As a psychology major, I find this channel super reliable. If anyone haven’t taken an Intimate relationship class and is interested...it is this interesting:
The responses of desire are odd timed, the inability to accept it's only occurring in one direction, the wanted invasion of privacy to know the nonresponding targets thoughts/patterns.. Says the person is thinking childishly. Really one can have a sexual life right in front of the desiring person and they're still thinking..they're doing that for me. Really. I mean..please. Ignoring the fact the target is also gay. Friendship or not. How could desiring person not understand it. ..Stuck in delusion. Staying drunk. Both? 5 years, it was awful. In the case Im noting. It was more an excuse( unrequited love) to be an involved( infiltrating) enemy, than a pursuit for love. It was sick. Oversimplifying summary..get a life.
I am studying the 8 different types of love, as Sternberg (1985) implies. I am thankful for this video. I think it's interesting that one can know that there can be different types of love they experience, in terms with interdependency. Honestly, my favorite, of the 8, is companionate love. I think that is a given, because with that love, you can establish firm relationships with your friends, family, and a significant other.
What I appreciate about this is it gives us some concrete areas to work toward - developing all three aspects of love. What I've experienced in my marriage is the commitment because of the sake of principle and to please societal expectations without the passion or intimacy from either partner. This was helpful to me.
Excellent Video! Excuse me for the intrusion, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you considered - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (should be on google have a look)? It is an awesome one of a kind guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some decent things about it and my friend got excellent success with it.
Maybe it's the all-pervasive romance industry (crooners, playwrights, novelists, Hollywood) that is cruel, by planting, feeding, and selling false beliefs about relationships. The video is a breath of fresh honesty.
You guys should make a plain white t-shirt with your little logo on it. The little character reaching for the colorful tree, with "psych to go" in colorful letters on the bottom (or plain black letters). I would 100% buy that.
WARNING! CRINGEY COMMENT! READ AT OWN RISK! Thank you all working on this channel! Before I started watching you I was really confused about what was wrong with me. Like I've known I had ADHD since 2012 and I did suspect depression 2015 (My doctor confirmed the ADHD 2012 before I even knew what it was and depression 2016 after dealing with it a year) but I felt like there was something more. I wasnt like the others I still arent. Then I started watching your videos about being extrovert, introvert and ambivert and I realized that I felt that way because most of the other people are extroverts but me, I am ambivert (I am more introverted than extroverted tho but I still wouldnt say Im introverted). You help me understand myself and others.. And on top of that entertaining me. So thank you so much, I really mean it.
Had similar experiences until I understood that I was introverted. Made me feel like something was always wrong with me. I didn't discover it by this channel but it has really helped to understand myself even further. Glad it helped you too.
It reminds me of the 4 Loves, Agape (unconditional), Storge (Family) Philia (Brotherly/Friendly), and Eros (Romantic) This and the Triangle diagram of love isn't saying anything new though. Although I like the results and pairing. Agape love or God's love is hardest for the reason of itself. It's a love that exists in and of itself. That's hard to maintain for selfish creatures like ourselves. Consummate Love is probably hardest because Commitment, Passion, and Intimacy together are all outside of ourselves. They require love for nothing in return. That's hard in a society for instant gratification and even before because we have selfish hearts whether selfish feeling now or later. It still comes up in want like to pay back a debt. It's just singing naturally hard-wired. We want the keys to happiness but can't really handle it in and of ourselves. Its something that only exists outside the human experience and best expressed as Agape love , in which i will suggest is of and from God and His character for you as described and expressed in the Bible. Example: Love others as you would yourself: The Golden Rule. "Forgive as you have been forgiven. " If you hate your brother and say "you fool" you are guilty of murder. You shall not look with lust upon a woman. 1 Corinthians 13: The love Chapter Love is patient, kind, it isn't boastful, nor proud (doesn't think itself any higher than one should) , nor forces it's way. (It respects boundaries), It believes all things, it trusts all things said from the one they love. I suggest reading that chapter if anything. All of these things are OUTSIDE of us. Seeking the good of the other while not shaming or slandering but exercising compassion and love when correcting and being willing to sacrifice themselves and their own time, efforts, energy, while being wise and wishing the good of the other. God bless!!!
donnell outlaw That was Greek Philosophy of love wasn't it? are you a philosophy student? just askin' it's ok if you're not going to answer depends on your will.
