Kami Kami Lang Ep2: Embracing Our Differences - The Power of Diverse Friendships 🎙️ [ENG SUB]
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- Опубликовано: 19 окт 2023
- In this episode of the 'Kami Kami Lang Podcast,' we're pulling back the curtain to give you an inside look at our friendships. We're not just three pals who always see eye-to-eye. In fact, it's our differences that make our bond so strong.
We'll dive into the traits and habits that each of us brings to the table, even when we don't necessarily agree. It's a glimpse into the quirks and qualities that shape our dynamics and proves that diversity can be a superpower when it comes to friendship.
So, get ready for some candid stories, a few laughs, and a deep dive into the beautiful chaos that is our friendship. Tune in and discover the magic of being 'Kami Kami Lang.' 🤝💫 #DiverseFriendships #KamiKamiLang #FriendsForever"
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Maging open-minded unawahin na iba iba tayo ng perspective.
Matutong makinig at respetuhin ang mga sinasabi o desisyon ng bawat isa. BE MATURED!
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Acknowledge that we all have different opinions. Depende kasi sa experience ng tao kung paano sila titingin sa buhay. Hindi ibig sabihin na tama sa paningin niyo e tama na sakanila.Siguro mas lawakan lang natin yung pag intindi at hanapin natin yung reason kung bakit sila nag come up sa ganon o bakit ganon yung interest niya. Because that is the part of love. The more na may hindi tayo naiintindihan, the more na mas kilalanin natin sila. Diversity is good rin naman kasi may mga perspectives na sila yung nakakakita at natututo tayo. Kaya napaka important ng communication.
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Overcoming differences in attitude or interests with a friend can be a challenging yet rewarding process. The key is open and honest communication. Start by initiating a conversation to better understand each other's perspectives and interests. Listen actively and without judgment, allowing your friend to express their thoughts and feelings. Find common ground, even if it's a small shared interest or activity, to strengthen your bond. Additionally, respect and accept each other's differences, acknowledging that no two people are alike. Embrace diversity in your friendship, as it can bring new perspectives and enrich your experiences. Remember that it's perfectly normal to have differences, and they can make your friendship more interesting and dynamic. Be patient and adaptable, willing to compromise when necessary, and value the unique qualities that each of you brings to the relationship. Building and maintaining a strong, healthy friendship often involves embracing these differences as opportunities for growth and learning.
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Respeto at maging open minded ka as a friend accept it na ndi kayo pareho ng interest/desisyon kaya respetuhin dapat ang isat isa😊❤
Taboo subject is difficult. But I admire SB19 because they were able to talk about a difficult subject. Subject w/c people would rather choose to mute. Something w/c we would choose to discuss w/ doors all closed. There are norms or "patakaran" w/c we religiously observed because we value peace more than being honest. It's a no no. But for me, truth no matter how it can be hurtful, is the most liberating thing in the longer end of the tunnel.
I think understanding in FRIENDSHIP is the most important. Because we have different attitude or interests in life. Second is listening. Lahat tayo iba iba ang ugali so para overcome nyo lahat ng pagkakaiba sa ugali nyo i think OPEN FORUM is the best way to know each other and to say anu ang ayaw nyo sa isat isa. Isa yan sa way para magtagal ang isang pagkakaibigan.😊❤ Just take it in a positive way.
1 thing is for sure. They wanted us to know that side of them. They won't make it public if 1 or 2 of them was against it. Like what they said, they're breaking the norm. Thats them, wether you like it or not. So its either you continue supporting them or not. That simple.
Yes Harry you're right, true to their tag line, they are really breaking the norm not only in k-pop world but in entertainment industry as a whole 😊💙
In my opinion, I think the best way to overcome the differences in attitude or interest with your friends is through respecting each other's life.
Thank you so much, OT3, for this insightful video. This is just my take and observation because I know that there are a lot of youtubers out there, but to me, you are UNIQUELY AWESOME! There is just something about your conversations that hits differently for me. One, you remind me of my own circle of friends. Not necessarily similar, but I just get that same vibe - the same feeling of quirkiness and love. Two, the amount of sincereity that you three have for each other that it trancends through the screen without you three even trying, because there's nothing to try anyway. You three just fit and belong to this friendship. And of course, I love your ideas, your opinions, and how you expressed them in a way that ignites comfort and challenge. You are very smart. And not just that. You are brilliant, but there is humanity in it. Indeed, my three favorite people on RUclips. I just hope for the Kami Kami Lang Podcast to continue and last for a long time. I cannot demand anything, of course, but this is just my hope. Anyway, this isn't for the ticket. It's late, and I can't even use it no matter what because of my schedule as well, but just to give my two cents for your question, I think we can overcome differences in any aspect of a friendship if all parties involved are sincere, intentional, and if fate really is on your side. Being sincere means being honest with your feelings, setting and communicating healthy boundaries, and not trying just to please the others, but at the same time giving love sincerely without any malice or hidden agenda. You just give it away because you want to. Being intentional means giving effort because you want to. For example, time. Sometimes it's not about having time, but rather making time, even just for a while, to catch up. Meeting each other halfway without crossing boundaries. And lastly, fate. I am not really certain as to how I could explain this, but you know that feeling when you just don't like someone no matter how you try, even if that person is not doing something bad to you? That. For me, friends are soulmates. Friendship is more than just what movies or books portray it to be. It is beyond explanation. Or maybe I have just yet to find the right words to describe it. But yes, I believe that meeting someone and becoming friends with that person has something to do with destiny. Just like how I "accidentally" found your channel in 2021 when I felt like I was on one of my lowest points in life. Sometimes, you cannot just force things, and that includes friendships, even if you are not that different from each other. Sometimes it's not the ideologies; it's the person.
