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Hi there! I wanted to share my opinion if that’s ok. I think the problem with RUclips is that since Afro-textured hair is unique (our hair like personalities has different characteristics), it needs to be respected that what may work for one person may not work for another. I think some YTubers tell people what they should and should not do based on what works for them. In my opinion , my hair doesn’t absorb Shea Butter well, but another woman’s can. I think we should consider that what works for one won’t work for all. We should focus on the principles (ex. our hair needs moisture, so people can choose a moisture routine that works best for them, which won’t include the same products for everyone). My hair responds well to oils (not alone of course). In all, I think we should focus on the principles of taking care of Afro-hair rather than telling people what they should and should not put in their hair. I think on most people’s journeys some things are trial and error. It took some time for me to stop using shea butter and to be quite honest, I wasn’t getting why it wasn’t working for me like I saw other women on RUclips, in which I accepted that. Shea butter gave me build up, and I used whipped shea butter, not raw, which I have seen some people use. I currently use Palm Oil and that’s working better and I’m not dealing with build up. Some more principle examples that I believe to be one-size fits all for all curly/coily folks include: - Avoiding too much heat which can lead to heat damage. - Washing your hair routinely and properly (Some women can co-wash, some women can’t. Some women wash their hair loose and some wash their hair in sections or plaits). - Wearing protective and/or low manipulation styles can help greatly with retaining length. - Moisturizing hair - Deep conditioning (as and when needed). - Sealing in moisture in some way (some women may use oil, butters, …) - Trimming ends as and when needed. Etc. I hope this makes sense. There’s a part towards the end of a poem I wrote that says this … “…Texturism is a real thing and the hair type-chart system needs to come down. Yes I said it, research the origin and you’ll see why I say do. Seek the Most High first for what you hair needs … sis, not RUclips.” (End of poem) 🌸

Hair need oil so it don’t break

I’ll preface this by saying I don’t think it’s right for people to be rude to you. I tried this method over 10 years ago with kinky curly knot today and the gel years ago before it was a thing. Not using oils was a mistake for me and short lived. Some of these statements in this video are not true, the oil is formulated into a product with emulsifiers. If you look at sheep they naturally produce lanolin (a natural emulsifier) to keep their wool conditioned. If you put oil in your hair a conditioner (which has emulsifying ingredients) would be able to remove that oil. Hair has a lipid layer naturally that is similar to lanolin. This layer is in constant jeopardy because of water, uv rays and the environment. Your hair is protein it needs lipids. Oils are not the problem the way some people use them is. Jesus talks about putting oil in your hair when fasting why would he tell people to do something that harms their hair. I think your hair is beautiful and is doing well. But I try to oil my hair everyday and my hair is doing well. Look into curl chemistry’s channel if you want.

How does your hair not have like permanent bends in it from the scrunchie

The wash and go paradox. Humph. There's no GO part after washing. Wash and Go...go deep condition, go rinse, go put on your leave in, oil/cream. Go Style. Go to bed cause gurrl! Your girl is TIRED!

Thanks for sharing beautiful 😍 cant wait to try this on the weekend

Love the video! This gave me flashbacks to middle school Pinterest diy days. I mixed an egg and hot olive oil and ended up with scrambled egg hair

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I watched your original video today and read some of the comments. Brutal! I came to your page and found this follow up video. First time viewer; thanks YT algorithm 😊. You mentioned your hair was butt length. Do you do natural videos here? Wash days? Styling tutorials? I'm finally trying to figure out "my" healthy hair journey. I'm making strides but still have a long way to go yet. Yes, I use raw oils on my entire perimeter. Years coming and I am finally seeing healing and regrowth in a major way. I do use my herb infused DIY oil on my scalp as well. Seeing fullness and density that I've never before had. That being said, I do like your stance and take on the no oils debate. Your hair is dense and gorgeous. Appreciate your content in both of these videos.

Thank you for the tip. Using rubber bands for silky ponytails. Other ties just slide right off since ultra fine hair. Forced to use tiny rubber bands like kids wear and cringing about possible damage. Very long hair. Will try the oil tip. Hot in summer. Must have ponytails 😊 Your bead style is gorgeous!

Your videos were very helpful for me. I'm so disappointed in folks' listening and reading comprehension skills. Like you, many RUclipsrs discuss the proper use of oils, butters and grease. I've see viewers take that as no oils and butters. I just shake my head at many of the comments. Don't blame others because you didn't process the information correctly.

