My wife and I have been separated for 4 months. She moved out. We now have the best “Friendship” we have ever had, because I had to look deep inside and make changes. I 100% drove her away and after 25 years she finally got the courage to pack up. I’m proud of her. Unfortunately as well as we get along now and she says all the time I feel jealous some other women might get this new you and still tells me she loves me, however she’s not in love with me anymore and not sure she could forgive me for the past. I know it’s only been 4 months but it’s hard holding on to someone who may or may not ever want to reconnect with me. Sometimes I feel like I’m prolonging the inevitable. But I don’t wanna give up
I am going through the same thing with 5 years short of your marriage. I can't say that we're as close as you two are because there's alot more wounds that are still open. How do I get past the hurt that turns to hate?
Junior this is a common thing that exes do get jealous when you are moving on to someone else. They still feel threatened as they expect you to be a doormat and plan b bs which I say hell no.
I wouldn't give up either my wife of 29 years said she wanted a divorce. We live in the same house but have different bedroomshe is the love of my life and I'm trying to le a better husband. Hang in there buddy you will get through this
The truth is become the best version of yourself. A woman usually leaves because they think they can find something better. Workout, lose weight, learn a new language, develop new productive skills, etc Its simple really. Make her regret leaving you
My strategy to having them come back is start having all your prior female contacts start bombarding you both phone and emails and social media. My wife pulled some crap on me involving her ex and claims she did nothing wrong so I got all my females friends calling me and asking if I want to hang out. Wife went on damage control mode and surrendered.
I take one from your advice....se have Fight,and after that she wont Talk with me ....and i Say to she....i Just Will one Thing....belive me....and i Spin she around.....than she smile....thx...Mann your advice are top of hill
Josh I got her saying all the right things and she's saying she wants to be with me and our daughter but yet she's delaying pulling the trigger how do I lead in this situation I don't want to just put a day and a altermatum and be pushy but same time I'm getting dragged on the roller coaster she's got a boyfriend that she's says she's leaving and I don't know what to believe she's also using opioids again and she wants to get clean etc but I keep getting the run around I got all the gos except for a day to go get her and all ours stuff I took my space lol 600 miles away from her what do I do
I’ll be real. Some of this is mushy mush but some is real too. Many women I’ve cheated with pretty much do say the same, it’s easy bc their man gets soft, becomes their girlfriend and let’s them make all the decisions in the relationship. Telling no lies the script is almost identical with each chic I’ve dealt with
Josh my guy I set up another call lol I already did one but now it's time to do a real investment in myself what are the odds of you calling me yourself or jumping on my call June 5th at 10:30 am really really want to talk to you and thank you in person and give you some Fred back that maybe useful for the guys like me doing this on there own and having success team work can make the dream work
well, so even if you can, should you? here's your dilemma- get the one back that you know is no longer in love with you or go for the next one that may or may not get in love with you. I'll chance the next one every time. she'll at least be hotter, prettier, younger till I find out 😎 message to the ladies- all is not lost, I'd stay with the last one if not for drama and contempt. let that sink in.
A woman says something, believe her. Does she always tell the truth? Of course not. But if she’s going to talk about not loving you anymore or wanting a divorce, just look at her and say Bye. I’m 54 and while I’ve had a number of great female friends, I’ve never had a romantic relationship with one where it was worth it. Get a dog.
My wife and I have been separated for 4 months. She moved out. We now have the best “Friendship” we have ever had, because I had to look deep inside and make changes. I 100% drove her away and after 25 years she finally got the courage to pack up. I’m proud of her. Unfortunately as well as we get along now and she says all the time I feel jealous some other women might get this new you and still tells me she loves me, however she’s not in love with me anymore and not sure she could forgive me for the past. I know it’s only been 4 months but it’s hard holding on to someone who may or may not ever want to reconnect with me. Sometimes I feel like I’m prolonging the inevitable. But I don’t wanna give up
Our coach Liz broke up with her husband for two years before they got back together. I am going to make a video on it later on the channel
I am going through the same thing with 5 years short of your marriage. I can't say that we're as close as you two are because there's alot more wounds that are still open. How do I get past the hurt that turns to hate?
Junior this is a common thing that exes do get jealous when you are moving on to someone else. They still feel threatened as they expect you to be a doormat and plan b bs which I say hell no.
Did it ever turn around?
I wouldn't give up either my wife of 29 years said she wanted a divorce. We live in the same house but have different bedroomshe is the love of my life and I'm trying to le a better husband. Hang in there buddy you will get through this
The truth is become the best version of yourself. A woman usually leaves because they think they can find something better. Workout, lose weight, learn a new language, develop new productive skills, etc
Its simple really. Make her regret leaving you
I agree! You should always strive to be the best version of yourself. If you notice space for improvement you should always go for it!
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Sooooo.....when is the woman supposed to change?
Right
Never lol remember you're here because you love her for who she is . We can talk about that if you'd like lolol just lmk
His method is based on the man leading the relationship in a positive way which will facilitate the women’s change
I want to make the call but when I clicked the link it lead me here
My guy your so right
My strategy to having them come back is start having all your prior female contacts start bombarding you both phone and emails and social media. My wife pulled some crap on me involving her ex and claims she did nothing wrong so I got all my females friends calling me and asking if I want to hang out. Wife went on damage control mode and surrendered.
Wow. I love the 8:40 minute mark about forgiveness! 🤯🙌🏻
Thank you!
Why does Adam look like he could be your brother lmao
Josh this should be tought in school I swear bro
Class is in session!
I take one from your advice....se have Fight,and after that she wont Talk with me ....and i Say to she....i Just Will one Thing....belive me....and i Spin she around.....than she smile....thx...Mann your advice are top of hill
Question what about a woman who is married to her mother and not her husband
This is my story. Mother controls her.
I deserve my my and no other man deserves it. I need to be a better and more masculine man for her. My marriage will not fail.
Josh I got her saying all the right things and she's saying she wants to be with me and our daughter but yet she's delaying pulling the trigger how do I lead in this situation I don't want to just put a day and a altermatum and be pushy but same time I'm getting dragged on the roller coaster she's got a boyfriend that she's says she's leaving and I don't know what to believe she's also using opioids again and she wants to get clean etc but I keep getting the run around I got all the gos except for a day to go get her and all ours stuff I took my space lol 600 miles away from her what do I do
How did it work out with you?
I’ll be real. Some of this is mushy mush but some is real too. Many women I’ve cheated with pretty much do say the same, it’s easy bc their man gets soft, becomes their girlfriend and let’s them make all the decisions in the relationship. Telling no lies the script is almost identical with each chic I’ve dealt with
First off that's fucked up. Secondly at least you are telling us what not to do.
Guys..I hung up the drink..got the wife back..show her youre DONE
Josh my guy I set up another call lol I already did one but now it's time to do a real investment in myself what are the odds of you calling me yourself or jumping on my call June 5th at 10:30 am really really want to talk to you and thank you in person and give you some Fred back that maybe useful for the guys like me doing this on there own and having success team work can make the dream work
Bin her ,when they are done that's it. They usually check out months before.
4 Wives Solves all Problems / Become Muslim.
As-salamu alaikum. I might just do this and find a Muslim lady in Egypt.
What if there's people trying to ruin us?
well, so even if you can, should you? here's your dilemma- get the one back that you know is no longer in love with you or go for the next one that may or may not get in love with you. I'll chance the next one every time. she'll at least be hotter, prettier, younger till I find out 😎
message to the ladies- all is not lost, I'd stay with the last one if not for drama and contempt. let that sink in.
A woman says something, believe her. Does she always tell the truth? Of course not. But if she’s going to talk about not loving you anymore or wanting a divorce, just look at her and say Bye. I’m 54 and while I’ve had a number of great female friends, I’ve never had a romantic relationship with one where it was worth it. Get a dog.
That is sad to hear. You are missing out.
Men ignore this LET HER GO AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE
You’re 100% right and I had to learn that lesson the hard way.
If you didn’t cheat on her or beat her, then she’s just being a spoiled little brat. It’s not your fault that your wife left you.
Yep move on and bring zero self awareness along with you that’s a recipe for success
@@climbinghenge6382 your comment is absolutely f****** stupid and makes no sense