Josh, I'd like to say this to you, as a mother who had a baby through the NHS. There may be a point where you have to be forceful with the midwives, not in a cruel way, but in a firm assertive way. Be insistent. If Gabby cannot go forward with the situation she could be in, it's down to you to stand up for her when she's most vulnerable. I didn't have this during my birth which ended up in an emergency C-section after 50 hours of non-productive labour. I had to fight and yell, literally. To make them give me the C-section. No one listened to me or stood up for me when I knew something was wrong. I know you're a good man and will do whatever you have to for your beautiful wife❤. Please don't let this frighten you, just be aware of what you may have to do. Sending this message with love for you all.
I second this. Guys wonder what they can do when their wife is in labour. T best answer is advocate for her when she is too vulnerable to advocate for herself. My husband did this for me and I truly believe he saved my son’s life. Sometimes unfortunately midwives in the UK don’t listen.
My sons heart rate was dropping massively with every contraction and the midwives said it was because the contractions were so strong they were losing contact. They put a clip on baby’s head to measure the heart rate a different way to reassure my husband but it showed that the heart rate was actually dropping that low. 30 minutes later I had my baby out with ventouse. All the best guys.
@@sapphireemerald6109 since she said NHS, her birthing experience must be in the UK. NHS is very anti c section, there were many policies in place that capped hospitals’ c section rates. it has caused much grief to many families. they are now doing inquiries and investigations on the c section denial issue, if you google it it’ll come up
@@stephanietraylor6052midwives and labor/delivery nurses in the US can be this way also. People need to remember, these people are NOT obstetricians, and sonetimes they just don't have the expertise to make these decisions, but they believe they do. Make sure you or your coach/partner are able to stand your ground and demand a obstetrician make the call. I had an emergency c-section also. Don't let anyone jeopardize your or your babies lives and well being!
Hey Gabbie! I’m a nurse, nothing in medicine is a 100% safe we can’t promise that but from what I have seen some moms would come in rejecting the epidural but 5 hours into the pushing process they give up and ask for it. The amount of pain you will experience is unexplainable so don’t make it harder for yourself, make it as smooth as possible. One thing I would add is the amount of strain you put on yourself does affect the baby and the longer the process and pushing the more risk for the baby’s heart beat to decrease. I had this hilarious mom who would wait with her husband for the epidural to ring ( it’s patient controlled anesthesia) to press for it, they made it a fun activity.
I concur with you. Josh would also have to be assertive when advocating for Gabi when she is in active labour when there are midwives or a staff member being complacent or too aggressive when foremost part is they listen to Gabi when she is the 1 living in her skin, flesh & bone.
On this show about women having babies, I saw one woman who opted for no epidural. At one point, she was in so much pain and shaking. It looked like she was having seizures, but she wasn’t. She ended up having an epidural.
Best birthing advice ever is - Just Surrender. Surrender to the fear, surrender to the pain, surrender to whatever happens. Enjoy your last few moments as a couple, because once the baby is born, it’s a hectic flurry of changing nappies, breast-feeding, sleepless nights, crying etc. Just surrender to it all from a state of relaxed happiness, and know that all is well, no matter how your baby comes earthside. Remember back to when this was your wish? When all you wanted was to be pregnant? Don’t let a day go by without being grateful for the blessing, and just surrender and be in the now moment. All will be well. Enjoy x
'Surrender' was my mantra going into each of my births - you can't control what happens, so you might aswell trust in your body and go with it. Experience it intentionally, be curious about how incredible your body is. If you need drugs, go for it. If you need intervention, let's go. If you get through it without anything, then that's good too. It's not a competition and no one should judge you for what happens, not even ourselves. xx
You both have fought so hard just to be pregnant with your baby girl. Don’t let delivery scare you I had my first with drugs and my second natural. There’s no right or wrong it’s whatever makes y’all happy. I’m now 70 years old and I can still recall my pure joy at giving birth. You will be fine. Trust in the Lord because with Him you’ve got this!! Peace, love and blessings from Oklahoma ❤️
I'm going to be blunt. Giving birth is painful. Don't be a hero. Get the epidural. Have that baby in a hospital, you can have have all the plans in the world, but things can happen in an instant that are out of your control. You want an immediate response. Best of luck on your delivery! ❤
also people underplay the very common complications of natural birth, incontinence etc are common following a natural birth. Also the UK seems waaay too reluctant to do C-sections, even if it is safer- my sister in law and her sister had their first kids naturally-and their pelvises were too small for it to be safe- they were both very lucky to get through and both needed transfusions afterwards. Don't be a hero, and do consider C-section if it is even suggested
@@alicehughes4926 Read my entry above. My pelvis was too small also, and after 59 hours of labor, finally had a c-section. C-sections are SURGERY under anathesia! It is NOT natural birth, and it is NOT safer. Your body is equipped for birth, not surgery, and the shock to the body produces many more afteraffects than natural.
@@shishurhuhajhso No One can say what it'll be, that doesn't need to be said-my point is that she should Only take it if necessary, otherwise an "epidural-free" birth could actually go quite smoother and faster. That shouldn't be hard for anyone to understand what I wrote in the most simplest terms-no need to complicate things.
무통은 무조건 맞는 게 맞아요.. 인간이 가장 강하게 느끼는 고통 중 하나가 출산인데 무통 주사 맞지 말라는 건 너무 이기적이죠... 여러 분들이 말씀해주신 것처럼 가비님은 노산이시기 때문에 risk factor가 별거 아니더라도 크게 작용할 수 있어요. 무조건 자연 출산이 좋은 게 아니니까 여러 방면으로 많이 생각해두시는 게 좋을 것 같네요!! 너무 겁먹으시지 마시고 의료진들 믿고 선택해주세요!!
@@nicolad8822 yep:) kinda misleading. it means like She is not giving birth in early age, could be little bit older compared to other ppl who's giving birth. And there is a short term for that in Korean that could be bit misleading 😊 (bc it's an old term came from chinese character so translator might get it wrong) The commenter is saying they definitely need ephidural because there's higher chance that Gabie could have more pain or risk situation bc of age factor☺️
I've had 3 babies with 3 very different labours - epidural, no epidural and then emergency c-section. Each where as scary but as powerful as each other because I got to see how strong I could be, and what my body can do (with and without intervention) to bring my babies into the world. We're incredible no matter what happens xx
자연주의 좋은거 누가 모르는지.. 순리대로 낳는거 가장 저도 원하는 바에요 (10월 출산 예정) 하지만 초산인 산모는 자신의 상황을 예상 할 수 없고 (하물며 의료진들도.. 자연분만 하다 응급제왕으로 넘어가는 경우 진짜 많이 보고 들음) 고통도 얼마난지도 모르죠 그러니 자신의 몸과 아이의 태어나는 모든 과정은 가장 안전한 상황에서 하고싶고 그러하니 선택은 부부 두분이 잘 상의해서 현명한 선택 하길 바랍니다 진심으로요. 만일에 상황에 대비해 병원 출산이 좋다고 생각 합니다
저는 자궁내막종 보유자였고 피임약 처방받아 1년 넘게 복용하고 내막종이 완전히 없어진 후 자연임신을 했어요. 한국서는 막달 초산모에게 유도분만을 많이 권해서 생각 없이 유도분만 들어갔고 진통 겪다가 애 머리가 골반에 끼어서 결국 제왕했습니다. 제왕을 위해 몸을 열어보니 어이 없게도 임신기간동안 자궁내막종이 2센티 자라있어서 주치의가 오픈한 김에 같이 떼주셨습니다. 진통과 제왕을 모두 겪어보니 그냥 처음부터 제왕할 걸 후회합니다 ㅎㅎㅎㅋㅋㅋ 남들보다 체력저하가 심각하고 각종 뼈마디가 다 열려서 회복에 1년이 훨씬 넘게 걸렸어요. 글구 결정하실 때 가비씨가 실질적으로 노산인 것도 무조건 고려하세요. 노산은 진통 때 몸이 잘 열리지 않는다는 걸 제가 경험하였네요 ㅠㅠㅋㅋㅋ 어떤 결정을 하든 순풍 낳으세요!!
저도 35살에 임신 36살에 초산했는데요. 윗분처럼 하루종일 진통하다가 제왕절개 부탁했는데, 남편반대로 계속 진통하다가 결국 아이 심장에 무리가 와서 8cm 자궁문 열어놓고 제왕절개 했네요. 회복 2배로 힘들었고요 ㅠㅠ 저희 친정엄마가 난산하셨다고 하는데… 그런 것도 닮을 수 있다는 점 참고하세요. 둘째 낳다가는 대량출혈로 대형병원 응급실에서 1주일간 입원도 했네요. 산모의 건강이 최우선이네요. 병원에서 출산하시고 순산하시길 ~
저는 독일에서 촉진제로 자연분만 유도하다 결국 제왕절개 했구요. 전신마취 아니고 하반신만해서 정신 말짱하게 수술했는데 후회 없었어요. 하나도 안무섭고 5분이면 아기 만나거든요.... 둘 이상 제왕절계는 힘들지만 아니면 저는 추천해요. 둘다 경험한 사람중에 수술자리 아무는것이 자연분만 아래 절개보다 덜아프단사람도 있고... 사람마다 다 달라서 결국 본인선택이지만. ,, 제왕절개 하나도 안무섭구 회복도 빨라요 .100년전에도 여자들 애가 낳았대요~걱정마세요^^
What I learned from my birthing classes was that if I could RELAX, my body would open up and baby would come out. I chose a home birth, which was beautiful and best for me, but maybe not best for everyone. I would recommend getting answers to all your questions, then doing what will help you be the most relaxed during labor and delivery. For example, I learned that only 1 in 10 women who birth at home need to be transferred to hospital. That gave me peace of mind about my decision to birth at home. Praying for you!
I like how Josh is supporting you and letting you decide whatever is best for you. I know I was most comfortable having an epidural. I had two beautiful girls with epidural and it worked beautifully. Prayers yours goes very smoothly.
Did you gain any after effects? A lot of people I know who had epidural said they got long term back pains as a result. So I’m really undecided about the decision to do it if I ever do have a child. The unpredictability of it all is what scares me because all women are different and respond differently to things. And it’s hard to know what to do until you’re in that position. It’s scary for sure.
