Answering Your Questions We’ve Been Avoiding.
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A child’s safety is more important than another parent being offending xx
EXACTLY
As if they’re not already putting their children at risk by putting them online their whole childhood.
@@nkt.11yessss
I’m going to guess from you’re comment that you are either not old enough or don’t have the proper cognitive functioning to be allowed to operate a phone. So no one is offended by your ignorant comment. However; if you’re so worried about online safety, maybe don’t comment dumb stuff under a first and last name. Hopefully you’re not the real Ella Larder. You have no idea what you’re talking about and are jumping to conclusions about a family based on windows of their life online. Get a life. Grow a brain.
Yeah
I agree with Savannah on the gift giving. Rather than giving away half of the gifts the kids get for Christmas, have the kids go through their toys, clothes from the year before and donate them!
me too. what’s the point in gifting your kids presents if you’re going to make them give them away. just buy things and donate them right away. don’t get the child happy and then take it away right away. let them have a year or more to play with it until they decide they’re ready to give it away
@@kadenfalkner7007or better yet only buy things you know the child really wants or needs. Not things you think are cute so you buy them and then they don’t play with them
I did that with my kids. Heck there's no way a kid can keep all gifts forever. Or we'd pack away the toys they didn't really play with and we'd have a big yard sale in spring and the kids got to keep the money. But we did donate toys that were gently used. 😉
Kids in USA need to shop for the poor kids to give to them at Christmas have u kids pick from Angel tree .
Definitely agree with Sav. What's the point of giving your kids something for Christmas just to disappoint them and make them give half of them away? I mean I get teaching them to give back, donate, or whatever but make them go through their old stuff to get rid of right before Christmas. If they're anything like my daughter has always been they probably have brand new toys in their room anyway that hasn't been touched. Just my opinion though. Not hating because I love you both so much. And I'm sooooooo excited about the new baby. Congratulations yall!!!!!!!!
PLEASE i beg of you. As a young adult, just finished high school I can attest that Social media was such an unneccesary depression and anxiety cause for me and many other teenagers. Help keep your children safe! Keep them safe no matter what
Right?! Its crazy to me that millenials just dont get it.
We do not care
I agree, but it's not like the kids are scrolling 7 hours a day
It’s not your life why are you begging them. Spend this energy on something useful in YOUR life.
@@thaliairaina If your monitor your children then no, they won’t be scrolling 7 hours a day. 😂
My mom worked in a police department in the 90s and she said she saw cases that she couldn’t believe and because of it we were a no sleep over home, I hated the rule and fought about with regularly with my parents. We were the only family with that rule and other parents even disparity my
Parents. I was raised in a Christian home and our friends were totally trustworthy and gave my parents no reason not to be trusted. I’m a grown women now and seeing the unfortunate and dark truths of *SOME* of those families and the things I was protected from, I can’t thank my parents enough. I’ll be continuing the rule in my home!
That is how I was with my kids. They are grown now but have only sleep at a few houses.
Your Mum is and I turn you are incredibly smart. As a teacher but especially as a foster Mum I actually have the same rule because some of the case files I had to read were horrific. I wouldn't risk anything more happening to them. I heard on the news today that the police have just arrested a gymnastics teacher for 26 counts of child r*** and having child pictures on his computer. There are now others coming forward and it started in 2014 until the present. It's a reminder of how a dodgy person can look like a friendly neighbour or local coach.
Do you remember Carl the sweet cloud puff
those cases are rare. I think the media wants to make it worse then it is.
@@nancyfarkas3592 I think you are being a bit naive.
Yes definitely teach your kids that sharing is caring. But I agree with Sav that they shouldn’t have to get rid of their Christmas presents. But rotating their toys and teaching them that other kids may enjoy them is a great idea!
I agree cause its not very fair to give them presents then saying to get rid of half of them when they could do the same thing but with old toys they dont like anymore
i think they're js trying to keep their children like humble and help them see the joy of giving and not receiving but i get what u mean
Angel tree kids needs items too
I like the no sleep over thing, but letting her stay pretty late is a good idea. Because at the end of the night you know she’s home safe and she still got to have fun
plplease, who has ever had fun the morning after a sleepover?
