegordon I could not be in that audience. I would make faces and noises without being promoted to do so. The whole time I am watching I am talking to the show.
I was feeling this too! Just want to say guard your marriage and when your woman is vulnerable… she needs to be protected. God bless this beautiful family as they were given another chance to make their marriage work.
This has been the very best episode so far. These two are the most maturist, honest and respectful towards one another in the court. He owned up to his infidelity and so has she. No yelling and using profaniy towards one another. A little class goes a long way.
She gave birth 10 days ago?? Gosh... she should be home with that gorgeous little angel. So sad. Awe... just saw the results. That's wonderful. Great looking family!
I don't believe he will ever let go of what happened. I appreciate his respect towards her, but he just seems like he won't be accepting of her as a spouse anymore. Despite all that he has done and no matter how tarnished he is, he'll still see her as "used or stained". There are just some people in the world who will never be able to take what they dish.
He’s a quiet and mild abuser. I can see right through his facade, he blamed her for what he did while “admitting” his wrong doing. He’s cunning. He’s a little covert narcissist and she is pretending she is not slowly dying in that house and that marriage. He is happy that everything he has staked his claim on is STILL his. She is happy that’s one less thing he can torture her about. I promise I see it all.
That was the most mature couple I’ve seen in paternity court. No mudslinging, no name calling. Dude was super honest and took accountability, she was real about her doubt. At the end they smile hugged and accepted the results. Proud of these two. That’s how it’s done! 👏🏽
God knows how excited I was when the result was read. I can see these two really love each other. They're also one of the few couple who kept themselves composed throughout the entire hearing. Other couples just can't agree on a single thing in this court. One couple would try shutting the other couple up, using curse words, shouting on top of their voices to make a point and show other several manners of bad behavior and ignorance. I pray God keeps them together and happy❤❤❤❤❤❤
Agreed! They were very respectful of each other. You can see the bond between them. They need to spend time in counseling though to learn how to cope with issues.
He needs to learn that he can’t have his cake and eat it! He was the cause of the break up, and I can’t see him not straying away again, he thinks he is king pin and can do anything, I hope I’m wrong, but the way he was talking at the start, I don’t think I will be wrong!
When men are out in those streets they feel they can be held to a different standard than women. If his wife was doing all of that he would have been gone. INFIDELITY is INFIDELITY.. You can’t expect people to just forgive your transgressions over and over again there will eventually be a breaking point.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Regardless of what happens, there's really only one winner here: Dr. Jeff. I swear he is on EVERY Atlanta based realty show. Love him or hate hate, collect the bag Doc!
@@accountingmanager5964 True but its not clear if that bond is enough to stabilize their unstable relationship. So far, it hasn't been enough and I don't think this situation changes that. His job and the temptations are still going to be there.
Clearly if it was June 20th she took the kids over for Father's Day and got caught up in the family time like she said. I can't blame her because as was also stated, they both had a hard time dealing with her miscarriage.
Exactly. They're still young, but when they're older and see him for who he is, it won't end well. This entire time he's acting like he's the victim when she's the one who fell for him when she was a child.
Taking responsibility for your actions, owning your mistakes, and having personal accountability speaks volumes. Wish everyone would do this when they mess up.
She’s so beautiful and he’s very handsome. Children must be gorgeous. Hope the quality of their relationship will be greater than their physical beauty.
This brought me to tears. I know the episode was over a year ago, but I still found myself praying the baby was his so the family could be saved. I was so happy to hear the results!!! 🥰
Some people don't need to be together. She doesn't deserve this!! Just because he admitted it doesn't mean he's sorry. He just dont the judge to drill him. It may not be his but he is no victim!! He really hurt her.
