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Devin
Добавлен 1 мар 2023
Ancora impora.
Chasing adventure, not completion
If you have any goals, go out and make them happen
Chasing adventure, not completion
If you have any goals, go out and make them happen
How to Beat Procrastination – Productivity Tips You're Not Using
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Build Your Dream Body Course Coming Soon
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Build Your Dream Body Course Coming Soon
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Starting the gym is the best decision you’ll ever make
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Being Approachable is the Secret to Improving Social Skills
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Why your small talk is boring
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Stop surviving and start living
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She's your girlfriend, not your mommy
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How To Deal With Fear Of Failure (Actually Work Towards Your Goals)
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"I don't find anything unique about me"
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Two Ways to Become Dangerously Confident
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The Cheat Code to Stop Being Afraid of Approaching Girls
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The Secret to Reinventing Yourself
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Why People Don’t Enjoy Talking to You (And How to Fix It)
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Finding Purpose
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Your Ancestors Would be Disappointed in Your Effort
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Be grateful for where you are
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Get Rid of Gym Anxiety in 3 Simple Steps
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Get Rid of Gym Anxiety in 3 Simple Steps
Why You Still Feel Uncomfortable Around People
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Why You Still Feel Uncomfortable Around People
How to accomplish multiple goals at once
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How to accomplish multiple goals at once
If you think you can't, you are right
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If you think you can't, you are right
4 Tips to Skyrocket Your Confidence
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4 Tips to Skyrocket Your Confidence
Afraid to Start? You’re Missing This
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Afraid to Start? You’re Missing This
If you were sick you'd only want one thing
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If you were sick you'd only want one thing
For me, it's getting the work done now play later. Because I'll feel like I earned the right to relax. Another thing that helps is a small break in the middle of work (5 to 10 minutes). That way, I give myself a mental reset.
I've been working out for a while now although I'm getting stronger and in better shape, it really hasn't been helping with my self esteem and confidence because I'm a really small guy, I'm only 5'2. So alot of times I still have the gym anxiety going on, I just wish I could get rid of all of the bad feelings I have about myself, being being bullied and teased when I was younger about my height. It's also very difficult for me to meet women because most women don't like short guys.
I procrastinate so much
You should make a video about some interactions you've had at the gym / like how you got into more meaningful conversations. All of your personal examples are super relatable and are great to hear. Keep up the great videos bro
Agreed . . . I'm amazed at how much better I feel mentally and physically. I've worked out before. And while I've seen results (weight loss and endurance). The gym just offers more versatility and I've noticed I push myself harder. Plus better results overall.
Big facts
Oh well friendship with the world is enmity with G-d
Awesome video bro these tips were very helpful. I love your channel keep grinding brother.
Appreciate you bro 🤝🏻
Very useful advice, 9 mins of my life well spent, thank you Devin!
Great video bro.....
Very wise introspections
Agreed, being open minded and more engaging helps to draw people in and interact with you. I think you where mentioning this as well. Body language. Neutral or smiling face, good posture, open arms, nodding, litte things that not only reflect your paying attention, but processing the information. You can further reflect this with pertinent follow-up questions. As I've learned it's the initial interaction that can be challenging. But, once you get them talking, the continuation of interaction becomes easier (as long as they engage too).😁
Yeah I feel like that initial interaction is the hardest part for everyone haha
I won't lie. Being approachable is easier when I'm preoccupied with something. When I'm standing around with no expectations a bit of a guard comes up because I'm expecting expectations. I think expecting expectations can be one of the biggest roadblocks in a person's path. Good video!
When you are busy doing something you are present, that’s why! Expectations could cause some anxiety for sure. Appreciate you man
Men have no right to be shy.
Gotta get over it at some point
@@devmaurello for generations men have been the leaders in our society. It is a privilege to be a man.
video after video you look more handsome.
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you have some really nice looking seats bro nice video too! hahaha
Nice to know you appreciate the recording studio lol
These Gen z dudes have the attention span of a gold fish.
Good outlook
Seriously you finally said it, as a woman i want a partner i don’t want to be someone mother. Some Men are becoming less masculine and expect us to take over the other thing and then blame us for not doing stuff like their mother. Okay take over everything and i will be the cute woman again
you are cute
I get most of what you're saying. However, can we normalize leaning on your wife/gf for some support when we need it most?
Being good at small talk shows a person is not self-absorbed.
could you make a video about how girls can better talk to guys? i never know what kind of questions they’ll like to be asked. i know exactly how to small talk with girls but not with guys
Well to be honest, I couldn’t give great advice on that because I’ve never been in the position of a girl having to do that haha. Everyone is different so the things you’d talk about would differ depending on the guy. Just try to find out his interests and ask about those things. That’s the best way to get anyone talking.