So that's what it is. I've always had difficulty feeling most kinds of love and have fallen out of so many relationships from it. I lack passion, closed off intimacy, and fear commitment.
I agree with all of those types of love, but i feel like it looks different for every couple. Not every relationship looks the same because people are different, they show love differently & may connect differently. Good basis for it tho! Thank you for the video!
Love this and legit. A guide to know where you stand in a relationship. The Consummate Love can be completed with Divine/ Spiritual Love. If you found any, keep them. They are gold.
For merchandise, I think that a t-shirt with just the channel logo on it would be cool. No words, just the person and the colorful tree. It’s simple and represents the entirety of the channel. Grey, Black and White would be nice colors for that. Or maybe shirts with little doodles to represent different topics or themes that you’ve covered-because I adore the drawings on this channel and I think those shirts would be adorable. Also, little keychains might be snazzy •
Tbh I hate when people say that love is not forever. Because how do you know? Science can't say whether or not people have a relationship containing passion, intimacy, and commitment til they die.
I believe that there are more factors in love. I think passion, commitment, intimacy are key factors in a relationship, but I also think there can be more factors depending on the relationship. Loyalty and trust, in my opinion, is also key because it means they will be more comfortable and feel safer around their partner.
I have a question. How comfortable are most couples actually are with each other? I heard that most couples are actually shy around each other and don't like getting naked around each other, so they avoid getting naked around each other. I wonder if that's true.
Don’t let this discourage you from pursuing a relationship. While it may not be permanent, that doesnt stop you from enjoying what you have while you still have it. Love is a wonderful thing, and you should try to enjoy it in the moment and not worry so much about the future. The future will come as the present, eventually. Until then, just absorb the happiness that love brings. If it doesn’t bring you happiness, then maybe that person isnt right for you. 💕
I think your icon with the little guy reaching towards the colorful tree would be perfect on tee shirts, hats, mugs, etc. It's your channel icon after all.
I disagree with his explaination, because i think "commitment" like marriage is not a part of a relationship, but the result of one. I see the triangular seperated in 1) love and feelings 2) friendship and understanding 3) passion and attraction. By any mixture of those, a relationship with commitment is a possible result, but not a necessary outcome. The type of nonlove that way can even exist in arranged marriages, if the result is forced before task. Therefore nonlove in arranged marriages equals bussines relationships with people you have nothing in common with.
Darth Angral "Commitment" is, in my opinion, a form of self Love. It takes a level of integrity to have a commitment to and with anything. Especially with the instant gratification driven society that is being created around us. To commit to a goal is to truly love the goal? Absolutely Not! It is to love the integrity of such. Therefore to "commitment love" is merely loving of oneself to respect the integrity of the "relationship.
I disagree. You should make a commitment every time you enter a monogamous relationship. If you're not commited since the beginning and are still looking around what's the point of being in a relationship to begin with?
It does state it's a theory.... Meaning that it has not been confirmed or approved of yet but rather a theory. I do agree with some of your points though.
I think key to any relationship is communication. It context of this theory it would be part of intimacy and commitment but I think most of problems in relationships can be solved by simply talking - saying how they feel, what they need and want and listening to one another. luck if talking causes most luck of intimacy and is sign of luck of commitment
Just a random idea for a shirt merch, you could have the text "introvert" and then show an empty battery with the text below it "Low power insert alone time"
@@lauragodines8939 i completely forgot about this comment by now since it's been 2 years lol but it's basically daydreaming to a point where you're too distracted from the present and it starts to bother
Definitely a companionte love type. Passion is awesome but not really necessary for me. I'd rather have close friends for life than short intense relationships.
Sheeda LuvzKpop here's a technical way of explaining it cos I can't describe.lol. hope it helpsDyspraxia (or Developmental Co-ordination Disorder) is a complex neurological condition, which affects muscle co-ordination and perception. Perception includes vision, hearing and proprioception, or the awareness of where your limbs are in space. There may be developmental delays in some areas but heightened sensitivities or abilities in others. Dyspraxia exists as a condition on its own but is often found together with hyper mobile joints, Dyslexia, Dyscalculia, ADHD or Asperger’s Syndrome. Hope this helps. X
This video is so great! I feel like I've figured out something XD For the merch, I think you should definetely think about mugs. And also, for the designs, perhaps you could pick some cool quotes and add some drawings to expalin it.
