Just like the wife, could give one or two chances fir improvement. But once I know it is over possessiveness, which crosses lines of basic humanity and togetherness, there shouldn't be any stopping.
I know right. And the most dangerous thing about spousal abuse is getting a divorce. You realize your spouse is abusive and you deserve better. But you know they will be really upset and you may find it difficult to divorce them. So what should you do to make your divorce successful and safe? Just like a lot of places have an emergency evacuation plan to get out in case of a fire, you need an exit plan to file for divorce from your abusive spouse. The first thing you should do is tell a parent or someone you trust. They'll give you the support and protection you'll need. If your spouse has been abusive during the marriage, there's no telling what they may do if you tell them you want a divorce. Secondly, it's crucial that you don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. If you do, they may be able to manipulate you not to divorce them or become violent. So have someone place hidden cameras around your home for the police to come and arrest your spouse so you can tell your spouse in front of them that you want a divorce before they lead them away to jail. Before you do, practice what you're going to say beforehand. That way, you can say it clearly and you won't forget. In the end of this video, we see how Lily tells her husband, Derek that she wants a divorce when the police arrest him. Lily's Dad: Before the police take you away, Lily has something to say to you. Derek: Come on, sweetheart tell them I love you. Because I love you, honey. Tell them what they need... Lily: That's enough! I don't believe a word you say. You put on a mask of a lovely husband but only when it suits you. But now it's time to show off your true self. You are cruel, narcissistic, jealous and an empty man. Yes, you didn't lay a hand on me but what you did hurt me. Now it's over and I'm happy! You see? I'm happy because I will never see you again. The only thing I regret is that I have been in this silence for so long and I want a divorce and if and when you make bail, don't call me, text me or talk to me or even bother trying to get back in. I need you to leave me alone. Goodbye, Derek. Finally, when the police arrest your spouse and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them and just in case your soon-to-be-ex-spouse makes bail, do not be alone with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse, leave your home unattended so that they could try to move back in or put yourself in situations where you'll be isolated from others. You'll need to change your routines. For instance, if there are places you usually go or if you have a job, the best thing you can do to change that routine is to take a different way to get to those places including your workplace or ask a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker to take you there and also, here's what you should do if they try to move back into your home. If I were Lily and Derek tried to move back into their apartment, I would keep the door locked and not open it for him. Instead, I would call her dad, her landlord, her house sitter or the security guard to escort Derek off the premises and also, here are some other changes you should make just in case your soon-to-be-ex-spouse makes bail and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them. Turn off your location so they can't see where you are. Block them on your cell phone and social media and replace and/or rekey the locks on the doors to your home so that their keys to your home will no longer work. Keep a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker with you whenever you go out, look for a roommate and hire a house sitter and find a police officer if your soon-to-be-ex-spouse won't leave you alone. So let's review your spousal abuse exit plan; 1. Tell a parent or someone you trust. 2. Don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. 3. Last but not least, change your routines.
And let's also remember what Inner Circle once sung: "Bad boys, bad boys, what you're gonna do? What you're gonna do when they come for you?" The husb in this video just provided us with an answer to the question!
If you are fortunate enough to never have gone through an abusive relationship, consider yourself very lucky. This is a very real issue & it's something nobody ever deserves to go through/be a victim of. If someone is abusing you, please leave ASAP & seek help immediately!
These actors do a really good job especially the actors who play as the police officer. They make it like it's a movie or it's actually happening in real life. Great work. There were red flags about the husband when he puts on this fake smile in public to his wife but turns into an abusive and cruel character and starts abusing her.
I know right. If Lily was my daughter and when she told her husband, Derek that she wanted a divorce when the police arrested him, I would have had her back by protecting her and telling her how to keep Derek out of the way just in case he made bail and before and after her divorce was final and before and after she got a restraining order against him.
DramatizeMe you guys always have great actors. Thank you for another great drama. Domestic violence is a serious problem and I appreciate you’re addressing it.
@@mobinmitul3822 she was not hanging out with other man. She was going to the lunch with her friend who was also a girl. There is nothing to disobey , both husband and wife have equal rights.
I know right. And here's how you can know if your spouse is abusive. In the beginning of this video where Lily gets out of the shower, she sees her husband, Derek cutting up her dress and he tells her it's too vulgar, this is what's called a red flag. A warning sign that something might be wrong with your marriage. What do you think of him cutting up her dress and telling her that it's too vulgar and so is her friend, Kelly? Doesn't that seem like a red flag to you? Notice in the beginning of this video where Derek is cutting up Lily's dress, he was also telling her who she can and can't be friends with. These are definitely red flags because of his jealous and controlling actions. Marriages and all kinds of relationships are built on trust. If you can't trust your spouse or they don't trust you, then you should seriously consider filing for divorce. If you want a divorce but think it will be unsafe, get the support and encouragement of friends and family. You'll need to develop an exit plan because divorcing your abusive spouse may be difficult and dangerous.
@@loubnaelharcha4366 Why should you respect your partner if they don't respect you? If there is something they don't like, that's their problem. It doesn't need to be yours. And like I said, the most dangerous thing about spousal abuse is getting a divorce. You realize your spouse is abusive and you deserve better. But you know they will be really upset and you may find it difficult to divorce them. So what should you do to make your divorce successful and safe? Just like a lot of places have an emergency evacuation plan to get out in case of a fire, you need an exit plan to file for divorce from your abusive spouse. The first thing you should do is tell a parent or someone you trust. They'll give you the support and protection you'll need. If your spouse has been abusive during the marriage, there's no telling what they may do if you tell them you want a divorce. Secondly, it's crucial that you don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. If you do, they may be able to manipulate you not to divorce them or become violent. So have someone place hidden cameras around your home for the police to come and arrest your spouse so you can tell your spouse in front of them that you want a divorce before they lead them away to jail. Before you do, practice what you're going to say beforehand. That way, you can say it clearly and you won't forget. In the end of this video, we see how Lily tells her husband, Derek that she wants a divorce when the police arrest him. Lily's Dad: Before the police take you away, Lily has something to say to you. Derek: Come on, sweetheart tell them I love you. Because I love you, honey. Tell them what they need... Lily: That's enough! I don't believe a word you say. You put on a mask of a lovely husband but only when it suits you. But now it's time to show off your true self. You are cruel, narcissistic, jealous and an empty man. Yes, you didn't lay a hand on me but what you did hurt me. Now it's over and I'm happy! You see? I'm happy because I will never see you again. The only thing I regret is that I have been in this silence for so long and I want a divorce and if and when you make bail, don't call me, text me or talk to me or even bother trying to get back in. I need you to leave me alone. Goodbye, Derek. Finally, when the police arrest your spouse and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them and just in case your soon-to-be-ex-spouse makes bail, do not be alone with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse, leave your home unattended so that they could try to move back in or put yourself in situations where you'll be isolated from others. You'll need to change your routines. For instance, if there are places you usually go or if you have a job, the best thing you can do to change that routine is to take a different way to get to those places including your workplace or ask a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker to take you there and also, here's what you should do if they try to move back into your home. If I were Lily and Derek tried to move back into their apartment, I would keep the door locked and not open it for him. Instead, I would call her dad, her landlord, her house sitter or the security guard to escort Derek off the premises and also, here are some other changes you should make just in case your soon-to-be-ex-spouse makes bail and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them. Turn off your location so they can't see where you are. Block them on your cell phone and social media and replace and/or rekey the locks on the doors to your home so that their keys to your home will no longer work. Keep a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker with you whenever you go out, look for a roommate and hire a house sitter and find a police officer if your soon-to-be-ex-spouse won't leave you alone. So, let's review your spousal abuse exit plan; 1. Tell a parent or someone you trust. 2. Don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. 3. Last but not least, change your routines.
