The Heartbreaking Truth: Shaadi Kai Baghair Bachai | Junaid Akram Documentary

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  • Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
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    Untold stories of those choosing to have children without marriage in Junaid Akram's latest documentary. This film delves into personal journeys, societal pressures, and the evolving definitions of family in today's world.

Комментарии • 1,2 тыс.

  • @sktirmizi
    @sktirmizi 4 месяца назад +1061

    I always wanted to have a first daughter as my first child. Because I am the elder son and always used to miss the fact that I don't have elder sister.
    Alhamdulillah I am blessed with a baby girl as my first child

    • @azmatali8603
      @azmatali8603 4 месяца назад +16

      MashaAllah bro
      Allah apko khush rakhe ye Bachi Allah ki rehmat hai Alhamdulillah

    • @IAMAliIbrahim
      @IAMAliIbrahim 4 месяца назад +12

      Respect for You Sir

    • @tabjaf9706
      @tabjaf9706 4 месяца назад +22

      I always saw my father to love and respect for my sister's, Alhamdolillah.
      I prayed Allah for two beautiful daughters.

    • @muhammadsaleh3925
      @muhammadsaleh3925 4 месяца назад +3

      same here bhai

    • @saraasif-vh6od
      @saraasif-vh6od 4 месяца назад +10

      Take care of her brother. Love her when she is a teenager, adult as well.be her best friend. In today's society father's need to have a strong bond with their daughters.
      Don't make her a silent girl by your taunts and scoldings. Don't make her feel there is no one to understand her.
      I have seen many father's just saying but there actions speak something different. They love their daughters just untill they are kids and cute.
      When they grow they hate them for having their own personality, for growing.
      Stay blessed ❤️

  • @shansin1703
    @shansin1703 4 месяца назад +563

    A girl in the family is a blessing.

    • @Moody-Avo
      @Moody-Avo 4 месяца назад +22

      Maa khud ek aurat ho ke dusri aurat zaat ka abortion forcefully karwa rahi hy lanat bhejta hun esi maao py. humare barey chawwal hein dont get me wrong is liye Pakistan ki yeh halat hogai hy.

    • @huzaifamukhtar7137
      @huzaifamukhtar7137 4 месяца назад +2

      Not in Pakistan

    • @zaidkashif3170
      @zaidkashif3170 4 месяца назад +3

      I can tell you that these practices only happen in the not so fortunate areas..... I have two female baby cousins who are the first child of my uncle and another who is a first child of my aunt and they are so cherished in the family.....

    • @theenlightenedone1283
      @theenlightenedone1283 4 месяца назад +1

      اب سچ میں کچھ ٹھیک نہیں ہو سکے گا۔ خدا کی نافرمانی کی یہی سزا ہوتی ہے۔
      سوائے توبہ کے جس طرح قوم یونس نے کی تھی آخری وقت پہ بھی عذاب ٹل گیا تھا۔

    • @theenlightenedone1283
      @theenlightenedone1283 4 месяца назад +2

      علاج
      72 فرقوں سے نکل کر 1 جماعت بن جانے کا وقت آگیا ہے
      ملت/امت میں شامل ہو جاو
      خلیفہ وقت کی اطاعت میں ہی برکت ہے اور پاکستان/ اسلامی ممالک کی بقا ہے
      علماء سو سے بچیے/ نام نہاد لیڈروں سے بھی
      اسلام = امن و سلامتی
      فلاحی ریاست
      اللھم' لبیک
      پاکستان زندہ باد

  • @muneebrehman6288
    @muneebrehman6288 4 месяца назад +1016

    "Qiyamat khud batai gi kay qiyamat kiyun zaroori thi"

    • @theenlightenedone1283
      @theenlightenedone1283 4 месяца назад +9

      اب سچ میں کچھ ٹھیک نہیں ہو سکے گا۔ خدا کی نافرمانی کی یہی سزا ہوتی ہے۔
      سوائے توبہ کے جس طرح قوم یونس نے کی تھی آخری وقت پہ بھی عذاب ٹل گیا تھا۔

    • @theenlightenedone1283
      @theenlightenedone1283 4 месяца назад +4

      علاج
      72 فرقوں سے نکل کر 1 جماعت بن جانے کا وقت آگیا ہے
      ملت/امت میں شامل ہو جاو
      خلیفہ وقت کی اطاعت میں ہی برکت ہے اور پاکستان/ اسلامی ممالک کی بقا ہے
      علماء سو سے بچیے/ نام نہاد لیڈروں سے بھی
      اسلام = امن و سلامتی
      فلاحی ریاست
      اللھم' لبیک
      پاکستان زندہ باد

    • @falahbaloch
      @falahbaloch 4 месяца назад +1

      True Bro 👍

    • @MUDDASIRKHALID333
      @MUDDASIRKHALID333 4 месяца назад +2

      Palestine mai jo kuch ho raha hai wo dekh kr "Qiyamat" ko nhe lgta ke ab usse a jna chayeh??

    • @syedusman3982
      @syedusman3982 4 месяца назад +4

      Dialogue bazi nhi. Esi chezain zamano sy chlti ari hy. Ye government ki responsibility in sb ko rokna

  • @ahsanahmad1
    @ahsanahmad1 4 месяца назад +508

    Man, I cried watching this documentary. I still don't believe that these kinds of cruel people lives in Pakistan. In my family, all of my relatives including my father, chacho, Mamo, phupha, etc...loves and looks after their daughters more than their sons.

    • @tabjaf9706
      @tabjaf9706 4 месяца назад +7

      Same here

    • @hirajawad1078
      @hirajawad1078 4 месяца назад +12

      Pakistan needs more and more men like you.. the solution is to be a good influence on society, by talking about these issues and make people in your surrounding understand how grotesque this thing is. Being a good person is not enough, influencing others is how society can only be better.