@@JoeMama-kz4sx I did not have any after effects, although the epidural actually only worked on one side of my body for my second daughter. They tried to get me to lay on my other side, but it was too late because it was time to push. But still it did help. And it worked absolutely perfectly for my first daughter. It’s something that you have to decide for yourself for sure. Wishing you the best.
I was first introduced to KE and Gabie years ago thru the interview with NCT Mark and Jaehyun, where Ollie shocked them by saying in the UK, NCT is a prenatal class. I remember laughing so hard. That joke literally led me to following you guys' channels from then til now. And now you and josh are taking "NCT" classes. This feels like such a full circle moment. Good luck Gabie, wishing you a safe and healthy third trimester, delivery, and baby!
임밍아웃하고 같이 울었던게 엊그제같은데 이렇게 배부르다니 진짜 시간빠르네요 아기 키우는것도 그래요 순식간에 크는것 같다니까요 제발 늦게 커라 말할 정도 그래서 항상 순간을 즐겨야해요~~^^ 그리고 선택이 의미가 없기도 해요 상황따라ㅋㅋㅋ 저는 자연분만을 엄청 주창하던 사람였어요 근데 의사샘은 제왕절개 가능성이 있다는거에요 전 완전 무시하고 진통하면서 자연분만할거라면서 고집피웠죠 12시간이 넘도록 자궁문 열리지 않고 진행이 안되서 결국 이러다 둘다 클나지싶어 결국 제왕했잖아요 사람들은 이게 제일 안좋은 케이스라는데 전 그래도 진통해보고 한게 후회없어요 아이를 위해 선택을 해봤으니까 처음부터 진통없이 수술로 바로 갔음 몰랐을 경험이고 아이도 준비할 시간도 주었고 아이한테 덜 미안하더라구요 수술후에도 통증이 또 있어서 아이안고 젖먹여야하는 고통에 죽을맛이었지만 엄마니까 해낼 수 있고 해야한다고 생각이 들었던게 저도 신기해요~~ 그렇게 아이낳으면 독하리만치 강해지더라구요. 일단 자연분만 선택해서 제왕으로 바뀌더라도 아깝다 내가 왜 진통을 생으로 겪었나 후회할 필요는 없다는거에요. 경험자로서^^ 그또한 소중한경험입니다. 몸작은 사람이 더 자연분만 잘하는게 국룰이던데 가비씨는 가능할듯~~
저는 22시간 진통 후 골반이 작아서 아이가 더 내려오지 못한다고해서 제왕절개로 출산했는데요~😅😅 무통맞고 진통이 길어지다보니 제왕 후 마취에 깼을때 회복하는데 시간이 오래걸렸어요~ 부종이 심해 걷기도 힘들었죠~~ 전 당연히 자연분만 할 줄알았는데 진통을 그렇게나 오래하고 제왕 할줄 몰랐습니다ㅎㅎ 애기 낳으러 가기 전까지, 낳으러 병원가서도 어찌될지 모르는게 제왕이냐 자연분만이냐 같아요~ 물론 처음부터 제왕을 하겠다고 날짜맞춰 가는 케이스도 있지만요~~ 순산하신길 기원하며~~ 제 케이스를 풀어봤어요ㅎㅎ
Gabi, you look more and more beautiful with each day. Baby girl, Carrot, is a real beauty. Enjoy each day and each and every change your body goes through... you're growing a miracle! Congratulations! ❤😊
Sweet Gabie, your body is getting ready for sleepless nights. My babies are in their late thirties and forty. But I remember waking up during the night and not being able to sleep, while I was still working. Then when baby was born, they woke me up at the exact time I was during pregnancy. Labor is hard, no doubt. But you do what makes you and Josh most comfortable, and safe for precious baby girl. She is beautiful, and your life will never be the same. Oh the joy awaiting you both!
제왕 했어요^^ 수면마취 중이라 사람 많은지 그런거 모르고 잘 자고 일어나니까 다 끝나 있었어요ㅋㅋ 저도 수술과정이나 사진을 봤으면 어땠을지 모르겠는데 지금은 후회하지 않아요 제주변에 자연분만 했던분들 중에 허리디스크가 생긴 분들이 많아서(아이가 나오면서 척추가 눌리면서 디스크가 터진대여)저는 엄마의 강력추천으로 제왕했고 제 허리는 무사하답니다^^
아이를 낳고 키우는 과정에서 희생해야되는 부분이 많으니 힘드실 꺼예요 근데 어느정도 키워놓으니 그시절 너무 예쁘고 귀엽고 더 귀한 시간이였는데 왜 충분히 예쁨을 못 느끼고 더 잘해주지 못 했는지 아쉬워서 울컥 할때가 있답니다 두분이서 너무 잘 키우시겠지만 아이에 대한 사랑과 행복을 꼭 충분히 누리시길 바랄께요~건강하게 순산하시고 행복하세요😊❤
You should check out Sarah’s Day first birth. She went for a natural birth but she was so tense that her muscles actually prevented her from birthing, the epidural was needed to relax everything. Whatever you all decide, it’s right for you, regardless of what hospitals prefer.
Our body is crazy. I went in for scheduled csection at 37 weeks. 2 hours and a half before going in the OR they inserted the catheter and the result of that my water broke immediately. Doctors didn't say the reason that happened but because I went through the same thing with my first daughter, I suspect it was because of stress. Crazy how our body can response to things.
I cannot WAIT to see Baby Carrot out of the belly!!! She's going to be so beautful and so loved!!! I had a baby girl 26 years ago, and she was the best thing that happened to me. I had a 29-hour long, fairly painful labor, but I got drugs to ease the pain, and instead of an epidural, I got a single shot in the spine, which *I* thought made me sleep for two hours, but I guess I was awake and talking to people. But after the two hours, it was time to push, and she came out perfect (well, a little hairier than I thought babies could be...she looked like a little chimpanzee!!!)!!! It'll be a great experience, and honestly, I didn't remember the pain when I saw the little hands and feet and lips and deep dark eyes. It'll be exceptional. :-) You two are in my prayers!!!
첫출산이라 아무래도 겁이 나시겠지만,병원에서 출산은 아무리 응급상황이라고 해도 의료진이 대처할 수 있으니 너무 걱정마시고 순산하시기를 바래요.. 진통이 시작되면 아마 무통주사를 바로 찾을 정도로 고통스러운데,아기가 너무 크거나 진행이 더딘 경우는 산모와 아기의 안전을 위해 제왕절개도 염두해 두시는게 좋아요
I had to do an emergency c-section, because my son's heart rate dropped too low. I was so worried about my son. My doctor assured me that once they get me into the operating room, they could get him out in 6 seconds if they had to. They didn't have to rush that fast because, luckily, his heart rate stabilized, but it was reassuring that the doctors and staff know what they're doing. You will be fine. And the epidural is the BEST thing ever. (In my opinion) There is no right and wrong. You do what feels right for you. So excited to see baby Carrot! Congratulations again!
Also, remember that sometimes the epidural don't work! I had 2 epidural, and both didn't work! I had both babies 5 weeks early and both came out perfectly fine! Just learn to surrender to your body! Let your body do what it has to do to get the baby out! When you are in the moment.. nothing else matters but your health and the baby health!
when Gabie said she’s a slave to the hormones, i relate so much to that 😭😂 been crying over many little things lately but that’s one of the joys of being pregnant. anw wishing you and baby carrot will have a safe and healthy delivery, Gabie! ❤
저는 한국의 전문의에요. 제 경우 아이가 38주가 되어도 아래로 잘 내려오지 않아서 선택제왕했어요. 인턴 전공의 과정에서 자연분만에 여러가지 불확실성이 있는 것을 많이 보기도 했구요. 수술하고 나서 주치의샘이 아이가 탯줄을 목에 세바퀴 감고 있었다며 제왕 선택하길 잘했다고 하셨어요. (하반신 마취여서 아이 꺼내는 걸 느낄 수 있었는데 꺼내며 엄청 낑낑대시는게 느껴졌었어요. 아마 탯줄을 목에 감고 있어서였던 것 같아요) 아이가 목에 탯줄을 감고 있는지는 막달에 초음파에서 자세히 보이지 않고, 또 아이가 그사이에 몸을 돌리며 감을 수도 있기 때문에 잘 모를 수 있거든요. 결국 제왕이 제가 살면서 가장 잘한 선택이 되었네요. 아무쪼록 가비님도 주치의와 잘 상의하셔서 현명하고 안전하게 출산하시길 빌어요~
저는 쌍둥이라 안전 1순위로 여겨셔 제왕했는데 둘째가 탯줄을 목에 감고 있었던 상황이었어요.. 후에 제왕하길 정말 잘했다 싶더라고요!! 막달에 컨디션, 상황 잘 보시고 선택 하시길 바래요.. 둘째같은 경우도 초음파에서 알 수 없었던 터라.. 산모와 아이 모두 안전한 출산에 제일 중요한 것 같습니다!! 가비님, 순산하시길요❤
You guys discussing your impressions as well as all the pro/cons is SO good, bc people get very up in arms about this subject very quickly (thinking that one is the correct choice and all the others are wrong). Good idea!
Josh is correct. Gabi, you have to do what makes you the most comfortable. This means you are more relaxed and less stressed for the entire experience. That makes it easier on your body. You guys are going to be amazing parents! Can't wait for photos of the beautiful baby carrot! 🧡
I had an emergency c section with my son after 18 hours of labor and then a planned C with my daughter after that. No matter what method, do whatever works for you and is safe for both you and the baby. Everyone will have opinions so trust your own feelings. Sending all our love and support to you, Josh and baby Carrot from NY!!