I said it in 2019 and i am going to say it again, i have full respect for Dr. Jeff. I don't know how he's able to deal with so much emotional drama. So i am asking the producers of PATERNITY COURT to award this outstanding man with an award for his contribution of keeping families together
As a man I can’t believe I’m hooked on this show 😂. But for some reason I like this couple. We as men push our women to do things we know we can’t take or deal with. And it’s very true the WE CANT TAKE WHAT WE DISH OUT!! But I’m happy for them and I hope they’re good. Stay focus bro for your family 💯
I applaud this young woman for being married to the father of her children. That's seems to be so rare these days. Beautiful family! I hope they make it together. 💕
Now this is how you're supposed to act in court, no screaming or being disrespectful, wish there were more of them like this
You're absolutely right but I've always thought that the hollering and antics help boost the ratings.
But the screaming ones are so funny 😂
They were pleasant to each other. They told the truth and was calm throughout the preceding. I love it!! All the best to them.
Yes, & both took equal responsibility & accountability
Yeppp
I find it difficult trying to understand that a person can step out on the relationship/marriage multiple times on their partner but the very minute it’s done to them once, it’s so hard to “accept” 😐
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Kitten Lyric she technically didn't cheat. They was separated after his cheating.
Typical childish male behavior I can do it but you can’t ....
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It's not he did not accept it's the fact that there is another possibility he want to know for sure
I really appreciate that they took care of this early on so that their beautiful babygirl receives the full love that she deserves.
Yes! Her lil precious self was only 10 days old then. The second she popped that baby out they handled it, much respect to both for that. Hate hearing how the baby 2, 3 yrs old and just getting the test and half the time they don't even be the daddy.
That's the bonus! Hope the parents change their attitude towards what a healthy family life looks like.. No cheating.. Because they now have the experience of what cheating does to you!
The baby deserved full love from day one! It’s 100% wrong to deprive a child of love and affection when the child didn’t do anything wrong to anybody. His reasoning was outright childish but has the nerve to complain about her not making him feel like a man🙄...nah sir accomplished that on his own.
It should always be this quick. Ridiculous to wait and feed into the drama and doubt.
Amen 🙏
Thank god they did it early so they move on and be a happy family and yes so that beautiful baby can have full love from her father and the fathers side of the family just like she deserves.
I appreciate his honesty but his wife looks drained, tired, and miserable. The fact that she ran back just because of her kids breaks my heart. I hope they can truly heal and his a better man after this.
Of course she's tired. She has a newborn!
@Dahj She does not deserve this, she deserves better
They never heal sweetheart. The truth is that a mother usually will do everything for their children even if it means living miserably. He will continue to hurt her, to step out of their relationship because he can do that to her but it's hard to accept she did it to him, and she will continue with him until their babies are older and with their college paid, because that's what mothers normally do: They sacrifice themselves for the child. Even if he tried his hardest to be the best of himself to her, as far as I was able to see there, I doubt he will ever do that because he can say "I messed up", but frankly: If you take yourself out of a childs life because he's not yours while you're constantly cheating on your wife, you're a hipocrite, and that's not true love, it's obssession. Frankly, she was happy for her children, not herself. She was happy she was able to take care of them on a famil, as damaged as it is, and sadly that's how it works for a lot of moms out there. =1
It doesn't help that she was 16 and he was 24 when they got together either. I wasn't surprised that she went back to him after realizing that part. That poor woman's been through a lot.
And with the job that he has, his lack of self control and respect for her and their family he'll probably cheat again too. She should have stayed away when she got away but that's what happens when you've been groomed
I thought the same of her
She had a baby 10 days ago and you sitting there telling her that she didn’t make u feel like a man 🥺not to mention she already looks tired he’s sick poor baby I hope she meets somebody who makes her happy she deserves it she was real with him sense day 1
I agree, unfortunately I don't see this lasting with them because him being an "artist" like every other guy I see on these shows always want to bring that lifestyle up when it comes to them cheating but it's just a sorry excuse and trust he's not over her cheating either, his "manhood" has been embarrassed because of her cheating back on him so he's going to continue to do exactly what he's been doing because his ego took a hard hit due to her possibly getting pregnant by another man while married. The gossip about their situation from the people that know them will still continue and rumors will still be flying around town left and right so this back and forth is not over, he will just try not to get caught but we all know he will and when that happens she's going to do her thing. They need to end it and just have a co-parenting relationship because too much damage has been done and men don't ever move past another man going raw with his girl like that and she didn't even know who the father was when she got pregnant and he ain't moving on from that I don't care what anyone says🤷🏽♀
Been together 10 years when they’re 26 and 34....He was 24 dating a 16 year old. That’s unsettling.
