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Intentional Marriages - Danielle & Russ West
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Breaking the Cycle: Managing Conflict in Relationships
Different conflict management styles can lead to misunderstandings and anxiety. #intentionalmarriages #husbandwife #marriage
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Видео
Unlock Your Relationship with the Enneagram Secrets!
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Join us as we explore the transformative journey of the Enneagram! In this engaging video, Danielle shares personal insights on how this personality assessment can enhance relationships. Discover the dynamics between different types and learn how to foster compassion in your connections. Don't miss the assessment quiz in the description! #intentionalmarriages #husbandwife #marriage
The Secret to Apologizing Effectively at Home!
Просмотров 224 месяца назад
The Secret to Apologizing Effectively at Home!
How Expectations Are Ruining My Marriage
Просмотров 394 месяца назад
How Expectations Are Ruining My Marriage
Unlocking Intimacy: The Power of Scheduling Connection
Просмотров 135 месяцев назад
Unlocking Intimacy: The Power of Scheduling Connection
FRUSTRATING SITUATION: SPOUSE WON'T HELP OUT! (personal story included)
Просмотров 129Год назад
FRUSTRATING SITUATION: SPOUSE WON'T HELP OUT! (personal story included)
UNHAPPY MARRIAGE? IT COULD BE YOU - SHOCKING TWIST REVEALED (Personal story shared)
Просмотров 124Год назад
UNHAPPY MARRIAGE? IT COULD BE YOU - SHOCKING TWIST REVEALED (Personal story shared)
HOW TO COMMUNICATE MORE EFFECTIVELY WITH YOUR PARTNER (Avoid these 4 mistakes)
Просмотров 88Год назад
HOW TO COMMUNICATE MORE EFFECTIVELY WITH YOUR PARTNER (Avoid these 4 mistakes)
10 EXAMPLES OF SETTING BOUNDARIES IN MARRIAGE (Unpopular Opinions)
Просмотров 531Год назад
10 EXAMPLES OF SETTING BOUNDARIES IN MARRIAGE (Unpopular Opinions)
WHY COUPLES COUNSELING IS RESISTED (5 counterpoints)
Просмотров 39Год назад
WHY COUPLES COUNSELING IS RESISTED (5 counterpoints)
ANSWERING CHALLENGING MARRIAGE QUESTIONS (15 top marriage concerns)
Просмотров 117Год назад
ANSWERING CHALLENGING MARRIAGE QUESTIONS (15 top marriage concerns)
MARRIAGE COUNSELING FOR TROUBLED COUPLES (3 questions to think about)
Просмотров 98Год назад
MARRIAGE COUNSELING FOR TROUBLED COUPLES (3 questions to think about)
MARRIAGE ADVICE FOR CRISIS COUPLES (3 ways to avoid becoming a Troubled Couple)
Просмотров 912 года назад
MARRIAGE ADVICE FOR CRISIS COUPLES (3 ways to avoid becoming a Troubled Couple)
MONEY AND MARRIAGE PROBLEMS (WAYS TO BUILD WEALTH)
Просмотров 392 года назад
MONEY AND MARRIAGE PROBLEMS (WAYS TO BUILD WEALTH)
AVOID EMPTY NEST SYNDROME (3 RECOMMENDATIONS)
Просмотров 492 года назад
AVOID EMPTY NEST SYNDROME (3 RECOMMENDATIONS)
UNHAPPY MARRIAGE SIGNS (avoid these mistakes!)
Просмотров 852 года назад
UNHAPPY MARRIAGE SIGNS (avoid these mistakes!)
HOW TO PREVENT ARGUMENTS WITH YOUR HUSBAND (Feel Closer!)
Просмотров 783 года назад
HOW TO PREVENT ARGUMENTS WITH YOUR HUSBAND (Feel Closer!)
FEELING INVISIBLE WITH MY HUSBAND (Best way to be seen)
Просмотров 3243 года назад
FEELING INVISIBLE WITH MY HUSBAND (Best way to be seen)
HOW TO FIX A MARRIAGE BEFORE GIVING UP (7 ways to make love last)
Просмотров 1113 года назад
HOW TO FIX A MARRIAGE BEFORE GIVING UP (7 ways to make love last)
MARRIAGE ADVICE FOR WIVES (Avoid the Disney Effect!)
Просмотров 1303 года назад
MARRIAGE ADVICE FOR WIVES (Avoid the Disney Effect!)