    • @abrukhan288
      @abrukhan288 4 месяца назад +2

      MaShaAllah... real humans 🤞

    • @HammadKhan-iz5hz
      @HammadKhan-iz5hz 4 месяца назад +5

      yes I myself could not understand that he is talking of pakistan because I have never seen anything like this or any story from my city or nearby towns it is not common in normal cities I think it's common in karachi, lahore, islamabad,rawalpindi, multan type big cities that has some cruel western ideology followers

    • @Emarkita
      @Emarkita 4 месяца назад +2

      Yes same here . Mere husband ne mithai banti thi jab beti hoi or mujhy apni beti apny bety se bhi pyari he

  • @asifhasan8465
    @asifhasan8465 4 месяца назад +627

    Quran 81:8 - 81:9, And when the girl [who was] buried alive is asked [8] for what crime they were put to death [9]

    • @ziaullahikram5310
      @ziaullahikram5310 4 месяца назад +31

      i was about to put this verse , and happened to cross your comment

    • @varunm5498
      @varunm5498 4 месяца назад

      Stop reading Quran, everything will be alright.

    • @postmanpatpat
      @postmanpatpat 4 месяца назад +1

      Aise logo kau English Mai samajh aata hoga kia aur Deen se tau door honge hi zahir hai

    • @something--else
      @something--else 2 месяца назад

      very convenient cherry picking. Any source other than the Quran confirming that this was indeed a widespread practice in the arab world back then? Why wasn't Khadija buried at birth?

    • @AJ-zg5xw
      @AJ-zg5xw 2 месяца назад

      Bs opinion,pre islamic arabia was much more liberal for women with women owning properties, marrying guys of their own choice, wearing no veils, operating business

  • @Abeer-zf6fo
    @Abeer-zf6fo 4 месяца назад +244

    A big round of applause for Junaid Akram and team for presenting such a bold topic which is a taboo in our society with auch grace. Remarkable work!

  • @micro23279
    @micro23279 4 месяца назад +198

    We are six sisters and no brother and I am proud of my parents despite wanting or trying for a certain wish they raised us no less than the sons and educated us. We do more than most boys would do for their families. Alhamdulillah

    • @Bakewithme28
      @Bakewithme28 4 месяца назад +35

      Its good that youre making them proud but sad reality is that they had those six daughters bcs they tried again and again for a son... thats a sad reality

    • @Taha_Khubaib
      @Taha_Khubaib 4 месяца назад +5

      @@Bakewithme28 😅truee

    • @zainpirzada2589
      @zainpirzada2589 4 месяца назад +8

      ​@@Bakewithme28Atleast at the end they understood that it's something which is already planned by Allah even way before our existence. Most of the men blame women for giving birth to a daughter or they refuse to accept the child. Atleast, they gave their daughters basic education, raised them well and made them independent so that they never need a man to feed themselves.

    • @MrKing-zv2eu
      @MrKing-zv2eu 4 месяца назад +5

      ​@@Bakewithme28what's so sad about it? They wanted it? Yes. Were they stuck with it and let that affect their children? No.
      They didn't let their children suffer because of their wish so there's nothing "sad" here.

    • @robberz9154
      @robberz9154 4 месяца назад

      your father is a real gem of a man!

  • @basimhashmi2155
    @basimhashmi2155 4 месяца назад +857

    Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet ﷺ said, "Whoever supports two girls till they attain maturity, he and I will come on the Day of Resurrection like this". Messenger of Allah ﷺ joined his fingers illustrating this. Muslim.

    • @captainamerica008
      @captainamerica008 4 месяца назад

      Teri baji ki documentary chal rahi hai??​@@Rockyrockslost

    • @-BADAR-
      @-BADAR- 4 месяца назад +18

      @@Rockyrockslost what does his comment has to do with masjid?

    • @Rockyrockslost
      @Rockyrockslost 4 месяца назад +16

      @@-BADAR- quoting religious script and verse doesn't require to be stated anywhere everywhere.

    • @lanoklom9697
      @lanoklom9697 4 месяца назад +23

      @@Rockyrockslost He is trying to connect with people at a level they will understand. For example, if it was a video in India you would have several bakhts quoting tanatani scripture also and how the current reality can be allegorically defined by past events.

    • @Rockyrockslost
      @Rockyrockslost 4 месяца назад +7

      @@lanoklom9697 for people to understand, there is a logic and context to be used, here in India there are all sorts of religion and not just sanatanis,
      There is no need to put verses-religion to make people understand what is just a human virtute.

  • @Saeedkhan-og5dg
    @Saeedkhan-og5dg 4 месяца назад +106

    junaid bhai this is the thing that pakistan needs the most thank for making this, hope tp see more of these type of meaning videos jisse society me waqai kch farq parega. dont listen to naysers you are such a great man with golden heart Allah apko iska ajar zrur dega.. thank you

  • @faizanm4100
    @faizanm4100 4 месяца назад +476

    I have 2 boys and I prayed so hard for a girl . Alhamdullilah I have a beautiful princess . I can’t live without her.

