Mary J. Blige on Being a Tomboy to Avoid Sexual Harassment | Close Up With THR

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    Mary J. Blige ('Mudbound') joins Close Up with The Hollywood Reporter for this season's Actress Roundtable. "It took me a very long time to even wear makeup and tight clothes, because I'd been through so much," the 'Mudbound' actress told THR about growing up as a tomboy.
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Комментарии • 158

  • @PiCheZvara
    @PiCheZvara 6 лет назад +64

    Mary J Blige looks like the one woman at the table who's actually lived a life that brought her wisdom. Allison Janney too.
    The other women are still soooo young in comparison.

  • @abixD101
    @abixD101 6 лет назад +86

    Her skin is so gorgeous and she has such character and authenticity when she speaks. Love her.

  • @JennHayden
    @JennHayden 6 лет назад +82

    i read that title and it blew me away. someone who understands. i was the same way. but it is a bittersweet reality. in my mind i thought i could 'prevent' it. that if something happened it would be because of what i wore. i am blessed to say i was never violated.... but i am now old enough and wise enough to know it had nothing to do with what i wore. and for those that have been violated, it was nothing to do with what they wore. thank you mary for highlighting that reality. i love hollywood reporter for these moments. so candid.

  • @deejayfikes
    @deejayfikes 6 лет назад +99

    Mary's growth is everything

  • @becomingdazhuniquefrance2615
    @becomingdazhuniquefrance2615 5 лет назад +9

    I can relate to Mary J Blige with dressing like a Tomboy to avoid sexual harassment in my life too!!! But I’m glad these women are free and finding peace✌🏾💋

  • @PlaceForAnEcho
    @PlaceForAnEcho 6 лет назад +15

    Mary is a smart woman. So much strength. And love Chastain for asking questions and really having a conversation. Mary is underrated. Wish more women of color were on the panel.

  • @XVMatthew
    @XVMatthew 6 лет назад +179

    RUclips logic: watch a video about sexism and sexual harassment and start making sexist comments.

    • @embrya26
      @embrya26 6 лет назад +4

      How were their comments sexist?

    • @SIRGAGA123
      @SIRGAGA123 6 лет назад +5

      You can’t fix stupid

  • @DavidRichardson95
    @DavidRichardson95 6 лет назад +134

    Mary J. Blige. Can't wait to watch _Mudbound_ later. She will be getting that Oscar nod. She can never cease to amaze me and she just keeps it so real and raw. That's what a queen is. 👑👑👑👑👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @morgpajo3048
      @morgpajo3048 6 лет назад +4

      I really think she has a chance of winning, all up to how well Netflix can push during awards season x

    • @juliastorrsfinn
      @juliastorrsfinn 6 лет назад +2

      Yes!! Mudbound is awesome!

    • @select5308
      @select5308 6 лет назад +4

      jon snow she has no kids...why you tryna tear her down

    • @liljay216
      @liljay216 6 лет назад +2

      Jon snow: u feel stupid...Mary never had kids! You tried it

    • @annmcdonald7713
      @annmcdonald7713 6 лет назад +1

      jon snow she has no kids you liar

  • @haro2830
    @haro2830 6 лет назад +81

    I am so excited for this round table!! All of these women are so great, I’m sooo excited

  • @chubiecheek
    @chubiecheek 6 лет назад +43

    Omg. Can you please release the full uncut discussion? Love these round tables!

  • @mikadevrij8321
    @mikadevrij8321 6 лет назад +6

    Jessica Chastain is such a caring person. Beautiful to watch

  • @thebeatwontstop
    @thebeatwontstop 6 лет назад +22

    MARY IS EVERYTHING! so real I love her!!

  • @thecharlieL
    @thecharlieL 6 лет назад +20

    Love you, Auntie Mary! I know exactly what you’re talking about in regard to dressing like a Tom boy. My childish mind thought dressing more masculine would stop grown ass men from harassing me. A lot of women do it without thinking. It’s our armor of protection. People who rape do it whether one is fully clothed or nearly naked. It’s such an unfortunate way to live. Sending love to all my survivors out there!! 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓

  • @clarkkent502
    @clarkkent502 5 лет назад +6

    I love me some Mary J Blige.... she was so good in this film.... the thing that annoys me are people criticizing her for her blonde hair.... newsflash shes been a blonde since she was a teenager..... she was inspired by the female rapper Pepa from Salt N Pepa who is also black and had blonde hair and various other hair colors.... every time a black person steps outside the stereotypical "black people box" we automatically have to be labeled as wanting to be white which is extremely untrue.. its annoying ....

  • @Heidiblackrose84
    @Heidiblackrose84 6 лет назад +42

    We need more female writers

  • @msbcheet6041
    @msbcheet6041 6 лет назад +2

    I love you Mary. Praying for you. I see the trembling. The nervousness. BUT The strength. The STRENGTH. This is why those of us who love you Mary, LOVE YOU, MARY.

