Kalman Dong
Kalman Dong
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You need to stop taking things so personally
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It doesn't really matter if you are truly comfortable with yourself and your journey. “Nothing is burdensome if taken lightly, and nothing need arouse one's irritation so long as one doesn't make it bigger than it is by getting irritated.” ― Lucius Annaeus Seneca, Letters from a Stoic
realizing that everyone is also just trying to figure it out
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It is completely okay to be exactly where you are right now. It is okay to not have it figured out. We are here to experience, grow, and become. Embrace the uncertainty and chaos of life. This is what makes life exciting!
Your direction in life matters more than how fast you are
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Picking the right direction is far more important. Progress over speed. Continue putting the pieces together for this puzzle we call life. Remember that progress is nonlinear and allow yourself to learn from mistakes. Keep on going, you got this, I'm proud of you!
Learning to forgive myself and others
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To forgive is to choose the other side of resentment which is wisdom.
Living in the present moment is key
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The present is the only time. If you don’t start living in it, you don't really live at all. If you’re present, you’ll realize how many gifts and how much abundance there is around us at all times. That’s all you really need to do.
Become your authentic self
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Staying true to yourself is key! Take a chance and let people accept you for who you really are. Unwind your mind and train your soul to align.
You should still do it with fear (what fear is really telling you)
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Remind yourself that fear is actually the shadow side to what you love. Fear is an indicator that something is worthwhile and powerful. Just get started, even if you have fear.
an honest conversation to my younger self
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What you learn and who you become is more important than how you temporarily feel. Trust me, it gets better with time!
Accepting Changes In Life
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Yes, we are always going through changes. And there is a way to accept. Keep on growing and evolving!
Stop Beating Yourself Up (do this instead)
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learning to be more forgiving and self-compassionate
Meditation Is Healing My Brain (unexpected)
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i've been using the waking up app. very good stuff. I hope you enjoy!
Staying Consistent Will Unlock Your Potential
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some encouragement, you got this!
Reading Is Healing My Brain
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reading is fascinating! thanks for watching, please share your favorite reads or what you are currently reading below in the comments... What I'm currently reading: 1) Tao Te Ching 2) The Gay Science 3) The Wealth of Nations 4) Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep? 5) The Essential Jung 6) Eastern Body, Western Mind
Detach Yourself from the Outcome
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This principle has fundamentally changed my life. In detachment lies the wisdom of uncertainty . . . in the wisdom of uncertainty lies the freedom from our past, from the known, which is the prison of past conditioning. And in our willingness to step into the unknown, the field of all possibilities, we surrender ourselves to the creative mind that orchestrates the dance of the universe. - Deepa...
The Most Important Relationship in Your Life.
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The Most Important Relationship in Your Life.
Journaling Has Changed My Life. (here's why)
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Journaling Has Changed My Life. (here's why)
Living in NYC: Central Park Vlog
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Living in NYC: Central Park Vlog
The Untold Reality of Relationships
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The Untold Reality of Relationships
People Watching: Greatest Park in The World
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People Watching: Greatest Park in The World
Pullup Challenge
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Pullup Challenge
Overcoming My Porn Addiction | What I wish I knew earlier
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Overcoming My Porn Addiction | What I wish I knew earlier
Day in the Life Working in Private Equity | remote edition - NYC
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Day in the Life Working in Private Equity | remote edition - NYC
Stop Caring About What Others Think
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Stop Caring About What Others Think
I'm Running A Marathon.
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I'm Running A Marathon.
POV: You're Biking in New York City
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POV: You're Biking in New York City
The Art of Loving
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The Art of Loving
Full Chest & Shoulder Workout | Grow WIDE FAST + Dinner
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Full Chest & Shoulder Workout | Grow WIDE FAST Dinner
Day in the Life Working in Private Equity - NYC
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Day in the Life Working in Private Equity - NYC

Комментарии

  • @davidrock65
    @davidrock65 6 часов назад

    You look buff 😊

  • @coolp-l7m
    @coolp-l7m 4 дня назад

    felt this to the soul! good stuff man.

  • @davidrock65
    @davidrock65 5 дней назад

    Such eye candy

  • @RichardAlrachid
    @RichardAlrachid 6 дней назад

    needed this one - have had such a negative mindset and looked at this next decade with a sort of dread and feeling of being under pressure, when really I should be excited. This was very refreshing. I had a similar experience a few days ago: I was walking out of the grocery store and the sun hit me in a way that just brought me right back to the playground in elementary school. It felt hard to breathe for a while. I was so overwhelmed with thankfulness for the fact that I am where I am now. I know this is a video for your future self, but I really want to say thank you for this video. Good luck in your next decade :)

  • @imalexwang
    @imalexwang 7 дней назад

    enjoyed listening to this bro!

