When Cat and Freddie were shopping, and he held up the shoe and asked for his size, I thought it was funny. Cat was SO annoyed by everything this guy did, and snapped at him like he was a child. It was tough to watch, honestly.
My thoughts exactly! Im feeling like Cat wanted Ollie and she treated Freddie this way based on her not being able to have Ollie instead and it breaks my heart to watch because Freddie is such a great guy…
He was a happy boy during the first episodes prior to him meeting her in person. Then, after they got together, it was like she was sucking all the joy out of him. She wanted Ollie or Sam, she self sabotaged.
She was so rude and mean to him and that was not edited. He is way too good and chill for her. He deserves someone way better than her. He is a rare and I’m so glad he was wise and did not marry her. She was flirting with Ollie and that other guy.
I don’t know Cat but she comes across as someone very disingenuous and dishonest. She said that Freddie blocked her after the launch but clearly something more happened. In my humble opinion, Freddie dodged a bullet. He deserves better. He was honest and kind to her. She was not with him.
Cat was so cruel to Freddie and kept on using her adoption as an excuse for her bad behaviour. She talked bad about Freddie in front of his family saying he jokes around too much, its Freddies personality in that he doesn't take life too seriously unlike her. She tried to stir drama with Demi saying she don't think Ollie's right for her because she felt rejected by him. Ollie said he thinks the nightclub cirque is pretentious, Cat took this personally and then twisted ollies words and went back to the living quarters to spread gossip. I think Freddie realised who he was dealing with when Cat said she wanted to confront Ollie for saying he broke up with her and he was asking her if she could let it go. I think she's worse than Sam he doesn't sugar coat things, everyone knows what he's about, he's honest and blunt about his feelings.
Had an ex like Cat with abandonment/rejection issues and they put me through hell for crimes I didn’t commit or had any intention to. I tried to make it work and thought our inevitable breakup was mutual and healthy, apparently it was not and they did things to hurt me on purpose. Sometimes blocking someone is the only way to make peace with someone.
This is what I am saying. She SAID yes to Freddie, ready to be married and in two weeks she is talking to another guy? I just can not comprehend that. She wanted to marry that guy!!!! If she would really like him, she would no be speaking to somebody else in two weeks. I would block her too, for lying to me
@@the_sado_lifeso what? must she be in mourning for him? I don't understand what logic is that. the man left her and blocked her. isn't it logical for her to get over him and start talking to other people? where the hell did this 1800 mentality come from?
@@the_sado_life so what? she must be grieving for him i don't understand this logic? the man left her and blocked her. isn't it logical for her to see her life and start talking to other people? where the F did this 1800 mentality come from?
Catherine, I wouldn’t want you in my life after seeing how you treated Freddie. It’s absolutely insane that you talk about therapy all the time, but there’s not a hint of regret in your words. You basically shamed him and played with his emotions. Sure, there were things said just between the two of you, but watching him lose his spark and zest for life was terrifying. You’re like an energy vampire, just waiting for your next victim. And honestly, I don’t care about your adoption story-your energy feels shallow and insincere.
@@lorrainemounts2416 Finally someone says it. She’s a covert narcissist; the exact same mindfuckery Zanab has. People don’t realize how traumatizing dealing with such people can be until you’ve been with one.
Shortly after the wedding that didn’t happen, Cat sought out Jake, the civil engineer, who consoled Sam in the lounge after Jasmine dumped him. Sam was one of Jake’s friends so no wonder Sam is in her circle of friends. The reason I say “shortly after” is because Cat and Jake have been living together for almost a YEAR! So, if the couples who did marry haven’t reached their 1 year anniversaries yet ( it will be in September), Cat was quick to find someone else. Freddie did reject her but wanted to live together and get to know each other better with no cameras. But Cat probably decided…prenup, big sister, no wedding..nope, I’m out of here!
Ever consider that there could be more to Freddie? He did make fun of Cats shoe size. You guys may be villainising the wrong person, blinded by Freddie's looks
@@Marissa821well I’m a hetero male with no physical attraction to Freddie. Catherine was absolutely horrible to him everytime he’d try to lighten up the mood. It’s like she didn’t even want him all the tears were fake.
