I Love this spread! The talking is always a plus! You made the right choice about the guy you went on a date with, ICK!! Does he know all humans age. I am proud of your values! Thanks again for a FABULOUS spread and conversation. Also, I’m excited for your holidays plans, sending love to you and Bumble❤❤
Bumble is barking because it’s really her RUclips channel so she is just giving the people what they want ☺🤗 She’s probably talking about her week and thoughts on how well the tree turned out. 😏😁
Argh on the fall leaves. We moved and don't have to deal with them any more. But boy, do I miss the fall colors. And what a treat to host your family a Christmas.
Thanks for doing one of these again! Love them and the chatting too. You made the right decision about that guy. Not trustworthy. Good luck with your Christmas shopping!🎄❄️
Oh my goodness, Mary Ellen! When Bumble barked around 11:40 time stamp, I thought it was one of mine here!! Too cute - no worries on the barking from this fur mama. Thanks!
My iPhone alarm does that too! It used to keep going & my dog would howl to help wake me up but now it’s either not as loud or the snooze doesn’t work. I bought a cheap alarm clock from Walmart that works well.
OMG, your date reminded me of a Seinfeld episode where George goes on a blind date and the woman is bald and he was turned off and Elaine is screaming at him “BUT YOU’RE BALD!” I think you did the right thing!
Awwww I LOVE that your parents adopt old dogs! That’s so sweet. It makes me so sad seeing old dogs dumped at the shelters. Love the spread! Bummer about the date. 😑 I totally agree with you. It’s IS ageist and specific towards women! I feel like society is ok with men aging but not women. And I love these videos!
Yes it actually makes me so mad that we are like that as a society. I think part of why I didn’t go out with him again was my deep rooted feelings about that. It feels just so icky
I'd have been like, well maybe I'm not attracted to men in their 60s. I like living vicariously through your dating adventures while I cuddle with my cats and watch RUclips. 😂
Makes me wonder if he’s really 62. Anyway I am on the east coast we don’t have Wawa in NC. Funny story for the longest I thought people were talking about Walmart 😅
Re: the date....if the guy is willing to lie about a little thing like his age, will he lie about the bigger ones too? Gives me the ick too! Run, girl! I think you should go about your life, doing what you love, and chances are, you will meet someone who loves the same things. Good luck!
Love those nail colors! Do these require a lamp or do you just put it on? I watched It Ends with Us last week - what did you think of it? Great spread.
That's wonderful that your parent's adopt older dogs! How sweet! As for the guy, you should've said you had a good time, but you just don't date men in their 60s! Lol. I'm 66 but people tell me I look 10 to 12 years younger. Age is just a number. And he's right - that is shallow. It's about the person, not their age.
Wait, so he’s ok lying about his own age because he isn’t attracted to women who are the same age as him, but he thinks that’s totally fine to trick the women who also might have their own preferences?!? And I wouldn’t say he’s shallow or superficial. I have a different word I won’t type. 😒 You’re being way too nice. Oh, the things I would have said if I were in your place!
I disagree on the age thing. If he was intentionally lying to be manipulative, he wouldn't have confessed so early or on the first date. I think the best thing to do would have been to have a talk with him about it and hear him out and voice your concerns and why it affected you so much. Trauma response is to avoid and walk away. You have to have those uncomfortable and vulnerable conversations especially when looking for a life partner. My opinion is to talk to your daughter(s) and your therapist in the future because they would know you best. I say this as someone who's therapist is trying to teach me to use my voice in a safe environment and set healthy boundaries.
Thanks for your thoughts, but I don’t want to start a relationship with someone who is trying to get younger women by lying to them. This has nothing to do with my trauma, I’m fully capable of having hard conversations. This isn’t one of those times. I don’t lie about my age on the app because I always lead with the truth, and I choose to have people in my life who feel the same way. It’s a clash of values, not a relationship issue.
ME.. don't forget chocolate fondue for dessert.. a fun game to play is called.. left right center.. each player has 2.00 in quarters (nickels or dimes.. ur choice) instead of the chips that come with the game..
I Love this spread! The talking is always a plus! You made the right choice about the guy you went on a date with, ICK!! Does he know all humans age. I am proud of your values! Thanks again for a FABULOUS spread and conversation. Also, I’m excited for your holidays plans, sending love to you and Bumble❤❤
Bumble is barking because it’s really her RUclips channel so she is just giving the people what they want ☺🤗 She’s probably talking about her week and thoughts on how well the tree turned out. 😏😁
YES. Lol. ❤❤
haha
Argh on the fall leaves. We moved and don't have to deal with them any more. But boy, do I miss the fall colors. And what a treat to host your family a Christmas.
I love chatty videos. This was a cute spread.
Thanks for doing one of these again! Love them and the chatting too. You made the right decision about that guy. Not trustworthy. Good luck with your Christmas shopping!🎄❄️
Thank you for doing another after the pen ❤
At least he has a conscience! Super video! Thanks.
I love your spreads and just want to say that I truly MISS your Big Happy Planner pages that you used for journaling/memory etc
Really cute spread love it ❤
My favorite type of video from you.
Good Morning, listening while working.
