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I’m too anxious to go back tomorrow… I literally cried today.

I am not cool, can I still watch this!? 😂

I notice i keep changing jobs because culture, lack of raises, overwhelming workload. Not bc i feel like i need to make a career change. Its more about these companies having horrible training, not flexible regarding hybrid or remote options.

Same thing happened to me. I regret putting up with it. I stayed for 1 full year and I regret it.

Thank you Andrea this video was very helpful. I have been writing an assignment on developing an Leadership Development plan as part of my MBA and your explanation on Power vs Authority struck a note on how I have been dealing with my team from a Power perspective and how that is a likely reason why there are some issue between us. Thanks again.

My next sign if they start cutting hours that means it's time to look for something else and if you stay they'll find a way to shift blame and fire you WRONGFULLY

I don't agree with you on the attraction thing because I've went into every job extremely positive optimistic and ready to go with lots of enthusiasm yet sings turn out badly and they're always things I cannot control such as other people's behaviors and personalities etc.

The common theme is people are not easy to work with and tend to be unfriendly unprofessional condescending underhanded and generally mean overall in the workplace. Respect doesn't seem to mean anything to anyone anymore or treating others decently as they would want to be treated

Just joined a new company as i finished my bachelor study did intern for 3 months but doing job at company is different from what i did at intern.. just a second day i got scolded by ceo at job not a good way to start a job.... They just wanted me to lewrn everything like in two days which is new things to me

I only do the bare minimum 😂

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I know this is an older video, but I just wanted to let you know, you changed my life with this. Thank you.

Anybody else watching this due to having a pain in the rear micromanager for a coworker?

um....people. I hate lying people who lie direct to your face in the interview about how great the company is and how everyone works as a Team Player and its all unicorn farts and rainbows....until you onboard and discover they've all lied and you, being the new person, get shit upon daily with all of the work put onto you until they break you and your spirit dies a painful death. Maybe I can get a job with plants?

oh you know I love this! And yes - you can have that kind of impact! You're both beautiful difference-makers. Fun to see you play with this 'urban myth' 😀 Here's to self compassion - and thinking about what we share! Cheering you on, Kerrie

I love the saying “we attract what we are not not what we want” That really resonated with my soul.

Yes balance in your life is key to not feel too miserable at work, you need to take a step back and not let your bad job drain you. I know it's easier said than done but this is a first step in making you don't insane and let your job ruin your life.

If I start noticing the same trends that I don't like when I'm moving jobs, it means job culture is a mess. Half of tiktok is talking about quiet quitting and lazy girl jobs and generally how they hate work. They work in all different fields all over the world and all say the same things. We have a management culture that underpays you, overworks you, doesn't care about you, rewards you with donuts instead of money or time off, promises you the world and gives no real opportunities and we will never reach retirement age. "everyone hates their job", people say, but why should we accept this? We deserve better than that. It's not a gift, it's a broken system

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I like how you said, that if you come across the same problems every time you change youre workplace, that this is a gift. It tells you something deeply about you. I always thought, something is wrong with me, cause I didn't fit in. Now I see it as a gift. I am born to run my own business, and I hate it, when somebody decides over my time and tells me what to do. I hate to work for somebody and making them richer.

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Absolutely correct. I hate mind numbing factory jobs, anxiety ridden jobs and found I love Entrepreneurial Work. I work myself and with customers. 😊 Done deal, that's how I roll from now on.

It's funny so I'm not a Baby Boomer but I am a Gen X'er, if you ever said I hate my job to the average Baby Boomer they would probably say..."everyone hates their job, you're not suppose to like your job. A fulfilling job that fits you is only in the movies...bad, unrealistic movies and anyone who says they love their job is in denial or lying or has no life" And Gen X'ers believed Baby Boomers when they said this. Not sure if I can deal with a generation who thinks going to a job should be fulfilling or the center of your life. Good luck.

This is a misleading title. Obviously if someone hates every job they find, it’s them not the job. That is a very specific case though. This should be “what to do when you hate every job you start”. I don’t think most people are on that boat.

I was in my last job as an x-ray tech for about 5 years. I loved my job but wasn't getting anywhere professionally. I decided to leave, and through some real internal searching concluded that schedule, work/life balance, opportunity, and good co-workers were what I really wanted in a new job. I took a role as a business development representative about 5 months ago.. All was good in the beginning. The role has changed at least 4 times in 4 months, and we've already changed management. Expectations have not been clearly define. The job has basically morphed into a self-starter cold call sales job which is the last thing in the world I want to do. I love the company, the culture, and the people. I've been holding on, but this role is simply not for me. I'm debating what to do moving forward, but I can't stay in this role for the year they want me to for a transfer. I wish it wasn't this hard...