But why is she upset for Freddie not wanting her as a friend while she had moved on? Cat please focus on your new found love. It’s sounding like your heart was in 2 places
I don’t think anyone deserves to be bullied/cyber bullied and I don’t think anyone should be saying anything rude about her parents. However, I do think she is trying to blame the edit/show and while the editing can create a sense of falsity and that is something that I try to keep in mind while watching these shows but they can’t edit your sentences to sound a certain way… She was saying things and behaving a certain way that can be considered as problematic and mean.
6:38 Creating drama. Would you like us to (1) think Freddie rejected Jake’s hug bc he’s jealous over you; and/or (2) you choosing to focus on Freddie for the night in Jake’s presence is appropriate (sort of like when you focused on and flirted with Sam in Freddie’s presence). Hope Jake clocks what Freddie did. Flags, flags, flags.
"There has to be the villain and unfortunately that was me" I mean, TV-show editing is one thing but unless she was purposefully acting like she was one, they only showed what she herself said, and her own actions. She goes around throwing shade at Freddie in her interviews/podcasts and in almost every one that I've seen/heard she'd go "Oh I don't know why Freddie blocked me, I wanted to be friends, yada yada". Really? No idea why he blocked her? Plus, before this she said he blocked her a few days after the reunion? Now it's instantly after the launch? Freddie's friends with everyone except her and Jake though. In any case, if I recall correctly she wanted to launch her own branding, a book, merchandise etc. She should focus on that.
Couldn’t care to watch an interview about her, I’m just here bc of the caption and to say way to go Freddie! My goodness she was about to put you through so much hell considering she managed to sim your light to that extent in a matter of weeks 😭
Nothing against Cat, but Freddie absolutely looked thru her facade. I’m not sure if there’s another adopted child out there who would mention s/he’s adopted, literally, after every other sentence. She felt no remorse even after watching the edit and see how she belittled Freddie… nuh… anyway, bye, Cat… please don’t get on another show, please… let Jake have all of u.
My opinion is she got angry at Freddie's humorous attitude while shopping because her expectations were different. She expected a husband who would pay attention to her shopping needs immediately, but Freddie seemed disinterested. That's what really upset her.
The narcissist cannot be single. It’s natural to mourn the end of a relationship rather than jump into a new one. Talk is cheap. Actions show the truth.
Also in the show she just seems ungrateful for her adoption. Yeah you got put up for adoption but you were raised in a family with more opportunities than an orphan... She also didnt seem to acknowledge her parents much on her wedding day. Yes she still uses her adoption for pity.
She’s not my favourite but this comment is insensitive… she doesn’t need to be grateful for being adopted. She was a baby/ child who needed parents, and unfortunately her birth parents couldn’t do the job. She doesn’t need to be extra grateful for being adopted, her parents made the choice to adopt.
@@adev9764 I understand that, but she uses it as a point for sympathy when there are people who don't get adopted/ will never know what it's like to have a family. That was all.
You can’t tell someone’s character just by watching a show, but from what has been shown she is very condescending, talking down, aggressive, insecure: the guy is honest and admits he was cheating in the past and she holds that against him, makes jabs at him with every occasion. There is no accountability on her side, no open communication, no kindness, consideration or empathy. She is full of red flags, at least in the show.
I honestly cannot believe people commenting negatively about your adoption or any of the stereotypes associated with being adopted. I think it’s incredibly brave of you to share and I honestly have a lot of respect for your parents who took you in and raised you. Lots of kids in care end up not having a family taking them on fully so even though life may have dealt you a bad hand, you are also incredibly lucky to have found what looks like a caring and supportive family in your parents. I understand that you still have a lot to work through but I didn’t like the way you treated your parents sometimes on the show, eg when Freddie said no at the altar. You could see your parents were hurt and your mum was crying but you didn’t want them to even hold you? That scene was tough to watch for me. I will not comment on the other things, as you say you’re working on yourself. You were not the villain, thats a way of almost not wanting to accept accountability. It was you, granted it was captured on camera, but that’s where grace comes in as I think you’re quite young and eager to learn and grow. I hope you grow from this and be better. I didn’t like you on the show but no one deserves hate on social media.
