Peter Friedman
Peter Friedman
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There are No Direct Flights from New York to Marseille (1998, posted 2023)
In 1993, I completed a video diary of a gay couple with AIDS, who died before the footage was edited. That film was "Silverlake Life", and because it had a high profile release, I was active for a long time promoting it, speaking as a gay man myself about gay and AIDS issues to the press and to the public at many film festivals. Eventually I felt like all I ever talked about was gay life, and I needed to move beyond that, to have my gay identity be just a part of my larger self. So I moved away from New York to Marseille, France, and tried to be "post-gay", but it didn't work. I found myself drawn a newly emerging gay community in Marseille in 1997. So this film, "There are No Direct Flig...
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Видео

The Big Picture (2002, 4 x 3)
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An experimental visual essay combining images of Earth seen from outer space with moments of daily life shot various places around the world. The aim is to evoke the simultaneous existence of the "big picture" (i.e. the universe) and ordinary daily life.
Remember to Come Back
Просмотров 3304 года назад
A haiku in search of serenity during the lockdown, 2020
Remember to Come Back
Просмотров 224 года назад
A 3-minute haiku about searching for serenity during anxious, pandemic times.
The Devil is in the Detail: Robert Carsen Reinvents CANDIDE (3 min. trailer for a documentary)
Просмотров 6715 лет назад
"The Devil is in the Detail: Robert Carsen Reinvents CANDIDE" (Completion December 2019). Feature-length cinéma vérité documentary portrait of one of the world's greatest stage directors at work, shot over the course of a year. From his first sketches in pencil until opening night, we witness Carsen's creative processes as he adapts Leonard Bernstein's 1956 CANDIDE, which Bernstein wrote right ...
Roy Smeck- El Mago de las Cuerdas (Wizard of the Strings)
Просмотров 1225 лет назад
Hay un mucho más alto nivel de calidad de esta película aquí ruclips.net/video/JoQa4RfIg3g/видео.html Este premio de la Academia nominado a corto plazo de 1983 retrata uno de los músicos más influyentes de América de los años 1920 y 1930. Roy Smeck fue uno de los primeros en popularizar la guitarra, la guitarra hawaiana, el banjo y el ukelele. Desde sus primeros días de vodevil en la década de ...
I TALK TO ANIMALS
Просмотров 5835 лет назад
A documentary Written, Produced, Edited, and Directed by Peter Friedman . Samantha is an "animal therapist and psychic" who has convinced skeptical pet owners, zoo keepers, and race horse trainers that she really can "talk" to their animals. Here we see her at work counselling race horses in need of leisure time, "depressed "cats, and negotiating with naughty ants. And we hear from owners and t...
In the Name of Christ - Scott Lively, the TIp of the Iceberg
Просмотров 2045 лет назад
A portrait of one of the world's worst anti-LGBT activist/bigots, single-handedly and successfully lobbying for anti-gay legislation abroad, including life in prison in Uganda and anti "gay propaganda" laws in the Russian Federation. This piece is compiled entire from archival footage found on youtube and on human rights groups' website. Lively is currently being sued for crimes against humanity;
Fighting in Southwest Louisiana (restored 2019)
Просмотров 6 тыс.5 лет назад
1991. A better quality version is here vimeo.com/167148561 A mailman openly fights AIDS and anti-gay prejudice in the rural American South. When he's not delivering mail, Danny Cooper lives with his lover Ben in a remote town in the deep south. Far from the sophistication and relative tolerance of urban centers, Danny has been openly gay since his teens. He has paid a price for his honesty it c...
THE LIFE & TIMES OF LIFE & TIMES: The Biology of Aging
Просмотров 4015 лет назад
Independent filmmaking meets science once again in this 1998 hour-long follow-up to Death by Design ruclips.net/video/4NytzTLnyKM/видео.html., The life of any one individual is of no importance to nature. That is why we age. Now, scientists are beginning to manipulate the aging process by altering genes which determine how long we live. As Judy Campisi of Berkeley lab, California puts it "For t...
Silverlake Life Epilogue - best quality
Просмотров 10 тыс.5 лет назад
17-min. epilogue to Tom Joslin's 1993 AIDS video diary Silverlake Life, winner of the Los Angeles Film Critics Award, the Sundance Grand Jury Prize, a Peabody Award, and the Prix Italia in Rome. The complete film is here ruclips.net/video/YjGVT4BUG-w/видео.html This epilogue features footage shot by Elaine Mayes in 1991 and a 2003 conversation with Elaine and Silverlake Life Co-Director Peter F...
"Silverlake Life" Epilogue see link below for better quality upload
Просмотров 20 тыс.5 лет назад
WATCH HERE INSTEAD - MUCH BETTER AUDIO - ruclips.net/video/BqQWnXLISjk/видео.html 17-min. Silverlake Life Epilogue released as a "bonus extra" on the US DVD, 2003. Includes footage of Tom's surviving partner Mark, shortly before his own death in 1991, emptying Mark's house after he died, and a conversation between Silverlake Life cameraperson and Tom & Mark's close friend Elaine Mayes, and co-d...
Silverlake Life reviews
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Silverlake Life reviews
Roy Smeck: El Mago de las Cuerdas (Subtítulos en español)
Просмотров 5307 лет назад
Roy Smeck: El Mago de las Cuerdas (Subtítulos en español)
Roy Smeck: The Wizard of the Strings (best quality upload)
Просмотров 77 тыс.7 лет назад
Roy Smeck: The Wizard of the Strings (best quality upload)
MANA Beyond Belief
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MANA Beyond Belief

