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I did too, but it was to talk with my dad kn messanger, he didn't have viber

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How?/genuine

@@kaleidoscopingme most people with ASD have a very small social battery, once they're done with social interaction any more of it is overly stimulating and stressful so much that they have to recover from it and the exhaustion tells on other parts of their lives. As you can imagine this can lead to feelings of shame like "Why can't I be normal?" "Why am I always anxious?" "I love this person but their presence frequently makes me stressed" "What is wrong with me?" "Am I sociopathic?" "Am I capable of love?" Very deep-seated feelings of shame and questions especially if they're undiagnosed. The solution most resort to is avoid social interaction altogether and shut down so they can run away from their overwhelm being triggered and these deep-seated feelings of shame that follow it. Many of them are not self-aware about this and use a "very good reason" like work, school, a hobby, passion, or a hyperfixation to suppress their very real need for human connection and convince themselves there is no problem and they're just busy, because each time they make time for it they are overwhelmed and feel ashamed. Op is self-aware enough to at least know they're not actually busy and they feel overwhelmed when people come into their space. This is why I said possibly ASD. The stress and shame about it is very real. Lots of words but I hope you get my gist. 🙏

@@kaleidoscopingme most people with ASD have a very small social battery, once they're done with social interaction any more of it is overly stimulating and stressful so much that they have to recover from it and the exhaustion tells on other parts of their lives. As you can imagine this can lead to feelings of shame like "Why can't I be normal?" "Why am I always anxious?" "I love this person but their presence frequently makes me stressed" "What is wrong with me?" "Am I sociopathic?" "Am I capable of love?" Very deep-seated feelings of shame and questions especially if they're undiagnosed. The solution most resort to is avoid social interaction altogether and shut down so they can run away from their overwhelm being triggered and these deep-seated feelings of shame that follow it. Many of them are not self-aware about this and use a "very good reason" like work, school, a hobby, passion, or a hyperfixation to suppress their very real need for human connection and convince themselves there is no problem and they're just busy, because each time they make time for it they are overwhelmed and feel ashamed. Op is self-aware enough to at least know they're not actually busy and they feel overwhelmed when people come into their space. This is why I said possibly ASD. The stress and shame about it is very real. Lots of words but I hope you get my gist.

​@@kaleidoscopingme most people with ASD have a very small social battery, once they're done with social interaction any more of it is overly stimulating and stressful so much that they have to recover from it and the exhaustion tells on other parts of their lives. As you can imagine this can lead to feelings of shame like "Why can't I be normal?" "Why am I always anxious?" "I love this person but their presence frequently makes me stressed" "What is wrong with me?" "Am I sociopathic?" "Am I capable of love?" Very deep-seated feelings of shame and questions especially if they're undiagnosed. The solution most resort to is avoid social interaction altogether and shut down so they can run away from their overwhelm being triggered and these deep-seated feelings of shame that follow it. Many of them are not self-aware about this and use a "very good reason" like work, school, a hobby, passion, or a hyperfixation to suppress their very real need for human connection and convince themselves there is no problem and they're just busy, because each time they make time for it they are overwhelmed and feel ashamed. Op is self-aware enough to at least know they're not actually busy and they feel overwhelmed when people come into their space. This is why I said possibly ASD. The stress and shame about it is very real. Lots of words but I hope you get my gist. EDIT: I keep making this comment and it keeps getting deleted.

@@kaleidoscopingme I keep making a long response to this and it keeps getting deleted. Possibly RUclips bug?

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