I haven't seen any comments really criticizing her adoption. From what I observed she used her adoption as a scape goat out of bad behavior, which was manipulative and not taking accountability for her poor behavior Then we meet her parents who are actually very lovely people and seemed to have given her a wonderful life. All love was focused on her since she was an only child. Totally understandable that people who haven't been adopted will never understand wondering who your real parents are and why they gave you up for adoption. She even said she didn't start think about it until her twenties so it didn't seem like a trauma from childhood. Just came off as she used the situation in defense of poor behavior
@@AssiduousHFTT I agree with you on her possibly using her adoption as a way to excuse bad behaviour. I mean, she even said in this interview that the show had to have a villain and she was the one, like c’mon, take responsibility for your behaviour girl!
@@blabla23-g4p oh well, she said in this interview, I personally don’t follow her to know. Anyway she doesn’t seem to fully take accountability for her bad behaviour from what she’s said in this interview which is sad
Being adopted is super challenging to people's self esteem. Lovely to watch her evolve. Am glad she seems so at peace with everything and is very adult at handling the internet trolls. Good luck Cat! 🤗
@@Rise-and-Shine333 No it isn't. It's also a well known symptom of childhood PTSD. Cat seems to have had a tonne of therapy and seen her flaws and tried to address them. None of us can do more than that.
Well done freddy for blocking her,You moved on so quickly and blame him for not being in your life, Thank god he didn’t tie the knot, he doesn’t deserve to have a rude person like you anyway, he s such a sweet person you didn’t see that,
Kat, was very immature on the show! She just wanted to party and Freddie needs a woman who can be a real wife and mum to children he might have! I hope he finds his true love ❤️ I have three good looking sons who would like to be married and have children but woman don't care about getting married these days!
So healthy of him to block his ex !
When Cat and Freddie were shopping, and he held up the shoe and asked for his size, I thought it was funny. Cat was SO annoyed by everything this guy did, and snapped at him like he was a child. It was tough to watch, honestly.
My thoughts exactly! Im feeling like Cat wanted Ollie and she treated Freddie this way based on her not being able to have Ollie instead and it breaks my heart to watch because Freddie is such a great guy…
He was a happy boy during the first episodes prior to him meeting her in person. Then, after they got together, it was like she was sucking all the joy out of him. She wanted Ollie or Sam, she self sabotaged.
Cat didn't like him. Women get mean real quick if they don't like a man. Take a look at ag Hannah.
@@hazar2354that’s the truth! 🎯
Cat is projecting her narrative, that people dislike her because Freddie is so good looking, not that she was so disrespectful.
Nope. She has a point
@@LNOTUEno she doesent if she treated anybody like that everybody would hate it, she treated freadie like complete doo doo
@@LNOTUE wtf? no she doesn’t she was very disrespectful and inconsiderate towards him
She was so rude and mean to him and that was not edited. He is way too good and chill for her. He deserves someone way better than her. He is a rare and I’m so glad he was wise and did not marry her. She was flirting with Ollie and that other guy.
Her confused why freddy blocked her but everyone with a pair of eyes watching her talk down to him and flirt with sam 💀
At the end of the day only they know thr truth its a TV shows thats highly edited and take things out of context
@@keriknight3043 Edited or not, she was rude af
@floraa2951 When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. Freddy blocked her for a reason. Go forth and be happy Freddy. 👍🏽🎉🤗
I don’t know Cat but she comes across as someone very disingenuous and dishonest. She said that Freddie blocked her after the launch but clearly something more happened.
In my humble opinion, Freddie dodged a bullet. He deserves better. He was honest and kind to her. She was not with him.
Cat was so cruel to Freddie and kept on using her adoption as an excuse for her bad behaviour. She talked bad about Freddie in front of his family saying he jokes around too much, its Freddies personality in that he doesn't take life too seriously unlike her.
She tried to stir drama with Demi saying she don't think Ollie's right for her because she felt rejected by him. Ollie said he thinks the nightclub cirque is pretentious, Cat took this personally and then twisted ollies words and went back to the living quarters to spread gossip.
I think Freddie realised who he was dealing with when Cat said she wanted to confront Ollie for saying he broke up with her and he was asking her if she could let it go.