Комментарии

  • @Silenced23
    @Silenced23 14 дней назад

    It would've been nice to see people in the comments that actually knew them or at least one of them.

  • @Silenced23
    @Silenced23 14 дней назад

    If only they had the meds they have today, he'd be alive today.

  • @IamRAINBOW1121
    @IamRAINBOW1121 Месяц назад

    Silverlake Life is a great documentary. Mark was healthier just the year prior. I think the day Tom died, that was the day Mark started dying himself. It's so heartbreaking to watch people die a slow and agonizing death from this nightmare of a disease.

  • @emperorchubbs
    @emperorchubbs Месяц назад

    I first saw this documentary on TV when I was in high school. It has had such a lasting impression on me and I am grateful to these two incredibly brave men for sharing their story. Rest In Peace fellas. Your legacy lives on eternally. ❤

  • @DinoMader
    @DinoMader Месяц назад

    When Tom died he looked like a concentration camp survivor! But in the 1st few months of people contracting AIDS that was really how people who were dying of AIDS looked

  • @parthpant8894
    @parthpant8894 Месяц назад

    Hello, Peter. I am a scholar working on Personal AIDS documentaries and writing on Silverlake Life. I mailed you on the Strange Attractions email for some queries I had about the films. I would love to hear back from you or find you at any other alternative email!

  •  Месяц назад

    what is the instrument that he play in 23:10 in his mouth?

  • @brendabrooks6731
    @brendabrooks6731 2 месяца назад

    AIDS is going to be out there until the end of time, just like any other diseases, There will be other diseases coming, im sure. Scientists make diseases and then turn around to find" acure" for what they created. Sad but true. People need to take precautions for their own well-being

  • @27dsteele
    @27dsteele 2 месяца назад

    Nicely done.

  • @etcetc6427
    @etcetc6427 2 месяца назад

    @peter Any companion book?

  • @etcetc6427
    @etcetc6427 2 месяца назад

    At the end of silverlake Life it shows a memorial service. Was it theirs combined?

    • @peterfriedman7193
      @peterfriedman7193 2 месяца назад

      No, Mark was at the service but he didn't speak.

  • @etcetc6427
    @etcetc6427 2 месяца назад

    Would love more on tom and mark. Silverlake Life is amazing.

    • @peterfriedman7193
      @peterfriedman7193 2 месяца назад

      Here's more: BLACKSTAR from 1976. vimeo.com/690199560/deabd31836

    • @etcetc6427
      @etcetc6427 2 месяца назад

      @@peterfriedman7193 finding you is like a dream come true. I had seen Longtime Companion short before Silverlake Life. Been obsessed ever since.

  • @rogerrambo4172
    @rogerrambo4172 2 месяца назад

    I don't quite know how to explain this but there is just something very familiar & dreamlike about this movie & oddly comforting too. It feels like Tom & Mark have always been a part of my life & certain scenes & musical motifs send me to a very moonlit state of mind. 2 beautiful people who made a beautiful film, god bless their courage, their strength & their care for the audience against enormous odds. I love you Tom & Mark

    • @denisecalderon6408
      @denisecalderon6408 2 месяца назад

      I actually feel the same.😢

    • @rogerrambo4172
      @rogerrambo4172 Месяц назад

      @@denisecalderon6408 perhaps Tom & Mark will visit us in our dreams Denise?