@@becca8237me
@@becca8237no lie😂 it’s always either on your phone just waking up and then waiting to go home
Isn’t it weird for the other parents if you tell them that their daughter can sleep over at your house but you don’t trust them to keep your daughter safe at their house?
I was thinking the same thing
I feel like it's probably one of those things where you say, "yeah we just don't let any of them sleepover other people's houses until they're older. It's a rule in our house, but other's are welcome to come over to ours" sorta thing. There's some nice ways to put it, and I feel like nowadays there will be other parents that probably have the same rule or feel the same way.
I personally prioritize my child’s safety over what others feel. I get it, it can get awkward, but ultimately the priority is my child’s safety. My mom did the same with me and friends stayed over often, some parents don’t get offended.😊
No it’s not
@@marthlaw7893exactly! My daughter stayed at her friends house in fifth grade and the father of this friend would smack her bottom area …he always did it to his own daughter. I didn’t think it was appropriate to just walk up and tap in your daughters bum and ESPECIALLY not out your grown man hands on another child especially a female! When my daughter told me that I couldn’t stand the thought of her staying with anyone else and I told her that her friend was more than who stay with her but I didn’t want her to stay anywhere until she was older. She is now 15 and still doesn’t ask to stay anywhere! Unless her sister stays too because they have the same friends!
My husband and I look forward to every single video ever since you guys just started dating! 7 years of watching and loving every video! Thanks for spreading Jesus in your relationship and parenthood. ❤
I think as a child I would resent my parent/parents for making me give up my new gifts. I would feel like “what did I do wrong? Why don’t my parent think I deserve my new things?” Sure have the kids go through their old toys, but not the new.
Agreed!
If you want to give away gifts to other people or children involve your kids in the angel tree. Have them go through there old toys and clothes and donate those. I wouldn’t give them new gifts to give away. That seems harsh to me. I don’t mean any hate but there are other ways to show and teach them to appreciate what they have and to do for others not so fortunate.❤
I smell lies at 18 mins
Fr
Where she says abt her being a mom? Just beforev 18:39 ??
@@xStwbs_Valxshe said she likes showing mom stuff
@@em1sglxo aaaa alr
You “smell” lies 😂😂😂😂
As someone who helps out with middle school girls. PLEASE do not give your children a phone until it’s NEEDED. There is no reason for kids to have tiny computers in their pockets all the time. Especially when they are a child of an influencer and of a family that receives so much undeserved hate.
It seems like you are doing this already. And to this I say, thank you! And encourage other parents to do the same. I love the idea of the smart watch with limited contacts, but there is no reason for them to have a cell phone until they start driving.
Yeah my mom said I can’t have my phone right now cause I’m in middle school she said until I’m 10 th grader and this is why I have A in all my classes ❤ Thank you
i’m in 11th grade and still don’t have a phone. have a car, but not a phone
I wouldn’t say until they start driving but 8/9 grade is appropriate
I think those simple, non-smart phones are okay (marketed to seniors) - limit access to when the child is away from home only - with the understanding that its only to be used for calling mom & dad :)
Biggest regret I have as a parent! I was honestly thinking safety so I could know where they were at all times (while playing with friends) and if they ever needed me. I wish I would have looked into those watch phone things or even the new things that look like flip phone that you can program to ONLY numbers you want the child to have.
This was one of my favorite videos you have made. I appreciate your honesty and to be honest you really taught me a life lesson! I am 53 years old and you taught me a life lesson. I’m sure you can figure out what question but I make you 1 promise… I will find that godly moment and I will find my worth. I deserve to be treated with kindness. Thank you both and please know that you do make a difference and I know all 4 of my kids will be proud of their mom 💗💗 Thank You 🙏🏻🙏🏻
They say it’s a lot with 4 kids and now she’s pregnant again…. IF FOUR IS TO MUCH STOP HAVING KIDS
I love your family so much
Respect to you both for answering personal questions. Love you guys so much. Merry Christmas to you all ⛄
Y’all are just… AMAZING and more! Y’all make me tear up with tears of joy, I love y’all so much. ❤
I remember a very sad terrifying moment in my childhood.. I'm 52 now and my heart still skips a beat when this image arrives in my mind. My mom told my sister and I that we were going to donate some of our toys. We were all on board with it until my mom grabbed Fred the teddy bear. To this day hes imprinted on my mind. We went around and around, I kept saying please not Fred take anything but Fred... PLEASE!!! crying I ran away grabbing Fred. Things calmd down and I hid Fred under my bed. When I got home from school Fred was gone, she just took him without a thought. So becareful and take your children seriously. Don't take something that's important to them. Yes later in life I asked why Fred her comment " I was mad at you"!!!😢
😢😢😢 this is so sad ...