오랫동안 부부 단둘이 알콩달콩 사는 가정에서부터 이번에 어렵게 출산 준비하시고 임신 기간 동안의 모습을 보면서 두분이 긴 터널을 지나서 강한 빛이 드리우는 새로운 세계로 향하는 것과 같은 모습처럼 느껴져서 뭉클하고 같이 축하해주고픈 마음이 드네요~ 저 또한 오랫동안 딩크 부부지만 나도 아이를 가질까?라는 생각도 해봅니다ㅎㅎ 당근이가 세상에 나올 날이 너무 기대되는 이모 한명 추가요🙋🏻
I'm also a small lady and went all natural. It was hard and painful but not as bad as I had built up in my mind. I had expected to tear and for the whole thing to be the worst pain in my life so that helped it not be so scary. I don't push for other people to go all natural..if you feel you can do it and want to, then go for it! If you want an epidural, do it! If you want a C-section, go for it! Just be prepared for longer recovery and a hopefully minimum scaring. NO MATTER WHAT, IT WILL BE HARD. Do what you feel comfortable with; you seem to have a great support in Josh so I think you'll be alright. Ps, you never accurately remember the pain because the joy outshines it completely💜 Hoping for a wonderful pregnancy for you all the way from Louisiana! -R, a young mom who is about to have a 2nd baby in a couple weeks ☺️
I am so happy for you two! The baby's heart beat inside the stuffy is amazing! I got one for my granddaughter, and it was stolen in a robbery. I was heartbroken, and will never understand why someone would steal something like that with my grand baby's heart beat inside. Cherish it always, it will be an amazing gift for your daughter some day ❤
저는 영국남자 구독자지만 임신 응원하고 있었고 해서 댓글 남겨봐요..제가 배우기는 신생아는 밤낮이 없어 못자니까 엄마도 수면이 줄어드는??호르몬이 나온다고 하더라구요 (정확한 단어는 생각이 안나네요)막달되니까 진짜 저는 4시간자고 했어요 점점더 힘드시겠지만...힘들게 얻은 만큼 어떤 방식이든 꼭 건강히 출산 하시길 응원합니다🙏🏻 너무 아름다운 부부화이팅입니다👍🏻
I had a planned C-Section. I am in the US. It turned out to be a blessing as the umbilical cord was wrapped around him in a way that prevented him from dropping. We didn’t know this going in. It was also nice to stay in the hospital a few more days to get the help from the neonatal staff. My son is 15 now. I pray y’all get the delivery you want but know that as long as the baby comes out healthy and mom is healthy all is good. Prayers to y’all.
I am hooked with you two! Jour journey be it the beginning of EnglishKoreanman and your married life and now this pregnancy, mind-blowing to say the least!. All is well. All will be well!!
If you don't have any difficulty, try normal birth as first option, take epidural as second and C-section for a last choice. You heal fast if you gave birth normal and its a bit slow for C-section. Women giving birth is full of risk, normal or C-section, its going to be painful, but its all worth it when you meet the little one! Will be waiting the day you both meet carrot! Good luck & Fighting!
조쉬님이 산모가 가장 마음이 편하고 출산 방식에 확신이 있는게 중요하다는 말에 너무 공감해요! 아기도 중요하지만 결국 순산이란 엄마와 아기가 모두 안전하고 건강하게 잘 출산하는거니까요 꼬옥 순산하세요 가비님! 멀리서나마 응원하고 있겠습니다:) 점점 더 몸도 힘드실텐데 영상으로 소식 전해주셔서 너무 감사드립니다😊
Giving birth is painful, so take whatever painkillers they offer. Once you have given birth you forget the pain and just feel tired, but all soooo worth it when you hold your baby. Having a c section you have to be careful, lifting, exercise, climbing stairs etc for a several (4-6)weeks, add to that you have a 'wound' that needs time to heal. At the end of the day it is your choice, whatever you choose ..... your baby is worth it.
I'm so happy for you guys! I've been such an admirer and a big fan of you, Jolly, and KoreanEnglishman, and I'm honestly honored to be a part of your journey. However, I haven't seen you speak up about the atrocities that have been happening in Palestine over the past seven months, and I'm so, so disappointed. You, of all people, should understand how hard it is for mothers and babies who share your tough experiences. We are so privileged that all we have to do is speak up about it and not let another holocaust happen. I wish you would use your platform to raise awareness 🇵🇸.
I am so excited for yall! Gabbie you are going to do wonderfully no matter what you choose. I love how supportive Josh is and how ready you are to see your baby girl. Seeing your baby for the first time is hands down the moment jn life that will instantly change you forever ❤❤❤
저는 자연주의 출산했어요 ㅎㅎ전 자연주의 출산 병원에서 하긴 했지만, 한국에서도 조산사(산파)께서 집으로 오셔서 출산을 도와주시는 경우도 종종 있어요! 욕조에 물 받아서 수중분만을 하는 거죠 ㅎㅎ! 제가 출산했던 병원에도 욕조가 있었어요. 저는 아이를 또 가져도 자연주의 출산을 선택할 것 같아요 ㅎㅎ하지만 당연히 산모가 가장 원하는 방법을 선택하는 게 좋겠죠! 근데 교육에서 자연주의 출산의 위험에 대해서는 설명을 안 해준다니 저도 충격😲 아이를 힘들게 잉태하고 뱃속에서 키우는 과정을 용기 있게 함께 나누다니 정말 멋져요!! 배가 볼록 나온 모습이 너무 예뻐요😊 입체 초음파 보니까 아가가 조쉬를 많이 닮은 것 같네요! 너무 예뻐요ㅠㅠ 순산하시길, 응원합니당
가비씨는 물론 조쉬도 배워야 할 점도 많아요. 초보 부모라서 배워야 할점도 있고 타인의 경험도 들어보면서 참고도 하고 순산해서 모녀 둘다 건강한 모습 빨리 보고 싶네요. 당근이 태여나면 유튜브로 보여 주세요 ㅋㅋ 당근이 태여나면 완벽한 가족이 되겠네요 ㅋㅋ 당근이 태여나면 바로 한국 대사관에도 전화 하세요.
I'm 53 birthed three children. My first was natural because he was 26 weeks. 1pound my second was emergency c- section but i had an epidural before hand.because he went breach. My third I had an epidural and ended with another c- section because I was high risk. I only had a reaction to my spinal tap for my c- section once. I had a migraine for the first 3 weeks then I was given a blood patch because the needle was to large for my spine and they took my blood put it in my spine to" plug " the whole and clot it. Had to lay for thirty minutes flat and all was well. So, what I'm saying is do what you want momma. ❤ natural or epidural is a personal choice. If it's rough then ask for it. No shame for pain or painless delivery as long as she's healthy ❤ I pray 🙏 everything goes well. Can't wait to see baby❤
The baby girl looks so adorable in there and we can see the face rather clearly🤭The tech now is so advanced. I can imagine she’s gonna be the cutest baby carrot ever!
I had to have a c-section, I knew that going in (placenta previa and my daughter was turned around the wrong way). Epidurals are a wonderful thing. The people in the operating room were wonderful and very kind to us! My ob/gyn that I had seen throughout my pregnancy did the surgery. The nurses even took our camera so they could film my husband cutting the cord. Everyone there was absolutely wonderful.
제왕절개수술로 출산을 하게 되면 출산에서부터 회복에 이르러 집으로 돌아오는 일련의 순서?를 산모가 원하는대로 컨트롤 할 수 있다는 점이 산부인과 의사가 말한 가장 큰 장점이라고 들었습니다. 진통이 오고 그 이후에 병원에 가게 되는 상황에서 발생할 변수를 차단한다는 것도 또 다른 장점이라고 생각되구요.
You both fought so hard to have this baby. Please go the safe route and have the c-section to avoid any complications for both the baby and Gabie. Best of luck. You got this! ❤
자궁내막종 이라면 망설임없이 고생없이 제왕절개 하세요 . 길게는 24시간 이상 몇시간을 고통받다가 결국에는 수술하면 산모도 아이도 위험해요 . 요즘은 제왕절개 안전하고 회복도 빨라요. 흉터도 거의 안 보여요 . 거의 5cm 정도 되는 듯 .. 죄책감이나 그런건 절대 필요 없어요 . 안전하게 분만하는 하나의 방법입니다 . 자궁이 약한 산모라면 제왕절개 수술해서 낳아도 건강하게 출산할수 있어요 . 두 아이 다 제왕절개 해서 잘 낳아 키우고 있어요 . 산모의 간강 상태가 제일우선순위 에요 . 미디어에서 자연분만 을 권하는 건 평범한 케이스를 말하는 거죠 . 미리 수술날짜를 정해야 해요 보통 7일- 10일 정도 예정일보다 일찍 수술하거든요 . 미리 예악하세요 . 수술은 20분 정도 미리 마음의 준비를 할수 있어서 오히려 편안해요 .
i wish you all the best for you and your family ❤️ may your little carrot be born healthy and happy without any complications. you guys are always in my thoughts, stay strong!!
Gabie, Every pregnancy is different and every labor and delivery is different. Caesarean section is major surgery and you have a longer recovery time. I pray your labor is a short period of time and the delivery is swift with no issues. Praying for a healthy baby. Amen.
가비님 영국에서 의사생활하고 있는 레지던트입니다. 영국은 midwife 가 텃세가 장난아니고 대부분이 의사들에게 internal 적대감이있는것같아요. 그리고 they try to make the patient feel that having a doctor is a bad thing. 그래서 emergency 일때 의사를 부르려하고 마치 의사를 부르는게 나쁜것처럼 부정적이게 생각하는게 없지않아 있는것같아요. 그렇기에 남편이나 가족들이 산모가 아이를 낳을때는 항상 advocate 대신 해주는게 중요하다고 생각해요. 특히 staff shortage 가 심한 nhs 병원같은경우에는요. 가비님이 epidural 받으시면 midwife led unit 이아닌 Labour ward 에 계시기때문에 ctg monitpring하고 의사들이 상주해있어 midwife 들의 텃세가 덜할수도있지만 nhs maternity unit 들중 엄청 환자들이 만족감이 큰 병원은 별로 본적이없어서 조쉬님이 옆에서 잘 모니터 해드려야해요... 그렇다고 private 병원이 더좋다는건 아니고요. 보통 시술같은것은 private 에 그냥 가겠지만, 아이 낳는것은 오히려 nhs 가 더안전하다 봅니다. 가비님이 어디로 결정 하셨는지는 잘모르겠지만, 사립은 물론 시설은 좋겠지만 Emergency 여력들이 불확실하고 큰일나면 e.g. major haemorrhage protocol 등 문제가생기면 확실하게 crash team 과 마취과 중환자실 전문의가 있는 대학병원보다는 안좋기에 (무슨 큰일 나면 무조건 앰뷸런스타고 어차피 nhs A&E 가야해서) private maternity unit 은 잘 알아보실필요가있어요 (물론 private 병원마다 다르겠지만요). 어떤 결정을 하시던 순산하시고 어찌됬던 산모가 마음이 편해야 아이도 편안하니 어떤결정을 하시전 걱정말고 잘되실거에요. God bless.