  • @davidrock65
    @davidrock65 9 дней назад

    You look so sexy ❤

  • @oliverbasch6817
    @oliverbasch6817 10 дней назад

    This was truly beautiful and I’m shocked by the view count. Keep doing what you’re doing man it’s honestly life changing.

  • @davidrock65
    @davidrock65 13 дней назад

    Love ❤

  • @KatashiTheFox
    @KatashiTheFox 14 дней назад

    Hey bro I love your channel and I decided to subscribe because I love the positive energy from it.

  • @bmw871011
    @bmw871011 15 дней назад

    bro, ngmi lol

  • @davidrock65
    @davidrock65 15 дней назад

    You should show your nice legs ☺️

  • @alexgarin7490
    @alexgarin7490 15 дней назад

    Dope vid brotha.

  • @JohnKantor-2004
    @JohnKantor-2004 15 дней назад

    Bro these vidoes rock! Keep on keeping on

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 15 дней назад

      thanks! appreciate you!

  • @sjonuff
    @sjonuff 16 дней назад

    "What's on the other side of fear is your authentic, true life, that you are here to live - that you are here to express - that you are here to share with people.". "The other side of fear is love."

  • @clocksyn
    @clocksyn 16 дней назад

    love the message and the authenticity

  • @ayoubfrk3583
    @ayoubfrk3583 17 дней назад

    Awesome you speak from the hearth,from france 🇫🇷 ❤

  • @RichardAlrachid
    @RichardAlrachid 17 дней назад

    I liked this a lot. I think you made a very important distinction in the definition of "achievement" on an individual level rather than one determined by eternal factors/valuations. I think it goes hand in hand with how people, including myself, sometimes wish for this "overnight success" story - one predicated on outcomes and not processes. In reality, you can't learn a lesson from words on a page or in a video, because unless you first experience them how can they truly resonate with you. In the same vein, you have to be present in your own journey, feel it all, and keep going forward in order for what really is the end to mean something when you get there. Loved this. Questions: 1. What does it mean to love? 2. How do you overcome anger?

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 15 дней назад

      thanks richard! great ideas. will make videos on it!

  • @purplecloud2
    @purplecloud2 17 дней назад

    wow wow i've been in a similar situation to start a channel but i just haven't stepped out of my block, although i feel like it's soon. so i added ur video to my playlist cuz i feel like the future me who is already on the other side, will one day see this video and laugh at how scared i was. also i still kinda feel ur a bit scared (maybe it's my own projection), but still, i didn't mind at all bc i see ur trying and ur message is valuable and it feels authentic. this just comforted me bc i was so scared to be vulnarable to a guy i was dating but still, i did it scared. his reaction is not the best but seeing u is almost like seeing me at that time. and now i can finally accept my behaviour even if i didn't do it in the most confident way, i love how authentic i was plus i only spread love so it should be something to celebrate. plus better guys will come to my life who will respond to my nervous vulnerability well! thank u for helping my path

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 15 дней назад

      thanks for sharing, glad to help!

  • @MrBurnoutLegend
    @MrBurnoutLegend 18 дней назад

    for some reason that looks like calgary but i know its not. your video helps clarify and solidify other people's relationships with fear in terms of overcoming it. i think some of us become aware that we need to overcome fear or at least do things regardless of the fear we have after living so many years letting your fear repress ourselves, your video helps clarify that intuitive urge and also i think helps start the path of overcoming fear for others who haven't yet.

  • @davidrock65
    @davidrock65 18 дней назад

    You have nice legs

  • @theresalawrence156
    @theresalawrence156 18 дней назад

    Is this Palm Springs?

  • @muhammadafifsukiman1246
    @muhammadafifsukiman1246 19 дней назад

    You don't need to wear dress/ formal shoes to work? That's nice! And fun!!

  • @danielxzhang
    @danielxzhang 19 дней назад

    keep it up brother, you're going places :)

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 19 дней назад

      thanks brotha for the encouragement!

    • @will-la
      @will-la 19 дней назад

      Old soul for a 19 year old. Much love. Looking forward to more videos

  • @tysengasper
    @tysengasper 20 дней назад

    I’ve been binging your videos lately. I find we have a lot of like minded thoughts and just the overall outlook on life is similar

  • @tysengasper
    @tysengasper 20 дней назад

    man these videos help me get through cardio lol

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 19 дней назад

      hahahha, anything to get through cardio!

  • @now.here.be.
    @now.here.be. 20 дней назад

    melbounreeee??? 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @dowonkim1334
    @dowonkim1334 20 дней назад

    The boy is bacckkkkkkk

  • @ildzbildz4
    @ildzbildz4 20 дней назад

    I subscribed cuz I appreciate your effort. I'm 40 on Monday and people need to hear this stuff. Keep it up dude!

