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@@prakasavigraha6104women being passively exposed to interactions doesn't change the fact that they more experienced then most men. Not every woman is more emotionally intelligent because of that but in my experience most men looking to connect with women of a higher caliber tend to have less emotional intelligence than those women. I love how me sharing truth about men's struggles with attracting women is simping these days when this has been going on and I have been talking about this across 3 decades.

@@trueheart5974 in what way?

@@Crimson.S.57 🤔 Tell me more about what you mean with this statement.

@@reynoldhyde2124 thanks for watching! What was an insight you took away from this video?

@@alwaysandi5867 it is SO good. So many pearls of wisdom in that one book.

@@von6100 thank you 🙏🏾

@@Louse1021 that would be something 😂

@@alecmorningstar5585 💪🏾🔥

@@PreachDaBeast you know it

This is special brother. You're 100% right. Perhaps the "doing everything by yourself" story came from childhood like it did for me. Took some time for me to get rid of it but when I did, it changed my entire life. When you ask for help, people think you're asking for answers. The truth is YOU have the answers already bro. You may need help getting them out of you but telling you what to do is not how that'll happen. If you surround yourself with people who believe in you and are willing to help you by asking the right questions, you'll activate the best version of you.

Great question 🤔

We are cyclical as a society and we're already seeing a strong desire for more in-person experiences and opportunities to meet someone. We'll get there soon enough 👍🏾

It's important people pay attention to this statement here 👆🏾

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That's not a surprise. Cultural expectations and what's considered "standards" around finding a mate are different outside the US.

There's always a risk in these choices. If you're a woman and want to get married, I suggest you go for it and not wait.

This is good stuff. There's a lot in here to unpack. Science has proven that online dating favors biologically attractive people, which gives many groups of men and women of different races, ethnicities, and cultures a disadvantage. A solution here could be to go to a more niche app where you are more desired. I would agree that our over-dependence on technology has stunted our social skills over the years. I've been saying this since 2010. The last few years accelerated it even more. When you're just text messaging, you're cutting off over 50% of communication, which is through body language. Men MUST develop their social skills in order for them to have the BEST chance of meeting the kind of women they want. It won't matter how well you position yourself online, if you can't communicate and connect with women in-person. That being said, due to the fact the access of options for women have been globalized, men do need to find ways to stand out, whether it's through their photos, how they communicate, and how they present themselves. By no means does this mean that this is all on men. Women have a lot of work to do around managing this access, not letting it get to their heads, and having a delusional perspective or expectation around what a quality man truly is. But we can't control that. At the end of the day, the thing you can control the most is yourself and how you better yourself each and every day. As you better yourself and learn how to better market yourself online and off, you will become more desirable in the dating marketplace.

Thanks brother!! Experience makes the difference

Great chat brother! Can't wait to have you on mine!

It's one of the few states that can help us get there 🙂

One of the greatest conundrums of our time.

Money only amplifies the character in people. There are people in the world who may get the equivalent of a penny a day and are the most grateful people who feel the most prosperous. Prosperity is determined by your nature and mindset. Everything else is just an external reflection.

That's right. We all get a chance to do something special each day. And often times, those special things are small moments that stick with us for a lifetime.

Thanks man! What insight stood out to you?

@@TheProfessionalWingman Introverts being suited for a more in depth 1 to 1 conversation than having multiple threads going with multiple people. It just clicked. Most people at my noisy office job do better with the latter so it just clicked.

@@harbinger3197 that's right! When you know where you're good at, that's where you can get the most out of your interactions and social situations. Glad you got that brother 💪🏾

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I question this ALL the time. I feel like society can only manage when there's a label on it to justify behavior.

@TheProfessionalWingman that's fair. But the fact that you have to cover that as a topic is quite funny.

@@huntthelasttooth yeah I like talking about interesting stuff like that. Keeps the time going haha

Thank you!! Any insights you're taking away from this one?

One of my favorite parts was when Johnathon Aslay said "Is that a woman's responsibility to educate a man on emotional experience?" because, personally, I just learned this after dating a guy who was so good at READING my emotions (without me saying anything) that was a game changer for me. I agree that overall men are not as emotionally intelligent or experienced and it's the fault of society for not encouraging men to open up about feelings, use emotional vocabulary, and ask other about feelings. Everyone is capable of learning these things (thats how we have psychologists, psychiatrists, counselors, etc.) If this kind of education was more enforced in schools at a young age...boys would grow up having the precise words to express their feelings/emotions and understand others better as they approach manhood.@@TheProfessionalWingman

@@SearchingforSage I 1000% agree. This is where the family unit can do a better job at teaching these things as I don't expect schools to focus on this anytime soon.

Appreciate you, brother!

Appreciate the 👍🏾s

I take it your experience hasn't been / wasn't a good one?

Agreed! What was your big takeaway from this one?

That's a good one 😂