I had to look through the comments to see if anyone caught that too. It's just sickening.
Which 16 years old girl want a 16 years old boy?
Was looking if somebody caught that !!
Pending on the state is legal
He probably feels she is to old for him?
Who else is reading the comments while watching too lol😂😂🤭..
Me.
maryan,that's a very important question never asked before here on youtube...could people pleeeease stop asking that question,I'll puke the next time I see it..
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@@mrsTraveller64 lol
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This guy is a certified manipulator. He is destroying her little by little. "Your honor, see how nice I am". But in privacy : "I'm cheating because YOU don't make me feel good. It's your fault bla bla". She already looks really tired, and it's not because of her last child's birth. Ladies be carefull
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True, but she consigned on the behavior by constantly going back.
I thought he said its his interaction with many females that he ended up cheating, not that she was responsible. Any way women it is always good to sever one relationship before getting into another. Nothing wronf with keeping our legs shut until. Dont make decisioms on feelings. Feelings change so let the brains do thinking.
Did you see the whole episode?! All of this makes sense and they were both hurt and acted out in different ways.
This guy is mature and she’s woman enough to walk away from it. They are mentally healthy individuals.
Ya’ll are looking for a fire thinking the dust your kicking up is the smoke.
Are you serious? Mmmk bye Karen
“I’m just trying to protect myself.” This man has not one instinct to protect his family. Everything is about him.
Well said
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She need a protecter her kids need a protecter he ain't built for it
stop being such a man hater, she destroyed her family
So we going to act like she did not say out her mouth she was sleeping with her husband and somebody? It’s not like he call her over there but I guess it his fault see was sleeping with both huh
“I’m trying to protect myself” but you can’t wait a month or so for your wife to heal from giving birth to another human to do this mess?
Of course a man that would disregard his wife after a miscarriage would do this mess
This is what is killing me. Losing a child is devastating. Having no support is devastating. I CANNOT fathom how hard this is for her.
Women have to be sooo careful who we create humans with. Otherwise the burdens become so heavy.
Right! In the delivery room with her talking about "You know I'm taking you to court"
For some reason I get domestic violence vibes with them, he's too narcissistic and being that he was 24 messing with a 16 year old is not only predator behavior but it screams controlling and he probably acts like he's her father, this bs ain't over smh
So sad he is never truly gonna be faithful to her . Shame she’s been messing with this sorry man since she was 16 yrs old. He was a grown man. So sad
Teenagers are easier targets and easier to manipulate. Guys like him are every mother’s worst nightmare.
@@bambidaydreamer3 let me ask you a question why in the world he met with a sixteen-year-old girl and you only 24 what the f*** he doing with her
@@dashawnalong6144 I assume your question is rhetorical?!? You KNOW what he's doing with her...
Dashawna Long preying on an easy victim. Some women his age may have seen through his bs whereas teenage girls are often gullible and fascinated at the idea of dating an older guy and sees it as a way to impress her high school peers.
Dashawna Long wait was he 24 when he got with his mrs when she was 16 😐 why do men do that, why can’t they go find a woman their own age or at least over 21. My daughter is nealry 16 and if any man of 24 touched her they will regret it.
Glad her husband admitting his wrongdoing and they were able to get help. Beautiful family
Facts
Ahaa..that's cool he admitted his wrongdoing
Deflection, imma say what I did to make myself sympathetic to the judge. See, see, I messed up, but she....
Thats the only way i will deal with any boy that fks up
I’m more surprised by how well spoken and respectful these 2 were. There was a lot of ways this episode could have went wrong, but it didn’t.
It shows maturity, and that’s always something good for take from somebody like this person who ram street hoes all day long.
