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Paul Lima
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Paul Lima is a freelance writer and a business-writing and business-of-freelance-writing trainer. You can read more about him online at www.paullima.com.
Geri: Post-Pandemic LGBTQ+ Novel About Something. Promotional Video.
Promotional video for Geri: Post-Pandemic LGBTQ+ Novel About Something by Paul Lima, a retired freelance writer and author of 25 books, including 3 novels 2 short story collections and 20 non-fiction books. Read more at www.paullima.com ...
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Chronic: A Sick Novel
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Promotional video for Chronic: A Sick Novel by Paul Lima, a retired freelance writer and writing trainer. He also has Multiple Sclerosis, as does one of the characters in Chronic, who just happens to be named Paul. Paul's videos and podcasts cover business and promotional writing, articles, social media content and books. They also cover issues pertaining to MS. To read more about them, and Chr...
Promotional video for The Acorn Legacy, an historical fiction spanning 17 centuries and 7 countries.
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Promotional video for The Acorn Legacy, by Paul Lima, an historical fiction with a hint of magical realism spanning 17 centuries and 7 countries.
For Those with MS and/or New Daily Persistent Headaches
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Paul Lima is a retired freelance writer and writing trainer. He also has MS and NDPH. His videos and podcasts, like this one, cover issues pertaining to MS and NDPH from a personal perspective.
The First 42 Years of My Life... I wasn't chronically ill.
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Paul Lima talks about his two chronic illnesses and the impact they had on him for the last 25 years, but not for the first 42. Read more about Paul at www.paullima.com
The Acorn Legacy: Video Press Release
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The Acorn Legacy: A Novel Spanning 17 Centuries. History, mystery, and fantasy. By Paul Lima - www.paullima.com. Listen to the press release about the novel.
Family Tree: A Novel Spanning 17 Centuries (audio of first 4 chapters)
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Paul Lima is a freelance writer and writing trainer. This is an audio version of his latest novel, Family Tree: A Novel Spanning 17 Centuries. The story is fictional, but the history is real.
AI Interviews Paul Lima about His Multiple Sclerosis
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Paul Lima asked AI to interview him about MS, something he's had for 22 years. What follows is the Q&A between AI and Paul.
Excerpt from Chronic: A Sick Novel
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Excerpt from Chronic: A Sick Novel, by Paul Lima. Four folks with different disabilities MS, cancer, Parkinson's, wheelchair bound move in together. Life happens. Read more about the book at paullima.com/books.
Paul Lima on his New Daily Persistent Headache
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Paul Lima is, now retired, wasa freelance writer and writing trainer. He has a New Daily Persistent Headache and also has Multiple Sclerosis (MS). His videos cover business and promotional writing and writing articles and social media content. They also cover issues pertaining to MS and NDPH.
MS Warriors Speak: Volume 2
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We've done it! Created a feature-length documentary, MS Warriors Speak: Volume 2. People with MS speak about the disease. Plus the video includes how one warrior is helping others online, 3 music videos, art work and an MS documentary trailer, Introducing, Selma Blair. Watch the MS Warriors Speak video here. For Volume 1 and other MS videos by yours truly, go to paullima.com/ms.
MS & NDPH. Doing what I can do. Not much...
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My last MS/NDPH video blog, until I finish the first draft of my next novel. If you don't hear from me again, it means the book remains unwritten. I sure hope you hear from me soon! More videos: paullima.com/ms.
If you have MS or a NDPH.... Email me and let's chat, about anything or nothing at all!
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Paul Lima has MS and a New Daily Persistent Headache. His videos blogs cover issues pertaining to MS and NDPH - paullima.com/ms.
Just Do It (no, this is not a Nike commercial; it's for those with MS and/or NDPH)
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What do you do if you are chronically ill? You figure out what you can do, how to do it, and you ... just do it! What choice do you have? (Video blogger Paul Lima has MS and a New Daily Persistent Headache, both for which there are no cures.)
Sick & Tired (tired of being sick) MS & NDPH video
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Paul Lima has MS and a New Daily Persistent Headache. His videos cover issues pertaining to MS and NDPH. You can watch them all at www.paullima.com/ms.
MS/NDPH Warrior talking about (and a bit to) Healthy People
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MS/NDPH Warrior talking about (and a bit to) Healthy People
Paul Lima, MS Warrior, asks: What do you do, can you do, to get through your day?
