Today's bonus tip at the end if very important. If you spot these signs and you like her back, it's important to have an idea of what you should do next. Let me know if you enjoyed today's video! I'll be checking back in shortly to see what your thoughts are. 😊
Anna, I'm loving your videos. Especially the older man/younger women videos. I'm 69 years old, but I look like I'm in my early 50's. I'm getting a lot of attention from girls in their 20's. I wasn't sure if they really liked me or not. Thanks for your advice, because I now know what the signs are. And I'm no longer confused as to why they are attracted to me. You're a very good teacher and I can't do without your videos.
Dear Joyanima thank you for replying too my previous message your video was very good when your in a flat on your own and those closest to you are good few miles away you need contact with the outside world though I go out several times a week having difficulty achieving my personal ambitions can get to me I want the lady who sings for me to be successful no one seems to have a solution ?Well it's Christmas soon have a merry one yourself ❤❤❤❤😊
Hello. Few months ago, I had a girl suddenly told me that " I am aware you are hot" . I just didn't know how to respond to her since she is far too younger than me and we are from a totally ethnic group. She is an Australian and I am from Hong Kong. After that, we still had a few connections but both of us seems very cautious every time we talk
I think the main take-away here is just: If she chooses to explicitly point out a specific trait that you have, then you can see it as a huge flirt attempt which was mean that she thinks you're so good you're worth making such a direct hint.
thanks for posting this video Anna I’ll be honest when I say I’ve never had experience with a middle school crush but that doesn’t mean I’ll lose hope in finding someone I like !
I greatly appreciate your videos and information. Relationships are sometimes complicated - because people are - and you do a great job to breaking down those complications into manageable bits of information. Keep 'em coming! Cheers!
"I don't know if I want you, but I don't want anyone else to have you!" - You'd think it would be nice to hear this...nope. In my younger days I had three girls say this to me, thank God I'm older and settled now (phew!)
1. She can also say this if she is putting you in the friend zone. 4. She can also say this if she is putting you in the friend zone. 5. She can also say this if she is putting you in the friend zone. 6. She will also say this if you’re in the friend zone. Basically a woman will act like all of these things if you’re in the friend zone. Early on just ask her. If she says you’re just a friend, move on.
Thank you for your message ,its always Nice to talk ,I get on with the vast majority of ladies I'm not keen on people saying I can't write,I've wrote well over 30 songs which have been well received ,although it was a man who critically moaned ,, Love you though ❤❤❤❤❤❤ xxx
I am 63 years old. I don't know what country and culture you originate, but when I was actively trying to date, your sentences were never used by potential lover, but by people that want to keep you around as best friend. Maybe it is my background in bilingual Montreal, but I never saw love with these. Only one got from Best Friend to lover, didn't work long, was mostly false engagement. I hope it works better for you and others. Anyway recipe books, psychological or not, rarely are functional, capacity to adapt, do
@joyanima I often smile at my crush with the tips you gave me in your previous videos. However, she avoids eye contact with me and I get the impression that she can’t stand me. I send her sweet texts with no responses, I’m a bit of a stoic man with a resting face and I smile with love in my eyes but she doesn’t smile. What advice what you recommend?
If someone shows interest in me it's almost always returned, even if I don't like them at first. I will explore possibilities with them. Only people that I dislike would be left wanting for attention but I might hear them out to see if they have a reason or solution they would explore. I'm very people oriented so if You speak to me, I will speak to You and try to bring some value to the conversation. If we go beyond just casual chatting it's welcome and appreciated.
@@James-4812 I miss all the clues too, I think it's conditioning, I've been in mostly long term relationships and my mindset just isn't about looking for my next partner. Try paying attention to seeing the one paying attention to You. If that makes sense. Creatures of habit we are, after You find someone be sure to stop looking for her and move Your attention to keeping what You already have. I don't date. I have zero advice for that. If You want a partner in life though just look at who is looking at You.
@@James-4812It's your approach method. She is in defense mode, not trusting you, and in protection mode. Change your approach, she will be more open to you.
