"sometimes you gotta go thru a lot of BS to appreciate the person who is supposed to be with you." Girl, YAS. The man of your dreams is out there and damn it, he was worth going thru the WRONG ones to get to him. Thanks for this Shayla!!!
Shayla! Such good advice for young girls about not letting a man pick them up!!! That is NOT SAFE! Same thing if you meet someone you met online. Have someone go with you, go to a public place, don’t let them walk you to the car, etc. Get to know them first! That advice was on point! 👌🏾
This is why I love you! This look is perfect and thank you for giving us honest advice.. I always tell people you have to make yourself the kind of woman the man you want would want 💕💕
I was the same way with my husband! I DID NOT like him at first but it was only because I wasn’t ready. We’ve been married for 6years and expecting our rainbow baby in less than 30days! ❤️
Yasss Shay!! Being single make you know urself more and want not to accept in a relationship too. They was just hating on you because your such a BOMB ass person! 💜💜
Shayla is so right about everything. It's so much better to be yourself instead of trying to portray yourself as a perfect person. That way, when they fall for you, you know they're falling for your real self and who you really are... The right person will adore all your quirks and you won't really have to hide anything. You can just be yourself and it's really beautiful when you find somebody who you can feel so open and comfortable around
Shayla you made me cry 😭 I've honestly been single for so long that I cant even bare it anymore. I moved to Barcelona almost 7 months ago and I haven't met anyone... and the guys I have gone on dates with are only after one thing. Been on all sorts of dating apps and deleted them all. I am tired!!! Exhausted!!! People keep telling me when I stop looking I'll find someone but I've been single so long that I am always on the lookout for Mr Right. I just wanna be loved.... Watching this video gave me that little extra hope I need... thank you for this. Honestly from the bottom of my heart I am thankful. love you ❤
TabMUA I just subscribed to your channel! I see you in a lot of RUclipsrs comments and you’re icon pic is stunning so I clicked and fell in love! You are very talented!
Shayla, I can just see how happy you are, I just want Les to know you have a whole gang backing you up OKAY! lol but glad you're so happy. I Know the feeling of finding someone that just feel sooo right. It makes you understand why everything else didn't work out. God bless y'all
Loved this video. You did touch on many good pieces of advice! I hope you do a dating tips series.. it would be helpful. I know me personally I have gone through dating nightmares... but i still have my head held high through it all. I will say you're right. To anyone who is single and having bad luck.. the more you focus on making yourself that much more happy and that much more satisfied someone will come along that DESERVES the beauty that you have and the things you have to offer. It is not easy what so ever.. but being a queen and finding a king is not something that comes easily...
Anyone ever just stare at Shayla and get lost in the perfection of her blending skills and then realize you just missed everything she said? Total married woman here lol, but frfr ..i don't even know why she uses foundation bc her Damn skin is like butterrrrrr! Hmph! 😩 goals and not fair. 😂😉💯
I remember watching a video you posted about being how you started in business and being single. I wondered why you were single because you have such a radiant personality. You and your boyfriend look amazing together. Love your videos!!!!!
Sooo true! 💖The right person will come your way! And NEVER settle for less than PERFECT! Bc we all deserve it! 😇 I love this date look it’s stunning and your natural beauty comes through Shayla! 💋
Great video! I love a good natural look too. I love makeup, but I feel my best and prettiest keeping it simple. Being single for a long time and dating morons SUCKED, but I didn't give up hope. I spent 10 years being unhappy! Now, I am in the healthiest, most fulfilling relationship I've ever had and he proposed 2 weeks ago!!! (He got me a FAT rock too!!! Won't He do it?! Yes lawd!) Don't give up, ladies. Someone will swoop in when you least expect it and be everything you hoped and prayed for! I'm a living testimony.
Is the universe trying to tell me something???? This is right on time Shayla ❤️❤️❤️ I've been single for aloooooong time too girl. Thanks for posting this video, I love how you are so down to earth and relatable!
This was so cute! I liked hearing the advice and makeup tips! Do more like these please! Maybe your go-to look for meetings and tips on being confident in business environments??