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Paul Lima, MS Warrior, asks: What do you do, can you do, to get through your day?
Paul Lima, MS Warrior: Having Projects when living with MS, NDPH or other disabilities (or retired!)
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Paul Lima, MS Warrior: Having Projects when living with MS, NDPH or other disabilities (or retired!)
Multiple Sclerosis: physical vs. mental aspects of the disease
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Multiple Sclerosis: physical vs. mental aspects of the disease
Singer with MS has got me writing again. May be he can motivate you to do...
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Singer with MS has got me writing again. May be he can motivate you to do...
MS Warrior Video Challenge: Let's see you make and post an MS video!
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MS Warrior Video Challenge: Let's see you make and post an MS video!
Looking for something positive to say about MS (aka my last negative MS video)...
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Looking for something positive to say about MS (aka my last negative MS video)...
MS Symptom Free for First Time in 20 years... Not!
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MS Symptom Free for First Time in 20 years... Not!
Blatant Book Promo: Rebel, Geri and Chronic
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Blatant Book Promo: Rebel, Geri and Chronic
Paul Lima talks MS: types, meds and diet. Ideal if newly diagnosed or a partner MS Warrior.
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Paul Lima talks MS: types, meds and diet. Ideal if newly diagnosed or a partner MS Warrior.
Paul Lima MS Warrior: Our Version of Life. Paul rambles on about MS & New Daily Persistent Headaches
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Paul Lima MS Warrior: Our Version of Life. Paul rambles on about MS & New Daily Persistent Headaches
Paul Lima, MS Warrior talks to healthy people....
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Paul Lima, MS Warrior talks to healthy people....
Thank you Paul for sharing your story. I am on a couple of fb groups with you and always enjoy your posts. Even feeling “shitty” has helped me. God bless
ah, thanks. Glad you found Feeling Sh*tty. It has helped me too.
Thank you for your video. There's not much info on this and few understand what it s really like. . Have had it for 5 years. I have much empathy and respect for anyone going through this. What meds have you tried?
Intriguingly interesting.
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I took your email writing course almost 10 years ago and still use what I learned from you everyday. Your training has helped me in my career to help me get to where I am today as there is no day that goes by where I do not have to write an email. I just wanted to drop a note to say thank you. You have made a difference with at least one individual despite the health challenges you have today. Thank you!
Love your dog, Paul and chocolate. .....
Dx when 45 ..... 77 next mth.. no drugs. will reread your book, Paul. Just finishing my first ebook adventures, misadventures, random thoughts. Stay strong, you are amazing
I was Dx in 2005 with RRMS and only in the last 7 years or so has it started to impact my mobility and therefore my life. That was after we moved to a new area and built a house. So many of my friends do not know that I now walk with a stick and that I even have MS. As I disclose to them over time some seems to draw closer and support while others draw away. I guess that is more a reflection of them than of me. It seems that those that have worked through challenges in their past are better able to relate to me...the rest float away blissfully unaware of the true challenges in life. For some of my friends it has made us closer- those are the friends I want to keep. The others may pop back up when they face challenges and all of a sudden realize that life isn't all glitter and sunshine ;-)
Same here. I confess, if I were the healthy me and knew the sick me... I might have pulled away! Nothing in common. So I understand those who have withdrawn from me.
Thank you for sharing. I like your positivity even through this disease. Yes, we are only human and it's best to make the most of the life we have.
Progressive MS here. I wud rather hear ur own voice. I understand completely.
Found it too difficult to read! But know what you mean.
Nicely put Paul. I have MS as well although not dealing with the challenges
May you stay as healthy as you can be!
Nortriptyline helps me a little bit, but doesn’t take the headache completely away
Nortriptyline kids helps but doesn’t take the whole headache away.
Have tried 5 meds, No help. Have not tried steroids. Know people who have with no help.
Paul I have this as well (3 years now) although in terms of pain mine is more like 2-3 however its the fatigue that messes me up and impacts every aspect of my life. Am curious have you tried steroids? There are studies showing this has worked for some people with NDPH, especially those that have it due to post viral infections
I have not tried steroids. Tried 5 other meds. No help. Belong to NDPH group on facebook. Some folks have tried steroids: little to no relief, or some relief and then relapse...