If you're are a good person (I mean actually a good person not the type of good everyone thinks of oneself) you'll be able to recognise another good person and when you both meet you'll fall in love, the real one cause that wouldn't be cause of looks or wealth or passion bit for what you're from inside, your kind 💓/soul, and It'll never change, only grows
For an idea for the next video, perhaps it could be on extroverts! I myself am an extroverted person so it would be really nice for me to see a video like that!!
There is some thing beyond intimacy , passion and commitment and that is a pure relation in which There is no expectations from the partner completely unconditional sheer love and not attached . Commitment , intimacy follows this kind of behaviour . Even if one partner practices it the partner naturally starts reciprocating . This is how the Rishi’s and muni ‘s of India be in marital life’s . As long as there are Conditions of intimacy , passion and commitment true relationship doesn’t exist . True relationship is built on truth of unconditionally . Any relation if based on any condition , one day it has to violate . Hence the ideal yet challenging ( since self interest is given priority over others interest ) relationship is both coming together and set 0 expectations and each person is concerned for others needs , wishing good and beneficial . All the rest follows .
Well if I’ve learned anything from my relationships is that it’s never gonna be what I expect it to be or what she wants it to be. If anything it’s going to be the relationship is gonna look like the offshoot of the B roll spoof of the ideal shared vision. So I’d say the loves presented here are pretty accurate
I imagine that 'love' in the sense of 'agape', is the result of an intention to love, whatever else is going on in terms of commitment, passion and/or intimacy. I don't imagine that proximity to the object of one's affections is necessary for an individual to care deeply about another/others, although it must help to support and foster attachment. I'd question the notion that attachment is necessary for love/agape to thrive. Much depends on the nature of the relationship between people. The Greeks describe these relationships beautifully, in my opinion.
I Think that love is a sense of loss and gain for someone when they are in a relationship. this can be stuff like feeling sympathy or empathy for someone when they have some thing happen to them. and also that you care for their general well being. if you put this in action when someone is happy or gained something you will also feel happy or feel like you gained something. but when they lose something you can feel loss as well as if it were your own or at least you care. the sense of loss and gain in a relationship can affect you in many ways even in pleasure and passion or even coveting there must be something to gain and receive and something to give this is all so that some one may experience gain. the commitment is categorized in the care for as long as you care there will be a sense of love but when you lose care there is no sense of love. some may experience gain and loss but if they don't care about it it would not be categorized as love. it would make sense what i am going on a bout. in relation ship where loss is only a thing there would be negative emotions that would damage them and make then have a loss of care due to its intensity or occurrence over time in accumulation. this will cause toleration to be intolerable making causing you to not care anymore. But this can be fixed as long as you care there is reality involved and as long as you know gain and loss and care you can continue your live as normal people. as long as you can care for someone or something and try to protect them or give to some one or some thing as something to work towards. you will in a sense experience love in the form of accumulation. but if you give to someone and do not view it as your own gain and accumulation then things can go very wrong. you will be frustrated or confused over what you are doing and you are not want to work towards something that you deem not worthy of your attention. this can lead to neglect and even a empty feeling when some one that you once cared about got something or loss something. the simplest thing to know love is to care. love with out the knowledge of loss and gain or at least the sense of it can be very confusing. the simple way to fix this is knowledge of the person and thing you care about what is considered loss and gain for them and most importantly do you care?
this theory tells us what love is much better but its still not the ultimate theory. there have to be other kinds. for eg, there are many intensities and kinds of love in a single family even...
Leonhard3 well that's the thing love isn't the exception, love can just as easily die and appear between people, plus realistically love only exists as long as there is someone to feel it.
For merch, maybe little trinkets that could help with mental illnesses, But not the spinner things. Just little helpers or quotes to help throughout the day, based on psychology of extroverts, introverts, Depression, anxiety, borderline, etc..
vincent vinnie Then you have hope.Take it from me, it is far worse to have Loved and committed oneself completely, only to wake up to the realization that the other half has had no honest, earnest intentions like yourself. It is a TERRIBLE nightmare to fall in to from a state of complete Love. Ps. a little piece of advice, Don't LOOK for it. Love, comes to you.
