Make Your Specific Person Prioritize You

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  • Опубликовано: 13 янв 2025

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  • @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams
    @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams  4 года назад +6

    GET YOUR SP NOW! Join the *FREE* 😍 MANIFEST A SPECIFIC PERSON MASTERCLASS here: bit.ly/manifestspmasterclass

  • @luvacation1681
    @luvacation1681 4 года назад +413

    “Don’t mistake your fears for their feelings.” I mean, I can’t even. So good. Thank you!

    • @Handleisnotavailable1
      @Handleisnotavailable1 4 года назад +7

      Super powerful and so real!!!

    • @choochee8396
      @choochee8396 4 года назад +3

      That part ^^^

    • @vandoan8295
      @vandoan8295 3 года назад +1

      this is so true... think and act with LOVE, forget that fear

    • @lilwicked76
      @lilwicked76 3 года назад +2

      I treat myself as a priority and the world does the same 🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽

  • @Handleisnotavailable1
    @Handleisnotavailable1 4 года назад +93

    "If you expect it, you are opening the door for it" OH MY GOD!!!!!!

  • @ShrutiKashyapSinger
    @ShrutiKashyapSinger 4 года назад +154

    The answer is "mental diet". Get on top of it and prioritise your imagination. Trust it at all times.

    • @shreyashrey9155
      @shreyashrey9155 4 года назад

      Hi di..from India 🙋 can u please elaborate on what u have said..

    • @ShrutiKashyapSinger
      @ShrutiKashyapSinger 4 года назад +9

      @@shreyashrey9155 I advise you to go listen to Neville goddard's mental diet audio here on youtube. Roxy is a great mentor too but for me personally i find Neville goddard's teaching life changing. It's a 40 min video. After which doubt will never even lurk around you. Enjoy!

    • @northerngypsysoul
      @northerngypsysoul 2 года назад

      @@ShrutiKashyapSinger going there now, thank you!

  • @hennahussain8450
    @hennahussain8450 4 года назад +218

    Who else thinks Roxy should do a makeup tutorial 😊

  • @Nat_may19
    @Nat_may19 4 года назад +173

    When you said "don't mistake your fears for their feelings" that hit me hard. I had to pause the video and clap. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @dellapinkgold
    @dellapinkgold 4 года назад +103

    About 3 weeks ago I realized I was dedicating too much of my time obsessing over my sp and where his head was at, so I decided to stay off all my social media and take some serious time to focus on my shit. I'm exercising, getting better at my hobbies, going back to school, etc. I know he is on the horizon for me, and that's what I remind myself of any time negative thoughts try to intrude, but even more rewarding is the knowledge that I am bettering myself for ME. 🤩 💜 That has bred genuine, pure excitement in my life rather than the kind of yucky/anxious excitement of worrying about what he was doing or saying and then finally hearing from him. The truth is that nothing he could possibly do or say would be enough for me if I didn't value myself, period. And now I do. 💚

    • @exoticbloomingflowergirl
      @exoticbloomingflowergirl 4 года назад +1

      BAM! 💥

    • @fehermarcell6826
      @fehermarcell6826 4 года назад +6

      'The truth is that nothing he could possibly do or say would be enough for me if I didn't value myself, period.' EXACTLY!!!

  • @jojo33456
    @jojo33456 4 года назад +84

    It’s so crazy how much he treats me so good 🥺💗 he keeps texting me through the day NO MATTER what he is doing. He is so in love with me and he keeps telling everyone that he KNOWS that I am the one and I am so thankful for him being everything that I want and ever dreamed of

  • @fatouj1191
    @fatouj1191 4 года назад +96

    I treat myself like a priority and EVERYONE does the same. Healing from the inside out.

  • @orionbrooke
    @orionbrooke 4 года назад +71

    short answer: prioritize yourself!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shanicejohnson7505
    @shanicejohnson7505 3 года назад +7

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same. My SP worships the ground that I walk on. He lets me know how much he loves me. He looks at me as if I was sent from God just for him. He is happy that I’m giving him a son on February of 2022. Any other woman disgusts him that is not me. Thank you God. Thank you universe.