This was amazingly done. Over here in Australia we need a system like that , where all they need is the key and when you go out they install cameras, Really well don and brilliant acting. This derserves and award.
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@@IsderaCommendatore Well, there doesn't need to be any purpose of that and besides, Lily has every right to wear whatever she wants and go out with her friends whenever she wants. She's not going to get exposed by any other men and I don't see anything vulgar about that dress she was going to wear. It's obvious that Derek doesn't trust her and I'd hate to marry someone who doesn't trust me. The way Derek treated Lily is an example to all of us of how not to treat our spouses and/or partners if we really want our relationships and/or marriages to work. If Lily was my daughter and when she told her husband, Derek that she wanted a divorce when the police arrested him, I would have had her back by protecting her and telling her how to keep Derek out of the way just in case he made bail and before and after her divorce was final and before and after she got a restraining order against him.
@@IsderaCommendatorejust divorce your wife then. You're no one to dictate what she shouldn't or shouldn't wear, and she doesn't have to listen to you. She's not your child. Hook up with a barbie doll, she'll dress the way you want.
Artur nailed the role of an abusive husband perfectly, Tania nailed the role of an abused wife perfectly and Olga nailed the role of a saviour perfectly.
When an abusive husband or boyfriend is attacked by a man who is stronger than he is, he deserves to be humiliated and have his macho attitude beaten out of him. Any man who strikes or terrified a woman needs to be put behind bars and be beaten by tough men in prison to learn his lesson. He will know how a defenseless woman feels. Great show.
even when his wife reacts! It happened to me once, got slapped, which enraged me so I attacked back, he was stunned, said that I scared him (he was double my weight). Then I left and ghosted him.
And that’s how abuse begins! It starts off verbal, & escalates to Physical & eventually; death!! No one should have to live that kind of life!! Seek help as quickly as possible, & don’t wait until it becomes deadly! No one is above the law, I don’t care how powerful they think they are! Never be someone’s whipping post or doormat! I pray things are better for you all in Ukraine. 👏
The man who played Derek is a wonderful actor. I've seen him portraying as a good/bad guy in different episodes. In this one, He plays as a ruthless, controlling husband who forbids his wife from going out. I'm glad he got what he deserved in the end. The woman Tania is a very pretty actress. I've also seen her play in many episodes and she's very good. Dramatize Me, You're the coolest!! 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
My ex tried a few things in the first couple of years he tried to build up this level and that’s when during a verbal confrontation he kicked me. When I defended myself I came close to braking his arm (which took about 2 weeks to heal) and scared the shit out him. He was almost twice my size. He did apologize and meant it. Never had another problem. My cocky self told him maybe he should pick on somebody his own size. Bullies can be shut down if you stand up for yourself.
I know right. Because we see in the end of this video when she tells him she wants a divorce when the police arrest him. Lily: (to Derek) You put on a mask of a lovely husband but only when it suits you. But now it's time to show off your true self. You are cruel, narcissistic, jealous and an empty man. Yes, you didn't lay a hand on me but what you did hurt me. Now it's over and I'm happy! You see? I'm happy because I will never see you again. The only thing I regret is that I have been in this silence for so long and I want a divorce and if and when you make bail, don't call me, text me or talk to me or even bother trying to get back in. I need you to leave me alone. Goodbye, Derek.
I feel bad for women who can't protect themselves against a controlling insecure man. He leaves the house and he sleeps. Thats when I would make my escape. I would live on the street before I put up with that crap. There're a lot of people that can help. They have to take that scary step and save their life
Morals of the story: 1. Marriages are about love, not control. 2. Abuse should never be tolerated. 3. Men must control their emotions at all times. 4. Abusers must be held accountable for their actions.
If my husband ever held a pair of scissors to my throat, he would be divorced, and I'd take him to the cleaner. No sympathy for abusers. I consider myself lucky that I have a loving husband and we make a good team.
What an outstanding script! And Heartiest Congrats Dramatizeme.. You're soon to be 2M family! Really happy for you ☺ More power to you and for the brightest future ahead of you 💛💙💛
I know what the woman in this video went through. I was with my abusive ex for 8&1/2 years. I finally left him back on October 30th 2019. But my advice to all women and men living with an abuser is to get out while you can
I know right. If I were in Lily's shoes after filing for divorce from Derek when the police arrested him, I would probably also file for a restraining order.
Her husband is insane beware ladies in choosing your lifetime partner this video served as a reminder to all. The scriptwriter of DramatizedMe videos is an expertise in all aspect of living of people, he emphasize very well what's going on our society tnx more power from the Philippines with love 😊
Hi Dramatizeme! Thanks a million for the upload. I have learned in this video that fear is just a feeling. They say when you feel scared it means you are about to do something really brave. ❤️❤️❤️
Of course that is why barriers are established in a relationship for a woman and a man, we learn about each other, we learn about our preferences and needs. Apparently, this guy's preference was for his woman not to show more in public than he would like.
Get a plan and leave. It never gets better. I was married to a man like this. I finally got my freedom only because he passed away on January 5th, 2023.
I know right and this is how to divorce your abusive spouse by developing that exit plan; 1. Tell a parent or someone you trust. 2. Don't ask for a divorce alone. 3. Change your routines.
The number one thing abusers say to their victims: "I'm sorry" or "I was drunk." This was very good right here. Very good actors, awesome plot & very intense. Thanks for sharing and have a nice day!
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Unfortunately sometimes the bruises are on the inside where no one can see but you; and you can definitely feel them. So if you are an abusive relationship please get out! And get help
Voni, I absolutely agree with you. Sometimes those bruises inside are worse than the ones outside!! I know what I would do. First, I would ask Jesus to rebuke the devil out of him , & if need be; I would grab my skillet & knock him out!! Self defense!! This is a real story that happened in my hometown. A husband kept being abusive in every way to his wife, the wife waited until he was sound asleep, sewed him up in the sheets, went out to the garage & got a baseball bat!! She worked him over good & gave him a taste of his own medicine! She told him that morning as he was trying to speak after the horrific beating that if he ever touched her roughly again, or even abused her verbally/ emotionally, that next time would be much worse!!! He never raised his voice or hit her again!!! 😄😂 I think she got her point across!!
@@aneettalal7117 I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully you have received the necessary support to get past that. I also hope that you know that you are a good person a valued person a worthy person
@@donontario Dude...💀💀Why do you have to only remember about men when we are talking about women? There are multiple channels for men protection as well. Go watch those and don't comment here if you only wanna say crap like this.