At the end of day words are just words, he has to be perfect, even more, to keep his wife arround. That’s not worth it, if you love her don’t cheat on her bro.
“Forgiveness” such a foreign word until its personally needed.
Exactly ! Ms lady.
Amen
True but how many times she forgave him.
khariinaction okay?? That’s what forgiveness is... no limit on how much.
@@feliciahepburn2854 well said, young lady! There is nothing else to say.
She looks amazing for just having a baby, you know she is probably exhausted! Can't tell at all! Beauty queen!
She is tired, that is too early to be out ANYWHERE, they live in Texas. She said that she had other children too.
“I’m an artist”
He forgot to add “con”
Ha!!! Good one
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The wife is pretty.
Stunning.
She could pass for Judge Lake's daughter...
@@jamellfoster6029 I wanted to say that hehe.
Absolutely! To me she favors Sanaa Lathan. Stunning!
She is, they're a good looking couple. I hope they're still going strong ❤️
Just like a boy. He can cheat all day but the moment the tables are turned, he crumbles. Personally, I would rather leave the relationship than cheat, that’s just not me to step out in my partner.
Kellyann R Men are so fragile and egotistical a horrible combo
@@brooklynforever1990 You need to seek help.
He didn't get anyone pregnant big difference
Honest Citizen men can be very sensitive and hypocritical. I feel they show it in anger and defense. Stop hiding under “feminist” and “man hater” when a woman has a opinion about men’s flaws, you’re not perfect.👌🏾
PSA - to all women in particular - if you are going to step out of the relationship because a man step out on you- YOU NEED TO USE PROTECTION!!!
This man needs to learn what professionalism is. Screwing road rats can be extremely bad for business. If you are an "Artist" sir, work on your art, not spreading your "seed".
Spread seeds is his art... 😂
He's nothing but a manipulator
Indeed
Not just spreading seeds lol he could be spreading other nasty things too or the women spreading their nasty things to him.
Lady B And use the canvas for what an artist would use it as, nothing more
That's not a husband. That's a man-child who doesn't know how to appreciate anything good.
This guy is NOT a victim yet that’s how he’s behaving 🤦🏻♀️ This woman deserves better
They are both victims of each other b.s. he stepped out numerous times. She stepped out and potentially got pregnant by someone else.
@@greenmeaniebandits she didn’t step out
She did step out. She's married.
I didn't think he was playing the victim
makes a change...Its usually the woman crying victim
When these dudes say..."I take care of all my kids." RUN!!
And question how many is “ all” in this scenario
Key word.....ALL!
Exactly
Every time I hear that I’m like “damm bro, how many do YOU have?” That’s definitely a no for me!!!
Yea. This leads to so many questions. And there is the potential, that he is not
Whoever wrote the headline needs a raise! Messy and entertaining.
Right lol I saw “Serial Cheater” and just clicked so fast.
Indeed
@@henrywilliams9244 😂 the amount of Cheetos I eat I think I could be considered a serial Chester
Ahhahahahah!
whoever wrote the headline was angry on Mrs. Johnson's behalf lol
So he started dating her when she was 16 and he was 24 😒
Yup! He knew what he was doing when he got with a child. He's nasty asf!
I noticed that too. I dated older men when I was 16 prior to getting with my husband of 23 years (he's only 1 1/2 year older than I am)...
Nothing wrong with that. In other countries even 13 years old are with 20 years olds. That's nasty.
Lala Neo it is wrong, a 24 year old man has no business with a 16 year old girl 😤
So many girls are in a rush to grow up, they cannot see these men as predators until it's too late.
Anyone adult chasing a high schooler isn't wrapped too tight mentally.
It’s truly wrong how the court act like the husband was the victim when this young lady was victimized by this situation
Only because of the pregnancy
My heart goes out to the wife. Only thing she's guilty of is falling in love with someone who finds being faithful a chore.