Glad I could keep you company - I hope you’re having a productive day!
Oh my goodness, Mary Ellen! When Bumble barked around 11:40 time stamp, I thought it was one of mine here!! Too cute - no worries on the barking from this fur mama. Thanks!
Love your chatty videos!!!!❤
We are getting a Wawa soon! Can't wait to try it!
My therapist tells me the same thing! Always give yourself grace ❤
These stickers are gorgeous 😊❤
Love everything about this spread
Love after the pen videos! ❤
My iPhone alarm does that too! It used to keep going & my dog would howl to help wake me up but now it’s either not as loud or the snooze doesn’t work. I bought a cheap alarm clock from Walmart that works well.
Oh man that’s annoying! I have to use multiple alarms lol
@ 😂 oh I know!
Really cute spread.
Hi Bumble!!
Very Sweet Spread. I love the cat and dog. Sorry about your date! Have a good week. Hugs❤
OMG, your date reminded me of a Seinfeld episode where George goes on a blind date and the woman is bald and he was turned off and Elaine is screaming at him “BUT YOU’RE BALD!”
I think you did the right thing!
😂 totally
veggies and soft pretzels for the cheese fondue!
Awwww I LOVE that your parents adopt old dogs! That’s so sweet. It makes me so sad seeing old dogs dumped at the shelters. Love the spread! Bummer about the date. 😑 I totally agree with you. It’s IS ageist and specific towards women! I feel like society is ok with men aging but not women. And I love these videos!
Yes it actually makes me so mad that we are like that as a society. I think part of why I didn’t go out with him again was my deep rooted feelings about that. It feels just so icky
I'd have been like, well maybe I'm not attracted to men in their 60s. I like living vicariously through your dating adventures while I cuddle with my cats and watch RUclips. 😂
Haha my mom told me I should have said that
Makes me wonder if he’s really 62. Anyway I am on the east coast we don’t have Wawa in NC. Funny story for the longest I thought people were talking about Walmart 😅
Re: the date....if the guy is willing to lie about a little thing like his age, will he lie about the bigger ones too? Gives me the ick too! Run, girl! I think you should go about your life, doing what you love, and chances are, you will meet someone who loves the same things. Good luck!
Good advice, but honestly I really don’t get out enough to have that happen. I agree - total ick
Love those nail colors! Do these require a lamp or do you just put it on? I watched It Ends with Us last week - what did you think of it? Great spread.
They need a lamp. You can get one on their site or they have inexpensive ones on amazon too
I love Colleen Hoover books. People either love them or hate them!
@@PlanningwithBumbleI love her books. Read them because you talked about them. I loved the movie.
Will you be doing a video on your Hemlock & Oak 2025 set up? Would love to see it. Mine arrived and I am getting ready to set up the first few pages.
@ yes all of that is coming! Although I don’t think there will be much needed for setup
So ironic, I just watched a video tutorial about a gal with clip in bangs. Almost made me want to get some. 😊 it may be worth a chance?
That's wonderful that your parent's adopt older dogs! How sweet! As for the guy, you should've said you had a good time, but you just don't date men in their 60s! Lol. I'm 66 but people tell me I look 10 to 12 years younger. Age is just a number. And he's right - that is shallow. It's about the person, not their age.
The guy is a huge red flag. Eventually you are going to be 60. Is he going to dump you or whoever he is dating then?
Exactly
If it was just for the algorithm, he should have told you upfront in a private message BEFORE the date. My thoughts... 🙃
100%! I might not have gone though
Wait, so he’s ok lying about his own age because he isn’t attracted to women who are the same age as him, but he thinks that’s totally fine to trick the women who also might have their own preferences?!? And I wouldn’t say he’s shallow or superficial. I have a different word I won’t type. 😒 You’re being way too nice. Oh, the things I would have said if I were in your place!
I disagree on the age thing. If he was intentionally lying to be manipulative, he wouldn't have confessed so early or on the first date. I think the best thing to do would have been to have a talk with him about it and hear him out and voice your concerns and why it affected you so much. Trauma response is to avoid and walk away. You have to have those uncomfortable and vulnerable conversations especially when looking for a life partner. My opinion is to talk to your daughter(s) and your therapist in the future because they would know you best. I say this as someone who's therapist is trying to teach me to use my voice in a safe environment and set healthy boundaries.
Thanks for your thoughts, but I don’t want to start a relationship with someone who is trying to get younger women by lying to them. This has nothing to do with my trauma, I’m fully capable of having hard conversations. This isn’t one of those times. I don’t lie about my age on the app because I always lead with the truth, and I choose to have people in my life who feel the same way. It’s a clash of values, not a relationship issue.
@ and it’s healthy to have that boundary with yourself. I struggle with those tough conversations and so I misread that that’s what happened.
I am 58 and his statement is a NOPE for me. I'd be out. One day I'll be in my sixties dude.
Yeah, it really rubbed me the wrong way, honestly!
Nope nope nope… once a liar always a liar 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Yupppp!
ME.. don't forget chocolate fondue for dessert.. a fun game to play is called.. left right center.. each player has 2.00 in quarters (nickels or dimes.. ur choice) instead of the chips that come with the game..