I'm so happy you posted this video, I have a first date tonight and had NO IDEA what do with my make up or what to wear!! Your advice was perfect! Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Love these types of videos, your personality is so real and you'd be such a great friend for advice and to talk too! Next video you should talk about what growing up for you was like, I'd love to know! ❤️
Happy to see you so happy Shayla honestly. I've been a fan for a long time and I can see the difference in you. Love the dating tips and the make up look also! 💜
I thought you gave really good advice especially the don't have them come to your house at first! I was single for a long time too (dating in LA sucks) and now I've been with my bf for two years. Had to kiss a lot of frogs to find him! So happy that you're happy!
I loved this sooooo much Shayla! You said everything I needed to hear definitely helped me let my guard down a little! Next date I'm wearing this look! #LesGetMeABae 😂😂😂 #Strut&Slay 💁🏾
Hey Shayla! I'm one of your older fans. Love the makeup, and seeing you two together y'all always look like your having so much fun. Enjoy, you deserve it! One request... can you do a video on what you pack when you go on vacay, i.e. makeup, what's in your carryone. Favorite travel items, outfits, what you wear on travel day etc...ect... I'm going on a trip next month and would appreciate some ideas.
Great look and great advice Shay! Especially about taking advice from people in bad relationships. They may think they mean well, but in actuality they're coming from a place of frustration and misery. I take everything with a grain of salt because relationships aren't a "one size fits all" kind of deal anyway. And I've also noticed a HUGE difference in dating in my 30's vs my 20's.
Please do not give up on love. I met my now husband in jamaica 2013, it was love at first sight literally. Who knew my husband was on an island lol ?So travel ladies you never know lol -we had a long distance relationship for 2 years - anyway he moved here & we got married 11/11/ 2015 - we are so in love. ❤️ Love Birds 😘
Beautiful look Shayla and great advice! I recently broke up with my boyfriend and hearing you encourage single ladies like me really helped me feel better also you and Les are goals!!
Hey Shayla!! I absolutely adore your content so much and I'm so happy that you found someone to put a smile on your beautiful face. A neutral smoky eye is a classy look.
This is the perfect date look. Fresh and classy. Love it. Recently started dating someone and been trying to do simple looks as I don't want to look over done on our dates lol thanks for sharing I'm going to do this look on my next date.
I LOVED THIS VIDEO!! Honestly you are such an inspiration I've been watching you for a couple years and have learned so much! This video made me feel like an older sister was genuinely helping me be great. Thank you sooo much SLAYla
Ugh you are always so beautiful!! You can either do all natural or full face beat. You can never do no wrong!!! Also I really like the advice you gave in this tutorial. It is so true and very useful.
Love this for date night and love all your dating advice I needed it as a little reminder to keep doing me and wait for the right person. Thank you Shayla!!! 💗💗
Love this, and love love love the mascara!! I'm blessed that I have long lashes, just never hard a dark black mascara that really wowed me and this one does!
I love how real, strong, but also sweet you are. This look is simple yet flawless & I'm gonna use it for a date I have on Sunday! Thank you! Love you! ❤
ughhhhhh I needed this talk! this is soo my current life story!! and trust the struggle before meeting that one good person is everywhere cause im struggling in Abu Dhabi!
I love how easy this look is to create especially for those of us who are still learning. And, it’s beautiful!
"sometimes you gotta go thru a lot of BS to appreciate the person who is supposed to be with you." Girl, YAS. The man of your dreams is out there and damn it, he was worth going thru the WRONG ones to get to him. Thanks for this Shayla!!!
Shayla! Such good advice for young girls about not letting a man pick them up!!! That is NOT SAFE! Same thing if you meet someone you met online. Have someone go with you, go to a public place, don’t let them walk you to the car, etc. Get to know them first! That advice was on point! 👌🏾
This is why I love you! This look is perfect and thank you for giving us honest advice.. I always tell people you have to make yourself the kind of woman the man you want would want 💕💕
I was the same way with my husband! I DID NOT like him at first but it was only because I wasn’t ready. We’ve been married for 6years and expecting our rainbow baby in less than 30days! ❤️
Krystal Morris Aww, this melts my heart. Congratulations to you both
Waiting for a guy or girl that fits your standards is worth it. Be yourself, have fun & do not settle.
