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Prey VS Predator
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Prey VS Predator is hosted by 3 women: Jill, PJ, and Amber. We are proud to call ourselves “PREY” and we want to help and equip other people in their relationships with what we call “PREDATORS”.
Drawing on wells of personal experience, this podcast is intended to equip others with the language and tools to maneuver and avoid emotionally abusive relationships. We use our own stories and experiences to arm prey with the skills and tools they need to identify, avoid, escape, or survive a predator.
Follow us on Instagram at @preyvspredator
Email us at: preyvspredatorthepodcast@gmail.com
use #preypower
Links for crisis shelters and other victim resources can be found below:
www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html
sheltersafe.ca/
www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh
Drawing on wells of personal experience, this podcast is intended to equip others with the language and tools to maneuver and avoid emotionally abusive relationships. We use our own stories and experiences to arm prey with the skills and tools they need to identify, avoid, escape, or survive a predator.
Follow us on Instagram at @preyvspredator
Email us at: preyvspredatorthepodcast@gmail.com
use #preypower
Links for crisis shelters and other victim resources can be found below:
www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html
sheltersafe.ca/
www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh
Exposing The Dark Side Of The Church | 10 Tips For Supporting Victims Of Clergy Sexual Abuse
Carolyn from Hagar's Voice is back for Part 2 as we focus on addressing corruption in the church by providing 10 tips for supporting victims of clergy sexual abuse.
In this episode, we dive deeper into our conversation with Carolyn from Hagar's Voice, an organization dedicated to supporting survivors of clergy sexual abuse. Carolyn discusses the systemic problems within churches that silence female victims, the patriarchal power structures, and the importance of trauma-informed advocacy in hopes of bringing the dark side of the church to light. We wanted to cover essential topics such as the DARVO response, empowering survivors, and the crucial steps churches can take to address abuse acti...
In this episode, we dive deeper into our conversation with Carolyn from Hagar's Voice, an organization dedicated to supporting survivors of clergy sexual abuse. Carolyn discusses the systemic problems within churches that silence female victims, the patriarchal power structures, and the importance of trauma-informed advocacy in hopes of bringing the dark side of the church to light. We wanted to cover essential topics such as the DARVO response, empowering survivors, and the crucial steps churches can take to address abuse acti...
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How to STOP Clergy Sexual Abuse | How Hagar's Voice is Advocating For Victims In the Church
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Hagar's Voice is a movement that believes together we can stop clergy sexual abuse through empowering, advocating , and giving a voice to victims. This episode with Carolyn from Hagar's Voice has been in the making for months and we are extremely excited to share this conversation with you. Hagar's Voice is a movement that exists to strategically support survivors of clergy sexual abuse & advoc...
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Textbook case of DARVO by Episcopal priest. ruclips.net/video/GZEDv-8PBXk/видео.htmlsi=ekNPKObxyZdbOQgk
abusing anyone is haram some misguided people do it. but this happens more in the west .
The maid would never be white
It's not "The Maid" though. Just Maid.
I was raised in this system but my family were outliers. However my college roommate married a Southern Baptist minister. She is very much involved in the purity culture and Christian nationalism but she does not recognize it.
This is terrible. I can't even have enough words to say how I can understand her and this mess relationship. Full of manipulation and abusive.
RIGHT?
