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Life Care Wellness
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We specialize in treating addiction and trauma. Life Care Wellness therapists are trained and certified in body-based therapies such as Somatic Experiencing (SE), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and Transforming Touch therapy.
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How to Navigate a Holiday Celebration with a Troublemaker
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Rhonda discusses options other than simply not going
How to Handle Incompatible People at a Holiday Celebration
Просмотров 7914 дней назад
Rhonda offers helpful strategies for managing people who don't get along
Preventing Disagreements at Holiday Gatherings
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Rhonda explains de-escalation techniques
Strategies to Keep Your Holidays Sane
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Rhonda discusses preparing in advance and establishing ground rules
What Other Types of Movement Are There Besides Physical
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Karen discusses other types of movement to help process emotions
What Types of Movement Can Help You Process Emotions
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Karen talks about the different types of movement
How Does Acceptance Help You Move Past a Traumatic Experience
Просмотров 140Месяц назад
Karen discusses how you can choose Acceptance rather than Forgiveness
Choosing Acceptance When Forgiveness Feels Overwhelming
Просмотров 70Месяц назад
Karen describes the difference between Acceptance and Forgiveness
Are Chronic Health Conditions Always Affected by Developmental Trauma
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Rhonda explains the effects of your own trauma or that of prior generations who may pass it down to you genetically
Therapy for Chronic Health Condition Caused by Developmental Trauma
Просмотров 762 месяца назад
Rhonda talks about different types of therapy that are successful in addressing the health effects of trauma
How Does Developmental Trauma contribute to Chronic Health Conditions
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Rhonda explains how developmental trauma and the chronic stress from it can cause chronic medical conditions
The Link Between Chronic Health Conditions and Developmental Trauma
Просмотров 972 месяца назад
Rhonda discusses how conditions such as diabetes, heart disease, and arthritis can be caused by developmental trauma
Ten Signs that You're Ready to Graduate From Therapy
Просмотров 823 месяца назад
Rhonda explains how to determine if you might be finished with therapy
What to do if Your Therapist Is Not a Good Fit
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Rhonda discusses what to do if you're thinking "My therapist is not helping me" or feel that they may not be a good fit for you.
Continuing Good Screentime Habits When Kids go Back to School
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Continuing Good Screentime Habits When Kids go Back to School
Helping Kids to Plan for Summer with Resource Lists
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Helping Kids to Plan for Summer with Resource Lists
How to Establish a Summer Routine for Kids
Просмотров 394 месяца назад
How to Establish a Summer Routine for Kids
How to Plan Your Time During Life Transitions
Просмотров 404 месяца назад
How to Plan Your Time During Life Transitions
Qualifications for a Child Therapist
Просмотров 195 месяцев назад
Qualifications for a Child Therapist
Childhood Trauma Therapy for Adolescents
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Childhood Trauma Therapy for Adolescents
How Child Therapy is done along with Family Therapy
Просмотров 206 месяцев назад
How Child Therapy is done along with Family Therapy
Play Therapy techniques and other types of therapy used with young children
Просмотров 516 месяцев назад
Play Therapy techniques and other types of therapy used with young children
Reasons that People Bring their Child to Therapy
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Reasons that People Bring their Child to Therapy
thank you so much for sharing super valuable <3
You're so welcome!
If someone isnt stuck in fight or flight or freeze can this work be beneficial? I want to work on releasing traumas that happen in day to day life and trauma that i dont know about. I also want a regulated nervous system. Thankyou xo ❤🎉
Yes, one of the purposes of SE is to support the autonomic nervous system in getting back into a more natural and unimpeded flow, regardless of the cause of dysregulation. Because SE doesn't rely on narrative to heal, the SE practitioner is able to help your body renegotiate trauma, whether you consciously remember it or not (the body remembers it in implicit memory). So those little day-to-day traumas (things that overwhelm your ability to cope) or traumas that don't have an explicit memory can still be healed. Find an SE practitioner here: directory.traumahealing.org/
Thank yo
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Thankyou. So so helpful and healing😊😊
Glad it was helpful!
Please use a microphone, i really love your contents but its hard sometimes to hear what you are saying...😊
Thanks for the suggestion, @bainbridgetimbaci9067.
Lots of valuable information, but I would have captured it easier if presented slower. 🥰☮️
Thanks for the feedback!
I perched initially, then when I settled in my thoughts calmed I felt a wave of sadness and started to cry. I'm doing some deep healing work at the moment so it's not too surprising to find that under the surface.
I'm glad you were able to notice that underneath. I hope it is helpful to your healing process.
Thank you 🙏 ❤ love your calming presence
Thank you, @franzi6823.