So her sleeping with 2 dude unprotected is not her fault? I guess he told her to sleep with the other dude huh Can we please get some accountability because they both said they was not together for a year and she came over but I guess it’s his fault to huh
He's got a lot of nerve to be so hurt by her mishap when he was the one repeatedly stepping out of the relationship initially. Smh
This is a game woman can never win, we always get pregnant so sad 😭😭😭
Shantel Sutherland louder for the ones in the back! How do women constantly hear the man’s wrong and ignore their own?? We never win!
My thoughts exactly couldn’t take his karma
Women do men so dirty and then wanna cry and play victim
jerin browder like men don’t do the same 😂 we’re all guilty of something and all victim to something. This whole post is bitter. Throw it all away 😂
He kinda accepted that she was with someone else, how do you think she feels after all that cheating?
Exactly!!!!!!!!!🙄😳😐💖😂😂😂😂😂🤔🤔🤔
here's what i think happened. they got together (or got married i guess) when she was 16 and he was 24. since she was that young, she probably thought he was the only man she could get and he used that to his advantage to force her to stay through everything. just a guess 🤷🏽♀️.
Right, he should be okay if he spend a lot of time being promiscuous with other women while with her.
@@moonchild708 Lol at 16 she thought he was her last hope? No, she was infatuated with him.
Lol women will go in on anything. I hope the two work it out
All this could’ve been avoided, had she known her WORTH. Any man who keeps cheating on you like that, doesn’t care .
That is true, but I think she stayed for her kids.
@@Mel-oc5oj that is not a valid reason to stay with someone.
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@@keybertie1486 as much as we see it as an invalid reason to stay, some women don't want to be walking around with kids, while their father(s) is absent
@@keybertie1486 it’s not a valid reason!! But it’s the reason!
So they've been together for 10 years. So they met when she was 16 and he was 24. Sounds like some R Kelly ish.
An already broken relationship should never get married. Getting married isn’t going to magically fix the behavior or outcome.
That's the truth !!
Right
Why seek validation in your relationships? “ If you are a man, you feel like a man.”
Women can tend to make men feel less of a man...
@@ZhenMitch this is not true. A man can not make a woman feel less than a woman and a woman cannot make a man feel less than a man. It is all up to the individual person. Like the judge said "if you are a man you feel like a man. A woman cant make you feel or not make you feel like a man. A man is a man. However, if you felt like you were giving and giving and you weren't getting reciprocity and that pulled you out of the house that happens all the time" It doesn't mean you are not feeling like a man it means you are not getting what you have been giving.
I love how women thinks they know how men feel. Men are more sensitive than you think. You can make a man feel less of a man. I disagree with the judge on that statement. But women can say.. “ he treats me like a woman “ same difference
I've seen women say the men didn't make them feel like women also.. But mostly men seems to want that more.. I think its always a low self-esteem situation.. On both sides.. It's the same as they saying he/she don't make me happy.. You're responsible for your own happiness also. Feeling like a man/woman is how you see yourself. Confident or Ragtag. Both of them need a new mindset. They also need to uplift each other! Show respect and appreciation for each other and your marriage. When you do that, there's no room for not feeling like the person you were created to be. A whole person.
Women seem to kno what a man is more than a man does. This ish is comical
He acting like this cause she slept with one dude but he continuously cheated on her with multiple women 🤔🤬🤬
MEN CAN'T GET PREGNANT... That's what women fail to realize. Y'all can cheat and carry that (a baby) for the rest of y'all lives.. Men can't get pregnant. Y'all can't flip the same thing on men
From looking at the BABY she's in for lots of pain dealing with this dude because it's his.
@@jerinbrowder2468 but they can make babies duh. My ex made 2 on me. Those babies are here forever too. It hurts just as much if not worse
Well if he doesn't quit he may well find himself in a repeat visit to Paternity Court. If there is a finding of paternity he will be ordered to pay support for a child that results from an extra-marital affair. Wives may be very unhappy to see 20% or so of Husband's income going out the door each month.
Men never can take what they do done to them! It’s ridiculous
How else obsessed with paternity court🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
me
🙋🏾♂️ Guilty as charged!😂
ME
lol i watch this show EVERYDAY online. I love it
Me. Everyday.
