In my opinion, a married couple should consider the 60 / 40 budget. Both should bring 60 percent of their checks and save 40 percent individual. The 60 percent should be enough to support the house and kids. Now if the man or the woman want to do something own their own, they can tap into their 40% of savings.
How can a wife who is being treated with love and respect from a husband (as the Bible says) raise her voice over a husband? Something must have happened to trigger that. And your concept of bringing your sisters before your wife, you should know that your sister is going to marry and bond with her husband against you. Since you can not have children with your sisters, you should rethink your future decisions well.
I work that long hours to take care of the family, support the church, and live the life i deserve and not to give the church unnecessary burden. God bless you 🙏
In Ghana, men are culturally and religiously brought up to believe that women should respect them in relationships regardless. Meanwhile the same culture nowadays send their girl child to school to study how to think for themselves which they do very well. This means men need to grow up a bit. 😅
@hagaryeboaa1129 it's the religion that wants women to remain in the past like 3000 years ago so men can use them for their pleasure. Remember that it's men who put the bible together. 😉
African women should ask themselves this question. Why have so many marriages in the West failed? If so, then why do you want to copy their lifestyle and their beliefs if those beliefs did not get them husbands but became single mothers.
They're divorcing their husband's because of benefits from the Government and later beg and pay young guy's to sleep with them sad oooo 😢....didos (sex toys) are destroying their kpepkus) vagina
A very good question. Let's think about it this way. Two people go into a contract. The State is on standby and tell one party that I'm with you if you feel like leaving come and I will facilitate you and punish the other party even if you are at fault. Indeed the State tells one party and reminds that party that hey cause problems and ill give you this and that. What happens?
15:00,Rev. this is a hard truth,my wife insulted me during a conversation and still it's hurt me,the love is down totally now.One thing every man wants in life is RESPECT but the opposite gender don't get this hard truth well. Great advice for us all,thanks Dj for bringing this man back,for his words are real and practical ❤
Think honest open minded pre nuptial discussions for about 6-12 months and no sex during this pre nuptials will help, such as spiritual, financial, family, educational, values, morals, friends, career, love language etc etc for each will help. Marriage is hard work, but we don't want to put in that effort. How do we succeed then. It's similar to building sustainable wealth over a long enduring period, that ends in joy, in happiness, contentment etc etc. May God enlighten us all..
The hospital one he talked about, its family liaison officers who administer those documents. Some of them are very aggressive in administering that form. It happened to my wife when she went for antenatal services. The moment the young girl saw "Married" written on her form, she called her into a side office to convince her. Wifie got up and left her there very angry.
It's not only about women raising their voice on men that diminishs love, the other way round is equally true.
A lot of women has been looked down upon for so long
Exactly, that entitlement mentally is unbelievable. Some men need to grow up a bit when they are abroad.
Thank you.
In my opinion, a married couple should consider the 60 / 40 budget. Both should bring 60 percent of their checks and save 40 percent individual. The 60 percent should be enough to support the house and kids. Now if the man or the woman want to do something own their own, they can tap into their 40% of savings.
How can a wife who is being treated with love and respect from a husband (as the Bible says) raise her voice over a husband? Something must have happened to trigger that. And your concept of bringing your sisters before your wife, you should know that your sister is going to marry and bond with her husband against you. Since you can not have children with your sisters, you should rethink your future decisions well.
Women dorothy don't love nice guys. Take note.
I work that long hours to take care of the family, support the church, and live the life i deserve and not to give the church unnecessary burden. God bless you 🙏
Sirnit goes borh ways. If a man insults a woman there is no love.
In Ghana, men are culturally and religiously brought up to believe that women should respect them in relationships regardless.
Meanwhile the same culture nowadays send their girl child to school to study how to think for themselves which they do very well. This means men need to grow up a bit. 😅
Hence one of the key causes of divorce these days. Women are no more accepting disrespect in marriage and some men don’t want to accept it 😂
@hagaryeboaa1129 it's the religion that wants women to remain in the past like 3000 years ago so men can use them for their pleasure. Remember that it's men who put the bible together. 😉
Hmmm every genuine person will automatically attract respect ooo, even if a child behavng genuinely. TU TUA DJN always the best.
My church full Gospel Church International God bless you our very own
Wow good advice
African women should ask themselves this question. Why have so many marriages in the West failed? If so, then why do you want to copy their lifestyle and their beliefs if those beliefs did not get them husbands but became single mothers.
Hmmm ....a question to the God's
They're divorcing their husband's because of benefits from the Government and later beg and pay young guy's to sleep with them sad oooo 😢....didos (sex toys) are destroying their kpepkus) vagina
A very good question.
Let's think about it this way. Two people go into a contract. The State is on standby and tell one party that I'm with you if you feel like leaving come and I will facilitate you and punish the other party even if you are at fault. Indeed the State tells one party and reminds that party that hey cause problems and ill give you this and that.
What happens?
African men should be asking the same question since marriage is between the man and the woman
15:00,Rev. this is a hard truth,my wife insulted me during a conversation and still it's hurt me,the love is down totally now.One thing every man wants in life is RESPECT but the opposite gender don't get this hard truth well.
Great advice for us all,thanks Dj for bringing this man back,for his words are real and practical ❤
It works both ways 😅
If u say both ways,you will never get a man who will understand you as a lady@@kikikeel7695
@@kikikeel7695exactly women are not trees we also have feelings.
RESPECT IS BOTH WAYS
@@Abronoma2024 If u don't respect a man, forget it
Good advice ❤
Think honest open minded pre nuptial discussions for about 6-12 months and no sex during this pre nuptials will help, such as spiritual, financial, family, educational, values, morals, friends, career, love language etc etc for each will help. Marriage is hard work, but we don't want to put in that effort. How do we succeed then. It's similar to building sustainable wealth over a long enduring period, that ends in joy, in happiness, contentment etc etc. May God enlighten us all..
No sex and at the end you realise the man is impotent 😂😂or the woman has no breast or turn out to be a man 😂😂😂
The hospital one he talked about, its family liaison officers who administer those documents. Some of them are very aggressive in administering that form. It happened to my wife when she went for antenatal services. The moment the young girl saw "Married" written on her form, she called her into a side office to convince her.
Wifie got up and left her there very angry.
Na true ooo
Spain is true
Na kyer3 se Counselor koraa mpo wo Problem
Okay 🤔
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@jay_stack1270 Satan was sent from above ooo (heaven) 😂😂😂 wahala everywhere
Pls ooo so why do you work very long hours: 13.5 hours a day, how many days a week pls. Hmmmm
Mm
insult and cheating