@@James-4812 You kinda need to move towards getting to know someone before You jump straight to marriage. Maybe You like each other, maybe You don't. That's what the look is about, it's "hey I see You" then a conversation happens...hopefully more than a few times. After that if You seem to like each other still, ask about a public meet up. A date. Tada.
Dear Joyanima if a lady says its lovely to see you again and knowing that your a songwriter asks how are you doing with your songs does this mean she might like you
why does women or people never talks to me. i'm genuine nice guy, down to earth, easy to approach but yet no one ever pays attention or approaches me...ever
Some women are just building rapport because they're just friendly and kind or let's say it's just an affinity (of some kind) but not really they like the guy on a deeper level of attraction! There are just guys, who assume especially those who are desperately seeking for a partner or just for the sake of hook ups! I know a lot of men especially middle aged guys who can't stick to one partner! Always comes with bait to entice his prey!🥴🤔
She has shown about 20 signals you've outlined in many of your videos repeatedly EXCEPT... Breaking the touch barrier, (bumped into me a couple of times, probably nothing) And she's not texting me hardly at all (she HAS expressed repeatedly that she's self-conscious about her English and likes to practice writing. In fact Ive witnessed her writing quite a bit) BUT no matter how obvious she is in exhibiting all those other signals, those 2 are kinda important. Let's face it. Digital communication is how many relationships get started nowadays...
Anna oh Anna, I get told all of these but God forbid I try to make a move or anything, I get kicked to the curb in the blink of an eye because I am ugly and poor. And as we all know, ugly and poor is the biggest hurdle to approaching women. You can have the nicest and friendliest conversation but if u r ugly and poor this is all what u r going to get, just conversation. For things to go further with women, u have to have money or be a handsome guy Unfortunately, I am neither
Nice one. I feel like Han Solo navigating through space time and all angles, height, zoom and warp seem A OK. Hans Solo remembers and will reciprocate all information, its important when universal matters are at stake. Next mission Princess Leia soon, inevitable checkpoint. :) Bloody DARK SIDE...
None of my other friends come look for me the way she does when she doesnt hear from me for a week she'll get a boyfriend but has never stopped going out with me 7 years later here i am it isnt money or looks thats for sure
When youre horrid looking like me none of this stuff matters anyway as no female will come near anyone looking like me : unfortunately the downside to being to being damn ugly
Feels like it if she don't hear from me for a week she comes find me had had boyfriend's still makes time for me 7 years and we're still making plans to go places I don't understand
The sound on your videos is not great. I find it hard to follow. Can you invest in better microphones or do something about the ambience of your recording space?
@@Joyanima I've noticed it for a while now, and don't have the same issue with videos on other channels. It has become a factor in how often I view your channel. Thanks.
@@echotube2000 No, generally most RUclips videos/channels are fine. Some are not so good though, and it's usually the recording conditions. Either the room lacks sound-baffling, creating a harsh sound reflections, and/or the microphone quality and/or positioning are not up to the job to obtain a good voice recording.
Women are just like me, it's like they share the same consciousness 😆 It's nice to get compliments on your looks and how you dress. But getting it too much the specialty to it wears off. To be really appreciated are those compliments about your character and the things you do. Because well yeah, that is something almost nobody ever really compliments about 👀
Do you have another channel devoted to older men and younger women? I just noticed it. Makes no sense if you created it. Half the reason I listen to these is because of your accent
Give her a challenge. Something like ok, if I dress up, I want you to put on your best dress, shoes, etc. If if she says OK? Then tell her ina playful tone, oh no, we have to pink swear on this. Another thing you can do, is say something like oh I see you are into ZZ Top sharp dress man. Oh your a sly one aren't you? Let her reply, then say something like, oh I can be your sharp dress man, but wait 2 seconds to finish it. I Sorry I do not own a 33 Ford coup, so my ____ will have to work.
Sorry to hear that. Nope, just trying to provide more value in each point. Rather than just listing through things without providing more information on each. Lots of people indicates in a poll they would prefer more value, just need to find the sweet spot really. Tricky whenever any changes are made
Today's bonus tip at the end if very important. If you spot these signs and you like her back, it's important to have an idea of what you should do next. Let me know if you enjoyed today's video! I'll be checking back in shortly to see what your thoughts are. 😊
"Today's bonus tip at the end [IS] very important" ?...(Your SO welcome Anna 🌻 !).