I thought I loved someone. When I saw her true person, I realized I got myself into a dangerous situation. I love her with those components in the video, but she doesn’t. I’m starting to believe love doesn’t exist. Or love is just a fantasy birthed by little kid books. Or misguided chemicals in the brain. Something meant to drag us down and distract us from things that could be worth more. I’ve seen movies where people committed suicid because of heartbreak. After my heartbreaks, I began to become a scary and dangerous person. Why are we all so blind by love?
CatpuccinoMug bcos love is a powerful force people don't know how to control and can be unaware of its control over them and there actions. Just like powe itself love is just as equally a force that could destroy the world itself.
What about P + C and no I?? Seems totally valid for a man to have that sort of relationship. Don’t necessarily need to be super intimate with the woman. But willing to provide and protect. Intimacy can be with other men.
Who needs school when you have these guys 🙂🙂
the government needs it to control you
You need school if you don't want to learn the incorrect information this channel spews as fact.
Don Wald needs to go to school
true
agreed
As a psychology major, I find this channel super reliable. If anyone haven’t taken an Intimate relationship class and is interested...it is this interesting:
So true
Nothing as strong and overwhelming as unrequited love
Causes anxiety..despair and depression
Most beautiful😍 feeling the most supreme ❤love
I think you are my type Girl*
The responses of desire are odd timed, the inability to accept it's only occurring in one direction, the wanted invasion of privacy to know the nonresponding targets thoughts/patterns.. Says the person is thinking childishly. Really one can have a sexual life right in front of the desiring person and they're still thinking..they're doing that for me.
Really. I mean..please. Ignoring the fact the target is also gay. Friendship or not. How could desiring person not understand it. ..Stuck in delusion. Staying drunk. Both? 5 years, it was awful.
In the case Im noting. It was more an excuse( unrequited love) to be an involved( infiltrating) enemy, than a pursuit for love. It was sick.
Oversimplifying summary..get a life.
@@davidl9232 this makes no sense
This all makes so much sense but still depressing that intimacy, passion, and commitment is so rare
About merch, what about a t-shirt with "I am not shy, I'm an introvert" written on it?
Sica Ti I'd buy that on sight.
No! bad, bad silly human.
if you are introverted then why would you want a shirt that draws attention to yourself
Don't be a jerk.
hm but i'm both
RedRaven There should be a shirt for ambiverts as well then
I am studying the 8 different types of love, as Sternberg (1985) implies.
I am thankful for this video. I think it's interesting that one can know that there can be different types of love they experience, in terms with interdependency.
Honestly, my favorite, of the 8, is companionate love. I think that is a given, because with that love, you can establish firm relationships with your friends, family, and a significant other.
i think this is the most detailed and best explaination to the meaning of the word "love" ever
What I appreciate about this is it gives us some concrete areas to work toward - developing all three aspects of love. What I've experienced in my marriage is the commitment because of the sake of principle and to please societal expectations without the passion or intimacy from either partner. This was helpful to me.
For your merch, maybe you guys can make a shirt that says "It was just a thought" for people with anxiety ?
D•Va Hana Song that sounds perfect!!
I'd love to see that!
Steven universe
That's a really good Idea! I like that!
Sounds great! :) Thanks for the suggestion!
Consistency. Without a doubt. Words mean nothing, actions are everything.
Actions speak
Words don't
+DreamfightIjoken nah. it's true.
That was casually depressing at the end....
It's okay. I'm sure many of us could relate. We're all in this together. :)
Consumate love is not a permanent form of love... like they built up to it and had me excited about the perfect form. Then bam. Its not real. Hahaha
Causally cruel in the name of being honest 🎶
Excellent Video! Excuse me for the intrusion, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you considered - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (should be on google have a look)? It is an awesome one of a kind guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some decent things about it and my friend got excellent success with it.
Maybe it's the all-pervasive romance industry (crooners, playwrights, novelists, Hollywood) that is cruel, by planting, feeding, and selling false beliefs about relationships. The video is a breath of fresh honesty.
You’re one of the channels I wish could be more popular- you deserve the recognition
That means a lot! :)
hey update: they got big!
You guys should make a plain white t-shirt with your little logo on it. The little character reaching for the colorful tree, with "psych to go" in colorful letters on the bottom (or plain black letters). I would 100% buy that.
WARNING! CRINGEY COMMENT! READ AT OWN RISK!