His wife is absolutely beautiful. It’s hard when somebody can’t grow up and see that everything isn’t always about them and how they feel. I hope he really sees just how much some things change people and the way they feel around you. Losing someone is hard and being left right after must’ve been even harder.
Let's just coast over the fact that she was 16 and he was 24 when they first got together
Probably legal where they live
why did this dude even get married. ...because when you get married you make a vow in front of God claiming this is the only person for you.Young people, don't get married if you still want to sleep around with different people.Glad he the father
i know
I had this whole Facebook argument with a woman who for some reason didn't understand this concept. Why get married and take vows to remain faithful another person just to cheat.
Amen and Amen 🙏
He’s a swinger at heart. It’s ok for him but not for her.
Its the new generation, these young people don't know anything about being married anymore its just a game to them
The audacity 😂 That headline took me out
Does anybody feel like the audience is more “vocal” than usual or is it just me 🤔. I guess it’s just been a hot minute.
Ive been on shows like this & they have people who hold up signs telling the audience what to do like aww or clap.
Susan Patterson you know that’s what I’m thinking. And it seems like their sound effects were edited.
Yes they're definitely more vocal than old episodes and it just makes it tacky. They need to express themselves a little bit quite because it's a bit too much.
@@petrinegordon I could not be in that audience. I would make faces and noises without being promoted to do so. The whole time I am watching I am talking to the show.
All I've had to watch is judge Mathis and divorce court and their audiences are super silent so maybe I get this comment on a whole other level
I love that episode. No drama . I kept watching the baby the whole time smiling. She has a beautiful smile that catch people’s attention.❤️❤️❤️
I was feeling this too! Just want to say guard your marriage and when your woman is vulnerable… she needs to be protected. God bless this beautiful family as they were given another chance to make their marriage work.
Married folks should not neglect their spouses. It causes so much turmoil.
Especially when she miscarried and had to deal with that on her own. I can't even imagine how horrible that felt.
Relationships period.
I really appreciate him being honest. I hope he can change for the better.
He's a manipulator, Honey
He's BS
@@EoDnhoJ-JohnDoE well, I can only hope
Girl wake up 🙄falling for his 💩
@@brooklynforever1990 I'm not falling for anything. It's not my man. I can only hope for the best.
This is a great distraction during these troubling times....
It an old video
Been binge watching PC for about a month now
@@evelynlaryea6396 That's irrelevant
This has been the very best episode so far. These two are the most maturist, honest and respectful towards one another in the court. He owned up to his infidelity and so has she. No yelling and using profaniy towards one another. A little class goes a long way.
This couple is so special. No screaming, no fussing. I m so glad they got the result needed.
Did anyone else notice that he would talk for her a lot of times when Judge Lake would address her?
Yup
Abusive ASF too
Yea but she wasn't denying it tho
He is older then him and she was a kid when they met. That mentality of he older so I should listen is there.
Whoever wrote the title of this video was so shadyyyy 🤣🤣🤣
Lol saying the audacity
I love it 😝😝🤣🤣
😂😂for real
She gave birth 10 days ago?? Gosh... she should be home with that gorgeous little angel. So sad.
Awe... just saw the results. That's wonderful. Great looking family!
I don't believe he will ever let go of what happened. I appreciate his respect towards her, but he just seems like he won't be accepting of her as a spouse anymore. Despite all that he has done and no matter how tarnished he is, he'll still see her as "used or stained". There are just some people in the world who will never be able to take what they dish.
He’s a quiet and mild abuser. I can see right through his facade, he blamed her for what he did while “admitting” his wrong doing. He’s cunning. He’s a little covert narcissist and she is pretending she is not slowly dying in that house and that marriage. He is happy that everything he has staked his claim on is STILL his. She is happy that’s one less thing he can torture her about. I promise I see it all.
Same he also comes off controlling
both of them were very mature. No clowning around like we usually see, I appreciate that 🙏🏻
That's how adults should behave like in the court.