How old do you have to be to watch it
i'd say it's pretty mature themes. 16+ at least, so they're old enough to understand the concepts fully
Yes, exactly 😮😢😅
If Christian’s get to judge LGBT folks, that means that LGBT folks get to judge Christians. Who said… “Judge not, lest ye be judged?” Christian sexual repression leads to sexual abuse. According to the French government, the Roman Catholic Empire raped over 32O,OOO innocent French children. Just since 195O. If we extrapolate from this French datum for the at least 8 other Roman Catholic dominant countries, we end up with almost 2 million children raped by Roman Catholics just since 195O. The diocese of Los Angeles, for a second time, now has to pay almost 9OO million dollars due to all of the children which they have been raping for many decades and centuries. The FBI is currently investigating the rampant level of sexual abuse of women and children in the Southern Baptist Convention. Which is the largest Christian denomination in America. Liberty University, the famous Evangelical University, recently was fined 14 million dollars for just ignoring the significant level of rape on their campus for many, many, many, decades. Christian sexual repression is not innocent, as it leads to an ugly level of sexual abuse. So take care whenever you are in the sexually toxic Christian community. Especially the child raping Roman Catholic Empire. Remember that idealism is always, always, always, based on denialism. This is why the Christian community is once again attacking the LGBT community as being sexually dangerous. Which is clearly a projection. LGBT folks are not groomers. As the evidence demonstrates the actual groomers are largely sexually repressed Christian males. They are just engaging in ugly and hateful deflection to hide and conceal their own sexual toxicity. They are just scapegoating and distracting from their own sexually criminal behavior and history. "Look over there, not over here." So don't be fooled by all of their ugly and hateful lies. Because the current Christian teachings on Human Sexuality are just as wrong as their teachings on Human Slavery used to be until quite recently. And remember that if Drag Queens are all about love, then it begs the question as to what Christianity is actually all about? So therefore perhaps Drag Queens can help Christians learn how to love better. As currently they all seem so love disabled. Even though Mother Nature has never been heterosexual, but has always been, and will always be, LGBT. Just like her natural world of which we are all a part. See the brilliant and amusing recent Peacock documentary titled: QUEER PLANET. As it explains everything about the true sexuality of planet Earth.💙
If Andrew thinks BJU was tough, he should try the military. This guy is weak.
Be Independent,be proud Be happy,have your own Dreams, peace of mind.free
I've got to watch it
Thank god I’m so scared I don’t trust anyone anymore No one believes me and I have a brain injury from getting a call that was a court order for stripping my kids away for the most weird untrue shit. I have recordings streamed live cause I I was scared and was in all these places that were or were thought to be good. Truth doesn’t matter
Thank god I’m so scared I don’t trust anyone anymore No one believes me and I have a brain injury from getting a call that was a court order for stripping my kids away for the most weird untrue shit. I have recordings streamed live cause I I was scared and was in all these places that were or were thought to be good. Truth doesn’t matter
I am curious about a pastor from Texas named Thomas Brandon. I think he was on the board in the early 90’s.
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My aunt did this to me everytime I visit them and she let her 4 kids beat me up and they are the reason why I wear glasses and have never seen my grandma and now she is moving here never want to see my aunt ever again
I dealt with this a few years ago in a church by a leader. I am still learning to trust people again and realize that not every leader out there is a manipulative narcissist. It has been hard and a long painful process.
Nancy Reagan used to look at Ronnie that same adoring way.
I think he either had ED and just liked the tension and flirtation. OR he enjoyed the tension and flirtation. It turned him on, and he'd get off later after building up his desire. Super creepy.
He ruined my life. I was young - 20-ish. I wanted to be married and have someone to love who would love me. And all I had to do was get the blessing of my parents and church. Nobody said I could do better. Then, I tried to be submissive, but there was nothing to submit to because he didn't pay any attention to me. It was a serious life. mistake. I've been divorced from him for 30 years after being married for 20. I see him now and wonder what I was thinking.
Folks, just don’t be a fool. Don’t join a cult! What are the people like? Because you’ll become like them. If you don’t like them, wouldn’t want to be like them, stay away!
My mom worked in a Christian school that used ACE curriculum when i was younger. My brother went to the same school. She pulled us both out of school to start homeschooling us in the mid-80s because the educational content is the PACE books was so pitiful that my brother couldn't read in 3rd grade. (And yes, we got himeschooled using IBLP/ATI, but also actual educational curriculum). We got lucky-ish, because Mom had a Master's of Education, so she actually understood how to choose curriculum and assess learning
Maybe I misunderstood. Perhaps when you said, "What a testament to his nature", you were referring to her husband, and weren't referring to a god. Maybe I got that wrong. If I did, please forgive my words, inspired by trauma.
