I'm single. But it's because I've done the work. I stayed single to heal and to make sure i didn't bring trauma to the table but only good changes. And I'm still single because i enjoy the peace that comes with it. 4 years, and I love the life I have with just my children.
I was married for 20 years them days are over . Kids grown too. I know why I’m single. I’m cheap . I love my privacy and I love living alone after being married all them years. I doubt I will ever do it again my stress level is not high anymore .
I understand this feeling. I will tell you that (having this mindset) I ended up meeting someone that doesn't trigger me and I don't trigger him. We enjoy our free space and time, but we also enjoy talking to each other and spending time doing whatever our heart desires when we feel like it.
I remember when I was in my early 30's when I realized it was me. I remember looking in the mirror and being like "oh my god, it's me!" and I've been working on myself ever since and am always a work in progress. But do have my person ❤
.I realized that the secret to making a million is saving for a better investment. I always tell myself you don't need that new Maserati or that vacation just yet. That mindset helped me make more money investing. For example last year I invested 80k in stocks and made about 246k, but guess what? I put it all back and traded again and now I'm rounding up close to a million.,
Thanks guys, I would like to be your friend to achieve this, I keep losing my funds while trying on my own and finding a trustworthy personnel to help out it also appears to be nearly impossible. This is extremely annoying
My advice to you all is that you shouldn’t just venture on any asset for the sake of it, I’ve come to understand that the recent dip trail is everything.
The pandemic came and taught everyone the importance of having multiple stream of income, unfortunately having a nice paying job doesn't mean you are financial secured anymore. So we all need to put in an extra-income earning chance, like investments.
Just because you’re in a relationship it doesn’t mean there isn’t anything to work on still. If anything, being in a relationship takes more work than being single.
Y’all heard how Jess broke that man heart and laughed about it. Those are the type of women I meet lol. Meanwhile, I’m pursuing my Doctoral degree, healing, and waiting on my time 😊.
@@topfloorslimey but still there's a big difference between the two me. Personally I wouldn't want to be with somebody on drugs but again I don't know that woman's business nor do I care. All I know is is that she chose to be with somebody who was on drugs that's on her. That's not on me. That's not on anybody else in the community
I am single because I still have deep trauma issues I need to heal from. Until God feels I am ready for a good man that he will pick for me. Working on myself is the best thing for me and my mental health.
Being single is better than being in the wrong relationship/marriage. Love doesn't hurt, loving the wrong person does. So, being single especially nowadays is actually a choice when you know your worth and what you deserve.
A lot of men don’t really want to settle down. It takes them some time to truly be ready for commitment. Women want to early on but it’s a timing issue. It doesn’t mean that either of you are bad people.. By the time men are ready women have given up..
There's a bigger risk for men when it comes to settling down compared to women, let's keep it a buck. Being in a relationship in 2024 isn't really worth it.
Not true lol there are plenty plenty of men that want to settle down the problem is that They want to settle down with the quote. Perfect woman and there's no such thing. Wow that sounds familiar. What other gender says that? lol
I didn't start dating until I was 28. It was exciting at first but nothing evolved. I haven't dated since March 2022. Time to focus on myself until I'm ready to date again. Therapy is the first step.
I've been single for 5 years because my fiance cheated on me and left me. I was planning my wedding and everything. That rocked me so hard I have a hard time trusting men 🤦🏽♀️
Nobody choose to be single its just the person they want to be with do not want to be with them so they either settle or continue to wait for the right person thats if the person comes.
That’s one of the first steps toward maturity. Once I admitted this to myself I stopped being mad at people in relationships and started wishing them well.
Lol the older lady, Tanya, who called in is outing herself, she had to miss everything he said to cal in. Because he said exactly what she didn't believe he said lol. He was specific about who he was talking about. And Jess ass not helping agreeing with her. 🤣🤣🤣
Beautiful people out there y’all don’t even have to subscribe to this man made holiday. Release the shackles off your mind and allow Gods process on your life. Love Yourself, Love God, and trust Gods timing ✌🏾➕❤️
I would rather be happy and single than miserable in a relationship. Too many of y’all suffer staying with someone who you can’t even stand because you’re codependent and/or don’t love yourself
I'm single!! I done the work to improve on myself since 2015 as I was leaving opportunities on the table. Now I just try to leave left day by day and maybe I will get lucky one day.
A person being older than you doesn't mean that they are more experienced than you or more wise and that's another factor to the age is nothing but a number conversation.
I am single on Valentine's Day because I am working on myself and don't feel adequate enough to put myself out there. If someone swung by I wouldn't run from it but I'm okay with being single.