  • @municipalorrery
    @municipalorrery 2 месяца назад

    thank you for uploading (and helping create!) this, it breaks my heart to see all the homophobic people in the comments completely missing the point :(

  • @municipalorrery
    @municipalorrery 2 месяца назад

    the part at 37:00 where he's filming mark dancing and he pans to the carpet and you can tell from the little imprints he's danced on that carpet a gazillion times </3

  • @Giuschmi
    @Giuschmi 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for this film and your perspective. It‘s very moving. Best regards from zurich 💜

  • @maximiliana3685
    @maximiliana3685 3 месяца назад

    wonderfull film. thanks for making it accesible here🫶

  • @robertpeterson8640
    @robertpeterson8640 3 месяца назад

    Love this! Roy was a total musical entertainer. Light hearted, virtuosic and supremely confident. Then he topped off his career by being a great teacher. Truly a life well lived!

  • @sarraconnolly3774
    @sarraconnolly3774 3 месяца назад

    Rip Tom and Mark😢you guys didn't deserve this at all

  • @tertommy
    @tertommy 4 месяца назад

    Were they not monogamous? How did HIV enter their lives?

    • @sarraconnolly3774
      @sarraconnolly3774 3 месяца назад

      Could've been someone's saliva from the same cup they were drinking out of a number of things that don't involve sex can make you contract hiv

    • @tringe22
      @tringe22 3 месяца назад

      @@sarraconnolly3774Cant get it from a cup smh. Has to be open wound (tears in vag or anus - to be graphic) or open sore, sharing needles, or by blood transfusion. Its actually not that easy to get. Hepatitis is much more easier to spread. Most gay men WERE promiscuous in the late 70's- 80's with the bath houses and underground gay clubs. And not using protection being number one reason. Before settling down with a partner - most gay men (like heterosexuals) have had a former partner. You have no idea who all they slept with before you.

    • @wotanbgl8056
      @wotanbgl8056 2 месяца назад

      So what? Does that change anything?

    • @tertommy
      @tertommy 2 месяца назад

      @@wotanbgl8056 Picked up virus from a door knob or public toilet seat? Somebody wan monkeying around.

    • @sarraconnolly3774
      @sarraconnolly3774 2 месяца назад

      @wotanbgl8056 did I say it changed anything I was only poxy asking

  • @joachim5080
    @joachim5080 4 месяца назад

    Wow This man was a fighter.

  • @jpschwenck
    @jpschwenck 4 месяца назад

    Any chance of a restauration in HD (or even 4K)?

    • @peterfriedman7193
      @peterfriedman7193 4 месяца назад

      No but a better quality upload wll be available before the end of September 2024, here vimeo.com/877536669

    • @peterfriedman7193
      @peterfriedman7193 4 месяца назад

      BLACKSTAR has been restored to 4K here vimeo.com/690199560/deabd31836?share=copy

  • @wbrockstar9550
    @wbrockstar9550 4 месяца назад

    This disease literally sucked the life right out of its victims & for those who wanted to keep their sexuality & status a secret, the outward/visible symptoms (ks/wasting/etc) of aids pretty much made that impossible. There obviously isn't/wasn't anything about this disease that's good,but if you had to find at least one thing that could be seen as such,it was the fact that symptoms didn't appear for 10 years in a large percentage of its victims,which could be seen as both fortunate or unfortunate. Fortunate = you didn't have any symptoms to make your life miserable Unfortunate = you weren't even aware you were carrying a deadly disease around so you were infecting others unintentionally. 1:08:40 😮 1:08:40

    • @DinoMader
      @DinoMader Месяц назад

      The symptoms appeared within weeks of people contracting the disease!! That is a known fact! I had 36 people I knew who died within weeks not years! And 93% of the people who died between '81-'86 died within weeks not months! That depended on how much the disease progressed in certain people!

  • @meolox
    @meolox 4 месяца назад

    I watched this in the early days of a relationship with a beautiful woman who I’m still with and still love. I hope we can go out to heaven the way these two souls have.

  • @jrave6092
    @jrave6092 4 месяца назад

    Is Blackstar available to watch anywhere?

    • @peterfriedman7193
      @peterfriedman7193 4 месяца назад

      Yes. Here vimeo.com/690199560/deabd31836

    • @jrave6092
      @jrave6092 4 месяца назад

      @@peterfriedman7193 Thank you!!

  • @Yizee
    @Yizee 4 месяца назад

    I guess the lesson here is to date women and stay away from any sort of homosexuality because this is what it leads to.

    • @antimaxsmacks
      @antimaxsmacks 4 месяца назад

      I can't imagine that someone watched this absolutely heart-breaking film, and that's all you took-away from it. Maybe try having some empathy.