  • @kitkatrml
    @kitkatrml 4 года назад +66

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same, I know that's right!! lol

  • @marinikaP
    @marinikaP 4 года назад +76

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same !
    I'll also keep this in mind :
    "PERCEIVE them in a different way, and you'll RECEIVE them in a different way."
    Love this subject, as well as the realization of how the feeling of lack of priority is simply a reflection of ourselves not prioritizing ourselves, our own fulfillment, happiness, giving positive attention to ourselves, confidence. Time to prioritize ourselves as the most beautiful and powerful manifestation !
    Others prioritize me, because I am prioritizing myself, basically !
    Thanks for this video, Roxy !! !

  • @julieturner8011
    @julieturner8011 2 года назад +2

    My sps prioritise me. They shower me with attention, tell me their deepest darkest secrets, they treat me so good, invite me everywhere. Put me first, they love everything about me an always come when u call. I can do no wrong. I am unique, the prize. They love my company we always have fun, within reason ❤️

  • @ThirdEyeSpy333
    @ThirdEyeSpy333 4 года назад +25

    “Everybody follows the script... INCLUDING you!” 👏🏼

  • @keisha1109
    @keisha1109 4 года назад +72

    Omg tonight I was getting hot and cold behaviour from my sp and him not proritzing me and then I open up RUclips and bam Roxy you have exactly what I desire. Also I will add I bought your workshop and I’m learning so much I’m just now learning to apply it

    • @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams
      @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams  4 года назад +9

      You are on the right path, doll! I'm happy to hear you are enjoying the course. Dive into the work and focus and you will get great results!

    • @keisha1109
      @keisha1109 4 года назад +1

      Roxy Talks - Manifest Your Dreams thank you Roxy!

  • @cielasouzaf
    @cielasouzaf 3 года назад +6

    “I treat myself like a priority, and the world those the same”

  • @jptak77
    @jptak77 4 года назад +19

    I did that in my last relationship. I let my fears equal his feelings. He was me pushed out.
    I am so happy I found Roxy!!

  • @rubyhoernlen5065
    @rubyhoernlen5065 3 года назад +9

    I treat myself like a priority, and the world does the same. My script is reality. I am the version of myself that I need to be for everything to fall into place, as the world is a reflection of myself. I am the vibrational match for the reality I desire.
    Thank you Roxy.

  • @raisinhellxo
    @raisinhellxo 3 года назад +13

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same. I am the first priority and first best and my SP knows so. Thank you Roxy! Another amazing analogy :)

  • @ariananails
    @ariananails 4 года назад +17

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same. I love you, Roxy!!

  • @vivianatorres3509
    @vivianatorres3509 4 года назад +11

    I used to think I’m not beautiful or enough I used to think I wasn’t worthy those were my limiting beliefs but from now on I know I am gorgeous I am deserving I am worthy

  • @Comicbookdad21
    @Comicbookdad21 Год назад +1

    I treat myself like a priorioty and the rest of the world treats me as a priority

  • @kamaldon13
    @kamaldon13 4 года назад +27

    I love when you burst out with the affirmations! I use them all the time, your teachings are great thank you so much! I am in the process of bringing the version of my SP that I want. Because, I always get what I want 😉

  • @user-ob1hc3bi9x
    @user-ob1hc3bi9x 4 года назад +20

    Thank you, Roxy! This is literally the first comment I have ever posted on RUclips, but I just had to say thanks. I have been trying to get published for six years. I worked on scripting and affirmations for one day, and I got my first manuscript request today!

  • @danielleharris1651
    @danielleharris1651 3 года назад +5

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the exact same for me. I show up for the world and the world shows up for me. It always has and always will

  • @EventStreetPhotographybyMassa
    @EventStreetPhotographybyMassa 2 года назад +1

    " PERCEIVE them in a different way.. and you will RECEIVE them in a different way! "

  • @NinaBanina647
    @NinaBanina647 4 года назад +16

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same!