  • @maylightbewithyou
    @maylightbewithyou 6 лет назад +18

    I love Mary J Blige.

  • @click15151
    @click15151 6 лет назад +9

    I'm Sooooo proud with you Mary! Life is about.... *HOW YOU GET UP* after the fall/s!!! 💯💯💯✌💋

  • @BrittFulli
    @BrittFulli 6 лет назад +20

    She's a beauty

  • @jobeluna4725
    @jobeluna4725 6 лет назад +42

    Mary J Blige and Jessica Chastain Queens ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Jamal3.87
      @Jamal3.87 6 лет назад +5

      Jobe Luna I like their chemistry here. Jessica seems so interested in Mary

    • @jobeluna4725
      @jobeluna4725 6 лет назад +2

      The032387 yes, both great actress who have a very successful careers!

    • @Jamal3.87
      @Jamal3.87 6 лет назад +2

      Jobe Luna HR usually gets the panel wrong in terms of eventual nominees. I predict Frances mcdormand, saoirse ronan, Sally Hawkins, Jessica chastain and maybe Meryl or Margot Robbie. Supporting Actress I predict Allison Janey, Laurie Metcalfe, Octavia Spencer, and I hope Holly Hunter and Tiffany Haddish for two very funny comedic roles. Maybe Mary J will get in.

  • @Luna-ds5zy
    @Luna-ds5zy 6 лет назад +10

    One talented woman does not annul another talented woman. Respect each talented actress.

  • @jessietomasovich8753
    @jessietomasovich8753 6 лет назад +9

    I think Mary J Blige hit on something that a lot of women relate to: dressing like a guy to avoid sexual harassment. Let’s continue this conversation.
    As a child I thought dressing less like girls are supposed to dress would make me belong with guys a little more and I’d get a little more respect in the world. Little did I know at the time men will typically look down on you no matter what- only throwing you some breadcrumbs if you behave to their liking.

  • @mahanadir
    @mahanadir 6 лет назад +4

    Mudbound is EXCELLENT!!! Can't recommend enough!!

  • @MISSMOVIESEDL
    @MISSMOVIESEDL 6 лет назад +2

    Mary's amaizing but this whole interview I just wanna give Jessica a hug.

  • @vamanosninja4143
    @vamanosninja4143 6 лет назад +1

    I think I do that a little too. Feminity makes me feel vulnerable. But I'm also naturally androgynous.

  • @acasoimporta_2729
    @acasoimporta_2729 4 года назад +1

    This is way more common than people usually think

  • @liveyourlife1777
    @liveyourlife1777 6 лет назад +1

    At 2:36 I laughed right along with them😀 Mary is so funny😀

  • @millymillymilly
    @millymillymilly 6 лет назад +20

    Dying to see Saoirse Ronan’s segment. Easily my favorite actress.

  • @rickellewilliams7762
    @rickellewilliams7762 6 лет назад +1

    Savannah GA in the house..chatham county 👑💎🌟🎙

  • @turnedaround4954
    @turnedaround4954 6 лет назад +3

    Mary is remarkable, always surprising us!

  • @Ladywrip
    @Ladywrip 6 лет назад +1

    OMG, I knew it, I knew it, I knew it!!! This is the first time I've seen, Saoirse since "Hanna" and "The Lovely Bones" (which is one of my favorite movies OF ALL TIME), but I KNEW when I first saw her that she would grow up to be absolutely STUNNING... and I was right. #SimplyBreathtaking. I love her, I love her, I love her!!!

  • @glennsilvaable
    @glennsilvaable 6 лет назад +68

    Where is Salma Hayek for Beatriz at Dinner? WHERE

    • @serenadal5546
      @serenadal5546 6 лет назад +1

      glennsilvaable TOTALLY AGREE!!!!

    • @glennsilvaable
      @glennsilvaable 6 лет назад +1

      Whitney Elizabeth Houston mmmmmm, i don’t think so because she was invited to Variety, where she speak with Mary about each other performances. The award season just started believe me she would go.

    • @liljay216
      @liljay216 6 лет назад +2

      They probably can't have more than one person of color on panel!

    • @JoeN-mp6pn
      @JoeN-mp6pn 6 лет назад +1

      Sorry coloured quota has been used up

  • @consuelo14
    @consuelo14 6 лет назад

    That was sucha good movie! she did soooo good in it. she was so believable. and when she talks about silent power, it showed on screen. im soo happy for her.

  • @elenaeisenhardt3280
    @elenaeisenhardt3280 6 лет назад +4

    Really powerful.