MY HUSBAND WANTS A DIVORCE HOW DO I CHANGE HIS MIND? (Unique Approach)
Просмотров 4483 года назад
MY HUSBAND WANTS A DIVORCE HOW DO I CHANGE HIS MIND? (Unique Approach)
HOW TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY WITH YOUR HUSBAND (Avoid these 4 Disrespectful Approaches)
Просмотров 1143 года назад
HOW TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY WITH YOUR HUSBAND (Avoid these 4 Disrespectful Approaches)
NO CONTACT AFTER ARGUMENT IS A BAD IDEA (Do this instead!)
Просмотров 943 года назад
NO CONTACT AFTER ARGUMENT IS A BAD IDEA (Do this instead!)
HE DOESN'T LOVE ME ANYMORE WHAT DO I DO? (5 game-changing suggestions)
Просмотров 753 года назад
HE DOESN'T LOVE ME ANYMORE WHAT DO I DO? (5 game-changing suggestions)
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND IN MARRIAGE (Should you?)
Просмотров 1643 года назад
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND IN MARRIAGE (Should you?)
ANGER MANAGEMENT HELP IN YOUR MARRIAGE (The emotion behind anger)
Просмотров 2813 года назад
ANGER MANAGEMENT HELP IN YOUR MARRIAGE (The emotion behind anger)
ANGER MANAGEMENT TECHNIQUES THAT WORK IN MARRIAGE (Pay Attention to the Tension)
Просмотров 843 года назад
ANGER MANAGEMENT TECHNIQUES THAT WORK IN MARRIAGE (Pay Attention to the Tension)
HOW TO DEAL WITH FRUSTRATION WITH YOUR HUSBAND (Unique Technique)
Просмотров 653 года назад
HOW TO DEAL WITH FRUSTRATION WITH YOUR HUSBAND (Unique Technique)
DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS WITH MY HUSBAND (WHAT TO SAY!)
Просмотров 1143 года назад
DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS WITH MY HUSBAND (WHAT TO SAY!)
Thanks your husband is exactly how I feel…this is perfect
Why wd a 40yr hubby withdraw, blocks wife and ignores or shouts when you make a request. Am from kenya
We all have a style when we get flooded (our reaction when we get stressed.) It's important that both partners work on emotional safety. This shows up in how we make a request but also how the spouse reacts to the spouse. Here's a link that further describes more about emotional safety and what to do: www.intentionalmarriages.net/offers/wUPpY98x
I have never heard of this, but it's accurate. Thank you, Danielle!
Unfortunately, it’s all too common.
Such great advice! Thank you, Danielle! Hope you are having a great day!
Thanks for watching! 🥰 Let me know if there any additional topics you’d be interested in?
What if I’m ignored 4days up to a month depending on how upset he is . I feel I have tried everything it’s painful and torturous
Hi Priscilla, being ignored is incredibly painful. I'm on the receiving end of a family member ignoring me so I understand how it feels. In my marriage, I'm like your husband and I'm the one who shuts down. I used to do this for way too long to my husband. What I understand today is it was my coping skill. When we get emotionally flooded we either fight, flee or freeze. What do you do when you get upset? When I would disengage from the conversation I thought I was being the nice one. And I would never come back to the conversation. It was just too awkward. We have a document that describes the 13 ways to be emotionally safe. www.intentionalmarriages.net/offers/wUPpY98x Perhaps you and your husband can go through it and practice being emotionally safe with each other. Please feel free to email me if you have any further questions. danielle@intentionalmarriages.net
Thank you for this great content. Exactly what I was looking for and great examples
Thanks for sharing your feedback, Dana!
Do you have any suggestions on how you get your spouse to help out? Share with us!
This video is an insightful look at self-awareness and commitment to bettering a marriage. Thanks, @life-is-here
Many thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts!
Have you identified your emotional wounds and correlate them to your behavior today? Email me if you'd like to learn more: danielle@intentionalmarriages.net
What would your marriage look like if you could communicate more effectively? Need some guidance? Email me at danielle@intentionalmarriages.net to learn about how we can help you increase the peace.
Do these boundaries sound extreme to you? Which ones would you be willing to implement?
Does your spouse resist going to counseling? Try a different approach in meeting with a couple. Send en email to danielle@intentionalmarriages.net
Which question was your favorite? Have one you'd like to be answered? Email us at danielle@intentionalmarriages.net.
If you find yourself troubled in your marriage don't let any more time pass you by. Email us at danielle@intentionalmarriages.net
Do you know couples who could benefit from counseling but are afraid to go? Share this video with them.
Will you be putting any of these financial suggestions into action?
Have you ever heard of the Grey Divorce?
You're back! Well, you were back for a little bit. We miss your videos and great wisdom. We hope you find time to start back up your videos. They're so helpful.