@@kimyn6974 Who said I only remember about men? You can literally find a comment above that I made 24 hours ago saying "I would never treat a woman like that" with a pensive face emoji, speaking of remembering, the above guy only remembered about women to treat them as Queens, Also I referred this because my EX demanded the same "tReAt mE liKe a QuEen" whilst she treated me like a trash, the phrase "All women should be treated like Queens" is wrong because not all men are treated like Kings even the good and loyal ones same goes for women
@@donontario You did? Honestly speaking I didn't see it and I will admit I made a mistake there. And yes you're right...everyone should be treated like Kings or Queens irrespective of their gender, sexuality, caste or nationality. The only reason I said it because...I have a page on Insta that highlights women problems in the society...and over there a lot of stupid people comment about men problems when it's clearly a page for women. I was arguing with a whole lot of people like that for a long time...and your comment...I am sorry. I really am. I didn't mean to offend anyone. Honestly. Moreover, I am sorry for what you have gone through. You shouldn't have been treated like that at all. There are lots of girls who won't treat you like that. Promise. You did right to break up with her. 😌😌
When she started telling him off at the 8:00 mark or so, "I don't believe a word you say," I was hoping she'd call him a "Putin." It's a new curse word in the world, nowadays.
I know right. When she filed for divorce from him in the end of this video, they should have also shown her filing for a restraining order against him.
Big No! I have zero tolerance in any abusive behavior. Verbal/non verbal violance has the same impact in destroying someone's life. Unfortunately, until today, some people are still considering verbal/non physical violence as a common thing in marriage life. This video educates us how the verbal abuse hurts as bad as the physical abuse. Thank you, DramatizeMe...
I know right. And if you suspect someone is a victim of domestic violence, ask the victim, "What's going on?" Remind the victim that abuse is not always physical. Ask the victim, "Is your spouse the reason you gave up on your social life? It seems the marriage is all about them. They should want you to have fun." Encourage the victim not to give up on their social life because of a marriage. Tell the victim, "We have to call the police." The victim may be afraid or not want your help. However, they are in an unsafe situation and need the support and encouragement of family and friends to file for divorce from their abusive spouses. The victim needs to develop an exit plan because getting divorced from your abusive spouse may be difficult and dangerous.
That video reminds me of my ex husband. I always covered for him and pretented that he was a great husband In front of people he treated me with respect,showed people that I was his world , Behind doors he treated me like trash,abused me verbally,hit /punch me .one day he pushed me and I hurted my knees and could barely walk ,when I went to work my supervisors kept asking me why I walked the way I walked ,what happened to my knees/legs I told them that I hurted my knees while I was doing something .one of them knew that I was lying because he saw him verbally abuse me in the parking lot once .he almost killed me one day I said enough is enough and I put my feet down I called the police and got him arrested while in there he called me and beg for my forgiveness I forgave him and dropped the charge ,he promised me that he was going to change but when he got out he didn't change a bit ,he started doing the same things to me so one day I told myself i got to get out of this marriage and I left him now I'm so happy that I made the right choice which is separated
So proud that the woman came to the girl’s rescue. Episode of March of women. Good job. Power to the women. Amazing episode. Olga is such an amazing, gorgeous actress. She has my respect ✊🤟🤝🤝
These kinds of abuse is unacceptable, I would love nothing more than to beat the living hell outta of a man who puts his hands on defenseless woman, to all the ladies from around the world, if you're a victim of an abuse physically and/or mentally, speak up, don't go silent. Only a cowards can put their hands on defenseless women
This is more than words can express, this is not a over protective husband, this a mentally challenge that she is dealing with, she puts a smile on her face to hide the pain,but we all know its not for real.
Spousal abuse is not OK and that is against the law, I’m glad Derek is not Lily's husband anymore and they should have also shown her getting a restraining order against him!
This is why I'm staying out of relationships cuz of that. For all the women out there that had bad experiences like this, need to know - "Mens are not worth it". I'm always focusing on my friends & family who loved me, support me & accept me for who I am
@@DramatizeMe to tell u the truth my friend from college had boyfriend back then but then later he cheated on her, never appreciated her, never give her gifts, he became alcoholism, cuss at her & everything... all boyfriends of hers treated her like trash. I felt really sorry for her & she didnt deserve to be treated like that, she deserves life & love from her family & friends including me & my mom. Me & my mom support her & told her the important quote routine "Mens are not worth it".
I know right and she should have divorced him right then and there and the reason she didn't was because divorcing your abusive spouse can be dangerous.
As a man and would be husband, I always try to be mindful with my actions. I hate abusers and I need to make sure that I will not become one in the future
If there’s even a remote possibility that you would ever do that; please don’t marry!! If it runs in your family, you tend to have a bad temper etc,; those are signs, & only you know that. Pray & seek Jesus Christ, live for Him with all your heart. He loves you. 👏
@@PatriciaR.E. it never runs in my family. My parents are not abusive at all and so their parents. IMO it is better to realize that ANYONE can snap. A lot of these abusers never realized that what they did is wrong. All they know is that they are "protecting" their loved ones while actually they are just protecting their ego and insecurities. Mindfulness is good. Telling someone not to marry in the future because of that, is toxic by itself.
I feel bad for this poor woman. I was in this same situation to with my grandfather. I had to move away from him. He abused me. Stay away from people like that.
He should be in jail for controlling her and threatening her because men who do that will hit you even blame you and they won't even get help for themselves because they like the control
I know right. This guy obviously doesn’t want his wife to be happy. If your spouse doesn’t like the clothes you wear or any of your friends, FILE FOR DIVORCE ASAP!!!
Derek, Lily, and Molly are all amazing actor and actresses!! I would definitely give so many thumbs-up for them 👍👍👍😍 they've made this film alive and completely held us spellbound by their total performance! It's just like I was watching a whole thriller movie condensed into a short lovely video to watch 👍😍..
*Rules on how to keep your woman* *1. Seperate her from her friends and family* *2. Use Internet food shopping* *3. Take away her mobile phone and other communication to the outside world* *4. Show her the kitchen and bedroom* *UNDERSTAND THESE SIGNS 😐👍*
I wouldn’t, if I was married, but I’m not. I’m waiting for marriage when I’m in my thirties. I’m trying to get into college, but I had to put it on hold because my father died. (This is true). Dad in heaven, I love you and miss you so much!!!😔
Go do your education FIRST!!!! thats MORE important than some bozo dude who may end up abusing you.......this advice coming from a 64 yo single asian guy whos never been married.....and giving you advice ONLY!
I know right and to prevent Derek from moving back into their apartment after asking him for a divorce when the police arrested him, Lily could set up a booby trap at their door.
This situation really happen. I remember few years back my friend was abused physically and mentally by her husband, i saw how he was to her and i felt sorry for her. I witnessed when he poured water on her while we were eating at the table, i stayed in their house for sometime and that was the scariest moment in my life when i saw him abused her. He broke their house because she won't come out in one of their rooms, she was hiding and crying and i do not know what to do that time, just wanted to go out from the house and hide somewhere but it's already evening. Then when i finally found a place to stay away from them, one evening the girl texted me that she was outside my place and it was raining, she had bruises in her hands. I just can't understand why he did that to her. Now they separated and she is living happily and free. So i can really relate on this story. This is really happening.
Thank you for showing the world what's really happening if the husband is abusive and crazy. You know what those kind of persons have mentally problem they should seek help also.
This jealous and controlling hubby is the vulgar one, restricting her freedom and movements. Derek and his wife Lily are heading for a divorce if this abuse doesn't stop, the fool!!