  • @gameancastro878
    @gameancastro878 6 лет назад +3

    I LOVE YOU MARY AND I KNOW U KNOW TEAM BLIGE

  • @elizabethyeboah-kodie2718
    @elizabethyeboah-kodie2718 6 лет назад +1

    Even after the divorce Mary J keeps winning !

  • @shannonallaround9490
    @shannonallaround9490 5 лет назад +1

    Mary is so pretty! All hail the Queen 👑

  • @Ernie1978
    @Ernie1978 6 лет назад +11

    Margot Robbie and Sally Hawkins should've been sitting there. Just a thought.

    • @Luna-ds5zy
      @Luna-ds5zy 6 лет назад +1

      and Frances McDorman too. but they are in another one, dont worry

  • @Thembanimkhz
    @Thembanimkhz 9 месяцев назад

    SHE IS BEAUTIFUL...

  • @carlenefrancis5625
    @carlenefrancis5625 2 года назад

    Thank you Mary I can relate!!! Much love ❤️

  • @LizzyAlexis
    @LizzyAlexis 6 лет назад

    Is the full version of this up?

  • @jacquelineperry4790
    @jacquelineperry4790 2 года назад

    I grew up in the Mary era to and it was okay to be tomboy and you was tomboy but not gay as people associate it with today as being gay

  • @msstover9469
    @msstover9469 6 лет назад

    MJB...keep being STRONG and continue your SUCCESS....let NO MAN PUT YOU UNDER!!!

  • @cobrakainevereverdies6940
    @cobrakainevereverdies6940 2 года назад

    4 years after this - everybody talked about her hygiene problems

  • @malibudoris
    @malibudoris 6 лет назад +7

    ..... instead of jenn whatever her face they should have added another women of colour. what about the asian actresses out there?

  • @nichailJm1
    @nichailJm1 6 лет назад +2

    Mannnnn I love Mary

  • @marygoodman9530
    @marygoodman9530 2 года назад

    Mary JB beautiful wise humble and talented, 🎼 definitely much appreciation &💖👒💯

  • @Lily-tj1zo
    @Lily-tj1zo 5 лет назад

    But i've tried that, and it didn't work.

  • @rtmusicvideos431
    @rtmusicvideos431 6 лет назад +2

    I love how Mary is the only one in this table who is not white and from an obviously privileged, wealthy background. I can tell it made her nervous, especially since as a musician she's just starting to (really) break into acting. But even so she wore a blonde wig/weave to fit in which really shows how powerful white supremacy is. They hardly ever have any black actors on this show and when they do she has blonde hair of course. But you can tell she has massive amounts of life experience that these other more privileged women don't have. At least they seem to respect that.

    • @holdupnow2326
      @holdupnow2326 6 лет назад +6

      Rakhil T. Uh NO. Mary J. Blige has always worn the color blonde in different shades at the start of her career.

    • @M.Elle-
      @M.Elle- 6 лет назад +5

      Rakhil T. First of all, Blonde hair is NOT exclusive to white people.
      Secondly, Mary has ALWAYS worn blonde hair, even when she came out in the early 90's.

    • @rtmusicvideos431
      @rtmusicvideos431 6 лет назад +1

      Yeah, because Mary J. Blige has always been subject to white beauty standards since she lives in America, a country founded on white supremacist ideals.

    • @LarryDWilmore79
      @LarryDWilmore79 6 лет назад

      Blonde hair isn’t a factor nor is skin color! Abuse in all forms and the fact it can be spoken about is the factor. Mary is changing this world by saying, “Hey! Let tell it!” Women, girls and boys of abuse can fight back by knowing they can speak unafraid and freely! Our country is pitiful and sad.

    • @vamanosninja4143
      @vamanosninja4143 6 лет назад

      Jessica Chastain had a tumultuous childhood also. Don't judge based on skin colour.

  • @RUNTHROUGHDATAPE
    @RUNTHROUGHDATAPE 6 лет назад

    amazing

  • @lavernecoleman654
    @lavernecoleman654 6 лет назад

    I know that feel from my mother and grandmother also aunt's

  • @alisalittle817
    @alisalittle817 2 года назад

    Fantastic Blige!

  • @tashaelve260
    @tashaelve260 6 лет назад

    That's My Big Sis @MJB.. 💜💙. Can't Wait 2 She Come Bk 2 B-more..

  • @madlena1990
    @madlena1990 6 лет назад

    Why is l. Lawrence there???

  • @dxmxo9427
    @dxmxo9427 6 лет назад

    Awe

  • @didimorga3625
    @didimorga3625 6 лет назад

    Mary ❤❤

  • @aniles1989
    @aniles1989 6 лет назад +1

    Aaliyah still...........nevermind

  • @frankr4720
    @frankr4720 6 лет назад

    I don't understand why this topic has a mal commentator..