I think she's worse than Sam he doesn't sugar coat things, everyone knows what he's about, he's honest and blunt about his feelings.
This! 🎯
Had an ex like Cat with abandonment/rejection issues and they put me through hell for crimes I didn’t commit or had any intention to. I tried to make it work and thought our inevitable breakup was mutual and healthy, apparently it was not and they did things to hurt me on purpose.
Sometimes blocking someone is the only way to make peace with someone.
Watching her brought back bad memories as well. You said it perfectly, being punished for crimes I didn't commit.
How’s she the victim when she met another guy 2 weeks after the show!!!
Exactly. 2weeks after the wedding 😮
Freddy was on Hinge the day after the wedding
This is what I am saying. She SAID yes to Freddie, ready to be married and in two weeks she is talking to another guy? I just can not comprehend that. She wanted to marry that guy!!!! If she would really like him, she would no be speaking to somebody else in two weeks. I would block her too, for lying to me
@@the_sado_lifeso what? must she be in mourning for him? I don't understand what logic is that. the man left her and blocked her. isn't it logical for her to get over him and start talking to other people? where the hell did this 1800 mentality come from?
@@the_sado_life so what? she must be grieving for him i don't understand this logic? the man left her and blocked her. isn't it logical for her to see her life and start talking to other people? where the F did this 1800 mentality come from?
Catherine, I wouldn’t want you in my life after seeing how you treated Freddie. It’s absolutely insane that you talk about therapy all the time, but there’s not a hint of regret in your words. You basically shamed him and played with his emotions. Sure, there were things said just between the two of you, but watching him lose his spark and zest for life was terrifying. You’re like an energy vampire, just waiting for your next victim. And honestly, I don’t care about your adoption story-your energy feels shallow and insincere.
@@NannaEliza That's what the Narcissist does. Drains the life out of you.
@@lorrainemounts2416 Finally someone says it. She’s a covert narcissist; the exact same mindfuckery Zanab has. People don’t realize how traumatizing dealing with such people can be until you’ve been with one.
Always playing the victim, no accountability of how she disrespected Freddie and how this contributed to her current persona.
Shortly after the wedding that didn’t happen, Cat sought out Jake, the civil engineer, who consoled Sam in the lounge after Jasmine dumped him. Sam was one of Jake’s friends so no wonder Sam is in her circle of friends. The reason I say “shortly after” is because Cat and Jake have been living together for almost a YEAR!
So, if the couples who did marry haven’t reached their 1 year anniversaries yet ( it will be in September), Cat was quick to find someone else. Freddie did reject her but wanted to live together and get to know each other better with no cameras. But Cat probably decided…prenup, big sister, no wedding..nope, I’m out of here!
Wow!!! No wonder he blocked her because Freddie is very caring
“Nope I don’t want to know you”? From his personality and the way he carries himself I think there was more to that Catherine…
Ever consider that there could be more to Freddie? He did make fun of Cats shoe size. You guys may be villainising the wrong person, blinded by Freddie's looks
@@Marissa821he didn't make fun of her shoe size, he was joking that he wanted to get one for himself
@@Marissa821well I’m a hetero male with no physical attraction to Freddie. Catherine was absolutely horrible to him everytime he’d try to lighten up the mood. It’s like she didn’t even want him all the tears were fake.
But you said you are friends on the reunion 😮
But why is she upset for Freddie not wanting her as a friend while she had moved on? Cat please focus on your new found love. It’s sounding like your heart was in 2 places
I don’t think anyone deserves to be bullied/cyber bullied and I don’t think anyone should be saying anything rude about her parents. However, I do think she is trying to blame the edit/show and while the editing can create a sense of falsity and that is something that I try to keep in mind while watching these shows but they can’t edit your sentences to sound a certain way… She was saying things and behaving a certain way that can be considered as problematic and mean.
I just watched another podcast with Freddie and he seemed a lot kinder with his narrative of her than she of him.
She brought up her adoption in the first two minutes. This girl is seriously problematic, so happy Freddie set himself free.
This woman said she loved him but within 2 weeks she was in another relationship, I would block you too.
Fredy was on Hinge the day after the wedding
Freddie did not say yes to her, she did say yes to him!