My kids father use to beat me. For anything he was nice when we met but started changing when he met new friends. I wasn't aloud to leave the house but one day the power shut off at home I had to walk with the kids to the store to steal candles and snacks for the kids . He never left me any money. When he came home he seen the candles he knew I went out . The kids hid in the closet and he beat me so bad my eyes were swollen shut . He weighed over a hundred pounds more than me he kicked his foot in my spine now I can't walk much , I can't play with my kids like other mothers , the pain still there after all these years . He had fractured my spine and was ready to kill me . He started choking me and people bust through the door and got him off of me and he was arrested. My daughter's had ran out the closet when he took me to the bathroom to finish my punishment. They ran to the neighbors house . If it wasn't for my babies doing that I would have been dead.
*I don't know what's the name of this actress "LILY" but she's really a good actress... And that actor "DEREK", he did that abuser role with such perfection... I must say that in this episode, the acting skills of both the actors was brilliant. I don't know the name of the actress but she's one of my favourite actresses...*
These men are insanely jealous they think that being in control they have got you where they want you ,not happening get rid of bad rubbish before it's too late. They Never change.
Would you cover up your spouse's outrages?
Probably dramatizeme
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If I had a husband who was abuse
No I would not.
Time 8:03PM Fri 3/25/22
Yes when you love someone unconditionally u would do anything for them ANYTHING FR
No
Just like the wife, could give one or two chances fir improvement. But once I know it is over possessiveness, which crosses lines of basic humanity and togetherness, there shouldn't be any stopping.
He's also a coward, because only a coward would strike someone who can't or won't fight back.
Been there.Thank God I've escaped from him....
Violent is always the answer. Bullies and domestic abusers prefer non violent victims.
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Exactly, all abusers are cowards.
@@jasonrandom372 I fight back only as last resort in self-defense, I try negotiating first!!!
“you put on a mask of a lovely husband, but only when it suits you.” That’s perfect! That is exactly what is going on. 👏🏻My favorite line.
I know right. And the most dangerous thing about spousal abuse is getting a divorce. You realize your spouse is abusive and you deserve better. But you know they will be really upset and you may find it difficult to divorce them. So what should you do to make your divorce successful and safe? Just like a lot of places have an emergency evacuation plan to get out in case of a fire, you need an exit plan to file for divorce from your abusive spouse. The first thing you should do is tell a parent or someone you trust. They'll give you the support and protection you'll need. If your spouse has been abusive during the marriage, there's no telling what they may do if you tell them you want a divorce. Secondly, it's crucial that you don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. If you do, they may be able to manipulate you not to divorce them or become violent. So have someone place hidden cameras around your home for the police to come and arrest your spouse so you can tell your spouse in front of them that you want a divorce before they lead them away to jail. Before you do, practice what you're going to say beforehand. That way, you can say it clearly and you won't forget. In the end of this video, we see how Lily tells her husband, Derek that she wants a divorce when the police arrest him.
Lily's Dad: Before the police take you away, Lily has something to say to you.
Derek: Come on, sweetheart tell them I love you. Because I love you, honey. Tell them what they need...
Lily: That's enough! I don't believe a word you say. You put on a mask of a lovely husband but only when it suits you. But now it's time to show off your true self. You are cruel, narcissistic, jealous and an empty man. Yes, you didn't lay a hand on me but what you did hurt me. Now it's over and I'm happy! You see? I'm happy because I will never see you again. The only thing I regret is that I have been in this silence for so long and I want a divorce and if and when you make bail, don't call me, text me or talk to me or even bother trying to get back in. I need you to leave me alone. Goodbye, Derek.
Finally, when the police arrest your spouse and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them and just in case your soon-to-be-ex-spouse makes bail, do not be alone with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse, leave your home unattended so that they could try to move back in or put yourself in situations where you'll be isolated from others. You'll need to change your routines. For instance, if there are places you usually go or if you have a job, the best thing you can do to change that routine is to take a different way to get to those places including your workplace or ask a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker to take you there and also, here's what you should do if they try to move back into your home. If I were Lily and Derek tried to move back into their apartment, I would keep the door locked and not open it for him. Instead, I would call her dad, her landlord, her house sitter or the security guard to escort Derek off the premises and also, here are some other changes you should make just in case your soon-to-be-ex-spouse makes bail and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them. Turn off your location so they can't see where you are. Block them on your cell phone and social media and replace and/or rekey the locks on the doors to your home so that their keys to your home will no longer work. Keep a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker with you whenever you go out, look for a roommate and hire a house sitter and find a police officer if your soon-to-be-ex-spouse won't leave you alone. So let's review your spousal abuse exit plan; 1. Tell a parent or someone you trust. 2. Don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. 3. Last but not least, change your routines.
I hope you’re alright
Not talking about myself here at all. I have only had one “relationship” in my life and it lasted 10 days. 😹
And let's also remember what Inner Circle once sung: "Bad boys, bad boys, what you're gonna do? What you're gonna do when they come for you?"
The husb in this video just provided us with an answer to the question!
He's no man. No decent man bullies and or abuses a woman
If you are fortunate enough to never have gone through an abusive relationship, consider yourself very lucky. This is a very real issue & it's something nobody ever deserves to go through/be a victim of. If someone is abusing you, please leave ASAP & seek help immediately!
These actors do a really good job especially the actors who play as the police officer. They make it like it's a movie or it's actually happening in real life. Great work. There were red flags about the husband when he puts on this fake smile in public to his wife but turns into an abusive and cruel character and starts abusing her.
We're so glad you enjoy the acting, Jonathan. It means a lot to us! 🤗
Yes right.Good actresses. They should be acting in Hollywood movies.....
@@jeandescamps1542 - No, they need to replace Hollywood.
Yes
Yes.. all these actors are awesome, they really live the role !
This was definitely a heartbreaking video. Yet, it is definitely needed in order for many to recognize the many faces of abuse.
Definitely, Voni. Thanks for commenting! 🤗🤗🤗
I know right. If Lily was my daughter and when she told her husband, Derek that she wanted a divorce when the police arrested him, I would have had her back by protecting her and telling her how to keep Derek out of the way just in case he made bail and before and after her divorce was final and before and after she got a restraining order against him.
DramatizeMe you guys always have great actors. Thank you for another great drama. Domestic violence is a serious problem and I appreciate you’re addressing it.
We are so happy it resonated with you. Thank you for your comment, thank you for your kind words.
Every women deserve to be happy, deserve to have freedom and peace
Agreed with u Mam
Excatly.
But that doesnt mean that She will disobey her man and hang out with other men
@@mobinmitul3822 she was not hanging out with other man. She was going to the lunch with her friend who was also a girl. There is nothing to disobey , both husband and wife have equal rights.
Men too
Derek has no right to tell his wife what she really wants to do. You're spouse is not your property.
Exactly, John. It's a shame that a lot of people still don't get it, but that's why we're trying to raise awareness 🙂🙂 Thanks for commenting! 🤗🤗🤗
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I know right. And here's how you can know if your spouse is abusive. In the beginning of this video where Lily gets out of the shower, she sees her husband, Derek cutting up her dress and he tells her it's too vulgar, this is what's called a red flag. A warning sign that something might be wrong with your marriage. What do you think of him cutting up her dress and telling her that it's too vulgar and so is her friend, Kelly? Doesn't that seem like a red flag to you? Notice in the beginning of this video where Derek is cutting up Lily's dress, he was also telling her who she can and can't be friends with. These are definitely red flags because of his jealous and controlling actions. Marriages and all kinds of relationships are built on trust. If you can't trust your spouse or they don't trust you, then you should seriously consider filing for divorce. If you want a divorce but think it will be unsafe, get the support and encouragement of friends and family. You'll need to develop an exit plan because divorcing your abusive spouse may be difficult and dangerous.