Thank you all working on this channel! Before I started watching you I was really confused about what was wrong with me. Like I've known I had ADHD since 2012 and I did suspect depression 2015 (My doctor confirmed the ADHD 2012 before I even knew what it was and depression 2016 after dealing with it a year) but I felt like there was something more. I wasnt like the others I still arent. Then I started watching your videos about being extrovert, introvert and ambivert and I realized that I felt that way because most of the other people are extroverts but me, I am ambivert (I am more introverted than extroverted tho but I still wouldnt say Im introverted). You help me understand myself and others.. And on top of that entertaining me. So thank you so much, I really mean it.
This comment is wholesome and lovely.
That was lovely and not cringy at all ~ I'm happy for you
Had similar experiences until I understood that I was introverted. Made me feel like something was always wrong with me. I didn't discover it by this channel but it has really helped to understand myself even further. Glad it helped you too.
I'm an ambivert too with more introvertedness
Maya :3 Shutup
It reminds me of the 4 Loves, Agape (unconditional), Storge (Family) Philia (Brotherly/Friendly), and Eros (Romantic)
This and the Triangle diagram of love isn't saying anything new though.
Although I like the results and pairing.
Agape love or God's love is hardest for the reason of itself. It's a love that exists in and of itself. That's hard to maintain for selfish creatures like ourselves.
Consummate Love is probably hardest because Commitment, Passion, and Intimacy together are all outside of ourselves.
They require love for nothing in return. That's hard in a society for instant gratification and even before because we have selfish hearts whether selfish feeling now or later. It still comes up in want like to pay back a debt. It's just singing naturally hard-wired.
We want the keys to happiness but can't really handle it in and of ourselves.
Its something that only exists outside the human experience and best expressed as Agape love , in which i will suggest is of and from God and His character for you as described and expressed in the Bible.
Example: Love others as you would yourself: The Golden Rule.
"Forgive as you have been forgiven. "
If you hate your brother and say "you fool" you are guilty of murder.
You shall not look with lust upon a woman.
1 Corinthians 13: The love Chapter
Love is patient, kind, it isn't boastful, nor proud (doesn't think itself any higher than one should) , nor forces it's way. (It respects boundaries),
It believes all things, it trusts all things said from the one they love.
I suggest reading that chapter if anything.
All of these things are OUTSIDE of us. Seeking the good of the other while not shaming or slandering but exercising compassion and love when correcting and being willing to sacrifice themselves and their own time, efforts, energy, while being wise and wishing the good of the other.
God bless!!!
donnell outlaw You just reminded me of Yuri on Ice
donnell outlaw That was Greek Philosophy of love wasn't it? are you a philosophy student? just askin' it's ok if you're not going to answer depends on your will.
Thank you so much for this comment!
donnell outlaw
Amen, man. Share!
Unconditional love is definitely the most hardest love to achieve.
That piano music always makes me want to cry. Anyone else feel like that?
Got AP psy Exam tomorrow and my teacher didn't touch much about this topic, so watching this is so helpful.
So that's what it is. I've always had difficulty feeling most kinds of love and have fallen out of so many relationships from it. I lack passion, closed off intimacy, and fear commitment.
I love this channel with all 3 of the aspects of the triangle
I agree with all of those types of love, but i feel like it looks different for every couple. Not every relationship looks the same because people are different, they show love differently & may connect differently. Good basis for it tho! Thank you for the video!
For merch, how about a shirt that says "I put the extra in extrovert"
I think you should have several variations/stages of the chalked-over circle in your intro as merch. I love it so much
Getting a better options is another thing that maintains the love
Trust, honesty and spirituality is important too.
Your video's are very helpful! I Love them!
Glad to hear! :)
But what type of love you have on them?
Love this and legit. A guide to know where you stand in a relationship. The Consummate Love can be completed with Divine/ Spiritual Love. If you found any, keep them. They are gold.
Consummate love isn’t permanent. Love it!
Nothing really is permanent. Life is so alive ☺️
Good video and theory! The background music is awesome too.
My psychology class brought me here. My fave psychology RUclips channel 😂
For merchandise, I think that a t-shirt with just the channel logo on it would be cool. No words, just the person and the colorful tree. It’s simple and represents the entirety of the channel. Grey, Black and White would be nice colors for that.
Or maybe shirts with little doodles to represent different topics or themes that you’ve covered-because I adore the drawings on this channel and I think those shirts would be adorable.