I have definitely a New daily persistent headache it's a chronic type headache it's almost 5 years that i have suffering with this headache.I am so so much depressed right now because the pain won't go away for a little bit in a day it's continuously there i don't what I have to do i have visit serveral doctors but nobody able to resolve my problem. My life is ruining because of this headache that i can't rid of because the Google says that i no chance to be cured what can I do 😭😭😭
Sadly, there is little you can do beyond persist. Fight by trying to do want you love to do. Try to get engaged in something. Doesn't make the headache go away. But might help you forget you have it for a while. And don't be afraid to just sit in the dark with a cold cloth on you head and do nothing, when nothing is all you can do. If you are on facebook, join the NDPH Support Group. Sometimes it helps a bit to chat with others who are dealing with what you are dealing with.
Thank you for sharing your story Paul.
Thank you
Do you ever get MRIs and if so what did they show?
have multiple sclerosis as well. Not related to my headaches. Have had a number of MRIs for MS. Have not shown anything headache related. NDPH is a strange fish!
@@paullima9713 I have had 2 MRIs in the past for my daily headaches. Both have shown some lesions which “ could be sequels of migraine headache or ms”. I just have a daily 24/7 headache. I noticed it come on after my first phizer vaccine for Covid. I’ve seen 3 neurologist all which say it’s not ms since my only system is a headache. However, none have been able to help me get rid of this constant headache. I don’t have migraine because migraines occur periodically. I’m only 21 years of age and the past year has been hell for me. Had to stop work and school because I can no longer function with this pain. Any suggestions?
@@joseluistorres5785 Wish I had a suggestion. I've had my headache for 7 years. Know people who have had them for 10, 15 or more years. I'm not a doctor, so I'm not saying you have a New Daily Persistent Headache, and hope whatever you have goes away - or you can find a med that works...
@@joseluistorres5785Mine also started after pfizer covid bivalent booster, about 30 days after. Constant 24/7 headache, MRI's and CT scans all normal. Pain is about a 2/3 out of 10, it mostly feels like eye strain or a hangover. Still trying to get my neurologist to agree that it's NDPH and not vestibular migraine. Nothing I have tried has had any effect.
@@joseluistorres5785 mine started after the Pfizer vaccine. How you doing now?
Paul, My 16 yr old daughter has ms and NDPH just like you. I’m praying someone figures out the treatment for the headache! ❤️
There a a couple of NDPH groups in Facebook. Nobody has found a miracle cure. You what you can do within your limitations. I hope your daughter's pain is minimal, and even goes away! Been known to happen.
@@paullima9713 yes, I’m on those FB groups already. The neurologist said to cut out all artificial sugar from diet for at least 3-4 weeks and the headaches should significantly reduce or even disappear. However, I can’t get my daughter to try this. ☹️ Have you tried this? If not, could you try it and let us know?
@@liviasmith8945 If it is a NDPH, I suspect cutting out sugar won't help. BUT... you never know what will, so she should try it! I don't put sugar in anything. Get a bit of it in bread, I suppose... I've been on 5 meds, and they haven't helped. Hope your daughter gets some relief somehow...
I might have had this. Lasted 10-12 months or so.
Did it just randomly go away?
@@liviasmith8945 SNRIs
You are kind. You are important. And you are beautiful 💜💜💜
Ahhhh...! Thanks. You are so sweet to say that.
😭😭😭Paul you don’t deserve this😭 Empathy…pure empathy. God bless your soul🧡💛💔
I suspect just about everybody has some kind of crap to deal with! But thank you!
Controlled my migraines by stopping steroid nasal sprays. Never thought it was possible to get rid of it. It's a very common side effect of fluticasone. Neck stretches can also help a lot.
Congrats on getting rid of yours... Unfortunately, I have a New Daily Persistent Headache. Google it! Ain't no cure.
“BlackBird” 👏🏼👏🏼😭😭One of my favorite songs🎁💋Beautiful! Your voice is so beautiful 👏🏼😭
Thank you, Emily!
Thank you Paul👏🏼💪🎁🙏I appreciate you so so much!
I want to contact every single person in this presentation. So.... I know this is a very good presentation.
So well put together, Paul. Thank you,
Very welcome! And thanks for the songs and talk!
What a beautiful way to share such a difficult (understatement) disease… I hope this reached thousands so they can better understand the impact it has on people and how to advocate for and validate them.
Thank you so much🐌💪🤟🏼🎁💋
Thanks for the update, Paul. Good to know what's going on with you. You are a writing inspiration to me in both sickness and health.