  • @maemedal9919
    @maemedal9919 3 года назад +7

    "If you expect it. You open the door for it"
    So powerful! Binging all your videos! Love it!

  • @yam-ddoie.day6younghyun.832
    @yam-ddoie.day6younghyun.832 3 года назад +2

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same. I affirmed and do believe

  • @aocean99
    @aocean99 2 года назад +1

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same! My darling he value me. He shower me with all his attention. He treat me like a queen. He put everything down in his life for me. He is desperate for my attention and he afraid of losing me. He is obsessed with me. He love sharing everything with me!!

  • @darrylchambers2461
    @darrylchambers2461 4 года назад +6

    I treat myself with priority with respect and everyone else does the same

  • @julieturner8011
    @julieturner8011 2 года назад +1

    I treat my self like a priority an the world does too

  • @laurawicki2945
    @laurawicki2945 4 года назад +3

    My sp values me and prioritizes me , he want to be around me all the time , he thinks about me consistently. He puts me first . I respect myself and those around me .

  • @ievabereisaite
    @ievabereisaite 4 года назад +6

    Treat yourself like the queen that you are. If your not ganna treat yourself well dont expect other to do so. It all starts from within

  • @sarahanais1209
    @sarahanais1209 3 года назад +2

    I’m his only priority. He feels safe with me, that’s why he tells m his deepest secrets, no body gets him like I do. I’m the best he’s ever had.

  • @ghostvibesss
    @ghostvibesss 4 года назад +2

    My sp treats me like the royalty I am :) my anxiety is wrong & I won’t let my past tell my future! I will not let myself say he does not care. He has been busy lately and nothing is wrong! Thank you Roxy🖤you help me realize that everything truly is alright

  • @Latinaprincess1993
    @Latinaprincess1993 4 года назад +9

    I treat myself like a priority and the rest of the world does the same.

  • @evablazingmakeovers437
    @evablazingmakeovers437 4 года назад +2

    I prioritize my self and my special person prioritizes me too.He treats me with respect and includes me in everything.

  • @julia-annesmith7250
    @julia-annesmith7250 3 года назад +4

    I treat myself like a priority and EVERYONE does the same, they have to confirm - I am always a priority 😍

  • @tjellis9528
    @tjellis9528 4 года назад +11

    I have listened to this 3 times and I finally get it!!!! So much more deeper. For real Roxy thank you from the bottom of my heart! ❤️

  • @aishwaryapingat3113
    @aishwaryapingat3113 4 года назад +4

    I treat myself a priority and world does the same. I am always his priority. He loves to be around me. He makes me feel special. He loves me a lot. Thank you Universe 😇🙏🏼 thank you roxy 😊

  • @fehermarcell6826
    @fehermarcell6826 4 года назад +2

    It is so true! Right now I am trying to re-programme my attachment style. I realised mine and it is not OK with me, I want a secure attachment style and secure attachment to my SP. I am capable of it, I know I can do it. I affirm these a lot recently.
    A week ago, while I was laying on my bed suddenly I had a realization about this whole attachment style theory and what secure attachment truly is, and how I self-sabtogated myself in the last few years. I realized that it is possible to change it, and I give it a try, then 5 minutes later my SP called me out of nowhere.

  • @MissReject23
    @MissReject23 4 года назад +12

    THANK YOU, as usual. I love watching your vids over and over cause while I listen to you I feel like I can achieve EVERY and ANY freakin' thing! I'm well aware NOW that I'm self-sabotaging all my relationships cause I had this fear of being ghosted after the first perfect date so, obviosly, I even manifested the perfect partners but then after the first perfect date here we go. I realized I even told them during the date "you won't change your mind tomorrow, will you?" Of course he will. I'm changing my story now: my sp wants me even more after the first date! So he's coming back to me now, it doesn't matter what happened 4 days ago, it's in the past, we'll start again NOW!