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I hope someone is kind enough to find you a bear just like Fred so you can keep him in Fred’s memory forever 🩷🧸
I’m so sorry to hear. My Mishutka (inspired my Mishka, which means baby cub in russian) was a bear I had when I turned 2 and I slept with every night. When I took her to show and tell day for school, a girl grabbed him out my backpack and took him away from me without me knowing! I sobbed for days, I couldn’t sleep and all I wanted was Mishutka. I had nightmares without cuddling her to sleep every night. One day, the school’s office called me in and I was able to get her back, by the grace of god.
😭I😭FEEL😭SO😭BAD😭FOR😭EVERLEIGH😭
Frrr me too!!!!
SAMEEE
@AmariiGomez because she’s treated horribly
I have a question why do you just start excluding ev
Fr tho
Like the wise tiktok labrant family people said when u are 11-12 u aren't fun anymore that is gonna go on for poise and others too😢
They mentioned one time in a video over a year ago, that Ev did not want to be in as many videos. And they respected that
The sad thing is that my first thought was that Everleigh probably doesn't want to get adopted because she is already getting excluded as is.
My favorite family on RUclips!! Love you guys and your kiddos! Merry Christmas to you all!! ❤️💚
Savs hair is literally so pretty and healthy. I’d love if she did a hair care routine❤
She uses monat! I remember her saying
And she has extentions.
@@Mimi2thebestboysevernot anymore x
She uses monat!!!! Best hair care ever!
@@melodyfaith3806 Yesss Monat is so good
I appreciate your answer on sleep overs, it’s so important to put your kids safety before anything else… even the comfort of those you trust and love… curious if you do sleepovers with family? And what about when you go away just the two of you? Do you let a nanny stay over? So curious on your thoughts! With love, Bri
There is nothing wrong with sleepovers. I did them and never had anyone do anything to me. I think the media likes to make people paranoid.
Keep up the good work with keeping your children safe. Happy that you talk to your fans about your faith 🙏 and love
Love you and your family so much! I know y’all don’t listen to the negativity and I respect that bc it can be hard! You are great parents and I pray God continues to bless your life!
Fr I love the la brant family🥰😍👍❤❤❤❤
They say they don't yet they won't show their kids anymore. So clearly they DO listen to it.
@@nancyfarkas3592 reading it and actually letting it affect your emotions are two different things. If you don’t like them just don’t watch them! Simple! I hope you have a merry Christmas tho
Very interesting how they avoided the question of whether or not they regret putting their kids on the internet for so long, they know it is bad.
We all know these aren’t the questions we actually wanted to be answered, i honestly feel rly bad for ev
I think it was so very honest of you both to answer these personal questions like this. I love your Family….. Have a lovely Merry Christmas 🎅🏼❄️❤️
Having to give away half their gifts is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
Like Savanna said - donate, go buy from an angel tree, etc. But don't traumatize them or make them sad lol.
seriously!! Take them to a store and tell them to pick out some presents to donate or something. But giving them 8 gifts and then telling them "oh btw you have to give away half of them" is so messed up.
Teaching them to b selfless and giving is not traumatizing for them
it's not traumatizing. they're js doing their best to keep their children humble and make sure they know to give n not js receive
@@MyaNoelle-ub7fttrue
@@MyaNoelle-ub7ft that doesn't teach selflessness IMO. It just adds sadness to a happy day for no reason. Just give them half the number of gifts in the first place then teach them about volunteering etc when they're old enough.
Love these Q & A sessions! You are wonderful parents to your precious babies! Merry Christmas to each of you and God's beautiful blessings! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Except ev
Yayyy! I love your videos and have watched since you started RUclips! Happy Holidays Labrant Family
Ya'll are great! I appreciate your honesty and love that you guys love Jesus! Merry Christmas to you and your family!