I’ve been single for 6-years, and I’m doing my best to help myself with therapy and self-love. However, as far as me seeing a lot of couples sharing their love on social media, it made me feel lonelier. As much as I respect everyone that’s lucky to have a significant other, I don’t get to have the same experience as every couple does. Seeing all this on social media made me depressed, and this is where I’m making myself accountable for being sad during Valentine’s Day. What I want to admit is that as much as I’m happy about myself and my own freedom, I hardly get together with friends, nor do I get to meet new people due to anxiety. Plus, I have a hard time finding a match from someone who shares my same interests, traits, and goals. I’m speaking to myself claiming that I’m the problem for being incompatible to anyone due to my lack of self-confidence, depression and loneliness. I’m still healing, and I’m still focusing on myself during Valentine’s Day. If this doesn’t sound good enough to you guys, I don’t know what does. But I’m happy to know everyone here is on the same ship for their own personal reasons involving today’s topic.
Just remember the grass always appears greener on the other side. Those in intimate relationships are simply being problematic together which is the reason why relationships aren't easy and can end in heartbreak and pain. The most important relationship u can have is the one u have with yourself. ❤
Im honestly cool being single it aint being alone not havin a woman in my life is da problem its a whole bs holiday in general dat i cant stand its feels so phony to me
Miami here. I’m married 10 years now. It’s a lot work. I’m no better than any single. I’m a piece of work and so is my husband. Being married isn’t better than single and vice versa they both have its ups and downs. The “think you lonely now 🎵 “ reference was 😂😂😂ngl
I need to work on my self and do better ❤ because being single sucks and I love ❤️ being in a relationship and having that comfort of a man 👨🏽 by my side ❤❤❤
Just because you're single doesn't mean you're happy. You sit on RUclips imagining horrible things happening in strangers relationships instead of accepting that you're the reason you're not in one.
Not true my guy CTG ,I'm 42yrs of age majority of my life been single never had a serious relationship never been married no kids. Love my solitary life
Man, I didn’t even know yesterday was Valentine’s Day. Not sure what that says about me? I don’t even want a partner. Not sure what that says about me.
So people who are single and are happy being single are all of a sudden the problem the f*** out of here. With this I've been single most of my adult life and make extremely happy
People in relationships/marriages can be equally as problematic. Otherwise more than half of all marriages would not end in divorce. Lenard is so ruthlessly ignorant at times.
To Charlamagne, yet again turning one holiday against singles when long ago he gave "DOTD" to people who single-shame singles. What I don't understand is why he so concerned about what is going on with us on one day when he create the narrative as a problem. Let people live, it's none of our business. Love can kill you, so who wants to die? It's judgement when people who think like him wants to make it our problem, ridiculous.
Funny that CtheG and others are talking about the person who is single. What about the people who are married or shacking but are in long-term abusive (physically or mentally or verbally) relationships? Should we praise them? 🤔
I'm single. But it's because I've done the work. I stayed single to heal and to make sure i didn't bring trauma to the table but only good changes. And I'm still single because i enjoy the peace that comes with it. 4 years, and I love the life I have with just my children.
Exactly
😂😂😂
Love this!!
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Much respect! You’re doing the inner work most people are too lazy to do! 🙏🏾
I was married for 20 years them days are over . Kids grown too. I know why I’m single. I’m cheap . I love my privacy and I love living alone after being married all them years. I doubt I will ever do it again my stress level is not high anymore .
I understand this feeling. I will tell you that (having this mindset) I ended up meeting someone that doesn't trigger me and I don't trigger him. We enjoy our free space and time, but we also enjoy talking to each other and spending time doing whatever our heart desires when we feel like it.
What!?!?!😯😬Ha Ha 😂🤣😂🤣😯😬🫨🤔🤫🤫🤫
Actually I find it common that, the most Toxic ppl are the ones with a Valentine. lol
& i bet you found this out.. ALL BY YOURSELF 💀💀💀💀💀💀
@@OnGangsterDbut the person who made this video has a valentine so…
That's something 4 me 2 think
@alexlostit idk about the person who made the video lol but I forsure know the person commenting is alone 🤣🤣🤣
@@OnGangsterD guess u can’t read 😂
I remember when I was in my early 30's when I realized it was me. I remember looking in the mirror and being like "oh my god, it's me!" and I've been working on myself ever since and am always a work in progress. But do have my person ❤
Question*
Do you think you were attracting current versions of yourself? -
And once you healed yourself, you attracted the right person.