Also, little keychains might be snazzy •
Companionate love is so cute I'm sobbing
Good video!
Thanks for this video I finally understand what I’m struggling with in my friendships and having crushes
Tbh I hate when people say that love is not forever. Because how do you know? Science can't say whether or not people have a relationship containing passion, intimacy, and commitment til they die.
I'm not gay, but ur voice comforts me.
AP Lotusfaith Me too, that voice is really placid and somewhat neutralising. No homo.
Sexuality doesn't have much to do with liking the quality of the narration.
Gay - simply means happy
I'm assuming all of you guys here are girls? Cause it's not gay to love a girl's voice if you're a guy
I believe that there are more factors in love. I think passion, commitment, intimacy are key factors in a relationship, but I also think there can be more factors depending on the relationship. Loyalty and trust, in my opinion, is also key because it means they will be more comfortable and feel safer around their partner.
TheHiddenKingdom loyalty and trust fall in either I or C
All are a MUST !
❤️❤️
I have a question. How comfortable are most couples actually are with each other? I heard that most couples are actually shy around each other and don't like getting naked around each other, so they avoid getting naked around each other. I wonder if that's true.
@@icysnow57cold64What kind of weird bait question is this?
Don’t let this discourage you from pursuing a relationship. While it may not be permanent, that doesnt stop you from enjoying what you have while you still have it. Love is a wonderful thing, and you should try to enjoy it in the moment and not worry so much about the future. The future will come as the present, eventually. Until then, just absorb the happiness that love brings. If it doesn’t bring you happiness, then maybe that person isnt right for you. 💕
because of our subject and now im watching this video. I hope I learned something deep about love
Companionate love and Consummate love. I'd love a mix of this
I was in an empty love relationship. Those relationships don't last. You need intimacy and passion to keep it going.
True.
Having the psych2go profile picture as a t-shirt design would be super cute! Also, great video
Aww!
That would be so perfect! ❤️ I really like the design too!
I just cried...its so true
Hey, I love your video's. Thanks for the lectures
Thanks for watching!
Today I learned more about the Love which was amazing ❤
I think your icon with the little guy reaching towards the colorful tree would be perfect on tee shirts, hats, mugs, etc. It's your channel icon after all.
Ayeee, I just learned about this in my comms class.
Ideal love: consummate love, even that is not permanent...
Is love is only delusional feeling?...
StaySkeptic because the romantic feeling includes the intent of being forever.
Kant Mani
Ideal love= Passion and Intimicy
I always hear someone snorting drugs in the intro
Veprim Mehmeti U r my hero.
That's all I can hear after reading this 😂
Veprim Mehmeti I can't UN hear it now XD
... and then violently stabbing a pineapple
LMFAOO
I disagree with his explaination, because i think "commitment" like marriage is not a part of a relationship, but the result of one. I see the triangular seperated in 1) love and feelings 2) friendship and understanding 3) passion and attraction.
By any mixture of those, a relationship with commitment is a possible result, but not a necessary outcome. The type of nonlove that way can even exist in arranged marriages, if the result is forced before task. Therefore nonlove in arranged marriages equals bussines relationships with people you have nothing in common with.
Darth Angral !!! Agreed!
Darth Angral
"Commitment" is, in my opinion, a form of self Love. It takes a level of integrity to have a commitment to and with anything. Especially with the instant gratification driven society that is being created around us. To commit to a goal is to truly love the goal? Absolutely Not! It is to love the integrity of such. Therefore to "commitment love" is merely loving of oneself to respect the integrity of the "relationship.
I disagree. You should make a commitment every time you enter a monogamous relationship. If you're not commited since the beginning and are still looking around what's the point of being in a relationship to begin with?
I agree completely with your explanation. Thank you.
It does state it's a theory.... Meaning that it has not been confirmed or approved of yet but rather a theory. I do agree with some of your points though.
I think key to any relationship is communication. It context of this theory it would be part of intimacy and commitment but I think most of problems in relationships can be solved by simply talking - saying how they feel, what they need and want and listening to one another. luck if talking causes most luck of intimacy and is sign of luck of commitment
It's great there is a theory like that
Just a random idea for a shirt merch, you could have the text "introvert" and then show an empty battery with the text below it "Low power insert alone time"
This Vídeo was so good I had to (felt like) watch(ing) it twice... in a row!