My first baby I did an epidural. It took me weeks to recover because I had pulled all the muscles in my back while pushing and couldn’t feel it. Second baby, there wasn’t time for an epidural. Waaaay better healing experience. I was walking within the hour and holding my baby. I had my other babies naturally after that and have never had such pain and harsh recovery as I did with the epidural. But I am an odd duck out, because I labor fast and furiously. So I don’t have a ton of misery buildup that an epidural could stave off. Baby looks adorable! So excited for you guys!
제가 제왕절개를 두번 했는데 솔직히 전 진통하다가 수술한거라 수술이라는 선택지가 있어서 내가 사는 구나 싶을 정도로 감사했어요 첫번째는 경황없는 사이에 누워있기 때문에 아이가 태어나는 것만 생생하게 느끼지 다른건 보이지도 않고 어서 재워줬으면 했고 둘째는 미리 날짜를 정해서 간거라 수술실에서 수술 준비시간이 40여분 걸리더라구요 그때가 좀 기분이 울쩍해지면서 두려우면서 좀 다운됐는데 일단 수술 시작하면 금방이고 다 끝났구나 하는 순간 머리맡에 앉아계시던 마취의사 선생님이 축하해주시고 칭찬해주셔서 평생 잊지 못할 위로를 받았네요 전 제왕절개할때 깨어나지 못하고 피도 많이 흘려서 수혈해야 할거 같다고 하셨는데도 다행히 당일날 일어나서 걸어다녔어요 회복기간이 진통하는 시간보다 절대적으로 저는 힘들지 않았어요 그냥 선택의 순간이 올때 제왕절개도 너무 두려워하지 마시라고 글 남겨봅니다
저도 아이 둘 제왕절개로 낳았어요. 마취해서 사람들이 많았는지 어쨌는지 전혀 몰라요. 하지만 전 제왕절개 좋았어요. 중요한건 오로지 산모에요. 제왕절개도 좋고 자연분만도 좋아요. 모유수유도 좋고 분유수유도 좋아요. 엄마가 행복하면 아기도 행복해요. 엄마와 아기가 행복하면 다 좋은거에요. 예쁜 당근이 건강하게 만나시길 응원합니다
For my first baby, I had an epidural and I never regretted it. With my second, I gave birth naturally without any medication. Gabby, just remember to go with whatever makes you comfortable. It's really painful, but once you hold your baby, the pain is nothing compared to the joy of seeing your little one. Praying for a safe delivery for you.
I had a natural birth with no epidural, NHS (my pain tolerance is ok and i was mentally ready for the pain) so they gave me something else to help me sleep coz that was the middle of the night. 1 hr of pushing and she still woudnt come out so we moved rooms to one with the birthing chair, still wouldnt come out. So they put a suction in her head and she still wouldnt come out. so they had to cut me and finally she was out. My team were great. Goodluck you two!
저는 지금 캐나다에 사는 국제커플이지만 아이들은 다 한국에서 낳았어요. 당근이 입체초음파를 보니 13년전 우리딸 초음파 사진 생각이 나서 뭉클했어요 ㅜㅠ 가비님처럼 자궁내막증으로 첫째딸 어렵게 낳았고 아기가 너무 커서 힘들거라는 의사선생님의 권유로 제왕절개를 했어요. 제왕절개 수술하시고 의사선생님께서 병실로 오셔서 아기 낳은거 기적이라고 하셨어요. 자궁내막이 너무너무너무 심한 케이스였대요. 둘째 가지고 싶으면 빨리 시도하라고 하셨어요. 자궁내막이 또 자라니까요. 저희는 딸만 잘키우자 했는데 삼년뒤 아들을 또 낳았네요.😊 저도 첫째 출산전에 너무 무서워서 남편이랑 엉엉 울었던 생각이나요 ㅋㅋ 고통은 잠시고 행복 시작일거에요. 첫째딸 낳고 남편이랑 진짜 재밌게 꽁냥꽁냥 육아했거든요. 우리 둘이서 하던 모든게 새멤버랑 하니까 너무 새롭고 재밌었어요. 조쉬님과 행복한 육아하시길요❤
Josh, I'd like to say this to you, as a mother who had a baby through the NHS. There may be a point where you have to be forceful with the midwives, not in a cruel way, but in a firm assertive way. Be insistent. If Gabby cannot go forward with the situation she could be in, it's down to you to stand up for her when she's most vulnerable. I didn't have this during my birth which ended up in an emergency C-section after 50 hours of non-productive labour. I had to fight and yell, literally. To make them give me the C-section. No one listened to me or stood up for me when I knew something was wrong. I know you're a good man and will do whatever you have to for your beautiful wife❤. Please don't let this frighten you, just be aware of what you may have to do. Sending this message with love for you all.
Hi, can I ask you where you're from? Did they deny you a csection when you've in a NP labor for 50 hours?
I second this. Guys wonder what they can do when their wife is in labour. T best answer is advocate for her when she is too vulnerable to advocate for herself. My husband did this for me and I truly believe he saved my son’s life. Sometimes unfortunately midwives in the UK don’t listen.
My sons heart rate was dropping massively with every contraction and the midwives said it was because the contractions were so strong they were losing contact. They put a clip on baby’s head to measure the heart rate a different way to reassure my husband but it showed that the heart rate was actually dropping that low. 30 minutes later I had my baby out with ventouse. All the best guys.
@@sapphireemerald6109 since she said NHS, her birthing experience must be in the UK. NHS is very anti c section, there were many policies in place that capped hospitals’ c section rates. it has caused much grief to many families. they are now doing inquiries and investigations on the c section denial issue, if you google it it’ll come up
@@stephanietraylor6052midwives and labor/delivery nurses in the US can be this way also.
People need to remember, these people are NOT obstetricians, and sonetimes they just don't have the expertise to make these decisions, but they believe they do.
Make sure you or your coach/partner are able to stand your ground and demand a obstetrician make the call.
I had an emergency c-section also. Don't let anyone jeopardize your or your babies lives and well being!
When Josh said, "This is not my decision." I felt that. That is how a true partner thinks, and acts.
That’s exactly how I felt!!! 😊 Josh is literally the best husband ❤
Hey Gabbie! I’m a nurse, nothing in medicine is a 100% safe we can’t promise that but from what I have seen some moms would come in rejecting the epidural but 5 hours into the pushing process they give up and ask for it. The amount of pain you will experience is unexplainable so don’t make it harder for yourself, make it as smooth as possible. One thing I would add is the amount of strain you put on yourself does affect the baby and the longer the process and pushing the more risk for the baby’s heart beat to decrease.
I had this hilarious mom who would wait with her husband for the epidural to ring ( it’s patient controlled anesthesia) to press for it, they made it a fun activity.
I did my first 2 births all natural…they were grueling 24-26 hours. On my third I “caved” and got an epidural. OMG, it was like a vacation.
I concur with you. Josh would also have to be assertive when advocating for Gabi when she is in active labour when there are midwives or a staff member being complacent or too aggressive when foremost part is they listen to Gabi when she is the 1 living in her skin, flesh & bone.
On this show about women having babies, I saw one woman who opted for no epidural. At one point, she was in so much pain and shaking. It looked like she was having seizures, but she wasn’t. She ended up having an epidural.
Best birthing advice ever is - Just Surrender. Surrender to the fear, surrender to the pain, surrender to whatever happens. Enjoy your last few moments as a couple, because once the baby is born, it’s a hectic flurry of changing nappies, breast-feeding, sleepless nights, crying etc. Just surrender to it all from a state of relaxed happiness, and know that all is well, no matter how your baby comes earthside. Remember back to when this was your wish? When all you wanted was to be pregnant? Don’t let a day go by without being grateful for the blessing, and just surrender and be in the now moment. All will be well. Enjoy x
'Surrender' was my mantra going into each of my births - you can't control what happens, so you might aswell trust in your body and go with it. Experience it intentionally, be curious about how incredible your body is. If you need drugs, go for it. If you need intervention, let's go. If you get through it without anything, then that's good too. It's not a competition and no one should judge you for what happens, not even ourselves. xx
Excellent advice
As if you have a choice😂😂😂
I must have a different personality type, this sounds terrifying to me. That said I was terrified of giving birth and opted for the c section ☺️
True.
You both have fought so hard just to be pregnant with your baby girl. Don’t let delivery scare you I had my first with drugs and my second natural. There’s no right or wrong it’s whatever makes y’all happy. I’m now 70 years old and I can still recall my pure joy at giving birth. You will be fine. Trust in the Lord because with Him you’ve got this!! Peace, love and blessings from Oklahoma ❤️
I'm going to be blunt. Giving birth is painful. Don't be a hero. Get the epidural. Have that baby in a hospital, you can have have all the plans in the world, but things can happen in an instant that are out of your control. You want an immediate response. Best of luck on your delivery! ❤
also people underplay the very common complications of natural birth, incontinence etc are common following a natural birth. Also the UK seems waaay too reluctant to do C-sections, even if it is safer- my sister in law and her sister had their first kids naturally-and their pelvises were too small for it to be safe- they were both very lucky to get through and both needed transfusions afterwards. Don't be a hero, and do consider C-section if it is even suggested
@@alicehughes4926 Read my entry above. My pelvis was too small also, and after 59 hours of labor, finally had a c-section. C-sections are SURGERY under anathesia! It is NOT natural birth, and it is NOT safer. Your body is equipped for birth, not surgery, and the shock to the body produces many more afteraffects than natural.
ALL births are Not "painful", I know plentyyy of women who do noT have complicated births so she should noT get that unless absolutely necessary!