@@andrewcolinwilson1 but you have to respect your partner if i know he didn't like something i'm not gonna do it but not (abusive) of course
@@loubnaelharcha4366 Why should you respect your partner if they don't respect you? If there is something they don't like, that's their problem. It doesn't need to be yours. And like I said, the most dangerous thing about spousal abuse is getting a divorce. You realize your spouse is abusive and you deserve better. But you know they will be really upset and you may find it difficult to divorce them. So what should you do to make your divorce successful and safe? Just like a lot of places have an emergency evacuation plan to get out in case of a fire, you need an exit plan to file for divorce from your abusive spouse. The first thing you should do is tell a parent or someone you trust. They'll give you the support and protection you'll need. If your spouse has been abusive during the marriage, there's no telling what they may do if you tell them you want a divorce. Secondly, it's crucial that you don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. If you do, they may be able to manipulate you not to divorce them or become violent. So have someone place hidden cameras around your home for the police to come and arrest your spouse so you can tell your spouse in front of them that you want a divorce before they lead them away to jail. Before you do, practice what you're going to say beforehand. That way, you can say it clearly and you won't forget. In the end of this video, we see how Lily tells her husband, Derek that she wants a divorce when the police arrest him.
Lily's Dad: Before the police take you away, Lily has something to say to you.
Derek: Come on, sweetheart tell them I love you. Because I love you, honey. Tell them what they need...
Lily: That's enough! I don't believe a word you say. You put on a mask of a lovely husband but only when it suits you. But now it's time to show off your true self. You are cruel, narcissistic, jealous and an empty man. Yes, you didn't lay a hand on me but what you did hurt me. Now it's over and I'm happy! You see? I'm happy because I will never see you again. The only thing I regret is that I have been in this silence for so long and I want a divorce and if and when you make bail, don't call me, text me or talk to me or even bother trying to get back in. I need you to leave me alone. Goodbye, Derek.
Finally, when the police arrest your spouse and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them and just in case your soon-to-be-ex-spouse makes bail, do not be alone with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse, leave your home unattended so that they could try to move back in or put yourself in situations where you'll be isolated from others. You'll need to change your routines. For instance, if there are places you usually go or if you have a job, the best thing you can do to change that routine is to take a different way to get to those places including your workplace or ask a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker to take you there and also, here's what you should do if they try to move back into your home. If I were Lily and Derek tried to move back into their apartment, I would keep the door locked and not open it for him. Instead, I would call her dad, her landlord, her house sitter or the security guard to escort Derek off the premises and also, here are some other changes you should make just in case your soon-to-be-ex-spouse makes bail and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them. Turn off your location so they can't see where you are. Block them on your cell phone and social media and replace and/or rekey the locks on the doors to your home so that their keys to your home will no longer work. Keep a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker with you whenever you go out, look for a roommate and hire a house sitter and find a police officer if your soon-to-be-ex-spouse won't leave you alone. So, let's review your spousal abuse exit plan; 1. Tell a parent or someone you trust. 2. Don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. 3. Last but not least, change your routines.
This was amazingly done. Over here in Australia we need a system like that , where all they need is the key and when you go out they install cameras, Really well don and brilliant acting. This derserves and award.
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Do not treat your spouse as your personal property. No woman should take such kind of abuse from her husband.
We cannot agree more!
Absolutely, Juhi. Thanks for watching! 🤗🤗🤗
So if I don't want to dress my wive certain way and she don't listen is it fair? Why woman want exposed to other man? What is the purpose of that?
@@IsderaCommendatore Well, there doesn't need to be any purpose of that and besides, Lily has every right to wear whatever she wants and go out with her friends whenever she wants. She's not going to get exposed by any other men and I don't see anything vulgar about that dress she was going to wear. It's obvious that Derek doesn't trust her and I'd hate to marry someone who doesn't trust me. The way Derek treated Lily is an example to all of us of how not to treat our spouses and/or partners if we really want our relationships and/or marriages to work. If Lily was my daughter and when she told her husband, Derek that she wanted a divorce when the police arrested him, I would have had her back by protecting her and telling her how to keep Derek out of the way just in case he made bail and before and after her divorce was final and before and after she got a restraining order against him.
@@IsderaCommendatorejust divorce your wife then. You're no one to dictate what she shouldn't or shouldn't wear, and she doesn't have to listen to you. She's not your child. Hook up with a barbie doll, she'll dress the way you want.
Artur nailed the role of an abusive husband perfectly, Tania nailed the role of an abused wife perfectly and Olga nailed the role of a saviour perfectly.
So glad you liked it, Gourav🙂 Thanks for commenting! 🤗
What's Tanias full name, she is fab actress, I would love to follow her on Instagram
@@brutalbeat5228 Tania Lav
@@gouravchakraborty9801 her name sounds indian though
@@shauxyapat3210 Tania lav is married and has a kid fyi
When an abusive husband or boyfriend is attacked by a man who is stronger than he is, he deserves to be humiliated and have his macho attitude beaten out of him. Any man who strikes or terrified a woman needs to be put behind bars and be beaten by tough men in prison to learn his lesson. He will know how a defenseless woman feels. Great show.
You're right, Frank. We're glad you liked it!!! 😊💜
@@DramatizeMe Umm........do you have stories about abusive wives beating husbands well because in my country that's the scenario .
Well said.
Absolutely Frank
even when his wife reacts! It happened to me once, got slapped, which enraged me so I attacked back, he was stunned, said that I scared him (he was double my weight). Then I left and ghosted him.
Awesome job guys hope some women in this situation see this and see how fast things escalate to violence or even death. Keep up the good work!
We're very glad you liked it, Dr Sandy🙂 Your opinion is important to us 🤗
Indeed it is astonishing 😲 how quickly things can deteriorate.
And that’s how abuse begins! It starts off verbal, & escalates to Physical & eventually; death!! No one should have to live that kind of life!! Seek help as quickly as possible, & don’t wait until it becomes deadly! No one is above the law, I don’t care how powerful they think they are! Never be someone’s whipping post or doormat! I pray things are better for you all in Ukraine. 👏
Good Job
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Threatened with scissors? that's way to escalated already.
Hundred percent absolutely right.
@@6alcantara Yes, the scissors part was threatening.
The man who played Derek is a wonderful actor. I've seen him portraying as a good/bad guy in different episodes. In this one, He plays as a ruthless, controlling husband who forbids his wife from going out. I'm glad he got what he deserved in the end. The woman Tania is a very pretty actress. I've also seen her play in many episodes and she's very good. Dramatize Me, You're the coolest!! 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
Thank you! Our whole team is so happy to read your comment!
I wonder what his name is!!! 😊🧐
@@ml482_spandy Arthur Ignatenko
@@DisfattBidge-i2x Thanks. How about the girl who play as a wife?