They aren’t great, they literally are evil.
WTF IS WRONG WITH U, THEY ARE NOT GREAT, THEY ARE BAD AND EVIL
@@Addie_add973no they are not
@@RachaelNelson-yl9ht 💀 You gotta be 8.
@@Addie_add973so you aren’t great you are literally evil you’d of course project your literal evil onto people who’re literally exactly the opposite cause y’know you’re literally evil
Yall have been such an inspiration to me and my family I'm a Christian and continue to try harder each and everyday thanks for everything you do!
Thank you so much for shareing! Love you guys! Parenting is 100% the hardest thing to do!
You are amazing parents. Whatever decisions you take as parents is the good one. For my kids I didn't let them have sleepovers before the age of 15. Because, I wanted to keep them safe but, I always wanted them to have sleepovers before they left my house. For them to make the right decisions on there own but, still having us close if something happens.
You can't keep kids locked in a closet so to speak. I think people are too paranoid. Yes bad things happen but they are not as bad as people think it is.
If you haven't figured it out yet, an idea on the x-mas gifts! I had a friend's mom who growing up, she did "Helper elves". The story was: Santa found kids along his journey who didn't make the list because they didn't have an address. Mom and dad got an email/text calling for help on Christmas Eve. Santa's elves don't have time to build new presents so he asks kids on the nice list to be helper elves. They go through and put a number of their older toys that don't get played with as much in a red sack like Santa's and that gets left out with the cookies before bed. Santa takes them and leaves a thank you for helping the other kids. Then my friend's mom would take the sack and donate the toys to our local women's shelter the day after Christmas. You could always change it up though if there are local toy drives near you that happen right before Christmas.
If someone does this, please make sure the toys are gently used. One Christmas, my brothers and I received presents from an organization. When my mom went to get them for us to open she discovered, they were all broken. :(
I don't get what is wrong with people for always hating on them! They are a very good Christian family, and I am so proud of how they are doing the will of God!!🙏🙏
Crazy lust is a sin but we’re supposed to reproduce haha
Start being nice to everly
I am the oldest of four and they are my half siblings. My father passed when I was only 4 months old and my step dad was in my life at a very young age. It never affected my relationships with my siblings or my dad. I chose to not get adopted for a few reasons and it did not change how I viewed or felt about my dad. I did think about it as I got older, so I’m sure she will too!
Hey! I have been watching yall for as long as i can remember. I have watched Everleigh grow up to be a wonderful young lady she has become. I have watched Posie grow from when she was just born to now she has a wonderful life ahead of her that God has given her same with Everleigh. I have watched Zealand become a little man like Cole. Sunday has grow up so much she is so beautiful i pray that she will have greater days to come that God has given her. I love yall so much you are supported no matter what happens❤.
Yall cole and sav sent me something from telegram and idk WHat that is and Luke what they meant they said a christmas present for you
I have been following for 6 years and I love y'all sm ❤
At the end of the day people do what makes you happy, ❤❤❤ life's to short!!!! STOP COMPLAINING BE HAPPY!. THESE PEOPLE ARE SWEET ❤❤❤❤❤
I love giving presents too and when my nieces and nephews (I don’t have my own kids) were younger the way that I bought presents was - something they want, something they need, something to wear and something to read,
I feel that ev won’t go through with the adoption because that’s the one thing that her dad gave her that her mom and Cole can’t sell, ruin, or get rid of. I hope she stays representing the beautiful man her father was and grows up to move back home where she’s closer with her father’s side of the family.
You have a beautiful family and you're doing well by your children and your relationship! 💖 Keep on shining 💖
My fav RUclips channel! Love you guys ❤
You both are so so vulnerable on social media, which is such a blessing and a curse at the same time. Props to you and for family for hanging in there during the tough times, because there are so many families out there that look up to you all, and you really are a great influence. I love this video, God bless you and your family.❤
this is such a kind comment , i hope they see it
Fr tho❤️❤️❤️
Great parenting advice and marital advice!! I agree with the no sleep overs, when my boys were young I allowed them to sleep over a few times and I would just be so nervous, I didn’t want to be a Hoover mom but I didn’t want anything bad to happen to them… but the bad can happen in the closeness of a family, sadly it did to me by a close family member, you are wise to keep your kids close and not allow sleep overs. May God richly bless your sweet family 😊
Savannah I would love it if you made a video about how homeschooling is going. Kind of what curriculum you guys are following, and just things up that alley. I would love to homeschool my own kids but am not sure where to start.