    • @Itz_venomous
      @Itz_venomous 4 месяца назад +4

      MashaAllah Brother ❤

    • @Muslimah-e6i
      @Muslimah-e6i 4 месяца назад +2

      MashaAllah Allah bless your childs Ameen❤

    • @YasirAli-ks9vm
      @YasirAli-ks9vm 4 месяца назад +1

      Masha'Allah brother 💝 may Allah protect your children from the evils of that this world holds

    • @raniyaalam9209
      @raniyaalam9209 4 месяца назад +2

      my mother prayed for me too

  • @hussainraza7298
    @hussainraza7298 4 месяца назад +63

    Junaid bhai I'm listening to this while working in my office in Melbourne and trust me when I'm saying this. I have been crying throughout this video and have to hide it since have people around me who won't understand what happens in Pakistan. Mate more power to you kindly keep making videos on these issues. We need to educate our masses. We can't have insani jan going in the BIN this way.
    Love you Junaid bhai see you in Melbourne someday inshallah
    Hussain

    • @taskeenzahra1211
      @taskeenzahra1211 4 месяца назад +2

      A man which that much emotions not to be seen in Pakistan so often

    • @hshakeel0
      @hshakeel0 4 месяца назад

      believe me there are many but most of them are introverts or are not very expressive

    • @ehsanhaseeb
      @ehsanhaseeb 4 месяца назад

      same i felt... its so unfortunate

  • @waqasssweb
    @waqasssweb 4 месяца назад +31

    I have 2 daughters, and I can't imagine my life without them they are apple of my eyes. My world is meaningless without them. They make me happy when ever I see them.

  • @taimoor1062
    @taimoor1062 4 месяца назад +17

    Junaid Akram. This is the content Pakistan needs right now which can spread a little education and awareness. Thank you.

  • @sidrakhan3338
    @sidrakhan3338 4 месяца назад +25

    Allah ny mjy pahli beti sy nawaza tb many aysy halaat face kiay lakin many saturation ko bhaduri sy handle kia or moun tor jwab dia husband or sas ko....aj meri 2 betian hain or apny baba ki ladlian hain MashaaAllah

  • @abnfalcon3901
    @abnfalcon3901 4 месяца назад +103

    It's Crazy to think that this documentary was only for Karachi. Imagine how is it in the whole country.

    • @ForexTradingMillionaire
      @ForexTradingMillionaire 4 месяца назад +2

      May be it is worst in Lahore and Islamabad because of their open culture in such relationships.

    • @saadahmed688
      @saadahmed688 4 месяца назад +5

      This is the one thing that the video gets wrong. Most of it is not due to haram relationships, it's because of the stupid shadi culture and jahalat in our country. Most of these babies are coming from married couples. Karachi is a slum and there's more poverty that's why it's the hub of this act.

    • @Kamyabikarsta
      @Kamyabikarsta 4 месяца назад

      Tu kabhi Lahore aaya hai Kia?Lahore itna Ganda NAHI jotna Karachi hai​@@ForexTradingMillionaire

    • @Kamyabikarsta
      @Kamyabikarsta 4 месяца назад

      Yeh Sirf Karachi mein hota hai aur kasurwar srf muhajir hein

    • @mary663
      @mary663 3 месяца назад +4

      ​@alimuavia5005 ap kaise keh skty ha k sirf muhajir ha....ese kaise pr ilzaam lagna b gunnah is ka jawab apko dena prhe ga qayamat waly din...isliye bolne se phly soch liya kre shukria

  • @TKamal
    @TKamal 4 месяца назад +229

    Revealing a child's sex via ultrasound before birth is completely banned in India. They should do the same in Pakistan. But who follows laws there anyways lol.

    • @sab-ali
      @sab-ali 4 месяца назад +33

      Actually it's kind of banned here too specially in govt hospitals. When i tried to ask my private doctor about my 3rd child when i was expecting her, she kept avoiding telling me. Idk how doctors are not responsible enough to maintain transparency.

    • @Visionvitalizetv
      @Visionvitalizetv 4 месяца назад

      Pakistan has become lawless country. Trying my best to leave it asap

    • @AA-uu5ep
      @AA-uu5ep 4 месяца назад

      N even in India, there r so many cases of female foeticides....so many gynae n midwifes do it for money

    • @violet4481
      @violet4481 4 месяца назад +37

      Banning ultrasound is not the solution, educating everyone is the solution.

    • @meechanyo7909
      @meechanyo7909 4 месяца назад +10

      It's not allowed either but money speaks and when it exchanges hands doctors talk.

  • @muhammadjaved3256
    @muhammadjaved3256 4 месяца назад +69

    غلاظت سے بھرا پاکستانی معاشرہ ۔۔۔۔
    اللہ پاک رحم کرے

  • @HomelessAnimalsCare
    @HomelessAnimalsCare 4 месяца назад +14

    Astagfirullah Astagfirullah Astagfirullah Allah pak maaf fermaye or sab ko hidayat dy Ameen summ Ameen

  • @bismahmariyam9624
    @bismahmariyam9624 4 месяца назад +64

    So what if it's a girl!!! A daughter brings many blessings to the family. It's frightening to realize that this mentality still persists

    • @muhammadmaxharrix4998
      @muhammadmaxharrix4998 4 месяца назад +4

      I mean hello it's Pakistan what else can you expect from a nation of this caliber 😂😂

    • @tocabestes1221
      @tocabestes1221 3 месяца назад

      Yes you are 100% right but this is Pakistani mashra abh bhi zmany jahleat may jerha h

  • @TheBatman-o2i
    @TheBatman-o2i 4 месяца назад +12

    Hats off Junaid ji for highlighting this issues...
    You are one of the few RUclipsrs in Pakistan who have the guts to show the reality...
    Keep up the good work

  • @malaikawaqas8872
    @malaikawaqas8872 4 месяца назад +51

    And we are dying to have a baby wether its a girl or a boy. Baby is blessing of no matter what.. Allah please bless me with your rehmat or naimat❤

    • @DubaiconstructionsSites
      @DubaiconstructionsSites 4 месяца назад +1

      Ameen

    • @s.s.m9936
      @s.s.m9936 4 месяца назад +4

      May Allah Pak blesses you with a healthy child and give you strength to raise it well. Ameen

    • @danishkalim3904
      @danishkalim3904 4 месяца назад

      your prayers will be answered soon.