@@ml482_spandy Tania Lav
My ex tried a few things in the first couple of years he tried to build up this level and that’s when during a verbal confrontation he kicked me. When I defended myself I came close to braking his arm (which took about 2 weeks to heal) and scared the shit out him. He was almost twice my size. He did apologize and meant it. Never had another problem. My cocky self told him maybe he should pick on somebody his own size. Bullies can be shut down if you stand up for yourself.
Great. That son of the gun got what he deserved.
It's often like that, Judith. Thanks for sharing your story 🙂🌼
Good for you. Hope you are OK now.
Cap.
My ex husband always took it out on me until I stood up for myself . I told him the next time he hit me he would hit the floor . I left the abuser .
Thankyou so much for still making content through this terrible time . This brings back memories of when I was suffering 5 years of torture xx
It's always a pleasure for us, dear Antoinette 🤗 But war only brings pain and suffering! We just want to live and work in peace! 🙏💙💛
@@DramatizeMe I hope the war in Ukraine ends. India is trying its best to stop the war and will give humanitarian help.
Olga is a great actor. I love her simplicity..
Thank God I'm single and FREE.i don't want no bother out of any man and that's the bottom line
Tania Lav.. I admire how brave you are on your facebook videos defending Ukraine❤️❤️
The wife deserves better than Derek and he deserves to be in prison.
Absolutely, Stacy. Thanks for watching! 🤗🤗🤗
@@DramatizeMe you’re welcome.
Exactly!
@@123dramas thanks for agreeing with me.
I know right. Because we see in the end of this video when she tells him she wants a divorce when the police arrest him.
Lily: (to Derek) You put on a mask of a lovely husband but only when it suits you. But now it's time to show off your true self. You are cruel, narcissistic, jealous and an empty man. Yes, you didn't lay a hand on me but what you did hurt me. Now it's over and I'm happy! You see? I'm happy because I will never see you again. The only thing I regret is that I have been in this silence for so long and I want a divorce and if and when you make bail, don't call me, text me or talk to me or even bother trying to get back in. I need you to leave me alone. Goodbye, Derek.
I feel bad for women who can't protect themselves against a controlling insecure man. He leaves the house and he sleeps. Thats when I would make my escape. I would live on the street before I put up with that crap. There're a lot of people that can help. They have to take that scary step and save their life
When your isolated have no friends or family, no job skills, no access to bank accounts and what happens if you have kids?
Morals of the story:
1. Marriages are about love, not control.
2. Abuse should never be tolerated.
3. Men must control their emotions at all times.
4. Abusers must be held accountable for their actions.
Thanks for weighing in! 🤗
All people, whether men or women, must learn to control their emotions. If everyone did that, this world would be a much better place to live in.
Your videos are always so amazing!!! They feel so real like I’m watching a movie.
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If my husband ever held a pair of scissors to my throat, he would be divorced, and I'd take him to the cleaner. No sympathy for abusers. I consider myself lucky that I have a loving husband and we make a good team.
Thank you for sharing. We wish your family all the happiness in the world!
You Are So Right!!
Thank you DM fam. Hope everyone is doing well and hope all fam are safe and sound. Praying continuously for all of you and Ukraine. God bless
Thank you for thinking of us. Thank you for watching us. Your support is so precious!
What an outstanding script! And Heartiest Congrats Dramatizeme.. You're soon to be 2M family! Really happy for you ☺ More power to you and for the brightest future ahead of you 💛💙💛
Hi Dr. Diya👋🙂 We can’t thank you enough for your support. It really means a lot to us 💙💛
I know what the woman in this video went through. I was with my abusive ex for 8&1/2 years. I finally left him back on October 30th 2019. But my advice to all women and men living with an abuser is to get out while you can
I know right. If I were in Lily's shoes after filing for divorce from Derek when the police arrested him, I would probably also file for a restraining order.
She sure know how to bring a tear in her eyes.
Absolutely, CHeath. Thanks for watching! 🤗🤗🤗
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I love these actors and the realistic acting!! Thank you very much for this story. 💕
Glad you enjoyed it! Our actors work so hard, and your comment is so rewarding.
Thank you, thank you my dear dear DramatizeMe for coming out with another block buster. My favourite Olga is back, God bless 🙏her.
You're so welcome, dear Fatima 💜 Like always! 🥰😉
The actor who plays the abusive husband is a great actor, for being his first time playing the villian, he does a really good job at it.👏
Thank you very much for your feedback, Manuel. You'll always be welcome here! 🤗🤗🤗
A parent should never treat his or her child the way this man treated his wife.
Glad to see you posting another video, I know you are safe.
Her husband is insane beware ladies in choosing your lifetime partner this video served as a reminder to all. The scriptwriter of DramatizedMe videos is an expertise in all aspect of living of people, he emphasize very well what's going on our society tnx more power from the Philippines with love 😊
Hi Dramatizeme! Thanks a million for the upload. I have learned in this video that fear is just a feeling. They say when you feel scared it means you are about to do something really brave. ❤️❤️❤️
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Excuses, excuses . . . There's NEVER any excuse for hitting a woman!
Of course that is why barriers are established in a relationship for a woman and a man, we learn about each other, we learn about our preferences and needs. Apparently, this guy's preference was for his woman not to show more in public than he would like.
@@IsderaCommendatorethen he should've just married someone who would submit to his cowardly standards. Not a woman who's aware of her rights.
Unless it's necessary to defend yourself or your property.
@IsderaCommendatore She has the right to dress however she wants to dress. If he doesn't like it, then he should marry someone else.
@@yogalover2753exactly.. no point in trying to force someone to be a certain way.. if you don't like who they are go meet someone else
Both the women's are my favorite actresses. Really love this video and it happens everywhere in the world.
Get a plan and leave. It never gets better. I was married to a man like this. I finally got my freedom only because he passed away on January 5th, 2023.
I know right and this is how to divorce your abusive spouse by developing that exit plan;
1. Tell a parent or someone you trust.
2. Don't ask for a divorce alone.
3. Change your routines.
I’m so glad I am subscribed to you guys channel because you never disappoint us.
The number one thing abusers say to their victims: "I'm sorry" or "I was drunk." This was very good right here. Very good actors, awesome plot & very intense. Thanks for sharing and have a nice day!
Hi Steve. We are so happy you liked it! ❤️ Please come for more stories that matter. Thank you very much for asking 🙂
@@DramatizeMe You're welcome. Keep making these good videos!
Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for another blessed and marvelous day. Today, we can get through anything knowing that You are beside us every step of the way. We thank You in advance for opening doors for all who need jobs, for healing the sick, and for keeping us and our loved ones safe from all harm, seen and unseen. We are depending on You, knowing that our help cometh from the Lord. In Jesus Name we pray, Amen. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Ameen
Amen.
Amen, dear Amelia 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen God bless you my dear sister
Amen
Unfortunately sometimes the bruises are on the inside where no one can see but you; and you can definitely feel them. So if you are an abusive relationship please get out! And get help
Thank you so much for sharing this message, Voni 🤗🤗
Voni, I absolutely agree with you. Sometimes those bruises inside are worse than the ones outside!! I know what I would do. First, I would ask Jesus to rebuke the devil out of him , & if need be; I would grab my skillet & knock him out!! Self defense!! This is a real story that happened in my hometown. A husband kept being abusive in every way to his wife, the wife waited until he was sound asleep, sewed him up in the sheets, went out to the garage & got a baseball bat!! She worked him over good & gave him a taste of his own medicine! She told him that morning as he was trying to speak after the horrific beating that if he ever touched her roughly again, or even abused her verbally/ emotionally, that next time would be much worse!!! He never raised his voice or hit her again!!! 😄😂 I think she got her point across!!