The relationship Cole and ev is amazing. But whenever sav and evs sister is in a video, everleigh is ignored. Do you guys even think everleigh is there?
My stepdad isn’t in my life anymore. But the way you go about adoption is perfect. When I told my stepdad I wanted to keep my biological dad’s name, it was “why? Don’t you love me?”
I’ve been a fan before y’all got married! Y’all are such a positive role as what a loving, Christian family can be. Wishing y’all the best and sending good vibes your way! Again, my fav RUclips family ❤
I pay no attention to rumors.
I will always watch you guys. You guys are Christians and so am I. That’s not the only reason why but it’s one of the reasons. I think 🤔 your kids are adorable 🥰 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. That scripture helped build my confidence from 0 to 100. Now I’m the most confident I’ve ever been and I’m trying to teach my kids and train my kids in the way that they should go and they’ll never depart from it. That’s what the Bible says. Happy Birthday 🥳 to Everleigh
I think that is a good idea about your rule for no sleep overs. Even if it is with people you trust. As a victim of child abuse, I can tell you from personal experience, that even people you think you can trust, can have a dark side.
I loved this! Missed you guys! ❤
So happy to see you guys! 😊
Merry Christmas🎄
Also , I hope the good comments outweigh /make a difference more than the negative comments. Love you guys!
I am 24 and only ever slept over at my grandparents house. We were allowed people to sleep over but we weren’t allowed to sleep out. My parents were very strict about the no sleeping out rule and it was because they couldn’t control the visitors at that house even at their closest friends houses and where I would be sleeping to be safe. In the thick of it, it’s tough to understand but as a 24 year old I really understand their point of view and appreciate their protection.
I have a friend who only ever let her daughter sleep at their grandparents, (almost every weekend. ) because she didn’t study anyone else. After her daughter got older she found out grandpa was abusing her. 🤦♀️
@@valentinegirly6718 kids are more likely to be abused by someone they know. Not some stranger who may visit the house they are sleeping over at.
Hi this was such a good video! Also please wish everleigh a happy birthday!🎉🎉🎉
I love you guys so much!! You are amazing parents I love that you guys prioritize Jesus. I remember meeting you guys at the nice Hillsong concert and you guys were so kind to me. I will never forget that. Love you guys!! Have a merry Christmas!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍
I been watching y’all for 5 or 4 years love yall family 💕
I watched them since they started
I been watching the la brant family since I was 7 now I'm 14 XOXO I love this channel🥰😍👍❤❤❤
I watch them since they first did the Cole and sav RUclips channel
@@user-dq5ts1nu1w same
Yea I watch them since they started the Cole and sav channel
Hope everyone has a beautiful Christmas merry Christmas
I been following you guys since you started your channel AND LOVE YOU AND YOUR KIDS SO MUCH I lovr your videos
Y'all are such a luvly couple and a luvly family. God's continued blessings upon y'all~
i love yall so much yall r the best i have been watching yall for idk how long but i have been watch for a very long time❤❤❤
Y’all are a beautiful couple and have adorable kids! I wish all of you a very Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year. ❤️🎄
I love this video and your parenting advice. Coming from such a Godly place. Love you guys
We love you guys and your kids❤
YOU GUYS ARE AMAZING I HAVE WATCHING SINCE EV WAS 4 AND YOU GUYS DONT DESERVE HATE LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH!!
Love the honesty in this video. Was very nice to see you again in a video! ❤
Amazing, Cole & Sav! Still love watching your videos so far! ❤👏
Love your Family & what you share! Your kids are blessed to have two parents who love JESUS and have healthy boundaries!
Keeping your kid home from sleepovers but putting them on the internet wild.
It’s like taking razor blades from a baby and handing them a gun.
I just wanted to say congratulations on baby number 5!🎉😊 I'm so happy for you guys. I can't wait for your new chapter 😊😊😊
I agree to everything BUT the cheating question. 😁 I’ve been cheated on in PREVIOUS relationships and now I am married to husband for 8 years and if he cheated I would be out IMMEDIATELY 😂❤
That’s you. But everyone is different.