@@devmaurello period tbh i guess i just assumed there were blueprint topics guys liked to talk about. but i guess its always just throwing paint at a wall and seeing what sticks. thanks <3
Great advice. The kicker for me is dating apps. I find it funny how people complain about getting "dry" texts. Assuming this means one word responses or generic Q&A banter. Seriously, you have a handful of pictures and a few tidbits of information about them. Yet your opening line is: Hi, I think you're pretty, cute, hot, attractive), how are you? Then they are shocked when they don't get a response. If you make the effort, chances are the other person will pick up on that and engage. If not, then move on. Like you said, the responsibility may not fall entirely on your shoulders. But, someone has to get the ball rolling.
That’s very true. Small talk is not the way to go on the apps haha. I guess in a sense, the pictures and prompts are a way of skipping over that.
this sounds like an issue that youd only think of if youre insecure
Test your balance by stepping out onto the edge. If you don't you'll never improve your balance. Good video!
Tell your route. You may be able to meet some of your subscribers.
I plan to once I get closer to leaving. That’d be awesome if I got to meet some more of y’all.
I recommend every man hop on at least 250 test. This video is really cringe tho man not gonna lie.
While I argue the idea of jumping from one extreme to another. I do agree that adding exhilarating experiences into your life. Even within controlled situations, i.e., a roller coaster, help you to face your fears and put things into perspective.
But someone has to replace my mom 😢
as a young woman who’s dated guys like what you’re describing, all i can say is it was exhausting being with them. i suddenly adopted a grown man without meaning to, like, how did this happen💀🫴🏻
I've seen that as well. Good topic!
With some guys, all they want from a woman is sex, and another mother. Besides the physical "service" whenever needed, he wants someone who'll have his dinner on the table, wash and iron his clothes, kiss it better when it hurts, let him go out to play with the boys...
Yep I know a guy who literally asks his girlfriend for permission to hangout with his friends and if she says no it means no haha
@devmaurello Cheerz Devin. I suppose there's nothing wrong with it _per se_ provided both are aware of it; what such a relationship is and what it isn't. 🙂xxx
Maybe you want a submissive girlfriend dynamic? Maybe she will seek a daddy vibe from you. Masculinity is not defined by patriarchy and or dominating behaviour. The same example when just men or just women also presents. One person takes the lead it does not make any of the other men less masculine/feminine. Should a man always be in the driving seat?
I’m sure most people have different views of masculinity. To me leadership is one of the most masculine traits there are. Should a man always be in the driving seat? I wouldn’t say he should always, but he should definitely be capable of it. I personally would like to always be in it.
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I think it's time to someone sheds the light on those things ❤
she likes it when i call her that tho
I don't feel the issue is testosterone. It's information overload. Family, friends, religion, social media, NEWS, etc . . . Men literally don't know how to act. Some understand what it means to take the lead. But, most are either controlling (if not outright abusive). Or just scared. All it takes is one girl's false accusation to destroy your life (not saying it's common, but again social media and NEWS). The point is this . . . Focus on yourself first. Then, start dating. For me personally with my depression and body dysmorphia. I would have been toxic Boyfriend 101. Insecure, people pleaser, who failed to take accountability, and blameshifted. Just a few of my more charming traits. Now, through personal research through valid sources, a lot of self-improvement, and emotional maturity I know what it means to be a good boyfriend. Sure I need real-life experience. But, I won't be a train wreck with emotional baggage and trauma. Falsely believing I need a relationship to be happy or love will fix me.
That could be true, but I’d make the argument it could be the opposite as well. A lot of people are never taught how they should act in that situation or just haven’t experienced the situation enough / at all to be able to teach themselves. I think it could be this or, like you mentioned information overload. I definitely agree though, men don’t know how to act. As for the testosterone issue, the reason I believe it’s part of the problem is because a higher testosterone man, more likely than not, would be okay with taking charge when necessary. Self image and personality plays a lot into it for sure though. Appreciate the perspective!
@devmaurello Fair. I can agree with lack of education also playing a factor. I think my biggest issue is testosterone. To be clear I'm not arguing that it doesn't have any impact. Just that it seems to be a catch all for alot of men. Like you said, it's a part of the problem. But, I've heard the phrase, "A low testosterone male . . ." So much that it's clear "testosterone" is the new buzz word right there with alpha. My testosterone is fine (need to test if officially) but I've had muscle growth and my sex drive is fine. My lack of "dating" was more mental than hormonal. Obviously my situation alone isn't comparable to every other man. But, I feel, in general, lack of education, lack of confidence, and lack of experience play a far greater role in the "dating" and "leadership" epidemic.
Would you ever move to the uk🇬🇧
Id love to at some point in my life
Sexy asf what's your number❤
FIRE video man, great message! 🔥🔥🔥
thank you. I appreciate your openness! keep it up :)
Thanks man, you cheered me up for moment, really appreciate it!
so relaxing seeing you talking in the car
Awesome bro.....
Hello, I saw your channel this morning and now I am one of your subscribers bro.....
Ayy appreciate you 🤝🏻
@@devmaurello Your videos are very nice and help completely.....✨🙌🏻
lives in shytholeeeee
complete puzzyyyyy.....loser
Jesus dude how does a man like you not get all the pussy in the world. Your hot man sorry have a good day