Yes, that sounds abt right 💜
Intelligent woman ❤
.I realized that the secret to making a million is saving for a better investment. I always tell myself you don't need that new Maserati or that vacation just yet. That mindset helped me make more money investing. For example last year I invested 80k in stocks and made about 246k, but guess what? I put it all back and traded again and now I'm rounding up close to a million.,
Please it will be of benefit if you share more of your educational business lessons and ideal fact that's working recently
Thanks guys, I would like to be your friend to achieve this, I keep losing my funds while trying on my own and finding a trustworthy personnel to help out it also appears to be nearly impossible. This is extremely annoying
My advice to you all is that you shouldn’t just venture on any asset for the sake of it, I’ve come to understand that the recent dip trail is everything.
The pandemic came and taught everyone the importance of having multiple stream of income, unfortunately having a nice paying job doesn't mean you are financial secured anymore. So we all need to put in an extra-income earning chance, like investments.
,Credits to Dylan Kyle Zachary, He saw me through the process.,
It’s both. Me and them.
Praises to God for allowing me to be seen and work on self. I see me.
Nah nah that's you brah don't be using both me and them
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God got nothing to do with it thats the problem
Just because you’re in a relationship it doesn’t mean there isn’t anything to work on still. If anything, being in a relationship takes more work than being single.
😂😂😂
Listening is an important skill that many people lack
Shoutouts to all the single moms posting their son and captioning it "My forever Valentines"
😂😂😂
Y’all heard how Jess broke that man heart and laughed about it. Those are the type of women I meet lol. Meanwhile, I’m pursuing my Doctoral degree, healing, and waiting on my time 😊.
I guess you missed a part where she said that the dude was in drugs
@@flyguy7825yeah after she cheated lol
Honestly that was mean af ngl. She still has some healing to do.
@@topfloorslimey but still there's a big difference between the two me. Personally I wouldn't want to be with somebody on drugs but again I don't know that woman's business nor do I care. All I know is is that she chose to be with somebody who was on drugs that's on her. That's not on me. That's not on anybody else in the community
@@flyguy7825 He got on drugs after she broke his heart. I don’t see myself doing that but heartbreak changes people.
I am single because I still have deep trauma issues I need to heal from. Until God feels I am ready for a good man that he will pick for me. Working on myself is the best thing for me and my mental health.
Yeap, I definitely don't want to be unequally yoked. Been there done that. I ❤ being ALL ONE, Alone 🎯🤗 🙌🏾 What ever is meant to be will be ✊🏾
Being single is better than being in the wrong relationship/marriage. Love doesn't hurt, loving the wrong person does. So, being single especially nowadays is actually a choice when you know your worth and what you deserve.
Did Donnell Rawlings really call in reciting poetry?😂😂😂
Those were actually Taylor Swift lyrics lol I guess Donnell is a Swiftie too!
I love being single it’s stress free.
This comment is healthier than saying people in relationships are miserable and thats the reason I'm single. Kudos to you
A lot of men don’t really want to settle down. It takes them some time to truly be ready for commitment. Women want to early on but it’s a timing issue. It doesn’t mean that either of you are bad people.. By the time men are ready women have given up..
It’s been the opposite for me. Women don’t be ready to settle down.
Ouuuu, The Facts 🫠
There's a bigger risk for men when it comes to settling down compared to women, let's keep it a buck. Being in a relationship in 2024 isn't really worth it.
Not true lol there are plenty plenty of men that want to settle down the problem is that They want to settle down with the quote. Perfect woman and there's no such thing. Wow that sounds familiar. What other gender says that? lol
Yes men want to settle down. We have to stop that narrative. But for me, I have to work on my self
Some us choose to be alone. Living alone is an experience most can never experience for reasons beyond their control
Doubt it
God bless you. Lenfer c est auteres
I’ve lived alone for 6 years but I’m in a relationship. 2nd one in 6 years.
😂😂😂😂😂
@@integrafreak1I choose it. It’s Peaceful.
I love this new energy! They are having fun!!! Jess is the perfect addition. ❤
I enjoy being by myself I can come and go as I please. Drama free.
If you are rushing to get into a relationship because of Valentine’s Day then you will forever be lonely 🤣
I didn't start dating until I was 28. It was exciting at first but nothing evolved. I haven't dated since March 2022. Time to focus on myself until I'm ready to date again. Therapy is the first step.
I've been single for 5 years because my fiance cheated on me and left me. I was planning my wedding and everything. That rocked me so hard I have a hard time trusting men 🤦🏽♀️
Nobody choose to be single its just the person they want to be with do not want to be with them so they either settle or continue to wait for the right person thats if the person comes.