This is pure ignorance @@nikkirockznikkirockz8551
@@shishurhuhajhso No One can say what it'll be, that doesn't need to be said-my point is that she should Only take it if necessary, otherwise an "epidural-free" birth could actually go quite smoother and faster. That shouldn't be hard for anyone to understand what I wrote in the most simplest terms-no need to complicate things.
무통은 무조건 맞는 게 맞아요.. 인간이 가장 강하게 느끼는 고통 중 하나가 출산인데 무통 주사 맞지 말라는 건 너무 이기적이죠... 여러 분들이 말씀해주신 것처럼 가비님은 노산이시기 때문에 risk factor가 별거 아니더라도 크게 작용할 수 있어요. 무조건 자연 출산이 좋은 게 아니니까 여러 방면으로 많이 생각해두시는 게 좋을 것 같네요!! 너무 겁먹으시지 마시고 의료진들 믿고 선택해주세요!!
Elderly? I hope that is a lost in translation thing!
@@nicolad8822 yep:) kinda misleading. it means like She is not giving birth in early age, could be little bit older compared to other ppl who's giving birth. And there is a short term for that in Korean that could be bit misleading 😊 (bc it's an old term came from chinese character so translator might get it wrong) The commenter is saying they definitely need ephidural because there's higher chance that Gabie could have more pain or risk situation bc of age factor☺️
무통2번다 못맞고애낳았어요. 주사기꽂을기구까지 붙이고있었는데..너무 빨라서.다행히 저는 안아팠네요.생각보다는
무슨 결정이든 임산부 본인이 결정해야 한다고 한 조쉬의 말이 굉장히 위로가 되네요😊 어떤 결정을 하든 본인에게 가장 잘 맞는 쪽으로 찾으시길 바래요!
역시 딸은 아빠를 닮나봐요!! 진짜 똑닮ㅋㅋㅎㅎㅎ
I've had 3 babies with 3 very different labours - epidural, no epidural and then emergency c-section. Each where as scary but as powerful as each other because I got to see how strong I could be, and what my body can do (with and without intervention) to bring my babies into the world. We're incredible no matter what happens xx
I wish you have a safe & easy delivery and a healthy baby.
Josh is such a great partner. That's what every woman needs.
자연주의 좋은거 누가 모르는지.. 순리대로 낳는거
가장 저도 원하는 바에요 (10월 출산 예정) 하지만
초산인 산모는 자신의 상황을 예상 할 수 없고 (하물며 의료진들도.. 자연분만 하다 응급제왕으로 넘어가는 경우 진짜 많이 보고 들음)
고통도 얼마난지도 모르죠 그러니 자신의 몸과
아이의 태어나는 모든 과정은 가장 안전한 상황에서
하고싶고 그러하니 선택은 부부 두분이 잘 상의해서
현명한 선택 하길 바랍니다 진심으로요.
만일에 상황에 대비해 병원 출산이 좋다고 생각 합니다
저는 자궁내막종 보유자였고 피임약 처방받아 1년 넘게 복용하고 내막종이 완전히 없어진 후 자연임신을 했어요. 한국서는 막달 초산모에게 유도분만을 많이 권해서 생각 없이 유도분만 들어갔고 진통 겪다가 애 머리가 골반에 끼어서 결국 제왕했습니다. 제왕을 위해 몸을 열어보니 어이 없게도 임신기간동안 자궁내막종이 2센티 자라있어서 주치의가 오픈한 김에 같이 떼주셨습니다. 진통과 제왕을 모두 겪어보니 그냥 처음부터 제왕할 걸 후회합니다 ㅎㅎㅎㅋㅋㅋ 남들보다 체력저하가 심각하고 각종 뼈마디가 다 열려서 회복에 1년이 훨씬 넘게 걸렸어요. 글구 결정하실 때 가비씨가 실질적으로 노산인 것도 무조건 고려하세요. 노산은 진통 때 몸이 잘 열리지 않는다는 걸 제가 경험하였네요 ㅠㅠㅋㅋㅋ 어떤 결정을 하든 순풍 낳으세요!!
너무 도움되네요 감사합니다 🤍
저도 35살에 임신 36살에 초산했는데요. 윗분처럼 하루종일 진통하다가 제왕절개 부탁했는데, 남편반대로 계속 진통하다가 결국 아이 심장에 무리가 와서 8cm 자궁문 열어놓고 제왕절개 했네요. 회복 2배로 힘들었고요 ㅠㅠ 저희 친정엄마가 난산하셨다고 하는데… 그런 것도 닮을 수 있다는 점 참고하세요. 둘째 낳다가는 대량출혈로 대형병원 응급실에서 1주일간 입원도 했네요. 산모의 건강이 최우선이네요. 병원에서 출산하시고 순산하시길 ~
@@jinakim5912남편분의 반대가 너무 어이없네요… 힘드셨겠어요
저는 독일에서 촉진제로 자연분만 유도하다 결국 제왕절개 했구요. 전신마취 아니고 하반신만해서 정신 말짱하게 수술했는데 후회 없었어요.
하나도 안무섭고 5분이면 아기 만나거든요....
둘 이상 제왕절계는 힘들지만 아니면 저는 추천해요. 둘다 경험한 사람중에 수술자리 아무는것이 자연분만 아래 절개보다 덜아프단사람도 있고...
사람마다 다 달라서 결국 본인선택이지만. ,, 제왕절개 하나도 안무섭구 회복도 빨라요 .100년전에도 여자들 애가 낳았대요~걱정마세요^^
저도 위에분이랑 비슷했어요
유도분만으로 진통 2일동안 겪다가
자궁문 1센치 밖에 안열려서
조금더 하면 애기
위험할거 같다고 해서
제왕했는데
진짜 5분만에 끝나서
어이없었어여ㅜㅜ
진통이란 진통은 다 겪었는데
결국 제왕..
첨부터 제왕할껄 후회 했어요
What I learned from my birthing classes was that if I could RELAX, my body would open up and baby would come out. I chose a home birth, which was beautiful and best for me, but maybe not best for everyone. I would recommend getting answers to all your questions, then doing what will help you be the most relaxed during labor and delivery. For example, I learned that only 1 in 10 women who birth at home need to be transferred to hospital. That gave me peace of mind about my decision to birth at home. Praying for you!
I had a similar experience with home birth! I agree it's not best for everyone, we are all such different people with different factors in our lives.
I like how Josh is supporting you and letting you decide whatever is best for you. I know I was most comfortable having an epidural. I had two beautiful girls with epidural and it worked beautifully. Prayers yours goes very smoothly.
Did you gain any after effects? A lot of people I know who had epidural said they got long term back pains as a result. So I’m really undecided about the decision to do it if I ever do have a child. The unpredictability of it all is what scares me because all women are different and respond differently to things. And it’s hard to know what to do until you’re in that position. It’s scary for sure.
@@JoeMama-kz4sx I did not have any after effects, although the epidural actually only worked on one side of my body for my second daughter. They tried to get me to lay on my other side, but it was too late because it was time to push. But still it did help. And it worked absolutely perfectly for my first daughter. It’s something that you have to decide for yourself for sure. Wishing you the best.
I was first introduced to KE and Gabie years ago thru the interview with NCT Mark and Jaehyun, where Ollie shocked them by saying in the UK, NCT is a prenatal class. I remember laughing so hard. That joke literally led me to following you guys' channels from then til now. And now you and josh are taking "NCT" classes. This feels like such a full circle moment. Good luck Gabie, wishing you a safe and healthy third trimester, delivery, and baby!
임밍아웃하고 같이 울었던게 엊그제같은데 이렇게 배부르다니 진짜 시간빠르네요 아기 키우는것도 그래요 순식간에 크는것 같다니까요
제발 늦게 커라 말할 정도
그래서 항상 순간을 즐겨야해요~~^^
그리고 선택이 의미가 없기도 해요 상황따라ㅋㅋㅋ
저는 자연분만을 엄청 주창하던 사람였어요 근데 의사샘은 제왕절개 가능성이 있다는거에요
전 완전 무시하고 진통하면서 자연분만할거라면서 고집피웠죠
12시간이 넘도록 자궁문 열리지 않고 진행이 안되서 결국 이러다 둘다 클나지싶어 결국 제왕했잖아요
사람들은 이게 제일 안좋은 케이스라는데 전 그래도 진통해보고 한게 후회없어요
아이를 위해 선택을 해봤으니까 처음부터 진통없이 수술로 바로 갔음 몰랐을 경험이고 아이도 준비할 시간도 주었고 아이한테 덜 미안하더라구요
수술후에도 통증이 또 있어서 아이안고 젖먹여야하는 고통에 죽을맛이었지만 엄마니까 해낼 수 있고 해야한다고 생각이 들었던게 저도 신기해요~~
그렇게 아이낳으면 독하리만치 강해지더라구요.
일단 자연분만 선택해서 제왕으로 바뀌더라도 아깝다 내가 왜 진통을 생으로 겪었나 후회할 필요는 없다는거에요. 경험자로서^^
그또한 소중한경험입니다.
몸작은 사람이 더 자연분만 잘하는게 국룰이던데 가비씨는 가능할듯~~
저는 22시간 진통 후 골반이 작아서 아이가 더 내려오지 못한다고해서 제왕절개로 출산했는데요~😅😅 무통맞고 진통이 길어지다보니 제왕 후 마취에 깼을때 회복하는데 시간이 오래걸렸어요~ 부종이 심해 걷기도 힘들었죠~~ 전 당연히 자연분만 할 줄알았는데 진통을 그렇게나 오래하고 제왕 할줄 몰랐습니다ㅎㅎ 애기 낳으러 가기 전까지, 낳으러 병원가서도 어찌될지 모르는게 제왕이냐 자연분만이냐 같아요~ 물론 처음부터 제왕을 하겠다고 날짜맞춰 가는 케이스도 있지만요~~ 순산하신길 기원하며~~ 제 케이스를 풀어봤어요ㅎㅎ
완전 백인어린이 느낌입니다! 예쁘기까지 하면 얼마나 즐거울까요!