    • @Yizee
      @Yizee 4 месяца назад

      @@antimaxsmacks I spoke against homosexuality not the individual people. Sure it may be sad but think about the cities of Sodom and Gommorah God rained ash and destroyed many people due to this lifestyle. All the pride stuff like what we saw at the opening of the olympic ceremonies in France a few days ago, this lifestyle is being shoved down everyone's throats as if it's an accomplishment, but it is not how God wants us to live. We must follow his rules and not chase perversion.

    • @wbrockstar9550
      @wbrockstar9550 4 месяца назад

      ​​@@Yizee Not to mention,it's God who people should be getting closer to instead of a witch doctor like was seen in this film.Hopefully Tom and Mark asked for/found salvation before each of them passed.Everytime someone's friend, significant other,brother, sister,etc,etc passes away and they go to their funeral, everyone that attends always says "well at least that individual is in a better place now",but there's probably alot more that don't go to Heaven than do in many cases.

    • @Yizee
      @Yizee 4 месяца назад

      @@wbrockstar9550 Yeah good point. And I am not trying to judge or anything I just see all those horrible skin lesions all over his body and it all comes down to the choice to have sex with another guy. I don't know why that lifestyle is celebrated nowadays instead of talking people out of living that way. I guess it's easy to understand though since Satan and his minions have seem to have gained control and push their satanic agenda's on the the world. I wish we had God back in our country and other countries because it's getting worse and worse. I guess the bible tells us this will happen so all we can do is try to fight against it the best we can. If God didn't exist and Satan didn't exist they wouldn't have done a mockery of Jesus at the olympics. And to all those athletes who stayed to compete and didn't walk out and show support for Jesus just shocks me. We need God back in this world! Sorry for the whole paragraph of words to read.

    • @user-yn9mx7xu1r
      @user-yn9mx7xu1r 4 месяца назад

      @@YizeeI agree! Disregarding the truth at the expense of not hurting someone’s feelings is utterly ridiculous. Every guideline in the Bible is to protect us from bad consequences. It is not that those consequences are God’s punishment, but they are the consequences that happen by default. That’s how our world is designed. Same thing goes with fornication in heterosexual relationships.

  • @ralex3697
    @ralex3697 4 месяца назад

    He was such a sweet man, with a great sense of humour. RIP Mark.

  • @ralex3697
    @ralex3697 4 месяца назад

    Looks worse than Holocaust, what an awful disease. Heartbreaking

  • @jasonwhite7452
    @jasonwhite7452 4 месяца назад

    Had to revisit this film. Hope everyone’s doing well these days!

    • @peterfriedman7193
      @peterfriedman7193 4 месяца назад

      In my little circle we'll all doing great, thanks. Just preoccupied with US election & Project 2025...

    • @jasonwhite7452
      @jasonwhite7452 4 месяца назад

      @@peterfriedman7193 Glad you’re doing ok,Peter. Now I have to ask. Is there an extended version of ‘Met him on a Sunday’ where Mark and Peter walk off camera laughing? It sounds silly to want to see such a thing but I’ve gotten so deep into this film that I really want to experience every moment of it! With that being said..I revisited the film Blackstar today! Love the nostalgia! Tom truly had a filmmakers vision and belonged behind and in front of that camera! And he couldn’t have passed his craft and knowledge on to a better filmmaker such as yourself 😉

    • @peterfriedman7193
      @peterfriedman7193 4 месяца назад

      @@jasonwhite7452 Yes. It's the final scene in BLACKSTAR, which is here: vimeo.com/manage/videos/690199560/deabd31836

  • @radiant_infidel
    @radiant_infidel 4 месяца назад

    Thank you mr Friedman for giving us the opportunity to see this naked and raw documentary again.

    • @peterfriedman7193
      @peterfriedman7193 4 месяца назад

      I was given an opportunity to say many important things that needed to be said when I completed it in 1993. I'm gratified and sometimes a bit surprised that and it's still in active distribution worldwide, and that I am still getting comments like yours - which mean quite a lot to me. So, I thank you, too.

  • @smlewis86
    @smlewis86 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you Tom, Mark and Peter. ❤

  • @marshalmallow7192
    @marshalmallow7192 5 месяцев назад

    Their love is so heart warming. Currently balling at the clips from when they were in love pre-aids 😭

  • @DickDawsome
    @DickDawsome 5 месяцев назад

    thank you for sharing. I can see that Mark tried to stay mostly positive through the whole disease...the image of him dancing to Johnny Clegg sticks with me

  • @tringe22
    @tringe22 5 месяцев назад

    How brave of Mark and Tom to do this ❤

  • @tringe22
    @tringe22 5 месяцев назад

    I always wondered who helped take care of Mark?!? :(

    • @peterfriedman7193
      @peterfriedman7193 5 месяцев назад

      A few friends, and AIDS service organizations.