Paul, thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. It would be more helpful to me if we could see you.
I'm in the bottom left corner! :-)
I notice the slight hesitation of the phrase 'MS Warrior'. I have had MS for over 40 years. It's been secondary for about 15 year (and two instances of alarming cancers) but have never considered myself a 'warrior'. I find that when I fight such things, stuff gets worse! For me, I kinda negotiate with what MS is doing to my body. I reach compromises and then sometimes sneak in a few caveats.. LOL! I find it best to always do what I can.... then just a little more.... then relax and recover. Fighting one's way through MS just seems to make things so much worse! So, like you I 'just dot it' - and then nap a while!
I confess, I don't feel like a warrior either. Like you, like all of us, I 'battle' my MS, but not like a warrior gone to war against it. Like you, I do what I can, and then nap. Napping is pleasant; the need to nap I don't battle!
@@paullima9713 You are a warrior in other, more important ways - I learn :)
6 years ago I was a spin instructor. Now can barely ambulate with a walker. ( 65 years old- 28 years w/MS) 😞
It sucks. I know. Hope you can find something to do from your passive position. I do a lot of sitting on my butt, which is why I make the videos. Don't have to stand to do them.
@@paullima9713 I’m currently discovering the world of podcasts. Some great stuff. Thanks for ur reply & have a good weekend! 😊
I understand, I really do. Be happy you’re married ok? I’m alone , and no one really cares that much.
Trust me, I am happy that I'm married to a woman who cares! Hope you can find some peace of mind. It's tough...
I got diagnosed with inappropriate sinus tachycardia cardiologist said its multiple sclerosis related..my neurologist said its not multiple sclerosis related..unbelievable
Sometimes you wonder if the left hand knows wat the right hand is doing!
My nurse that comes to my house always said but you look fine...Invisible illness ..
You would think a nurse would know more, no?
@@paullima9713 younger nurse that's has no clue about multiple sclerosis
One so misses 'doing stuff' in the way we used to. For me, I can.... but in bursts only. So, I work in little bursts. For you, I think it's different but you have a lovely wife who I am sure completely understands and loves you, no matter what. We do have to deal with what we have to deal with, Paul. I had to turn down SO many opportunities that many other people would have loved to have been given... for over 40 years. Good lord, I could have been famous by now. HAHA! Oh well, I see that as a lucky escape in many ways (!) Paul; you are not what you DO but who you ARE. You are a really OK guy. I just wish the headache would leave you. It would make life that much easier.... even with the MS stuff :(
Thanks for your thoughts.... Yes, in many ways the headache is worse than the MS. Feels funny saying that, but it's so true.... You have been working hard at the renos. I'm sure you collapse at times. And yes, Lyn is amazing. She is taking more time for herself, her art, and I fully understand and encourage it. Me? I re-watch old movies that I liked first time around. And eat candy! :-)
Cognitive issues. Paul, I think that also covers what we think we can do? I could not walk for two hours (so well done... even with breaks) but I do do things that are heavy work for 15-20 minutes. The important thing is to do the things we can do and to let what we cannot do just be. :)
@@paullima9713 You know what? At the moment, that is okay. Look ahead and things might be different. These things can go either way, so I'm rooting for you and hoping you have a clear enough 'run' of okayness soon!
@@mrpad0 In theory, I agree. But damn it takes getting used to not being able to do!
@@paullima9713 -Took me 40 years. Sigh....
This is your experience, for sure - and valid. As for me - it's been over 40 years. Also, I have known others with MS from a young age. But.. this is your experience... just not everyone's, Paul.
You really believe there is no 'cure'? No cure? It's a dead end? OK. End of anything worth talking about ? Of course there IS a cure or treatment. We just have not found it yet.
