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@@JudyBrown-g5o He did. This is a video for conversation about this topic.

And most importantly from what you be learned when a child is a busy body means they are bored because they are already passed the level of learning they are provided. So I say good job momma you have taught him a lot and he’s ready to expand past his level.

You got it! It was the assistant. The lead teacher knows but I think the assistant got too comfortable with me so I had to be firm of our expectations.

Yeah on point❤

So glad we found each other! 🫶🏾

Thanks so much!

Listen...being a working mom is the hardest thing I have had to do in my life.

You are absolutely right! That's why none of it can be generalized. There is good and bad on both sides of it. That's why I believe as women, we should support the choices the other group makes, not add another burden with criticism and judgment.

Bruh, my friend 🤣was curious to see if the study not only included the impact of staying at home vs working had on the mothers but also what impact did it have on their children and their families. She is telling us that the study showed that working moms were less depressed and so forth but were the children less prone to depression of the working mom or the stay at home mom or both, etc. When you listen to statistics you definitely have to read and dig through the lines because there’s usually something hidden underneath it all. That’s WTF I’m getting all of this from. Bro

I've seen studies that say working moms are more depressed and I've seen studies that say stay-at-home moms are more depressed. As Dawn said on this thread, data can be manipulated. I believe happiness has to be determined at an individual level. Then you create the life you desire based on fulfilling your purpose. We all have to do things we don't want to do, adulting. :-) However, if you want to work, find the job you will enjoy and create your desired family dynamics in partnership with your spouse. If you want to stay at home, create the best environment at home for your family. I will have to do more digging on promiscuity and drug addiction. All of that is just higher across the board. I don't think we need to look at it as a working mom or stay-at-home mom issue but a family issue that also has to be dealt with on a case by case basis. When there are these things going on, it's deeper than whether you mom is a stay-at-home mom or a working mom.

@@LakeshaHolloway not necessarily does it have to be elements that are deeper involved. It would be beneficial to include how stay at home and working effects the children of these moms and their home balance. Children being naturally geared to being able to manipulate and maneuver to benefit themselves utilize any and all opportunities to do so. Therefore according to the statistical aspect of the study, my friend 🤣 was wondering if this data was recorded as well. After all if mom decision or need isn’t causing her to be depressed from being a working mom, how has her decision affected her children because essentially her decision will have an impact not just for her but those under her care

@@dawnwalton1099 But that would be for any decision right? We can't doom all children of working moms. I'm a third generation of working moms. My grandmother was forced to be a working mom of 8 kids when her husband was a victim of a car accident. My mother was the first in her family to get a degree. I know stay-at-home moms and working moms who have children who get themselves into trouble. I will provide the studies under my main video - Are Working Moms Happier? I'm a working mom so I need about 24 hours b/c I'm headed to a meeting. 🤣 I don't think we need to weaponize the research against each other, making one woman fell she is superior because she chose to stay home or go to work. I also don't think we should take research that states a negative outcome and then think our family is doomed. lol. Tell your "friend" that she is a good mom and she is doing a great job, no matter what path she chose.

@@LakeshaHolloway I think you took my question more personal than it was asked . To understand the benefits of the study it would be beneficial to see how the decisions or circumstances affected others impacted by the decisions. If we are studying moms wouldn’t it only make sense to see if because mom was more or less depressed how that effected the household or the fact that one mom appears to be more accessible than the other is too worth looking at its effect, if for nothing more than statistically. How would that information weaponize one against the other?? The benefits should be made known when we are referring to a statistical study is all I’m saying.

Thanks so much!

Praise God! He will tell us exactly what we need to do to make the necessary changes that will save our lives.

Thank you! This is great feedback as I struggle with the sound of my own voice. 🤦🏾‍♀️

Thank you!

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Wowowowow!!!!

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Like pac men…. 😂

Yes, we don’t do friends eating all of our food. He has one friend that won’t even eat at his friend’s homes. We don’t allow soda in our home. He can have it as a treat when we go to restaurants but not every day in the home.

@@LakeshaHolloway We have to remember it's just a stage. Today my son, 29 yrs old, called and invited me out to dinner. So HANG IN THERE it does get better! Stay positive, keep posting and God Bless!

@@nancylynnmartin7007 thank you so much! Love hearing the stories of mommas who have gone before me! 😍

I know. I was like whoa son…slow down. Lol. It was the first time he had done this so I thought it was funny and had to share since I know I’m not alone. 😊

@@LakeshaHolloway I have a hard time believing this was the first time.

@@rocky3993 thank you for being such an incredible human! Be blessed! 😊

So true! I have a big one too and tow little ones. I’ll be on this journey for awhile. 🤦🏾‍♀️

You, and he still goes back to the pantry. He just doesn’t get that much snacks when he goes.

I find it fascinating that your assumption is that he doesn’t have from one video. 🤦🏾‍♀️🙄😂

Ours are hungry like clockwork no matter what. I can only imagine how it will be as they get older.

He can have a full breakfast, lunch and dinner and still be in that cabinet. 😂 He just never got that much at the same time.

Oh wow! Mine is only 8. I guess it gets worse as they get older.

Oh wow! Bless you momma!

Right! He had never done that before. I was like what is happening here. 😂

So true!

Oh wow! It definitely caught me off guard. 😂

Haha…right!

It’s amazing how people assume he doesn’t get that 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

Thanks for the support. It doesn’t bother me. People will be people. My son eats healthy meals every day. He just also eats everything else - snacks, apples, oranges, veggies, bananas - and anything else he can get his hands on. 😂

@@LakeshaHolloway I got a 9 year old boy and a set of 8 year old twin boys so I understand you fully .. my youngest of the twins is so small and skinny but I just watched him eat a whole loaf of bread.. I ain’t stop him 🤷🏽‍♀️😂😂

@@Archon_Lenise omg wow!!!! We’re all in this together! 💕

Bless you momma! 😂

Yup, we do chicken a couple of times a week as well. Our snacks actually last a couple of weeks. I posted this video because he never goes and gets that many at one time. It was a first for me so I had to share.

I have two. Lol