저는 골반이 좋은케이스인데도 안내려와서 응급제왕했어요ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 결국 애기가 선택하는거더라구요😂
건강한 아기 순산하시길 항상 행복하세요~
Gabi, you look more and more beautiful with each day. Baby girl, Carrot, is a real beauty. Enjoy each day and each and every change your body goes through... you're growing a miracle! Congratulations! ❤😊
josh is so supportive and caring
Sweet Gabie, your body is getting ready for sleepless nights. My babies are in their late thirties and forty. But I remember waking up during the night and not being able to sleep, while I was still working. Then when baby was born, they woke me up at the exact time I was during pregnancy. Labor is hard, no doubt. But you do what makes you and Josh most comfortable, and safe for precious baby girl. She is beautiful, and your life will never be the same. Oh the joy awaiting you both!
"The first time ever I saw your face.." Congratulations to you both.
제왕 했어요^^ 수면마취 중이라 사람 많은지 그런거 모르고 잘 자고 일어나니까 다 끝나 있었어요ㅋㅋ
저도 수술과정이나 사진을 봤으면 어땠을지 모르겠는데 지금은 후회하지 않아요 제주변에 자연분만 했던분들 중에 허리디스크가 생긴 분들이 많아서(아이가 나오면서 척추가 눌리면서 디스크가 터진대여)저는 엄마의 강력추천으로 제왕했고 제 허리는 무사하답니다^^
아이를 낳고 키우는 과정에서 희생해야되는 부분이 많으니 힘드실 꺼예요 근데 어느정도 키워놓으니 그시절 너무 예쁘고 귀엽고 더 귀한 시간이였는데 왜 충분히 예쁨을 못 느끼고 더 잘해주지 못 했는지 아쉬워서 울컥 할때가 있답니다 두분이서 너무 잘 키우시겠지만 아이에 대한 사랑과 행복을 꼭 충분히 누리시길 바랄께요~건강하게 순산하시고 행복하세요😊❤
You should check out Sarah’s Day first birth. She went for a natural birth but she was so tense that her muscles actually prevented her from birthing, the epidural was needed to relax everything. Whatever you all decide, it’s right for you, regardless of what hospitals prefer.
Our body is crazy. I went in for scheduled csection at 37 weeks. 2 hours and a half before going in the OR they inserted the catheter and the result of that my water broke immediately. Doctors didn't say the reason that happened but because I went through the same thing with my first daughter, I suspect it was because of stress. Crazy how our body can response to things.
저는 독일에서 두 아이모두 무통주사 신청도 했었는데(고위험군) 진통오고 병원도착하고 자궁문 다 열려서 무통맞을 시기도 없이 순풍 낳았어요. 순풍기운 팍팍 드려요.
The only thing i know is that Gabbie's tears are contagious. Everytime she cries, I cry lol.
I cannot WAIT to see Baby Carrot out of the belly!!! She's going to be so beautful and so loved!!! I had a baby girl 26 years ago, and she was the best thing that happened to me. I had a 29-hour long, fairly painful labor, but I got drugs to ease the pain, and instead of an epidural, I got a single shot in the spine, which *I* thought made me sleep for two hours, but I guess I was awake and talking to people. But after the two hours, it was time to push, and she came out perfect (well, a little hairier than I thought babies could be...she looked like a little chimpanzee!!!)!!! It'll be a great experience, and honestly, I didn't remember the pain when I saw the little hands and feet and lips and deep dark eyes. It'll be exceptional. :-) You two are in my prayers!!!
첫출산이라 아무래도 겁이 나시겠지만,병원에서 출산은 아무리 응급상황이라고 해도 의료진이 대처할 수 있으니 너무 걱정마시고 순산하시기를 바래요.. 진통이 시작되면 아마 무통주사를 바로 찾을 정도로 고통스러운데,아기가 너무 크거나 진행이 더딘 경우는 산모와 아기의 안전을 위해 제왕절개도 염두해 두시는게 좋아요
너무 이쁜커플이에요. 건강하게 출신하고 행복하세요
I had to do an emergency c-section, because my son's heart rate dropped too low. I was so worried about my son. My doctor assured me that once they get me into the operating room, they could get him out in 6 seconds if they had to. They didn't have to rush that fast because, luckily, his heart rate stabilized, but it was reassuring that the doctors and staff know what they're doing. You will be fine. And the epidural is the BEST thing ever. (In my opinion) There is no right and wrong. You do what feels right for you. So excited to see baby Carrot! Congratulations again!
엄마가 안전하고 엄마가 행복한 방법이 최고입니다 응원할게요 가비님❤
Also, remember that sometimes the epidural don't work! I had 2 epidural, and both didn't work! I had both babies 5 weeks early and both came out perfectly fine!
Just learn to surrender to your body! Let your body do what it has to do to get the baby out! When you are in the moment.. nothing else matters but your health and the baby health!
when Gabie said she’s a slave to the hormones, i relate so much to that 😭😂 been crying over many little things lately but that’s one of the joys of being pregnant. anw wishing you and baby carrot will have a safe and healthy delivery, Gabie! ❤
Omg so much going on I feel like I missed out on so many things 😭😭😭😭 Congratulations you guys 💕💕💕 Stay blessed and happy ❤️
Josh is such an amazing husband! Y’all will be GREAT parents! ❤❤❤
저는 한국의 전문의에요. 제 경우 아이가 38주가 되어도 아래로 잘 내려오지 않아서 선택제왕했어요. 인턴 전공의 과정에서 자연분만에 여러가지 불확실성이 있는 것을 많이 보기도 했구요.
수술하고 나서 주치의샘이 아이가 탯줄을 목에 세바퀴 감고 있었다며 제왕 선택하길 잘했다고 하셨어요. (하반신 마취여서 아이 꺼내는 걸 느낄 수 있었는데 꺼내며 엄청 낑낑대시는게 느껴졌었어요. 아마 탯줄을 목에 감고 있어서였던 것 같아요)
아이가 목에 탯줄을 감고 있는지는 막달에 초음파에서 자세히 보이지 않고, 또 아이가 그사이에 몸을 돌리며 감을 수도 있기 때문에 잘 모를 수 있거든요. 결국 제왕이 제가 살면서 가장 잘한 선택이 되었네요.
아무쪼록 가비님도 주치의와 잘 상의하셔서 현명하고 안전하게 출산하시길 빌어요~
저는 쌍둥이라 안전 1순위로 여겨셔 제왕했는데 둘째가 탯줄을 목에 감고 있었던 상황이었어요.. 후에 제왕하길 정말 잘했다 싶더라고요!! 막달에 컨디션, 상황 잘 보시고 선택 하시길 바래요.. 둘째같은 경우도 초음파에서 알 수 없었던 터라.. 산모와 아이 모두 안전한 출산에 제일 중요한 것 같습니다!! 가비님, 순산하시길요❤
Can't wait for baby carrot💟
You guys discussing your impressions as well as all the pro/cons is SO good, bc people get very up in arms about this subject very quickly (thinking that one is the correct choice and all the others are wrong). Good idea!
축하해요 예쁘고 예쁘고 또 예쁜 귀엽고 귀엽고 또또 귀여운 넘나 귀여운 아기를 갖게되신거
늦었지만
축하해요❤
아이코가 오똑하네요~~~벌써부터 미모가 돋보이네요~~
Josh is correct. Gabi, you have to do what makes you the most comfortable. This means you are more relaxed and less stressed for the entire experience. That makes it easier on your body. You guys are going to be amazing parents! Can't wait for photos of the beautiful baby carrot! 🧡
오오 얼굴 보니까 딱 조쉬 닮았네요
높은 코에 눈두덩이 좀 들어간거
딱 서양인 느낌 크 얼마나 이쁠까 ㅎ❤🎉
I had an emergency c section with my son after 18 hours of labor and then a planned C with my daughter after that. No matter what method, do whatever works for you and is safe for both you and the baby. Everyone will have opinions so trust your own feelings. Sending all our love and support to you, Josh and baby Carrot from NY!!
im crying so much, josh & gabie! 😭 im genuinely so so happy for the both of you 💗😭💗
오랫동안 부부 단둘이 알콩달콩 사는 가정에서부터 이번에 어렵게 출산 준비하시고 임신 기간 동안의 모습을 보면서 두분이 긴 터널을 지나서 강한 빛이 드리우는 새로운 세계로 향하는 것과 같은 모습처럼 느껴져서 뭉클하고 같이 축하해주고픈 마음이 드네요~ 저 또한 오랫동안 딩크 부부지만 나도 아이를 가질까?라는 생각도 해봅니다ㅎㅎ 당근이가 세상에 나올 날이 너무 기대되는 이모 한명 추가요🙋🏻
무통은 꼭 맞아야 해요 정말 최고의 고통이 있어요
오랫동안 가비님 영상으로 항상 힐링하던 사람으로서..가비님과 조쉬님 그리고 앞으로 태어날 아기까지 항상 건강하고 행복하시길 다시 한 번 바라게 되네요🥹
몸과 마음이 모두 건강한 아기를 낳으실거에요. 가비님도 몸과 마음이 건강하길 축복하고 기도해요. 늘 지켜보고 있던 저도 올해 결혼을 하네요^^ 출산선배님의 삶을 보며 많이 배울께요
I love how supportive Josh is with your potential choices!
가비님 걱정하지마세요 ㅋㅋ 순산하시길바랍니다 당근아 보구싶다 ❤❤❤사랑해
초음파사진 보자마자 아빠판박이다는 느낌받았어요 초음파사진보고 얼굴닮은거 첨음느끼네요 한번도 이런적없었는데 ㅎ 진짜이쁜아가가 나올듯요 순산하세요
첫아가는 부성애 키우기 위해 아빠 닮은 경우가 많대요. 특히 첫딸은 아빠 판박이 많더라구요
출산은 정말 경이롭지만 그만큼 무서울 것 같아요~
가비님 잘 해내실태니 걱정마세요 ❤
I'm also a small lady and went all natural. It was hard and painful but not as bad as I had built up in my mind. I had expected to tear and for the whole thing to be the worst pain in my life so that helped it not be so scary. I don't push for other people to go all natural..if you feel you can do it and want to, then go for it! If you want an epidural, do it! If you want a C-section, go for it! Just be prepared for longer recovery and a hopefully minimum scaring. NO MATTER WHAT, IT WILL BE HARD. Do what you feel comfortable with; you seem to have a great support in Josh so I think you'll be alright. Ps, you never accurately remember the pain because the joy outshines it completely💜 Hoping for a wonderful pregnancy for you all the way from Louisiana! -R, a young mom who is about to have a 2nd baby in a couple weeks ☺️
You guys are going to do great, whatever you decide! So excited for you both to meet your baby girl!