Underrated comment. Maybe it's Maybelline, maybe it's me... but even if it's not me (aka toxic), it still is me (aka my choices/mindset) 😜
That’s one of the first steps toward maturity. Once I admitted this to myself I stopped being mad at people in relationships and started wishing them well.
Yeah I remember when I realized it was me . Oh man that was painful. Sometimes it be you
Love breakfast club on Valentine’s Day 🤣🤣
Tanya is obviously the problem 😆😆😆
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He gotta alot of nerve seeing that he was horrible within his marriage for years😂😂😂
That was his exact words... I was a hoe.. accountability
10:55 “who the hell is this??” 😂😂😂
Lol the older lady, Tanya, who called in is outing herself, she had to miss everything he said to cal in. Because he said exactly what she didn't believe he said lol. He was specific about who he was talking about. And Jess ass not helping agreeing with her. 🤣🤣🤣
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Charla & Jess together be the best one two punch I swear 😂😂😂😂😂
Beautiful people out there y’all don’t even have to subscribe to this man made holiday. Release the shackles off your mind and allow Gods process on your life. Love Yourself, Love God, and trust Gods timing ✌🏾➕❤️
Beautifully stated! Amen🖤
Tonya it’s you 😂😂😂😂
Yes...yes it is lol 😂
I would rather be happy and single than miserable in a relationship.
Too many of y’all suffer staying with someone who you can’t even stand because you’re codependent and/or don’t love yourself
I find it funny that happy and in a relationship isn't even an equation to you. But: we all saw the title of this clip.
Y'all starting to sound corny now.
I'm single!! I done the work to improve on myself since 2015 as I was leaving opportunities on the table. Now I just try to leave left day by day and maybe I will get lucky one day.
Charlemagne is basically singling out 70+ percent of whats left of the black male population, cause a lot of black men are solo.
😂😂😂
A person being older than you doesn't mean that they are more experienced than you or more wise and that's another factor to the age is nothing but a number conversation.
I am single on Valentine's Day because I am working on myself and don't feel adequate enough to put myself out there. If someone swung by I wouldn't run from it but I'm okay with being single.
Charla said, “she goin crazy” 😂😂😂
I’ve been single for 6-years, and I’m doing my best to help myself with therapy and self-love. However, as far as me seeing a lot of couples sharing their love on social media, it made me feel lonelier. As much as I respect everyone that’s lucky to have a significant other, I don’t get to have the same experience as every couple does. Seeing all this on social media made me depressed, and this is where I’m making myself accountable for being sad during Valentine’s Day. What I want to admit is that as much as I’m happy about myself and my own freedom, I hardly get together with friends, nor do I get to meet new people due to anxiety. Plus, I have a hard time finding a match from someone who shares my same interests, traits, and goals. I’m speaking to myself claiming that I’m the problem for being incompatible to anyone due to my lack of self-confidence, depression and loneliness. I’m still healing, and I’m still focusing on myself during Valentine’s Day. If this doesn’t sound good enough to you guys, I don’t know what does. But I’m happy to know everyone here is on the same ship for their own personal reasons involving today’s topic.
Just remember the grass always appears greener on the other side. Those in intimate relationships are simply being problematic together which is the reason why relationships aren't easy and can end in heartbreak and pain. The most important relationship u can have is the one u have with yourself. ❤
@@Non-random_Earthling Thank you so much for the advice. It’s the best I can do to help myself more than I can impress anyone.
Im honestly cool being single it aint being alone not havin a woman in my life is da problem its a whole bs holiday in general dat i cant stand its feels so phony to me
Lenard😂😂😂
All these delivered h***😂
“The hit dogs be hollering sometime” I’m took me out
Well im done with relationships.
Miami here. I’m married 10 years now. It’s a lot work. I’m no better than any single. I’m a piece of work and so is my husband. Being married isn’t better than single and vice versa they both have its ups and downs. The “think you lonely now 🎵 “ reference was 😂😂😂ngl
She dnt wanna Shannon sharpe 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Got me weakkkkkkkk @ 10:16
Lenard is married and he's got issues. So he's living proof that being coupled doesn't fix personal problems.
😂 I feel attacked! Single by choice! 🥰🥰🥰
😂😂😂
Seems more like the opposite😒😒 horrible ppl clickin up, good ppl stayin single
You sound so lonely brotha..