  • @alisonharrisuk
    @alisonharrisuk 6 лет назад +1

    Does anyone know where Saoirse Ronan's clip is on this?

  • @aniket2666
    @aniket2666 6 лет назад +2

    I want to become hollywood star

  • @andreinpeckham
    @andreinpeckham 6 лет назад

    Why do they release these shorts months before they release the full thing. February is months away!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @morgpajo3048
      @morgpajo3048 6 лет назад

      Because it get's shown in full on Sundance TV first...

    • @andreinpeckham
      @andreinpeckham 6 лет назад

      I get that, but why release the shorts month ahead of the actual release

    • @morgpajo3048
      @morgpajo3048 6 лет назад

      Sundance TV would've bought the rights for distribution, if they uploaded it in full here no one would watch it then, these clips are just little adverts I guess

  • @shamanoftruth4699
    @shamanoftruth4699 2 года назад +1

    Yes, same. black dudes were very PREDATORY to young girls and it was GROSS!!
    I turned out t be gay, never wanted to be with them or be the 1 Millioneth baby mama
    I love you Mary😍😍

    • @itrollthetrolls28
      @itrollthetrolls28 Год назад

      You was always gay. Don’t blame that mess on some men you’ve encountered. That’s crazy talk!

  • @tuamigoefrain2026
    @tuamigoefrain2026 2 года назад

    what a woman 🤍

  • @digrom3279
    @digrom3279 6 лет назад +65

    Mary is the only one I care about in this group. Everyone else is too basic and used up.

    • @glennsilvaable
      @glennsilvaable 6 лет назад +3

      Do Bon preach!

    • @miles1332
      @miles1332 6 лет назад +42

      I know you ain't talking bout saoirse ronan with that mouth.

    • @morgpajo3048
      @morgpajo3048 6 лет назад +24

      people really can't stand when women are successful for too long ahahahahaha fuck off

    • @alianofann
      @alianofann 6 лет назад +6

      And if Mary sees yr comment, she will be disgusted and slap you across the face!

    • @mmar710
      @mmar710 6 лет назад

      u must be black!!!

  • @MusicFilmArtLover
    @MusicFilmArtLover 6 лет назад

    Let me start off by saying I LOVE ME SOME Mary J!!!!!!! However, based on that little clip, I am not convince she pulled it off. I look forward to watching Mudbound and hope it live up to the hype cause right now the only thing I like was...the art direction.

  • @eralove9350
    @eralove9350 6 лет назад

    I love you Mary and have respect for you, I can talk in person with you so I have to write it down here. PLEASE the blonde hair wig doesn't look good (i wonder that knowbody told you that, were are your friends?)you have the age of a mum , wear your natural hair or put dark hair in, that has a natural look, you are a beautiful woman.

  • @kfatimah
    @kfatimah 6 лет назад

    Hmmm I understood that Mary was a victim based on her abusive relationship she had with a male singer.

    • @TiffanyRayneOfficial
      @TiffanyRayneOfficial 6 лет назад

      +K. Fatimah Woolfolk Yes, KC Hailey of R&B group Jodeci. And she was also sexually molested as a child unfortunately.

  • @potatofamine3119
    @potatofamine3119 6 лет назад

    Being a tomboy earnt you fuck tonnes of money too though, helped your brand a lot.

  • @RohitKumar-gd8vu
    @RohitKumar-gd8vu 6 лет назад

    Will they talk about movies or not?

    • @jacobskinner3522
      @jacobskinner3522 6 лет назад +3

      Considering Mary spent most of this clip talking about her movie, I would say yes.

  • @glennsilvaable
    @glennsilvaable 6 лет назад +60

    What Jennifer Lawrence do for cinema this year? I mean Madre is awful.
    What Emma Stone did for cinema? I mean why celebrate them so much..... they are so overrated.

    • @kennyin1
      @kennyin1 6 лет назад +17

      oscar winning actress for both. duh

    • @XVMatthew
      @XVMatthew 6 лет назад +32

      They're not being celebrated you idiot, they were reunited to speak out about a prevalent issue in their industry what the fuck.

    • @glennsilvaable
      @glennsilvaable 6 лет назад +5

      Matthew Frota nop bitch, they celebrating shitty performances by Stone and Lawrence.

    • @XVMatthew
      @XVMatthew 6 лет назад +20

      Thankfully you're not movie critic and your hollywood hipster comment is irrelevant. They're both good actresses and as much as I hate La La Land Emma Stone did a great job in that and Battle of the Sexes. Just because it's not for you doesn't mean it's bad. Don't be reductive.

    • @MrLasveguinhas
      @MrLasveguinhas 6 лет назад +7

      And who are you to decide that? Shut the fuck up, if you don't like em don't give em views, you dumb shit

  • @wmpetroff2307
    @wmpetroff2307 3 года назад

    I love Mary J Blige.