I am so happy for you two! The baby's heart beat inside the stuffy is amazing! I got one for my granddaughter, and it was stolen in a robbery. I was heartbroken, and will never understand why someone would steal something like that with my grand baby's heart beat inside. Cherish it always, it will be an amazing gift for your daughter some day ❤
저는 영국남자 구독자지만 임신 응원하고 있었고 해서 댓글 남겨봐요..제가 배우기는 신생아는 밤낮이 없어 못자니까 엄마도 수면이 줄어드는??호르몬이 나온다고 하더라구요 (정확한 단어는 생각이 안나네요)막달되니까 진짜 저는 4시간자고 했어요 점점더 힘드시겠지만...힘들게 얻은 만큼 어떤 방식이든 꼭 건강히 출산 하시길 응원합니다🙏🏻 너무 아름다운 부부화이팅입니다👍🏻
I had a planned C-Section. I am in the US. It turned out to be a blessing as the umbilical cord was wrapped around him in a way that prevented him from dropping. We didn’t know this going in. It was also nice to stay in the hospital a few more days to get the help from the neonatal staff. My son is 15 now. I pray y’all get the delivery you want but know that as long as the baby comes out healthy and mom is healthy all is good. Prayers to y’all.
I am hooked with you two! Jour journey be it the beginning of EnglishKoreanman and your married life and now this pregnancy, mind-blowing to say the least!. All is well. All will be well!!
당근이 눈 깜박일 때 조쉬?! 생각이 들었어요 ㅋㅋ
아이 산모 다 건강하게 출산하길 기도해요 :)
If you don't have any difficulty, try normal birth as first option, take epidural as second and C-section for a last choice. You heal fast if you gave birth normal and its a bit slow for C-section. Women giving birth is full of risk, normal or C-section, its going to be painful, but its all worth it when you meet the little one! Will be waiting the day you both meet carrot! Good luck & Fighting!
100% agree
Agree
All births are “normal”, I think that’s the key thing to point out here.
조쉬님이 산모가 가장 마음이 편하고 출산 방식에 확신이 있는게 중요하다는 말에 너무 공감해요! 아기도 중요하지만 결국 순산이란 엄마와 아기가 모두 안전하고 건강하게 잘 출산하는거니까요
꼬옥 순산하세요 가비님! 멀리서나마 응원하고 있겠습니다:)
점점 더 몸도 힘드실텐데 영상으로 소식 전해주셔서 너무 감사드립니다😊
지금 힘들어도 그래도 뱃속에 있을때가 좋았다ㅡ할거에요 ㅋ 엄마되기 부모되기 쉽지않죠 이쁜아기 만날날 기대되네요 아기 낳을만하답니다 얼마나 이쁘게요~~
The baby is so cute already and she isn’t even here yet!
저는 양수가 먼저 터져서 병원가서 촉진제 맞고 아기 심박수가 떨어져서 수술 들어갔었어요. 아기가 태반을 조금 먹어서 지체했으면 위험했을 수도 있었다고 하더라구요. 그때그때 변수가 많으니까 여러가지 생각해놓으시는게 좋을 것 같아요.
The same happened to me. Water broke Saturday afternoon, my baby boy was born Monday at 8 pm.
예쁜아기 무사히 잘 만났으면 좋겠네요..!
Giving birth is painful, so take whatever painkillers they offer. Once you have given birth you forget the pain and just feel tired, but all soooo worth it when you hold your baby. Having a c section you have to be careful, lifting, exercise, climbing stairs etc for a several (4-6)weeks, add to that you have a 'wound' that needs time to heal. At the end of the day it is your choice, whatever you choose ..... your baby is worth it.
I'm so happy for you guys! I've been such an admirer and a big fan of you, Jolly, and KoreanEnglishman, and I'm honestly honored to be a part of your journey. However, I haven't seen you speak up about the atrocities that have been happening in Palestine over the past seven months, and I'm so, so disappointed. You, of all people, should understand how hard it is for mothers and babies who share your tough experiences. We are so privileged that all we have to do is speak up about it and not let another holocaust happen. I wish you would use your platform to raise awareness 🇵🇸.
구독자인 저도 같이 당근이 볼 준비 하는게 너무 떨리고 기대 되네요🥹💖
출산 전까지 가비님, 당근이 둘 다 건강하기!!❤️❤️❤️
I am so excited for yall! Gabbie you are going to do wonderfully no matter what you choose. I love how supportive Josh is and how ready you are to see your baby girl. Seeing your baby for the first time is hands down the moment jn life that will instantly change you forever ❤❤❤
저는 자연주의 출산했어요 ㅎㅎ전 자연주의 출산 병원에서 하긴 했지만, 한국에서도 조산사(산파)께서 집으로 오셔서 출산을 도와주시는 경우도 종종 있어요! 욕조에 물 받아서 수중분만을 하는 거죠 ㅎㅎ! 제가 출산했던 병원에도 욕조가 있었어요. 저는 아이를 또 가져도 자연주의 출산을 선택할 것 같아요 ㅎㅎ하지만 당연히 산모가 가장 원하는 방법을 선택하는 게 좋겠죠! 근데 교육에서 자연주의 출산의 위험에 대해서는 설명을 안 해준다니 저도 충격😲
아이를 힘들게 잉태하고 뱃속에서 키우는 과정을 용기 있게 함께 나누다니 정말 멋져요!! 배가 볼록 나온 모습이 너무 예뻐요😊 입체 초음파 보니까 아가가 조쉬를 많이 닮은 것 같네요! 너무 예뻐요ㅠㅠ 순산하시길, 응원합니당
저도 자연주의했어요
안해보신분들은 놀랄일일수있겠지만
자연주의 출산한사람들은
무통주사가 더 힘들게할수있다는것, 병원에서 일반적으로 하는 출산방식이 산모를 더 힘들게한다는걸 알고있죠..
저도 다시출산을한다면
당연히 자연주의 출산할거예요^^
I’m so happy for you Guys . You’re in my prayers ❤️
Stay strong Gabie! We're all excited to see baby carrot! We'll pray for your safe delivery
This baby is going to be so cute since you both have great genes…. Good luck and DO NOT stress out too much. Leave it in Gods hands
가비씨는 물론 조쉬도 배워야 할 점도 많아요.
초보 부모라서 배워야 할점도 있고 타인의 경험도 들어보면서 참고도 하고
순산해서 모녀 둘다 건강한 모습 빨리 보고 싶네요.
당근이 태여나면 유튜브로 보여 주세요 ㅋㅋ
당근이 태여나면 완벽한 가족이 되겠네요 ㅋㅋ
당근이 태여나면 바로 한국 대사관에도 전화 하세요.
I'm 53 birthed three children. My first was natural because he was 26 weeks. 1pound my second was emergency c- section but i had an epidural before hand.because he went breach. My third I had an epidural and ended with another c- section because I was high risk. I only had a reaction to my spinal tap for my c- section once. I had a migraine for the first 3 weeks then I was given a blood patch because the needle was to large for my spine and they took my blood put it in my spine to" plug " the whole and clot it. Had to lay for thirty minutes flat and all was well. So, what I'm saying is do what you want momma. ❤ natural or epidural is a personal choice. If it's rough then ask for it. No shame for pain or painless delivery as long as she's healthy ❤ I pray 🙏 everything goes well. Can't wait to see baby❤
저도 내막증있다가 ..시험관2번 실패후! 쉬는동안 자연으로 첫째가 찾아와주었고자연주의 출산했어요!!! 글고 둘째도 자연스럽게 연년생으로 생겨서 키우고 있습니다아~❤️ 둘다 자연주의 출산 했는데 너무 만족스럽고!남편과 출산할수있다는게 장점같아요!!😍
The baby girl looks so adorable in there and we can see the face rather clearly🤭The tech now is so advanced. I can imagine she’s gonna be the cutest baby carrot ever!
Sooo cute! I’m so excited!
I had to have a c-section, I knew that going in (placenta previa and my daughter was turned around the wrong way). Epidurals are a wonderful thing. The people in the operating room were wonderful and very kind to us! My ob/gyn that I had seen throughout my pregnancy did the surgery. The nurses even took our camera so they could film my husband cutting the cord. Everyone there was absolutely wonderful.
제왕절개수술로 출산을 하게 되면 출산에서부터 회복에 이르러 집으로 돌아오는 일련의 순서?를 산모가 원하는대로 컨트롤 할 수 있다는 점이 산부인과 의사가 말한 가장 큰 장점이라고 들었습니다.
진통이 오고 그 이후에 병원에 가게 되는 상황에서 발생할 변수를 차단한다는 것도 또 다른 장점이라고 생각되구요.
You both fought so hard to have this baby. Please go the safe route and have the c-section to avoid any complications for both the baby and Gabie. Best of luck. You got this! ❤
자궁내막종 이라면 망설임없이 고생없이 제왕절개 하세요 . 길게는 24시간 이상 몇시간을 고통받다가 결국에는 수술하면 산모도 아이도 위험해요 . 요즘은 제왕절개 안전하고 회복도 빨라요. 흉터도 거의 안 보여요 . 거의 5cm 정도 되는 듯 .. 죄책감이나 그런건 절대 필요 없어요 . 안전하게 분만하는 하나의 방법입니다 . 자궁이 약한 산모라면 제왕절개 수술해서 낳아도 건강하게 출산할수 있어요 . 두 아이 다 제왕절개 해서 잘 낳아 키우고 있어요 . 산모의 간강 상태가 제일우선순위 에요 . 미디어에서 자연분만 을 권하는 건 평범한 케이스를 말하는 거죠 . 미리 수술날짜를 정해야 해요 보통 7일- 10일 정도 예정일보다 일찍 수술하거든요 . 미리 예악하세요 . 수술은 20분 정도 미리 마음의 준비를 할수 있어서 오히려 편안해요 .