@@hanaurbanova1348 still. He was supposedly ready for marriage and claimed to love her.
@@hanaurbanova1348 what was she supposed to do ?! Sit and cry for a year ?!
Don’t blame him.
6:38 Creating drama. Would you like us to (1) think Freddie rejected Jake’s hug bc he’s jealous over you; and/or (2) you choosing to focus on Freddie for the night in Jake’s presence is appropriate (sort of like when you focused on and flirted with Sam in Freddie’s presence). Hope Jake clocks what Freddie did. Flags, flags, flags.
I don't like her. She was engaged with Freddie but still flirted with Sam. I doubt that she would be a faithful wife.
And jake
I don’t get it, they said they were friends in the reunion. Also, why no talks about her flirting with Sam? 9:24
"There has to be the villain and unfortunately that was me" I mean, TV-show editing is one thing but unless she was purposefully acting like she was one, they only showed what she herself said, and her own actions. She goes around throwing shade at Freddie in her interviews/podcasts and in almost every one that I've seen/heard she'd go "Oh I don't know why Freddie blocked me, I wanted to be friends, yada yada". Really? No idea why he blocked her? Plus, before this she said he blocked her a few days after the reunion? Now it's instantly after the launch? Freddie's friends with everyone except her and Jake though.
In any case, if I recall correctly she wanted to launch her own branding, a book, merchandise etc. She should focus on that.
I Don't know what Freddie saw in her,he's 10/10 and she's 5/10
Good for Freddie!
Couldn’t care to watch an interview about her, I’m just here bc of the caption and to say way to go Freddie! My goodness she was about to put you through so much hell considering she managed to sim your light to that extent in a matter of weeks 😭
Nothing against Cat, but Freddie absolutely looked thru her facade. I’m not sure if there’s another adopted child out there who would mention s/he’s adopted, literally, after every other sentence. She felt no remorse even after watching the edit and see how she belittled Freddie… nuh… anyway, bye, Cat… please don’t get on another show, please… let Jake have all of u.
If self sabotage was a person..😂😂
I'm glad Freddie blocked this woman.
My opinion is she got angry at Freddie's humorous attitude while shopping because her expectations were different. She expected a husband who would pay attention to her shopping needs immediately, but Freddie seemed disinterested. That's what really upset her.
The narcissist cannot be single. It’s natural to mourn the end of a relationship rather than jump into a new one. Talk is cheap. Actions show the truth.
So glad I wasn't the only one who caught onto Cats narcissistic traits and behavior. 🤮
Correct
@@lorrainemounts2416 Once you've lived it through it enough, the signs are obvious.
"I'd like to work for like charities for adoption" 😂🤣
Wild guess...she'll do that as much as she "taught DS kids how to swim"
Dwl. I still wonder if she ever taught anyone how to swim 😂
😭😭
She said « don’t touch me, I’m not a dog »
Right! That was bizarre!
Cat you are so beautiful and i wish you all the good things in life and you are just doing fine no one is perfect on this planet earth we love you .
Also in the show she just seems ungrateful for her adoption. Yeah you got put up for adoption but you were raised in a family with more opportunities than an orphan... She also didnt seem to acknowledge her parents much on her wedding day. Yes she still uses her adoption for pity.
She’s not my favourite but this comment is insensitive… she doesn’t need to be grateful for being adopted. She was a baby/ child who needed parents, and unfortunately her birth parents couldn’t do the job. She doesn’t need to be extra grateful for being adopted, her parents made the choice to adopt.
@@adev9764 I understand that, but she uses it as a point for sympathy when there are people who don't get adopted/ will never know what it's like to have a family. That was all.
Nah. You ain't a good person Cat. I wish though Freddy had been more vocal at the reunion the way Jas and Demi were
He said no. He let her put on a wedding dress and sent her earings, knowing that he would say no. He is unkind
And the note basically assuring he wasn't going anywhere.
You can’t tell someone’s character just by watching a show, but from what has been shown she is very condescending, talking down, aggressive, insecure: the guy is honest and admits he was cheating in the past and she holds that against him, makes jabs at him with every occasion. There is no accountability on her side, no open communication, no kindness, consideration or empathy. She is full of red flags, at least in the show.
he dodged a bullet...big time.