Just found your channel! Love your vibe! ❤❤

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Her biggest oversight is that she doesn’t also see them as a lesson because she doesn’t see herself as her own main character. Even from past heartbreaks, I learned that no matter how much I love someone, I don’t wanna be with them unless they can show up healthier in my life. It’s also always almost certain that the other person new relationships is also experiencing the same problem. Yes, sometimes you’re a lesson for someone but they are also one for you :)

Girl. Your hair is stunning❤️ thank you for your content!

Thanks lovely, and vibrant Dasha. Blessed.

Omg i literally needed to see this

You’re super vague about this “protection” it almost seems like protection is “men doing want you want them to do”. Please EXACTLY, (maybe in a future video) give an example of this “protection”.

I think we do "need to go there". Its a negative cyclical effect with the starting point that majoirty of bm want to and even instincually so - want to protect and provide for bw. It has hit a point where through life advancements ladies do not trust, believe, want, or even allow bm/men to attempt to do that. You can protect someone that doesnt want to be protected. Doubly so if they dont want and dont even belive you can. As for provision, we meet the problem with fusion of current economics and the (warped*) version of the 80/20 rule. Ladies accept 80 of mens financal status but only want the 20% of men whos financial status can provide to the degree imagined by laides. This, fused with the 20% are only the 20% because of how our financial and econmmic system is, there will be the minor elites, and the remaining limited performers. So, a prevailing narrative that ladies dont trust our protection (think of man versus bear social thing going on) and a historic, current, and opposed future of financial success for bm, the ask are not even, and that fails to be taken into account. Think of the difference between "smile and be nice" and "financially provide for your family above standard expectations and give your life defending it". Alot more women can meet those expectation, through thier own effort. Alot less men can, despite thier effort. Let alone getting into the history. - And for your comment about hearing all your life not having sex, your hearing good advice. Its to not *freely* have sex with anyone, but to deeply have sex with your man. We respect the latter and produces better ladies with respect to what men want. The issue of feeling comfortable in it is either a personal or gendered issue, which needs self or gendered assistance. But to follow good guidelines to get the good guy/outcome and get disrupted in that continousness for a fear or lack of wanting is unfortunate. Take that as a man was giving out all of his time and emotional support to you during the relationship, and just stop being considerate, emotionally supportive, and even openly comminicative with you now that your the wife. I believe that wouldn't (and hasn't) gone over well.

“I feel like”

And if you were a man you wouldn’t be saying anything of what ur saying that ur just a woman speaking from what she thinks a man is

Maybe u are boring…… and it has nothing to do with sex…. I’m sure ur not a virgin lol so idk why ur withholding sex from ur bf

I think that u confuse the fact that woman who are throwing ass that we chase they don’t get the marriage or relationship from us we just chase ass and nothing comes from that….

Now this is what I was curious to see. People reacting & reflecting to videos they've previously done a year or few prior. I remember mentioning that to the KS estate once they relaunched his channel. A _where are they now?_ so to speak. Don't think I saw the initial interview here, and probably haven't checked the WNTT channel since last year. This ought to be interesting.

What silicone conditioner do you recommend for high porosity hair ? Bamboo?

Up! There it is! Magically appeared

Dang, I can’t leave a like on this video?

Being delulu is the solulu 😂😂

He gave you feedback and you immediately said we can go there🤦🏾‍♂️. It's not as easy as you say. As far as women smiling, your speaking from a woman around women not a man around women I thought your interview was the most genuine and still do. I understand you saying black women are the least protected but black men are too. It's also very hard to protect black women when only our women profess we are sh@t, and we say that to our black boys all the way until they are black men. It's hard to protect the ones who cause the most hurt.

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Your sound byte about just having to "find one woman" stuck with me. No need to try to change every woman's mind etc. "You just have to find one"...I'm paraphrasing-- good advice tho.🫡

Thanks for this. Wishing a good journey for us both. 💖

When being delulu really is the solulu☺️

Hey gurl

When you’ve experienced all 3🥲😅😬🙈

So many quotable moments but this right here -> 6:37, I truly want to believe I’m that bad b***h I always tell myself I am.

Dashaaaa

I'm glad you're back. I'm old ,(er) and don't give a damn what others think. I'm so glad that you found your happy place.

Glad to see you back. I enjoyed the video! Congratulations on your marriage! 🎉🎉

No one asking you to watch it

Absolutely beautiful!!!

The point is that, too much of everything EVEN IF GOOD is bad. Moderation is key❗

Don't remeber the last time i used oil lol

Your hair is GORGEOUS

Why when I use oil. My ends always breaks a lot

Her hair looks so dry 😂

I forgot all about IC gel!!

Thanks for the advise, I'm going to give it a try and see what happens.

Could you please list the ingredients and quantities ? Thank you.

In the 90s we washed our hair every week or every other and our hair grew fast.