I agree. I was also a victim of verbal and mental abuse from my ex husband and in laws.
@@aneettalal7117 I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully you have received the necessary support to get past that. I also hope that you know that you are a good person a valued person a worthy person
Great story and I’m glad you’re back DramatizeMe and I’d like to say I’m sorry for what happened in Ukraine. I also grew up in war zone.
Thank you for your kind words! Thank you for sharing. It must have been so hard for you.
All women should be treated like Queens!!!
What about men? isn't it necessary for a women to treat his man like a king too?
Of course it goes both ways. 👍😁👍
@@donontario Dude...💀💀Why do you have to only remember about men when we are talking about women? There are multiple channels for men protection as well. Go watch those and don't comment here if you only wanna say crap like this.
@@kimyn6974 Who said I only remember about men? You can literally find a comment above that I made 24 hours ago saying "I would never treat a woman like that" with a pensive face emoji, speaking of remembering, the above guy only remembered about women to treat them as Queens, Also I referred this because my EX demanded the same "tReAt mE liKe a QuEen" whilst she treated me like a trash, the phrase
"All women should be treated like Queens" is wrong because not all men are treated like Kings even the good and loyal ones same goes for women
@@donontario You did? Honestly speaking I didn't see it and I will admit I made a mistake there. And yes you're right...everyone should be treated like Kings or Queens irrespective of their gender, sexuality, caste or nationality. The only reason I said it because...I have a page on Insta that highlights women problems in the society...and over there a lot of stupid people comment about men problems when it's clearly a page for women. I was arguing with a whole lot of people like that for a long time...and your comment...I am sorry. I really am. I didn't mean to offend anyone. Honestly.
Moreover, I am sorry for what you have gone through. You shouldn't have been treated like that at all. There are lots of girls who won't treat you like that. Promise. You did right to break up with her. 😌😌
Tania's acting is outstanding. Respect 👍
Thank you for your kind comment ❤️
Sending my love from Puerto Rico to all my Ukrainian friends.
🙂❤Hugs to all our friends in Puerto Rico! 🤗🇵🇷🇺🇦🤗
Thank you...been here for thirteen years. ❤❤
When she started telling him off at the 8:00 mark or so, "I don't believe a word you say," I was hoping she'd call him a "Putin." It's a new curse word in the world, nowadays.
I know right. When she filed for divorce from him in the end of this video, they should have also shown her filing for a restraining order against him.
Natanyahoo is better insult
DramatizeMe is the best episode....never boring to watching it
Big No! I have zero tolerance in any abusive behavior. Verbal/non verbal violance has the same impact in destroying someone's life.
Unfortunately, until today, some people are still considering verbal/non physical violence as a common thing in marriage life.
This video educates us how the verbal abuse hurts as bad as the physical abuse.
Thank you, DramatizeMe...
Thank you for your comment, dear Rafi! ❤️
Exactly, like in my household.
Thank you dramatize me crew❤️
Thank you for watching us! ❤️❤️❤️
Actors in this video:
Lav Tania
Artur Ignatenko
Olga Safronova
I think this result will help you
Omg the dereck's acting gave me goosebumps ..it's like real abuser ..😯
the guy who played dereek is my favorite actor i thought he left the channel , happpy to see him back .
Hi Stereotypes and Roasters👋🙂 Thanks for commenting. Your opinion is important for us 🤗
When anyone abuses their partner, it's due to insecurity....the one trait which makes souls unattractive inside and out.
I know right. And if you suspect someone is a victim of domestic violence, ask the victim, "What's going on?" Remind the victim that abuse is not always physical. Ask the victim, "Is your spouse the reason you gave up on your social life? It seems the marriage is all about them. They should want you to have fun." Encourage the victim not to give up on their social life because of a marriage. Tell the victim, "We have to call the police." The victim may be afraid or not want your help. However, they are in an unsafe situation and need the support and encouragement of family and friends to file for divorce from their abusive spouses. The victim needs to develop an exit plan because getting divorced from your abusive spouse may be difficult and dangerous.
That video reminds me of my ex husband.
I always covered for him and pretented that he was a great husband
In front of people he treated me with respect,showed people that I was his world ,
Behind doors he treated me like trash,abused me verbally,hit /punch me .one day he pushed me and I hurted my knees and could barely walk ,when I went to work my supervisors kept asking me why I walked the way I walked ,what happened to my knees/legs I told them that I hurted my knees while I was doing something .one of them knew that I was lying because he saw him verbally abuse me in the parking lot once .he almost killed me one day I said enough is enough and I put my feet down I called the police and got him arrested while in there he called me and beg for my forgiveness I forgave him and dropped the charge ,he promised me that he was going to change but when he got out he didn't change a bit ,he started doing the same things to me so one day I told myself i got to get out of this marriage and I left him now I'm so happy that I made the right choice which is separated
It's terrible that you had to endure all that, Angel wonderland 😔 But we're glad you are happy now 💜
😥 they never change that's the problem
😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤ I understand
So proud that the woman came to the girl’s rescue. Episode of March of women. Good job. Power to the women. Amazing episode. Olga is such an amazing, gorgeous actress. She has my respect ✊🤟🤝🤝
These kinds of abuse is unacceptable, I would love nothing more than to beat the living hell outta of a man who puts his hands on defenseless woman, to all the ladies from around the world, if you're a victim of an abuse physically and/or mentally, speak up, don't go silent. Only a cowards can put their hands on defenseless women
She Needs to leave him ASAP!! Smh
This is more than words can express, this is not a over protective husband, this a mentally challenge that she is dealing with, she puts a smile on her face to hide the pain,but we all know its not for real.
Spousal abuse is not OK and that is against the law, I’m glad Derek is not Lily's husband anymore and they should have also shown her getting a restraining order against him!
He's not mentally challenged, he's just straight-up evil.
Such a good story and ur actors act like a very professional person . That was actually incredible.
Thank you for your kind comment! 🧡 Our actors work so hard, and it's so inspiring to read your words.
I would never treat a woman like that 😔
That's good to know! 🤗
Glad you Post again. Every Person has a right to be respected. But it is mostly women who are abused. Thanks for this lecture and love to you all.💞
Thank you dear Silvia 🤗
We ❤ you too, Silvia!
To me he's a miserable man that lives in the dark ages he will be in jail to learn his place never hit and forbid a woman to get your way in life.
You're right, Kanna231. He got what he deserved! 😉
This is why I'm staying out of relationships cuz of that.
For all the women out there that had bad experiences like this, need to know - "Mens are not worth it".
I'm always focusing on my friends & family who loved me, support me & accept me for who I am
Hi Marcella👋🙂 Thanks for commenting. Your opinion is important for us 🤗🌺
@@DramatizeMe you're welcome 🤗💖
@@DramatizeMe to tell u the truth my friend from college had boyfriend back then but then later he cheated on her, never appreciated her, never give her gifts, he became alcoholism, cuss at her & everything... all boyfriends of hers treated her like trash. I felt really sorry for her & she didnt deserve to be treated like that, she deserves life & love from her family & friends including me & my mom.
