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You’re A Good Mom. I Love You ❤

My life was ruined by adoption. I appreciate this, You are So Spot on. Telling a child they are Lucky Because you got them out of their bad situation. These people are Good People but they already had a Bad Marriage and when they adopted at 5. Everyone acted as though I didn’t live a whole life before them. I wasn’t Allowed to talk about my life before. No therapy, no guidance. They said they didn’t have to focus so much on my life and Education because I was a girl and girls just get married but Boys Their Biological Children needed more because they would be responsible for their whole families. I’m 52 and now just realizing I was a Bad Kid, I wasn’t a charity case. I feel my life would be better today if I’d been just left with my own family but they didn’t have enough to keep me & the foster care system got more out of My Case with Wealthier folks. I’ve been told I cost a lot of Money and Headache. Those words The Damage Irreparably!

49 and over is too old. We were designed to have kids when we are still expanding and becoming our strongest physical and mentally curious selves. By the time we're approaching 50 its time to support the younger generations with accumulated life experiences not to raise a child. Plus, there isn't enough time to support them as they grow into adulthood in an energetic and youthful age.

Thank you! Especially considering those parents ASKED to adopt, whereas the child did not ask to be adopted.

Age is just a number. I say if the person is spiritually, mentally, physically, and financially able to raise a child--then there is no issue. My mother passed away at the age of 46--which I consider to be extremely young. There are no guarantees. Most importantly, more times than not--with age comes wisdom. I believe children are getting the best version of older parents in terms of financial security, patience, and life experiences.

Don’t let society place age expectations on anything in life including being a parent.

No such thing as too old.

Financing to adopt a kid seems morally inhumane!!!

The becoming a mother at 49 is not the issue….it’s becoming a single mother at 49 that’s the real issue! You should have adopted a husband first then go grab the kid!! *ProperOrientation*

There is NEVER a guarantee you will be around after having children in your 20s. We are the only ones that put limits on age. There have been quite a few women for decades at this point birthing children after 40, and they are healthy children. My mother was one of those women and I know at least 10 more personally. Some will have kids in their 20s and some won’t. No big deal. Healthy, safe, and loving environment is most important.

Well you're talking about adoption.

I think 45+ is too old. It can be dangerous for both mom and baby. Not to mention it is selfish because that child won’t get to have you around as long. I have two friends who had older parents and they died when they were still young. I’m 42 and my dad is only 64 so I get to keep him around for a long time, god willing. If my parents were 50 when I was born they would be 92 IF they lived that long. The average age of death is 78. Our bodies weren’t meant to have babies that old. Women that have geriatric pregnancies are the exception not the rule.

Nobody knows when they will die. Saying 40 is too old is not necessarily an accurate answer. People die at all ages due to unforeseen health issues and accidents.

I think 70 years old maybe to old be first time parent because body needs more rest. Congrats on your challenge it is pleasurable and worthy.

I was talking about this to my boyfriend of five years (we’re not married because we’re only 22 and want to get married later on) and he said if biological clocks weren’t a thing, he’d want us to have a child in our 40s. I brought up that my mom had my youngest sibling in her 40s and she’s constantly worrying that our mother won’t make it to see her have kids (she’s only 9.) My boyfriend “well yeah, but your mom refuses to eat healthy and work out. I’d be worried too.” I guess it’s great to have a child that old if you’re mindful of your health

70 dropping off child at college? 80? Wheel chairing to the high school graduation? I think it’s never too old if you still run and eat healthy. But if you have a soul food diet and diabetes, meaning barely making it in life for health or other reasons, accept that the time has passed and put effort into raising someone’s child in the community as the aunt or adoptive grandparents

richelle gr8 legs🔥🔥

Thank you for making that point. It would be WONDERFUL if all adoptive and especially foster parents felt this way. I have a cousin who got into drugs for a while and her child lived with her sister while she was in treatment. Come to find out that sister's husband would tell him over and over again how "lucky" he should feel that they where willing to allow him to stay with them. I heard about this and took him til his mother got back on her feet and some sobriety under her belt. It was sad. The first couple of months I had him, his behavior proved that those words had gotten to him. Eventually he believed we wanted him there and got comfortable. After 9 months his mom had got on her feet and had proved it was long term. We continued to have a close relationship with him an still do.

Perhaps you're reading too much into the compliment that you're a good parent and your kids are blessed to have you as their mom, biological or adoptive.

It seems you dont understand charity. Adopting a child is charity, a favor but you dont do things for people to get shit back...whats wrong with you?

Thank you so much for acknowledging this! So many time growing up I was told how lucky I was that I found someone to care for me and how lucky I was that I didn’t end up in the system. It’s not lucky to be adopted it’s an unfortunate circumstance to begin life in no matter how well it goes. We are not lucky unloveable kids we are humans deserving of the same dignity any other child receives. Thank you ❤

Yeah you didn't. I will pray for him.

I would say that most adoptive parents feel that they are the lucky ones.

Whom are we telling this to?!! To the people who say it or to ourselves . If you are telling it to yourself … you have a wrong reason to adopt . If you are telling it to other who think they are complementing you .. doesn’t matter . Many a time , it saves the adopter than the adoptee

You can make those same comments to a parent speaking of their biological child. You also contradict yourself by saying that children owe their parents gratitude, and then saying that they don't owe them a thank you. You're really saying nothing at all, you're complaining about something that is, as you even admit, well intended.

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I WOULD HAVE WENT IN HALF WITH A BABY WITH YOU 😂

When would you say, in your opinion, would have been the best time to freeze your eggs and when the best time to try IVF? I'm 28 and I'm considering freezing my eggs before 35, ideally sooner than later, but I wasn't contemplating IVF until quite a bit later than that. When would you have liked to do it, looking back? I'm also considering adoption, btw, I'm open to that too, but it would have to be much later and, honestly, I don't know if I'll ever meet the standards for an agency (I know they're usually stricter in terms of things like home ownership and such).

U rock mom 😊

Congrats Richelle 👏

When Tyler was 2 he said mom and dad

If she really wants to make a positive impact, then she needs to accept responsibility and be accountable for her decisions, by sharing her story with as many young career-driven women as she can, to prioritize having a family first over career, before it's biologically not feasible, and they need to be intentional to conceive before 35yrs old...so they don't repeat her mistakes

Successful women become victims of their own success.

We gotta start raising wives again.

ruclips.net/video/cMqJBbOyx7c/видео.html .....this is just sad. I am telling girls in my family to get married and have kids early.

Curious why she never prioritized marriage and family at the outset. Now she's a baby-momma tasked with making a black boy into a man? ...despite all the data against doing so?

I love me some Jennifer Westhoven🤤 2 beautiful ladies tho

Richelle you is a beautiful,wonderful and amazing woman and I know your going to raise that beautiful, amazing and wonderful child to be an awesome human being.

To be honest, I did not know that Richelle is 50. Anyway, congrats.

Congratulations and I wish you all the best Richelle!

Congratulations Richelle! I wish you all the best.

Richelle is so fine

I only watched HLN News because of Richelle Carey.

Hey babe, hey Good Morning

Lisa Salters is fine as all outdoors..

im watching browns v jets. shes still beautiful

ur soooooo gorgeous baby!!!!!

The majority of women do not know the game

Happy birthday lisa

Oh my Christ is richelle Carey gorgeous