Anna, I'm loving your videos.
Especially the older man/younger women videos. I'm 69 years old, but I look like I'm in my early 50's.
I'm getting a lot of attention from girls in their 20's. I wasn't sure if they really liked me or not.
Thanks for your advice, because I now know what the signs are.
And I'm no longer confused as to why they are attracted to me.
You're a very good teacher and I can't do without your videos.
Your content is top notch. You know how to deliver wisdom in a straight-to-the-point easy to understand way. This is pure gold.
i feel like i'm that girl to you
Dear Joyanima thank you for replying
too my previous message
your video was very good when your in
a flat on your own and those closest to you
are good few miles away you need contact
with the outside world though I go out
several times a week having difficulty
achieving my personal ambitions can get
to me I want the lady who sings for me
to be successful no one seems to have a
solution ?Well it's Christmas soon
have a merry one yourself ❤❤❤❤😊
Be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to be angry.
It feels so good when someone likes you back just as much you like them.
Hello. Few months ago, I had a girl suddenly told me that " I am aware you are hot" . I just didn't know how to respond to her since she is far too younger than me and we are from a totally ethnic group. She is an Australian and I am from Hong Kong. After that, we still had a few connections but both of us seems very cautious every time we talk
"You're such a great listener"
DOORMAT!!!
weirdly enough, sometimes a woman will just say "I like you" without the coded language
You're very insightful, Anna. Thank you for sharing that part of you.
I noticed that when I walk in a room and a girl is with her bf, shell distance herself immediately from him so it looks like they're just friends.
I think the main take-away here is just:
If she chooses to explicitly point out a specific trait that you have, then you can see it as a huge flirt attempt which was mean that she thinks you're so good you're worth making such a direct hint.
Listen and observe. Don't just listen.
thanks for posting this video Anna I’ll be honest when I say I’ve never had experience with a middle school crush but that doesn’t mean I’ll lose hope in finding someone I like !
I greatly appreciate your videos and information. Relationships are sometimes complicated - because people are - and you do a great job to breaking down those complications into manageable bits of information. Keep 'em coming! Cheers!
I simply loved this video beautiful and exciting Anna!❤❤
So, she feels SO safe with me, that she can't tell me she likes me? That's 🤣😂😂😂😂
@JustinArutI know how to turn tables on that one, and get her to chase you.
She probably doesn’t feel comfortable just coming out and saying it.
@@joemyler2958how?
@smoothlyrough512 when she says that it’s a sign for you to keep moving forward big shot.
What about dancing when they are with you and facing you and near you from her back side against your front side while dancing?
"I don't know if I want you, but I don't want anyone else to have you!" - You'd think it would be nice to hear this...nope. In my younger days I had three girls say this to me, thank God I'm older and settled now (phew!)
1. She can also say this if she is putting you in the friend zone.
4. She can also say this if she is putting you in the friend zone.
5. She can also say this if she is putting you in the friend zone.
6. She will also say this if you’re in the friend zone.
Basically a woman will act like all of these things if you’re in the friend zone. Early on just ask her. If she says you’re just a friend, move on.
Perhaps go on a date over dinner and have conversation over dinner
I am not sure your right or wrong I really don't care I love watching your videos because your beautiful and love your English accent.
Hi Anna, Yes I'm thankful for the time you put into your work. It's been very helpful in my life. Moving forward is best for me. 😊
Good luck! Glad to hear you're finding them helpful
@@Joyanima you helped me want to live and love again ? 🤗
THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL,SMART, LOVE YOUR CONTENT USA KY. PHILIP
Thank you for your message ,its always
Nice to talk ,I get on with the vast majority
of ladies I'm not keen on people saying
I can't write,I've wrote well over 30 songs
which have been well received ,although
it was a man who critically moaned ,,
Love you though ❤❤❤❤❤❤ xxx
..this video is getting somewhere, thanks 😉..