  • @j2the-Y
    @j2the-Y 4 года назад +5

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same 🌍 💫🙌🏾

  • @DopeQueen23
    @DopeQueen23 4 года назад +7

    I needed this. I sent a really long text to my sp the other day 😂 I’m aware I am the one creating stuff but sometimes you need a reminder. I will affirm I am a priority but then I will still acknowledge ways where I don’t feel I’m being treated as priority. Although my sp does treat me good. I still have work to do lol. I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same. 💗

  • @cayleedavis2598
    @cayleedavis2598 4 года назад +3

    I treat myself as a priority and the world does the same!!

  • @persephoneastrology7115
    @persephoneastrology7115 4 года назад +3

    You are the best youtuber on Law of attraction that I have come across. I love your passion and how you get straight to the point. Will remember the analogy with the spring and the water supply! Thank you Roxy

  • @Nketsi_kets
    @Nketsi_kets 3 месяца назад

    I am glad I found my way to this beautiful, positive mindset lifestyle

  • @libertydolberry1168
    @libertydolberry1168 4 года назад +3

    I treat myself like a priority and everyone does the same. This really makes me feel like I need to take a serious self care break and allow myself to really be my own priority. 🤍

  • @Kluuuskiii
    @Kluuuskiii 2 года назад +1

    Your videos changed my life and my thinking… Thank you so much, i’ve seen a lot of changes because of your techniques. Some days my manifestations shows powerfully and I’m impressed. I have a lot of confidence and I want my partner to have it the same way as I do cause with confidence everything comes so beautifully. I see him changing and becoming a better version for me and for himself. Love always wins. ❤️

  • @e11zabeth714
    @e11zabeth714 4 года назад +4

    I love your analogies! 💖 I treat myself like a PRIORITY and the world does the same!! 💞

  • @darrylchambers2461
    @darrylchambers2461 4 года назад +2

    I treat myself with a priority and with respect and everyone does the same

  • @leahcollie94
    @leahcollie94 4 года назад

    My SP prioritizes me, always puts my first. He understands and values me above anyone else. They shower me with attention and treats me like a queen. He is a gift wrapped in the sweetest bow. I’m lucky and he’s lucky.

  • @Thesoulsearchersclub
    @Thesoulsearchersclub Год назад +1

    SERIOUSLY CHILLS! Life changing information. You are an inspiration in so many ways for me ! I need to get my ass going and focused to get my spiritual business going and create my dream reality. You are the best and i am so glad you came into my life ! UGH LOVE U ROXY🥹❤️🫶🏼

    • @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams
      @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams  Год назад

      Girl, yes!! I am here for you. We would LOVE for you to join our Big Beautiful Dreams Club! It would be perfect for you. courses.roxytalks.com/bigbeautifuldreams?ref=https%3A%2F%2Fcourses.roxytalks.com%2Fa%2F2147551952%2FykCFKujZ

  • @buzzinh2401
    @buzzinh2401 3 года назад +1

    I REALLY LOVE THE WATER AND SPRING ANALOGY

  • @cassidyrose2213
    @cassidyrose2213 4 года назад +2

    I treat myself like a priority and the world follows ⚓️🙏🙌🏻😊

  • @MotivationalDiva
    @MotivationalDiva 4 года назад +3

    Get us together Roxy. Love this video. Im going to implement this immediately. I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same.

  • @kellyknauthbrown3491
    @kellyknauthbrown3491 4 года назад +1

    Roxy, I'm totally straight, but you've got me obsessed with YOU. (Kidding) Just ADORE your look today...of all looks, probably my favorite one!. You are an OBVIOUS starseed.

  • @tivajersey2826
    @tivajersey2826 4 года назад +1

    I love your videos! Its always nice to listen to positive people and I think your videos are no nonsense /straight forward. much appreciated!