Yes ! 🙌 I always say acceptance is something I can manage. Not forgiveness.
We're glad this resonated with you!
Love your soothing voice. Great videos.
Thank you so much!
Thank you. So true 💕
You are so welcome
Run from the crazy doctors
Well, everyone should be discerning in their choices of healthcare providers. I find many of the best doctors are trauma-informed and make referrals to therapists and other providers who offer effective therapies and treatments for trauma.
Trauma from the church _ Jesus got this_ forgive and let the pets out.
I'm glad you found a way to forgive, @tmking7483, and I hope life is feeling lighter for you.
Thank you this helps me feel more grounded.
I'm so glad, @caramelunicorn8023!
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You're welcome, @franzi6823
I felt heavy and then some panic
This is information from your nervous system. Finding an SE practitioner could be helpful with shifting some of those patterns. Here's the directory: directory.traumahealing.org/
Great information! Thank you!
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you!!
You're welcome!
Thank you for this clear explanation. You have no idea how grateful I am to hear exactly why I have been sick with CFS, Fibromyalgia, and now Long covid too. I am 55 and have been sick since I was 18. I always knew it was from trauma but I didn't really understand why. ❤❤❤
You are so welcome, @kathyforeman5603. I'm glad it was helpful to you.
Thank you 🌸
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Thank you 🌸
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I thought 5 techniques were supposed to be shown. I knew this technique before, it's the only one i got shown for a whole year, since i am in somatic experience therapy. Is that all there is?
Hi @erobird3403. I'm sorry to have caused frustration. The video is the first in a series, so the 5 techniques got sprinkled through several videos. If you go to the video section of our channel, the videos right around this one has additional techniques.
thanks for this. I have 8/10 on ACE and have adrenal gland disease. I kind of think it’s linked
Yes, I would agree @sbren777 - there's a good chance it is linked. Somatic Experiencing might be helpful. You can find a practitioner here: directory.traumahealing.org/
I couldnt find a Plesant thing to look at - i Got brougt back to My childhood Home and i feel very uncomfortable now
I'm sorry that happened, @milleabel. Might I suggest trying noticing one sensory aspect of something that is pleasant to you: the smell of fresh baked bread, the sound of your favorite piece of music, the tactile feel of water moving on your skin when you're swimming, the taste of a piece of fine dark chocolate, etc. Savor the memory of the experience for just a few seconds. Don't allow yourself to go into the full memory - just stay with the chosen sensory aspect. Do this exercise over time - building the time by a bit each time. Notice what happens in your body as you savor the sensory experience. I hope this helps!
Wow, love this!
Great! Glad you like it.
Thanks, @kjbrocky!
Thank you a lot! It's very grounding and I felt more "alive"! 🙏
Wonderful!
You're so welcome, @hazansahnaoglu!
Wow was not anticipating where you were going with this. I’ve never felt peace around that part of my trauma before or felt like I was viewing it from the outside. Every other time I’ve remembered it, I was trapped in it. Thank you for this. I’m looking forward to trying this with other memories. ❤
I'm so glad it was helpful, @TakeMeToYourLida!
That's fantastic, @TakeMeToYourLida! Thanks for letting us know.
thank you.
You're welcome!
My pleasure, @melanietempleton2605.
Thanks...very grounding and helpful. I am actually a percher especially when I sit and eat..so glad you made me aware of that..
Glad it was helpful!
only 36 days??
Not sure what that means?
thank you for saying go as low as your register allows - that's been the missing part for me. did this, can't stop yawning! yay
Thanks for your patience with my reply. I suggest doing the Voo sound in a limited way (e.g. just once daily) to see if that can help with the yawning. You might also invite your system not to yawn to see what might emerge instead. If the yawning persists, I recommend working with an SE practitioner to uncouple the yawning from this gentle stimulation to allow what is undercoupled to emerge to be renegotiated.
@@lifecarewellness-IL thank you for replying I thought yawning was good? engaging parasympathetic mode? or are you saying there's more stuff underlining it? I'm actually in a very bad state my CNS started to fail about 5 months ago it was catastrophic. system hasn't been the same since. I am on strong meds to be able to sleep. body been in flight fight mode too long
You are awesome! Thank you!
Happy to help!
Good luck on your move, b safe.
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was amazing thank u
Glad you enjoyed it!
It’s like blowing a dijarudu horn….pretty cool, it’s like pushing the exhale
Glad you connected with this.
creative but very profound effect of this technique, now we are talking, I like this much, thank you
Glad you like it!