Your mate is out there, be patient. 😊
Yasss Shay!! Being single make you know urself more and want not to accept in a relationship too. They was just hating on you because your such a BOMB ass person! 💜💜
Great advice Shayla. Having someone who accepts you is worth the wait.
when you've been single for 6 years so you dont even remember what dating is like 😍
Your skin acting crazy is my skin in it's best behavior
I'm watching this when I'm single af.🤣😂🤣
Shayla is so right about everything. It's so much better to be yourself instead of trying to portray yourself as a perfect person. That way, when they fall for you, you know they're falling for your real self and who you really are... The right person will adore all your quirks and you won't really have to hide anything. You can just be yourself and it's really beautiful when you find somebody who you can feel so open and comfortable around
Shayla you made me cry 😭 I've honestly been single for so long that I cant even bare it anymore. I moved to Barcelona almost 7 months ago and I haven't met anyone... and the guys I have gone on dates with are only after one thing. Been on all sorts of dating apps and deleted them all. I am tired!!! Exhausted!!! People keep telling me when I stop looking I'll find someone but I've been single so long that I am always on the lookout for Mr Right. I just wanna be loved.... Watching this video gave me that little extra hope I need... thank you for this. Honestly from the bottom of my heart I am thankful. love you ❤
Nicole Njeri just focus on doing things that make you happy and you will find your soul mate :-)
Makeupshayla I will 😊 Thank you again ❤️
Look at Shayla out here with her perfect beat and glow 😍
TabMUA I just subscribed to your channel! I see you in a lot of RUclipsrs comments and you’re icon pic is stunning so I clicked and fell in love! You are very talented!
Love that you gave us dating advice! I am happy taken after being single for 5 years. Love you Shayla!
Shayla, I can just see how happy you are, I just want Les to know you have a whole gang backing you up OKAY! lol but glad you're so happy. I Know the feeling of finding someone that just feel sooo right. It makes you understand why everything else didn't work out. God bless y'all
And ladies they ALWAYS come along when ur not looking or don't want to be bothered.. don't block ur blessings keep ur options open..
Loved this video. You did touch on many good pieces of advice! I hope you do a dating tips series.. it would be helpful.
I know me personally I have gone through dating nightmares... but i still have my head held high through it all.
I will say you're right. To anyone who is single and having bad luck.. the more you focus on making yourself that much more happy and that much more satisfied someone will come along that DESERVES the beauty that you have and the things you have to offer. It is not easy what so ever.. but being a queen and finding a king is not something that comes easily...
Jennifer Ruiz facts!
Anyone ever just stare at Shayla and get lost in the perfection of her blending skills and then realize you just missed everything she said? Total married woman here lol, but frfr ..i don't even know why she uses foundation bc her Damn skin is like butterrrrrr! Hmph! 😩 goals and not fair. 😂😉💯
You & Les are Couple Goals! 💜 he seems so supportive of your work
it feels so refreshing knowing what you are saying is pure confirmation . Wish you and Les the best !
I remember watching a video you posted about being how you started in business and being single. I wondered why you were single because you have such a radiant personality. You and your boyfriend look amazing together. Love your videos!!!!!
Eeeeeek I just bought your baddest black mascara yesterday! As soon as it was stocked in NC I had to get my hands on it Aaaaaayyyyyyyeeeee.
I love the makeup and chit chat advice always on point!!!
Love the Natural Slay!!!!!!! I think this is one of your signature look!!!! 😍😍😍😍
Yeeesss Shayla, pretty simple look. Les is more as they say...go slay boo!!!
Really love how this look turned out.. super subtle but still stands out - love
Sooo true! 💖The right person will come your way! And NEVER settle for less than PERFECT! Bc we all deserve it! 😇 I love this date look it’s stunning and your natural beauty comes through Shayla! 💋
So happy for you! Best tip ever... Be yourself! The right one will see you and appreciate you. Keep killing the game 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Lisa Barnett that’s the realist thing I’ve ever said lol
Loved the advice! Honestly an advice segment on your channel would be awesome from time to time, you're great at it.
I'm in that stage where I keep attracting the wrong guys :(
I was admiring how on point your brows are and then you say one is thicker, girrrrrll no your brows are perfect! 😍 I love this look Shayla!! 💜
Being yourself is the best advice!