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💖💖💖amazing advice

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Hi Andrea! Thanks for this video. I have a new coworker in a patient care facility who tends to be very pushy, bossy, and no one likes to work with her. As I said she is new but she acts as though she’s sort of in charge of everybody else- even those who have a superior role to hers in the patient care setting. I try to be nice but I think she takes advantage of that. For example we might be cleaning a procedure room after we have finished a procedure and she will start bossing me around, telling me to do certain things for her. I will often do what she tells me because I like to be easy-going, but it happens enough that I definitely feel taken advantage of. What are some specific things I can say to her that will let her know I want to be friendly but she is not my boss and I’m not always going to do what she wants? Thank you so much💕

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SUPER FUNNY!!!!

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I love it and yessss EMBRACE IT ALL. ur feelings are there for a reason. maybe ur calling also has a lot to do with being a mother it most definitely do and u raising up ur kid with the knowledge u clearly allow urself to have is a beautiful thing to live a true desired life where u balance all of ur things in the exact way you want to do them. to be able to be the bigger person in ur life and take care of everything that comes up in it in the most greatest way without resentment for self and others but the actual resilience of being stronger then human emotion and using it to just "improve" in ur very own way. thanks for sharing love it😚💅🏽🥰😘

End of last year I walked into what I thought was "the best role of my career thus far". Everything aligned perfectly on the outside from the interviews up to the start date. On day 1 alone, supervisor unleashed the "Yeeeah so the truth about this role" and it has been downhill since. I realized quickly before the end of week 2 it wasn't a good fit-No proper onboarding, no SOPs/documentation, and colleagues were getting upset that I was asking questions on how to be successful in the role (although they told me if I had any questions to just ask). I'm still at the job hanging on by a thread thinking/hoping things will get better...

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Thanks so much for watching! What would you add to the list of ways to STOP growth mindset before it starts?! What are your favorite ways to keep from growing?

Awesome! This was hilarious, interesting, and convicting at the same time. Not sure how to react. For now, I'm choosing laughing and self-reflection.. check on me later.

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WOW! Hilarious 😂

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I loved this. Recently, I started using the language 'inner critic' and 'inner child'. It's become my way to personify my creativity, my compassion, the limiting beliefs, insecurities, self-sabotage, etc. So I'm constantly checking in with my inner child and my inner critic. And your explanation here is providing some clarity for me around the relationships I have with my inner critic and inner child. Lately, I ask myself when I check in: "who is at the wheel right now - my inner critic or my inner child?'. Almost like this dualistic inquiry. But your examples and analogies in this video are somehow giving me the encouragement and almost permission to allow BOTH to be at the wheel. Is this possible? Who knows! But this is good food for thought for me. Thanks for inspiring this food for thought.

I've watched quite a few videos on this very topic and this one was the best so far! And I'm not even a millennial! 🤣Thank you for the reminder of being conscious of what I'm putting out there. I agree with you on this, there is something else I need to figure out. I already have a career but since the pandemic my career has slowed down tremendously and because me & my husband had moved to a small town a while ago, I've been looking for something PT just to fill in the winter months. And nothing is hitting it for me. It's an interesting journey for sure. Well done on this video!

3 weeks in but i cant help feel guilty, its even a miracle i got this job.. feeling like i should be so grateful but since the first day i’ve had doubts and thought this position is so wrong for me. havin a crisis..

Ah, im sorry, but this just doesnt.. i better go check my horoscope after this.. c'mon..

Just changed my job due to salary, but found not a good fit and incapable to do well in future in new job during the probation period.... Already resigned, currently looking for vacancy 🥲 wish me gd luck! And Ur so pretty 😍

I just started a job as an RBT and....yeah I am not digging it. 18 an hour, but the hours are low with very unrealistic expectations and they already sent me to a client with a severely roach infested home. I refused to work in that home, and I feel like my coworkers look down on me for it. Like I'm a snob for not wanting to bring roaches home. All I ever wanted to do was write or act or make a movie. But you can't really survive on dreams so I jobhop. And I'm so tired of doing that.

I agree job hoping isn't ideal but if you start a new job that isn't a good fit I say just quit. Your just wasting time.