I'm sorry, but asking for full acceptance from others without them trying to try and make those they care about is not really a good idea. You really had NO idea about how difficult life has been for others? I have been aware for a very long time. This is new to you (two decades is actually 'new to this' in my experience)
@@mrpad0 Sadly, this is the experience of many with MS or other chronic illnesses. You see the tears shed in the MS and NDPH forums. I've lost friends, but it does not bother me. I can't keep up. They go. So be it. But I have some great friends and wife too. So many 'sick' folks have lost their partners, and lost many friends... I really believe that currently there is no known cure for MS or NDPH. If there were cures, we'd be cured! I hope cures get found.... That does not make it end of anything worth talking about... Just don't try to cure me because you don't know how to do so. And don't worry about me: I will keep my eye on studies and reports. After all, I'm the one who is ill. And I don't want to read about 'cures' on mice. Nothing about it will work on people for at least a decade! ... Others don't need to fully accept me. If they want to and can, if they care, that is cool. Accept me for how I am. If you try to fix me, then you are not accepting me... And no, I really had NO idea about how difficult life has been for others. Why would I? I wasn't sick and had no sick people in my life. People get old; they die. But young, sick people? Not people that I know! Just the kind of life I lived, I guess.
I watch videos on RUclips, read posts on myMSteam, get up and down going back and forth to the kitchen. Mostly just do things on the computer, every, single, day. Oh yeah, and I scroll through posts on Facebook, though that doesn't last very long most of the time. And I play FB games with my wife, son (in a different state), and a few other FB friends.
I have begun to get worse since the end of 2017 right after I turned 40 seems like when I went to Texas to spend Christmas in 2015-16 with my oldest brother I had gotten home in January 2016 and I was told I had the JC virus and couldn’t get anymore Tysabri and when Ocrevus was approved I started that with no luck I continue to decline I’m unable to do anything alone I was so grateful to be independent until I lost everything. I’m a very grateful woman after losing my parents and getting divorced from a narcissist who was emotionally and verbally abusive and I’m happily divorced from him with 3 kids and he continues to lie to my kids about their mother. I don’t let depression into my life because I lived that way for 8 years out 18 years I was with my ex husband I am now 44.
I only hope I have half the strength you have demonstrated, under conditions that break my heart for you!
I have had multiple sclerosis since 1997 and I have been completely disabled since 2018 and I can’t even leave my apartment.
So sorry to hear that... Ask crappy as i feel, I think the doing less and less is getting to me. I hope you are coping as well as you can with it.
I sometimes equate having MS (secondary or primary progressive particularly here) as rather like having to be 85 years old in your 40's (or younger!) What to do? Well.... one has to learn how to be an amazing 85 year old - and keep that going until you are 95 years old :) Doable - we become old hands at it, Paul - and, by Jove! We will do that well.
I think... you will never be quite as depressed as you have been in the past over this. We all have to make that jump.
I'm glad you did not delete this because had you done so I would never have seen this. We are so similarly affected by MS, although I do not have headaches to deal with. So, here I am sending you good wishes and understanding also.
Thanks, If you are looking to 'chat' with others with MS and are on Facebook, join some of the MS groups. You will meet many others like us.
I have found Ocrevus has helped Secondary Progressive. Finally!
been there but pot works best
Sadly, all pot did for me was make me want to eat donuts! No relief.
Not for me it doesn't. Nor CBD. Nor any of the meds I've been on.
Love this; yea I fear there are few ‘socialist’ about, I do wish there were many more socialist around. I think that few have a grasp of what people with MS deal with daily. Thankfully I use a clear French Press to make coffee, mind you, the kettle is not clear so sometimes it may take longer to boil water which is rather sad as I have some wonderful Kaffa beans from Ethiopia to drink right now, just amazing. I’m very lucky as I married such a kind, smart, sexy women, who is able to deal with my bull and still sticks around. I know here in Canada those with MS suffer due to the lack of money, I fear that it may be far worse for those lacking money or help in the land of the free and home of the brave. I also think that awareness is the key, mind you, awareness would apply to anything. I know when I was told I had MS I stood there is shock, not understanding what were my issues, of course it short time after understanding what I was deal with, all my issues made sense, was not happy, but at least now I had a better understanding of what my life became and what I may have to endure.
You get it!
I forgot to mention on my part but on the 6 month MRI all leasons have gotten smaller!!
Thank you all for talking about MS. Yes, I have it too. Stay as well as you can.
I am glad to be part of this mission about M.S. Thank you all!
My pleasure! Hope you find it useful.
Thank you so much Paul. I so appreciate you sharing your knowledge with us.
My pleasure!
That was beautiful brother. I have had dialogue with thousands of theists through my 45+years of Atheism and to my recollection haven't deconverted anyone yet but that will never stop me from planting seeds and getting them to think. I didn't deconvert overnight, I don't know anyone that did so it's our duty to wake them up! Carry on my Atheist brother, it's good to be good. I love you man.