    • @muhammadTalha2014
      @muhammadTalha2014 4 месяца назад

      Inshallah sister you will be blessed with both. Ameen

    • @inspiredliving9953
      @inspiredliving9953 4 месяца назад

      Stay strong and dont lose hope, i was blessed with baby girl after 9 years of my marriage

  • @greygrey4699
    @greygrey4699 4 месяца назад +11

    Just in verge of crying badly while watching this documentary. May Allah protect those little souls Ameen

  • @syedfaizan7897
    @syedfaizan7897 4 месяца назад +22

    as a Young i learned so much from this documentry Alhamdullilah and thanks to @Junaid Akram and team

  • @shakeelazad2806
    @shakeelazad2806 4 месяца назад +41

    Back to zamaney jahiliatt 😢

    • @hn_editx.
      @hn_editx. 4 месяца назад +10

      Zamana jahilat gaya kab tha pakistan se

  • @DesignZing
    @DesignZing 4 месяца назад +87

    Women should investigate or talk with the man who is going to be his husband. The talk will describe his mindset. And Also the husband talk with the women. The conversation describe his mentality.

    • @darkforces490
      @darkforces490 4 месяца назад +5

      or dusra ghur walo ko bhi support kerna chaiya.

    • @yourworld64
      @yourworld64 4 месяца назад +10

      ​@@darkforces490humare yaha kaha support kerti hai families larkiyon ko ? Allah inko puchaay

    • @darkforces490
      @darkforces490 4 месяца назад +3

      @@yourworld64 tabhi tu bol raha ho keh kerna chaiya.

    • @violet4481
      @violet4481 4 месяца назад +6

      Thats the problem, aadhay log toh shakal ni dekhnay detey honey wali miyan biwi ki, aap keh rahy ho baat karni chahiye.. Karni toh chahiye, lekin inko kaun samjhaye..

    • @theguidedone-hm6js
      @theguidedone-hm6js 3 месяца назад

      @@violet4481 10 logon mein beth kr krni chahiye naa

  • @aishasultan03
    @aishasultan03 4 месяца назад +21

    I'm the only child of my parents girl child.
    I face sometimes too much abuse and violence from my father. I literally hate him. He is not fulfilling any responsibility. Because of him I faced severe depression. I'm trying hard to study and be independent. Then I'll leave the house and will stay alone. Well I'm still alone. I hate men like this.
    Lucky women got good husbands and fathers.

    • @eashafatima-s3d
      @eashafatima-s3d 4 месяца назад +2

      May Allah give you patience girll

    • @rhbmn
      @rhbmn 4 месяца назад +2

      Wish you the best. stay patient. i hope things will get better for you.

    • @aishasultan03
      @aishasultan03 4 месяца назад

      @@rhbmn Thank you so much

    • @Nihan18
      @Nihan18 4 месяца назад +4

      I have overcome similar circumstances and I'm 30 years old now with a good career and earning. I am taking care of my mom as well. So Take it from me. Build a good career for yourself. When you'll become independent, life will get so much better inshallah. You are not a helpless girl. You'll become a strong independent woman. Protect your peace of mind. Read good books and novels. And search about different career options for yourself and accordingly make your choices. Please not spend time ruminating about what all you have lost. Stay more focused on how you want your future to look like. And when you are finally independent and making your own money, work on yourself to undo all the past trauma. I wish you all the best. may Allah help you as I got his help and blessings.

    • @aishasultan03
      @aishasultan03 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Nihan18 Thank you so much. Thanks for inspiring me

  • @flazy6928
    @flazy6928 4 месяца назад +41

    This is so unfortunate to see that this is still happening, all the way from the times of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). No wonder we are failing as a country.

    • @richierich961
      @richierich961 Месяц назад

      Narrated Abdullaah ibn Mas'ood: “Indeed, Islam began as something strange, and it will return to being strange just as it began, so glad tidings of paradise be for the strangers.”

  • @seemeesiddiqui6427
    @seemeesiddiqui6427 4 месяца назад +28

    That’s a dark side of Islamic Rebublic of Pakistan. But still nation of Pakistan is fixing that many problems. InshaAllah tala good human awareness with help of pure and intellectual nation of Pakistan will solve that many issues.
    InshaAllah tala.

    • @sabaabid5514
      @sabaabid5514 4 месяца назад

      Hahaha

    • @hasnainmemon464
      @hasnainmemon464 4 месяца назад +4

      Islamic Republic ,
      Not following islamic terms*
      Not Following science*
      Not following Quran and Hadees phir ess hee hoghaaa

    • @hassanahmed2441
      @hassanahmed2441 4 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

    • @ishu2798
      @ishu2798 3 месяца назад +1

      Everything is dark here ... acha kya hai ?

  • @zaraknawaz6337
    @zaraknawaz6337 4 месяца назад +14

    I always wanted to have a baby girl first. Alhamdullilah back then Allah blessed me with a girl and i love her more than anything in this world. She means the whole world to me.
    My comment is for all those people who are not blessed with a girl yet, you haven't yet experienced the love of girl yet. A girl gives you a sense of being a father.

    • @mayrasiddiq5568
      @mayrasiddiq5568 4 месяца назад +1

      Want one too❤

    • @A.TechMotors
      @A.TechMotors 2 месяца назад

      kya apko accha lagega ki sunnat k naam par usse koi 56 saal ka budha 6 saal ki umar me nikah kr le?

  • @zaidahmed5618
    @zaidahmed5618 4 месяца назад +9

    A huge round of applause for bringing this content, huge respect Junaid bhai!

  • @rukhsananisar1142
    @rukhsananisar1142 3 месяца назад +7

    After my taya had 4 sons, my dadi and whole family prayed deliberately for a girl. My relatives used to say that how my father disturbed mithai to whole neighborhood. Even today, my dad and everyone loves me the same way and even more than my brothers. It is considered a blessing in our family to have first child as a daughter.