Sabi nga sa TGCF (idk if alam niyo ho to, pero ito ho):
"The one standing in infinite glory is you; the one fallen from grace is also you. What matters is 'you' and not the state of you."
For me, ganyan din ang friendship. It doesn't matter kung sino siya, ano siya, or anong pinagkaiba niyo. You just love your friend because s/he is your friend. Hindi mo i-totolerate, especially if nakakasama na talaga sa kanya ang ginagawa niya and hindi mo talaga gusto ang ginagawa niya, pero hindi mawawala ang love, for the simple and basic reason na siya yun. Friend mo yun.
Ewan ko ba kung may sense pa ba sinasabi ko, but ayan po haha.
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Love it❤❤❤
Im saving this video, i love all the friendship talks. You've taught me a lot. Thanks OT3! 😘
Sorry, may pacontest pala at question kineme, di po ko kasali ha. 😹
Team replay..this is a good sharing.
Bongga. See u soon OT3!
Di ba may kasabihan na: mas naalala ang pagkakamali ng isang tao kaysa sa mabubuting gawa nito.
Nung lumabas ang episode 2, ang bilis nating nakalimutan yung mga good qualities na naishare nila sa episode 2 at yung mga good qualities na nalalaman natin from inside their cirle.
For me, after ng epi 2, i appreciated them more kasi they somehow let us in sa circle nila. And very thankful ako for them being open kasi my perspective about human broadens. Hindi lang ako natuto sa kanila, kundi pati sa mga tao na nagbigay ng feedbacks about the said episode. It maybe disappointing for others, but for me it's not. Kasi i understand the set up at obviously that was recorded a month ago na ata, and for sure approved yan ng lahat nang invovle, and i hope they expected that there would be backlashes after this. I just prayed for them na nga lang afterwards kasi nga it's a bit sensitive topic that they'd oppened up.
And lastly, i envy their dynamics, kahit yung samahan nyong OT3..you know, sa amin ng mga bestfriends ko, tatlo din kami, but atm, in hot waters ang friendship namin. Siguro kasi di kami ganito ka-open sa isa' t isa. The first time na nag open forum kami was thru gc lang dahil lockdown pa noon...and that did not went well, dun nag start yung distancing... 😕
After this ep2, dami ko realizations sa buhay pati sa aming magkakaibigan..
Really, i cant thank them enough for this. And praying for their stronger bond too as a brothers.
Thanks din OT3. 😘
Sorry, haba ng comment ko. Haha.
I remember during election, I also shared my thoughts on socmed of my political views, my friends and I had different opinions pero nung nagkita kita kami, walang nagbago. Minsan lang kami magkikita kita pero hindi nagbabago yung friendship kahit magkakaiba kami ng point of views sa mga bagay bagay. Actually, yung pag unfollow during election sa mga relatives ko naexperience yun 😅 like pablo, bilang lang din sa daliri kasi friends ko kaya mahal na mahal ko yung mga yun kahit minsan magkakaiba kami ng interest 😅
Btw, yung episode 2 ng a'tin a'tin lang ay actually a good one for me, napaka genuine lang. Huhu basta mahal ko ang SB19 at walang magbabago dun 💙💙💙💙💙
We always say that if we want to achieve something or change something, we should always start with ourselves. For me, the first thing to do in overcoming differences between you and someone, may it be a friend or stranger, is to accept that no two people are alike. We are all unique individuals and thus each of us has different views and preferences which can be contradicting to our own and that is okay. After accepting that diversity, one should learn respect. We have a saying that, "We agree to disagree", in that we acknowledge that we have opposite views and therefore would respect each other's. I think that if you learn these two things then you can overcome any differences between you and someone else. It might be difficult at first particularly if one doesn't have an open mind and is stubborn but once you surpass this and learn to accept and respect, it won't be as hard as before.
Btw good discussion!