No jm
The baby is extremely cute. This is a very good looking family. I just wish ppl would understand its better to be faithful.
Very honest couples and caring each other .. glad to see this family stay strong 💪
The smiles on their face for the results was priceless-His beautiful big smile was everything glad for Y’all-thank God ❤️🙏
That was the most mature couple I’ve seen in paternity court. No mudslinging, no name calling. Dude was super honest and took accountability, she was real about her doubt. At the end they smile hugged and accepted the results. Proud of these two. That’s how it’s done! 👏🏽
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God knows how excited I was when the result was read. I can see these two really love each other. They're also one of the few couple who kept themselves composed throughout the entire hearing. Other couples just can't agree on a single thing in this court. One couple would try shutting the other couple up, using curse words, shouting on top of their voices to make a point and show other several manners of bad behavior and ignorance. I pray God keeps them together and happy❤❤❤❤❤❤
Agreed! They were very respectful of each other. You can see the bond between them. They need to spend time in counseling though to learn how to cope with issues.
He needs to learn that he can’t have his cake and eat it! He was the cause of the break up, and I can’t see him not straying away again, he thinks he is king pin and can do anything, I hope I’m wrong, but the way he was talking at the start, I don’t think I will be wrong!
That kid actually winked when they introduced her. 😂
That was so cute too!
sissimoody 🥰
😂 you're funny... I couldn't have caught that!
Twain Ann 😉😉😉😂💜
I was rooting for this young and authentic marriage. Good Job!!!!
The most beautiful episode ever
Am I the only one who listens to these while cleaning the house😂🌚
Eating, playing on my phone too lol I just listen 👂
I do it whole I cook
B Flu ikr😂
Anesha Brown and then I be like “oh no she didn’t” or “I know he did not just call her a hoe in front of the judge”😂🌚
No. You're good company. When I'm cooking and eating✔👀💯🆗
Who else loves Paternity Court?❤
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Its an addiction I think! lol
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When men are out in those streets they feel they can be held to a different standard than women. If his wife was doing all of that he would have been gone. INFIDELITY is INFIDELITY.. You can’t expect people to just forgive your transgressions over and over again there will eventually be a breaking point.
SexyBkSag Right
100% and this dosnt apply just to cheating
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
@@andrewvasilyev3540 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@@jeffbrown4136 Her name is Chamani White, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@@andrewvasilyev3540 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
You can see they still love each other too with that hug and when they held each other’s hands. I am sooooo happy for them 😍😍😍😍😍
Judge Lake has good poker face reading those results.
Am I the only one who thought this was one of the most mature cases ??!!
Regardless of what happens, there's really only one winner here: Dr. Jeff. I swear he is on EVERY Atlanta based realty show. Love him or hate hate, collect the bag Doc!
Facts, I need him to open up his paid internship to people in Texas.
Finally, we see Dr Jeff
both are abeautiful couple happy for the outcome😍😇🤗😍❤👪😍😇😘😍😇🤗
Beautiful couple beautiful family. I wish them the best.
Been watching all day on this quarantine. 😂
Me and you both lol 😂
I appreciate his honest and her sincerity. Am so happy for them. God bless your marriage
Before I start watching I already know that "the stakes are high"
Judge I'm so glad that you made that loud and clear to him that nobody can make him feel like a man he knows exactly what he is thank you for that
He's slowly BREAKING HER INTO PIECES.
She should not go back to him just because it makes their kids happy to see them together
Normally that would be true but it is clear they have a strong bond so it goes beyond the kids.
@@accountingmanager5964 True but its not clear if that bond is enough to stabilize their unstable relationship. So far, it hasn't been enough and I don't think this situation changes that. His job and the temptations are still going to be there.
She deserves happiness as well! Her kids deserve a happy home!
Clearly if it was June 20th she took the kids over for Father's Day and got caught up in the family time like she said. I can't blame her because as was also stated, they both had a hard time dealing with her miscarriage.