Yes, it’s been a constant on my to do list. Thank you for the encouragement. I promise there will be consistency next year. Merry Christmas!!
I don’t even ask him to do anything. Because I know it’s a waste of time. I can’t even get him to take the trash out. One time I had a bag by the front door. For him to take it out he picked it up and moved it out of his way. The trash can is in front of his truck. The sad part is he did it in front of his mother. And she was surprised 😮at what he did. 😡 his own brother can see how he treats me and he doesn’t like it. I try to treat him like a king. and I feel like the person who cleans up after the horses.
Sounds very frustrating! I find my husband can be so hyperfocused on what he needs to do that he looks past really obvious things like what your partner did with the trash. Have you tried the approach suggested in the video? Let me know your thoughts! ~Danielle PS - Thanks for subscribing.
5223 times for me 😆. I will try this advice though.
@sidhoney 😄 Obviously be patient with the process. Let me know how it works for you.
Thank you
Thanks for watching, Michael.
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This is very true. Sometimes I look mad, but in reality I'm doing it unconsciously while thinking about something
Same! I look mad when I'm simply hyperfocused.
Easily the best conversations we have together are the ones that surround Hopes, Dreams, & Aspirations. Great video! We can't wait for the Marriage Date Night! 🙌❤💍
Russ would be a buzzkill during these talks so I taught him how to say "eventually." It's not a yes but it's not a no. haha! And thanks again for coming to the Marriage Date Night!! It's going to be so much fun!!
What an inspiring & informative video - very well presented. Stay blessed!
Many thanks, Leonard! Blessings to you, as well!
“Emotionally flooded” sadly this happened to me, I went down the negative mental rabbit hole which in the space of 3 weeks broke up from the best relationship I had. Once done, pressure was off, I could then see a compromise but then realised I lost someone special… and she got a new partner 3 weeks later 🤣
It's so difficult to stop reacting in the moment when we are flooded. Our brain gets hijacked by our amygdala and all love an dlogic leaves our brain. I'm sorry you experienced this and lost someone special.
"It's healthy right?" This isn't obviously true. Not to me. Maybe for some.
You’re right…maybe for some. Thanks for the watch, Stan!
Appreciate your video😊Thanks for Sharing👍
Thanks for watching!
Yes
I’m scared and I saw this video because I really wanna save my marriage. I’ve made mistakes I’ve sinned but I’m trying to fix this by going to counseling but I’m not sure she wants to fight anymore
Forgive me for not seeing your comment sooner. Are you both going to counseling?
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Hello dear 💐🤗... Another beautiful sharing 💐... This is so true... I absolutely agreed and I absolutely love it ❤️.. Thanks for sharing this with us ❤️ Another big Big like thumbs up 👍👍👍 Take care... See you again on next video 📷📸📸 Keep intouch 👍 Luiz here again 🤗🎄🎄🎄⭐🎄⭐🎄⭐🎸🎸🎸🎄🎄🎄⭐🎄
Thank you for stopping by! Merry Christmas!!
Wives, does it feel like your marriage has turned into more of a roommate situation? Tired of the communication tension or lack of communication? Learn the step-by-step formula on how to reconnect. Want to learn more? We are now accepting applications. Book a call: intentionalmarriages.net/book-a-call/
This is incredible. I knew this existed but I didn't know what it was called or that it was an actual syndrome. I have also found that movies, TV and music like this can be somewhat idolatrous....like, why am I making this man an idol, again?
It's so subtle and insidious how it creeps into our subconscious. The way to counteract is to be vulnerable and ask for what you need. Thanks for your feedback, Tiffani!
Thanks for tweeting encouragement into my space; et tu.
We appreciate YOU, Steve!! Thanks for watching and sharing!!
Good night I need help my wife is seeing another man and she say he is her frind and she is not leaving her friend could you help me and she say we don't have no connection between us
@@AdderleyStfleur I pray for insight and comfort and healing and divine guidance over your life and all of your lives.
How are you doing Adderley? Somehow I missed the notification of your comment. My apologies.
@@AdderleyStfleur I'm assuming you didn't see my comment below. How are things?
Wives, does it feel like your marriage has turned into more of a roommate situation? Tired of the communication tension or lack of communication? Learn the step-by-step formula on how to reconnect. Want to learn more? We are now accepting applications. Book a call: intentionalmarriages.net/book-a-call/
Hello dear 💐🙋.... Another beautiful day 💐 Lovely very interesting video sharing ❤️👍 I really enjoyed it. I absolutely love it.. and I totally agreed... Well I'm not married yet but this is great sharing 👌👌👌👌 Thanks for sharing this with us giving another a big Big like thumbs up 👍👍👍👍👍 See you again on next video 📷❤️ Take care everyone in there and have a wonderful day ahead 💐 Luiz here 🤗❤️🎸🎵🎶 Hope keep intouch ❤️🤗
Thank you! You too! We appreciate you watching and your kind comment.