For the merch, how about a something that goes along the lines of “A day out? I’m an introvert”
You guys could do a video about *maladaptive daydreaming*
Lacter I STRONGLY second this!!!
YES PLEASE!!!
We're on to it :)
What it means..maladaptive daydreaming? Can you briefly explain? Thank you..
@@lauragodines8939 i completely forgot about this comment by now since it's been 2 years lol
but it's basically daydreaming to a point where you're too distracted from the present and it starts to bother
Definitely a companionte love type. Passion is awesome but not really necessary for me. I'd rather have close friends for life than short intense relationships.
please could you make a video about dyspraxia? there aren't very many videos about it online!
maelysmay yes tgat would be great!!
I agree, I think a video on it would be great. Cos there isn't much awareness of dyspraxia. A wee bit of understanding will go along way.
Sheeda LuvzKpop here's a technical way of explaining it cos I can't describe.lol. hope it helpsDyspraxia (or Developmental Co-ordination Disorder) is a complex neurological condition, which affects muscle co-ordination and perception.
Perception includes vision, hearing and proprioception, or the awareness of where your limbs are in space. There may be developmental delays in some areas but heightened sensitivities or abilities in others. Dyspraxia exists as a condition on its own but is often found together with hyper mobile joints, Dyslexia, Dyscalculia, ADHD or Asperger’s Syndrome. Hope this helps. X
I second this! Please make a dyspraxia/Developmental Coordination Disorder video please!
This video is so great! I feel like I've figured out something XD
For the merch, I think you should definetely think about mugs. And also, for the designs, perhaps you could pick some cool quotes and add some drawings to expalin it.
Infatuation is pretty much all I've ever felt in my entire life...
Great video, very informative and interesting 😊
This theory is quite accurate
If you're are a good person (I mean actually a good person not the type of good everyone thinks of oneself) you'll be able to recognise another good person and when you both meet you'll fall in love, the real one cause that wouldn't be cause of looks or wealth or passion bit for what you're from inside, your kind 💓/soul, and It'll never change, only grows
For an idea for the next video, perhaps it could be on extroverts!
I myself am an extroverted person so it would be really nice for me to see a video like that!!
great explaination
I low-key felt sad. I realized I haven't felt passion in a long long time. Haha.
There is some thing beyond intimacy , passion and commitment and that is a pure relation in which
There is no expectations from the partner completely unconditional sheer love and not attached .
Commitment , intimacy follows this kind of behaviour .
Even if one partner practices it the partner naturally starts reciprocating .
This is how the Rishi’s and muni ‘s of India be in marital life’s .
As long as there are Conditions of intimacy , passion and commitment true relationship doesn’t exist .
True relationship is built on truth of unconditionally .
Any relation if based on any condition , one day it has to violate .
Hence the ideal yet challenging ( since self interest is given priority over others interest ) relationship is both coming together and set 0 expectations and each person is concerned for others needs , wishing good and beneficial .
All the rest follows .
Well if I’ve learned anything from my relationships is that it’s never gonna be what I expect it to be or what she wants it to be. If anything it’s going to be the relationship is gonna look like the offshoot of the B roll spoof of the ideal shared vision. So I’d say the loves presented here are pretty accurate
I imagine that 'love' in the sense of 'agape', is the result of an intention to love, whatever else is going on in terms of commitment, passion and/or intimacy. I don't imagine that proximity to the object of one's affections is necessary for an individual to care deeply about another/others, although it must help to support and foster attachment. I'd question the notion that attachment is necessary for love/agape to thrive. Much depends on the nature of the relationship between people. The Greeks describe these relationships beautifully, in my opinion.