  • @ryan.is.myname
    @ryan.is.myname 20 дней назад

    New subscriber here 😍

  • @EthanA-h4f
    @EthanA-h4f 21 день назад

    Honestly I this opened my eyes to the fact, I'm still very young and shouldn't be worrying to much about what I do in the future. Thanks for finding yourself into my recommended.

  • @sabinips
    @sabinips 21 день назад

    Thank you !

  • @rahulmistry5019
    @rahulmistry5019 21 день назад

    i am fearful of age ... i am 30 and this year i realized i have hit rock bottom, getting kicked everywhere i go, no respect, no friends, no life. So i want to turn things around, the opportunities for next year are 2-3 months away at max and I am procrastinating based on fear and uncertainty - should i continue with what I have or should i start believing and go for it? My fear is not what others will think of me ... or the fear of hitting the gym, my fear is more from uncertainty. I have thought about taking the first step for months now but I keep procrastinating. very nice video btw, felt organic and came to my feed at the right time . "Do it scared"

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 20 дней назад

      you got this! thank you!

  • @princesslady93
    @princesslady93 22 дня назад

    Without fear you become reckless!

  • @christopherle3902
    @christopherle3902 22 дня назад

    thank you kalman for this video! i appreciate you being transparent about how disappointment exists and that it's okay to just accept to live in peace :)

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 20 дней назад

      thank you christopher!

  • @NBurnhoney
    @NBurnhoney 23 дня назад

    I love humanity we all so alike

  • @silaslovespeace7398
    @silaslovespeace7398 23 дня назад

    love is the fear of pain so embrace the pain

  • @maxatilio861
    @maxatilio861 25 дней назад

    Yo kalman! Great video especially for a new one, you are really well prepared and I liked the video! as your 400 th sub I would like to wish you great 🍀! If I can give a small feedback on a even smaller detail: the music was a little loud around 9:00 when you were talking about private equity so it was sometimes difficult (for me at least) to concentrate on you instead of the music. I hope to see more videos👍

  • @sarahcrites4478
    @sarahcrites4478 25 дней назад

    we are still young and will always have infinite amounts of learning to be done. this conversation can be for any age and I love seeing the topics you're talking about being discussed especially from a man's perspective. remember the words you're saying and this video can be a resource for yourself in the future as well.

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 20 дней назад

      thanks for sharing! you are right!

  • @houremad901
    @houremad901 26 дней назад

    it will be more good if you just decrease the background music so we can hear your talks more clearly. and you are really doing great work, it is really require alot of courage to take a step like this.

  • @carterbryanpiano
    @carterbryanpiano 26 дней назад

    Hey Kalman, thanks for this video. I am moving to NYC soon to start at Manhattan School of Music. Just wanted to share something else that has helped me-I have started doing 10 pushups whenever an urge like this comes, and I’ve noticed that the short burst of exercise makes any temptation go away. And if it comes back, just do another 10 pushups. This has helped me tremendously so I thought i’d share

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 20 дней назад

      good stuff Carter! thanks for sharing!

  • @stefanbezuidenhout137
    @stefanbezuidenhout137 27 дней назад

    at 1:01 check the little girl’s kick on the right hand side👧🏼⚽️

  • @faces-of-love
    @faces-of-love 27 дней назад

    dope vid! appreciate your expression cheers

  • @chastonmatta
    @chastonmatta 28 дней назад

    Awesome video man. Thanks for being genuine in your video.

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 27 дней назад

      thanks for the kind words!

  • @imeldaramirez1320
    @imeldaramirez1320 Месяц назад

    "Follow that inner voice that you know, aligns with what you want to do." I really loved that <3 Thank you for sharing a piece of your mind with the world. Its people like you that make earth more exciting to pursue goals. So seriously thank you for sharing :)

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 27 дней назад

      thanks for watching, im glad you enjoyed!

  • @hhaydenshea
    @hhaydenshea Месяц назад

    thought this was singapore for a moment bro

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 27 дней назад

      hahaha, maybe in the future

  • @zagrosqazy3798
    @zagrosqazy3798 Месяц назад

    You actually helped. Thank you

  • @samuelalmeida6856
    @samuelalmeida6856 Месяц назад

    Vou fazer de escrever em português para mostrar o quão longe o seu vídeo chegou. Também tenho 19 anos e agradeço pela mensagem +1 seguidor. Continue fazendo esse trabalho incrível, ainda vai ajudar muita gente. Eu tenho certeza, continue fazendo a sua parte e continue sendo paciente! Eu agradeço e que venha tudo de bom pra gente

    • @kalmandong
      @kalmandong 27 дней назад

      obrigado! Eu agradeço e que venha tudo de bom pra gente!

  • @MrNomadic.
    @MrNomadic. Месяц назад

    lets be friends we live in the city

  • @tarashore
    @tarashore Месяц назад

    so well put, thank you :)

  • @DeadSirens
    @DeadSirens Месяц назад

    Thank you for this good sir.