For Those Who Aren't Good Enough

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

Комментарии • 24

  • @FeelingFear
    @FeelingFear  28 дней назад +8

    THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! This is my first time doing a video essay type video. If you like it please suggest what topics you'd like me to dive deeper! While you're at it give it a LIKE and SUBSCRIBE! It really helps!
    EDIT: THANK YOU FOR THE 1K VIEWS! I REALLY APPRECIATE ALL THE SUPPORT! I never expect it to blow up like that :D How high can it hit 🤞

  • @secretnym7495
    @secretnym7495 26 дней назад +4

    youtube recommended this to me in my notifications with no context but the title.
    thought youtube was roasting me 💀

    • @FeelingFear
      @FeelingFear  25 дней назад +1

      😂 HAHAH I swear the AI is sentient and they are slowly and secretly trying to overthrow us.

  • @devanshisrivastava1143
    @devanshisrivastava1143 28 дней назад +7

    Bro voiced all of my thoughts 🤧 How strange it is that in a world where you just die without anything anyway, it’s very easy to feel that we’re not good enough….

    • @FeelingFear
      @FeelingFear  27 дней назад

      Well said! At the end of the day everyone, regardless if they are perfect or not, dies and does it really matter? Life is too short to be hating on yourself 24/7, we just have to make whatever time we have as meaningful as we can and enjoy life. There are many things to be glad about for example your comment! Thank you and I am grateful you got something out of it!

  • @КекКок-м9б
    @КекКок-м9б 25 дней назад +1

    Для Тех, Кто Недостаточно Хорош
    00:00 Введение
    • Акира Торияма и Кацусика Хокусай выразили чувство неполноценности.
    • Видео обращается к тем, кто чувствует себя недостаточно хорошим.
    • Призыв к действию для тех, кто парализован сомнениями.
    01:07 Голос сомнения
    • Голос сомнения проникает в разум и говорит, что усилия не стоят того.
    • Сомнение проявляется по-разному, от тихого до подавляющего.
    • Сомнение сравнивает с нереалистичными стандартами.
    01:50 Личный опыт
    • Автор делится своим опытом борьбы с сомнениями.
    • Сравнение с другими и чувство неполноценности.
    • Проект становится продолжением себя, критика воспринимается как нападение.
    03:25 Самосохранение и когнитивные предрассудки
    • Самосохранение как основной инстинкт.
    • Избегание неудач из-за страха негативных чувств.
    • Признание, что неудача не означает неудачу.
    04:18 Рост и эволюция
    • В детстве мы учились и росли, несмотря на неудачи.
    • Важно быть значимым в процессе становления.
    • Неудача не означает, что мы обречены быть неудачниками.
    05:42 Управляемые пробежки
    • Использование управляемых пробежек для осознанности.
    • Важность честности с собой и своим телом.
    • Появление как лучший результат.
    06:38 Вдохновение от великих
    • Великие люди также испытывали сомнения и неудачи.
    • Примеры Джоан Роулинг, Сильвестра Сталлоне и других.
    • Неудача - это сигнал для роста и выбора между сдачей и улучшением.
    07:56 Фокус на росте
    • Каждый шаг вперед - это прогресс.
    • Рост происходит через трудности и борьбу.
    • Важно фокусироваться на процессе обучения и маленьких победах.
    08:49 Заключение
    • Чувство неполноценности - это нормально.
    • Путешествие важнее момента сомнений.
    • Мы достаточно хороши, потому что мы здесь и стараемся расти.

  • @Joubles
    @Joubles 25 дней назад

    the little background noise and visuals made this so nice to watch

  • @guilbasyt
    @guilbasyt 28 дней назад +4

    I really liked the video, seeing your process while you talk is a great video style

    • @FeelingFear
      @FeelingFear  27 дней назад

      Thank you! I'll take note for my next video too! Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @julianali.illustration
    @julianali.illustration 28 дней назад +1

    I struggled with perfectionism for many years, but I only recognized the issue a year ago. Now for the first time, I start to feel okay with not beeing perfect. And I cannot tell you, how liberating this is. So thank you, for your beautiful video, it was the thing I needed to hear right now. :)

    • @FeelingFear
      @FeelingFear  27 дней назад

      Recognition is the first step to acceptance and change. I understand how you feel, some times it just feels like you're your own biggest hater. It's like the world is already so tough why am I still hating myself on top of that.🙄 It really boils down to being kinder to yourself. I'm pretty sure it is easier to put yourself down since it's more habitual than lifting yourself up.
      We can take it one step at a time and start being more patient and kind to ourselves cause life is too short to be hating all the time. Maybe one day being nice to ourselves can become a habit instead of self loathing :D

  • @sleepyseelie
    @sleepyseelie 28 дней назад +1

    Such a beautiful message🤍I have been feeling like this too, and sometimes it's hard to convince ourselves that not being good enough is okay and it's part of the journey. Thank you for this video🤍

    • @FeelingFear
      @FeelingFear  27 дней назад +1

      EXACTLY! Somedays you just feel like you're the worst person in the world and nothing you tell yourself can change that. Those days I'll force myself to go for a run (if possible) so I dedicate the strong bad energy to something. It helps on some level cause you'll feel you some control in your life. Thank you for the comment though, I'm glad you got something out of it!

    • @sleepyseelie
      @sleepyseelie 25 дней назад

      @ oh, dedicating the bad energy into something we can control is great advice, thank you!

  • @skyhavender
    @skyhavender 16 дней назад

    Lets be real here. This will not be received well.
    Everything in life is a competition.
    EVERYTHING...
    Art is no different.
    We all like to tell ourselfs its about the journey and take it slow to others.
    But behind the closed door we work and work and work.
    In a desperate attempt to get ahead of the competition.
    This is humanity its all about who can do the thing the best.
    Anyone that denies this is just lying to either themselfs or others around them to keep the competitors stagnent and docile.

  • @klimmers2789
    @klimmers2789 25 дней назад

    This is a really beautiful video. It’s well made and the words are well spoken, it felt really and genuine.

  • @Anaga_media
    @Anaga_media 28 дней назад +2

    Very good video! I'm sure you will make it very far, keep up the good work!

    • @FeelingFear
      @FeelingFear  27 дней назад

      Thank you for your kind comment! I hope what you said will come true but more importantly I hope people watching my videos can gain from them :D

  • @dabidabi141
    @dabidabi141 27 дней назад +1

    I'm going to finish that project.

    • @jama211
      @jama211 26 дней назад

      Good luck!

    • @FeelingFear
      @FeelingFear  25 дней назад

      YES! Completing is better than perfecting!

  • @godie69
    @godie69 26 дней назад +2

    i didnt understand anything

    • @FeelingFear
      @FeelingFear  25 дней назад

      That's cool too. Thanks for watching anyway!