I am 63 years old. I don't know what country and culture you originate, but when I was actively trying to date, your sentences were never used by potential lover, but by people that want to keep you around as best friend. Maybe it is my background in bilingual Montreal, but I never saw love with these. Only one got from Best Friend to lover, didn't work long, was mostly false engagement. I hope it works better for you and others. Anyway recipe books, psychological or not, rarely are functional, capacity to adapt, do
Ecclesiastes 3:13
And also that every man should eat and drink, and enjoy the good of all his labour, it is the gift of God.
What does it mean if a person seems jokingly ask for money from you.
I had a woman tell me that she felt so comfortable around me I took it and ran with it and then she revealed she was being sarcastic 😢
Anna, you are just wonderful.... take care and have a Happy Holidays!
@joyanima
I often smile at my crush with the tips you gave me in your previous videos. However, she avoids eye contact with me and I get the impression that she can’t stand me. I send her sweet texts with no responses, I’m a bit of a stoic man with a resting face and I smile with love in my eyes but she doesn’t smile. What advice what you recommend?
I enjoy your videos!
If someone shows interest in me it's almost always returned, even if I don't like them at first. I will explore possibilities with them. Only people that I dislike would be left wanting for attention but I might hear them out to see if they have a reason or solution they would explore. I'm very people oriented so if You speak to me, I will speak to You and try to bring some value to the conversation. If we go beyond just casual chatting it's welcome and appreciated.
@@James-4812 I miss all the clues too, I think it's conditioning, I've been in mostly long term relationships and my mindset just isn't about looking for my next partner. Try paying attention to seeing the one paying attention to You. If that makes sense. Creatures of habit we are, after You find someone be sure to stop looking for her and move Your attention to keeping what You already have. I don't date. I have zero advice for that. If You want a partner in life though just look at who is looking at You.
@@James-4812It's your approach method. She is in defense mode, not trusting you, and in protection mode. Change your approach, she will be more open to you.
@@James-4812 You kinda need to move towards getting to know someone before You jump straight to marriage. Maybe You like each other, maybe You don't. That's what the look is about, it's "hey I see You" then a conversation happens...hopefully more than a few times. After that if You seem to like each other still, ask about a public meet up. A date. Tada.
Does Anna ever do any of these?
Dear Joyanima if a lady says its lovely
to see you again and knowing that your
a songwriter asks how are you doing
with your songs does this mean she
might like you
I'd say, first, learn how to write. Punctuation is your friend.🙄
Dear Joel
I thought someone might mention this
somewhere down the line
Hello Anna,thx a lot for sharing your knowledge and thoughts with us. Wishing you a wonderful evening and upcoming week. Cheers 🎉❤
Thanks Anna. Always listening and learning beautiful.
I now when she says slide it in right to the top😎🎸🎸🎸🇳🇴🇱🇷
why does women or people never talks to me. i'm genuine nice guy, down to earth, easy to approach but yet no one ever pays attention or approaches me...ever
Don't give up
Hey there Anna 😊
Hello!
Some women are just building rapport because they're just friendly and kind or let's say it's just an affinity (of some kind) but not really they like the guy on a deeper level of attraction! There are just guys, who assume especially those who are desperately seeking for a partner or just for the sake of hook ups! I know a lot of men especially middle aged guys who can't stick to one partner! Always comes with bait to entice his prey!🥴🤔
Testing, testing, testing, 1-2-3. Lots, fellows. Yeah, i find asking the Sphinx all day long very bolstering.
She has shown about 20 signals you've outlined in many of your videos repeatedly EXCEPT...
Breaking the touch barrier, (bumped into me a couple of times, probably nothing)
And she's not texting me hardly at all (she HAS expressed repeatedly that she's self-conscious about her English and likes to practice writing. In fact Ive witnessed her writing quite a bit)
BUT no matter how obvious she is in exhibiting all those other signals, those 2 are kinda important.
Let's face it. Digital communication is how many relationships get started nowadays...
If my ex says she watches my tiktoks what does that mean?
When you meet her in a dream then you are both connecting at a higher level.
Does this also apply to texting?
Anna oh Anna, I get told all of these but God forbid I try to make a move or anything, I get kicked to the curb in the blink of an eye because I am ugly and poor.
And as we all know, ugly and poor is the biggest hurdle to approaching women.