Me & my mom support her & told her the important quote routine "Mens are not worth it".
I love how Derek acts 🤭🤭it's real thank you dramatize me 😘you always make my day 😘
Thanks to you, Claire, for all your kindness 🤗🤗🤗
Just Because They haven't hit you yet doesn't mean it's not abuse
I agree. So true. Love this story line and how much it means to me.
There's also verbal abuse. Words can hurt just as bad or even worse, making you feel worthless.
@@gracealexandre3381 evil takes many forms
@@robbiescheid4127 yep
@@mashajohns7810 right on
The man is dangerous especially when he told her to cut ✂️ up her lovely dress as he held the sissers to her throat he's evil & cruel.
I know right and she should have divorced him right then and there and the reason she didn't was because divorcing your abusive spouse can be dangerous.
As a man and would be husband, I always try to be mindful with my actions. I hate abusers and I need to make sure that I will not become one in the future
If there’s even a remote possibility that you would ever do that; please don’t marry!! If it runs in your family, you tend to have a bad temper etc,; those are signs, & only you know that. Pray & seek Jesus Christ, live for Him with all your heart. He loves you. 👏
@@PatriciaR.E. it never runs in my family. My parents are not abusive at all and so their parents. IMO it is better to realize that ANYONE can snap. A lot of these abusers never realized that what they did is wrong. All they know is that they are "protecting" their loved ones while actually they are just protecting their ego and insecurities.
Mindfulness is good. Telling someone not to marry in the future because of that, is toxic by itself.
@@arquitensproduction8001 correct.
I always look forward to your
videos❣️ They never dissapoint❣️
God bless you guys🙏
Woman dont be afraid to call a help deserve to be happy and free for abusive husband
I feel bad for this poor woman. I was in this same situation to with my grandfather. I had to move away from him. He abused me. Stay away from people like that.
He should be in jail for controlling her and threatening her because men who do that will hit you even blame you and they won't even get help for themselves because they like the control
I know right. This guy obviously doesn’t want his wife to be happy. If your spouse doesn’t like the clothes you wear or any of your friends, FILE FOR DIVORCE ASAP!!!
What if they still love each other that way?
Thank you Tania and Olga for your powerful performances.Please keep safe 🇺🇦🙏💕
What's Derek's real name?
Derek, Lily, and Molly are all amazing actor and actresses!! I would definitely give so many thumbs-up for them 👍👍👍😍 they've made this film alive and completely held us spellbound by their total performance! It's just like I was watching a whole thriller movie condensed into a short lovely video to watch 👍😍..
DramatizeMe is gonna win Internet. Dayuuumm its already more than 1 Million subscribers 💓💓💓
Good to see u guys posting. Much love to u all
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We do all we can...
Thank you for your support.
Derek Shame on you. Doing that kind of crap to your own wife. What the heck is wrong with you. Derek. Shame on you.
This abusive husband really scared me I thought he was gonna hit her in the shower. Husband have no right to stop wife from going out
We absolutely agree with you, Angelia. Thanks for commenting! 🤗🌷
@@DramatizeMe Of course, you are welcome.
3:46 The romantic part of the cycle of abuse. Sometimes the cycle of abuse can skip steps.
*Rules on how to keep your woman*
*1. Seperate her from her friends and family*
*2. Use Internet food shopping*
*3. Take away her mobile phone and other communication to the outside world*
*4. Show her the kitchen and bedroom*
*UNDERSTAND THESE SIGNS 😐👍*
But how do you check the bedroom part ?
She has every right to see her friends and family and to communicate with outside world.
I wouldn’t, if I was married, but I’m not. I’m waiting for marriage when I’m in my thirties. I’m trying to get into college, but I had to put it on hold because my father died. (This is true).
Dad in heaven, I love you and miss you so much!!!😔
Dear Michaela, we feel so much for your loss. Please stay strong.
We mourn your loss, Michaela. Thank you so much for sharing it with us 💜
Go do your education FIRST!!!! thats MORE important than some bozo dude who may end up abusing you.......this advice coming from a 64 yo single asian guy whos never been married.....and giving you advice ONLY!
Abuse be having people so blind it’s crazy
I know right and to prevent Derek from moving back into their apartment after asking him for a divorce when the police arrested him, Lily could set up a booby trap at their door.
Can't wait to see again you guys 🙂
We miss you too, dear Mariyam! 🙂
This situation really happen. I remember few years back my friend was abused physically and mentally by her husband, i saw how he was to her and i felt sorry for her. I witnessed when he poured water on her while we were eating at the table, i stayed in their house for sometime and that was the scariest moment in my life when i saw him abused her. He broke their house because she won't come out in one of their rooms, she was hiding and crying and i do not know what to do that time, just wanted to go out from the house and hide somewhere but it's already evening.
Then when i finally found a place to stay away from them, one evening the girl texted me that she was outside my place and it was raining, she had bruises in her hands. I just can't understand why he did that to her. Now they separated and she is living happily and free. So i can really relate on this story. This is really happening.
Thank you for sharing this story. We are so sorry for your friend. Nobody should experience that.
Thank you for showing the world what's really happening if the husband is abusive and crazy. You know what those kind of persons have mentally problem they should seek help also.
This jealous and controlling hubby is the vulgar one, restricting her freedom and movements. Derek and his wife Lily are heading for a divorce if this abuse doesn't stop, the fool!!
We agree with you, Eugene! He really deserves the karma! 😉
I know right. You don't need someone who restricts your freedom and movements.
My kids father use to beat me. For anything he was nice when we met but started changing when he met new friends. I wasn't aloud to leave the house but one day the power shut off at home I had to walk with the kids to the store to steal candles and snacks for the kids . He never left me any money. When he came home he seen the candles he knew I went out . The kids hid in the closet and he beat me so bad my eyes were swollen shut . He weighed over a hundred pounds more than me he kicked his foot in my spine now I can't walk much , I can't play with my kids like other mothers , the pain still there after all these years . He had fractured my spine and was ready to kill me . He started choking me and people bust through the door and got him off of me and he was arrested. My daughter's had ran out the closet when he took me to the bathroom to finish my punishment. They ran to the neighbors house . If it wasn't for my babies doing that I would have been dead.
Derek was not going to change he is to controlling
I love these stories! The acting is fantastic! I look forward to every new movie!!! Thank you so much! Stay safe!!!!
Thank you for your kind words! They are so rewarding and inspiring!
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This was a sad video. This man is a monster and he should be in jail and just rot there. He should never see the day of light.
Amazing work like always
Hi Shafaq👋🙂 Thank you very much! 🤗🌷
@@DramatizeMe welcome
Wow just wow
Girl just leave him
What a great acting 👏 👏
It’s good to know you enjoy the acting, five stars. We appreciate it! 😊
*I don't know what's the name of this actress "LILY" but she's really a good actress... And that actor "DEREK", he did that abuser role with such perfection... I must say that in this episode, the acting skills of both the actors was brilliant. I don't know the name of the actress but she's one of my favourite actresses...*
@@shauxyapat3210 Thank you for providing the information.
We're so glad you enjoy the acting, Sambhav. It means a lot to us! 🤗
Can't wait. ♥
These men are insanely jealous they think that being in control they have got you where they want you ,not happening get rid of bad rubbish before it's too late. They Never change.
*OMG ...they all ended up in the shower ...including the cop 😁👍*
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