  • @holdencawffle626
    @holdencawffle626 5 месяцев назад

    Very hard watch. Rip to both. Is Blackstar available to watch?

  • @tertommy
    @tertommy 5 месяцев назад

    Are chrysler Slant 6 engines really as reliable as they say?

  • @wbrockstar9550
    @wbrockstar9550 5 месяцев назад

    Kinda ironic how Mark said "I don't think so dear,not when the msg comes before the chicken".He was weeks/days away from dying,yet he was still worried about the things he was eating.

    • @peterfriedman7193
      @peterfriedman7193 5 месяцев назад

      Good point! But that sort of vigilance helped him survive as long as he did.

    • @ralex3697
      @ralex3697 4 месяца назад

      @@peterfriedman7193 He was a fighter, very determined to survive. Just a few more years and there would be effective treatments. Beyond sad. RIP Mark

  • @phoebevaughan5095
    @phoebevaughan5095 5 месяцев назад

    Bless Tom and Mark - I am glad Mark tried to keep optimistic in his last months. Two beautiful souls and I hope whatever happens after this life they are still together somewhere. ⚘️

  • @phoebevaughan5095
    @phoebevaughan5095 5 месяцев назад

    Despite the horrible disease, and their declining health Tom and Mark continued to love and support each other. RIP to two wonderful men, and all those who died of Aids. Also sending strength to those living with HIV. ⚘️

  • @wbrockstar9550
    @wbrockstar9550 5 месяцев назад

    Even for people that wanted to keep their sexuality a secret during the early days of aids,this disease wouldn't allow that.Kaposi and the excessive weight loss this community got stricken with was a physical marker that victims couldn't avoid.Except for one video I've seen where one guys face and neck were covered completely by one massive KS lesion,Mark is the next worse case of KS I've seen. These two guys were brave to have allowed all of us outsiders into their lives to watch them from the very beginning of this part of their lives to the end of it.Their upbeat spirit (especially Mark) said alot about their character,strength & bravery that they remained high spirited up to the end regardless of their pain & suffering & the stigma from the outside world that was judgemental,prejudice and at times down right cruel.May a day soon come where the medical community finds a cure for the millions that have to live with this every single day. May Tom and Mark RIP.

  • @itsRemco
    @itsRemco 6 месяцев назад

    Cool upload!!

  • @cuitlamcuautencos8306
    @cuitlamcuautencos8306 6 месяцев назад

    That must’ve been so shocking, scary and sad to witness in a store?! I’ve never seen a person with AIDS or AIDS related symptoms and infections, such as KS, what Mark had here. But in the 80’s and 90’s it was probably not uncommon to see gay men with AIDS presenting those symptoms. Still it must’ve been shocking to see, very, very sad…

  • @v7chandler220
    @v7chandler220 7 месяцев назад

    This man is great at string instruments. 🙂

  • @DEFKAST90s
    @DEFKAST90s 7 месяцев назад

    I would exchange every bug chaser and giver to have had these men survive long enough to have benefitted from the meds we have today for it. R.I.P Chaps ❤️

    • @wbrockstar9550
      @wbrockstar9550 4 месяца назад

      It blows my mind that there is such a thing and people who wanna be bug chasers.This is a good example of how bad this world and society has gotten when people strive to become infected purposely, especially considering how horrible hiv/aids can be & who's to say the meds of today are guaranteed to work on every patient that gets them.Theres been plenty of history of medication becoming less and less effective so who's to say it couldn't happen with aids?? Such foolish people in this world.

  • @lisaolivia5652
    @lisaolivia5652 7 месяцев назад

    So brave We miss these great souls

  • @thisislogout
    @thisislogout 7 месяцев назад

    Amazing. He was the pioneer of guitar in America. He was doing it before all my guitar heroes in the 40's, 50's, 60's, and 70's. He paved the way and was so talented.

  • @DetroitMicroSound
    @DetroitMicroSound 7 месяцев назад

    Roy was always stopping to make sure and point out to all the other listeners in the room, to listen to the instrument being played at it's very highest level..........Which he's playing at the time.....while in the middle of the piece....AND without creating a single flaw in the melody, or rhythm.

  • @alexisbessiere3778
    @alexisbessiere3778 7 месяцев назад

    Tom, Mark je vous aime❤

  • @arglebarglefoofara
    @arglebarglefoofara 7 месяцев назад

    6:40 1926 .... $1250 ... That's nearly $20,000 in todays dollars... WOW...