You can have the nicest and friendliest conversation but if u r ugly and poor this is all what u r going to get, just conversation.
For things to go further with women, u have to have money or be a handsome guy
Unfortunately, I am neither
Hello Anna. Would you make a video about the signs that older women likes younger men. Thank you very much 😊
Nice one. I feel like Han Solo navigating through space time and all angles, height, zoom and warp seem A OK.
Hans Solo remembers and will reciprocate all information, its important when universal matters are at stake. Next mission Princess Leia soon, inevitable checkpoint. :) Bloody DARK SIDE...
Do be carefull though. Later, princess Lea left him and his own son killed him.😬
None of my other friends come look for me the way she does when she doesnt hear from me for a week she'll get a boyfriend but has never stopped going out with me 7 years later here i am it isnt money or looks thats for sure
Thanks Anna!
You are awesome ❤
When youre horrid looking like me none of this stuff matters anyway as no female will come near anyone looking like me : unfortunately the downside to being to being damn ugly
What if she asks kind of off-topic whether I have a roommate? I can see that going either way.
Reading between the lines.....
Thats the clue in all your videos l think.
Can you be in a relationship with a woman even if she says you're just friends
Feels like it if she don't hear from me for a week she comes find me had had boyfriend's still makes time for me 7 years and we're still making plans to go places I don't understand
Hi Anna, are you AI?
Nooooooooooooooooooooooo!
Is it possible that you are my wife to be? If so what airport do I fly to get to know you better?
The sound on your videos is not great. I find it hard to follow. Can you invest in better microphones or do something about the ambience of your recording space?
Possibly an issue with the export settings on the editing software. Will investigate though, thank you
@@Joyanima I've noticed it for a while now, and don't have the same issue with videos on other channels. It has become a factor in how often I view your channel. Thanks.
It's like the sound is compressed (maybe?)
I don’t have a problem with the sound. Maybe it’s a playback setting problem
@@echotube2000 No, generally most RUclips videos/channels are fine. Some are not so good though, and it's usually the recording conditions. Either the room lacks sound-baffling, creating a harsh sound reflections, and/or the microphone quality and/or positioning are not up to the job to obtain a good voice recording.
Women are just like me, it's like they share the same consciousness 😆
It's nice to get compliments on your looks and how you dress.
But getting it too much the specialty to it wears off.
To be really appreciated are those compliments about your character and the things you do.
Because well yeah, that is something almost nobody ever really compliments about 👀
Yews means lines a pet ?
Very Classy in black 🔥😍🔥
Compatibility comment here
Opposites do scientifically have greater satisfaction in their relationships
What does it mean when she laughs and says she hates you? The exact opposite?😑👈🤔😐
Some women will act mean but actually like you.... they're weird like us men tbh lol
Do you have another channel devoted to older men and younger women?
I just noticed it. Makes no sense if you created it. Half the reason I listen to these is because of your accent
What if she says I would like to see you in a nice outfit that you have
Ask her if you can see her in her under garments
Do not do that. Ask whether she has a particular occasion in mind.
Give her a challenge. Something like ok, if I dress up, I want you to put on your best dress, shoes, etc. If if she says OK? Then tell her ina playful tone, oh no, we have to pink swear on this. Another thing you can do, is say something like oh I see you are into ZZ Top sharp dress man. Oh your a sly one aren't you? Let her reply, then say something like, oh I can be your sharp dress man, but wait 2 seconds to finish it. I Sorry I do not own a 33 Ford coup, so my ____ will have to work.
Note: This one is written badly. Convoluted. Not like the others. Different writer?
Sorry to hear that. Nope, just trying to provide more value in each point. Rather than just listing through things without providing more information on each. Lots of people indicates in a poll they would prefer more value, just need to find the sweet spot really. Tricky whenever any changes are made
Listening to RUclips videos is like watching a con artist running their craft.
Am I first
I don't think anyone really cares. You didn't win anything.
@@smoothlyrough512
Evidently you cared enough to comment 😂😂😂👌
Can't watch !!! I ask you a question NO REPLY Thanks for NOTHING
Lady.. women never talk like that
You don't speak clear