Thank you for reaffirming this self hug for me because I occasionally practice it, now I will practice it more regularly for now I know I don’t have to wait for hugs that may not be coming anytime soon😂
I'm glad it's helpful to you!
I noticed how I am not allowing the pleasant experience to support me in the moment; I am so fast forward😂…too planned out, don’t like the hidden tension in my body and diaphragm, thank you…I am aware
First I want to acknowledge your calm demeanor delivering your topic. I’ve viewed a couple of your videos and you remain consistent. Thank you. This is appreciated because I’m in a hyper state of fear not knowing what’s wrong with me. Other videos playing music background with exuberant personality or just exuberant personalities trigger more discomfort for me. I have been searching for tools to help me heal from my trauma from both parents. Paternal molestation. Maternal narcissistic abuse. Maternal narcissistic ran through 2020 when she finally died at 96. I’m 71. Been under the care of a psychiatrist for 30 years with medication management that doesn’t serve me anymore. Brain surgery in 2018 to remove a benign tumor front right temporal lobe. 3 years ago I started weaning from klonopin 2mg - currently at .5mg. Anxiety has increased. Psychiatrist suggested going back to dosage to reduce anxiety and fear. I replied,no. I worked too hard to get to .5mg. I’m weaning without direction or clear information about benzodiazepine harm. I had my 4th Moderna shot. My Hashimotos was not responding to medication management. A pulmonologist put me on prednisone for a month to jump start my depleted energy level. I switched up my 2 mile bike ride to 12 mile and my insomnia got worse. Then chronic fatigue set in and I’m bed bound I haven’t been able to find any medical help to unravel these variables that bring me to my current debilitating shutdown. What is it? MECFS MONDERNA vaccine injury Benzodiazepine weaning I have the following doctors Primary Endocrinologist Pulmonologist Cardiologist Psychiatrist No answers to what I just wrote. How do I find support?
I had a family practice suggest this & it toned down a extreme panic attack to the point i could at least think to get myantianxiety med & my words not explaining well This does help you get a grasp so you can think a bit....
My anxiety extreme so can't hold breath & not deep but gotta start somewhere I'm miserable, cortisol been flowing from a main line water break for ??12 years & it's eating me alive
The only thing we can do, @fxrivrgirl, is start where we are. When I started doing the Voo sound, I could only go for a very short time because of low lung capacity, and I could only feel the vibrations down to my upper chest. My long capacity still could use some work, but I can feel the Voo vibrations down to my pelvic floor now. So a little practice - even one time - every day could move you in the right direction.
So, practically, how we do that? Focusing on one spot or the breath or what?:thnx
there are several ways to meditate: focus on an image, on a word or mantra, on a sound, on a breath and other. I think you'd get more understanding and clarity through other videos with me on meditation.
Nice reminder.
Hi when I use Peter Levine's version for sound + mouth open and close. Then multiple vibrational sounds are created that vibrate from belly to throat. I find myself gagging and sometimes throwing up. Does this mean that the energy is released?
Peter Levine theorized that completing incomplete self-protective responses can discharge fight/flight arousal energy trapped in the nervous system. Whether or not that is happening as a result of you using the Voo sound is not something I can ascertain. I'd encourage you, @piekie1986, to work with a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner who could help you work this through - and perhaps titrate the experience so it's a little more manageable. Search the practitioner directory at traumahealing.org.
When I thought about the memory, I felt tears coming up.
Observing memories and noticing the body's response without judgment can be powerful as long as one remains present. If being with the memory is too much, titrating the experience - noticing just a part of it at a time, for example - can be an effective way to experience and work through memories.
I’m frightened of what’s in front of me but know I have to face it. I hate being a “Pollyanna”
Perhaps titration can help @greyline1012. What's the smallest piece of what's in front of you that you'd be open to holding in your hand at one time? Maybe a drop of what's in front of you? As you hold it (imaginally) in your hand, notice what it's like - what it looks like, what it feels like, what emotion comes up as you hold it, what impulse your body has as you hold it. Again - not the entirety of what's in front of you - just this one drop of it. As you take time with it - and follow what your body wants - then come back for another small amount (maybe 2 drops this time) and do the same process. You'll notice your capacity to be with the feared thing will grow - usually quite quickly.
Nothing was pleasant in the environment
In a situation like that, something you can do is think of a sensory slice of a pleasant memory (e.g. the feel of the water on your skin when you're swimming, the aroma of warm chocolate chip cookies, the feel of the dirt when you're gardening, etc.). Not the entire memory - just one pleasant sensory slice. I hope that helps @alejandraduque4061!
I love your teaching and coaching us to heal and feel well , thank you ❤
You are so welcome @sj2024sj.