Great video! I love a good natural look too. I love makeup, but I feel my best and prettiest keeping it simple. Being single for a long time and dating morons SUCKED, but I didn't give up hope. I spent 10 years being unhappy! Now, I am in the healthiest, most fulfilling relationship I've ever had and he proposed 2 weeks ago!!! (He got me a FAT rock too!!! Won't He do it?! Yes lawd!) Don't give up, ladies. Someone will swoop in when you least expect it and be everything you hoped and prayed for! I'm a living testimony.
quinci hickman congratulations girl, I believe you
Shayla I need you to come out with Strut & Slay merch. I've been waiting for it.
Yassss I appreciate your tips Shayla!!! THANK YOU!!! This is a much needed conversation for single, ambitious girls!
All of your advise was sooo good. As the only single lady of my friends I completely understand how you feel when they bring you down. Thank you ❤️
Is the universe trying to tell me something???? This is right on time Shayla ❤️❤️❤️ I've been single for aloooooong time too girl. Thanks for posting this video, I love how you are so down to earth and relatable!
This was so cute! I liked hearing the advice and makeup tips! Do more like these please! Maybe your go-to look for meetings and tips on being confident in business environments??
I'm so happy you posted this video, I have a first date tonight and had NO IDEA what do with my make up or what to wear!! Your advice was perfect! Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
THIS IS PERFECT TIMING!!! i'm 20 and going on my first date tomorrow, EEK!! ur advice is really helpful thank youuuu
I had to pause after 1 second..the colors, lighting..girl you look so stunning!!!
Love these types of videos, your personality is so real and you'd be such a great friend for advice and to talk too! Next video you should talk about what growing up for you was like, I'd love to know! ❤️
“You want them to see into your soul” 🤣 girl i love this whole video because I feel you 100%!
Happy to see you so happy Shayla honestly. I've been a fan for a long time and I can see the difference in you. Love the dating tips and the make up look also! 💜
Yess honey misery loves company!! You are absolutely perfect!!!
I loved everything you said!!!! From one happy girl to the next!! You’re awesome🙌🏽 Pray you continue to spread the love and GREAT TIPS!!!
Arielle Bachus 😘😘😘
shhhhiiit shayla gonna get all of looking good on our dates
I thought you gave really good advice especially the don't have them come to your house at first! I was single for a long time too (dating in LA sucks) and now I've been with my bf for two years. Had to kiss a lot of frogs to find him! So happy that you're happy!
Shayla! I just love that your so real and you give realistic advice we could ACTUALLY use!! love you girl!
"you ain't coming to my mothereffin' house" from the book of niggapleasians😭, i don't know you like that yet homey🤣
I loved this sooooo much Shayla! You said everything I needed to hear definitely helped me let my guard down a little! Next date I'm wearing this look! #LesGetMeABae 😂😂😂 #Strut&Slay 💁🏾
Hey Shayla!
I'm one of your older fans. Love the makeup, and seeing you two together y'all always look like your having so much fun. Enjoy, you deserve it!
One request... can you do a video on what you pack when you go on vacay, i.e. makeup, what's in your carryone. Favorite travel items, outfits, what you wear on travel day etc...ect... I'm going on a trip next month and would appreciate some ideas.
You glowing darling I'm happy for you! 💕
I love the tip about uncurling the lashes. I tend to not really wear my lashes that have too much of a curl. Thanks Shayla!
seriously i luv u shayla!!! i find so much of u in me, its like ur my long lost sister.
Great look and great advice Shay! Especially about taking advice from people in bad relationships. They may think they mean well, but in actuality they're coming from a place of frustration and misery. I take everything with a grain of salt because relationships aren't a "one size fits all" kind of deal anyway.
And I've also noticed a HUGE difference in dating in my 30's vs my 20's.
Thank You, Shay, for tje encouragement, i almost cried. because im over ready, for Love.....im gonna stay strong and keep working on me 😘
Please do not give up on love. I met my now husband in jamaica 2013, it was love at first sight literally. Who knew my husband was on an island lol ?So travel ladies you never know lol -we had a long distance relationship for 2 years - anyway he moved here & we got married 11/11/ 2015 - we are so in love. ❤️ Love Birds 😘
Beautiful look Shayla and great advice! I recently broke up with my boyfriend and hearing you encourage single ladies like me really helped me feel better also you and Les are goals!!