    • @ahsaniqbal5084
      @ahsaniqbal5084 3 месяца назад

      Reverse sexism 😢

    • @xyz929
      @xyz929 3 месяца назад +1

      It is because they had 4 male children already. If the case was reversed, then it would be hard to believe.
      Your point is having a lack of extraordinary essence to mention here.

  • @viral4Uclips
    @viral4Uclips 2 месяца назад +5

    daughters are blessing of allah.

    • @RahmanSaleem-xj8jc
      @RahmanSaleem-xj8jc 2 месяца назад

      But how many people knows about this fact in Pakistan?

    • @viral4Uclips
      @viral4Uclips 2 месяца назад +1

      @@RahmanSaleem-xj8jc many

  • @iqraali2346
    @iqraali2346 4 месяца назад +6

    I cried while watching this video, and thanked Allah for giving me a supportive and loving father and mother. They always loved me even more than my brother and supported me until now, currently I'm studying abroad and my family is proud of me. And after watching this video I'm also proud of them.
    Alhamdullaih❤

    • @mbilal429
      @mbilal429 4 месяца назад

      BTW I want to relocate, no dating, Islamic marriage, no jahez, nikkah in mosque, age 27, RWP PAK
      A Honorable Person, Humble and Fundamentalist Muslim

  • @muhammadhamza8358
    @muhammadhamza8358 4 месяца назад +8

    i always pray to God to bless me with so many daughters 🥹🥹🥹
    and here these guys are being so ungrateful. don't they know that daughters are a blessing of Allah SWT.

  • @Peegham
    @Peegham 4 месяца назад +5

    MashahAllah In our families' daughters are considder blessings of Allah.

  • @bilalIjaz-y2f
    @bilalIjaz-y2f 4 месяца назад +9

    Hazrat Muhammad(SAW) na arshad frmaya beti rahmat ha

  • @hamzasshakeel5887
    @hamzasshakeel5887 4 месяца назад +74

    Sirf or sirf deen hi bacha sakta ha is nahoosat se hmain. Deen se duri ki vja ha ye sab

    • @lanoklom9697
      @lanoklom9697 4 месяца назад +7

      Deen ko ghar aur masjid mein rakho, to teekh rahega. Usko har galli, maholley, shehr ki sadak pe laogey to yehi haalat hogi. Deen ki koi kammi nahi hai, magar deen ko istimal karney waley logon ki bhi koi kammi nai hai.

    • @zaroonaz
      @zaroonaz 4 месяца назад +3

      Bs yehi kehtay reho

    • @zaroonaz
      @zaroonaz 4 месяца назад +3

      Humay pata hai Deen k thekadaron ne Eidi sb ki namaz e janaza parhanay se inkaar kia tha

    • @gamerbeast1727
      @gamerbeast1727 4 месяца назад +17

      ​@@lanoklom9697 tumhari jahalat ka andaza isi lafzon se pata lagta hai. Deen mukamal zindagi ka tareeqa hai individual faith nahi hai. Ye haalat logon ki apni jahalat kiwajah se howi hain na ke deen ki wajah se.

    • @muzamilahmed3127
      @muzamilahmed3127 4 месяца назад

      @@lanoklom9697 Saudia mai jab beti paida hoti thi to us ko zinda dafan kr dia jata tha.. Jb Islam aya to Aurat ko un k haqooq milay.
      Meray khial sy aap ko kuch deen parhna chahye.
      Ye kuch hadith hain. Shyd aap ka dimagh thora khul jaye..
      - The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Whoever has three daughters, and he remains patient with them and provides for them and clothes them from his wealth, they will be a shield for him from the Fire on the Day of Resurrection." (Ibn Majah, Book 33, Hadith 3669)
      - The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Whoever has three daughters or three sisters, or two daughters or two sisters, and he keeps good company with them and fears Allah in their treatment, then Paradise is for him." (Tirmidhi, Book 27, Hadith 1912)
      - The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the importance of treating daughters equally and kindly. He said, "Whosoever has a daughter and he does not bury her alive, does not insult her, and does not favor his son over her, Allah will enter him into Paradise." (Ahmad)
      - It is narrated that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Daughters are a mercy and sons are a bounty. Mercy will be rewarded, and bounty will be questioned." (Al-Bazzar)

  • @shujaat1234
    @shujaat1234 4 месяца назад +3

    An eye-opening conversation
    اللہ عزوجل نوجوان نسل کو ہدایت دے

  • @ArsalanFaiyaz
    @ArsalanFaiyaz 4 месяца назад +19

    Alhamdulillah, my daughter was born on August 6, 2023, and i can't thank enough Allah for this blessing.

  • @mzerghamqureshi
    @mzerghamqureshi 4 месяца назад +13

    I am blessed to have a daughter Alhamdulillah ❤ .Allah sub ko betiun say muhabbat karnay taufeeq day aameen

  • @mathsismyfavourite
    @mathsismyfavourite 4 месяца назад +13

    Alhumdulillah I have three daughters with no son but we are very happy ❤

  • @MMahid-fp6ig
    @MMahid-fp6ig 4 месяца назад +36

    That's why we need to work on the literacy rate in Pakistan.

    • @violet4481
      @violet4481 4 месяца назад +6

      Literacy rate is not a measure of maturity. Apnay dekha nahi? Jis shohar nay apni biwi ko dhakka diya, woh parha likha bhi tha aur uska apna business bhi tha. Literacy barhanay say tameez aur morals nahi paida hotay. Literacy rate kay saath saath social issues pay education dena, aur deeni talimaat ko include karna zaruri hai.

    • @btiiithug9585
      @btiiithug9585 4 месяца назад +4

      @@violet4481literacy includes manners which our education system doesn’t

    • @violet4481
      @violet4481 4 месяца назад +3

      @@btiiithug9585 the census bureau doesnt measure manners.. the literacy rate just measure those who can read and write. Please read and understand the comments properly next time.