A'tin watching from spain🇪🇦
That would be respecting both boundaries and beliefs. Kasi you don’t have to agree sa lahat ng bagay kasi parti na yun ng pagkakaibigan, you just have to respect each other and try to understand kung ano ba talaga ang paniniwala or pinaglalaban nyo so you know how to adjust or to handle things at some point.
For me, to overcome a difference with an attitude or interest or include na natin yung changes na nangyayari/growth sa friend mo, is to just acknowledge it and accept yung differences. And after acknowledging it, I also process how to deal with it. I have been going through this since my friends are in different seasons na, pamilyado na sila yet single pa ko. So yung priorities nila iba na. At first it was hard to accept, but eventually in-acknowledge ko na at unti-unting pinoproseso na things will not be the same as before but the bond and love is still there. I try to be available pa rin sa kanila. Pero ewan ko may boundaries na rin akong nilagay for myself.
Di ko ma gets yung "a'tin daw" sila pero kapag nakakita agad ng konting "issue" about sa lima, apakabilis bumitaw!! Yung totoo?
Ang swerte ng a'tin to have this kind of content galing sa sb19, naniniwala ako na ginagawa nila to pra mas lalong mapalapit sa atin, ginawa nila to kasi tiwala sila na open tayo to accept them kung anuman sila HINDI PARA I-JUDGE sila at gumawa pa ng isyu na walang kwenta! Wag puro kuda ng nega at katoxic-kan, mag self check din tayo kung ui! 😊
Live ba to?😊
About election wala akong na e unfriend Ako lang na block 😂😂 pero move on yun gusto niya eh
I wish I didn't hear and see what I heard and saw. Some things are meant to be tackled behind closed doors, especially because they were very detailed and specific with their remarks about each other. That's all. I didn't think there was a big need to have an open forum publicly. Not every viewer or listener can interpret their convos in a positive way. I like how relatable they are in their vlogs, etc. but somehow, they were very detailed in their descriptions about what a person does instead of just speaking generally (e.g. just saying " late all the time", instead of "he's never gonna change so we just started to let him be"... "he sleeps in meetings", "he's not interested in group activities", etc. ) I hope it makes sense. I didn't see the need to be specific like that because that's too personal I think. It does put a person in a bad light even if they didn't intend to. I can't blame others, me included, if we see some of them differently now. I still love all of them, though. Nothing will change that.
Baka ksi ganun nmn talaga si ken. Pero despite that, ok nmn sila sa isat isa. Sadyang nadisappoint kalang talaga ksi may ganong unprofessional area si Ken. Masyado kalang madrama.
@jjeon8950 OK lang na magcomment ka sa comment ko kasi free ka to do that. That's my perspective kaya nga not everyone will have the same understanding. That's why it's dangerous to do that as public figures. Kasi may mga taong tulad ko and tulad mo. Iba iba ang take sa sensitive content. Masyado ka lang nag iinvalidate ng opinion na hindi aligned sayo. This comment was for MST to read. Not intended for you. They always encourage different opinions on their comment section because they like seeing that. So that's what I did. Gusto din nila respectful ang mga tao sa comment section nila. OK goods?
@@tashacarmelo2607 sabi nga ni blake neron silang fair share of time na sabihin ang AYAW nila sa isa't-isa..ei anu ung reaction mo ng sinabi ni ken na Matapobre si Jah. Ok lng yun? Hindi nmn nagcomment ang mga taga maisan ah. Bakit kung tungkol ky ken, parang aping-api si Ken ei pareho nmn silang lahat na may nasabi sa isat isa. Self serving bias lang? Pls lng, before nila pinalabas yan, may consent yan ng 5. Bakit ka affected ei ung mga boys nga they embraced their individual differences, talked about it and made sure na they are mindful of the feedback towards them and willing sila to better themselves. Huwag masyadong e relate ang self mo sa kanila sis. Remember, iba ang situation kung silang lima mismo ang magkasama, unlike sa atin na fan at tagapanood lng, iba ang interpretation natin. Gusto nila icontent ei para mas makaconnect sila sa fans. Wala tayong right na magsabi ma "sana private nalng to" and such. Fan lng tayo. Un at un un.
@@jjeon8950 OK.
Kung yung podcast will help ken improve his professionalism at marealize niya he needs to change then so be it. Magalit na at madissappint n ang madisappoint. Baka lalo kang umiyak kapag laman na ng blind item si ken ng mga monster showbiz reporters. Iiyak talaga kayo sabi ko. Alalahanin niyo showbiz is a cutthroat industry. It takes only 1 issue if unprofessionalism to drag a person down! Ken needs to step up his attitude. I know maybe because of his being have not enough rest and sleep. If he needs professional to do that then so be it. Kailangan talaga ma realize ni ken at nilang lahat yan. Lalo sinabi din naman hindi n lang si ken ang nalalate db. Another thing. Hindi sila mere trainees or artist, they own the company thus they must show a good example esp professionalism.
Nakakaloka yung mga ganyang tao