I Think that love is a sense of loss and gain for someone when they are in a relationship. this can be stuff like feeling sympathy or empathy for someone when they have
some thing happen to them. and also that you care for their general well being. if you put this in action when someone is happy or gained something you will also feel happy or
feel like you gained something. but when they lose something you can feel loss as well as if it were your own or at least you care. the sense of loss and gain in a relationship can
affect you in many ways even in pleasure and passion or even coveting there must be something to gain and receive and something to give this is all so that some one may
experience gain. the commitment is categorized in the care for as long as you care there will be a sense of love but when you lose care there is no sense of love. some may
experience gain and loss but if they don't care about it it would not be categorized as love. it would make sense what i am going on a bout. in relation ship where loss is only
a thing there would be negative emotions that would damage them and make then have a loss of care due to its intensity or occurrence over time in accumulation. this will cause
toleration to be intolerable making causing you to not care anymore. But this can be fixed as long as you care there is reality involved and as long as you know gain and loss
and care you can continue your live as normal people. as long as you can care for someone or something and try to protect them or give to some one or some thing as something
to work towards. you will in a sense experience love in the form of accumulation. but if you give to someone and do not view it as your own gain and accumulation then things can
go very wrong. you will be frustrated or confused over what you are doing and you are not want to work towards something that you deem not worthy of your attention. this
can lead to neglect and even a empty feeling when some one that you once cared about got something or loss something. the simplest thing to know love is to care. love with
out the knowledge of loss and gain or at least the sense of it can be very confusing. the simple way to fix this is knowledge of the person and thing you care about what is
considered loss and gain for them and most importantly do you care?
this theory tells us what love is much better but its still not the ultimate theory. there have to be other kinds. for eg, there are many intensities and kinds of love in a single family even...
For the merch do a shirt with the channel logo.
I’m in infatuated love with my right hand and companionate love with my left.
Another awesome video!
If nothing is forever, then what makes love the exception ~
Leonhard3 well that's the thing love isn't the exception, love can just as easily die and appear between people, plus realistically love only exists as long as there is someone to feel it.
Hey Ya!
Good video, also would love merch
Good work
For the merch maybe some sticker with the little people on em
Make video about INTPs pls!
PROJECT: Joza100 that's fake science so plz no
Willow4526 its not fake what are you talking about?
Willow4526 Myer and Briggs had their scientific claims to back up their personality theory, so technically it's not "fake" science.
"Goal" is such a rough word for the chemestry which forms the total human
This is great, thank you so much :-)!
Powerful
I love this video about love.
Thank you for this video😓
I love this channel
For merch, maybe little trinkets that could help with mental illnesses, But not the spinner things. Just little helpers or quotes to help throughout the day, based on psychology of extroverts, introverts, Depression, anxiety, borderline, etc..
It's very difficult to overcome
We’re learning this right now lol
I loved and reaffirms me of love. All is true and good. 🔺
can yall do a video explaining how sexuality/gender works? im an agender panro ace and i thought it would be cool to see that from you guys :3
Nice and great 👍👍
i cant find anyone
ok
vincent vinnie Then you have hope.Take it from me, it is far worse to have Loved and committed oneself completely, only to wake up to the realization that the other half has had no honest, earnest intentions like yourself. It is a TERRIBLE nightmare to fall in to from a state of complete Love.
Ps. a little piece of advice, Don't LOOK for it. Love, comes to you.
Some OneDivine yeah but it still feels like no one is there or that no one will be there. I understand “love finds you”, but when?
Michael O .. I know, it's an annoying twist of life..the When factor.
vincent vinnie Don't worry, dying alone isnt that bad
I agree with all of this. All of it!
I'm pretty sure I've found someone I can have longlasting consummate love with. Now if only we lived close and not in different countries :/
Snowcold how's it going? Is it still the same?
Going through the same thing right now. 😞
I think values and beliefs also affect it
Is there any way to develop more passion in a relationship that has strong intimacy and commitment?
Consummate love is HARD to keep in play... but easy at the same time 😌
I found an awesome compilation of videos that should help you at Adult Magic Tactic
I thought I loved someone. When I saw her true person, I realized I got myself into a dangerous situation. I love her with those components in the video, but she doesn’t. I’m starting to believe love doesn’t exist. Or love is just a fantasy birthed by little kid books. Or misguided chemicals in the brain. Something meant to drag us down and distract us from things that could be worth more. I’ve seen movies where people committed suicid because of heartbreak. After my heartbreaks, I began to become a scary and dangerous person. Why are we all so blind by love?
CatpuccinoMug bcos love is a powerful force people don't know how to control and can be unaware of its control over them and there actions. Just like powe itself love is just as equally a force that could destroy the world itself.
2:59 any fellow aces out there relate to this one? Regardless of how long you've known someone?
Lol I came down to the comments specifically to see the aces talk about how companionate love sounds like the best option (because it is).
What about P + C and no I?? Seems totally valid for a man to have that sort of relationship. Don’t necessarily need to be super intimate with the woman. But willing to provide and protect. Intimacy can be with other men.