입체사진 보니 딱 아빠네요 ㅎ
가비님 넘 걱정하지 마세요^^
아이도 가비님도 둘다 건강히 무사히 출산하고 건강해 지실 거예요^^
다만 기쁨이 있다면 출산시 약간의 고통도 함께 한다고 생각하고 마음 편히 가지셨으면 해요~
i wish you all the best for you and your family ❤️ may your little carrot be born healthy and happy without any complications. you guys are always in my thoughts, stay strong!!
Gabie, Every pregnancy is different and every labor and delivery is different. Caesarean section is major surgery and you have a longer recovery time. I pray your labor is a short period of time and the delivery is swift with no issues. Praying for a healthy baby. Amen.
가비님 영국에서 의사생활하고 있는 레지던트입니다. 영국은 midwife 가 텃세가 장난아니고 대부분이 의사들에게 internal 적대감이있는것같아요. 그리고 they try to make the patient feel that having a doctor is a bad thing. 그래서 emergency 일때 의사를 부르려하고 마치 의사를 부르는게 나쁜것처럼 부정적이게 생각하는게 없지않아 있는것같아요. 그렇기에 남편이나 가족들이 산모가 아이를 낳을때는 항상 advocate 대신 해주는게 중요하다고 생각해요. 특히 staff shortage 가 심한 nhs 병원같은경우에는요. 가비님이 epidural 받으시면 midwife led unit 이아닌 Labour ward 에 계시기때문에 ctg monitpring하고 의사들이 상주해있어 midwife 들의 텃세가 덜할수도있지만 nhs maternity unit 들중 엄청 환자들이 만족감이 큰 병원은 별로 본적이없어서 조쉬님이 옆에서 잘 모니터 해드려야해요... 그렇다고 private 병원이 더좋다는건 아니고요. 보통 시술같은것은 private 에 그냥 가겠지만, 아이 낳는것은 오히려 nhs 가 더안전하다 봅니다. 가비님이 어디로 결정 하셨는지는 잘모르겠지만, 사립은 물론 시설은 좋겠지만 Emergency 여력들이 불확실하고 큰일나면 e.g. major haemorrhage protocol 등 문제가생기면 확실하게 crash team 과 마취과 중환자실 전문의가 있는 대학병원보다는 안좋기에 (무슨 큰일 나면 무조건 앰뷸런스타고 어차피 nhs A&E 가야해서) private maternity unit 은 잘 알아보실필요가있어요 (물론 private 병원마다 다르겠지만요). 어떤 결정을 하시던 순산하시고 어찌됬던 산모가 마음이 편해야 아이도 편안하니 어떤결정을 하시전 걱정말고 잘되실거에요. God bless.
저도 영국에서 출산 예정이고 프라이빗도 알아보고 있었는데 또 그런 문제가 있군요.. 정보 감사합니다!
영국에서 제왕절개는 선택할수있나요? ㅠㅠ 너무무섭
@@Doctor-UK영국에서 planned c section 했어요. 저는 아기가 커서 분만 1주일 전에 의시가 자연분만 위험성을 얘기해줘서 날짜 정해서 제왕절개로 했어요! 영국 친구들도 planned c section 하는 친구들 있고요. 권유는 안하지만 못하는건 아니에요!
My first baby I did an epidural. It took me weeks to recover because I had pulled all the muscles in my back while pushing and couldn’t feel it. Second baby, there wasn’t time for an epidural. Waaaay better healing experience. I was walking within the hour and holding my baby. I had my other babies naturally after that and have never had such pain and harsh recovery as I did with the epidural. But I am an odd duck out, because I labor fast and furiously. So I don’t have a ton of misery buildup that an epidural could stave off. Baby looks adorable! So excited for you guys!
아빠닮았어요!!딸바보 이미 예약이네요 ㅎㅎ
제가 제왕절개를 두번 했는데 솔직히 전 진통하다가 수술한거라 수술이라는 선택지가 있어서 내가 사는 구나 싶을 정도로 감사했어요
첫번째는 경황없는 사이에 누워있기 때문에 아이가 태어나는 것만 생생하게 느끼지 다른건 보이지도 않고 어서 재워줬으면 했고 둘째는 미리 날짜를 정해서 간거라 수술실에서 수술 준비시간이 40여분 걸리더라구요 그때가 좀 기분이 울쩍해지면서 두려우면서 좀 다운됐는데 일단 수술 시작하면 금방이고 다 끝났구나 하는 순간 머리맡에 앉아계시던 마취의사 선생님이 축하해주시고 칭찬해주셔서 평생 잊지 못할 위로를 받았네요
전 제왕절개할때 깨어나지 못하고 피도 많이 흘려서 수혈해야 할거 같다고 하셨는데도 다행히 당일날 일어나서 걸어다녔어요 회복기간이 진통하는 시간보다 절대적으로 저는 힘들지 않았어요
그냥 선택의 순간이 올때 제왕절개도 너무 두려워하지 마시라고 글 남겨봅니다
Absolutely adore how you can see the love between you two and how much your daughter will be loved. Congrats
저도 아이 둘 제왕절개로 낳았어요. 마취해서 사람들이 많았는지 어쨌는지 전혀 몰라요. 하지만 전 제왕절개 좋았어요.
중요한건 오로지 산모에요.
제왕절개도 좋고 자연분만도 좋아요.
모유수유도 좋고 분유수유도 좋아요.
엄마가 행복하면 아기도 행복해요.
엄마와 아기가 행복하면 다 좋은거에요.
예쁜 당근이 건강하게 만나시길 응원합니다
둘째 제왕하실때 첫째 제왕때의 그 부분 그대로 제왕하는건가요 아니면 다른 부분을 찢는?건지요..? 저도 곧 출산이라 궁금해서 여쭤 봅니다 😮..
10000000%!
@@Rabbit_carrot_ 같은곳을 합니다. 참고로 자궁근종이 너무 커서 결혼전에 개복수술로 자궁근종을 제거했어요. 그때 자른 그 부분을 또 잘라서 첫째 낳고 또 둘째낳고 그랬어요..ㅎㅎ
제왕절개는 그래서 유착 조심해야해요
For my first baby, I had an epidural and I never regretted it. With my second, I gave birth naturally without any medication. Gabby, just remember to go with whatever makes you comfortable. It's really painful, but once you hold your baby, the pain is nothing compared to the joy of seeing your little one. Praying for a safe delivery for you.
싱가폴에 사는 국제부부에요^^‘
첫째는 딱 예정일에 유도분만 했구요 둘째는 예정일 일주일 전에 진통이 와서 자연분만 했어요! 유도분만은… 비추드려요 ㅠ 아기가 준비가 안되었는데 약물로 억지로ㅜ자궁 열려니까… 정말 오래걸리더라구요! 4~5cm 열리는데 22시간 걸리고 너무 고통스러움…무통주사 맞고 4시간 해서 26시간 만에 낳았네요! 둘째는 자연적으로 진통오고, 병원갔더니 4cm라고 바로 무통 놔주셔서 너~~무 편하게 힘도 안주고 나왔어요!!! 자연분만+에피듀럴 추천합니다! 둘째처럼만 이라면ㅋㅋㅋ 5명 이라도 낳겠어요!! ㅋㅋ그리고 자분은 낳은날 바로 걸어다니고 밥먹고 회복이 빨라서 넘 좋아요! ㅋ참고로 첫째는 2021년 둘째는 낳은지 한달 되었고! 남편은 조쉬님랑, 저는 가비님이랑 동갑입니다! 😊 노산이어도 자분 할수 있습니다!! 한살차이나는 언니는 아픈걸 못참고 겁이 많아서 두명 다 제왕했는데, 낳은후 고통이…더 심한것 같더라구요… ㅠㅠ
I cried for the way you said that you feel are ready to meet her, that's love.💛
아니 근데 ㄹㅇ 무통주사 맞지 말라는 건 너무 이기적인 거 아녀...? 출산이 인간이 느끼는 가장 큰 고통 중 하나라는데, 그걸 제외할 수 있는 선택지가 없는 것도 아니고.
무통주사 안맞으면 기절하거나 실신하는 산모도 있다고 하더라고요.
몇몇가족이 born natural이러면서 태어나면서 순수하게 낳고싶은 의미로 약안맞기하는 경우가있는것같아요😊
@@hwajin2651 출산 주체 무시하는 경우라고 생각함. 21세기에도 출산하다 잘못되는 경우가 있는 판에 에바임, 저걸 나라에서 권장한다는 게.
I had a natural birth with no epidural, NHS (my pain tolerance is ok and i was mentally ready for the pain) so they gave me something else to help me sleep coz that was the middle of the night. 1 hr of pushing and she still woudnt come out so we moved rooms to one with the birthing chair, still wouldnt come out. So they put a suction in her head and she still wouldnt come out. so they had to cut me and finally she was out. My team were great. Goodluck you two!
저는 지금 캐나다에 사는 국제커플이지만 아이들은 다 한국에서 낳았어요. 당근이 입체초음파를 보니 13년전 우리딸 초음파 사진 생각이 나서 뭉클했어요 ㅜㅠ 가비님처럼 자궁내막증으로 첫째딸 어렵게 낳았고 아기가 너무 커서 힘들거라는 의사선생님의 권유로 제왕절개를 했어요. 제왕절개 수술하시고 의사선생님께서 병실로 오셔서 아기 낳은거 기적이라고 하셨어요. 자궁내막이 너무너무너무 심한 케이스였대요. 둘째 가지고 싶으면 빨리 시도하라고 하셨어요. 자궁내막이 또 자라니까요. 저희는 딸만 잘키우자 했는데 삼년뒤 아들을 또 낳았네요.😊 저도 첫째 출산전에 너무 무서워서 남편이랑 엉엉 울었던 생각이나요 ㅋㅋ 고통은 잠시고 행복 시작일거에요. 첫째딸 낳고 남편이랑 진짜 재밌게 꽁냥꽁냥 육아했거든요. 우리 둘이서 하던 모든게 새멤버랑 하니까 너무 새롭고 재밌었어요. 조쉬님과 행복한 육아하시길요❤