Love how simple and pretty this makeup look is!💖
i love makeup looks that look so effortless yet so captivating !! your stunning shayla
Hey Shayla!! I absolutely adore your content so much and I'm so happy that you found someone to put a smile on your beautiful face. A neutral smoky eye is a classy look.
This is the perfect date look. Fresh and classy. Love it. Recently started dating someone and been trying to do simple looks as I don't want to look over done on our dates lol thanks for sharing I'm going to do this look on my next date.
I LOVE YOU! LAAAAWWWWD KNOWS I NEEDED THIS 😫. You never seem to fail me Queen. 🙏🏾
Why are you soooo Shalicious!!!!! Love it! You know you’ve reached that level when you can encourage other women with such positivity. Love you Shay!!
I LOVED THIS VIDEO!! Honestly you are such an inspiration I've been watching you for a couple years and have learned so much! This video made me feel like an older sister was genuinely helping me be great. Thank you sooo much SLAYla
Ugh you are always so beautiful!! You can either do all natural or full face beat. You can never do no wrong!!! Also I really like the advice you gave in this tutorial. It is so true and very useful.
I love this !!!! Go Shayla 💕💕💕
Love this for date night and love all your dating advice I needed it as a little reminder to keep doing me and wait for the right person. Thank you Shayla!!! 💗💗
You were on point with the advice!!! You have to be yourself to find the 1 for you.
Love this, and love love love the mascara!! I'm blessed that I have long lashes, just never hard a dark black mascara that really wowed me and this one does!
Yeah I really love this! Single ladies, take your time and be you!
Be yourself and the right guy will love it. That was so sweet. Great advice Shayla that's true! 💕
Made some good points Shayla! Love the fresh look
Seeing you as a fellow brown girl actually makes me want to wear pinks on my lips, which I did recently and loved it.
I wish you and Les the best!! Good advice!
The best part of Monday’s are when I get a notification that you have uploaded a video 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 #TGIM
TamaraTodayShow 😘😘😘
Yes, I'm here for this look, u look so pretty and I freakin love your brows.... on point!!!
Hi Shayla! Love you & this look! The lashes take it up a notch
Exactly...just be yourself. If that's wearing A lot of makeup then so be it.
I really love the dating tips Shayla! Like HELL NO am I getting into some strangers car on the first date!! 😂
Yes!! 👏🏾👏🏾 right on time for my anniversary date this weekend! 😍😍
Absolutely killed this makeup look! OBSSESSED!❤️
Thank you Shayla! This look is so simple yet beautiful! Thanks for the advice!
great advice Shayla, taking advice from unhappy people is definitely a NO GO.. team single for a while lol
Love the look! Great advice on not letting people know where you live!!
Keep giving the advice. Some may not need it but as long as one can use it then you accomplished the task. Ty
Love this lookkk!! Absolutely stunning 😍 can you do a autumn/fall tutorial please?! How do you prep your skin/foundation when it's becoming colder?
So pretty shayla , please do a dating series !
Great advice and I love that look. So pretty and natural! Definitely gonna try that! 😻😻💕
Girl this was helpful ! Love the look and advice !!
dating is soooo hard lol
Adilenne Reyna You just have to be yourself & have standards.
Adilenne Reyna It is but it will get better. Just keep living your life. And continue to work on yourself.
Okayyy thanks for the tips auntie shayla!!!!
I just wanted to say I love your makeup looks and videos. I enjoy your personality. You are such a cool lady!
Giiiirrrlll we need more of these kind of videos!!
I love how real, strong, but also sweet you are. This look is simple yet flawless & I'm gonna use it for a date I have on Sunday! Thank you! Love you! ❤
Shayla you are just so warm and selfless and i wish you all the love and happiness with your new man! Lovely and simple makeup
This video is so real and relatable. I'm so happy for you and less and can't wait till you get that 4 carat ring :)
ughhhhhh I needed this talk! this is soo my current life story!! and trust the struggle before meeting that one good person is everywhere cause im struggling in Abu Dhabi!
Rainey Amore I have a friend #winkwink