    • @btiiithug9585
      @btiiithug9585 4 месяца назад +2

      @@violet4481 I know and I am saying that our education system is faulty since it doesn’t include manners so please read b4 u say something

  • @Nature__Angel
    @Nature__Angel 3 месяца назад +1

    حضرت محمد صلی اللّٰه علیــــه وآله وسلّم ❤️

  • @shazo786
    @shazo786 4 месяца назад +4

    Zulm ki inteha kar di is quom ne...Eye opening documentary Junaid bhai 😢

  • @tsjerseyplace
    @tsjerseyplace 4 месяца назад +9

    ALHAMDULILLAH meri pehli beti hai or main is baat per bohot fakhar karta hoon k ALLAH ne mujhe rehmat se nawaza!

    • @gulandmum5554
      @gulandmum5554 4 месяца назад +2

      Allah sends an angel to the parents of a baby girl who are happy to have her as a first born. That angel brings blessings from Allah.

  • @versaty65
    @versaty65 4 месяца назад +8

    i wish all islamic channels also pick this video and spread this msg along their following as well.

    • @sm9713
      @sm9713 4 месяца назад +1

      Haha ye karein gey, ye sirf batein karein gey, kuch practical ya qadam ya, haq I mean dadhi sakht bat nahi kar sakte, ye apnon ke khilaf jo istarhah kar rahe hon unke khilaf bhi khare ho jaate hein

  • @aqsaali2670
    @aqsaali2670 4 месяца назад +2

    First of all, thank you for making this documentary, I am really full of tears after watching it, my father and five brothers have supported me in all my educational and career goals they really kept me like a treasure..... I am thankful to Allah and for all the girls out there who are suffering..... we need to promote education and early marriages as an emergency in Pakistan..... time is really the worst!

  • @hamzaharoon6495
    @hamzaharoon6495 4 месяца назад +5

    Literally i am emotional... My eyes are full of tears .... Only imagining what kind of pain that mothers and infants suffer ... How new born babies are treated even they have no sense initially 😢😭😭 .... My question is that to those husband who tortured their wife and girl that what question occur in their mind when the girls is born .... Unn logon ka kiya haal hoga duniya or akhirat mai ....

  • @farwanqv
    @farwanqv 4 месяца назад +5

    😢😢😢😢 I am so sad to hear this. I feel blessed to have first daughter child.
    No one can dare to say anything to my child just because she is a daughter. Listening to this in 2024 breaks my heart.

  • @MyselfJayprakash
    @MyselfJayprakash 4 месяца назад +4

    Love from India bro Thankyou for giving voice to voiceless.....

  • @armantosifkhan
    @armantosifkhan 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for making this.
    Alhamdulillah proud and happy parent of my little angel. my first born daughter. Love and blessings fro India

  • @sqqi
    @sqqi 4 месяца назад +8

    Main sirf yhe kahoonga hum pakistani Musalman bhi rahay hain….?

  • @imranqadeer5456
    @imranqadeer5456 4 месяца назад +1

    I am a father of three sons, and honest to Allah, every time I prayed O Allah give me a daughter ❤️ so I will have a straight path to paradise ❤. May Allah protect us from the evil mindset, Aameen.

  • @muhammadtalmeez3276
    @muhammadtalmeez3276 4 месяца назад +6

    We are living in 2024 and this is still an issue. What a backward society we are😢😢

  • @bakhtawarnawaz7791
    @bakhtawarnawaz7791 3 месяца назад +1

    A good step making this video. Thankyiu for giving all of them a platform

  • @junaidzoraiz9249
    @junaidzoraiz9249 4 месяца назад +7

    “Whoever supports two girls till they attain maturity, he and I will come on the Day of Resurrection (close to each other) like this -The Messenger of Allah joined his fingers to illustrate closeness.” (Muslim)
    These are just examples of how Islam cared for girl children. The care mentioned in these hadiths and others is comprehensive. It covers the girls’ physical, emotional and mental needs.
    Such is the care and affection that our daughters deserve. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) commands us to be loving, patient and supportive parents.
    And once again, if you have daughters, you are greatly blessed and fortunate!

  • @hammadahmed6332
    @hammadahmed6332 4 месяца назад +4

    Alhamdulillah hamare khandan mai beta beti dono mai equal khushi manate hain

  • @ShiaTalks
    @ShiaTalks 4 месяца назад +3

    junaid bhai first of all i salute you for highlighting on this topic and capturing and making very superb video on this , may Allah curse on those people who don’t like there daughter , i love those people who really love to have there daughter

  • @owaisahussain
    @owaisahussain 4 месяца назад +2

    اپنے معاشرے کی یہ چیزیں دیکھ کر اندازہ ہوتا ہے کہ اسلام سے قبل عرب کیسا ہوا کرتا تھا۔
    بحمد تعالیٰ ربّ العزت نے نہ صرف مجھے پہلی بیٹی سے نوازا بلکہ شعور بھی عطا فرمایا۔
    کاش بیٹوں کے خواہشمند بیٹی والوں سے پوچھیں کے کیسی محبت کرتی ہیں بیٹیاں۔

  • @ZackRPSR
    @ZackRPSR 4 месяца назад +7

    "Hum ne Western culture tou adopt kar liya lekin unki responsibilities adopt nahi kar paye" we failed our Prophet and Allah as muslims. Allah hum subko Hidayat naseeb farmaye.

  • @KMC-3
    @KMC-3 4 месяца назад +1

    Alhamdulillah. We are 4 siblings (3 girls and 1 boy). I am the youngest girl in my house. I thank Allah for such loving parents and siblings.