Wives, does it feel like your marriage has turned into more of a roommate situation? Tired of the communication tension or lack of communication? Learn the step-by-step formula on how to reconnect. Want to learn more? We are now accepting applications. Book a call: intentionalmarriages.net/book-a-call/
Great share, you've touched on some very valid points. You're right if you want to have an extraordinary marriage you have to be intentional!
Thanks for the encouraging words, Leonard! Being intentional takes work but the payoff is profound.
Wives, does it feel like your marriage has turned into more of a roommate situation? Tired of the communication tension or lack of communication? Learn the step-by-step formula on how to reconnect. Want to learn more? We are now accepting applications. Book a call: intentionalmarriages.net/book-a-call/
Great advice, thank you!! Concise video and kept my attention. Examples were all easy to understand and they all resonated with me. I will work on these in my marriage, as well as personal life and professional world. Thank you!
Thanks so much for watching and sharing your thoughts, Susan! I appreciate your feedback!! These antidotes have really helped our communication.
You and Russ have a passion and a commitment to remind us and instruct us to love one another. You give us tools and examples which we can understand and connect to and you are not shy to vulnerably confess your own weaknesses in order to help us get it and encourage us to give healing and improvement a try. Maybe the two of you should consider getting cloned.
Haha, you're the best, Steve! We have been freed up because we spent years in couples counseling and volunteering to lead a marriage curriculum and desire for other couples to experience the same freedom we have now. It doesn't mean we don't experience conflict...we simply have the tools to manage it better. Thanks for your encouragement!
Wives, does it feel like your marriage has turned into more of a roommate situation? Tired of the communication tension or lack of communication? Learn the step-by-step formula on how to reconnect. Want to learn more? We are now accepting applications. Book a call: intentionalmarriages.net/book-a-call/
Wives, does it feel like your marriage has turned into more of a roommate situation? Tired of the communication tension or lack of communication? Learn the step-by-step formula on how to reconnect. Want to learn more? We are now accepting applications. Book a call: intentionalmarriages.net/book-a-call/
This is so interestingly beautiful sharing ❤️ It's a lovely very interesting great sharing 👌👌👌👌👌 Thanks for sharing this with us ❤️ I really love it ❤️ Giving another a big Big like thumbs up 👍👍👍👍👍 See you again on next video 📸 Luiz here 🤗 Keep intouch ❤️🤗🎸
Thank you! Cheers!
Wives, does it feel like your marriage has turned into more of a roommate situation? Tired of the communication tension or lack of communication? Learn the step-by-step formula on how to reconnect. Want to learn more? We are now accepting applications. Book a call: @t
Wives, does it feel like your marriage has turned into more of a roommate situation? Tired of the communication tension or lack of communication? Learn the step-by-step formula on how to reconnect. Want to learn more? We are now accepting applications. Book a call: intentionalmarriages.net/book-a-call/
These are amazing suggestions, especially the tip about keeping things private and not sharing with family and friends. Thanks for sharing this impactful video, cheers!
Thanks Adriana! I'm the private one in the relationship. Russ is the open book so it's been an adjustment for him! Thanks for watching. xo
Wives, does it feel like your marriage has turned into more of a roommate situation? Tired of the communication tension or lack of communication? Learn the step-by-step formula on how to reconnect. Want to learn more? We are now accepting applications. Book a call: intentionalmarriages.net/book-a-call/
Hello dear 💐🙋... Another very interesting video ❤️📸 Thanks for sharing this with us ❤️ I really love your video it's amazing... It's really a great sharing 👌👌👌👌 Big Big like thumbs up 👍👍👍👍 And big Big thanks for sharing this message with us ❤️ See you again take care everyone in there and have a wonderful day ahead 💐 Luiz here 😊 Keep intouch 🙏❤️
Thank you so much! 🙂
@@IntentionalMarriages thanks too.see U again keep intouch ❤️👍
Thank you for the excellent explanation! 🥰 I love how you framed the "Am I good enough". That one hits deep. 👀❤️
Aww, hi Naza!! Missed seeing your beautiful face. Thanks for watching and sharing your reaction. Understanding what my husband is really experiencing has helped me build up compassion instead of irritation. xoxo