She's so nagging and mean to Freddie!😮 Jake isn't good looking!
What shocked me was how good she was to her dad just before walking down the aisle. She really is very toxic yeah maybe cause of rejection issues
Thank God he did, you need to work on yourself hun , i also block toxic people and i dont feel bad about it.
wow, the negative comments. Ignore them Cat - you were fab xxx
Far from it lol
Freddie would never date her if they lived in the US.Hes a 10 she’s not even close.
I don’t like her. She is full of issues and very unstable. Freddie dodged a bullet as he is a gem. Hope he finds some lucky lucky gal one day.
Deserved to be blocked and no surprise or anything
I honestly cannot believe people commenting negatively about your adoption or any of the stereotypes associated with being adopted. I think it’s incredibly brave of you to share and I honestly have a lot of respect for your parents who took you in and raised you. Lots of kids in care end up not having a family taking them on fully so even though life may have dealt you a bad hand, you are also incredibly lucky to have found what looks like a caring and supportive family in your parents.
I understand that you still have a lot to work through but I didn’t like the way you treated your parents sometimes on the show, eg when Freddie said no at the altar. You could see your parents were hurt and your mum was crying but you didn’t want them to even hold you? That scene was tough to watch for me.
I will not comment on the other things, as you say you’re working on yourself. You were not the villain, thats a way of almost not wanting to accept accountability. It was you, granted it was captured on camera, but that’s where grace comes in as I think you’re quite young and eager to learn and grow. I hope you grow from this and be better. I didn’t like you on the show but no one deserves hate on social media.
literally i see no comment about talking bad about her adoption?
I haven't seen any comments really criticizing her adoption. From what I observed she used her adoption as a scape goat out of bad behavior, which was manipulative and not taking accountability for her poor behavior
Then we meet her parents who are actually very lovely people and seemed to have given her a wonderful life. All love was focused on her since she was an only child.
Totally understandable that people who haven't been adopted will never understand wondering who your real parents are and why they gave you up for adoption. She even said she didn't start think about it until her twenties so it didn't seem like a trauma from childhood.
Just came off as she used the situation in defense of poor behavior
@@AssiduousHFTT I agree with you on her possibly using her adoption as a way to excuse bad behaviour. I mean, she even said in this interview that the show had to have a villain and she was the one, like c’mon, take responsibility for your behaviour girl!
@@blabla23-g4p oh well, she said in this interview, I personally don’t follow her to know. Anyway she doesn’t seem to fully take accountability for her bad behaviour from what she’s said in this interview which is sad
Show me one negative comment about her being adopted and I will buy you a plane.
Being adopted is super challenging to people's self esteem. Lovely to watch her evolve. Am glad she seems so at peace with everything and is very adult at handling the internet trolls. Good luck Cat! 🤗
Being adopted isn’t an excuse for being nasty
@@Rise-and-Shine333 No it isn't. It's also a well known symptom of childhood PTSD. Cat seems to have had a tonne of therapy and seen her flaws and tried to address them. None of us can do more than that.
Hi Catherine :) Do you still go the gym 2x a day? Please share your workout tips or do a workout video 😀
Really like her. She has a great energy
Amber Heard vibes
My Cat stepped on a bee
Well done freddy for blocking her,You moved on so quickly and blame him for not being in your life, Thank god he didn’t tie the knot, he doesn’t deserve to have a rude person like you anyway, he s such a sweet person you didn’t see that,
Kat, was very immature on the show! She just wanted to party and Freddie needs a woman who can be a real wife and mum to children he might have! I hope he finds his true love ❤️
I have three good looking sons who would like to be married and have children but woman don't care about getting married these days!
What the heck no he didn't player or what ❤❤❤❤
Why would anyone want their ex to "be there" for them if they find something stressful? This woman is so deluded it's unreal. I can't stand her.
It’s giving Donald Trump orange
I think she is very true... Freddie is very attractive and woman's just protect him at any price. Always is woman to woman worst enemy.
She's nuts
I like her 😂
Ewww 🤮👎🏻
Freddie's sister should of , let her brother be a man and make up his own mind about Kat!