  • @MillionaireMG
    @MillionaireMG 4 года назад +2

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same 🙇🏻‍♀️

  • @jordyjordy925
    @jordyjordy925 3 года назад +1

    I treat myself like a priority, and the world shall do the same. 💖

  • @ThirdEyeSpy333
    @ThirdEyeSpy333 4 года назад +3

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same! I really love watching your videos Roxy! I studied the law of attracting for nearly 10 years and was only able to manifest small things... Your videos were such a game changer for me, totally transformed my life and taught me to manifest absolutely everything and much quicker! Forever grateful for you and your channel! 💖💖💖💖

  • @jaymant9275
    @jaymant9275 4 года назад +2

    Thank you Roxy for all your help and your hard work🙏 it’s very inspiring to hear your words and As I’ve been attracting my SP for 4 years now and will continue to keep my hopes and thoughts in the right place! Thank you so much for making these videos that give me a reality check when things don’t go well 👍

  • @1222x-r9f
    @1222x-r9f 4 года назад +3

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same ✨✨💕

  • @XavierZaee
    @XavierZaee 4 года назад +4

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same 💖

  • @123msdmiller
    @123msdmiller 4 года назад +1

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same, I know that’s right!!!

  • @vanilka8921
    @vanilka8921 3 года назад +1

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same ❤🙏 Nice video. Thank you, Roxy 🙂

  • @Degnique
    @Degnique 4 года назад +4

    I love hearing your takes on stuff, Rox. Thank you for this vid, it has really helped me right now.

  • @suzyyy703
    @suzyyy703 Год назад +1

    Thanks roxy it's really helping me a lot and I can see it's working...like it feels like miracle..
    Thank you so much ❤❤❤

  • @Uuree34
    @Uuree34 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Roxy! I just wanna say that since I started watching your videos, I have seriously started to understand my self, values, confidence, and worth! Thanks to these revelations now I attract great guys! I not only attract great guys, but I get treated like a queen, literally! They pick me up, take me out, wine and dine me, then drive me back home. Not only that the way they get hooked onto my every word, stories, and how much they compliment me! It has been incredible! All you ladies out there reading this, listen to this lady! Raise your self worth, cuzz I have and oh how the tables have turned. They are desperate for my attention, so I have options! Seriously, I have been wisely choosing and weeding them out, and I just sit here feel AWESOME doing it and receive!

    • @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams
      @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams  4 года назад

      🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @Uuree34
      @Uuree34 4 года назад +1

      @@RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams last night I was sitting at home, receiving all these messages from the guys asking when they could see me (with this pandemic, you know it's hard . . . ) and was thinking to myself, wow I feel like a hot damn QUEEN, and thought oh I have to thank Roxy! Honest to God, my perception of myself, my self confidence not only in terms of men and dating, but in general has increased by the thousands! I think about something, or script something and I just "know" which ones are gonna happen. It has been incredible, all thanks to LOA and your channel, along with couple others. I do have a question tho, I have been seeing 777 everywhere in the last 2 days. So was wondering if you could do a video on that? Btw, sending you love and support from an Asian American chick living in Milan, Italy ❤❤❤

    • @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams
      @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams  4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/iUw8tPhoqxQ/видео.html

    • @Uuree34
      @Uuree34 4 года назад +1

      @@RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams thank you! LOVE it ❤

    • @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams
      @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams  4 года назад

      😘😘 thank you for the kind words, love

  • @anaibanezzz
    @anaibanezzz 3 года назад +2

    This was so good and put so many things in perspective for me, thank you so much Roxy!!!

  • @TonderougeAM
    @TonderougeAM 4 года назад +1

    I treat myself like priority and the world does the same! 🖤 Thanks Roxy 🖤

  • @LeilaLaughsAlot
    @LeilaLaughsAlot 4 года назад +2

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same ❤️🌍

  • @nowens5302
    @nowens5302 4 года назад +2

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same🤗❤️

  • @amrutakakodkar
    @amrutakakodkar 4 года назад +1

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same!

  • @elainebroussard5724
    @elainebroussard5724 3 года назад +1

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same🥰

  • @jazminlaurenyoga
    @jazminlaurenyoga 3 года назад +1

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same :)

  • @erica9812
    @erica9812 4 года назад +1

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same✨!