Nah
Right
💯💯💯
@@dustinnunes maybe🤷🏾♂️ but i like females, so u shouldn’t be worried bout it “brotha”
I need to work on my self and do better ❤ because being single sucks and I love ❤️ being in a relationship and having that comfort of a man 👨🏽 by my side ❤❤❤
Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re happy. Most of you people in relationships are being cheated on.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
No there not you're just young and lonely 😂
I say WELPPPPPPPP😂😂😂😂
Salty huh😂😂😂 shut yo ass up
Just because you're single doesn't mean you're happy. You sit on RUclips imagining horrible things happening in strangers relationships instead of accepting that you're the reason you're not in one.
Hi Lenard.
I like this segment
Definitely a hit dog hollering! Taking out your 19yr old for Valentine's day but you are proudly single.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾♂️ Can't make this shit up.
This is facts. You attract what you are. I have a great husband because im a great women
She is still young. She still needs to enjoy life!!!!!!
I love Tonya 😂😂😂😂
TELL THEM🗣️🗣️🗣️.
Charla so wrong with the jokes.... WAIT UNTIL TONIGHT🤦🏾♀️🤣😂😂😂
People should appreciate there singleness 😂
Jess you got two baby daddys so of course you were the problem 😅😅😅
They said she “far from single” i knew it would be some bs from that moment forward lol
That woman that said she wasn't toxic was indeed very toxic 😂😂😂
WHERE IS THE FULL SHOW ??
Jess became a better person and became a 2x baby momma! 🤦🏾♂️ 🤣
That 50 year old definitely needs accountability 😂😂
Not true my guy CTG ,I'm 42yrs of age majority of my life been single never had a serious relationship never been married no kids. Love my solitary life
Darnell was spittin
@ 4:52!! 🫨🤦🏾♀️😂😂 SAY IT WITH YA CHEST!🤣🤣🤣
Dealing with people is exhausting. I would rather be on my own. Saves me money
Envy: Who dat?
CTG: Morgan Freeman
😂😂😂😂yoooooooo
Where is the full episode?
Well damn.
Man, I didn’t even know yesterday was Valentine’s Day. Not sure what that says about me? I don’t even want a partner. Not sure what that says about me.
Good hell is that donnel
So people who are single and are happy being single are all of a sudden the problem the f*** out of here. With this I've been single most of my adult life and make extremely happy
😂😂😂
Charla is a menace 😂😂😂
Its a choice
everyone thats not the case with everyone
thats not fair
People in relationships/marriages can be equally as problematic. Otherwise more than half of all marriages would not end in divorce. Lenard is so ruthlessly ignorant at times.
Tuck yourself in tonight B 😂😂😂
50+ calling into the breakfast club talkin bout you been single for over a year….from Florida.. talkin bout you want a man with a flip phone…. Is wild
Hit dogs hollering today lol
This was a good back and forth lol.😂. Haha
Tell them
Happy Belated Birthday Jess
If you think you lonely now 😂😂😂😂 Just wait until tonight😂😂😂😂. Try message one of your single friends and they got a date 😂😂😂😂
To Charlamagne, yet again turning one holiday against singles when long ago he gave "DOTD" to people who single-shame singles. What I don't understand is why he so concerned about what is going on with us on one day when he create the narrative as a problem. Let people live, it's none of our business. Love can kill you, so who wants to die? It's judgement when people who think like him wants to make it our problem, ridiculous.
I stay to myself to better myself, i dont like annoying people chicks annoying and i don't like dudes so i stay to me.
Good. At least you were big enough to admit all that to yourself people always can't be honest with themselves.
@@flyguy7825 stay safe flyguy 💯
@@TOPHITTA463 👍🏾👍🏾👌🏾👌🏾
It’s you 😂😂😂
Going through a divorce like my man's. I said I wasn't going to be doing the same ol shit in the new year
Donellll funny asl 😂😂😂😂😂😂
you got me on my feels my G
8:43 Kenya… ITS YOU🤦🏾♂️
*Tonya
Yea we can admit, but that doesn’t mean we are the problem. Cha need to stop that shit. Some folks choose to be single for various reasons.
Single by choice.
Ma'am, the dudes you want don't want you.
Hit dogs hollerin.
5:45 😂😂😂😂😂😂 bro was funny
Or people single because they want to be and don't want to deal with BS
Funny that CtheG and others are talking about the person who is single. What about the people who are married or shacking but are in long-term abusive (physically or mentally or verbally) relationships? Should we praise them? 🤔
😂😂😂
The more Tonya talked the more we saw she is definitely the problem 😂😂😂😂 10:40
That's the aqua, I get it jess. I was the same in my 20's learned lessons 💯. I didn't care neither.
So to be clean there’s 2 people that are single once the relationship ends,right? So you sayin we both the problem
The universe keeps track of all doing.