@@nancyfarkas3592 obviously lol
@@nancyfarkas3592then they lack self respect!
You guys are the first family I ever watched & I still watch your videos! Love your family! ❤
I like both of your vibes. Merry Christmas ❤
I am a big fan of yours from KENYA, AFRICA for years now, i never miss out on your videos. You are an inspiration all over the world and may the almighty God continue to keep you healthy and safe. Happy holidays to the family and stay blessed.
i completely agree with Savanah on presents, imagine having to give away gifts that you had just received, i think it is better to donate used gifts, so your own kids are also happy
That’s not what they meant. Not giving away the ones you just got give away some you already had. So if they gotb8 presents they have to give away 4 toys they already have
Or instead of giving a gift away after you get it or see it, each year your child could go pick out 1 gift to that can be for a child that is in need or whose situation wouldn't allow them to have any otherwise and they can know each year that they will receive 1 less gift than they otherwise would because donating a gift takes the place of that gift but your kid can pick it so they usually are excited and want to be able to go and be the one to pick
I love this kind of videos,it feels like I have a conversation with you,I learn things about the family but also things about life in general🙏thank you guys,I love you❤
Aww we can comment again. I love this precious family so much!
love the labrant FAM SO MUCH, THEY MAKE ME SMILE AND HAPPY💕💞
Cole, love your maturity shining in this video! Actually, you both are excellent spokespeople for such topics. Bless y’all for helping others! May you and your family be always be blessed! 🙏🏻💞🙏🏻
The Christmas thing I agree w sav… imagine opening ur Santa gifts and giving them away… wowzers
your family is the best ive seen and my parents seen all of your vids! love you all! my parents and i have been sub and liked all of your vids, they follow you too! hope you have a great christmas
Thank you for sharing your views so honestly. As someone who doesn’t have children get, I love hearing about your Christian approach to parenting and marriage. Thank you.
Early!! Love ur fam for 6 yrs❤❤
Love this, and love you both! Thank you for your channel- I love how inspiring you are. You both are certainly a blessing!
Those were pretty tough choices to share. Thanks for the whole story LaBrant Fam.
You two are such an inspiring amazing young couple. So mature for your young age.
I think it is a great idea for your children to give a gift to someone, but I think it would be more meaningful if they were going shopping for the gift, wrapping it up, making a card and the pleasure of giving it to another child.
no bro it’s just a CHILD they don’t have that attention span
For real tho I mean I get they need to learn how to share but when they wake up on Christmas day Its just sad@@alivyamarie648
merry Christmas guys love you
I've been watching for a long time and I love your videos and especially Cole and Everleigh's channel now! Your family is awesome!
God sent you to be a positive role model as her dad and you have done an amazing, positive role model as her dad. Just always include her biological dad in her life he loved her too ❤
Amen! Perfectly said!
Cole isn't her dad
The part on raising kids and being a team was the best part good on you both ❤
Love your family so much!! Hope life is good for all of you in Tennessee 💕💕
If y’all do change the channel to Ev and Coles, PLEASE continue to give us some family content occasionally. 💜 Much love from Tennessee!
They live in Tennessee….
@@Christmastiktoks509 yes I know. They just recently moved here. I’ve been here my whole life so just being welcoming is all 😊
I think she should honor her dads last name followed by LaBrant
@@shay6886you’re using the wrong to.
@annaborbon5425 I wouldnt bash any childs parent especially online. Thats not classy.
@@annaborbon5425do you know them personally or do you just know them in your head?
@@annaborbon5425her dad was actually with her majority of the time, they just exaggerated it
@@Christmastiktoks509no they didn't?
Love your videos content lately can you do morning and night routine? also day in the life with your daughters? any vacation plans ?missing your family vlogs
Oh? The comments are open??
Btw I love you guys ❤️ I've been watching you since Ev was 3 !!!❤❤❤
I love this!!! You guys have great boundaries and good standards!
Omg i didn’t know I’ve been watching y’all for 7 years well idk if I been there since day one but pretty close to it lol btw love y’all and you kids ❤❤❤❤❤❤