  • @fitforfreelance
    @fitforfreelance 2 года назад

    Another great analogy with the upstream problem/ water supply. Thanks!

  • @emilymcnabb13
    @emilymcnabb13 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Roxy!! 🥰 your words are seriously gold in this video 💛

  • @karriekaltenback2404
    @karriekaltenback2404 4 года назад +1

    I treat myself as a priority and so does the world ❤️

  • @jordynalexas5425
    @jordynalexas5425 4 года назад +2

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same. PERIOD POOH

  • @meyaroxx
    @meyaroxx 4 года назад +2

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same!!! 🌹🌹🌹☀️☀️☀️

  • @alyza714
    @alyza714 4 года назад +24

    Ohhh You looking so cute roxy nd m eagerly waiting for this video ThNkyou ❤️❤️❤️🧿

  • @TheUIATarot
    @TheUIATarot 4 года назад +3

    Roxy, I can’t tell you how much your videos are helping me. The source analogy is great. It’s weird I have always felt a certain way about myself but when I look back I never actually see the evidence for it. I know my assumptions and thoughts create! Thank you so much! Also these are very good entertainment for when I’m cleaning 😀🤩

  • @sharonthomas865
    @sharonthomas865 4 года назад +1

    Thank You Roxy 😊🌹

  • @sandynazarian1023
    @sandynazarian1023 4 года назад +1

    I treat myself like a priority and the world that's the same!

  • @kremenaruseva9542
    @kremenaruseva9542 4 года назад

    I am his priority and he knows 😁 it. He does not stop texting me...all I want is true. I am grateful to you Roxy!!!! Thank you

  • @alwaysattractinggreatthings
    @alwaysattractinggreatthings 4 года назад +1

    Wow you are amazing 😉 I just finished watching this video and finished saying I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same. And I swear ... my guy just sent me Snapchat . Lol wow 🤩 this really works ! 👍🏻I’m definitely subscribing. Thank you 🙏🏻 😘

  • @keraraX
    @keraraX 4 года назад

    Wow. I had to rewatch the last part again.. This RESONATED, resonated 💫 I received this message! Thank you

  • @janiceblissy
    @janiceblissy 3 года назад +1

    I treat myself as a priority and the world does the same💓💓💓💓

  • @cherissegarcia-singh5759
    @cherissegarcia-singh5759 3 года назад

    I treat myself like a priority.
    I love all your videos, your vibe, your pink set up. You are so amazing and awesome.

    • @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams
      @RoxyTalksManifestYourDreams  3 года назад +1

      Thank you babe! I very much appreciate you!! 💕💖

    • @cherissegarcia-singh5759
      @cherissegarcia-singh5759 3 года назад

      I have been binge watching your videos. I love your explanations. I have been doing a lot of sp affirmations but I feel like I need to do more SC affirmations. The main purpose of doing SC affirmations isn't to specifically change my SP but change the reality of every one that shows up in my life.
      Thank you so much. You are truly heaven sent.

  • @samia7183
    @samia7183 3 года назад

    70k wow you’ll hit 100k soon!!! Congratulations

  • @LaGringaCuber
    @LaGringaCuber 4 года назад +2

    14:17 this point gave me a HUGE a-ha moment! an sp is only one form of love. and we are all GOD, unified, connected to one another. So of course! we are really just loving ourselves! hearing that after watching actualized.org's video "the ultimate structure of reality" made everything make so much sense.

  • @shae-lynngraham9101
    @shae-lynngraham9101 4 года назад +1

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same! I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same 🌍✨🤩

  • @pumpkinhead931
    @pumpkinhead931 3 года назад

    I treat myself like a priority and the world does the same. Also, you have the best analogies!

  • @manuh.3546
    @manuh.3546 3 года назад

    I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have opened my eyes and made my understand my whole life. ❤🙏

  • @bri6223
    @bri6223 4 года назад +1

    i treat myself like a priority and the world does the same 🦋

  • @gregbond8030
    @gregbond8030 4 года назад +1

    I treat myself as a priority and the world does the same.