  • @Muzamalhussain155
    @Muzamalhussain155 4 месяца назад +5

    What a content and effort ❣ I really appreciate Junaid Bhai Struggle

  • @SajjadALi-pk3ib
    @SajjadALi-pk3ib 4 месяца назад +1

    بلکل صحیح یہی کچھ ھورہا ھے ہمارے معاشرے میں استغفراللہ

  • @AsfarkhanStudios
    @AsfarkhanStudios 4 месяца назад +17

    i was blessed with a baby girl as a first child but she was delivered in the sixth month unfortunately we were shattered but now Allah has blessed us with a baby boy. we named her maryam. I still remember her as my first child she is always in my heart she will be In my heart always as my first child as my daughter.

  • @alidjdk
    @alidjdk 4 месяца назад +2

    Allah pak is qoum ko hidayat dy Ameen

  • @huzaifaali7027
    @huzaifaali7027 4 месяца назад +5

    Meri bhai ke phali aulad beti ha we are all happy when she came to world we love her

  • @hatimsaifuddin9856
    @hatimsaifuddin9856 4 месяца назад +1

    What a documentary. Needs to raise these types of issues.

  • @ulluminati_xx
    @ulluminati_xx 4 месяца назад +4

    I watched this and I am honestly out of words.
    I recently got married and I pray that I have a daughter as my firstborn. I can't even comprehend how on earth a father can kill/bury his own daughter with his own hands.. I'm literally shivering at the thought of it..

  • @ghaznahussain3693
    @ghaznahussain3693 Месяц назад

    Very well adressed documentry......much needed in this country n at this time.may God bless u😊

  • @mash6943
    @mash6943 4 месяца назад +4

    He said rightly
    If the baby is born in the marriage or out of wedlock, the baby is the baby and has full right to love in this world with his/ her parents.
    I think society should accept such babies 😊
    The couple should get married to fulfill or avoid religious or social pressure.

    • @ryancooper1144
      @ryancooper1144 4 месяца назад +1

      The problem is, couples involved in those relations never wanted a baby. They just wanted to quench their thirst of intercource.

    • @manasi92
      @manasi92 4 месяца назад

      ​​@@ryancooper1144 same things happen after marriage what's new? In fact people get married so that they can get laid.

    • @ryancooper1144
      @ryancooper1144 4 месяца назад

      @@manasi92 if u believe, married couples throw away babies more often than unmarried. You are very wrong.

    • @ryancooper1144
      @ryancooper1144 4 месяца назад

      @@manasi92 If you believe, married couples are more likely to throw away kids, then you are horribly wrong

  • @rizwangamingofficial6270
    @rizwangamingofficial6270 4 месяца назад +8

    Love you so much junaid bhai. Rizwan Tahir ❤ from mirpur Azad Kashmir.

  • @msr-TEYE
    @msr-TEYE 3 месяца назад +1

    Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) Said.
    "I leave behind me two things, the Quran and the Sunnah and if you follow these you will never go astray."

  • @MrKhemnani
    @MrKhemnani 4 месяца назад +8

    Watching this from London
    I have seen such documentaries coming from India - Glad to see it is now addressed on the other side of the border.
    Acknowledging the issue - is the first step to Solve it.
    Thanks for taking the First step.

  • @maheenbhatti4618
    @maheenbhatti4618 4 месяца назад +2

    This generation really need to understand these basic thing's!!!

  • @junaidzoraiz9249
    @junaidzoraiz9249 4 месяца назад +4

    “Whoever has three daughters and is patient towards them, and feeds them, gives them to drink, and clothes them from his wealth; they will be a shield for him from the Fire on the Day of Resurrection.” (Authenticated by Al-Albani)

  • @KBH4
    @KBH4 2 месяца назад

    My heart has been shattered listening to this..........

  • @manafkhan8804
    @manafkhan8804 2 месяца назад +4

    I have only one baby and she is my princess and my oxygen . i can't even think to live even a second without her.

    • @alyanhussain2158
      @alyanhussain2158 2 месяца назад

      if she was your oxygen..then how were you alive before her ?

  • @ibadulhasansyed
    @ibadulhasansyed 4 месяца назад +1

    Wonderful documentary. Hatsoff to the NGO's taking care for such childrens. And shame on people who involved in such acts. Heart touching line at the end by Faisal Edhi Sb.

  • @erumyaseen
    @erumyaseen 4 месяца назад +3

    We lost our first baby girl, it was a premature baby. Allah tala sy bohat dua ki the ak beti kay leay magar shayad hamary naseeb me nahi the, mera dill en bacho kaa sun kar dard sy phaat raha hai kesy log hai jo apny khoon ko ghandagi mein phenk rahy hai, aur kitni he couples hai jo aulaad ko taras rahay hai

  • @sleepbetter1760
    @sleepbetter1760 4 месяца назад +1

    Ya bathy hume pehly se kiun nahi bataye jati ,.... na he parents batate hai na school college or uni .... i m very progressive person but didn't think about that at alll after watching this video i learned alot........take desciion with precaution.... thanks Judnaid bhi😊

  • @mkmc612
    @mkmc612 4 месяца назад +27

    Yar junaid bhai.
    Kabhi kabhi mai aisi vids dekhke sochta hu k
    Yaar...chand hzar qtal jaiz hone chahye the aese ghaleez aur jaahil logon k lye.
    Truly sad 😐

    • @theenlightenedone1283
      @theenlightenedone1283 4 месяца назад +1

      اب سچ میں کچھ ٹھیک نہیں ہو سکے گا۔ خدا کی نافرمانی کی یہی سزا ہوتی ہے۔
      سوائے توبہ کے جس طرح قوم یونس نے کی تھی آخری وقت پہ بھی عذاب ٹل گیا تھا۔