Exactly. They're still young, but when they're older and see him for who he is, it won't end well. This entire time he's acting like he's the victim when she's the one who fell for him when she was a child.
Judge Lake was holding her breath too on these results 😬🤣🤣🤣
This baby is so adorable. What a happy ending.
The way they both conducted themselves was a joy to watch. The way they laid it all out on the table. I hope they make it. Rooting for this family.
Sis leave him! He is a walking red flag
Taking responsibility for your actions, owning your mistakes, and having personal accountability speaks volumes. Wish everyone would do this when they mess up.
Tamara Geiger I mean, I agree. Cheating is never ok. However, I was speaking more in general terms.
And changed though!
did he meet her when she was 16 and him 24? what's with older men going for teenagers
Yet R kelly is persecuted... this is a black culture
I don't get it. To quote KRS-1, "The girls look so good but their brains are not ready. I'd rather talk to a woman 'cause her mind is more steady..."
@@majr6852 a lot of them do it so they can control the woman with an immature mind
@@majr6852 📝
Some of those dudes be young minded themselves.
You see how he kept cheating? It's not hard to be loyal
Justice for Ahmaud Arbery.
and Breonna Taylor.
Do you realize we are on paternity 🤔 court. Great cause wrong court. He was a human being and should have been treated as such.
Justice for both Facts
Geraldine 04 And George Floyd
Love this energy
Even Judge is happy for them ❤️🥰
My first time to see Dr. Jeff on the screen. I have always wanted. Thanks Judge Lakes and Dr Jeff for the team work
I'm so happy that he's the father, they have a BEAUTIFUL BABY!
Stop ruining it!!
😤 spoiler
I knew he was the daddy. They literally have the same nose Smh... he was doing too much. 😒😒...
She’s so beautiful and he’s very handsome. Children must be gorgeous. Hope the quality of their relationship will be greater than their physical beauty.
Did you watch the video? If you did you would not have typed that last sentence.
I literally held my breath while the results were being read. I am so happy he ended up being that cute baby's father. :)
This brought me to tears. I know the episode was over a year ago, but I still found myself praying the baby was his so the family could be saved. I was so happy to hear the results!!! 🥰
I thoroughly enjoyed watching this so respectful and calm
“How do we activate that blessing even further?” Love that statement.
Some people don't need to be together. She doesn't deserve this!! Just because he admitted it doesn't mean he's sorry. He just dont the judge to drill him. It may not be his but he is no victim!! He really hurt her.
The young lady could pass for Judge Lake's daughter... Striking resemblance...
No
Glad your not judging paternity in my case. That young lady doesn't look like judge Lakes
@@donracor1 yes she does. Look at the eyes and the mouth...
I think she resembles Regina Hall
@@jamellfoster6029
Nope. Not at all.
Oh their smiles at the end when it was announced brought tears to me eyes.
i literally got emotional after hearing the results, i’m so happy for them 💪🏾🤍
Soooo happy at the outcome of this case. Praying for the continued blessing and strengthening of their family and marriage. 💯🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾
I said it in 2019 and i am going to say it again, i have full respect for Dr. Jeff. I don't know how he's able to deal with so much emotional drama. So i am asking the producers of PATERNITY COURT to award this outstanding man with an award for his contribution of keeping families together
As a man I can’t believe I’m hooked on this show 😂. But for some reason I like this couple. We as men push our women to do things we know we can’t take or deal with. And it’s very true the WE CANT TAKE WHAT WE DISH OUT!! But I’m happy for them and I hope they’re good. Stay focus bro for your family 💯
Well spoken
I can’t believe I’m hooked on this 😂😭. & I’m 19 🥴
@Kay Jay. Preach my brother!
Men don't have babies. So cheating isn't the same
My 18 year old son was in the room with me and he is hooked too. LOL
I am extremely happy that the De'aire is his....I could see the love and the pain in both their eyes....God Bless you all🥰🥰🥰
I applaud this young woman for being married to the father of her children. That's seems to be so rare these days. Beautiful family! I hope they make it together. 💕