I can assure you that the A in the ALERT stands for A-hole. There was a guy there named Clark who would watch recruits do things wrong and then later ridicule, cuss at, threaten physical violence against, and put them down for getting those things wrong Then when the cadre were around he would patronize and fain encouragement toward the same recruits. Several graduates I have met had negative attitudes toward rules and other people. One said in response to the verse "iron versus iron" that other people were mud compared to him. I went to Verity with a former member of the cadre named J. Anders. He didn't want other students announcing class prayer in chapel because he didn't like feeling obliged to come. When other students were having prayer meetings, he would show up and sabotage it with his very angry and annoyed presence.
Thank you for these podcasts! I can relate to sooooooo much. 😢 I also had so little in my wheelhouse regarding the vocabulary of it all. I also thought abuse was strictly punching. That was it. After I left my 14 year long marriage and started educating myself, I was BLOWN away at how many tactics were being used against me. The latest one was them using over-working you to keep you exhausted so you have an even HARDER time pinpointing what the heck is going on....the patterns. 6 years FREE on November 18th this year!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
Such a great conversation, which I can wholly relate to
Sorry to hear it… but glad you appreciated the conversation!
Chad, You're an agnostic, not an atheist. An agnostic doesn't know if there is a god, and an atheist thinks there is no god.
Sarma is guilty unfortunately, as much as I wanna like her bc she's beautif ule
Scary these are the men who want to control the country and control women through reproductive coercion and abuse alot of men see getting women pregnant as a way to control them and mark ownership and many women are to niave to see this
Very true depiction of what the agenda of the Christian right is for the entire country. Has been for decades and their slow take over of the US government they simultaneously hate and fear monger about since the early 80’s was and is a well calculated plan. They don’t care Trump’s the ultimate sinner. God uses assess don’t you know? Trump is nothing without them and he knows it. He’s been crucified now. I was there and a part of them then, and the evangelical and charismatic began to take forward what Gerry Fallwell and others had going before then. I totally relate to Tia’s experience. I left the church and Republican Party in 2009. I’m mortified anything I ever did when I was one of them got them one step closer to where they are today. I’d ask Gods forgiveness if I believed in him anymore. So I ask you yours. At least I woke up & smelled the 🐂💩. Millions are still stuck in it.
I just watched the Netflix series...she has to be the most gullible, naive, foolish person in history... her partner put up about 500 red-flags and she ignored every one of them... the is proof positive that book smarts do not = street smarts...
Parental alienation... reactive abuse? She seems like she has a cluster b disorder to me
He was looking for daddy issues
And he never got married 😢
I was listening to a former IHOPKC member's story recently. She said that in the 1980s in the wake of the Jesus People movement (when a senior leader molested her), there just was no "grid" for identifying and addressing sexual abuse & predatory behaviour by church leaders. This upsets me so much. I was a teenager in the 1980s. Everywhere I turned, I collided with gender hierarchy & male headship doctrine. I constantly pointed out that authority pyramids were unbiblical and counter to the unity & mutuality of true Kingdom of God culture. Everywhere, I could see grooming behaviour, coercive behaviour and predatory behaviour by the same men who lectured us on "purity" and man-splained the "umbrella of protection" to us and told us that women who wore mascara or pants were "in rebellion" and that rebellion was "as the sin of witchcraft". I noticed that the ones who spewed spiritualized misogyny & homophobia the most (carefully camouflaged in flowery Christian "love") seemed to be the ones most likely to be up to stuff behind the scenes and off the stage. So, in the 1990s, I started keeping a list. Ted Haggard. Jimmy Swaggart. Jim Bakker. Bill Gothard. Doug Phillips. The names kept coming. I started speaking up. I pointed out that gender inequality, white-washed sexism, and male headship doctrine in the church, plus the emphasis on venerating "authority", would lead to a scourge of sexual abuse & exploitation, and cover up, in the church. Even I could not have foretold how bad, and how rampant it would be. So, can you guess what happened to me, when I started calling out authoritarianism & male supremacy in the church, as early as the 1980s? I was branded a Jezebel. No one wanted to hear. I am just one of thousands of people, with true 'prophetic' voices on this issue, who were cast out, our warnings dismissed. I cannot tell you how frustrated I feel. We were told that WE were the evil ones. Our voices were quenched. We couldn't stop men like Bickle, or Morris and we couldn't save people like Tammy, or Cindy. The "nice" people in the church disapproved of the likes of us.
