"I feel left out."
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- Опубликовано: 1 май 2024
- At some point, you’ve probably felt left out. Being overlooked is common. In this video, I talk about how it can feel to be someone who isn’t very social and might not feel included, especially in school. I hope this gives you a new perspective on your surroundings.
Game:
www.minecraft.net/en-us
Music:
C418 - Droopy Like Ricochet
C418 - Sweden
C418 - Danny
Kyle Allen Music - Almost Closing Time
flowstate - Feel This Way
Main Channel:
/ @n_3w
0:00 - Intro
1:09 - What's your reputation?
2:08 - Not being popular
2:40 - Example
3:25 - Getting jealous
3:51 - Sometimes it's good that you're alone
4:16 - My personal experience
6:42 - Advantages to being quiet
7:12 - Is it your fault?
7:56 - Don't worry
8:23 - Consider this...
9:07 - Conclusion
#N_3w #Minecraft 
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Please, I’m not asking for support, so don’t comment that you feel sorry for me if you do; I’d like feedback and possibly an example of this topic from your life. Other than that, I hope I made sense in this video.
I didn’t click this. I was woke up and this was in my history, I honestly never clicked this but it was there so I’ll check it out. It will serve me much use.
“Because some people can’t shut the fu-“ 😂😂
There’s always something you can do. Engage more, and you’ll notice a change.
It's easier said than done
I've missed out and left out alot in my life I'm social not at school though im silent invisible people get jumpscared and i do over hear alot of gossip but I wanna be this man's friend bro got those deep talks I'm basically the watcher I'm not an only child but I'm disconnected from some of them and it's complicated i try to include people best i can but
Some I respectfully don't because they dont want to
It’s good that you’re aware. I get that, I’m also the one who’s just silently watching and isn’t included. When it comes to your surroundings, it can be hard to connect with people. Like I said in the video, there are familiar people who I’m not really friends with, despite us knowing each other. And it’s not like they’ll say something about it. Just know that it’s okay and you’ll be fine.
although i am not a huge fan of the terms 'extrovert' and 'introvert', i would probably be considered an extrovert. I enjoy talking to people and making friends and i am even the leader of my school house.
I can assure you that there is not one person on this planet who doesn't feel some form of social anxiety or shyness.
Humans are social creatures, we need people to talk to, so while being alone can be good, its not a long term way you should live your life. Instead, my advice and what i do is just go up to people in my classes and talk to them start a conversation,
usually it will be about whatever is happening right now, or maybe just commenting, whatever i feel like in that moment, if i feel that they are not responding that well and not 'bouncing back' as some people say, then ill probably just walk away.
but the key thing is to never let this stop you from going to the next person, and the next and next. the biggest thing , like with most things is to not give up. Friendships often start from moments like these, because once you talk to someone once in the class, you may find that they are in a similar position to you and starting talking to you the next time you see them. Well atleast this is usually how it goes for me.
and i know people say that it is hard for that initial conversation, but really, what isnt hard? Maybe you can find solace in the fact that the problem is very simple and identifiable, who knows?
I agree, all you have to do is try. I want people to know that even if they choose to be alone, they shouldn’t be alone all of the time because it’s not good for them, so thanks for clarifying. I have that exact problem: not talking to people. For me, I don’t think the people around me, the extroverted ones, don’t have some sort of shyness, but I don’t think they’re able to realize that they’re the confident ones who can actually do social things effortlessly. Implying that they could be the ones talking instead. They kinda just stick to who they know and don’t care anymore when they’ve got their group. It’s always the first step that you need to take, and in most cases, it’s right in front of you.
Biblical Book: James Chapter 1 verse 19 (English Standard Version):
Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger