Q&A AS WE COOK// Discussing Motherhood, Marriage, My career, Age, My 20s

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024
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  • @carolmutua5266
    @carolmutua5266 Год назад +118

    I gave birth to my daughter when I was 21 and let me tell you Maina, I was definitely not ready so I agree with Maggie. Motherhood hit me like a slap in the face even though I love my girl. I was also definitely with the wrong partner. I usually tell people to take their time cause even now at 30 I still haven't met my life partner and I'm not in a rush. Parenthood is such a great responsibility. I was blessed to have supportive parents so I was able to finish uni and do all the other things people do in their 20s like dating and such, but I don't advise on settling down so early.

    • @Maureen997
      @Maureen997 Год назад +2

      Woow,thanks for sharing babe I also gave birth at 22 and went back to uni,hugs❤

    • @nurugizani3075
      @nurugizani3075 Год назад +2

      At 21

    • @jecintawanjiru5044
      @jecintawanjiru5044 Год назад

    • @carolmitei2011
      @carolmitei2011 Год назад +2

      I totally relate to this, had mine at 20, wee !!!!!! thanks to supportive parents though........

    • @thozyceethemama6052
      @thozyceethemama6052 Год назад

      And le me tell you Maina we are the same😂😂

  • @doreenkanario9789
    @doreenkanario9789 Год назад +30

    I gave birth to first born at 24 who is 14 now❤ second born 28 and then Niko na 9 months olds❤..all C's..hapo ndio tuko na baraka za bwana yesu😊😊

  • @janeliams395
    @janeliams395 Год назад +37

    Hi young girls, please have fun I got my first born at 17 and lemie tell you it was not easy.. but now I’m happy having a teenager at 34 I feel so blessed thank you Maggie for the video ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @queenqui2024
    @queenqui2024 Год назад +13

    Aaah nice turning 33 too in may.... Marriage needs so much of loyalty, faithfulness and trust .. I too got married at 28yrs but it only lasted for one year already finalized my divorce but am now happy and very comfortable.

  • @josianebushoki9714
    @josianebushoki9714 Год назад +24

    Hey Maggie I love watching your videos and you inspire me a lot. I'm 40 but look like 20 and thank God so much about it. I had my first daughter @ 27. I'm now planning to have the second one.

  • @nailedbykakie
    @nailedbykakie Год назад +15

    Thank you Maggie!! For talking about postpartum depression, I am a first time mummy and I rem taking my son to my brother and sat in the bathroom crying, my baby wouldn't sleep at night I felt overwhelmed plus all that that was happening to my body was unbelievable. Thank you for encouraging us really ❤️❤️

  • @catherinenjoroge2588
    @catherinenjoroge2588 Год назад +14

    I love this woman so much and I always pray for her,may the hand of God be upon her and her whole family...she is a gem in this RUclips world

  • @mwapemwape3363
    @mwapemwape3363 Год назад +21

    She's so calm and well put together ❤️❤️

  • @michellekijedi3436
    @michellekijedi3436 Год назад +35

    I love how you are so open. All the prayers as you raise your baby

  • @sanaipeigladys4775
    @sanaipeigladys4775 Год назад +28

    Wow I'm 30 and I can also tell a 20s girl to just have fun 💃 it's very important you will not have to go back to doing stuff when you're past time. Maggie your content is authentic I love you so much I admire your life 😊 you are blessed gal

  • @wakanyoninyaga
    @wakanyoninyaga Год назад +21

    I Like what Maggy said on some questions Maggy says Do You !!! There is no ultimate manual on how life turns out for each person, so i echo what Mrs MMG says , Do You!!! I would like to say also don’t compare yourself just follow your path and be the best version of yourself. I moved to UK last year and I am starting all over again and I am cheering myself on because it’s never too late to do me. Much Love to Maggy!!

  • @annekinuthia1750
    @annekinuthia1750 Год назад +8

    I love how you think.Your attitude is great ...spells confidence,Grace and peace.

  • @mercywanja1183
    @mercywanja1183 Год назад +16

    i really dont have wifi but every Sunday i must buy bundles for you....huh you really inspires me! God bless you always!!

  • @familyhour351
    @familyhour351 Год назад +15

    Wow thanks Maggie for this! My Sundays are dull without your vlogs... Yeah we have different 20s experience... Gave birth at 23 and my daughter is turning 26! And I have a 12 year old son I love motherhood how I wish I could get more kids but wah... Not at 50😂😂 I am having fun now... It's so much fun.... keep the vlogs coming....

  • @GNyanaro
    @GNyanaro Год назад +9

    Yes, Maggie you're a lawyer. Every advocate is a lawyer but not all lawyers are advocates.

  • @mercywambui1504
    @mercywambui1504 Год назад +15

    Very true...I love the part you said that the right person comes when you aren't looking and I agree 💯

  • @paulinekariuki684
    @paulinekariuki684 Год назад +9

    Hi Maggie! I love your channel! Anyway, my take home today is "Find your niche!'

  • @wambui_micoore
    @wambui_micoore Год назад +13

    Happy to see Cookie and Otis are still part of your growing family 😻

  • @gracealvins2141
    @gracealvins2141 Год назад +14

    She's so humble. I like her content so much

  • @Aj_purple
    @Aj_purple Год назад +19

    Her mindset is amazing ❤❤❤. Love from Ghana 🇬🇭 ❤️

    • @Aj_purple
      @Aj_purple Год назад

      I couldn't participate in the questions
      I would love to know the types of books she reads. Hopefully, she sees this

  • @toluasaolu
    @toluasaolu Год назад +4

    I love your attitude, Maggie.
    I don't think anyone can ever be ready for motherhood, no matter the age. Maybe, when are older, you prepare better, when you are younger, your body bounces back better. I agree with you though that 20s are the time to build yourself. My friends who got married earlier have teenagers and I envy, they also envy cos they feel I have got it all. I got married when I was 28, had my first child at 30 and even though I took a four year break from my career to have my children, I was able to get back to work and a career.
    Keep up the good work, you inspire a lot

  • @Simply-Life-with-Es
    @Simply-Life-with-Es Год назад +8

    Downloaing to watch in a few minutes without network interruptions . Love from Tanzania 🇹🇿🇹🇿

  • @elizabethkaranja1704
    @elizabethkaranja1704 Год назад +70

    Hiii Maggie am 21 years old ,have loved watching your videos since COVID,love your consistency,discipline and genuineness,do stay blessed in everything thing you do.Just know that you are a motivation to us young girls.i pray that your you tube channel grows 😊😊

  • @Sonoiya_Towett
    @Sonoiya_Towett Год назад +61

    I love everything about your channel Maggie.I am that mama who had my daughter when I was 20 and I am turning 33 too in May 19th.Yes I have a teenager (turning 13 in May 16th)and wow.There are so many lessons so far but if I would change one thing in my life it would definitely be do things differently in my 20s because I am struggling with achieving a million and one things now and still planing to have my second baby in 2024.So I would also advice a person in their 20s to do things differently and take a step at a time.This marathon I am on now is not funny by the way 😂 but we move regardless.I am so happy to be here and the lessons are coming in handy...Happy Sunday and thank you for this Content.❤️💖

    • @marymarya5462
      @marymarya5462 Год назад +1

      Awww, am also turning 33 in May.

    • @catherineomondi7850
      @catherineomondi7850 Год назад +4

      Turning 34 in June. Can't believe Maggie is only a year younger than me. I really need to get my shit together.

    • @veronicamwaura4844
      @veronicamwaura4844 Год назад +1

      My birthday mate.. Hey🎉🎉🎉

    • @Sonoiya_Towett
      @Sonoiya_Towett Год назад

      @@veronicamwaura4844 Happy belated birthday beautiful ❤️

  • @tinahpinah
    @tinahpinah Год назад +5

    This girls hands can say everything.hardworking is the name.

  • @janetjean1412
    @janetjean1412 Год назад +2

    I have 3 kids, 6 yrs, 3 yrs , 6 months old...am 29... planning to enjoy my thirties...there is no manual to life

  • @donnawangia9679
    @donnawangia9679 Год назад +24

    I am having post partum depression, sometimes I cry alot😢😢😢😢we are 1months 5days old but I am holding on

    • @dorahmulinge3800
      @dorahmulinge3800 Год назад +2

      Sending hugs🧡🧡, may help and light come through 🙏

    • @eunicenyawira4526
      @eunicenyawira4526 Год назад +1

      Sending you love and light,a day at a time darling ❤. This is just a season that will soon end.

    • @JustCiku
      @JustCiku Год назад +3

      Get help medical as well as lots of help with family and friends. You shall be well, a day at a time.

    • @MaggieMwende
      @MaggieMwende  Год назад +2

      Sending you love dear...all I can tell you it gets easier but please get help if you can.

    • @linnmoraanash
      @linnmoraanash Год назад +1

      It's just a matter of time dear hugs

  • @tanoyamelbuckley6687
    @tanoyamelbuckley6687 Год назад +5

    In my opinion shearing the responsible as husband and wife is a grate thing my hubby and I shear bills and I feel good about it,i’m actually contributing something and it give me some what a sense of independence.
    Ps the crop top you're wearing I love it.❤❤

  • @monicahmbugua2451
    @monicahmbugua2451 Год назад +14

    Thank you for telling people about the body! Why are we pressuring each other about weight after birth? Let's enjoy these tummies and our babies

  • @Fovour
    @Fovour Год назад +1

    I gave birth to my first born when I was 20 my second 2018, 3rd 2020 and last 2022 he's now 8month two boys, 2girls. Turned 30 last year October I thank God I found my bestie. Love from 🇺🇬

  • @stephie3915
    @stephie3915 Год назад +2

    This team never stops doing good....I'm blessed to have experienced this pure love in my country❤🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @candymogotlane1138
    @candymogotlane1138 Год назад +10

    We are the same age (32 turning 33), sharing the same birth month, my birthday is on the 17th May, now I see why I love you 💃💃I just moved to Kenya from South Africa this month, please share where you buy affordable toiletries and groceries.....

    • @MaggieMwende
      @MaggieMwende  Год назад +3

      Carrefour 😊

    • @ummumursal5362
      @ummumursal5362 Год назад

      @@MaggieMwende maggie ...naomba uniambie products ya kutoa black kwa armpits na bikin ..and a good shaving cream

    • @carolmutua5266
      @carolmutua5266 Год назад

      Karibu Kenya🤗

    • @candymogotlane1138
      @candymogotlane1138 Год назад +1

      @@carolmutua5266 Asente Sana 😉

    • @rizzmuthoni7973
      @rizzmuthoni7973 2 месяца назад

      ​@@ummumursal5362 try Kojic soap on armpits

  • @harrietwabiz
    @harrietwabiz Год назад +3

    My daughter is 19 months now and am still breastfeeding and il still breast feed until she stops.... By herself....my tummy looks bigger coz am addicted to ngano... Thats chapatis mostly.... Il start regain my flat tummy once am done breastfeeding if any one is not ok with it Shauri yao..... 😅

  • @susankareithi1888
    @susankareithi1888 Год назад +4

    Am that mom of a teenage boy...he's turning 12 and I'll be turning 34 this year ....2nd born is 6yrs last born is 2yrs....all are boys and i was done at 32....enjoying life now....though it wasn't easy....weeeehhh...

  • @kaqheeykimani4231
    @kaqheeykimani4231 Год назад +4

    Maggie you insipre me in and out....i cant even start explaining i changed most of the things i did...you are special...

  • @charitykemunto7875
    @charitykemunto7875 Год назад +8

    I'm in love with your content ❤
    And your hacks on making a home are top notch! Been following through on your motherhood journey. Thanks for the content.
    Btw, I'm a May baby like you😊

  • @missney3156
    @missney3156 Год назад +6

    Today marks three years for this Chanel. Happy three years to your channel

    • @MaggieMwende
      @MaggieMwende  Год назад +1

      Ooh really 😂I had no idea ...thank you 😊

  • @joyushafa967
    @joyushafa967 Год назад +26

    Thank you so much Maggie for deciding to start this Chanel. My life's been transformed since I started following your content. You're such an amazing inspiration to me. I love you so so. You've allayed so much fears I had as a young lady from this Q&A.
    Thank you🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @TheDigitalHustlek
    @TheDigitalHustlek Год назад +2

    Aawwww❤❤. On the niche, I get you loud. I am stay at home mom, working remotely. It's been hard settling on one niche. I am a Developer and today I have decided it as my niche! Thank you and Blessings!

  • @marystephanie1169
    @marystephanie1169 Год назад +1

    I gave birth @22...motherhood is not easy. I love my son like no man's business

  • @lynetteashaba61
    @lynetteashaba61 Год назад +3

    I'm from Uganda and I love watching your videos. You really inspire me in certain angles.

  • @reneewambui896
    @reneewambui896 Год назад +3

    "Sasa mbona iko na mafuta surely"thats it thats my take home

  • @wanjerikeige3059
    @wanjerikeige3059 Год назад +4

    Love this. On leaving baby trust your instinct, it is usually a roller-coaster but you will pull through one day at a time. Please plug us on the money market.

  • @barbarahandura5585
    @barbarahandura5585 Год назад +1

    I love your answers on your Q&A i know most of us are curious to know more about your son but on a Christian point of view I would advise that you keep everything to yourself about your baby as this world is not clean. Pray over him on a daily basis cover him in the blood of Jesus. The day you decide to share more about your baby please pray and seek God’s heart until you have inner peace to share. You and your family are in my prayers may our Good Lord protect you and keep you in good health cover you under the blood of Jesus

  • @khulekilenkosi
    @khulekilenkosi Год назад +1

    Hi my mother passed away when baby was 2 months it was hard because jurying my pregnancy I was sick with fibrous so I was still in pains and my sister when to stay in my grandparents house and I was left with my first son and baby needed my attention I was always tired it was very sad moment for me I missed my mom always 😭😭😭

  • @shanicesimon7713
    @shanicesimon7713 Год назад +2

    The joy I've had when you said you are a Georgerian😍😍😍 I also went to St.Gee

  • @elsieandelisa804
    @elsieandelisa804 Год назад +1

    Mavuno is awesome...you are most welcome. We are real people with real issues with a real God.

  • @Yvonne_456
    @Yvonne_456 Год назад +9

    A lot of he things you've said in this vlog resonates with me. Some things you've said, I've heard them twice in a span of two weeks. That's something. You're inspirational ❤️ love that for you. I'm twenty. I'm taking you at your word. Have fun, but not too much fun. Be responsible. Learn, relearn and unlearn. Got that ❤️ thank you, Maggie ☺️

  • @annwanyoike3326
    @annwanyoike3326 Год назад +2

    I love your content Maggie you truly have transformed my house cleaning. I come to you for tips and inspiration. Mad love many blessings to you and your family.
    I got a s1000 shark steam mop and wow I love it!!
    How you usually clean the pads, I machined wash it and it didn’t get well clean and I was concerned it may get damaged.
    Thank a lot for all you do!

  • @annemugo4372
    @annemugo4372 Год назад +5

    Maggie thank you so much for this.........am in my forties and yes you are teaching me sana am really motivated

  • @CHOSENCYNTHIA
    @CHOSENCYNTHIA Год назад +14

    The fact that the video Is 1hr long makes me more happy❤ thank you maggie

  • @queendayoh
    @queendayoh Год назад +4

    I skipped Manchester United game just to watch you...Totally worth it💜💜💜Anyway GGMU💪

  • @leonidajemutai
    @leonidajemutai Год назад +1

    How you Maggie i got my baby on 3 December,and really followed you all through my pregnancy,and thank God for save delivery, please gift me with the baby product.

  • @shesblack8917
    @shesblack8917 Год назад +4

    Guys guys guys aki motherhood is a struggle , most times I just cry ...I want to escape but i can't , especially when you're not financially well off 😭😭 .. PREMIUM TEARS

    • @chapatimoto
      @chapatimoto Год назад +1

      Hang on girl,it shall come to pass.

    • @whitneywamaitha1254
      @whitneywamaitha1254 Год назад

      Same case to me but I keep on pushing when I look at the little bundle of joy I have❤

  • @coleenngaruiya6471
    @coleenngaruiya6471 Год назад +4

    I am doing this adult learning thing and even if i am reading for exams i must create time to watch your video. You are such an inspiration❤

  • @dalflc
    @dalflc Год назад +3

    My Sunday can't be complete without watching my favourite youtuber..love you gal

  • @Blueberry_red
    @Blueberry_red Год назад +11

    I think we've gotten a hint of your experience with a nanny while you were looking for your pan🤭

  • @wanzajalia9169
    @wanzajalia9169 Год назад +1

    Maggie this is the best advice ever honestly one feels like I can't take it anymore so always ask for help from your partner or your nunny

  • @elsykinyanga5369
    @elsykinyanga5369 Год назад +2

    My fascination with cats need prayers btw, i love those creatures so much

  • @elinahmutope9072
    @elinahmutope9072 Год назад +5

    I'm watching you from UK. When l had my twins l was on my own all my family and hubby were back in Zimbabwe. It was only God who took care of us. Thts all l can say. It was hard and l had another 7yr old.

  • @ireneakinyi86
    @ireneakinyi86 Год назад +1

    I love how your fur baby keeps you company

  • @ummie.nyambura
    @ummie.nyambura Год назад +5

    Hi Maggie,learning alot from you especially on motherhood journey.

  • @celestialfogo7274
    @celestialfogo7274 Год назад

    I gave birth at 23 will turn 27 this year my son is 3yrs ,its been a wonderful journey

  • @joycekagendo1301
    @joycekagendo1301 Год назад +5

    Hi Maggie, your channel is very authentic and educative, keep it up

  • @pattiwanyeki436
    @pattiwanyeki436 Год назад +7

    I am so loving today's session. Thank you Mwende for sharing this.

  • @lynethsmith4692
    @lynethsmith4692 Год назад +12

    Hi. A few things...
    1.Can non Kenyans purchase property?
    2. I've noticed tubers using your name as a search link. I think you should trademark it so you can branch out with your own line of home care products etc in the near future. The Americans do this quite often for the same reasons. Others are getting wealthy off your name; why shouldn't you??
    3. Today is Mother's Day in UK, so Happy Mother's Day to you.

  • @rosemuema3850
    @rosemuema3850 Год назад +9

    We are all lucky and blessed to listen to you on Sundays.. Thanks soo much maggie.. You add value to our lives weekly. 🤗🤗

  • @agnesdacha4882
    @agnesdacha4882 Год назад +4

    Maggie you are such an inspiration. God bless you.

  • @blessedlady6326
    @blessedlady6326 Год назад +1

    I think somebody can get married when they feel they are mature enough to handle marriage issues.

  • @Aj_purple
    @Aj_purple Год назад +10

    I can watch her videos over and over ❤❤❤ love from Ghana 🇬🇭 ❤️ 💕 😍

  • @clarenyakoa8239
    @clarenyakoa8239 Год назад +4

    Hey hidea😊love ur content always am glad we are agemates☺️tho will turn 33dec 8 hata ufupi ni same😅 Mimi nilienda Tu marathon mother of 3girls😅anyways I love you gal be doing Q nd A sanasana😊

  • @mwanjanguni
    @mwanjanguni Год назад +4

    I love you and how you inspire me in everything you do. Watching from Zambia.💕

  • @tbanda
    @tbanda Год назад +1

    Exactly that's the only real I experienced right after the birth of my babies❤️❤️❤️❤️watching you from Zambia🇿🇲

  • @mumbimwangi
    @mumbimwangi Год назад +7

    Personally I'm the first born child at home a girl for that matter having siblings lookup to you with no clue of what's right or wrong it's so confusing but since I started watching you're vlogs it feels different especially on hygiene thank you Maggie ❤I love you❤

  • @ntombidube534
    @ntombidube534 Год назад +6

    Hey Maggie loved the cool & relaxed Q&A session

  • @sylvianungari8277
    @sylvianungari8277 Год назад +2

    I have been waiting for question and answers video. This should be more often

  • @tinaleleb
    @tinaleleb Год назад +2

    You're right. CiTAM Karen's youth program is awesome.

  • @nakamyajannat4654
    @nakamyajannat4654 Год назад +7

    Maggie you're so amazing
    I love you content. Thanks for sharing with us ❤

    • @nakamyajannat4654
      @nakamyajannat4654 Год назад

      I dream to see you one day and i know it will happen if God continues granting us with the gift of life
      Much love from me and my other ugandan people ❤

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 Год назад +3

    I had my baby at 38yrs. Pregnancy and motherhood is not a joke. You need all the help you can get. I had an amazing nanny and my mother was so helpful. I did not get postpartum depression but, I got postpartum anxiety. It was so bad i needed therapy and I went for it. So yes ALL THE HELP YOU CAN GET, GET IT.
    But even with all that drama.... I love my baby so much and I enjoy him daily. Enjoy all the stages of motherhood.

  • @lynnmutai2023
    @lynnmutai2023 Год назад +6

    Loving how authentic you are ❤ and truly you are living the purpose in your life God bless you and your family 🌹🥰

  • @malkia_nutrition
    @malkia_nutrition Год назад +5

    I have enjoyed your video. We got kids around the same time in December. Am I have been learning a lot from you channel. I have also documented most of my journey as a new mum. Thanks for being honest

  • @suzanne6922
    @suzanne6922 Год назад +4

    Woow Maggie I love your hubbiez advice. Your such an inspiration❤

  • @herlbertkibidi4171
    @herlbertkibidi4171 Год назад

    Yes you are write,apo kwa enjoyin youself in your twenties👍sahii utalea mtoto Kama Haina tamaa mingi

  • @doreenkanario9789
    @doreenkanario9789 Год назад

    When resume to work use your perfume at car then immediately when get home remove /refresh.

  • @CookingNursebae
    @CookingNursebae Год назад +3

    I'm loving the motherhood journey🥰🥰

  • @linetkawira4605
    @linetkawira4605 Год назад +1

    My beautiful Queen 👑🌹 is here yeeeeey! I love you so much dear alwz my big siz if only we had options of choosing siblings 🥰

  • @elizabethliz7132
    @elizabethliz7132 Год назад +3

    Thanks Maggie love every thing you do what you are going back to work.

  • @ampurireesether3012
    @ampurireesether3012 Год назад +1

    Yo ain't alone dear ...I don't like going to court practicing law but I'm past bar thou but no job ... and I feel bad about it 😭

  • @levinaringoma
    @levinaringoma Год назад

    As old as I am but huwa nazubaa ni ki watch video zako. I just love you..barikiwa na usalimei mjukuu wetu

  • @ruthlagat8711
    @ruthlagat8711 Год назад +3

    I have loved your channel from kitambo you are so humble and inspiring❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @beatricemuumbo2409
    @beatricemuumbo2409 Год назад +4

    Am addicted to your channel Maggie,I love everything you do .

  • @gracesereyah7479
    @gracesereyah7479 11 месяцев назад

    preach mama!!!Enjoy every moment don't stress about what people expect!respect❤

  • @catherineomondi7850
    @catherineomondi7850 Год назад +2

    That top is beautiful. Please share a link to the thrift store you mentioned in the video. Always looking for new clothes and dresses.

  • @its.diearth4896
    @its.diearth4896 Год назад +9

    Your cat in the background😂😂😂 is so cute

  • @marykareru4183
    @marykareru4183 Год назад +1

    My cutest mamii❤ I love how you accept you self in addition to weight gain

  • @reneewambui896
    @reneewambui896 Год назад +1

    Pls its not advisable to recommend a doc ,the experience is relative ,check Your DM

  • @nancyymwelu
    @nancyymwelu Год назад +4

    Love the consistency and the new video setting 🤍

  • @Beckycooks9264
    @Beckycooks9264 Год назад +1

    Am happy this video is long. Very interactive. Thanks for sharing also a Barrister from Nigeria 🇳🇬

  • @k-kamori8842
    @k-kamori8842 Год назад +2

    Hello Maggie Mwende , where did you get your white top from? It's beautiful and I'd like to buy it.

  • @janerobinson9697
    @janerobinson9697 Год назад +5

    Hi Maggie.. the Q&A is good and real.
    All what you have said about the first month after delivery is true. I wish someone had told me that without mincing words. It catches someone by surprise! The peeing 😂😂😂😂