Ye Kay hai bhai❤❤❤
Right on sister! ❤
Book gods enslaving the populations to those who deem themselves superior hierarchy authority elites psychos for generations. OBEY!! The likes of Romans 13 is why ALL book gods exist. OBEY!! Master manipulators take..took bits and pieces of REAL Truths and entwine(d) them within a garage dump of enslaving twisted demented demeaning degrading demoralizing sin hunting fault finding crucifying emotional traumatizing ssssstrrreeesss inducing fear mongering judgmental hypocritical shaming blaming criticizing condemning ...separating dividing splintering ..warmongering killing murdering blood guts gore..zioni$t bull💩💩💩💩
It’s not intellectual it’s information control
You can't correct her , that would be thought and behavior control. 😂
She used parental alienation on steroids.
are you judging negatively *All* Christians because of a *Few* ? Please clarify
To the content creator and followers of this channel, not every person that calls themselves “a man of God” is so, also we are all sinners, every one can fail. My advice of Love and Compassion, be extremely careful not mock Jehova and/or minimize his sovereignty and power over all creation.
You were told the Truth! And 💯 children need to hear this! TELL THE CHILDREN THE TRUTH! Bible, Prayer and Fasting is the core and armor of God against the evil forces.
Yes it surprises me how quick we give these men a pass... it's horrible
Brilliant episode. I knew a few people using this or a very similar curriculum and as far as infants were concerned, it was appalling. Meals their hands were held down and they were spoon fed even until older age. That's the least of it and with some babies they were adopted (and therefore traumatized).
I came across Christian Domestic Discipline when I first started speaking out about Christian Patriarchy in the early 2000s. I remember the posts. Women who thought getting hit was intimacy. Men who were just disgusting lazy chauvinists with no capacity for healthy connection and huge sexual repression issues and overblown entitlement & ego. I got onto the forums and it was horrendous. Those women were so degraded. I can testify that it was real, and that it was all headed towards Christo-Fascist authoritarian theocracy.
Crazy. Also believe it. 💔
I was told many times if I was truly saved then I would submit to this kind of abuse.
I became a Christian in the mid 2000s. I read those forums, seemed so coercive to me.
My heart truly goes out to all those abused in this cult. narcissists love to twist and cherry pick bible verses for their own agendas. I am also a survivor of abuse. I just want to say that the IBLP misrepresents Jesus and His word. He is loving and kind. He chose to lay down HIs life on Calvary to redeem us and to give us life . These wolves in sheep clothing will answer dearly in eternity. I am sorry the abuse was so bad that many turned away from the faith altogether.
My aunt Mary Ann Parker did this to my cousin as a child abusing her and even turning against her when she came out as way later on. My aunt had alot of us fooled and we didn't believe My cousin when she came out with her story of abuse but now knowing what I know and spending so much time around her I see it and regret not believing my cousin. You never really do know a person until you're behind closed doors with them on the daily. She tried to call my aunt to forgive her and of course, she refused to answer the call. Very telling. Y'all believe when they tell you this kinda stuff. Don't victim shame
JESUS LUVS!!! Have a up bringing that is straight out the BIBLE IS THE WAY THINGS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE! BE BLESSED!!!