    • @theenlightenedone1283
      @theenlightenedone1283 4 месяца назад +1

      علاج
      72 فرقوں سے نکل کر 1 جماعت بن جانے کا وقت آگیا ہے
      ملت/امت میں شامل ہو جاو
      خلیفہ وقت کی اطاعت میں ہی برکت ہے اور پاکستان/ اسلامی ممالک کی بقا ہے
      علماء سو سے بچیے/ نام نہاد لیڈروں سے بھی
      اسلام = امن و سلامتی
      فلاحی ریاست
      اللھم' لبیک
      پاکستان زندہ باد

  • @shahlizaali6960
    @shahlizaali6960 4 месяца назад +2

    Allah sabko neak hidayat dain aameen

  • @MrsSAli
    @MrsSAli 3 месяца назад +1

    Shokar Allhamdulillah I have 2 Daughters and 1 Son. Allah Ka Shokar hai Ke 3no salamat hai. Allah Ka lakh Shokar hai…..❤❤

  • @obaid653
    @obaid653 4 месяца назад +6

    If two adults who come in a relation out of the wed lock and have a child should be first punished and then state must make sure that they raise that child and force both the parent's

  • @RurallSoull
    @RurallSoull 4 месяца назад

    02:07 Oh My God. Thank you Junaid Bhai for bringing Him up. This guy is author of numerous beautiful short stories. I had been reading them in famous Karachite pulp magazines.
    I always respect you Bhai because of your meaningful social work. I SELDOM COMMENT IN YOUR VIDEOS.

  • @M_Abdullah_Azeem
    @M_Abdullah_Azeem 4 месяца назад +12

    Pta nhi inn fazool harkatoon se hum kab baaz ayengy.

    • @dr.cooper5909
      @dr.cooper5909 4 месяца назад +5

      Aisi darindagi ko "fazool" jaise halke lafz se naa describe karein.

    • @M_Abdullah_Azeem
      @M_Abdullah_Azeem 4 месяца назад +3

      @@dr.cooper5909 sai keh rhy, its insanity.

  • @mmalik3587
    @mmalik3587 3 месяца назад +1

    Mujhy lgta tha k ye issue ab khatam ho gea hy. Astaghfirullah

  • @malikaunmuhammad1940
    @malikaunmuhammad1940 4 месяца назад +1

    beti bety se zada piyari lgti ha maan bap ko. najany q. Allah mery bety or beti dono ko slamat rkhay aaaamin

  • @imransayyed2251
    @imransayyed2251 4 месяца назад +3

    Kuch hi din me hume bhi jaa ke haazir hona h maalik k saamne. Kya haal hoga bas Allah rahem kare

  • @RealAmarSheth
    @RealAmarSheth 4 месяца назад

    Junaid,
    Thank you for making this. It's a blot in all South Asian countries. I commend your courage and willingness to share this with the world. Well done.
    Best wishes.

  • @AliHaider-u4w9o
    @AliHaider-u4w9o 4 месяца назад +3

    Ya Allah.... 😢😢😢

  • @robberz9154
    @robberz9154 4 месяца назад

    props to the team for making documentary on such a sensitive topic, and communicating the message with extreme grace!

  • @FAISAL-qx9wr
    @FAISAL-qx9wr 4 месяца назад +3

    yeh changing sirf tarbiyat se he a sakte hy. jis tarhan ka mahool insan ko apne ghar main milta hy woh isi tarha ho jata hy. is liye larki ka educated hona bhot zarori hota hy jabhi woh apne bacho ko achi tarbiyat kar paige.

    • @FAISAL-qx9wr
      @FAISAL-qx9wr 4 месяца назад

      ab is documentry main he dekhe kis tarhan kji jahhel maa the jis ne apni aulad ki is tarha ki tarbiyat ki

  • @dugdugi2296
    @dugdugi2296 2 месяца назад

    After watching the first 5 minutes i can tell you guy's did excellent job but i swear i would have grow humongous ballz to finish this. I can't i just can't finish this. Shukar All-Humdullilha millions of time for god to give me what i wished all my life and that's my Daughter. What a beautiful gift i have been rewarded. I wish for no more kids.

  • @muhammadanwar2031
    @muhammadanwar2031 4 месяца назад +6

    Ye he islami mulk apne app ko musalman kehhne wale kafiron se badtar hein

  • @talhaakram869
    @talhaakram869 2 месяца назад +1

    May Allah grant me daughters. Ameen.

  • @AsaanEnglish_000
    @AsaanEnglish_000 4 месяца назад +1

    May Allah put every child in His Hifz o aman

  • @abdurrafehkhan5754
    @abdurrafehkhan5754 4 месяца назад +5

    Kia dor agaya hai. Bachay maray ja rahay, pheke ja rahay kachray k dabbon mein. Betiyan tau rehmat hotein. Allah logon ko hidayat day. Yeh video dekh kar bohat afsos hua. Allah sab kay lieye asani karay. Ameen.

  • @Aem11284
    @Aem11284 4 месяца назад

    إِنَّا ِلِلَّٰهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ, May Allah protect the daughters of our nation. Ameen

  • @umangchoudhary6418
    @umangchoudhary6418 4 месяца назад +10

    There use to be same issue in India, and it is still there but has been almost eliminated by just 1 law.
    ‘Sex determination is illegal in India’
    And the main driving force behind this law was educated doctors so it was followed strictly.

    • @sab-ali
      @sab-ali 4 месяца назад +2

      It isn't allowed here too since a few years. I know this cz when i was expecting, my doctor was hesitant to tell me. And i learnt that it is not allowed in govt hospitals. Ppl don't follow rules though

    • @btiiithug9585
      @btiiithug9585 4 месяца назад +1

      Sorry I don’t mean to offend up you but the issue is far from being eliminated both in pak and india both countries have the same law but it happens due to jahilat